Are there any Flirting 101 posts on this sub ?

random_af_guy · 2021-12-05T23:55:15+00:00

Go to a nearby bar during the day time. One where the music is not loud. Around 5pm when the NORMAL people are out. Not the creepers. Sit down at the actual bar. A corner is best. Order a drink, stay seated, and talk to the 5 people within your range. Talk to the old lady 2 seats across. Talk to the couple next to you. Talk to the staff. Get names. Be friendly.

How? Ask them what's good on the menu? Ask how often they come here. Got any kids? Listen to the conversations and throw in two cents. Don't fixate on any one person. Just enjoy yourself. Let loose. Find a common interest by listening. People always insert hints into their conversations. If you hear something interesting, run with it. Make friends. Ask if they are on FB or Instagram and connect. Become a regular. Never be afraid to bug someone that doesn't want to talk. This is a public space, they can get over it. They don't live in a bubble. I came here to talk.

How do I find a girl though? Be consistent. Bring your work laptop. Do some art up there. Make it your workout planning day. Have a dual purpose so it is not a waste of time. STAY OFF YOUR PHONE. One day, you will find yourself in a situation where someone is in a prime place in life to be open to a relationship. They are over their last breakup. They have a similar interest. They are your age. You guys click.

That's it. Apply this to any social setting. Get out there and look for friends.

ClosetLink · 2021-12-05T22:51:10+00:00

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html

random_af_guy · 2021-12-05T22:42:29+00:00

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cormacru999 · 2021-12-06T01:52:23+00:00

If you're shy & nervous then don't focus on flirting. There is no single method of flirting because all women are different. All men are differing as well, so if I told you about my kind of flirting, you wouldn't be able to pull it off even with the same woman. You should stick with any strength you have, or just focus on being honest & open, which communicates vulnerability & honesty, which can be attractive to women who need to deal with men trying to flirt when they can't.

Title	Are there any Flirting 101 posts on this sub ?
Author	loofyd
Upvotes	47
Comments	17
Date	December 5, 2021 1:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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