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That sounds like a perfect way to get friendzoned since nothing you described shows you are interested in her as more than a friend. This is why you don’t take advice from women. the reality is the lines i have said have worked for me and they are how i got a girlfriend, because apparently not every girl is a nun who is disgusted about the idea of sex.
/r/seduction04/11/22 03:25 PM
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Rule: Don’t go for phone numbers on the club. Take her to your place to have sex, or move on.
/r/seduction02/11/22 02:37 AM
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Yeah, whatever you go through, never tell them. Women who aren’t your official girlfriends don’t want to hear your problems, they don’t want to pity you, and don’t wanna see your weak side. And even if they were your official partner, then they also don’t wanna hear you whining, and seeking emotional support…, They want to hear what plan you have to solve to your situation instead, they don’t want weakness ever. Weakness kills attraction, it turns you into their platonic best friend at best. Tha…
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:59 PM
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When you stop texting for 4 days like that, you lose the momentum you had with her, her mood changes, and things go cold, so any promises to meet up don’t go anywhere. Your mistake is assuming that when a girl is interested in the moment, she will still be interested a few days later. That’s usually a huge gamble with women. With women you have to strike when the iron is hot, and if you let the iron get cold, the window of opportunity to escalate or make something happen is gone. If you can’t me…
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:35 AM
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“I don’t like learning to play instruments, therefore no one else possibly can.” It’s like if a person said “the only reason to learn STEM subjects is to make enough money, so women will want to date and marry you, because no one can possibly like or enjoy such complex boring subjects”
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:47 AM
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No, it’s because young girls are more attracted to guys a bit older than them. Why? Because kids their age tend to be way too immature, and guys slightly older are perceived as real men compared to the kids their age. Girls tend to mature faster than boys which is why they notice these things about their peers their age, and usually prefer dating slightly older.
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:36 AM
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You are extreme believer in AMS a method that gets you rejected 99% of the time? You know, the definition of stupidity is repeating the same thing over and over and expecting different results. The method of saying “i think you are attractive, can i get your number” sucks. It is not seduction, it shows you have no game, you don’t connect with the women, it shows to them that you only care about their bodies and nothing more because you don’t even bother about getting to know them… And women can …
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:05 PM
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Long eye contact before you initiate a conversation is sure way to creep a girl out and make them uncomfortable. Eye contact is something you have to do when you are already talking with her, not before you even start the conversation. If you see a girl you like and wanna talk to her you just do it, you don’t stare from a distance.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:58 PM
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You shouldn’t be the one trying to pressure her into a relationship as that’s feminine behaviour, it should be her who should try to convince you and pressure you into a relationship. She can only do that if you stop trying to make things serious and focus only on having fun, making out without expectations, etc
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:05 PM
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1 - Stop trying to get a girlfriend, and focus only on getting sex without any commitment or feelings involved. Never confess feelings, never ask her to be your girlfriend. 2 - Be willing to lie to them to get what you want, just sex. 3 - Mess with them, go hot and cold, sometimes act interested in them, sometimes to completely cold. 4 - Tease them, provoke them, roast them, make fun of them playfully… 5 - Get a masculine haircut, a nice fade on the sides of your head. 6 - Consider tattoos, pier…
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:16 AM
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No, a girl liking you doesn’t necessarily mean her voice will be higher, that’s just some dumb theory promoted by random gurus.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:38 PM
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If you are trying to seduce girls you need to act in a seductive manner. If you are trying to work and do your job, you need to act in a professional manner. The way you act in different situations has to change, when you want to seduce you play, when you have to work, you don’t play.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:01 PM
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Ok, well this is going off topic from the seduction sub then. This isn’t about shit tests or seducing girls, this is about a woman being a bad person and you not knowing how to stop a bad person from harassing you, regardless of their gender in a work environment, which should probably go into a whole different sub. The seduction sub is about women you see as potential romantic interests, and you just said: But I never saw her in a romantic way, only a collegue
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:39 PM
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If you continue to get disrespected just walk away from them mate or spit in her face. I’m sorry but if you get insulted once i would just leave, i wouldn’t continue to prolong the conversation because the first insult would show that you are not welcome by her, which would explain why she keeps insulting you. It’s because she wants you to leave her alone. And sorry if you are in a work environment then tell the boss, or human resources that she is harassing you. You shouldn’t be trying to hit o…
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:12 PM
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If a woman is insulting you, it means she isn’t interested, why do you care if you are seemingly weak with a girl who doesn’t care whether you are strong or weak? Also, if someone is insulting somebody, it’s obvious that’s gonna piss anybody off, that’s not them being weak for getting pissed. If you call the woman a slut she would also get mad… Does that mean she is weak for getting mad? I don’t think so. People have a right to be respected. People don’t have to pretend it doesn’t affect them wh…
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:54 PM
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There is a difference between shit tests and insults. And it seems like you are confusing the two things as being the same. If a woman says “you are ugly” that’s not a shit test, that’s an insult. You don’t need to tolerate that or try to joke. If a woman says “are you hitting on me?” or “i bet you say that to other girls”. Those are shit tests, that’s not an attack on you, that’s just her trying to figure out if you are honest and genuine about liking her or not which is a legitimate thing to f…
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:37 PM
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Try doing it first in areas where you can just get out of their way immediately. Nothing worst than getting rejected in a place where everyone else will see you getting rejected and be the laugh of the group. That’s why cold approach is better for practice because at least if you fuck up, you can keep going and no one will notice and you won’t be embarrassed. But in a party, you can easily be the laugh of the entire environment. But hey you do you, i talk form experience whereas others here just…
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:53 PM
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Get off your high horse lmao it’s really not that deep
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:50 PM
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So you are completely inexperienced at this, you have no clue on the theory, and want to throw yourself at the highway and start driving? Seems like you will just crash hard. You should at least know the seduction theory in a book like “Mystery method” or Models or something to avoid going completely blind. A few advices given here won’t help you at all, if you are so clueless about how the male and female dynamics work.
/r/seduction27/10/22 06:32 PM
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Weird is just a word to describe situations that go against the norm. The question is not whether something is weird, the question is why do you care if others find it weird? Following their norms isn’t gonna make your life better. You live your life the way you want to, obviously respecting the law, but subjective things like “desires”, “things that attract you”, “things that you like”, etc don’t have to conform to what society deems normal. If something is not considered normal by society, the…
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:37 AM
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Don’t neg or give backhanded compliments, the success rate of those is pretty slim and only works sometimes with really insecure girls that have daddy issues. Use teasing instead, it doesn’t mess with their self esteem or their insecurities, works with confident girls, and it builds attraction much better and far more often.
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:31 AM
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No, you just don’t understand game. You should know before the date why you want to go on a date with her. What is it? Her looks? Her personality? How she makes you feel? If it’s looks that’s a bad answer, if it’s personality you will need to be specific about what aspects of her personality you liked during your first approach. You should read about qualification which is a core concept of seduction, which talks about his in more detail. The other guys who said you should joke have no clue. You…
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:25 PM
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Are you asking how people can still be attracted to other people despite being in a relationship? Because the answer is due to basic human biology. Humans aren’t monogamous by nature, monogamy is just a social construct to give some order to society, but humans can be attracted to many people, despite being in a relationship with one.
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:16 PM
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Every place is low success rate including dating apps, college, parties, volunteering, etc and every other place you mentioned. So that’s not really an argument. Low success rate is normal because you can’t really expect to be liked by a majority of women. But that isn’t an excuse not to approach If you see a girl you like, you approach her period. It’s more important the fact that you approach that the end result itself. Because there is nothing worst than the regret of not trying. I can take r…
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:50 PM
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She already told you she is taken immediately mate. Move on. Body language of a woman is not an indicator of her having romantic interest in you. Lingering around you doesn’t mean she is romantically interested in you. Looking at you is no different than a guy looking at you. Why do you assume that someone looking at you means they want to get romantically involved with you? are we supposed to never look at anyone ever just in case someone interprets that as an indicator of sexual interest? You …
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:57 PM
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You cannot be non-needy while at the same time “needing to win her back over”. Non neediness requires you to have outcome independence, meaning that you don’t give a fuck if you lose her forever. Non neediness also requires you to have other girls (more options) and to stop over analysing your next moves with a girl. If you are trying to calculate what you should do, you are being needy already. The fact that you said it’s an ego thing to get her back, means you have already lost. Ego (or as you…
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:32 PM
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It’s more like at least in this picture you project a lot of sex appeal due to the tattoos, the necklace, and the crop top. It’s not because of your breast.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:28 PM
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She is religious dude. If she is telling you no just stop forcing it. Go for other girls if it’s that important to you to have sex. You have to respect her decision not to have sex, period. If she ever had sex she would just regret it anyways the next day because she would have betrayed herself.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:24 PM
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I think you are right. Autistic people really seem to struggle the most in this area.
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:52 AM
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Being obsessed with a girl is creepy as fuck to them if you are not their boyfriend, and even if you were their boyfriend, it can easily overwhelm them if you act too obsessed. So, first step is to stop obsessing over girls because you will just scare them away if you are obsessed. Obsessions aren’t romantic or cute.
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:19 AM
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When you try to do things for a girl you like that you wouldn’t do for your friends or girls you don’t like. A girl asks you to do her homework for her and you agree to it not because you enjoy it, but because you hope it will give you points to win her over. You wouldn’t do it for your male friend or a girl you are not interested in. A girl says she has money problems, and you don’t even have much money, and generally would not give it to others, but because it’s her you give some to her with t…
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:54 PM
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Sexual objectification is the act of treating a person solely as an object of sexual desire. Treating them as a commodity for their own enjoyment without regard to their personality, dignity, and viewing them primarily as an object to insert your dick in, than as a whole person. So let’s go through it all. Men that have had a tough time getting girls This line already talks about girls as if they are a collection of cards to add to their list. He isn’t really interested in any girl in particular…
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:22 PM
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I feel like objectifying girls in such a way is part of the problem… So I consider it useful advice to call it out, with the hope that maybe he is smart enough to realise that by treating women like people and not like objects to collect, will probably increase his chances. If you just choose to see it as an insult, good. Because at least you are smart enough to know it isn’t good, which is a tremendous step for many in this sub it seems.
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:01 PM
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You speak of girls in such an objectifying way, that it’s no wonder why girls wouldn’t want anything with you.
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:51 PM
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When a girl is into a guy she does not act like this. Sorry mate, but you won’t ever have anything with this girl no matter what you do or say, and no matter how much you want her.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:59 AM
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By being more attractive, and more valuable than her current boyfriend.
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:53 AM
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No, the let’s be friends it’s a polite way to say they are not attracted to you, they could care less if you are friends or not. You also don’t wanna be friends with a girl you are attracted to, it doesn’t do you any good. You will only be mad when she starts dating other guys and you start comparing yourself to them, wondering what they have that you dont, which will be detrimental to your self esteem
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:45 AM
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We’ll post the screenshots of your conversations with women here to see where the problem lies
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:44 AM
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Wrong. Texting is for setting up dates provided you know enough about each other. If you both are strangers, no one will go out with you because you could be a serial killer or a catfish. No one goes on tinder matching with a person and being like: “oh yeah sure i don’t even know anything about you at all, let’s meet up immediately, because you can totally trust someone you just matched online just like that” Women have tons of options online and tinder is full of creeps so it’s highly unlikely …
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:36 AM
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If you wanna remove potential obstacles to sex hide everything that might be an obstacle. It’s common sense. What matters is that you get laid, not that she agrees with your political views
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:43 AM
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Because they have other priorities, it’s not that they are busy, it’s that they would rather talk to someone else or just watch netflix series instead
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:35 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:27 PM
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No because eventually someone wants it in my experience. Some people do like chewing gum.
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:26 PM
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Yeah it’s also better to masturbarse and watch porn at home, than to get laid with women. and risk getting HIV or get a woman pregnant, or having to deal with the emotions of women, or risk getting cheated. Right? Right?!! Please tell me my life is worthy!
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:51 PM
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Unfortunately for you, you are not winning in any scenario. You are saving your ego sure, but you also not getting laid. A lot of people will disagree with you, because many people just do not let rejection affect them emotionally, for them it’s no different than offering a price of chewing gum to someone and them rejecting the chewing gum. They are not emotionally broken if someone rejects the chewing gum. They just go on with their life and offer the chewing gum to someone else until someone w…
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:47 PM
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It’s not good to ask her if she wants to go out, it’s better to say something specific and exciting you will do that makes her jealous and then invite her to join.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:19 PM
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Online dating isn’t a true reflection of your worth as a potential dating partner. People on the internet don’t behave the same way they do in real life. It’s all facades, and fake online personas, and if you take it seriously when all of it is mostly fake, your self esteem will suffer.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:02 PM
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Stop using dating apps, they only work if you are extremely hot or if you have extreme inhumane amounts of patience. Other than that it will slowly and gradually destroy your self esteem.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:00 PM
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When you have been talking with her and she seems to enjoy the interaction.
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:47 PM
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No, that’s just some things that could help you to succeed but obviously you still need to create sexual tension, which is why you want to sit next to her, and do kino. Girls are into you based on the vibe they are feeling in the present. You keep being confused because you still don’t understand that while men decide beforehand that they are into the girl and want to fuck, the girl first acts, does things, and then decides if she is into you. Your logic goes if “she was into me, she would have …
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:51 PM
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Sex is something they need to feel at the moment when the vibe, the connection and the trust feels right with the guy. Men are wired different because they are always horny no matter what, women need to build up to it, which is why they don’t decide before hand. They could like you sure, but even if they like you doesn’t mean they have decided that no matter what they will sleep with you. That will depend like i said on the vibe, the chemistry, the connection, the comfort,… etc
/r/seduction20/10/22 05:54 AM
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So let me go through all of these one by one: She's travelling solo, the interaction was okay, she didn't ask questions back but I got her ig. This is a bad sign She didn’t engage in a conversation with you, she is responding… That’s not good. I offered her to meet today, wasn't sure if she would, and she actually came, we did coffee during the day because that was more convenient for both of us. If you want to be just another average guy that does something completely unmemorable, going for a c…
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:21 AM
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I wish we could not play games, i wish it was as simple as just being straight forward, and all that. Unfortunately, you only get success when you play games. Everyone always says don’t play games, including women, then you don’t play games and it all goes to shit.
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:47 PM
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Don’t tell girls that you had a great time, or that you can’t wait to see them again. Let them wonder where they stand with you, be a mystery. Hate to say it, and i know most women in the internet don’t ever admit this, but most women tend to be more intrigued by a man they feel they haven’t quite got him, than with a man they feel they already got. It’s like, they love the challenge and the chase, and if you start saying “oh yeah i loved this date” “oh my god best date ever” “oh please let’s se…
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:07 PM
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Being a friend is basically her saying "I want to drain you of emotional attention like a vampire and give nothing of value to you in return" No. It’s just a polite way to tell you she is not attracted to you, and that it’s up to you y if you want a friendship. If her friendship has no value to you, no one’s forcing you to be her friend. It's actually insulting, but she's probably young and doesn't understand. No it’s not. Not being attracted to you is not an insult because no one is required to…
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:46 AM
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There is no such thing as being overly picky, there is only supply and demand. If they are “picky” it’s because they can usually get what they want from a man or else they would settle. In other words there are enough men up to the level that women seek interested in them. So considering that, why would a woman want to settle down for losers or mediocre guys? They will only go for the best that show interest in her. The problem with questions such as yours is that it communicates that women have…
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:24 PM
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Why would you assume every girl on earth would be ok with a random stranger interrupting and trying to join their private conversation without even asking if they are ok with it, just because it worked for you with other girls?
/r/seduction18/10/22 01:10 AM
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Once a woman disqualifies you verbally, it’s over. Any attempt after that is try hard and desperate behaviour, it’s like begging. You cannot position yourself in an alpha dominant manner that makes the woman submissive to you, after a woman has already told you she sees you as a friend. There could be a way to do it which is to disappear from her life for like a year or more, and then show up as a completely new person with a whole different attitude. Basically starting things from scratch after…
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:46 PM
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People who just post a bunch of links to youtube videos as a response to anyone asking a question, should also be removed, because: 1 - they are not giving their own personal take or advice based on their own personal experiences. 2 - the whole point of this sub is to get advice here not outside reddit. 3 - So annoying to see a comment that is just a bunch of links.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:11 AM
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Because you are not presenting yourself in a sexual way, which means that your sex appeal is low. Need to grow your muscles, show more skin in your chest by unbuttoning your shirt, wear sleeveless vests, shape your eyebrows with a cut through the middle of them, and make sure your haircut gives you a more square look in the face with a nice low fade.
/r/seduction15/10/22 10:59 PM
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Why don’t you go find out by talking to her? That’s what a real man does.
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:50 AM
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It’s a second date, so of course she ain’t gonna be loyal… She ain’t even your girlfriend and there is no talk about being exclusive, and she is most likely gonna drink alcohol, meaning that you can’t really test if someone is serious about you just because she dances with other guys on a nightclub when she barely even knows you. Unless there is exclusive talk there is no legitimate expectations that she just has to flirt with you or that you just have to flirt with her. A nightclub is not a goo…
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:59 PM
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Dude no one cares stop replying
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:30 PM
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No one cares about your opinion
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:24 PM
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Places you should not take girls on dates: Nightclubs Literally the worst place, tons of guys trying to get laid who won’t give a fuck to steal your girl if they can.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:45 PM
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You have already screw it up. It’s over. Interest is gone. You can’t salvage this while learning social skills at the same time.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:39 AM
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You don’t need signs to ask a woman out
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:22 AM
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Advice: Seek therapy. If that doesn’t help, then definitely no one here can help you.
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:14 AM
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Clearly no one has a freaking clue here what flirting is. Everyone just giving vague advice like “say what you want” “be genuine” be yourself” “make them laugh” that is not flirting, that is not a practical tip that people can use, making someone laugh does not necessarily mean you are flirting, saying what you want like “i just farted” for example, isn’t flirting, if that’s not what you mean by saying what you want, be specific with examples. Saying that “Flirting is something natural that happ…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:19 PM
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Sounds like she is just being friendly. There is no emotional highs from what you described or anything similar, which is the main sign of attraction. So yeah, if you want a friend, good. If you expect more than a friendship, it won’t happen.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:15 PM
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The problem is being autistic, you can only girl autistic girls. Regular people just won’t get you.’ and you won’t get them. If autistic girls also don’t like you, well then you need to wait until someone develops a cure for autism.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:10 PM
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Depends on how much care you take of yourself… If you hit the gym regularly, eat healthy, and make money, you can be at your prime for a long time. Most people however treat their bodies like shit all throughout their teenagers early 20s… That means that their prime for them was when they were young because their body had not gone to shit yet. By the time they are 30 they are fat, bald, with back pain, wrinkles and lots of problems… But if you treat your body with respect and actually improve it…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:09 PM
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It’s only creepy on your head, there is no need to be subtle, just say: “wait, do you live by yourself or with your parents” Simple as that. Stop overthinking. people in the real world aren’t gonna bite you just because you ask questions
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:41 AM
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A girl looking at you doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to talk with you. Crazy i know. But people sometimes just look because they have nothing better to do. That’s why signs are pointless, they are not a science every woman can do the exact same “sign” but for some it will not be a sign while for others it will be a clear sign. Signs don’t have a universal meaning.
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:34 AM
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No. Telling them they are hot can be creepy to many, and for others it’s just an instant red flag because it shows that you will value nothing but their looks, so it’s an instant no.
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:32 AM
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4 easy things you can do to increase sex appeal Show more skin, like your chest, unbutton your shirt, roll up your sleeves, show for arms, unbutton your vest, and show your abs,… Skin has sex appeal as long as you are kinda lean, and fit. Walk with demeanour and style, take a look at “John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever” to see how he walks with such grace and confidence, it increases his sex appeal. Deepen your voice tonality, the deeper it sounds the more masculine and the more sex appeal. A…
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:29 AM
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It’s simple to get, women lie and pretend, because it’s easier than being honest with men they don’t know.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:39 AM
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Because a woman saying yes today doesn’t mean she is committing herself to it. Women typically change their minds very often the next day. They say yes because they don’t know how to say no, so saying yes and then ignoring you next say it’s easy for them.
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:43 PM
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How exactly are you teasing? because i feel like what you call “teasing” isn’t actually building any sexual tension at all.
/r/seduction10/10/22 07:44 PM
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Yes there are people better than you. There are also people worst than you, including women. Worst people than you have gotten laid with various women. Now if your expectation is that you want to sleep with a 300 women per year, or something absurd like that, then you need to be realistic as most people will never ever get to do that. But if you are more realistic about your goals with women, then you can do it, as worst people than you have done it
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:30 AM
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I was expecting much worst. You have a lot of room to improve on. The haircut doesn’t suit you, maybe a low fade would look better on you. The clothing style doesn’t suit you, all those basic t-shirts, just don’t really give you a sex appeal. You need to start wearing chains, and get slim fit shirts without sleeves unbuttoned to show more of your chest, or sleeveless vests. You need to get leaner, you need to reduce body fat and work on your abs, triceps, back, and shoulders, to give you a more …
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:12 AM
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The reason you see conflicting advice is because it’s not a science. They are all guessing, but there is no actual way to be sure if a girl likes you by interpreting her eye contact.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:15 PM
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You just need to be smooth about getting consent. I know guys here are like “oh my god, consent is for losers”, but there are many ways to ask consent without being to obvious. No need to say “do you want me to kiss you”, instead you could state what you want to do: “I love your smile and lips, i wonder if you are good at kissing with them” Depending on her reaction, you can go for it. There are many other variations to get consent without asking.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:46 PM
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People talk about the things that happen in their own lives. Anecdotes, experiences, personal stories… It starts with “this reminds me of that time where…” or “wow, you remind me of x…” People also talk about why they have certain goals, ambitions, what they are currently working on, what they want to achieve,… So basically the structure is talk about things that happened in the Past, talk about what you are doing in the present, and talk about your aspirations or plans in the future. And also b…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:07 PM
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She is in your class. Getting her number from a group chat is not good because it’s stalkerish, and invasion of privacy, and it already sends her red flags because it means you don’t even give a fuck of her consent. Asking her for her number and her giving it to you, means she truly is interested and shows you respect her.
/r/seduction08/10/22 11:23 PM
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This happens because you don’t establish beforehand that you are hitting on her, so by the time you are in her bedroom it feels weird because you were acting like a friend and randomly want to get sex out of nowhere. If you were honest from the beginning about your intentions, then it wouldn’t be so weird to make a move once you were watching a movie.
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:48 AM
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With skills 85-90%. Without the skills 99-100%.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:30 PM
2

