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No because they’re a ripoff that’s meant to scam you and make money off you. All this “secret game” is free on google.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:38 PM
1

Because he’s a good looking white guy, that’s calm and reserved but also “dangerous”.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:34 PM
1

There will always be two parts to this, internal and external desire. Example- I workout 4-5x a week, I do it because it helps my mental and physical health but obviously ik that the side effect of it is me looking good and being attractive so there’s two motivating factors but the external desire for me is second for me while the internal is first. Ofc you wanna look good for others- who doesn’t? Just don’t make that your primary goal tho.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:01 PM
55

If she ain’t wanting to hang out w u outside of work- but keeps flirting w you she using you for attention to make herself feel better. Most girls do this
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:57 PM
152

If I were you just stick to being strictly co workers ie say hi to her but don’t make convo w her. She was just using you for attention
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:49 PM
30

Height matters but also your face matters as well. So your short friends are prob good looking and have basic social skills.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:46 PM
3

Yeah fr I agree with your first statement, it is meaningless advice.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:34 AM
2

Yea there’s gonna be that fat ugly friend in that friend group that will cockblock because she ain’t getting attention- before you open you could be friendly to both but show your focus on the girl after (doing this will help, but no gaurentee - depending on how the fat ugly friends mood/if she likes you and how much the other girl is attracted to you to “defy” her friend).
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:54 AM
0

Yea because a guy has to put in some work to get laid, a girl just shows up. That’s the difference. So no it’s not backward at all.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:42 AM
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Where tf are you hanging out to be approached by dudes in their 40s-50s+? Confidence and stability is sexy? Ok the confidence part doesn’t only apply to men in that age range and stability? Looking to get married? Reconsider what you want before looking for guys in that age range.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:54 AM
1

She’s acting sus, don’t text her again
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:30 PM
1

Ok so? With those stats it feels like that’s all you do, so you probably approach 100s of women and find success with some and your entire post history is you going out to the clubs 4-5 nights a week and buying girls shots getting them drunk to have sex with them. So you’re shit means nothing to me and idk what you look like you may be a good looking eastern asian guy so maybe that’s why you’re somewhat successful with some girls.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:33 AM
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Your first statement is beyond stupid so I won’t even address it. Your second statement again is irrelevant, what does wealth inequality have to do with this? My results: I’m 23 years old turning 24 end of this month and have been with 29 women in my live- Note I started my dating life around 20 years old and I have no reason to lie about my lay count. I have learned from my failures and fine tuned my engagement in with girls. “Game” to me is speaking to a woman engaging with her, asking about h…
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:19 PM
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If I’m bitter to you because I shat on your post, so be it. Looks do matter, wtf are you on? “This has been debunked” please link me these studies that show this. Because I’ve seen numerous studies that show otherwise. Yeah pimps who go after girls who have mental issues and or are in shitty situations—> no self respecting woman would be associated with pimps, so I don’t get that argument and this applies to your stupid prison analogy. It’s funny how every guy on Reddit who talks this shit about…
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:00 PM
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Text her in a few hours, not a few days cause she prob won’t remember you/faded interest
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:07 PM
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Lol wrote all this fluff for nothing. There’s nothing new here and it doesn’t really help any guys that aren’t attractive and or is insecure in themselves. All of this applies if you’re attractive, if you’re not she won’t give you that much interest. Well you could say go to the next girl, but then you get to the point where you’re contradicting yourself ie don’t approach every girl and time is your only valuable asset.
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:02 PM
6

Nah don’t message her anymore until she wants to meet you. Why would you keep messaging her? She didn’t offer a reschedule and you asked her twice to meet up and was met with the “busy” response. She’s either talking to other guys she’s more interested in and tryna set something up with them and if plans fall through she’ll prob hit you up or she’s just using you for attention/someone to talk to.
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:52 PM
12

Wtf are you talking about
/r/seduction09/01/22 01:42 AM
0

“Hey insert name here, unfortunately I can’t make it today. Let’s do x day afternoon/evening” (obviously whatever time works for you) and if she says yes great and if she doesn’t offer a reschedule after saying she can’t do it, next her and don’t reply to her. Remember, someone who wants to see you will make the time to see you/will offer a different day to make plans.
/r/seduction09/01/22 01:40 AM
1

Attention as she wants to feel sexy and flirt w you but won’t actually meet/setup anything w you but you’re giving her validation/attention. There’s different types of attention and there are girls that do this.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:12 PM
2

Ask them questions about anything/stuff they mentioned on their profile. When they say something respond briefly and ask further more questions, don’t volunteer info about yourself unless it’s warranted or she asks. Women love to talk about themselves so keep the focus on her and make her laugh/tease her when she says something
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:15 PM
1

She looking for attention bro and you’re giving it to her
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:32 AM
1

Bruh don’t call her if she ain’t responding to you lol. Save your witty shit for in person not for the phone. If y’all have met multiple times call her and do that shit
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:21 AM
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Bruh most girls nowadays especially younger text they don’t call unless y’all have been together for a decent amount/slept together/she likes you. Text and set it up
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:36 AM
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Haha sure ok.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:30 AM
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I do get my dick wet np there, doesn’t take away the fact that white guys have it easier in dating. So kiss my black ass.
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:51 AM
1

What
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:05 AM
12

No, most people don’t want randos calling them unexpectedly. You must be old af.
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:44 PM
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Because dating is easier for you and a bunch of girls responded to your basic ass gym story therefore talk to them and set up trying to meet them/fuck them. You have no idea how easy it is to be dating while you’re white/taking care of yourself ie gym,hygiene etc. Girls will be all over you and don’t let some 19 year old girl take your focus away. If I were you don’t text her at all and wait for her to text you and if she doesn’t who gives af keep seeing/setting up w other girls. Tbh you prob we…
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:58 PM
1

Are you white?
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:36 PM
10

Lol do not listen to fresh and fit for advice. Watch it for trashy entertainment
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:53 PM
0

