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there are women with whom you have a 0% chance and women you have a 99% chance. Basically this lol People sometimes get a bit taken in by the marketing and think of game as magic, when in truth it's so so far from magic it's not even funny lol you could have the best game on planet earth and still get rejected by many hot young girls in a row. Even the pua's on youtube are getting rejected a lot until they find the girl who is into him, and THAT in the footage that makes it's way to his youtube …
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:16 PM
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lol, are you reading your own posts? You are contradicting yourslef. You have no idea lol
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:50 PM
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nah, it's true There's literally a girl below this post confirming it haha
/r/seduction24/07/21 11:44 AM
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but I've also seen my balding friend who is almost 60 pull a teen impressive. Although a poster here said his friend is even older, ugly and fat and in a wheelchair and can pick up hot teens every nght apparently lol edit: but yeah, good looks are a pre-requistite. YOu can't pushpull and neg your way to sexual attraction lmao
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:59 AM
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So be direct But yesterday everyone was taking shots at the guy who posted a field report with his direct openers and saying to go indirect and that you shouldn't show intent etc This place changes it's tune everyday. It's so funny But do you know why? It's The same reason 'coaches' all disagree on every single thing related to game. The reason? It doesn't fukking matter lol. If she thinks you're hot, everything will work. Direct, indirect, flirting, pushpull lines etc. And if she doesn't think …
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:53 AM
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Any clue whether she's into you or not? If you think she is, ask her out If you think she's not, probably find a new girl who IS attracted to you
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:12 AM
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men and women care about looks the same. It's just a pre-requisite for sex to happen. She has to think you're good looking. From that point, it's so easy to bang her. Nothing someone needs to pat themselves on the back for lol. If some 17 year old thinks i'm hot, im' banging her lol. And all her friends (if they think i'm hot) You need to really screw up bad to mess it up if she's attracted.
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:08 AM
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It's just theory and lines etc to help you flirt with girls and to show confidence. Certainly woudn't call game 'manipulation', though. That gives game too much credit and implies you have some real sort of superpower that just isn't possible (game isn't jedi mind control haha) - if you watch infields of the very best, you'll see they get rejected a huge percentage of the time. It's just a numbers game
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:31 PM
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hitting on a stranger
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:14 PM
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i know. But it's just marketing. You can't MAKE a girl attracted to you. Certainly not with some fancy verbals such as negs and pushpull lines and stuff (the stuff seduction gurus teach). It's honestly amazing to me that people ever bought into that! I guess when one is desperate they will believe anything.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:48 PM
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that's just the way it goes. Obviously you can't 'seduce' a girl who isn't attracted to you
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:59 AM
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I am convinced more and more each day that girls barely care about your physical traits but of your mind and personality. I kind of feel like it's the opposite tbh! haha
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:24 AM
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i really am not sure any advice helps tbh (unless you are someone who is SO far behind that they need to be taught to take a shower and stuff and to smile and hold eye contact etc) But when it comes to hooking up with girls, it doesn't really matter. You are either her type or you aren't. So just go talk to her, flirt a little and you'll find out soon. If it's a 'no' when she looks at you for the first time, it's certainly not gonna change too a 'yes' because of some words you say lol
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:23 AM
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nice seduction
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:20 AM
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Lots of girls, especially young ones, will just have no interest in talking too a random stranger unless he happens to be very much her physically type (so she's attracted and want to bang you lol) It's just a number game If you want to approach every hot girl you see, you need to accept that most are gonna be unattracted girls who don't really want to talk to you. That's fine. You can't change her mind. Just keep approaching until you find one who thinks you're hot! OR, you can do what lots of …
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:19 AM
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lots of girls, especially young ones, will just have no interest in talking too a random stranger unless he happens to be very much her physically type (so she's attracted and want to bang you lol) It's just a number game If you want to approach every hot girl you see, you need to accept that most are gonna be unattracted girls who don't really want to talk to you. That's fine. You can't change her mind. Just keep approaching until you find one who thinks you're hot! OR, you can do what lots of …
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:18 AM
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never happened to me, but i've got a really handsome friend who I drink with, and he gets approached by girls lots! Dude bangs a new girl every time he goes out (doesn't even have any game lol) What i've noticed is that the most common opener girls use on him is pretend to recognise him He also gets SOME girls (minority) who open him in a very direct way but not as often and usually late at night from horny drunk girls lol
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:54 AM
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girls are as 'visual' as we are when it comes too attraction, so of course changing how you look (which getting ripped can do too an extent) will of course change your results Game is just the icing on the top
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:04 PM
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Compliments are fine. Even very much encouraged by PUA coaches Check out LondonDayGame model and Tony Hustle and mode1 and stuff. Mark Manson. Show your intent. Attraction through escalation Do'nt hide your cock. Pretty girls know why you're talking to her
