Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ?

DaydreamingMister · 2021-07-21T20:27:56+00:00

I am sorry for your trouble.

-As far as your school experiences…

Those were silly teenagers. Teenage girls do dumb things just like teenage boys do dumb things (like laughing because some girls don’t have big boobs… yet also laughing because other girls DO have big boobs).

-When it comes to adulthood…

Here’s why the problem you described should never really be an issue anymore -

You don’t tell a girl you “like her” or “have feelings for her”. You extend a date invitation.

“You seem like a cool person. We should get together for dinner – when are you free?“ And then you shut up, and let her tell you when she’ll be available.

If she names a day of the week, you finish setting up the time and location details with her.

If she does anything other than name a day of the week (making excuses, saying how busy she is, et cetera), it is simply a sign of low interest. In which case, you happily move on to the next dating prospect.

“Great. If you figure out your schedule, let me know.“ And then you walk away and never look back unless she gets in touch to schedule a date.

_400official · 2021-07-21T19:11:41+00:00

That statement you made “he is not looking to harm you” from my experience with women they’ve either experienced themselves or known someone who was met with negative reactions to being turned down and it’s one of those better safe than sorry things where they don’t want to be mistaken as “playing hard to get”, stringing someone along, etc. I wouldn’t take it too personal if I were you as it’s happened to me before

maplemario · 2021-07-22T01:24:26+00:00

Two simple things. These are generally applicable.

Telling a woman you have feelings for her instantly turns your relationship from fun to serious.

If you’re ever at a point you feel the need to say that, then it’s too early in the relationship to make it serious and take out the fun part.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2021-07-22T20:44:57+00:00

You will never truely understand what is going on in a woman’s head so the first thing is to let that be a beautiful mystery for the rest of your life😊.

But from a game perspective, the issue usually lies in your frame and intention more so than your actual statement.

When you tell a girl that you like her and expect something in return, you’re putting a lot of pressure on her and setting up the interaction for awkwardness when she doesn’t give the reaction you expect. The more gushing the confession, the more pressure you’re putting on her to also have an equally gushing response.

The trick is to have a strong intention behind your actions while not expecting anything inparticular from her. You express your feelings because you are an authentic man, not because you want her token approval and requited love.

You express your intentions to take her out and move the interaction towards an intimate encounter fully accepting the possibility of rejection.

Your actions should be a deep manifestation of your true-self. If your intention is to “get” anything from her, you are being needy, turning her off and probably creeping her out.

quickjump · 2021-07-21T21:58:29+00:00

I do not know why but I do know that is the perfect way to ruin any potential relationship with women. As I got older I started putting women and relationships at the lowest possible priority even when I am seeing and regularly hooking up with them. I don't even care if I see her texting other dudes on her phone when I come back from the washroom because I am also talking to other women. I used to act indifferent and then I genuinely became indifferent and only saw women on my schedule (no free attention) once every week or two and it always ended the same way, they wanted to be in a relationship. I can't tell you the number of times I've been told that the fact that I don't communicate with them leaves them confused and drives them crazy. One told me other guys won't stop messaging her but she gets nothing from me and always wants to know what I'm doing or who I'm with. Uncertainty creates discomfort and possibly the feeling of potentially losing you and most women can't sit with that. I think once they know they have you, they don't want you... Almost like a cat. Maybe because they think if they can get you that easily, no one wants you and girls want a winner, someone other girls want. Anyways never spill your guts, get emotional or care too much or at all. There is no finish line where this becomes irrelevant. They can lose attraction at anytime even after marriage if you decide to go that far. Just be the captain of your ship and be truly indifferent towards women, they're not special, they look good then get old and stinky like everyone else on this planet. Focus on what really matters... Good anime lol.

Title	Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ?
Author	loofyd
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	July 21, 2021 7:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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