Being confident is knowing who you are/your worth and accepting truths and navigating around that to find a solution. Going through life being ignorant is not smart. Not really pulling girls, if they already make themselves easy for them. Girls that actually want to engage with me, I have no issue closing. That’s the difference girls willing to engage me. At the end it’s all about not caring about the outcome.
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:21 AM
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I’m confident in myself and know my worth, at the same time I’m a realist. I already know a vast majority of women will not find me attractive due to my skin colour. As I said in other posts, I hate comparing myself to others; whenever I see my white guy friends OLD success (they show me the matches and convos) it’s easily 5x as much as me and I’m taller and arguably better looking. But girls go head over heels for white guys and I see this shit all the time irl whenever I go out w my boys. I re…
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:57 PM
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Oh yea ik and bro google it, I ain’t talking out my ass haha and for the most part I agree because I’ve seen numerous irl observations. Yes ik I’m more than my skin, but already disqualifying someone based on their skin colour is scummy and racist imo. Anyways have a good one brother.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:28 PM
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I’m referring to online dating where countless studies show that most women prefer white guys. If it’s “preference” why is that most women across the board prefer white? It’s racism, not liking someone because of your skin colour is racism. Sure there can be genuine preference but most of the time it’s not genuine.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:15 PM
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Lol you’d think huh, but nope. Online dating does not work for me at all where I’m at and it’s a fairly liberal/university city. Society/media has programmed most girls into thinking white guys are more “attractive” and it’s sad when most of them sugarcoat their racism as “preferences”.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:55 PM
1

You can see a few of my posts regarding this, but my personal experiences.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:38 PM
3

That’s prob it then. I’m glad you’re doing well, but you and I know the colourism issue in Indian culture and etc, how “whiter” looking are perceived to non whiter looking.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:37 PM
1

You white?
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:15 PM
1

Bruh he’s good looking, that’s why he has “success” with women.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:43 PM
3

No bro, you’re good looking. That’s literally one of the reasons why.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:41 PM
6

Be white, good looking with decent pics and the matches will start pouring in. If you aren’t this, it will be an average to shitty experience.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:39 PM
1

Yeah they want a good looking guy but don’t want the emotional hassle of deal with a good looking guy because he gets attention from other women. Therefore you need a nice/safe guy who prob has money. And lol at the comment about the women wanting a less fit/unattractive guy than an attractive guy. Excuse me where do these women exist? because all I see in general are women going after the attractive white guys then bitch afterwards saying why men are trash. Your “bf” must got money if you’re wi…
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:59 AM
1

No he’s not, he’s providing perfect examples with the definition he clearly stated and you’re saying that because you’re wrong.
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:29 PM
1

That’s exactly my point. If I approach and they are already not interested in me due to my skin colour, it’s gonna make the exchange way more harder/awkward-> gonna take way more work. I don’t mind working hard but I do also value my time/energy into what I’m doing and if it’s gonna be like pulling teeth, it’s gonna turn me off from it. Now I’m not some social retard, I do notice signs ie body language, eye contact, tone and general receptiveness and know what to look out for: is this going well…
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:27 PM
1

I agree, you do have to watch out on women’s friends.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:47 PM
14

Tldr; do something you like, don’t focus all your time and energy into women. Been said a million times.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:36 PM
1

Lmao such a stupid response.
/r/seduction26/11/21 08:20 PM
121

Talk to her more then and find out.
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:12 PM
1

It’s all in your head trust me, I’ve experienced it first hand and sometimes there are days where I feel like shit mentally, what kicks me back into place is music/working out and knowing that I’m on my shit if yk what I mean. Remember you’re the man and you make your own life with the work you put in.
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:59 PM
14

Hey brother we all have our ups and downs when it comes to our mentality. I’ve shared similar struggles with you and know what you’re talking about. First thing is don’t believe everything you see on social media, it’s pretend and crafted to look perfect- it’s not and those who try to pose for their “perfect” life usually are the ones who aren’t. Worst thing you can do is compare yourself to anyone else-don’t do that ever. Confidence with women comes with the fact that you are comfortable in you…
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:49 PM
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Well it’s the truth because you saw immediate results. Girls will tolerate “needy” behaviour depending on how hot the guy is. Yes obviously you shouldn’t be needy, but it’s a spectrum for women-> guys “hotness” level.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:45 AM
1

He’s good looking.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:53 AM
3

This exactly. I explained this to someone above earlier.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:53 AM
82

He’s good looking, so women set themselves up for him and he lacked speaking up and acting on it, he changed that and hence he was able to sleep with them. Nothing groundbreaking.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:50 AM
2

Ik exactly what you mean man, non white guys wont get where you’re coming from. Yes most girls and even non white girls go after white guys, I’ve seen it plenty of times/and OLD stats back this up as well. Just have fun and don’t try to hard to impress anyone.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:58 PM
2

You’re a white male go find yourself an Asian female, they love you
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:10 PM
1

Don’t stress about “witty” or “charming” shit when talking to a girl, if u think of something funny say it if not don’t force it. Have a natural conversation and if there’s silence don’t be awkward about it, embrace it.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:52 PM
2

Don’t slide in w a joke or any of that shit. If you’re not good looking, dms don’t work.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:50 PM
1

So basically in a nutshell ignore your fear, all that extra fluff didn’t add to the point.
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:49 PM
0

Either you’re lying or u did something to further increase ur attractiveness level.
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:43 PM
6

Yea why is this not being talked about? That’s why they approached you, nothing to do with anything else. If you’re good looking at a bar drunk women will approach you.
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:58 AM
4

Be what society has defined as “good looking” ie attractive white male and lower your standards.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:08 PM
1

lol exactly every guy says this
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:59 PM
2

Lol looks then game will get you in.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:23 PM
2

you should be actively going to the gym consistently regardless of anything
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:49 AM
1

yea, but you should already be in the gym tho.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:00 AM
1

are you good looking?
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:00 AM
1

I already do this, thanks for sharing tho.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:59 AM
2

That’s what I’m saying, so I don’t know why these guys have these issues especially tall white guys
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:57 AM
2

Aye if you’re successful, I’m happy for you.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:20 PM
1

Well anxiety is in your head, one traumatic moment big or small can sway how you think and create a false perception of reality. It is hard to deal with, I’m not doubting that because I dealt with it when I was younger. Just know everything will be okay and you gotta push through it and slowly get out of your comfort zone whatever/whenever it is.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:10 PM
2

You have nothing to worry about, you’re a tall good looking white guy. You’re set all that anxiety and shit is just in your head, you’re set fam.
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:02 PM
2

googles your friend.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:59 PM
2

No it’s proven through statistics. Just gotta accept the reality and act accordingly with what you can control.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:42 PM
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Bro 6’1 is good everywhere haha
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:41 PM
1

Lol thank you man. OP is a clown fr haha, this post is dumb and stupid.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:16 PM
1

This is one of the stupidest post I’ve seen.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:15 PM
2

You’re missing the crucial part, follow rules 0, 1, and 2. If you’re not, that 10 number will be way more and the reward won’t be worth the time.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:14 PM
13

Height and race* you mean, if OP is tall and white it’ll be easy af. If you got muscle but still ugly af you’re not gonna do as well, if you’re already good looking and adding muscle and leaning out is just the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:09 PM
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Yes but if you’re still big and ugly, it won’t work. So you already must be a good looking guy, so adding muscle and leaning helped w the face more. Are you white?
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:07 PM
1

