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That’s exactly what I’m afraid of when I think about cold approaching
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:31 AM
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Any physical fitness will help but I imagine if you’re in desperate need of a confidence boost then MMA is the way to go. It’ll humble you real quick but if you stick with it you’re mindset will take a 180 for the better.
/r/seduction13/01/22 12:09 AM
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Google “rec sports leagues near me” I did this with bowling and sand volleyball
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:49 AM
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Fair enough, I just go to the ones that aren’t as crowded.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:40 AM
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I just go because I want to dance and that’s enough fun for me, hooking up is just a bonus.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:35 AM
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Nothing really, she’s there to have fun and dance/makeout with the most attractive guy that comes up to her. What you should’ve done is move on, forget about her, and hit on someone else and have your own fun. Don’t let some rando ruin your new year’s eve. I used to get hung up like you when I failed with a girl but now I just brush it off and have my own fun and it’s been a lot more successful. Sometimes they even see you enjoying yourself without her and will come around.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:36 PM
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Ah gotcha yeah kinda weird she brought it up but I mean can you handle knowing she was promiscuous at a certain time?
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:31 AM
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/r/retroactivejealousy
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:30 AM
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Don’t 👏 ask 👏 about 👏 past 👏 sexual 👏 experiences
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:53 AM
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Eww
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:51 AM
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What the fuck 😂 what do you think this sub is for? Creating a red flag for guys?
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:50 AM
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She wanted sexual experiences with other men before getting serious. Can’t blame her but if OP isn’t cool with that then it’s going to drive him crazy, there’s a whole sub for this which is a depressing black hole.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:48 AM
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You think 😂
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:02 PM
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Fucking yikes, read all your messages and they tell me all I need to know about why you’re struggling with women. You need serious help fixing your personality and issues with women. For now I’m going to just report you so that you don’t get this sub banned like /r/incels
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:24 PM
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I think they’re doing a good job overall with revamping the wiki and deleting the negative posts but there’s still comments that just are no help to anybody.
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:29 PM
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It seems like there’s a drastic increase recently with incel-esque posts. Like guys saying shit like “none of this matters, only jacked chads get girls” this sub should is about self-improvement not whining and wallowing in failure. Makes me worried about this sub being banned due to them because there’s good information to be found here.
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:24 PM
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I absolutely think it happens but for the guys it happens to they have a lot more self improvement to go through and I don’t think they should give up because they’re not a “chad”
/r/seduction15/12/21 07:36 PM
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But at least they put up a fight which is far better than waiving the white flag. Based on the comments I’ve seen from you you would say to a guy if they’re ugly that they should give up on dating completely and accept their life. That’s depressing.
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:28 PM
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That’s a good point. I approach it more from this angle: maybe you’re not as good looking as other men but if you’re funny, adventurous, and have a lot to offer then believe you’re a catch. Problem is a lot of guys could actually be decent looking but they believe they’re ugly and then just kills attraction.
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:25 PM
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If a guy crumbles because another guy next to him is better looking then he is not a confident man. Like what sub are we in? Why does this thread sound like /r/incels?
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:22 PM
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Sorry but that’s is a loser’s mentality
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:40 PM
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Unless you look like you got bashed in the face with a shovel then it’s absolutely possible to make yourself an attractive man, the only person in the way is you and your insecurities.
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:54 AM
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You have to believe that you're above average. That mindset will carry you far.
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:32 AM
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To clarify she is a stripper All I needed to read. Do not have relationships with strippers unless you know 1000% that you’re okay with her being intimate with strangers and even then I’d be against it.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:07 AM
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We can’t really do anything with this. What are you saying to these women? What’s your body language like?
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:04 AM
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Started actively working on and fixing my poor social skills. I started talking to everyone: guys at the gym, cashier, asking someone what they think of clothing I’m about to buy, people next to me at a bar, complimenting people etc. Saw a tip that really helped I saw on /r/SocialSkills was going into every situation with a “personality mask” that I’m going to be a social fun man instead of the typical shy person that avoids conversation, over time it just becomes apart of you. Now if I go on a …
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:27 PM
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Damn this is the reality check I needed, been trying to “be comfortable alone” for 5 years now
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:35 AM
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Sometimes this sub is actually funny as fuck lol
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:06 AM
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Never send a dick pick even if she asks for one 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:55 AM
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It can’t be this difficult to get laid god damn.
/r/seduction20/08/21 12:05 AM
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It's just going to happen. To lower the chances of it happening avoid having conversations over text and try to ask them out ASAP.
/r/seduction09/08/21 03:12 AM
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I stopped because it started making me jaded and hating women. I find myself much happier and level headed once I deleted them for good.
/r/seduction02/08/21 11:50 PM
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There’s a lot of good posts here but then there’s also a lot of posts like this one.
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:24 PM
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Man, we got people who can’t even talk to women and you’re out here haha
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:07 PM
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Attention or to be nice
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:28 PM
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I have no problem asking women out. I need to get out of my head when it comes to approaching someone new and talking to them. With other guys it’s fine but it’s been a work in progress gaining the balls to walk up to a girl and speaking to them. I’m attacking it head on now though by pushing my comfort zone.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:09 AM