Lol, what? you are putting words in my mouth i didn’t say. I never said anywhere that you should not have consent for sex. You are confusing me for another person.
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:52 PM
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Hoy do i tell you that based on what you wrote you are super highly unlikely to be her boyfriend, without discouraging you from trying? You really have the kind of mentality with girls that gets you friendzone, like basically everything you wrote will lead to the girl saying let’s just be friends I suggest you read the book models by mark manson or mode one or mystery method by mystery or the game by neil strauss because you really have no clue about dating or women, and need to wake up and open…
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:52 AM
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Don’t go to the cinema on a first date. I thought everybody knew this by now. Save cinema for when you already have connected enough in the first couple of dates.
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:49 PM
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Do you normally reply to every story someone else posts? Probably not. So why would you do it with this girl? If you feel the need to answer every story is because you are desperately trying to get her to notice you, which is something you don’t do with other people. Sorry but this is overthinking too much. Just behave like you would with anybody else. The fact that you think you have to do special treatment for a girl means you are putting her in a pedestal which is bad for building attraction.…
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:14 PM
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You fucked up the moment you tried to rationalise what happened by saying to her it was a mistake and having an agreement that it should not happen again. Game over.
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:59 PM
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Second date; you are still a stranger. Of course most smart women would not got that fast to your place.
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:57 PM
7