Yes I agree.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:43 PM
2

Lol exactly that’s what people fail to understand.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:41 PM
4

She knows the game bro lol, be calm and you’ll be fine
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:04 PM
1

I don’t give af about peoples reactions, so no that’s not my issue. I appreciate you writing this but it doesn’t really address any of my points I’ve raised. I’m already focusing on my life and been doing it for years (financially, physically, socially, and mentally). Yeah you would think they are childish and close minded, but it seems like a lot of women are doing the same thing. I talked about the numerous dating studies that demonstrate race analysis and the countless posts about non white g…
/r/seduction29/09/21 06:22 PM
1

Lol he will keep you around in the back burner when he wants sex. He already got it from you therefore, he will talk and see other girls in the meantime and if he can’t get it from others he will hit you up.
/r/seduction29/09/21 06:08 PM
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Lol yea fr, such a meaningless post.
/r/seduction28/09/21 04:39 PM
1

Lol at your reply.
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:40 PM
1

Lol yoo I was watching his shit last year dudes funny af I agree w some of the stuff he says and the other stuff not so much. I appreciate the words tho and yeah I’ll pm you.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:38 AM
1

Lol you’re a delusional clown. Funny you didn’t really address any of my points. I’m not entitled to anything. You’re fucked actually, why tf would you even say that I would kill someone if I was 5’7?
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:55 PM
1

Lol at your response. What makes you think the way I talk to random mfs on reddit is how I interact with people irl? I have a lot of friends who I regularly socialize with and experience new things with, so again you don’t fucking know me so don’t speak on me. So fuck your bet. Yep I’m blaming others for my problems, where exactly do I say that? I’m pointing out the fact from what I’ve experienced, what numerous of my non white friends have experienced and the online dating studies say otherwise…
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:20 PM
1

and again I’ve never seen black guys or non white guys in my area with girls out in public. the other way around is what I see 99% of the time.
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:30 PM
1

I understand that brother and I’m glad you’re successful. Whereabouts in the east coast tho? I don’t have insane standards, but with my height, physique/general lifestyle and my character I’m entitled to standards in the women I want to pursue, I mean who wouldn’t? I don’t discriminate (where I am it’s women of all races with white guys I see). I can’t stand it when white mfs who get it easy, just immediately disqualify my issue because to them it’s a personal attack ( I’m talking about that was…
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:24 PM
1

You don’t know anything about me. So don’t speak on me like you know me at all. If you’re triggered by what I wrote you’ve got issues because it’s the truth. I’ve experienced this and so have my other friends. Are there experiences invalid too?
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:06 PM
1

Only thing you’re spitting is bs and cum from that nasty ass mouth you got. I guarantee I have better game and more kills than you’re pasty white ass.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:22 PM
1

and yet you’re able to understand me. bro you’re waste fr.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:21 PM
1

I’m done responding to your waste ass. Calling me an incel loser huh, ok if that makes you feel tough feel free. Oh man I wish I met your bitch ass in person, all that talking you’re doing behind a screen ik you can’t back it up in person. I’m 10x the person you are. You waste, delusional gremlin.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:18 PM
1

Lol you still in high school?
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:14 PM
1

You are a loser, you spend your time on Reddit writing about stupid shit on “game” and the flock of retards in this subreddit upvote you. You then jerk off to it crawl back to your hole and then post the next stupid shit. Deny that race doesn’t matter about dating lol. You’re dense and delusional. You don’t know shit about me, but ik you’re a wasteman.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:13 PM
0

Troll 🤡
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:10 PM
1

Lol you’re such a loser bro fr. Go write your next cringe post where people are asking why you wrote this and what was the point. I enjoy reading it.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:10 PM
1

Replies from who exactly? Mostly white people who don’t experience this and the occasional black person that gets “success”
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:08 PM
0

Your comment was about me fuck head. again go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:03 PM
1

Ain’t no one agreeing w u buddy
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:02 PM
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and btw go fuck yourself, don’t talk to me. You’re cringe and your posts about “game” is cringe. You’re a troll and waste of my time.
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:57 PM
0

Again all the stuff you said to work on, I’ve been doing. I have to take steps in my life to better myself, I don’t need anyone telling me that because that should be common sense.
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:56 PM
1

Lol the King of Women came back from his hole, where’s your next masterful post?
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:55 PM
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Lol I’ve been working out for 6 years and my physique is the best it has ever been alongside my 6’4 frame. You got a decent physique, not bad. And I take pride in my appearance something that’s been instilled in me since I was young, always dress well and always taking care of my personal hygiene. Really I’m not good looking? 6’4 w an excellent physique, jawline, got my hair, I don’t have a a fucked up nose or eyes or anything like that. Just because YOU may have success doesn’t mean everyone el…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:54 PM
-2

Yes he’s a good looking white guy hence why he’s successful with tinder. All the other shit is fluff.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:23 PM
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Lol guys are looking for beautiful girls and girls are looking for attractive white guys that live a comfortable life.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:21 PM
1

Hey well you’re a very small group that doesn’t care about that then, however a majority still do. Yea but as you said racism and anxiety aren’t the same. Easy to say the no fucks given mindset, but if they’re already not interested in you off the get go, that “no fucks given” mindset doesn’t really mean much. You’re not a non white person so you won’t ever understand the reality. Just look at the numerous dating studies or the numerous subreddits about non white guys struggles in the dating wor…
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:14 PM
1

Yeah I’m always focusing on myself and I want to date as well, but when I see the looks or the immediate disinterest vibe without even doing anything, it takes a toll. It’s tough and tougher for a non white guy. Haven’t you always noticed it’s always the non white guys struggling a lot w OLD when the topic arises (running experiments and such on their own and seeing the vast difference). Ask any of your friends if they will ever date a non white guy or wouldn’t mind if they approached them in pu…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:50 AM
1

No I haven’t. Different culture and morals there I’m assuming. I live in the west, where society is fucked up.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:57 PM
1

I’ve been out with w white and non white guys at parties and or bars/clubs and the looks my white and non white friends are vastly different from women. The former more open and receptive and the latter look of disgust or just rude and I honestly feel bad. I’m a black male and have experienced this too and honestly from what I’ve seen especially where I am; women of different races try to fit in with the white girl and this usually means dressing/acting basic af and going after white guys. I’ve …
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:55 PM
4

Again game is just having decent convo skills and reading the language and being socially aware. If she doesn’t find you attractive at all, no amount of “game” will do anything.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:28 PM
1

No. It’s what I’ve observed irl and especially on social media. Nothing to do w my confidence.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:26 PM
1

The reason I asked is were those ugly guys white?
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:50 PM
0