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:09 PM
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may aswell
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:48 AM
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agree lol ps - profile confirms. Oddball troll
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:51 PM
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A rightfully heavily upvoted post for once. Good stuff Too many nonsense threads about whether you should neg, why didn't the guys cold read work and arguments about irrelevant stuff recently. More threads with simple tips like this and less worrying about the impossible (banging girls who aren't attracted to you with 'game' and pushpull lines etc)
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:39 PM
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70 probably isn't as bad as you think it is If you knew how often the 'pros' ACTUALLY get rejected (forget about their cherrypicked interactions) you'd probably feel a lot better about yourself lol One of the only honest one was Paul Janka. And not only was he a pro, he was also a very handsome tall dude in NewYork. And he said his approach to lay rate was about 4%. ALso, if you've ever seen 'simplepickup' do uncut streaming approach infields, you'll see how it really is even for people with 'ga…
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:45 AM
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she probably doesn't follow him
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:37 AM
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all the info you need is here and on youtube etc. London day game, mysterymethod, natural lifestyles, RSD etc. Exact same info. There's no secret techniques out there. There's even old masf forum archives where all of the 'best' used to post before they were 'famous'. But honestly, I think you already know everything you'd learn there. Everyone knows who this stuff nowadays. It's kinda mainstream along with all the various techniques
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:35 AM
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actually Todd V said that 'game' was 'applied charisma' and then he said that it was basically a way of demonstrating confidence (the whole idea behind 'game' is that girls don't care at all about looks and aren't visual and that they don't care at all if a guy is super handsome or super ugly. But they are attracted to confidnce. That's the PUA theory) - he went on to say that game principles and techniques (negs, self amusement, teasing, dhv stories etc) are all different ways to show confidenc…
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:31 AM
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Handsome professional PUA Paul Janka, smooth as hell. was at 4.4% lay rate I'd be dubious to believe anyones claims better than that tbh.
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:37 PM
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I like that his game is very normal. He basically just has a normal chat with girls. Not using loads of 'game' (negs adn pushpull lines and disqualification etc)Although he doesn't seem to have the best hit rate. - especially in his more recent vids. I think he needs to start targeting older women. The young ones don't seem to be attracted to him now
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:03 PM
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We should all try this. Dm girls and tell them you just got out of prison. Worth a shot Lets do this! See if it's bs or not lol
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:31 PM
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lol, that's a neg/mysterymethod. That should make her very attracted (in theory) and she'll chase your validation to wonder why you aren't hitting on her
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:30 AM
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how do you define game in the outer sense? I mean, when I hear someone sy 'learn game', I feel it's a bit like saying 'learn how to order food at a restaurant'. Like, when I ask people here talk about game, they mainly talk about how to hold eye contact, and that you should ask questions and make statements, and if she's into you, touch her and escalate. I think 'learn' is a very amnbitious term since it's so basic? And then, I also feel like everyone here already knows 'game'. We've all presuma…
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:01 PM
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I realised my reply to you didn't even go thourgh (because it contained a link. Albeit a different one lol) Can't share that stuff here. Mods don't allow it
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:48 PM
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Why would you continue watching anything else from someone who makes this sort of statement that everyone knows is false? A few people on this sub who claim to be experts say it's true (they say you be very ugly but if you know the correct 'game' and female psychology, you can get any girl basically)
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:34 PM
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i'll PM you
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:26 AM
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You can be attractive, but be socially inept and you won’t get anywhere. This isn't actually true though. I'm sure 'game' helps, but there seems to be exceptions. I can link you too a forum where this is shown with lots of proof (a really good looking guy with zero game and who's socially inept, even to the point girls call him out for being weird etc, STILL bangs a TONNE of hot 18 year olds lol. He's provided more proof than any PUA ever has. Girls message him and tell him how handsome he is, h…
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:02 AM
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Just step in front of her and say ''Hey, toots. You know why I pulled you over?? You were going too sexy in a 35 zone''. When she melts pull her in for a heavy makeout then grab her by the arm and tell her you are taking her downtown for questioning. (But it will actually be for vaginal intercourse ;))
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:35 AM
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Just the other day a few guys here asked me how I'd get a woman who has zero interest in me to start liking me. Well i'm saying that they know all the answers in theory, but that it doesn't actually work. I'm sure they are all using cold reads and pushpull lines etc on girls in bars, and the girls are like ignoring them and being like 'Yeah. Sorry you're not my type. I don't want to talk to you. B ye'' lol I know all the theory too and have tried it all, but I only bang the girls who are clearly…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:48 PM
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And if you knew how to build interest in a woman who wasn't attracted to you at first But surely everyone on this sub already knows how to do that in theory. We've all read all the books (so pushpull and neg her, self amuse, make some cold reads etc). The real question is whether it actually works for anyone lol