Sexual tension happens when you start expressing directly your sexual desire. Every time you show your desire tension is naturally created. Too much tension can come off as creepy, too little tension comes across as platonic. So you need to test and see how far away you can get with when expressing your sexual desire in order to calibrate in how direct you can be when talking about how much you desire her sexually and for what reasons you desire her.
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:39 PM
1

You should have already ask her out, if you take this long you will just become a text buddy and end up friendzoning yourself
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:43 PM
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You get friendzone when you don’t express that you find her hot, attractive, desirable. Basically when you never show interest in her as a sexual woman, and instead when you only show interest in a friendly way. That’s what gets you friendzoned. That you never try to create sexual tension with a woman, and keep treating her like she is your sister.
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:21 PM
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It’s just a random example. And no. One does not lose all credibility just because one of the example given isn’t of your taste. Each argument can hold on its own, even if one of the arguments “was weaker” than the other. Suggesting that all of it is bad, because one of the things in it is bad is a fallacy.
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:16 PM
2

In person things always work better than in text, but honestly you need to stop overthinking and start acting more. Women don’t like guys who overthink every action.
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:47 PM
2

Why would you assume women think you are a threatening person if you are not? And no, doing things in groups just communicates you want nothing but a friendship. If you like someone you invite them to do something you and her, simple as that. Something simple like a coffee or a walk in the park.
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:37 PM
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Why would you ask her to go with friends? Do some activity that you would enjoy doing regardless of her preferences.
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:18 PM
3

You don’t. Letting time pass and living new experiences will eventually make you forget the past experiences and to get over them.
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:00 PM
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You don’t ask a girl if she wants to hookups You invite her out to do something, have some laughs, If she seems comfortable with you, test the waters by flirting telling her she looks sexy attractive, etc… and initiating some light touching on her hands while looking at her lips, and going for a kiss. Then from the kiss you take her somewhere private with some excuse like “let’s chill to music” or “take a drink at your place” or whatever and come in your place, you keep kissing and take off her …
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:59 PM
2

Men’s intuition usually sucks, so “doing what feels right” with women tends to be bad advice for a large amount of men.
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:55 PM
1

Loser is what they call men with bad social intelligence, and bad social skills. It has nothing to do with how you look. The problem with autistic people is that you are too much too logical, too objective, too rational and women don’t connect with guys who are like that. Women connect emotionally. And feelings, emotions, emotional connection, sparkling emotions, feeling what others are feeling, are super hard to handle for autistic people because they are focused on the rational, on the reasoni…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:51 PM
1

Sure. But you can still get a girlfriend.
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:04 AM
1

Sure the more a guy or girl has the more options, and the less a guy or girl has the less options. That’s a fact sure. But that’s the thing, you don’t need to have everything to find a girlfriend, plenty of average people in the world who have girlfriends boyfriends or wives and husbands
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:31 AM
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Here is an even more unpopular opinion. Everything matters. Looks matter, money matters, personality matters, hygiene matters, style matters, social circle matters, social skills matter, sense of humour matters, confidence matters, popularity matters,… etc All of those factors make certain people more attractive than others to different people. No one is perfect and has everything, but certain factors can compensate for other factors that you lack, and attract different type of people.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:18 AM
1

Not your fault she doesn’t have a sense of humor
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:12 PM
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Women like indifferent guys who could care less about them over guys that give them too much attention. No, women like guys who aren’t overly needy and super clingy, that doesn’t mean you go to the whole opposite extreme of ignoring a girl completely.. Things aren’t black and white. It means having a life, and not just making a girl the centre of your entire world. I should act like I have no interest in her eventhough i do. No, you have to show interest, but also not put all your eggs under one…
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:37 PM
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You don’t. You go talk to her in person like real men do. And if you are gonna say, oh but she is far, we can’t meet for whatever reason, then move on. It won’t happen. You cannot get a girl interested over texts if you don’t even know what to say at all on your own. Find girls you can see regularly in person.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:30 PM
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Being brave, daring and willing to do things that could be risky, choosing not to care about consequences that much, and choosing not to care about what other people think of you. Being sure of yourself, feeling good enough about yourself, being sure about the fact that you are interesting and fun to talk with, and not doubting your worth or your attractiveness… And feeling sure that you are accepted and valued by the girls no matter what they do, and not overthinking and instead just doing. Tha…
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:25 PM
2

The most likely outcome is that nothing happens but friendly talk , only 5% chance there might be sex.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:12 PM
1

Yeah i’m sure you get accused of sexual harassment all the time. How many times this year has that happened to you? Or are you just imagining things based on things you see on the internet? The real world isn’t filled with women randomly accusing men of sexual harassment, at least not where i live
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:03 AM
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It means you don’t know what actually has to be changed so you are basically like a blind person who is alone in an unkown area trying to find a path to follow.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:54 AM
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People who want to get laid just avoid talking about politics during a date and instead focus on having fun. Why? Because their focus is getting laid, not win a political argument or try to convince others that the other person is wrong. A date is a moment to have fun and arouse each other, not to lecture the other person
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:51 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed in life for 100% of people. When people say approaching 1000 women would at least get you one lay, it means that that’s the case for the majority of people. But a majority of people doesn’t mean 100% of people, it could be 80% of people that do it which is still a majority. Also, there are many people who behave in one exact way all the time, and never try to adapt or improve on what they’d re doing so they keep doing or saying the exact same thing over and over, expecting …
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:42 PM
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Or just watch this video exposing tinder and delete the app: https://youtu.be/5h4ZnGGswgg
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:37 PM
2