What’s your thoughts on a guys skin colour in terms of attracting women? Be honest. You think most women in general (all races) seem to prefer white guys?
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:50 PM
4

It’s fact bro like, all these naive ugly mfs talking about if you got confidence they’ll want you. No, girls are just as shallow as we are and on top of that they want a guy they can show off to their friends and public. You think they wanna show off some ugly ass dude? I’ve never seen an ugly guy pull a hot girl in my life and my friends haven’t either. Girls talk about personality and that’s cap too, if you’re what society has deemed as “attractive” they’ll make it easy af to get with you. The…
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:39 PM
0

Are they good looking white guys?
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:31 PM
5

Exactly, if you’re ugly af and got confidence, still most girls won’t want you.
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:30 PM
33

Lol this is so stupid. Most of the mans in this subreddit are idiots
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:21 PM
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I agree w I brother, so many waste mans on reddit tryna assume so much shit about you based on 1-2 sentences lol. Then the girls pop in tryna give their bs advice about you, knowing full well that you’re right. Womens dating advice in general is useless and shouldn’t be listened to because what they say and what they do are opposites.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:52 PM
-1

Lol exactly, people fail to realize that if you’re butt ass ugly this shit won’t work.
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:52 PM
1

It’s great and all but if you’re ugly, you’re not gonna get the same results.
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:50 PM
2

Yea women of my race succeeding with white guys haha, the difference is most guys don’t care about race than women do, therefore your point doesn’t really hold. When I see most women being obsessed with white guys kinda hard to lose that lingering thought about my skin colour being a factor.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:53 PM
2

I get it, you’re trying hard to share your shitty game and you prob feel so proud about it (you prob get turned on by the upvotes) and here I come to call you out on your stupid shit and you’re triggered. Now when I prove you wrong you resort to basic ass high school shit like “I’m hallucinating” or “jacking off to porn doesn’t count”. Again as I said, you’re pathetic alongside with your replies. I’m waiting for your next masterful post, so go get on it Canadian Seductioner.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:08 PM
1

But you just admitted that you’re the troll? Now you’re just lost in your own bs.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:04 PM
4

Bro you actually make no sense and obviously trying to hard. Which one is it sleeping w me out of pity or jacking off to porn?
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:00 PM
2

That makes no sense, you’re the king of game you should know this.
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:59 PM
2

Yep that’s why I get laid the first date
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:54 PM
2

Yep I haven’t been laid, I’ll tell that to the 25+ women I’ve been with that who they actually got with weren’t actually wasn’t me. Didn’t I tell you to crawl back to your hole and plan your next cringe post?
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:48 PM
2

You need to spend your time doing something else, like admitting the reality of dating and how you will have an advantage if you’re a good looking white guy. I ain’t looking for a wastemans support. Funny how you haven’t really disagreed with anything I’ve said. You preach game and yet it’s the same basic thing other people have written. And didn’t force myself into anything I just saw this stupid ass post written by the King of Game aka (Canadian Seductioner) and wanted to share how stupid it w…
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:46 PM
3

I never let my skin colour impact me but apparently it does matter and that’s the reality. You’re assuming a lot about me and you’re some white guy who’s never had to deal with this when it comes to dating. You’re waste and I don’t need your support at all because frankly I don’t need it and it doesn’t matter to me at all. Like I said I enjoy reading your stupid comments about “seduction”. Go spend your time writing nonsense and preaching “game” to the other redditors. I have my life on track to…
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:32 PM
2

Lol “incel losers” like me, is that what we call people when they call you out on your stupid ass shit? We got Canadian seductioner the king of women over here. Go write some long ass post about how to say hi to a woman next. You’re fragile and waste dude.
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:14 PM
2

Lol my thought exactly, OP is a wasteman and spends his day writing fluff like this. If you call him out on it, he calls you an “incel”. I’ve never seen so much bs written in one post, it’s crazy.
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:06 PM
4

He’s prob a good looking white dude that’s why he has success and he’s just wasting your guys time. Understand if you don’t fit what’s “attractive” in todays society ie good looking white guy, you’ll have a much harder time. All that you can do on your part is make yourself a better man physically, mentally, socially and financially. That’s what you can control, ik it’s been said a thousand times but that’s what’s in your control right. Get decent photos and write some shit doesn’t have to be ex…
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:04 PM
2

I thought your waste ass was done? and yep I hate my skin colour. Mf named himself Canadian seductioner. You’re pathetic fr 😂
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:50 PM
2

I ain’t asking your waste ass to cater to me at all, I enjoy reading stupid advice on this subreddit you’re the prime example. Lol you’re so corny fr, be mad.
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:41 PM
0

Alright there buddy, just mad cause I called you out on your garbage ass post and your lack of knowledge. You’re some basic ass white dude getting by your looks that’s it, you got no game or barely got game. Lol you think I haven’t been laid? I don’t gotta prove shit to you, I already know your stupid and get triggered. “Oh man look at me I’m so successful with dating imma drop some advice for you young ones” lol that’s what I get from you but in reality most women especially in the west chase a…
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:32 PM
0

Don’t gotta keep telling myself anything it’s evident by your post and the numerous other posts in this subreddit. I find it amusing. Shall I link you dating studies if you’re to lazy to do so?
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:45 PM
4

No because most guys who post here don’t know shit and they’re just getting by because they are good looking white dudes. It’s mostly fluff and a repeat or derivative of what someone else said.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:40 PM
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If you’re a good looking white guy, you’ll do fine doesn’t matter what app you use. OP wrote so much fluff.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:13 PM
1

Yes, you’re response to the comment is wrong.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:12 AM
1

I cringe when people throw out “incel”, what he said is true.
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:58 AM
1

Go to the festival and only order your food
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:44 PM
-1

No it won’t haha
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:55 AM
5

The difference is that she has to find you attractive if you’re gonna go anywhere with her lmao
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:05 AM
3

Ya man I feel you and it’s not talked about enough and we acting like it doesn’t matter, that’s far from the truth. It’s so annoying having girls not even be interested w out even talking just because I’m a different skin colour. Then you see the women on Reddit saying “race doesn’t matter” blah blah but online stats say something else and irl may help but even then it’s still ass. White mfs saying “work on yourself bro” and most of them don’t even have game they just white and be getting girls …
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:31 PM
2

Lol location matters and funny how white dudes say black guys have it easy but I have plenty of black friends and they say the opposite lmao. And you just said the attention is staggering so you must obviously be a good looking white dude.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:28 PM
3

Not insecure at all but aware of the reality. Let’s not act clueless like skin colour doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:26 PM
1