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Nice, that's the mentality I'm trying to pick up. Kinda like what Mark Manson says about polarizing to weed out the ones who don't like me and finding the ones who do. My biggest hurdle has always been approaching and talking to women I don't know. Every girl I've had a relationship with or slept with has come from them making the first move.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:24 AM
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Yoga Dance Sand volleyball or any other coed sport Cooking class Music classes Any kind of class really
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:17 PM
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Uhh yeah gonna be straight-up but you were dead in the water with the horny-text and then you sank even further with each subsequent text. Tip for next time something like this happens: immediately go to the gym and work off all the testosterone so you don’t say something needy again.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:14 PM
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First of all what are your passions? What have you always wanted to do but haven’t yet for one reason or another? Write a list and start crossing things off until you find your purpose. I refuse to believe you have zero passions or hobbies. Push the boundaries of your comfort zone until you have thicc skin. To me it sounds like you’re living too safe and without risk. Second it sounds like you’re in your head. You have to just say what’s on your mind (as long as it’s not massively offensive), do…
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:39 PM
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Huh? I’m quitting porn because it gives quick dopamine rush. Without it I masturbate but I’m still thinking about whatever girl I’m talking to instead of the porn I’m watching.
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:55 PM
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I’m on 5 weeks now of not watching it
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:53 PM
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Well I still masturbate lol but I just do it in a healthier way(?) I just use my imagination now and think of girls I’m talking to instead of something “fake” online
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:41 PM
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I’m pretty good at doing this. Like once I’m talking to someone it’s easy but striking up a conversation in the first place just makes me feel like I’ll come off as a creep.
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:33 PM
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You just know when the right time is. If she looks at your eyes and holds it there for a second or two that’s her telling you to go for the kiss. If you read it wrong she’ll just turn her head and you kiss her cheek but do not make it awkward.
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:51 PM
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Quitting porn right now for this reason.
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:33 PM
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My question is why would anyone want to peak so early? Seems sad to be on a downward slope the next however many years.
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:55 PM
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Doing stuff outside of the house. Now having the balls to talk to random women is what I’m trying to fix.
/r/seduction05/07/21 07:51 PM
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So what happens when you start dating someone? You continue putting on a charade for the sake of getting the girl? Fuck that. I’m going to continue to be myself and find someone who accepts that. Main point should be to live an attractive lifestyle that women want to be apart of. If you live a low value life of playing video games all day then you’re probably not going to be very successful.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:41 PM
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One of the main points in Models too
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:31 AM
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Yes! Playing into these games is low value and needy.
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:14 PM
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Being straightforward is the way to go about it though. The problem us you cared too much about the rejection, it should be jf she rejects you then so what, onto the next she’s the one missing out. Like you should not be investing this much energy into someone who blatantly disrespects you.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:07 AM
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Sand volleyball
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:53 AM
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Damn what did the ‘nerds’ do to you?
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:17 PM
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You have to be trolling, I don’t want to believe you’re serious haha.
/r/seduction27/05/21 04:34 PM
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Like 80% of the time I’d say but it also goes for guys rejecting women. Looks will get your foot in the door but personality keeps you in the room.
/r/seduction26/05/21 04:22 PM
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I can barely afford one wife
/r/seduction20/05/21 10:41 PM
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How long do you do this for at one time? 30 seconds or us it just a constant state of focusing on your peripherals?
/r/seduction20/05/21 04:35 PM
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Oh god I relate to this so much. I’m a mechanical engineer and I treat dating like some kind of mathematical equation like I have to text this specific message, do this specific thing, to get them to like me but that doesn’t work. Hard to relate to people sometimes. But if other engineers can attract women then it’s not impossible for me or us.
/r/seduction10/03/21 02:03 AM
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Step 1: Don’t
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:47 AM
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Met my now ex-girlfriend literally the weekend after I said fuck dating and deleted all my apps and just wanted to have fun on a guys night out. So I legitimately believe there’s some truth to the mindset thing.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:41 AM
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Hate to hijack but can you explain how you got your ducks in a row? This is a big thing I’m trying to figure out after a recent breakup. I’ve tried dating and nothing feels the same to me right now. I workout, have a good job, friends but the woman aspect is severely lacking.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:40 AM
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Combination of looks+good social skills but mostly social skills (hot take). A person who knows how to talk and be charismatic can command the attention of the room. I knew one guy who was pretty overweight but because he knew how to talk to people and had the balls to approach anyone and everyone he got laid the most out of all of us in college.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:37 AM
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Step one of being Alpha: Never use the word Alpha.
/r/seduction27/02/21 12:41 PM
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Yoga is great and all but I never bust a nut doing it. Sex is overrated unless it’s with someone you really click with. That shit can’t be beat.
/r/seduction24/02/21 09:47 PM
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Text her, make some inside jokes from meeting her (hopefully you talked to her before hooking up), and then when the iron is hot ask for a date.
/r/seduction21/02/21 02:59 AM
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Shia Labeouf
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:04 AM
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By dating multiple people? Having an eventful life? Idk I don’t go out of my way to make anyone jealous, I just do me.
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:58 AM
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Nike
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:56 AM
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I have no clue how to even start with daygame. I’m in a place where nobody is really walking around outside and if I went to target I feel like I’d get kicked out or just bother women. I see women on other subs talk about how much they hate being approached.
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:41 AM
1