You’re clearly overthinking… Dude any excuse is good to approach it doesn’t matter at all what their intentions were. You just approach and try to make something happen, period. “I don’t want to be that guy that thinks because a girl talked to me that means she likes me” Dude who cares? No one will give a shit about that 2 weeks from now, even if you get it wrong. Just go and approach
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:22 PM
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I would not date a famous football player, cuz i don’t like being in the spot light neither, and having paparazzis taking photos of us, and chasing us around, and i would not like it that my man is constantly bombarded with girls seeking his attention. I would probably not date a homeless person because i feel like they are drug addicts, can be dangerous, and so on… Would you as a man have a serious long term relationship with a homeless girl? Would you introduce her to your parents? And now you…
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:19 PM
5

yeso pretty much. Need to focus on meeting women in real life in your city just like she does
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:24 AM
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Yeah, which is why you need to be creative, develop a personality and a sense of humorous, and express how you see things from your unique perspective. Fun guys do not ask quesitons( they just say humorous things, they express how they feel about things, or give unique opinions, or perspectives and share funny anecdotes about what they have lived and experienced.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:37 PM
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You can be in her league and still be rejected because it’s not about leagues.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:29 PM
4

Approaching women in the real world like all of our past generations have done
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:29 PM
3

The goal of cold approach isn’t to get a number just saying. That is where most people fail with cold approach. Because they are thinking of the number, rather than connecting and trying to escalate as far as possible. Your goal should be to connect, get her to trust you enough to go on instant dates, and have a same day lay from your cold approach, and after you already slept with her, then get her number. That’s how you can actually get good at this.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:24 AM
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No one asked you
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:50 PM
1

Maybe don’t use texting to meet girls, meet girls in real life and ask them in instant dates. don’t ask for a number until you have kissed them first during an instant date.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:17 PM
1

It’s not about doing romantic things, that’s fine if you are already in an official relationship. But if you are meeting each other, it’s not about doing romantic gestures, it’s about connecting sexually, and emotionally while you are in person.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:11 PM
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I'm attractive and always get compliments on it, got a good career, got my own place, my own car, graduated with a BS degree and working on my master's and I'm decently in shape and working out but I guess that's not good enough in this dating market nowadays compared to the average guy? Yeah, all of that means nothing unless they already thinking of marrying next week. If you don’t connect sexually and emotionally with women, then all of those things do not matter because it’s not like they are…
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:39 PM
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Huge crush after first date First reason why you will lose her. Having a crush on a girl is the first step towards behaving like a beta male, which will kill any interest or attraction. My fuck up is that I feel too invested in her now and this sucks. We only had 1 date with her, I have 2 other girls that I see regularly but I’d stop seeing them if she asked me to. Yeah, definitely will lose this one. Clearly needy for her, which will drive her away. But this girl got me by the balls I don’t lik…
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:36 PM
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You seem to be a very rational, logical, kind of person and that’s the problem. Women don’t connect with men who focus on facts, and logical, objective, rational, conversations. Women also don’t connect with guys who just keep asking them questions.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:26 PM
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Record your conversations with women with a hidden microphone and post them in this sub, so people can analyse them and tell you how to improve them.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:22 PM
1

Being intellectual, is the opposite of good game. Women want to have fun, which requires you to dumb down everything you are saying while flirting with them. Because logical conversations, or deep objective discussions do not go anywhere in terms of creating sexual tension. Touching also requires you to be a touchy feely person, not just with girls but with everyone in casual manners that are not sexual to break the touch barrier in a smooth way. There is whole books describing the seduction pro…
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:28 PM
1

You need to stop being so needy, stop texting her everyday, stop asking to meet up everyday, and pull back more. Basically, let her breath, give her space.
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:08 PM
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One does not simply cold approach in high school. It’s super forced, and your reputation is completely at stake. One rejection in public, and the entire school knows or at least all the girls since they tell on each other about guys picking up on them. You cannot seriously go for one girl and then for another because they will all think you are doing with all the girls, which makes you look bad specially if you don’t succeed at attracting them. You haven’t to be subtle, and fly under the radar, …
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:31 PM
1

If she is in your class you must talk to her in person. It’s so weird that you would start through DMs, rather than going straight away to talk to her in person. It’s the first thing she will ask herself, and if she assumes that it’s because you are insecure or because you try to hide something, that’s gonna be a red flag.
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:35 PM
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That is literally what i said. Insecurity and ego go hand in hand
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:30 PM
4

It’s not about having small talk, because that leads nowhere. It’s about getting to the hook point where you can get into personal stuff, and have deep conversation that allows you to connect emotionally, be playful, and flirt sexually.
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:17 PM
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That is caused by your ego who is driving your behaviour because you let it. The ego notices that the girl is giving you approval, the ego likes that but at the same time, the ego doesn’t want risk misinterpreting that to save yo ur self esteem. It’s like the ego is saying: Sure she seems to like me, but what if i’m misreading it, and when i ask her out, she turns me down? I would hate that, so better to end it here on a high note, than risks getting hit by rejection” In other words, your ego is…
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:31 PM
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Dating apps are for losers, and attention whores. Meet people in real life.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:10 PM
3

If a girl is acting like that it means she wants you to get the hint that she is not interested. Yes, women do not often outright tell you, “no thanks not interested”. They just say yes but maybe next week, and then when you ask again, they again come up with another excuse like “oh i can’t today, but maybe the following week” and so on. When a girl is interested, she is the one chasing you, and telling you she is doing nothing or that she is not busy to give you the hint to invite her to do som…
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:32 AM
2

Men lead, women follow. The vast majority of women never take the initiative with men, as they feel it devalues their worth if they have to chase a man. So basically, no. Giving her your number leads to less dating success, compared to you taking hers and taking the initiative.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:21 PM
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But every time I want to be friend with a woman, she gives me the look of defense/disgust as if I was hitting on her, which I am definitely not. If you are attracted to them you should be hitting on them, i don’t see why you have to hide it. If you just want a friendship that always stays platonic and doesn’t ever lead into more then you are in the wrong reddit sub. Sometimes, I just don't know what the hell to talk about with girls in that special setting, I don't get how there is guys that I s…
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:49 PM
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ok 👍 I don’t need to argue about this.
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:52 PM
8

Remember, no sex until marriage with this girls. And when you finally have sex it will be boring missionary like stuff. Not worth it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:45 PM
1

Repeat after me: Movies don’t make women or men like you or want to have something with you. Movies have no effect on whether someone finds you attractive or not.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:16 PM
3

If you are the one inviting her out you are the one who should paid. Just don’t do something extravagant, or crazy, go to relatively humble places, so she doesn’t feel like you are trying too hard to impress her.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:03 AM
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I don’t think you understand the concept of the friend zone. It’s fine having female friends that you are not attracted to. Friendzone however is about being attracted to a girl, wanting something romantic or sexual with her and not having those feelings or desire reciprocated. Basically, they are not your friends, they are girls who you failed to seduce or attract and who you actually like and who you would jump at the first chance they decided they wanna be with you. In other words, being frie…
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:06 PM
1

Being yourself is nonsense, everyone is constantly evolving, so their “self” isn’t actually static, it’s constantly changing and developing like a character arc. So the version of yourself that you are today, is gonna be different than the version of yourself you will be in the future.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:07 AM
2

A woman will never ask you if you are a virgin, so i don’t know why you find this an issue. There is literally no reason to say you are a virgin and even if she asks you for your past relationships i don’t see any need to say you are a virgin, just lie about it, it’s not like you are gonna marry this girl .
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:05 AM
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You require a sense of humor, social skills, and a personality. All of that is what makes a conversation interesting, and for that you need to start speaking your mind freely without filter and assuming familiarity with her. The worst mistake is asking generic questions, and saying things that anybody else could also say. So when you are about to say soemthing think how many guys could say the same thing to her, and if not many then say it, if the answer is pretty much everyone then don’t say it
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:03 AM
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Watching your stories doesn’t mean she wants to talk with you. People on instagram just like to stalk everyone including people they are not attracted to, because Instagram is not just about stalking people you like it’s about seeing what the rest of the world is doing with their lives while you are bored at home. They post pictures not because they want you to realise that they are ignoring you as if you were in their minds when you do it, they naturally post stories or anything regardless of y…
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:04 PM
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Just by reading this, it feels like i got an entire glimpse of your personality and mentality, and i can tell that you have never got laid before and this crush of yours will probably reject you. It’s like this sub is filled with the same type of guys. that they all start to feel like robots. I have a crush on this girl who's freshly single. Calling it crush, already shows your inexperience with women, someone with experience doesn’t ever refer to any girl he likes as “crush”. I'm friends first …
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:44 PM
1

Oh really. Source?
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:42 PM
1

Why exactly do people need to ask you specifically something ? You have a girlfriend, ok butit ain’t that special, millions like you also have a girlfriend
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:24 PM
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With this girl no. just don’t make the same mistake with future girls.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:27 PM
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It means she didn’t feel the sexual tension with you, the conversation with you felt platonic, as if she was talking with a friend or her brother. The sexual spark was missing. So no it’s not about comfort or rapport, and it’s not about having different beliefs or interests… It’s the sexual part that you are lacking, you treat girls as if they were no different than your sister cousins, aunts or mum.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:16 PM
7