I do have it together, just from what I’ve seen from observations in public and online and stuff my friends have told me. I agree quality of quantity, but you gotta go through the quantity to find quality tho. Where did I say confidence doesn’t matter? It does but it’s a combo of looks and confidence. You ain’t finna see no butt ugly guy pull hot women just because he’s confident lmao (he’s just labelled as a creep).
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:23 PM
4

Nah it’s looks because girls want to show off the guy she’s interested in to her friends/public to make them jealous especially younger women
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:58 PM
2

Yea if you’re white,tall, probably good looking and muscular you’ll get way more attention from girls, take away the white aspect and it’s almost like a ghost town
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:58 PM
2

Lmao ik
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:56 PM
1

What skin colour are you?
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:55 PM
7

Bruh if you’re fat you’re fat, let’s stop sugarcoating shit. I’m black so I don’t care if I’m referred to as a black guy, just like how I refer to white guys as white guys (not just guys, because why are guys by default white? basically eliminates all other types of non white guys).
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:53 PM
3

Lol sure fat women can know they’re worth, but ain’t no man who’s in shape, good looking and knows his worth will go for them (most guys). It’s always the chubby or ugly girl cock blocking the guy when they’re going after their pretty friend. If they know their worth they wouldn’t be the ones cockblocking. Explain that part to me.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:36 PM
3

They are chubby and fat, what else he supposed to call them?
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:33 PM
1

So you’re tan (still white), tall and good looking, makes sense why you’re doing good then, nice.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:30 PM
1

Bro this won’t work if she doesn’t find you attractive at all lmao, if you’re butt ugly to her she won’t give a second for you.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:51 PM
3

Yea fr haha, if you’re butt ugly to her she won’t give af.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:50 PM
3

Fuck I wish I can get 3-4 matches a day, are you white?
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:49 PM
2

I agree hence why non white westernized women usually go for white guys, it’s sad and pathetic
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:45 PM
1

As I said before younger women care about looks and older women care less.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:19 PM
1

and no women still care about looks the degree as to how much it matters is when a women starts hitting the wall.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:13 PM
3

You’re gonna use Trump as an example? Really? Yea because every fat ugly guy is Trump, money matters ofc, but women still care about looks. If you bag a hottie and you’re some ugly ass man with money, you would know why she’s with you.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:12 PM
1

Yea here’s the difference buddy, they’re rich and you just repeated my point. So idk what you’re trying to argue.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:10 PM
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Lol okay there, I’ve never seen it ever and I’ve gone out plenty of times. Unless he has crazy social status and is some white guy he may get some play from non white women who are desperate for a white guy and small minority of white women but overall an ugly fat man won’t have that much success.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:57 PM
2

Lol I love being downvoted when I tell the harsh truth, it tells me people like to live in a delusional/false reality where everything is pretty rainbows, especially mfs on Reddit.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:55 PM
1

Lol yea, so many guys here in this subreddit done know shit. Some find success but they’re usually good looking white guys, so they try to pass on their “wisdom” or “game” not knowing the girl made it way easier to get with her lol. What man isn’t on their grind trying to get their life together physically, mentally, socially, financially. Like if you’re not doing that get on that, if you’re ugly you’re gonna fail a lot when it comes to women, that’s the harsh truth.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:19 PM
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What race are you bro? and I definitely feel you about most girls wanting white guys, I always see it whether it be online or in public, they always chase the white guys. You’ll see it here from women “race doesn’t matter” but they’ll be going after the white guys mostly. All I can say is brother is hit the gym, wardrobe, personal care hygiene etc, and financial. It sucks man, the feeling of being alone and no women wanting you, it hurts ik it does, I’ve been there trust me. When you get to thos…
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:54 PM
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Lol come on dude, stop lying lmao. Never has that happened.
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:47 PM
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Looks matter to young women, money matter to older women that’s the difference. No ugly fat guy is gonna pull hot young women Never have I seen or heard from others of that happening, so what you’re saying is cap.
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:45 PM
1

They love to be approached by good looking guys that’s the difference.
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:56 PM
1

Yea ik and it sucks.
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:18 AM
1

Yea location matters I agree, where I am Waterloo, it’s a uni town and always seems to be white guys with girls of different races whenever I’m out. Could be frequency illusion, but with online dating stats and anecdotal stories I hear from my non white friends, there has to be some correlation. And yea sure my height may be intimidating but I don’t put out an angry face when I’m out and about.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:54 AM
1

who said anything about white chicks?
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:16 PM
2

Nah, I’m 6’4 and have a great body and great face and don’t get shit. My reasoning is I’m a black male so most women are turned off already and I see it in their body language and eyes when I’m out ie at a club my white friends who are shorter than me and average get girls coming up to them and we’re all having a good time (no negative vibes,) it sucks. If you’re me but white you’ll be a stud.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:32 PM
1

If you don’t get a yes or a reschedule on her part (even then she can still cancel), it’s a no.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:30 AM
1

compliment what they’re wearing/whatever is unique about them, don’t compliment them on their looks
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:12 PM
1

Never said I was defeated in anyway. Just pointing out he has advantages especially in dating due to his skin colour.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:27 PM
1

You right, the guy you’re replying to is oblivious that his skin colour (white) will be a huge advantage to him in dating and all aspects of life.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:19 PM
8

You’re a white guy in an Asian country, do the math.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:16 PM
5

Nah don’t message her anymore
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:07 PM
3

This guy was tryna bust a nut, that’s it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:09 PM
1

Just bring condoms you idiot, don’t tell her you have it and if things get turned up pull it out. It shows confidence.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:10 PM
1

You mean like making stupid shitty posts? I love when stupid mfs like you throw the word incel around, makes me laugh because I already know you’re unintelligent and don’t know shit. Go fuck yourself in the meantime tho.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:31 PM
0

Bro the OP is a stupid piece of shit, that should crawl back to whatever hole he came from
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:25 AM
0

Yep that’s exactly what I said white boy, go fuck yourself you triggered piece of shit and don’t call me an incel you fuckface.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:24 AM
0

Please stfu, you sound so stupid rn, you didn’t even pose a question. Cry? You mean stating facts, you naive white boy. I work everyday on bettering myself financially, physically and socially, still doesn’t change the fact women won’t date me due to my skin colour. So go fuck off and get a grip of reality retard.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:09 PM
0

Lmao when most don’t already find you attractive due to your skin colour, kinda hard to find those who would.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:05 PM
1

“Just improve yourself bro” lol, I can’t change my skin colour therefore I have to work twice as hard in all aspects of my life. Still doesn’t change the fact most women won’t date me due to my skin colour.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:03 PM
1

Facts. Why is a white guy telling me how easy it is to get girls when the fact that he’s white and most overwhelmingly women of most races will date you due to your skin colour. Spend a day not being white and see how life changes and you’ll shut up real quick.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:01 PM
2