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:34 PM
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can you make a post explaining exactly what you say (and in what order to demonstrate interconnection) so that we can try your method for converting girls from 'Ewww...go away you're ugly', to 'take me now!!' :) ?? Would make a change - the sub seems to just spin in circles as it is. Need a fresh take
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:01 PM
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I guess we can still try - In game we have 'attraction material' - Cold reads, negs, self amusement and dhv stories are the main ones. These are said to be able to do what you are saying (force a girl to be very attracted even if she thinks you're very ugly) Try them on the next girl who doesn't appear interetsed. If she STILL isn't interetsed then you can move on knowing you tried the theory
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:16 PM
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mark manson said game can amplify existing attraction but not create it. So I guess it makes sense. (If she is not remotely attracted to you/doesn't think you're hot, then I guess you should next her) I guess we can still try though. In game we have attraction material' Cold reads, negs, self amusement and dhv stories are the main ones. Try them on the next girl who doesn't appear interetsed. If she STILL isn't interetsed then you can move on
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:34 PM
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yeah, i'd say so. I've definitely approached girls before and got to the point they were engaged, answering my questions, and actively participating and not just ignoring me or whatever. But in them sets where attraction isn't present, compliance is rejected
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:32 PM
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well you can reach the hook point (where she's engaged) without attraction. And if she's NOT attracted, you need to make her attracted. And you said that saying 'can you stop looking at me' will 'build a massive amount of attraction'
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:30 PM
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“Can you stop looking at me like that? You’re distracting me.” That will build attraction Will it though? If a guy who she isn't attracted to says it? I don't think girls like being flirted with with guys who they aren't attracted too
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:47 PM
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possibly, although never having been to San Jose I couldn't say for sure. But Location is SUCH an underrated aspect of dating success and stuff. It's huge. I'm in the UK, and even gaming up North (compared to where i live) is a HUGE difference! People are a million times more receptive. And you can multiply that again when you compare it to times i've visited the US!
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:27 PM
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I just think young girls haven't really known life without smartphones and stuff. All they care about is instagram and learning dances on tiktok lol. But they don't seem to know the basics of holding a conversation so I think it's usually a LOT of 'graft' to get a convo going as you'll be doing all the heavy lifting They're hot as hell though! I tend to approach them in bars (18 drinking age here) and try to get one night stands. Had some success although it's obviously a huge numbers game!
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:19 PM
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I think I sent like 60 DM's or so. VERY hot young girls who I know live in my town (UK) I think maybe 3 replied, but had no interest in carrying on the convo. I've had way more success with cold approach in bars as I say. Although obvoiusly I still get a LOT of rejections and it's essentially just 'real life tinder' (e.g if you're not her 'type' nothing you say in terms of 'game' is gonna help) But I also feel maybe the girls standards are SLIGHTLY lower in person when it comes to looks compared…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:04 PM
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you mean after you open a girl/group of girls, they are like ''Ewwww..'', or ''no, go away!' kind of thing? People will tell you that your 'game' isn't good enough ('change your approach angle, bro', or whatever) but it's actually just the reality of cold aprpoach Especially in certain places, and moreso with night game. The girls can be brutal I saw 'Vadeem' from 'honest signals' (who has good game btw) get these sort f rejections. There's literally an infield of him opening 2 girls and they sa…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:00 PM
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I actually cold approach in person as my main strat (bars etc) so this was just something I tried for a while out of curiosity. I was told it woudln't work as they say you need an amazing insta with the best pics and tonnes of followers and need to be hella good looking too and I have none of of those haha. Yeah, no numbers or dates or anything. Nearly all ignored me from the outset. Of the few that replies, they just replied super short, but then that was their only message back. No reply after…
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:49 AM
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fair play for giving it a go I tried this a while ago actually, and unfortunately got literally nothing lol (I was DMing random super hot young girls who I know live in my town, although we don't actually know each other at all) Tried all kinds of openers from comments on their story/profile, to just one liners to try to intrigue them that I got from 'online PUA guides' and everything in between 95% ignore, and 5% reply but they're not interested basically lol I'm in the UK for what it's worth (…
/r/seduction11/06/21 08:51 PM
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fair enough. We'll likely have to agree to disagree. But I'll try your method for a while when I start going out again. Give it another go
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:59 AM
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My only agenda is the truth. Everyone is out there being scammed (not just by Laruina but also mystery and RSD etc. Although nowadays it does seem that way less people are falling for it which is good imo) Of course I can make friends with girls and people in general. That's not the issue. Again, actual 'attraction is always the issue if we are to get laid. And I've never needed any PUA's help to make friends. I'm glad I figured out what your game is. Shame you made me jump through hoops hahaa a…
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:42 AM