Then why do you say she ghost you?
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:53 PM
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Like i said it’s not in your control. You want the definitive trick that will make a guy say i want a relationship. If you want a relationship so much, you can go for guys who are shy and bad at talking to girls, guys who don’t have many options to choose from and are happy that for once they receive any attention from a girl. But with guys who are genuinely attractive and good with girls, it really is like a lottery, where in order to participate you have to sleep with them and hope for the bes…
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:50 PM
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It doesn’t guarantee anything if you have sex with a guy, but the guys who have tons of girls to choose from (the attractive guys) usually want to have sex before deciding if they want something. Let me repeat, that having sex with them won’t guarantee a relationship, specially if he feels like you are obsessed with getting a relationship or try to rush things. The reality is that it’s mostly something you can’t control.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:45 PM
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Lol, in Europe everyone your age goes on dates without a car. They go to malls, parks, beaches, public squares, bars, touristic places, without the need of a car.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:40 PM
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Jeez, i wonder where kids learn that confessing is somehow an attractive move? Must be shorty kids movies or something… Because when you are adults, no one goes around confessing their love…, they just flirt, escalate things physically, make out, have sex, all without confessing anything, and eventually that leads into something serious.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:35 PM
1

Shy girls always have more trouble finding partners just like shy boys have trouble finding partners. Unfortunately you are way too needy for a boyfriend. The more someone wants a boyfriend or a girlfriend, the more off putting someone comes across. Majority of guys that are attractive won’t even think about a relationship until after sex, never before sex has happened. There are guys who don’t mind starting a relationship first and then have sex, but those tend to be the more unattractive ones,…
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:32 PM
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Your problem would be solved if rather than doing things over text messages you would strictly do things in person. Meeting women in real life, take them on instant dates, and go for same day lays, rather than trying to get their number.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:26 PM
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The best thing to do is to just be cocky as fuck. “Yeah, I already knew that you love me” “Stop hitting on me, I’m not taken” “Do you say that to every guy, or just the good looking ones?”
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:18 PM
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She clearly not interested. A girl who is truly into a guy would never ever forget she has a date with him. Never. A girl who truly can’t stop herself from imagining how things would be with a guy, a girl who is so excited she had finally met a guy she truly likes and connects with so well would never in a million years forget she had a date with him. How many times did you as a man forget you had a date with a girl you actually liked? Never. Women are not different in that regard. So yeah move …
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:12 PM
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Reddit is an echo chamber where a minority of people speak loud enough to make it seem like the entire world thinks just like them, when in fact the world is more varied and diverse in opinions, and preferences different to theirs that they could even begin to imagine.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:33 PM
0

Bad idea. It’s ok to want a relationship, but not before the girl has said first she wants one.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:45 PM
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Straight up asking for a meet up is so dumb because you only met her for 3 minutes She probably doesn’t even remember you, and she has no reason to meet up with you so fast without feeling the vibe first, and making sure you seem like a guy she can trust, and feel a little bit safe with. She is also likely to ghost you, if she forgot you, so no matter what you do it probably won’t go anywhere due to how little time you talked in person.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:06 PM
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I think you are behaving too platonic with this girl. If she is told you “you seem so innocent” or anything like that, you clearly are not having sexual tension with this girl. You have shown her that you are a leader, that you correct her when she is wrong, but her boss in her job could do the exact same thing and doesn’t mean she would fuck him. Have you shown her you are turned on by her? Have you shown the sexual desire you have for her? Are you telling her you think she is hot, sexy, that s…
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:59 PM
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Girls should be the ones to ask for a relationship, not the guy. Every time the guy asks for a relationship, he often always does it way sooner than she is ready. It’s also a feminine nature to seek a serious relationship, not exactly masculine. When a guy asks for a relationship so soon, it feels like he wants to lock her down, like he is scared other guy would take her or something, and wants to take away her freedom to make sure she is his. 5 dates is way too soon for a relationship. You shou…
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:52 PM
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it feels platonic because you are not flirting and acting sexually. You are not showing your sexual desire. You need to tell her things like: “Your smile is so sexy, i can’t even concentrate right now, when you smile at me like that” Keywords here: “sexy”, “can’t concentrate and “you smile at me like that”. This example would be a way of spicy things up and making the conversation have more sexual tension. Another thing you can do would be to bite your lips in a sexually suggestive way, while yo…
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:59 AM
0

You should start by reading books on conversation skills. There are literally hundreds of ways of speaking and communicating with other people, like: Using sarcasm, humor, exaggerations, misinterpretation, assumptions, absurd responses, open ended questions, provocations, observations, story telling, anecdote sharing, imitations, inside jokes, playful accusations, teasing, flirting, pick up lines, conversational role games, fallacies, emotional speech, logical speech,… etc You can read about som…
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:17 PM
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She is asking to hang out, that’s the signal. She is investing time in you. You don’t need more. If it’s a date you go for a kiss, if she rejects it so be it, but you go for it
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:15 PM
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You should start by reading books on conversation skills. There are literally hundreds of ways of speaking and communicating with other people, like: Using sarcasm, humor, exaggerations, misinterpretation, assumptions, absurd responses, open ended questions, provocations, observations, story telling, anecdote sharing, imitations, inside jokes, playful accusations, teasing, flirting, pick up lines, conversational role games, fallacies, emotional speech, logical speech,… etc You can read about som…
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:09 PM
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Work on your looks by working out a lot… focus on working out our glutes, shoulders, and triceps, and girls won’t be able to take your eyes off you. Working out makes everyone more desirable even if they are boring. Then for the boring part just read a book like Models or Make Her Horny With Humor to improve on that part, so you can start being more charismatic and fun or talk with.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:08 AM
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You write about making specific plans, “hey i’m going to c place on day z, come with me!” Texting is not about talking for the sake of talking, or spending time getting to know a girl, it’s to have a goal, getting her out, and talking in person
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:02 AM
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“Because i meet people in person, not behind a screen and that won’t ever change”. Just say that.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:08 AM
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Can’t send memes because we don’t know each other, Actually you should because the key to talk to girls is to assume familiarity from the start and act like you have known each other for years even if that isn’t the case. can’t tell inside jokes because there are none. You can create inside jokes by messing with her, trolling her, example: She posts a picture on her Instagram story or Whatsapp status drinking in a club or bar: You: “I bet you drink so much that people have to tell the bartender …
/r/seduction09/09/22 11:47 PM
5

Congrats. You have just won: “🎉Creep of the year award🎉
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:03 PM
1

No, because if you have another question to ask you could just ask there you don’t need to wait after class to ask the question. You are only making this complicated because you are ashamed of liking her. With women you have to be shameless, dating, confident and just say what you want. Not try to hide yourself from others, so they don’t hear you. Just when the class is over run up to her, and introduce yourself and say why you are approaching her (to hit on her).
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:25 AM
15

Women need a little bit of fun, they need you to not take yourself so seriously so they can relax. You need to develop a sense of humour and be willing to be less mature sometimes for fun. Learn to be a kid again. Show more excitement, a sense of wonder, try to do exciting or even taboo stuff, be more sexual, more playful, imitate her, tease her and mess with her, joke around, etc
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:21 AM
1

It is helpful, but it requires a minimum level of intellect to realise.
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:37 AM
4

It’s probably like you said your lack of social skills, if your conversation are dull and generic and short, girls will always have low interest in you. Getting girls to like you requires you to have solid social skills, sense of humour displayed through conversation, witty banter, interesting stories or anecdotes to share, teasing the girl to mess with her, flirting sexually to create sexual tension, etc… If you just go like: “hey what’s up? Where you from? Oh new york nice i’m from new jersey,…
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:44 AM
14

Dude the night club is a place to be super high energy and crazy. You can’t have formal polite conversations, based on observations. People in the club wanna have fun, and fun comes from your energy, how emotional you can get the girls, how much you provoke them… It’s all about being the life of the party, screaming loud, dancing for fun like you would if no one was watching you… Imagine you have won the lottery, we’re rich, and went to a club to celebrate, you would go crazy, you would maybe st…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:26 PM
5

Then the questions you are asking are probably too many, and also too random and irrelevant or there are no reasons to ask them.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:02 PM
0

Intentions need to be specified at the beginning of the conversation, not by the end. First line you say needs to make it clear that you want to get to know them, not ask a question.
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:05 PM
21

I mean it’s kinda obvious what the problem is if you have any social intelligence. You are a stranger asking random questions without explaining why you are asking those questions in the first place. It’s absurd to start talking to someone you don’t know with a bunch of questions like you are interrogating them, when they don’t even know what the hell you want that information for? Are you a kidnapper who wants to find out as much about her to make a crime? Are you a detective investigating her?…
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:57 PM
2

It probably has to do with you being boring, dull, annoying, or obnoxious once they meet you in real life. they like you for your looks online but as soon S they meet in real life something about the way you talk or act with them is repulsive. You probably won’t figure it out yourself, without someone who is good at analysing your behavior.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:50 PM
27

You need to flirt sexually by saying things like: “When i see that smile of yours, i can’t even concentrate when you speak to me” “You know i can’t stop staring at your gaze, it makes my heart pump faster” “Girl, stop being so cute, it makes it super hard for me to stay cool” Basically use a seductive tone in your voice, speak a bit more slow than usual, stare at her lips, check her body up and down shamelessly, act like she is a forbidden fruit that you can’t wait to eat, make her feel sexually…
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:53 PM
1

Not really. Men are always more direct with the staring, women are more often than not the subtle ones.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:11 AM
3

The point of texting is to get her in the mood to meet up in person, so why are you not going out with her in real life and making things happen? Texting more and more isn’t progress, it’s just called being stuck in the same phase. If you don’t meet up there is no point in texting more. 90%! of the conversation you have with a woman should be face to face, only 10% through texts to make weekly plans that’s it. If she doesn’t wanna meet up with you then you are wasting your time
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:01 AM
3