Woah woah woah, you made dinner together and made no move? She probably thinks you’re a homosexual now not even joking.
/r/seduction17/02/21 02:39 AM
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☝️ Get under a new chick OP
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:30 AM
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No no no no no no no Also you haven’t seen your girlfriend in almost a year? You sure she’s your girlfriend?
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:27 AM
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Yikes
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:26 AM
3

They want you to pay for gold but I have a hard time trusting that paying for fucking tinder will do anything lol
/r/seduction14/02/21 03:52 PM
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Oh shit barbershops aren’t even open for you? That blows. But yeah definitely get some solid pics and once covid clears up hit the clubs hard. White girls at clubs go crazy for black dudes I’m telling you.
/r/seduction14/02/21 03:46 PM
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I have the golden ticket being 6’4 and white and it’s still rough on tinder. I think it’s just how the app is designed. Entice you with a babe when you have no matches, put your card to the bottom of the pile when you get more matches.
/r/seduction14/02/21 03:44 PM
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With you there man. I workout 4 days per week minimum and try to eat healthy and there’s no way I’m settling for someone who can’t get their ass off the couch and break a sweat a few times a week.
/r/seduction14/02/21 03:42 PM
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Yeah dude I’ve always heard tinder sucks for minorities especially for Asian guys. And with clubs closed down it’s gonna be tough otherwise I’d say hit the clubs and you’ll have chicks falling over backwards for you. I got the golden ticket being 6’4 and white and I get hogs on tinder all the time, still tough on there for me. I think it’s just how the app is designed. They tease you with a hot girl when you have no matches left and then when you get more matches they put your card at the bottom…
/r/seduction14/02/21 03:31 PM
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Mindset really, they should be the ones that should be trying to impress you and convincing you they’re worth your time not the other way around.
/r/seduction13/02/21 06:43 PM
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Well he’s a billionaire so kind of an anomaly there. Billionaires can basically do whatever the fuck they want.
/r/seduction12/02/21 03:27 AM
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Fuck no what’s wrong with you?
/r/seduction10/02/21 02:57 AM
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This is some crazy ass shit hahaha you have to be trolling
/r/seduction09/02/21 09:54 PM
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I used to come here regularly a few years ago and this sub seems wildly different than what I remember. But also there’s not going to be many FR’s when so many places are shutdown and everyone is staying in due to covid.
/r/seduction08/02/21 11:02 PM
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My go to: Stirling Soap company‘s executive man cologne. That shit is a home run every time I wear it.
/r/seduction08/02/21 05:24 PM
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How do you do that during covid. Everything around me is shutdown.
/r/seduction08/02/21 05:21 PM
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Dude take it from me. Flashback 8 years ago when I was a sophomore in high school. This girl was so into me but I was too much of a pussy to ask her out. Same shit happened the next year, didn’t ask out either of them. 8 years later I’m 24 and regret asking them out massively because now I’m behind the eight ball on how to go about dating and am learning how to let my intentions known. So my advice GO FOR IT.
/r/seduction06/02/21 05:02 PM
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Gotcha. I don’t really have many pictures to choose from but I’m planning on asking my brother to take some of me. Idk I don’t really have enough matches to really get a payoff and I send some pretty good messages I feel like you guys would think are good but zero responses. I’m just going to wait until I get some better pictures before I proceed. Can you explain how your experience with investing in yourself went? I’m curious. I just got dumped after a year with a girl and am looking to revamp …
/r/seduction05/02/21 03:39 AM
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The only girl I knew that I could do this to just broke up with me. Just me on my own right now along with my buddies.
/r/seduction05/02/21 03:29 AM
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How do you manage so many dates is my question. I can’t get a single response on these stupid ass apps.
/r/seduction05/02/21 03:26 AM
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Being conservative doesn’t exist unless you’re in the Bible Belt/the south.
/r/seduction04/02/21 03:06 AM
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Only downside is that you have to listen to girls sharing their feelings too. When that happens I focus on imagining them naked on me and that usually goes fine. 🤢🤮
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:38 PM
1