Well yea that’s what I said near the end of my comment, you have to toughen up your mind. Of course it should take control of your mind, but it’s tough mentally to keep going and when you see the numerous anecdotal and statistical evidence that goes against a non white male in dating it does give you perspective on the reality.
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:25 PM
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It’s easy to say if you’re a white guy but when you’re constantly being rejected due to your skin colour, it takes a toll on you mentally. I overall agree w the message but in reality it’s usually not the case from my experience ie (non white friends (takes care of themselves) telling me and from online dating). If you’re a white guy you’ve got a plethora of women of different races willing to date you due to the fact that you’re white and being a non white male you’ve got a sub segment of women…
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:06 PM
0

My race is a major factor and that’s the truth.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:40 AM
0

I’m very pleasant to be around in person, so as I said before stfu and don’t assume or speak anything about me like you know me at all.
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:04 PM
-1

Thanks there Dr. Phil for your reddit analysis on my psyche
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:03 PM
1

I love reading peoples stupid advice while I’m taking a shit
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:02 PM
1

Statistics I “may have” use google buddy there are numerous studies that demonstrate this. Yes how I’m talking to you is how I talk to women I’m trying to date. Don’t tell me how to attract women, I know exactly how to (I’m not celibate at all, from the dates I’ve managed to go on I close on the first or second). Don’t assume anything about me, clueless bastard.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:49 PM
1

Another common response, what makes you think the way I talk to random redditors is how I talk to women? And cool congrats. I’m not insecure about shit, don’t assume anything about me. You don’t know me at all.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:44 PM
1

Nope completely false. Funny how many of my non white friends struggle immensely with dating, is it coincidence? And yes being black vs white does make a difference because I’ve seen it first hand irl and in online dating. What exactly is my attitude? Stating facts is giving you “attitude” you’re just mad because I’m saying the reason you’re successful with online dating is because you’re a really good looking white guy (you haven’t denied it). Funny how every white guy says the exact same thing…
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:32 PM
1

I do that already, not to make others happy but it’s who I am as a person. The difference is I’m black and I’m assuming you’re white and on top of that a really good looking white guy so your experience will be much better than mine. Not sulking but it’s the truth whether you want to admit it or not, I’m a realist and don’t pretend to live in a fantasy life.
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:20 PM
-2

Step 1. Be attractive Step 2. Don’t be unattractive Why do really good looking guys give dating advice? Your looks are doing 90% of the work
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:56 PM
1

That’s why this subreddit is confusing. Most of it is bs, but I find it entertaining that’s why I read it
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:17 PM
1

idk why people are downvoting you, lol you’re right
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:54 AM
1

You need to physically touch her that’s the difference. Be socially aware/read body language and be a man and touch her. Start with touching her forearm (read reception) grab her hand to show her some bs you make up (again slowly physically escalating) then arm around her (clear positive reception) touch her thigh repeat same process until you kiss her (again read the situation/positive reception from her). Remember direct eye contact, no looking away when she talks to you or you’re talking to h…
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:40 PM
1

Never ask her if you can kiss her. Feel the moment and tell her you want to kiss her, then go for it. I’ve never asked a girl to kiss her because it ruins the mood and masculine frame you have and developed with her.
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:09 PM
2

No she won’t
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:12 PM
0

Great now have fun working out while she’s there
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:51 PM
1

It’s facts, not a defeatist attitude.
/r/seduction03/08/21 02:00 AM
1

I read most of your post that’s how I knew and yes it is weird. If my friend was having a girl over, for obvious reasons, I’m not gonna hang out with them. You said he’s a scrawny neurotic Indian and he’s getting new “attractive girls” all the time huh, you really expect me to believe you?
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:24 PM
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No I’m not gonna read all that because it’s a derivative of different shit that’s been said a thousand times. And I don’t believe you regarding your Indian friend because you’re gonna go visit your friend when he has a new girl in his bedroom? That’s weird and on top of that if he’s neurotic, that will definitely not help in terms of getting girls. And guys lie about how many girls they have been with all the time.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:12 PM
-1

Sure he does
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:27 PM
7

Be an attractive white male/w good social skills and decent pics and you’ll be fine, basically sums up this post.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:27 AM
16

Because if it’s a first date, do something where it’s low investment while doing something and actually talking. Way more memorable than some basic generic dinner for a first date.
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:31 AM
20

Don’t go to a restaurant for a first date.
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:43 AM
1

You’re not in an exclusive relationship so don’t stress to much about it. When you guys do have fun together make it enjoyable so she’ll remember it and she will think about you. Do you, don’t over think.
/r/seduction20/07/21 10:07 PM
3

Watch porn to know some moves/understand rhythm fr it helps. Don’t stress about performance anxiety, you wanna lose your virginity right? You might cum early, you might not, however with anything your sex game will improve with practice. You’re the man and you gotta control the sex. It’s natural to worry about the performance, but you gotta be confident in the bedroom as you are with women in terms of socializing. If the sex is bad, don’t stress just laugh about it when you reflect and think to …
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:25 PM
3

Yes it is.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:22 PM
1

Additionally she could just be a dry/bad texter and even if that’s the case you have to set up a meet w her ASAP to see if she fr or not.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:12 PM
1

Ask her to meet up ASAP then, if she dry through text don’t try to force it. If she says anything but yes she looking for attention/validation, drop her (if you do she might to try to bait you to respond ie potential text starter or a picture) if you’re having doubts trust your gut and be straightforward w her and tell her I want to to meet w you and if she gives you bs that confirms you’re suspicion.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:10 PM
1

Warm a girl up to you first through text ie ask about her, keep it general and brief (ask more detail for when you see her in person, more topics of convo if you meet them and branch out from there), tease/flirt w her (ask open ended questions ( are you a trouble maker or some shit like that) but you have to control the convo somewhat and lead it somewhere) main goal giving her the image of a confident guy not afraid to push boundaries (obviously has to grow progressively based on her reaction a…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:55 PM
1

“Yes they do. I’m a black male better looking, taller, better social skills and girls go after my average white guy friends. It’s crazy, they are more racist when it comes to dating then guys are. It’s a shitty reality and don’t take dating advice from white guys.” This is my og comment where did I say women are racist for not appreciating my social skills? And refusing to date someone because of their preconceived notions about me and my skin colour is racist. And no those 4 paragraphs didnt se…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:12 PM
1

Ahh yes because you can change your physical body ie fat to muscular just like you can change your skin colour. Great comparison. Such a stupid argument and people who say this are generally naive and ignorant.
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:04 PM
2