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I field tested laruina's stuff. 'Hey, how have you been' opener as if you know her. The non-verbal openers. Trying to befriend rich guys at a table service place (although we don't really have those here) and then trying to bring girls too it etc. It doesn't work, tbh. 'Attraction' is the missing ingredient (with the people you mention, and also Mystery adn RSD etc). I imagine any success he might have (no infields so could be all lies) is based on his good looks tbh I mean, he wrote: ''Indirect…
/r/seduction10/06/21 07:57 AM
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I now realise that Joshua Pellicer wrote 'Tao of the badass' which I already read so I assume I already know his 'method'. Also read Richard Laruna 'the natrual' altohugh he may have other courses and books that I haven't seen yet. But he doesn't have any infield proof from memory. Just a handsome dude with some paid girls to help promote his marketing. lol Maybe you should do a post clearly detailing your method assuming it's different from everything people here are already aware of But cold a…
/r/seduction09/06/21 09:16 PM
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I guess i'll reply to clear up any confusion especially since you took the time to reply You kind of assume that maybe i'm someone who doesn't have basic social skills or have had any success with cold approach My story in brief is that I went from someone who had only been with like 3 girls at the age of 22 ish. I then 'learnt' game (watched a LOT of premium products) and have made THOUSANDS of cold approaches and slept with around 45 girls from cold approach. Somewhat successful? However, I ca…
/r/seduction09/06/21 07:53 PM
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who do you recommend out of interest? Give some examples of techniques you use that make a girl attracted who isn't attracted (for example mystery has negs and dhvs that don't work, RSD has self amusement which doesn't work, Manson has being direct and vulnerable which doesn't work etc) What do you use? I honestly think 'game' is basically just flirting which is good for when a girl is attracted to you
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:02 PM
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i feel like everyone already 'knows waht to do' tbh Everyone has all read the same material at this point The problem is it only works when she thinks you're hot haha
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:16 PM
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treat yourself
/r/seduction09/06/21 07:22 AM
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I mean there def a MAYBE category when it comes to initial physical attraction though I agree with that. I mean, I tihnk the idea is that she needs to think you are physically attractive. It doesn't mean she needs to think you are Ryan Goslin handsome or whatever. You just have to meet her benchmark. And luckily, not all girls have identical tastes in what 'handsome' looks like! :) women aren’t nearly as visual as men I'd have to massively disagree here though, lol. All the young girls I know se…
/r/seduction08/06/21 08:31 PM
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Game does help but in all it’s just flirting This! You're one of only a few people i've seen say this, but it's so true. When you break down game (and i'm not talking about direct 'Hey you're cute' direct game) it's basically all flirting. Negs, teases, push-pull, self-amusement, kino, eye contact, breaking rapport, sexualising, various 'routines' etc etc etc etc It's all just flirting! Now, flirting is great, BUT it doesn't MAKE girl attracted to you (seduction). Nothing does! It's so crazy tha…
/r/seduction08/06/21 05:50 PM
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stand straight, soldier!
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:08 AM
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you were ugly, got jaw surgery and now you're much better looking and girls are all over you? PUA on suicide watch! haha
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:07 AM
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if you watch infields, you'll see they just ask the same stuff any other guy does (who has never heard of game) What's your name, how old are you, what do you do, where are you from etc. Nothing you say is gonna MAKE a girl sexually attracted to you though, so get that out ofyour head and take the pressure off lol
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:03 PM
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what do you recommend instead?
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:20 PM
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You should be a male mode!! Good stuff!
/r/seduction04/06/21 11:39 PM
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Given that Tinder Tinas are retarded and spend most of their free time glueing fake eyelashes to their faces and learning TikTok dances, the bar for sleeping with them isn't high. I wish this was true! SO many hot, very young girls where I live, but they really only care about how handsome you are (ideally also very popular on social media too, of course) The 'bar' seems super high tbh. I have really good looking friends who crush it, though. But 'game' has certainly never helped me, tbh. THey c…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 04:56 PM
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lol, this is why the old school Pickup stuff is so funny in hindsight This idea of 'attraction material' (cold reads, routines, strawberry fields etc) Nothing you can say is gonna make a girl ATTRACTED! Want to sleep with you. Imagine thinking you can get her wet in the same way she's wet for the handsome jock because you told her some stuff about greek mthology based on her rings lol I swear, 'game' honestly does more harm than good to peoples results lol (especially traditional game)
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:44 AM
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If you're not going home discussing what went right and what went wrong in an approach then you're merely just waiting to get lucky. I used to subscribe to this idea, but I don't anymore to be honest I think that when she likes you, she just thought you were hot. Everything will tend to work And when you get rejected hard (even though you done everything the same as the other girl) it's just that you weren't her type. There's not really anything to 'learn'. This is human interaction on different…
/r/seduction31/05/21 02:35 PM
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give examples of how the interactions look. HOw you open, what you talk about etc You mean just be mean to them and ignore them etc? I can only see this working if she thinks you are handsome, tbh
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:42 PM
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good looking and tall I think that was the true source of his success tbh, lol
/r/seduction30/05/21 01:11 PM
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yes, I don't tend to get 'natural attraction'/selection much either. I'm not the best looking guy genetically But through sheer numbers game (since discoering 'game' some years back) i've banged some fairly hot girls. I put this down to the fact that not all girls have the same exact taste when it comes to looks. There's probably very ugly guys out there who SOME hot girls would think it good looking lol So for me, cold approach is really about finding them girls, and then not fucking it up too …
