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[β]KingoftheNorth412 70 points71 points72 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Treat her like any other woman. Youβre not THAT much younger than her.
[β]alakhdar100 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I know right!! But still I just want to make sure if there is any differences in the mindset of older women
[β]KingoftheNorth412 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Every woman is different. Be yourself, see if thereβs a connection, if there is use what you know to get you where you want to be.
[β]alakhdar100 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotcha man, thanks
[β]blck_mambaa 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She knows the game bro lol, be calm and youβll be fine
[β]finegameofnil_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop calling her a chick.
[β]Theory_Agile 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you're over thinking it dude she's 28 not 38,
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[β]alakhdar100 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you man, ur comment is such a help.
[β]Slith_81 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been off the dating scene for over a decade, wife clubbed me over the head and I've been a prisoner ever since. π (Kidding of course)
Im not sure how helpful this will be, but I treat them the same as anyone else. I've dated lots of older woman, and my wife is actually 23 years older than me. What I found appealing about older woman, likely a reason I dated them, was I found them to be less shallow, and more mature. Granted, I've known immature older women and mature younger woman as well. Your mileage may vary.
Overall, just treat it as no different, you'll either hit it off, or not, same as if she was younger or the same age.
[β]lookintothefuturem8 4 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
I had dates with 34, 30, 28, 35 year olds. Im 24. None of them lead to sex, which makes me sad
[β]alakhdar100 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What's mistakes u did that prevented you from get laid with them?
[β]Slith_81 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Older women may not be looking for a quickie or one night stand, really depends on the woman. In my experience, the older than are, the less they are looking for just a piece, or a boy toy. They will likely be looking for a real relationship.
Of course this can vary, there are some older woman just on the prowl. I've encountered both, but as always, be careful with the prowler type. Don't want to catch anything you'll regret.
[β]lookintothefuturem8 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
If that were the case, they would not have gone on a date with me in the first place
[β]Slith_81 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I said, it all depends, but the ones I've dated weren't looking for that. I'm sure there are some that are. I can't say as to why it didn't work out for you in those situations, sometimes it did for me, more often than not it didn't.
[β]lookintothefuturem8 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I felt like less in control of the situation with them. The sheer fact that they are ahead of me in life and career makes it somewhat awkward and makes me less confident too.
[β]anamertis 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Could u elaborate on the shit tests she threw at you
She asked for my age and i told her Im 23, she gave my a sarcastic smile and kinda told me im just a kid, i asked back about her age and told me she is 28 so i gave her the same sarcastic smile telling her I taught you are very old but turned out ur a kid too, forwarded it by don't worry I won't keep jumping when I walk with, we both laughed about it and kept the conversation going on.
[β]MmmNeapolitan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's older than you. Ok? And?
[β]Jay-Ames 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude. She is a few years older than you. She is not from your grandmother's generation. Just do what you normally do.
[β]HughBeaumont500 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In your mind, convince yourself that she's 23. Then just proceed to act and behave as naturally as you can.
You can choose how you want to feel about it.
Mind over matter
If you don't mind - it don't matter
[β]MiddNightt69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Would to see an update on how it goes!
I'll catch you up don't worry.
[β]vipul21dec 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just an advice, don't let her know you're younger than her. Once a girl lost interest in a conversation when she got to know I was younger than her.
[β]alakhdar100 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But she already knew that I'm younger than her yet she agreed to meet.
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