How am I acting entitled exactly? Op asked if his race/ non white men face a harder challenge then white men do and yes they do. I don’t need no white boy telling me different or “just work on your game”. You wrote 4 paragraphs and still said nothing of importance. You don’t know me at all, so don’t speak about me. Me calling you a “white boy” is racist? What a joke. I’m telling Op the harsh reality that his race will be a major factor as to why he’s hardly getting any dates compared to white gu…
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:44 PM
1

I’m 6’4, athletic/muscular body, great jawline, proper hygiene/dress well, got great hair, excellent social skills. Yeah you’re probably right, I’m an ugly mf. My skin colour has nothing to do with anything, right. Thanks for your valuable input.
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:23 PM
1

I’m not confused at all, I’m speaking facts. So you’re telling me non white men have equal advantage in dating than white men?
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:13 PM
3

Okay there white boy, you don’t know me at all so don’t speak about me. You’re triggered cause you got an advantage in the dating game in general so you try to deny it by saying to me “clearly I’m not as good looking” or “I have the social skills of a 12 year old”, get the fuck outta here.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:26 AM
1

Well if you are considering moving keep in touch and if not don’t, there’s no point.
/r/seduction16/07/21 06:14 PM
8

Be prepared to be rejected because of your skin colour. Look at women and if they look at you and you understand subtle eye contact/body language and they look receptive approach and if not don’t. Saves you a lot of time. I’m a black male as well and you pick up on things when it comes to approaching women, it will be easier for white guys-so don’t take advice from them because it’s a totally different dynamic.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:27 PM
2

Don’t waste your time on pua, they are wack/creepy mfs who lie.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:24 PM
1

Are you planning on moving to where she is? If you are, setup a date via text/facetime and if not, just move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:22 PM
2

Yes they do. I’m a black male better looking, taller, better social skills and girls go after my average white guy friends. It’s crazy, they are more racist when it comes to dating then guys are. It’s a shitty reality and don’t take dating advice from white guys.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:39 PM
0

Don’t take advice from white guys about dating, totally different ball game. Same fundamentals but different dynamics and more hurdles to overcome as a black man.
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:37 PM
1

Don’t buy it for her.
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:02 PM
2