/r/seduction27/05/21 03:28 PM
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thanks for teh reply. Yes, I actually already understood all that. It's what MaxRSD speaks about in his product that I saw a few years back It's just i've never experience it actually work. Or even seen it work for the 'pro's', tbh (I'm talking about conversion) Even when girls post on the sub, they admit that if a guy makes her laugh and teases her and shows confidence and all that stuff (game) it makes her 'like' him, but doesn't make her 'attracted' to him in a sexual way if she wasn't alread…
/r/seduction27/05/21 03:12 PM
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I have read models, but believe it or not actually used to believe in making a girl who thinks you're not attrative, attracted, since the first books I read were like mysterymethod and Krauser and stuff But honestly, I later realised it was basically marketing (especially after seeing other coaches in 'uncut' infeilds and watching them get rejected again and again) ANd when I got laid, I realised in hindsight, it wasn't teh negs or the self amusement and stuff, tbh. That stuff just helped me clo…
/r/seduction27/05/21 02:20 PM
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well she might like a guy shes thinks isn't good looking (she's not attracted too) flirting with her in that it gives her a bit of an ego boost, I guess. But of course it won't go anywhere with that girl since she isn't attracted
/r/seduction27/05/21 01:46 PM
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thing is, if a girl isn't attracted to you, she doesn't want you flirting with her. Flirting is great way to move it forward with a girl who is into you ,but it doesn't MAKE girl attracted to you. Unfortauntely that part is kind of out of your hands (best we have in the community is negs, self amusement, pushpull etc, but I don't think any of that actually MAKES a girl sexually attracted to you if she wasn't before) I think that's why PUA's advise direct game nowadays. It just saves time
/r/seduction27/05/21 08:46 AM
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not true! My brother is in his 40's!! and his girlfriend is only 20 but they've been together for ages. I have loads of friends who are like 28-33 who are always hooking up with 18 year olds. Even I got with a 17 year old a while back and i'm well in my 20's (she came onto me hard. It was bank holiday weekend and she was in a bar so I assumed she was 18. Luckily doesn't matter because 16 is age of consent here anyway). Nobody cares as long as it's legal
/r/seduction27/05/21 08:00 AM
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she might. But I wouldn't call that attraction. I'd call it trying to get lots of money out of you at the cost of having to hook up with you I'd bang a fat ugly woman if it meant she'd buy me a nice new car lol
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:52 PM
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There's tons you can do to address and sort out her not finding you attractive To be honest, most of the time it's completely out of your hands. If you're not her 'type', then it's game over,tbh. Even the girls who post here admit that. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/nlk3ro/how_often_do_girls_reject_guys_based_on_looks/ Of course if they think you're hot but your behaviour is kind of putting them off (meaning they'd rather just hook up with the equally handsome guy who isn't unable …
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:01 PM
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point number 2 is the most important one Never forget that you can't force a girl to be attracted to you. YOu can have the best 'game' in the world and show confidence and make her laugh and use 'pushpull' etc - won't help if she's not attracted to you. Embrace the numbers game But I agree people need too approach more. Not due to 'learning' (since there's really so little to 'learn') but to increase their odds of finding a girl who is into them
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:45 PM
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To answer your questions It was slightly easier in that people were WAY more talkative and sociable. People just don't talk to strangers nowadays and think it's a bit odd. Even the US (americans will never know how luck they are when it comes to cold approach!) is slowly catching up with like the UK and stuff where strangers have kind of never spoke lol Iphones probably made that issue even worse as young girls literally don't know how to hold a convo and have no interest in trying if it's not w…
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:38 PM
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try your luck on the 18 year olds! They tend to be the hottest, and Some of them will be in to older guys. My brother is older than you and dating an 18 year old As always, it's a big numbers game. And they'll be the most difficult to land, but nothing to lose
/r/seduction24/05/21 11:20 PM
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wow, this must be an American thing!! I'm in the UK. Age of consent is 16. We don't have age gap laws. I know tonnes of guys in their 30's who are sleeping with 18 year olds!! There's nothing wrong with it at all. Nobody cares It's not as though she doens't have a choice. Just like older women, they sleep with who they are attracted too. They also turn down lots of older guys who hit on them (if they aren't attracted to them) It's not as though they're 7 year olds lol. They can say 'i'm not inte…
/r/seduction24/05/21 10:48 PM
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''Hi!'' ''Hello'' ''What questions would you like me to ask you??'' lol
/r/seduction24/05/21 10:42 PM
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OK, so don't ask her name or where she's from or what she does for work. Does this apply too a date, too? What are you suggesting? You mean walk up too a girl in a bar and ask her something like what's the most amazing thing she's ever done? Or her favourite animal? I think that might make you look a bit odd lol. Might end up wishing you'd just asked her name and what she does like a normal person instead of 'gaming' her haha
/r/seduction24/05/21 09:31 PM
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The self proclaimed best PUA's (such as Tom Torerro and Krauser and a few others who wrote about this) said that they got laid 1 in 30 approaches, I beleive. Now, consider that Torerro and a few others also got caught using acrtresses in infields so it's fair to assume that 1/30 success rate was GREATLY inflated lol More realistically 1 in 100 or so - however the number will MASSIVELY depend on 1/ how handsome you are 2/how hot and young the girls are! Some people online like to pretend they are…
/r/seduction24/05/21 01:08 PM
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Find a Chad douche of course a 'chad' will score on a Saturaday night. That's not 'manipulation'. It's being good looking lol I'm saying you can't trick/manipulate a girl into being very attracted to you with you words or whatever if she wasn't already/you're not her type etc.
