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Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-15T00:44:23+00:00

Bruh, if you're going to date a stripper, you need to be ready for the fact that other guys are going to get fairly intimate with her. If you can't handle that, then you shouldn't be dating a stripper in the first place.

RainbowChardonnay · 2021-12-15T00:20:56+00:00

You got mad at her for doing her job?

2021-12-15T02:18:30+00:00

You’re a fucking retard with no self respect smh

ScreamingButtholes · 2021-12-15T02:07:09+00:00

To clarify she is a stripper

All I needed to read.

Do not have relationships with strippers unless you know 1000% that you’re okay with her being intimate with strangers and even then I’d be against it.

reallyred11 · 2021-12-15T04:11:53+00:00

1) you didn’t “put up with the stripping”. you chose to date a stripper. 2) you can’t seriously date someone in that field if you haven’t addressed your insecurities. 3) bro…. you fell in love with a stripper, you have to know what comes with that.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-15T00:33:42+00:00

So many mistakes:

You got mad at her for doing her job.
You read her private conversations.
You did not respect her enough to give her space.
You became insecure.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-12-15T02:55:08+00:00

You want it rough? Okay.

For starters, this isn't a post for seduction. This has nothing to do with seduction. Take this to dating advice.

Ffs, you're dating a stripper and you're mad that she was doing her job? And you're mad that she was honest enough to tell you that a friend was going to see her? Would you rather she lied about it?

Folks roasted you already for the rest of it. I got nothing more to say.

Spinuchi · 2021-12-15T00:13:30+00:00

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ImkindaUpset · 2021-12-15T08:25:52+00:00

Here’s some opinions:

You messed up by having sex with her that much, which led to her losing attraction. How? Bc there’s no push pull going on. Over saturation makes things feel invaluable. Women control sex, and you were taking every opportunity to have sex, then who’s the leader in this context? She is.
Shes likely testing you (and likely has been fucking/seeing this “friend” for awhile now) as a result of point 1. She probably, either consciously or unconsciously, felt the power dynamic shift. She had to test you to see. Remember: if she mentions a “friend” then it’s a good indication that your not leading. But, she’s a stripper so she’s getting seduced by men with money all the time which is why you don’t date……..strippers.
Get your stuff from her place ASAP. Your words don’t hold up until you get your stuff back. Don’t let your stuff become a reason to still stay in contact (I’ve done this before).

All in all, keep your head up and take the time to write down what you learned. Good luck bro.

Edit: organization

Phoshow1111 · 2021-12-15T01:31:16+00:00

Nothing wrong with dating a stripper. You fucked up by thinking it was exclusive though. She’s a community broad and she belongs to the community. Now go out and do whatever you did to get this one and replace her. You already fucked her. There’s nothing you need from her.

bee_eazsy · 2021-12-15T01:07:35+00:00

I mean she for the streets big dawg!

ZeroFokksFuel · 2021-12-15T01:19:04+00:00

Stopped reading after stripper. Move on and find a decent girl, srs.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-12-15T00:31:50+00:00

You really did nothing wrong here, everybody got their vices, hers was getting paid to take clothes off. The only mistake was leaving stuff at her place.

SR__E · 2021-12-15T04:01:01+00:00

Tbh, she has probably already slept with the friend to "process her emotions". She's for the streets, let her remember you when she's at rock bottom. Keep your chin up champ, find a new muse that'll erase any trace of them. Remember your worth. Who knows what they spoke about that night. There are no coincidences.

2021-12-15T01:07:00+00:00

I wouldn't wait for her. You fucked up by dating a stripper but by the end of the day you're still the man. Kick her shit out and never look back. Next time, find yourself a decent girl.

Stujitsu2 · 2021-12-15T08:59:21+00:00

Everyone already told you how you fucked up but...all you really need to do is back off and let her reach out to you when she is ready.

Shadow__Account · 2021-12-15T15:57:00+00:00

How about telling her you really care about your relationship and for her to contact you in the future if she wants to work things out and leaving the ball in her court after that. I feel like that isn’t needy, but leaves the door open for her to contact you without losing face.

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