The difference is men don’t care as much about race than women do and this has been demonstrated through various experiments ie speed dating and online statistics.
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:18 AM
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Racial dating “preferences” haha let’s just call it what it is: racism. Out here in the western part of the world, in general women of all races go after white guys numerous dating studies have shown this. I’m guessing you’re attracted to white guys?
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:19 AM
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According to dating statistics we’re not and I don’t blame my skin colour at all, I love it. It just sucks that it puts me at disadvantage.
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:06 AM
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Nah it’s just where I am, there’s more of them. And all the other “non-white” women are usually with white guys too from what I’ve seen over time on campus or in the city.
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:51 PM
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Well that’s my point, having game and all that won’t help if you’re not attractive and I think it’s a disservice to guys who aren’t attractive that game is all you need to get women and that’s not the case especially in this time.
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:25 PM
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Bruh this whole post was an L, I was cringing. First date should be low effort ie coffee going to a park or grabbing some ice cream then talking and shooting the shit. YOU have to escalate physical contact on the date ie grabbing her hand, waist etc, read the body language. If she’s feeling you, kiss her man don’t be scared, girls will not initiate, you’re the man and have to do it. Second date again should be low effort, go for a hike, kayak etc something where you’re having fun, not a fucking …
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:17 PM
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If you’re attractive they will give you time of day and if you’re not attractive then you’re a creep, therefore don’t ask women on Reddit if they like being cold approached. If you’re “conventionally attractive” ie being white, tall, decent face and good body then you’re set and don’t got nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:03 PM
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You guys seem to forget that being attractive is key because girls will tell their friends about the guys they are talking to/seeing and lowkey want to brag about how hot he is, therefore being attractive is the main thing. Obviously being socially inept is another major factor but attractiveness usually trumps all.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:00 PM
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Funny how I knew you were a white guy.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:41 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:06 AM
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Additionally I’m not looking for sympathy or any of that shit, just advice on how guys that aren’t white navigate through the bs that is “racial preferences” from girls.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:03 PM
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Because working out is a guaranteed result, not going out constantly hitting on girls which is time consuming and does usually lead to nowhere because I have done it. And based on your initial paragraph I can deduce that you’re probably a white guy and approaching and the whole dating game for you compared to non-white men is different.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:00 PM
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WeakEmu8 is some triggered white guy and to stupid to see the point you’re making. No one is forcing everyone to find every race attraction but when your thought process is muddled by racist views based on society etc and that’s what makes you not wanna date someone of a different skin colour, you’re a racist, there’s no question about that and some people are to stupid to realize that.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:54 PM
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No that’s a stupid comparison, we are talking about something you cannot control ie skin colour. Not whether someone wants to become a man or woman, not the same thing alongside with the whole gay thing does it make me homophobic if I refuse to date one? Stupidest fucking argument that people bring up.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:51 PM
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No my point is women’s “preferences” come from media and external factors, in this case we’re talking about women. When numerous dating studies have shown that most women except black women respond mostly to white men in general. You’re first paragraph is kinda of meaningless and doesn’t really address my post. The second paragraph is kind of vague and doesn’t really offer any insight. I’m asking advice from men more specifically non-white or non-white passing men who have dealt with what I’m th…
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:14 AM
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Haha thanks and it’s not only white women I’m attracted too there’s other races as well. I don’t dm that often, just here and there. I don’t wanna be the guy spamming girls dms shits time consuming and usually leads no where and as far as irl not that often. The only chance would prob be the patio where I can meet girls and even then they’re with their friends and or family and with covid these girls have more of a bigger excuse to not wanna talk or meet. And idk I think that whole “muscular bla…
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:07 AM
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Quality women become that level as they get older, don’t get me wrong there are quality women in their early 20s (hard to find though). I agree location does matter and the environment the woman grew up with will matter in terms of this shit.
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:07 AM
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Yes are you stupid? Media and society throughout time have enforced this based on where they are through different means based on the time. Thanks for the input angry white guy.
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:04 AM
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Humans aren’t ice cream, not a good analogy and tbh I don’t believe your post. I have to disagree, thanks for the input. And yeah I’m outside, go to the gym have a good social life always up and doing things. But my point is racial preferences will matter and that is something I can’t control, maybe how they feel about me when interacting with me, but if they even see a black guy ie me for example some will be turned off. That’s the bs I hate and does discourage who wouldn’t? I try to not let it…
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:02 AM
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Ahh yes because you know me so well. Your reply: “Well based on your post…” Save it. Ik how the game works and always bettering myself in all aspects, but you notice shit and I try to ignore but it does get to you. Knowing that skin colour will put non-white or non white passing men at a disadvantage in terms of dating and this is something we have to embrace and I’m looking for some advice as to how they overcame shit and based on the replies most guys are relating and I’m appreciating the advi…
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:55 AM
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Apparently you didn’t read it. “Now, I am not a try hard when it comes to to girls and believe in always bettering yourself financial, physical, mental and socially.” That’s how I’m overcoming it and it’s a continuous process. I am not part of the feminist movement or belong any sort of group like that. It’s just the fact some white guys get triggered when it comes to telling them they have a inherent general advantage in terms of dating. You should read my other replies and no where am I compla…
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:39 AM
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Yes sir I agree, you gotta keep at it and I’m glad you doing better keep it up. At least you know where I’m coming from and some people cough white guys cough, can’t accept the fact that skin colour will be put as at an disadvantage in terms of dating.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:34 AM
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Fr and when white guys see that they have a general advantage when it comes to dating then get triggered (it’s laughable). Ik how the dating game works and that’s why I spend everyday bettering myself academically, financially, physically/mentally, socially and developing my own character they tell me to better myself. Like stfu
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:27 AM
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Ah okay I gotchu man and I’m glad you’re doing better. Thanks for the words man, keep doing you.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:10 PM
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Yea the older the women get the less they care about it and I agree with you and I’m always striving to better myself in all aspects but when you don’t see results based on some stupid shit it does get to you you know. Anyways thank you brother.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:08 PM
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Oh when it comes to dms I don’t give af lol and I don’t let it make me insecure about it, it just sucks. I just gotta keep going and striving to better myself always, it’s a process. Thanks brother.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:07 PM
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Yessir thanks fam.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:05 PM
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Yea fr man I feel that and have gone through the same shit hence my post about advice that mans could give on what made them get better and eye opener how?
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:22 PM
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You’re repeating what’s been said a million times before and I know this and I’m not blaming the world for any of this. It’s the reality we live in and I’ve accepted it but it’s shit and what phrases am I parroting exactly? And I asked where in my post am I whining and complaining? You haven’t shown that. I’m not tryna get into a debate about this with you.
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:21 PM
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Bro I’m not denying that but we can’t ignore the fact that my skin colour will always be an adherence to dating success. Dating studies doesn’t favour the non white men, but it is a good reference to have. I’m a computer science guy and that’s how my brain works, using reference points and data to create solutions and make the best decision based on the available data and etc and I don’t read it very often but I have briefly read it and and it sure does get to your head. Ik I have to keep strivi…
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:18 PM
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Look at my replies to other commenters, where am I whining? Triggered white guy, I can sense it. And I just reread my post and where is the whining? Are you mad because I’m saying you may have an inherent advantage over girls than I do because of my skin colour?
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:45 PM
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I’m in Ontario and location does play a factor I can’t deny that. And hey if you’re doing well that’s all that matters, kudos. Wher in Europe are you?
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:43 PM
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Yes because the women from 19-23 aren’t going for guys in there late 20s and early 30s lol, women who are in there late 20s are because they’re looking for established guys hoping for something long term.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:42 PM
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Triggered white guy alert. Mf I know you gotta take charge of your life and make things happen that’s what I’ve been doing and learning since I was a young kid. I’ve been grinding my whole life so don’t tell me to stop whining. It just sucks that with all this hard work I’ve been putting in my friends who are white and don’t have much going on there in life are getting more female attention than I am. I hate complaining I despise it, I’d rather find a solution or a compromise but it gets to my h…
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:36 PM
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Okay you’re a troll, get outta here. You’re making no sense rn. Let me guess you’re a white guy triggered?
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:29 PM
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Yea man I agree we always gotta keep pushing through it but it’s disheartening you know and it does sometimes take a toll on your mental well being and I try not to let it get to me but it’s sometimes difficult yk. And haha yea man. I just hate when when I get white guys who be like just be yourself and confident, like bro what the fuck you think I’m doing, most of these girls don’t want me cause I’m black haha you don’t have to deal with that hurdle cause western media has propped you up to be …
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:28 PM
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For the most part yes especially when it comes to race, however I don’t want to get into this discussion with you.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:24 PM
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Thanks brother appreciate it and yeah I get that already and actively doing that. But it’s fucking difficult frfr sometimes you get lucky you meet the “right” person that will fuck with you as a person not based on skin colour. I don’t want a girl to be with me just because I’m black (and sure yea I may be able to sleep with her but it’s like whatever) same as I don’t want a girl who won’t be with me because I’m black. I find it to be a tough spot to be in, if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:04 PM
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We’ll that’s why I sort of like online dating because if a girl matches w me she somewhat finds me attractive or if it was an accidental match lol. In contrast irl it would be way different obviously however my thing is will they “give” me a chance irl? Me already knowing the online statistical data. It’s fucking difficult to navigate sometimes and yea sure I’m tall and that’s great but it hasn’t really done much for me.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:59 PM
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Sure there can be great eastern Asian women however in general when it comes to dating they are on my no go because ik it’s a waste of time.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:54 PM
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Racial preferences are largely determined from society/media and external influences, why do non white women go after white guys then? Just say you’re a racist and move on if you can’t accept someone because of their skin colour if all else is the same.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:51 PM
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Oh Ik I avoid eastern asian women like the plague, they are white cock worshippers so I don’t ever have any intention of ever approaching them irl or online haha, it’s harsh but it’s true. And yea I agree with the hurdles and shit whereas (I hate saying this but it’s a good benchmark to reference) white guys usually don’t have to. And yea there’s that idk if I could deal w arts girls or don’t know where to find them and have zero interest in taking any art classes, however that is an option. I’m…
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:49 PM
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Appreciate it man and nah not really, I know in my past I’ve taken a lot of Ls and learned and improved on that being oblivious and all that shit and now I’m more keen with it, however it’s the same shit but I’m more aware of this society and the bs I have to deal with to get any sort of girls where white guys don’t. It really is frustrating ong.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:43 PM
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Waterloo, Ontario
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:42 PM
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Thanks fam and this is not some sappy post where I’m looking for sympathy, I’m pointing out the shit I’ve seen for years and I don’t like to complain but damn it does get to your head you know.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:41 PM
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Nah I get that and I try to not let it get to my head but goddamn it’s difficult sometimes you know haha and where I live it’s around 80% white so it’s kinda hard to broaden my scope. And the black women I do see are usually really overweight irl and online overweight plus the filters (girls in general use this however it’s crazy with them from what I’ve personally seen) and all that shit. From the really attractive black girls I do see they’re with white guys lol. Shits tough man frfr. Apprecia…
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:40 PM
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