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:22 PM
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picking up girls on insta is like close too impossible. You're just some stranger hitting her up along with maybe another 50 guys that day (if she's very young, hot and active on there) Hot girls on insta literally get DM'd by athletes and movies stars and stuff who you are competing with. (Happens more than you think too! I've even slept with girls who told me they hooked up with someone famous who dm'd them on insta) They're mostly on there for validation. Chances of hot girls actually meeting…
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:00 PM
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you can't seduce a girl who doesn't want to be seduced by YOU.
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:57 PM
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Sure we could talk about the dark arts of manipulation and whatnot to get women attached to you artificially but that's simp/predator territory and I'm not a fan of that. If that stuff worked, I promise you it would have never fell out of favour!! (e.g nobody talks about mysterymethod anymore other than to ridicule, and it's all mark manson stuff nowadays). I mean, You know how many sexually frustrated guys are out there? If that 'manipulation pua' stuff worked, everyone would be doing it. It on…
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:21 PM
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We say that because it's the truth This isn't 2001 anymore where people are are gonna be like ''She thinks you're ugly? No worries. Just use this 'neg' and this DHV story and do the strawberry fields routine, and she'll wanna rip your clothes off''!! haha. Pure make believe marketing You can't MAKE a girl sexually attracted to you. Can't can't negotiate attraction But you're right in a way. The sub is called 'seduction'. Which is a bit silly. Even the mods here often reply to threads basically s…
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:20 PM
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you kind of don't. It's basically a PUA meme If you get rejected by a girl, there's a HUGE possibility that it wasn't you. You didn't do anything 'wrong'. You just weren't her type. She wasn't attracted to you. NO amount of negs or better bodylanguage or better apporach angle or more statements would have ended in a different result. Unfortunately 'game' isn't some sort of all-powerful social magic where you can 'seduce' whoever you want if you do everything 'correct'. It's really just showing c…
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:37 AM
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His game is super basic, but then that's all you need, tbh (as you say he says 'hi', tell them that they're cute and then asks for their number. That's the game he teaches) Adding more negs and all that 'technical stuff' wouldn't help his results. If a girl isn't into you, you can't neg her or whatever into sexual attraction lol Besides his results are good already (he's a good looking, ripped dude)
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:30 AM
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the 100% truth is this She needs to find you good looking (talking about young girls here, not old money grabbers or grandmas who just want company). A girl is never gonna wanna have sex with a guy who she doesn't think is good looking no matter how funny or charasmatic or confident etc he is (game). Is she gonna wanna bang Dannay Devito (charasmatic funny and confident) or some handsome Barman with a chisled jaw and 6pack lol HOWEVER, that doesn't mean everyone has the right to be all incel and…
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:25 AM
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wow. Interesting post. I 'm pretty sure I can massively relate! I totally get this sometimes. i've ever had it with girls I slept with from cold approach - then saw them a few weeks later and we had these really awkward chats where I felt like I had nothing left to talk about with her or ask her lol And also with other girls I maybe flirted with or kissed on a night, saw them again weeks later (yes I live in a fairly small town so bump into people again and again lol) and it's just awkward and i…
/r/seduction01/05/21 09:19 AM
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sounds like you're defining 'outer game' as how you look and stuff Whereas 'outer game' actually refers to things like negs and teasing and pushpull etc etc However, I agree. None of that stuff (negs and verbal 'game') is gonna MAKE a girl sexually attracted to you. That 100% comes from how you look. Does she think you are good looking. If so, you have a shot and 'game' can help you seal the deal faster. But if you're not her physical type - just move on to the next girl. It won't happen with th…
/r/seduction01/05/21 09:14 AM
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And once you find out where they drink just open, and try to flirt and see if she tihnks you're hot or not (she's attracted) adn if so escalate? If not, move on to the next server?