Well, you are summarising it so much that obviously there doesn’t seem any errors, but since the dates were longer than what you wrote here there probably were things you did wrong which you overlook and didn’t mention here because you don’t even know they are wrong to begin with. I assume that even if she kissed you, that’s because you went for it but she just complied and wasn’t really into it. in other words the kiss came out of nowhere for her, and took her by surprise, because she was feeli…
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:09 AM
1

I think it would be quite easy for me to tell what’s wrong if i saw you approaching in person any random woman and analysing what you say to them and also seeing how you say it.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:06 AM
6

Depends on the woman and depends on what you are texting her. Which means that you can’t really generalize. You have to find the right balance yourself by testing over and over and refining your timing and method. If someone said to you: You have to text every 4 hours and 25 minutes exactly or any other random number, he would just be talking nonsense which would not necessarily apply with the women you texts. A good tule of thumb is to think of what would you do if the girl was a man, one of yo…
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:56 AM
2

First you need a unique personality. Do you have one? Because if you do, then asking for other people to give you a line is counterproductive. If you don’t have one then it won’t matter what line you borrow from reddit because your lack of personality will kill the conversation anyways
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:49 AM
11

You should let her be the one ti bring up the relationship talk first. That way you know she is ready, because the main mistake men make is rushing things by asking for a relationship way too soon. So it’s always best to pet the woman be the one who asks for commitment first before you do. So don’t ever bring it up, and let her be the one to do it.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:47 AM
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Dude it’s literally impossible to know with certainty until you actually go there and approach them. Just be respectful when you approach them and see their reaction. It’s ok to approach people, approaching by itself is not creepy or annoying, it depends more on what you actually say in your approach. You can say something indirect like: “Hey excuse me do you know where i can find the closest pharmacy?” and see how polite or outgoing she is when she gives you the answer and then casually say “th…
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:58 PM
1

Keep telling yourself whatever you need to feel good about yourself, but i ain’t here to debate more nonsense. Peace.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:58 PM
2

I love how men complain about women standards, as if wanting something good was something immoral or unfair. As if not settling down for someone who doesn’t make us happy or satisfied was somehow evil or immoral. But, nope… according to men, women have to accept average or losers because? Oh that’s right, because it’s not about what women want, it’s about what guys want. They feel average and frustrated with their dating or sex life and wish women would lower their standards so they too could ge…
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:55 PM
1

💤🥱😴 You are just projecting, just because you are boring and uninteresting, doesn’t mean everyone else is also boring and uninteresting. I don’t need to ask myself anything, i’m quite happy with my dating life.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:44 PM
4

Many things can make a man interesting: Sense of humour, Wittiness, Sex Appeal, Confidence, Has money, Has a fit body, Can make you feel emotions. Doesn’t need all of those things, some things can compensate the lack of other things. It would help better if you asked what isn’t interesting: A guy worried about what others think of him, a guy who is boring, who has generic logical conversations or his mind goes blank, because he has nothing interesting or fun to say, a guy who takes himself too s…
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:07 AM
4

So if you think they prefer higher tier men, then you have already answered your own question. What’s the point of working on yourself? Because you have come to the conclusion that most women prefer higher tier men, even if some minority of women prefer to go for losers according to you.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:00 AM
1

Stop trying to get her approval, stop trying to impress her, stop trying to make her think well of you and actually be your authentic self, the one who doesn’t give a fuck whether she approved or not of what you say or do.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:56 AM
12

It’s funny because in this sub there are tons of people complaining that women’s standards are too high, that they want a top 1% man, and that average or below average men just are destined to be single or sexless. However you are here complaining that women prefer average or below average guys who are losers, over guys who are more high value. Which would mean women’s standards are really low. 🤣 Make your minds up. Because you’re all contradicting each other. Maybe the problem comes down to you…
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:39 AM
7

There is no obligation, people just do it because they feel they have to do something or else they will be alone. It’s not easy to say “i’ll just give up on dating” and actually mean it when they see a “pretty person passing by” or when they see others having success. More often than not failure comes down to wrong mindset about women, that you have learned through outdated social norms and wrong ideals, taught by movies, songs, parents, religions, women themselves, etc. All of these things are …
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:38 PM
8

Just befriend them, don’t be direct, become their gym pal, and slowly work your way. Don’t just go hit on them directly because you will be face with lots of nos, and you will immediately be known as that guy who goes to the gym to bother girls. So just make conversations between sets or something and don’t ask for the number straight away, wait until you have been talking to each other for a a few days.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:53 AM
10

Women don’t take the initiative in the majority of cases. So it’s always better to grab their number.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:51 AM
2

You are in your 20s, dude you ain’t ready to have a committed relationship and most girls you age will not commit for too long, because they are at their prime of sexual attractiveness… They will want to experiment with as many guys as possible. So forget about having a relationship and just hookup until you are in your 30s and actually do have something to offer because right now you don’t
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:04 PM
2

you are both consenting adults, and of equal maturity. So it’s fine.
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:58 PM
6

It doesn’t land you women it just makes it easier to be given an opportunity by them, but doesn’t guarantee anything.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:53 PM
2

You don’t get it because you keep suggesting that being masculine is disrespectful and pushy, and as such you have to tone it own to be respectful which only shows you don’t get what being masculine is about.
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:22 PM
2

You really don’t get it
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:17 PM
1

Having an iPhone doesn’t mean you get laid. The vast majority of people also own android phones, and huge amounts of people without iPhone have sex. Your phone doesn’t determine whether you get laid or not.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:33 AM
2

She expects you to act masculine, take charge, make her horny, turning her on, and instead what you are doing so far is acting apologetic, too empathetic, submissive, and basically like a “mister nice guy”. You need more testosterone because your energy is way too neutral and there is not enough sexual polarity which is killing the attraction.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:19 AM
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Well, then you can cry about it on the internet while other people have fun in college.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:41 AM
-2

Doesn’t mean anything. Plenty of times a girl has asked for a guy’s number only for nothing to happen because she doesn’t feel like it.
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:36 AM
9

Girls are not really interested in random guys who just ask for number without bothering to get to know them because they find those guys shallow and like they are just doing this with every girl. So it’s an immediate red flag for them. And even if they give you their number, after you leave they think about what they just did and that you are stranger so by the time you text them they have already decided they don’t wanna see you again.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:30 PM
7

You just have to stop hiding your sexual interest in her. That’s the reason you put yourself in the friendzone. Because you take too long to express to her that you think she is sexy and hot, and dont you scale things physically with her,… you probably never even tell girls that you desire them…, you just act like their friend, never going for a kiss, or sex, and then confess feelings out of nowhere which is why you always get friendzoned.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:10 PM
0

Considering how short the interaction was it’s likely she is not that interested to be honest. A girl giving you her number after such a short conversation usually flakes more often than not, and never meets up with you because it ain’t solid. She doesn’t know you, you don’t know if you connect, or if there is chemistry. So don’t take it personal if she doesn’t end up meeting you cuz it’s not a solid number close as for what to text her, you need to say what you want to either find out about her…
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:06 PM
10

By talking to people and being interested in who they are, why they do the things they do, and how they feel about those things, as well as sharing about yourself.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:52 PM
12

You can approach anywhere in campus. You should try indirect as a first line like: “hey excuse me, do you know where is the cafeteria? oh thanks! what’s your name by the way, i like your vibe. Marta that sounds spanish? Oh you are french? god, i hate you already… Nah just kidding…” and so on. Add some teasing to mess with her, after you asked the indirect question. Spend at least between 5 to 10 mins talking with her before you try to escale things. Don’t go for a number, instead find out what s…
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:47 PM
1

Her interest depends on what you do while you are in person, which means her interests or intentions are not written in stone. She could right now be interested in just being friendly, but if you play your cards right when you spend time in person next day you see her, that could change towards being interested in sex/romance
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:08 PM
1

You ask too many questions, you don’t really say anything humorous that makes girls laugh. Asking questions is a way to put the ball on her court to lead the conversation and that ain’t gonna happen. If you are not humorous or funny or provocative from the first messages, they will ignore. You also need to stop giving free compliments, it’s just validation you are giving them which only feeds their egos. Telling a girl she is cute isn’t gonna make her like you and she already knows she is cute. …
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:14 AM
2

What behaviour would you think could come across as creepy or scare her?
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:13 PM
9

It’s not like people go around with exact precise time frames like they were robots. Seems pretty unnatural having to think about how much time exactly you need to spend with someone. Like i don’t know that’s just something you feel based on the mood, and the vibe. I cannot tell you just spend 2 hours and treat that as if a rule because it depends on the girl the situation the mood etc
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:10 PM
1

That’s normal because no person in their right mind would want to be like you. You just want to throw all your frustrations on reddit like a keyboard warrior behind a screen to make yourself feel better about your shitty life.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:48 PM
2

Giving advice based on a fictional movie like the notebook, nobody told you that real life isn’t like the movies. As soon as you start acting like that the girl thinks you are desperate and needy who can’t accept no for an answer. Only works if you are Ryan Gosling.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:45 PM
5

The way you talk with this woman is way too apologetic, incoherent, inconsistent and needy. There is no need to say “sorry i have been to busy” why are you saying sorry? Because you decided not to talk to her? That’s not a reason to say sorry, specially when she is the one who first stopped replying in the first place. There is also no need to say “text you tomorrow” . What is the purpose of saying that, it just come across as a commitment you are making, why are you making commitments with a gi…
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:57 AM
5

I mean if you call you got to show some personality with the way you communicate Simply saying “erm, hello? It’s Jeff from the bar? What’s up?” doesn’t really show your personality, think of it any guy can literally say that in the same way which makes you come as generic guy number 50 who said the same thing like a robot. How do you express yourself when you are with people you trust and feel comfortable with? so bet you joke around, have another tone, more funny, more excited, more upbeat, and…
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:56 AM
4

