Basic Questions about some core seduction Topics - hopefully they'll help others too

Eunner · 2021-07-02T15:47:01+00:00

Qualify: The main objective in regards to qualification is to get the girl to sell herself to you. An easy way I’ve learned to do this is this: Imagine you are a girl that is being hit on. Now everything that girl would say, you say to the girl in front of you. This could also be called reframing or stealing her frame. Just never blatantly hit on her unless you’re getting IOIs from her. I would say that is an easy way for her to start qualifying herself if you’re a beginner.

Disqualify: I love this one. Do it all the time. I’m not saying I do it all the time I’m telling YOU to do it all the time. Disqualification is actually a very simple concept. The girl getting hit on analogy I used in qualification is 10x more effective here if I’m being honest. Disqualification is just saying or doing something that implies you don’t plan on doing anything with the gurl you’re talking to. Here are some favorites of mine that I love to use: “You do x? Yeah I don’t think we’ll get along.” “You’re like so childish. But it’s actually kind of adorable.” “Yeah unfortunately you’re not as pretty as me but I guess I could teach you how (to be pretty. That is implied though)” Have fun with those!

Building comfort: comfort building is rooted in our nature. Humans are hardwired for empathy, so this part shouldn’t be that difficult. It is a natural part of conversation, it will always happen. But if you’d still like more info on it comfort building would be things like asking how she is, what she likes to do, and if she’s really social or not. This is kind of the Nice Guy process. Really simple shit.

Building attraction: attraction building can be done in many ways. One of the most common ways is social proof like money, tons of women around you, etc. Unfortunately though, we all aren’t rich players. So, the easiest way to build attraction for the average gamer is confidence. An irrational amount of confidence. If you interrupt yourself mid sentence and say something like “Can you stop looking at me like that? You’re distracting me.” That will build attraction. A woman cannot be talked into attraction. You must play the part of an attractive man. A great mindset for building attraction is: “She is lucky that I’m talking to her, she thinks I’m hot, she wants to sleep with me.” This is already a lot of info but if you’d like me to keep going just say so.

double_prong · 2021-07-02T17:05:16+00:00

PUAlingo has decent definitions. https://www.pualingo.com/qualification/

What is investment - how get a girl to invest more than us

You lead the interaction until she hooks, then dial your energy way down to let her chase you a while. The amount of effort she puts into the conversation is her investment.

AelfredRex · 2021-07-02T23:16:33+00:00

Way too complicated. Just get out there, dig on the ladies and see who digs you back.

Title	Basic Questions about some core seduction Topics - hopefully they'll help others too
Author	loofyd
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Date	July 2, 2021 2:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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