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:48 AM
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of course not lol Got exposed to be using hookers and sugar babes ages ago. Just another fake coach
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:50 AM
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because you wanna be having sex with the hottest girls possible, of course! lol. much more fun. Lots of guys couldn't even get it up for an ugly girl
/r/seduction28/04/21 10:14 AM
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because they can only attract girls who they aren't especially attracted too, or none at all. The super hot girls go for really hot guys, basically. SO the cheat code is paying for it lol
/r/seduction28/04/21 09:37 AM
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nothing wrong with it, tbh. If it was super cheap, i'm sure basically all guys would do it all the time lol (where i live you can bang these teenage Eastern European girls who are hotter than any girl one could get from cold approach! e.g very young and hot who would reject everyone except teh very best looking dudes)
/r/seduction28/04/21 09:35 AM
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nobody seems to advise negging and stuff nowadays so it probably doesn't need to be said. I don't think there's much wrong with some playful barbs, but the problem is that negging was sold to people as some sort of magic (along with all other aspects of 'game') as something that you can use to force attraction in a girl. Make her want you. Seduce her etc. And none of that is true. You can't make a girl attracted to you. Like, if you're not her type, then do you HONESTLY think negging or 'self am…
/r/seduction28/04/21 07:40 AM
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i've actually found the opposite to be true lol Negging the really hot girls (ESPECIALLY near to the open like mystery advised to do) is like suicide! (unless she's physically attracted to you)
/r/seduction28/04/21 07:30 AM
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yep edit: Oh, as predicted his post has already been deleted by the damn mods lol.
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:17 AM
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According to every thread I read where someone asks how to 'seduce' a girl they like, the answer is to make a move/show her you like her/ask her out (before the post is deleted lol) That might not fit your idea of 'seduce', but I think that's because one can't actually make a girl like you. She's either attracted or she isn't. You just need to find out
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:05 AM
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Interesting post. I agree in part, but also feel like it's not necessarily as easy as that. Example - I have a few chad friends who literally bang just about any girl they want. BUT it's beacuse they are chads lol. They hit the genetic lottery. Girls are attracted to good looks just like we are. Both of these chads really have the most basic game in the world to the point I'm not even sure you can call it 'game'? - more 'being normal' I guess lol. But their exceptional good looks seem to make it…
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:11 PM
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flirting is basically what game is tbh. But yeah, obviously it isn't gonna help you if you're not her type. Same as an ugly girl trying to flirt with you isn't gonna help her lol So as you say, game/flirting/whatever is what you do to see if she's interested in you or not
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:06 PM
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Depends on her type. Some girls will be seduced if they are talking too a tall, ripped black dude. Some girls are seduced by a 'pretty boy' with blue eyes and long hair and an earring etc. As for what you say and stuff, it's not really important. When you look at it, when someone says he 'seduced' a girl, all he done was make a move. Flirt etc. He didn't 'change her mind'. That's kind of what the word 'secude' implies, although it's not possible. No matter how slow you talk or charasmatic and fu…
/r/seduction27/03/21 01:09 PM
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I don't think this works other than in peoples made up stories online tbh I've tried lots of times sliding in the DM's of strangers (super hot girls who live in my town who I could feasibly meet if they were interetsed). Tried all kinds of PUA openers from 'instagram guides' etc, and never got a reply. You basically need to be very very good looking. Good looking enough that it outweighs the fact you're a complete stranger. Add her as a friend. She will add you back and like your photos if she's…
/r/seduction10/02/21 09:14 PM
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We have opposite problems. I've only ever had one night stands (usually with strangers/young girls from bars) I've never pulled a girl I already know or had relationships etc. I don't even know how people hook up with friends and stuff. Imagine making a move on a friend who might not be into you to be so awkward
/r/seduction10/02/21 10:56 AM
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same as cold approaching any random girl (like on insta etc) She might find it weird. Might not. If she thinks you're attractive you might have a shot. You don't have much to lose, really. Are you the best looking dude in the zoom class?!! :) I'm sure other guys are thinking of sliding in the DM's if she's as fire as you say
/r/seduction08/02/21 01:17 PM
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that's not how it works in real life. If she rejects you, it just means she's not into you and there's nothing you can say to change her mind (negs, teasing, dhv's etc etc) Basically what she confirms: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/lf5mkf/this_entire_subreddit_seems_to_be_about_seducing/gmkqqw8/
/r/seduction08/02/21 01:14 PM
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all other replies confirm my thoughts, tbh. You're heavily outnumbered lol. I'll still obviously approach, but it seems nothing at all like it is back home in terms of socialbililty, friendliness, open to convoerations with strangers etc. Need to try to find foreign girls rather than locals, as others suggest. But yes, of course if I was especially handsome i'd expect slighlty better results (I mentioned my very good looking friend in the OP)