If you think women will be turned off when you tell them that you are a virgin, imagine telling them you paid a prostitute. Just don’t say you are a virgin simple as that, i don’t get why you need to tell something like that to women, like there is no benefit at all, and it’s not like lying about that will affect negatively the rest of your life or anything really.
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:37 AM
1

Learn to read.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:13 PM
3

You are the fun, not the date activity. You need to be the guy that’s fun to be around even if you are in a dessert surrounded by nothing other than sand.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:42 PM
2

“fornicated” spoken like a true virgin.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:40 PM
3

Because you haven’t learned yet that dating is a game where you always have to keep your options open, it doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship because all relationships are temporary. You always have to have more options, and practice your flirting, etc in case the relationship fails and you don’t wanna be alone and finished when you are single again. And yes this means that it’s a pragmatic approach, and not the idealised “i only have eyes for you” kind of love, that you see in romantic …
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:38 PM
1

When a girl does that you need to just say “ok bye, let me know when you are change your mind” and never talk again to her, if she reaches out, make it a point that you only interested in sex, not on being her friend or text buddy or anything. You need to polarise, you need to be radical, either we have sex or we don’t talk again simple as that.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:30 PM
0

Tinder is for hookups, so telling yourself you dodged a bullet when you are just looking to fuck one time and move on, is kinda pointless.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:28 PM
1

Read it again for what
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:25 PM
18

Better to say you have to cancel because someone invited you to do something super cool (like a bad bunny concert, or anything super exciting) that you couldn’t say no to. At least that way you show her that you had something better/cooler than meeting her which is high value and shows you don’t need her. Because asking “are we still on?” after she basically ignored you, just sounds weak and lame as fuck.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:25 PM
1

Don’t smile if you are not talking to the woman simple as that. Smiling from a distance to a random girl you don’t know at all is by itself creepy doesn’t matter how you do it, because it’s more about why on earth are you smiling at them which is what makes them uncomfortable. If you want to smile at them approach them talk to them and while you are talking keep a playful positive tone combined with a light smile, but if you are just silent, not talking at all or engaging with them, but smiling …
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:32 AM
5

With women it’s about how they react to your flirting and your moves… So if you want to know you have to make moves and approach, and take the risk yourself and see her reaction. If you tell her she is sexy or cute, pay attention to her reaction. Does she show disgust or does she smile? If you hold her hand. does she feel uncomfortable or does she hold on tight. If you tell her you get distracted when she smiles at you in such a cute way, does she react badly to the the word cute or does she rea…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:25 AM
3

It means that you don’t talk about what’s private with women, you keep it a secret to respect the girl you have been with and avoid harming her reputation or her good image and to avoid being a douche who shows off about banging many girls a different they are trophies
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:33 AM
9

You are supposed to flirt with her to warn her, like: You know when you smile at me like that, i get so distracted, like i can’t stop staring at your lips” Saying things like that is flirting and it’s down to lead into romantic tension with the girl. She isn’t gonna give you any signs, you just have to express where you are going with your flirting, and based on how she takes your comments proceed into caressing her hands, looking into her lips, biting your own lips with desire, and telling her …
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:52 PM
5

You get them to be responsive, not by collecting their snapchat or numbers, but by directly escalating things physically (kiss and same day lay) when you were talking with them. That gets them invested, whereas if you just ask for a number you are one of the dozens of guys they gave their number to that night.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:35 PM
3

Never talk badly about yourself, so skip the “i may not be a great dancer” bullshit.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:53 PM
5

Never talk badly about yourself, so skip the “i may not be a great dancer” bullshit.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:53 PM
10

A kiss needs to happen by the second date the latest. Sex can wait until 3rd or 4th date if you want
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:50 PM
0

False. There a lot of hot costa rican girls who are skinny.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:46 PM
2

The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:14 PM
4

And then you see Scandinavian men complaining about how hard it is to get laid in norway and sweden… You are not taking the tourist factor into account. Tourists are always seen more attractive in general in the vast majority of countries than the native people. I heard the exact same thing from europeans going to america, that american girls are so easy to sleep with. You are looking it from a very narrow view and not looking at the whole picture here.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:00 PM
1

Telling yourself that it’s about supply and demand, it’s great way to protect your ego. Because obviously admitting that if one sucks with women, and one is completely incompetent at talking with them… That would be too tough for the ego, so we need to blame things outside of our control to feel better about ourselves. “I didn’t fail the exam because i didn’t study, no it’s because the teacher hates me” Girls in poor countries like Venezuela, Vietnam are easier for you, because you are an americ…
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:43 PM
5

No, don’t do that because you would just sound super feminine which isn’t good for building attraction as you kill the sexual polarity. You need to sound more masculine, and those emojis aren’t masculine at all. You are also giving her validation and kissing her ass by doing that which lowers your value.
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:24 PM
3

You are only a creep if you act awkward, repressed, dull, with people… the trick is to be super outgoing, positive, high energy, in a good mood, smiling, etc
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:13 PM
9

It’s obvious that if you want a girl to like you, you have to do things in real life, not behind a screen. That’s just common sense. 90% of your conversations with her should happen in person, not behind a phone screen.
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:38 PM
6

Depends on your zodiac sign 🙄
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:48 AM
2

You have the wiki on this subs menu that answers all basic questions
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:38 AM
2

You can replace nervous with any other adjective that describes how it makes you feel… “The way you look at me is making my heart pump so fast right now, please stop it before i get cardiac arrest” or “If you keep looking at me like that, and i get cardiac arrest, i’m suing you” A bit exaggerated these last examples, but it’s just to show the point of making it about how it makes you feel, and not just say: “i like your eyes, or i like the way you look at me” The point is to not make generic com…
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:24 AM
4

Sure, but it’s not just complimenting like: “You have nice eyes” or “ your dress looks good” Because that’s too platonic, even her aunt or friend could say that to her, it’s a bit more about showing your desire or how it affects you, for example: “The way you look at me is making me nervous” or “I love how that dress looks on you so much, that i can’t even concentrate on what i am doing right now” Notice the difference?
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:22 PM
3

Flirting is basically expressing verbally and non verbally that you are into the girl, example: “Damn, you look fine” “Stop smiling at me like that, it makes me go crazy” “Oh wow, your skin is so soft, i love it when a girl has such a soft skin 😏” “Sorry i was distracted, I got lost in your eyes” “You look so feminine, if you don’t stop i may faint any second” “Can you stop being so intelligent? I’m trying to give my heart a rest, and you ain’t helping” Those are all very clear ways to express d…
/r/seduction26/08/22 10:57 PM
3

They just want followers nothing more. They aren’t serious about dating 99.99% of the guys they talk to on those dating apps.
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:23 PM
21

The problem with being on the internet is that you always get the impression that things in this world are always black or white. If i’m progressive and you don’t agree with me politically speaking then you are a nazi, whereas if i’m conservative and you don’t agree with me then you are a communist. “If you approach a girl anywhere you are creeping her out, women don’t want to be approached, leave us alone. I hate when men approach me.” Those women are nothing but a super small minority, they do…
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:40 PM
6

She disrespected you and then to make her point more clear, she blocked you. It’s very obvious that you need to move on and forget about this girl forever. She isn’t interested in you, no matter what you do. The game with this girl is over, you have been disqualified. “You just wasted my time and not gonna bend over backwards to meet you. I expressed this to her over text just saying I’m a person who values my time and I said nah I don’t want to go on a date, I’m good. I left it about a week and…
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:28 PM
1

If you say so, at least i get laid. Peace
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:48 PM
2

If she reinitiates contact is because she wants to be friendly and polite. Not liking you doesn’t mean she then has to never talk to you in a platonic way.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:43 PM
2

No that’s what you do, normal healthy people wanna have fun.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:42 PM
2

Dude. Read the actual law and not what some random youtuber tells you. No one is gonna put you in jail without proving you did something wrong, and also you are not going to end up in jail, cuz you sound like the kind of guy who has never touch a boob before, And lastly the vast majority of women don’t go around false accusing men of rape. If that were the case then you would have already had been accused of rape, if you actually had sex and it didn’t happen. The things you said that a woman jus…
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:33 PM
3

he made it up, the law doesn’t say anything like that
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:00 PM
3