Yeah I would do that first
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:37 PM
1

It’s pretty simple. Gay men have nothing to lose when interacting with women because they don’t want to have sex with them.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:37 PM
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Go to a good salon and ask them to make you look good. Have them take a picture after and then use that.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:33 PM
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Horrible idea
/r/seduction02/02/21 04:22 AM
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This sounded so fucking creepy and bizarre lol. Why do you want to spend time trying to fuck someone who isn’t into men?
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:27 AM
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First of all, your mindset has to be squared away first. If you try to fake a sexy smile you’ll look like a goofball. Act confident, know you’re the man and just smile naturally.
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:20 AM
2

Or get a boat because of the implication
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:19 AM
2

I only prefer women under 5' -Also no man ever
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:29 AM
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This sub is mainly focused on self improvement for men. Seduction also doesn’t stop once a guy is in a relationship, that’s how they get dumped. If it’s going beyond self improvement then there’s a problem.
/r/seduction01/02/21 12:02 AM
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I mean, you do have an agenda.
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:27 PM
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And develop a sense of humor
/r/seduction31/01/21 05:09 AM
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Take an improv class. Seriously.
/r/seduction30/01/21 07:05 PM
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You’re questioning the wrong person dude
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:00 AM
2

Always ask the fisherman how to fish. If a girl finds the guy attractive then it won’t matter so before approaching learn how to look attractive.
/r/seduction26/01/21 05:55 PM
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Sounds like you’re on a good path. Not sure about your city with lockdowns and stuff but I’ve joined some rec basketball leagues where I’ve met some cool people and joined a coed sand volleyball league this past summer that I still keep in touch with. Other suggestions are yoga, dance, cooking classes list goes on. Trick is to pick stuff you’re actually interested in, if you pick something just to hit on chicks they’ll see right through it.
/r/seduction26/01/21 03:47 AM
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Workout 4 times per week at minimum preferably trying to gain some muscle Eat as healthy as you can, lots of fruits and vegetables and protein, and healthy carbs like oatmeal. This should honestly be number 1 because diet matters a fuckton, although I still fail at this sometimes. Get a good haircut. No great clips/sports clips shit, go to a salon or a barber and get a bit pricier but good as hell haircut Wear good fitting clothes that match and goes with your preferred style And obviously pract…
/r/seduction26/01/21 03:27 AM
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