/r/seduction24/01/21 12:03 PM
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basically this, I think. It's all about finding the 'perfect storm' (a girl who is sociable and responds well to cold approach, who ALSO thinks you're handsome/sexually attractive) So as you say, it's really a game of numbers than one of 'skill', tbh
/r/seduction23/01/21 07:02 PM
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nice melons
/r/seduction23/01/21 06:43 PM
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What has you’re experiences has been like at bars here in the UK ?? - my OP was about approaching in bars. (i've never tried day game. Seems pointless considering that i imagine it to be more even harder since it's not a 'social setting') - As I say, it seems a lot more difficult to actually get girls to engage. It's as if they think talking to random guys is odd. Very suspicious. Almost 'combative'?! Or just seemingly more shy and awkward than i'm used too? Not sure how to put it. pm if you wan…
/r/seduction22/01/21 07:23 PM
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I hear ya. But at 6ft 5 and handsome, I'd just be burning it down going direct on everyone and getting laid every night lol
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:19 PM
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i tend to think it doesn't really matter a great deal. Certain openers will work better on certain girls (maybe a really confident girl would like a direct opener and a more timid girl would prefer indirect) but you'll never know what she's like until you talk to her anyway And then, at the end of the day, direct or indirect, it's only gonna go somewhere sexually if she thinks you're attractive/hot, and so there's at least an argument for saving yourself time, going direct and finding out! Havin…
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:30 PM
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interesting. As you can see from all the replies, it seems everyone thinks even in bars it's expected to get a very cold reception from strangers here from their experience! (and my own). lol. I'll not stop, but just accept it's nothing like nightlife abroad
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:20 PM
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thanks. Yes, I wouldn't try approaching a girl in the street here! (I'ts actually fine to do in the US but the girls seem WAY more friendly and socially confident etc there. Don't think i'd try it here) But i'm curious if you would also be the same in a bar setting? Would you basically ignore a guy saying 'hi' to you at the bar and trying to talk a little? (as I say, the reactions in bars seem to be drastically different from what i'm used too) - I'm starting to think that generally that's just …
/r/seduction22/01/21 10:26 AM
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lol - I like it. I'm not actually in London, but close, and i've heard the town I live in be referred too as a 'London overspill' by some, so maybe it's very similar in terms of customs and culture etc
/r/seduction21/01/21 09:48 AM
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yes, south east. A little outside London (I was actually told that up North people are way more social with strangers and cold approach works a lot better. Can't confirm that yet, but from what you say, maybe it's true)
/r/seduction21/01/21 09:44 AM
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imo cold approach where the girls barely knows you depends a lot on looks yeah, I mean I don't think that's even up for debate nowadays. It's clear as day. But as I say, the social element seems to be huge in that even if a girl thinks you're at least OK looking, she could well give you NOTHING after you open her, whereas in the US (and too a lesser extent Canada) she'd be making it a 2-way convo
/r/seduction20/01/21 10:46 PM
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Never on my own. In the US you can go out on your own, but I leaned fast that doing that here makes you look like a complete oddball lol. So I go out with 1-3 friends. Usually approach girls(s) on my own (with them close as some have major Approach Anxiety) and sometimes with a wing. As for openers i've tried them types of openers and well as all kinds of other things from opinion openers to observations to compliments and everything in between lol. I have had the occassional result of course, b…
/r/seduction20/01/21 09:29 PM
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thanks man. Nice to know i'm not going crazy, but still sucks lol. I really don't wanna do daygame if I can avoid it! Might have to re-think that though. Or somehow get a social circle with girls going. Not sure where to start with that though, tbh
/r/seduction20/01/21 09:20 PM
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cool, so you live here! So is it usual to approach a girl or a small group in a bar and have them literally zone out in what looks likes an attempt to get you to go away? One word answers, bad body langauge etc. I've tried all kinds of PUA theory to try to remedy this too, but it doesn't seem to help. Every girl acts like a supermodel being spoken too by a homeless dude lol. Is it really all about social circle? I'm used to getting much better reactions lol (especially in the US)
/r/seduction20/01/21 09:13 PM
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I was going to mention this. Even at bust stops or in super markets etc, I'm kind of used to people conversing, but that does NOT happen here. UK people really don't do the whole talking to strangers thing it seems! I think that makes cold approach pickup super hard unless you are an exceptionally handsome dude
/r/seduction20/01/21 09:11 PM
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So, Don't ask boring questions, don't talk about work or what you both do or whatever. What DO you talk about then? Some examples would have been useful lol ​ Most PUA stuff I read says 'Never ask questions (what's your name, what do you do, how old are you etc). Don't talk about work either. Don't ask her boring stuff like what she's doing tonight and who she's with and what her plans are. That will bore her. ​ What's left? What are we supposed to say lol?
/r/seduction20/01/21 09:18 AM
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