She isn’t interested in you neither for something serious nor for friends with benefits.
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:58 PM
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A law where the word of a woman is enough without evidence, to make you go to the jail False. I read the actual law and it says in a criminal case, the burden of proof does not rely on the accused, which makes sense considering that the constitution of spain says every citizen has a right to be considered innocent until proven guilty. And in the absence of actual real evidence it will apply the legal principle “in dubio pro reo”, which in latin means the presumption of innocence prevails. That’s…
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:52 PM
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Because it’s generic enough that it sounds good. Most women aren’t really trying to help guys get success with them. It’s not in their interest that guys know how to get what they want from women.
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:39 PM
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Them hit the gym every day and stop complaining
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:06 PM
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The problem is you hear: “For a man to be attractive he has to be nice, if he is not nice i’m not gonna be attracted to him” what women actually mean is: “I wish a man that i am already attracted to was also nice, but if he is not, too bad because i’m still attracted to him regardless” So they are not telling you what traits makes a guy attractive, they are just telling you what they wish a guy who is attractive had as a bonus.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:04 PM
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No one here is talking about long term. Just casual sex one time and that’s it. You don’t need to be yourself for that goal.
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:45 PM
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It’s not the same game, because flirting with women has to be done without outcome dependence. Sales you are forced or be outcome dependant. Sales you want to get something from someone, when you flirt you are connecting with someone and having fun with that person, sharing laughs, without focusing on the end result. It’s not the same at all, and the fact that you try to tackle both in the same way, is the reason you fail with women. You cannot treat women as if they are clients or leads.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:42 PM
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Sure he has his definition of success. So i guess we agree to disagree which further proves my point, about people having different experiences doing something and finding different levels of success. Some guys succeed at cold approaching and some others don’t and since everyone definition of success is different then everyone can be right in their own opinion. Which means that cold approaching is a great way for some people, whereas online dating is great for other people. So do what works for …
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:41 PM
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Like i said, you just want to prove me wrong no matter what i say. You are free to waste your time on dating apps as well. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:29 PM
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It doesn’t matter what i tell you, because you like most people on reddit just want to prove other people wrong, no matter what they say. It also doesn’t matter the stats because someone’s stats doesn’t mean you will have similar stats, since there are many variables. People are humans not machines, and as such everyone has their own unique set of social skills, charm, humor, wittiness, confidence, style, personality, social intelligence, emotional mood, that all influence whether someone has mo…
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:26 PM
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They have more success cold approaching than on online dating, since they don’t get enough matches and most of them lose interest in a few texts. You find yourself what’s motivating for you, my job here isn’t to convince you to do cold approaching. I don’t care what you do, i’m just saying that to discourage someone else from doing something because you suck at it is absurd. You won’t see me discouraging people from doing online dating because i know people who have very high success on it, even…
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:22 PM
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Ok, dude believe what you want to believe. My whole point is that other people find success doing cold approach and others don’t, simple as that. So to conclude that something cannot work for anybody just because it doesn’t work for you, is absurd. It’s nothing but a lame attempt at protecting their own ego because they can’t accept the fact that they are not as competent and that other people in their same situation and with similar conditions, just know better in that area than them.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:49 AM
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Enough to feel good about themselves and their results with women and getting laid often, and for others to be impressed about how often they date new women, as for specific numbers normal people don’t go around doing math. Maybe that’s your problem that you treat this as a science or something that needs to be measured. This prevents you from truly connecting with women, since you are outcome dependent, and goal oriented. And talking with women is the whole opposite of that, it’s about feelings…
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:38 AM
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He does, the only reason he is here is because he just wants to hear that his failure with women is not due to his incompetence, when in fact it is.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:07 AM
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Got various friends who are very good at it, and tend to get good results, they are fun, witty extroverted people, and can easily make the girls as well as the men laugh immediately… They just have people’s skills and can easily get along with anyone they talk to. On the other hand i have other friends who are very socially awkward with people, don’t really know what to say at first with new people they meet, and tend to be quite stiff and logical in conversations, obviously they don’t get much …
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:00 AM
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If you show me a guy who can get 50% success rate with women on any type of way he meets women; from social circle, to dating apps, to night clubs, etc maybe il listen. Sorry, but you seem to think that the majority of people sleep with half the woman they approach in their life, that is not the case for 99% of people so i don’t know why you would expect that from cold approaching. In dating apps, you need to swipe on hundreds or thousands of women and you are super unlikely to sleep with half o…
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:53 AM
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Because you are in a first dates, so that’s coming on too strong,she is highly unlikely to feel anything serious for you so soon. People don’t go on first dates and then say “hey i love you” as that’s rushing things and is usually received badly and kills the vibe you two had. More things and more time needs to have happened first to say you love someone, from holding hands intimately, to kissing, or even, in some cases, sleep with that person first.
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:29 AM
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Instagram has a map search function, just type your location, or click on the map to see photos posted from other instagram users in that area. You will find plenty of girls who posted photos near you.
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:59 AM
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If a woman calls a man fat then she isn’t testing his ego, she is insulting him. If a man calls a tall woman short, he isn’t insulting her, he is just teasing her. Men also don’t give so much importance to a woman’s ego as women do, so men don’t really have a need to test a woman’s character since their attraction is not based on that.
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:12 AM
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It’s funny because many other people get very good results from cold approach, which shows that someone’s social skills, natural charisma and attractiveness have a tremendous influence on whether cold approaching works or not. Just because it doesn’t work for you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for other people. Your reality about cold approach doesn’t really represent the reality of many others who do cold approach. There are some who will share your reality and many others won won’t share it The…
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:10 AM
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Your ego getting bruised is actually good for you. ego is not your friend, it’s actually your own worst enemy. Protecting it doesn’t do you any good. When women targets your ego they are actually helping you to be humble and feel yourself from it.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:59 AM
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It’s not an attack, you are choosing to see it as an attack. Being called short or shorter than her ex boyfriends isn’t objectively an attack. Anyway if you are not trying to date her then this post should not be posted in seduction sub, since the whole point of this sub is to date women. So if you talk about a woman here that you are not even interested in, then this point has no place in this sub. And women will always test you and any men for his strength and sense of confidence. Guys who are…
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:55 AM
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What she did is not an insult, that’s the problem with your fragile mentality. That’s just a test because women can’t trust that you are carefree guy who is confident just because you say you are, they have to test you to see if you are the real deal or a pretender. Being called short is not an insult. If anything it’s a description. If you see it as an insult that’s because you are insecure. Short isn’t objectively something to be taken offence on. If you do, you just show that you are super in…
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:41 AM
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They like to do it to test the guys strength and confidence, and based on his reaction their interest about him can increase or decrease. If his ego is fragile their interest decreases. If the guy doesn’t take himself so seriously, the interest increases.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:30 AM
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Never involve friends into your interest for a woman. Never it’s the worst thing you can do. Your relationship with girls that you are interested in, should always be a private thing between you and her, no one else should be involved. If you want to know if someone is interested you gotta approach them, talk to them, laugh together, invite them to go out, flirt with her, make a move to kiss her and so on… You find out if she is interested by seeing if she lets you do those things, not by asking…
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:54 PM
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🤣ego of men is so fragile. One day you will learn that mens ego is their biggest weakness, specially when talking with women.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:49 PM
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Humour that works well with women is all about being absurd, exaggerating things, misinterpreting things, and saying unpredictable things that she doesn’t expect when she asks generic questions.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:48 PM
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Telling her “hi how are you doing” is generic boring talk. Why don’t you say something humorous that grabs her attention? Rather than being generic asking generic questions, why don’t you show your own way of talking, your own personality, your own sense of humour? Women get bored easily, specially if the guy acts generic, and doesn’t show how he is different… If you ask generic questions like that you are proving that you are no different than all the other guys that say the same generic things…
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:44 PM
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Being called a “nice guy” means you are playing it safe when it comes to showing sexual desire and physical escalation, basically you hide your desire and you don’t escalate things physically because you want to avoid being seen as a creep. That’s what nice guy refers to. A nice guy could sleep in the same room with a girl he likes but he won’t make any sexual move in order to “respect her” and to not “creep her out” and risk “losing the friendship”. So he will never say things that could make h…
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:43 PM
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Usually when I talk I just ask how their evening/how they are doing and what they are about and maybe after 5 minutes might ask about plans this weekend or the like. Do I keep pushing forward with this model or should I try something else? That’s not seductive playful talk, that’s formal and generic small talk which doesn’t really cause girls to be interested in you. “How’s your evening, how are you doing, do you have any plans this weekend” this kind of talk where you keep asking questions most…
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:19 PM
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Make them laugh a lot. If you can get a girl feeling emotional highs all the time, your flirtation will be taken well because you are making her feel good. If you however are generic dull boring and can’t make her feels any positive emotional high then your flirting won’t be taken well. Also, lose weight on the mean time. Having excessive body fat is a choice, not a condition.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:56 AM
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Lol dude. It’s none of your business what she does with the other guy. Just don’t talk about that. Don’t bring it up. If she brings it up, change topics.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:52 PM
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Revenge… Dude you sound like a serial killer or someone you see in the news that murder a women as revenge, think of what you actually said dude. Healthy people don’t seek revenge they just move on because they are mature. You sound immature as fuck and that can be dangerous to society. Learn to accept that life doesn’t always go the way you want and move on.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:41 PM
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Better than saying “your skin looks good”, or “your skin is glowing”. It’s better when you say: “I love it when a girl has such a soft and glowing skin” “I go crazy for women whose skin glows like that” “Your skin looks so fine, I can’t even concentrate on anything else right now” In other words, talk about how her nice skin makes you feel. Talk about how her traits, her qualities or her attributes, makes you desire her.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:15 PM
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Escalate things, if she complies she is into you. If she doesn’t let you escalate, then she isn’t into you. So invite her out again to do something specific on an specific day… Don’t say “hey you wanna go out sometime?” instead be precise like: “I’m going to x place tomorrow at 7, join me it will be fun” if she gives more excuses to not go out, she isn’t interested If she goes out with you then flirt in the date and go for a kiss if she accepts to kiss you, she is into you if not she is not Than…
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:56 PM
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No you don’t ask “do you wanna have sex”… Instead you start flirting sexually. Example: “I can’t stop looking at your gaze, it’s getting so hard not to kiss you right now” “I love it when a girl smiles at me like that, it makes me crazy” “I think it’s very sexy, how smart and funny you are, i love girls who are so smart and funny at the same time” Depending on how she reacts to that you can make a move to kiss her, by biting your lip and staring at her mouth, and leaning in. Then you move invite…
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:43 PM
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You tell yourself whatever y pop y want but that’s stalking. Just don’t check the snap map then
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:05 PM
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Dude. Stop stalking her jesus. You are not very self aware about how creepy it is, that you are checking out where her location is, that you call her to confirm where she is,… You went on a date, ok good for you. That doesn’t give you the right to start stalking her or trying to figure out what she is doing while she is not with you. Women and men who are not committed to someone will usually date many people at the same time, because that’s an efficient dating strategy. If you choose a dating s…
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:55 AM
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Because girls have a conflict between the social norms they have learned plus their “logical mode”, and their natural instincts plus their “emotional mode” Women ultimately based their behavior on what they feel is best for them, not on their logical objective conclusions about what would be best for them.. Whereas guys trust their brain and logical thinking more, women tend to have more trust in their institution and their feelings in the heat if the moment. That is why often they do things wit…
/r/seduction22/08/22 04:29 PM
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It tells that she is a person who wants to have fun and enjoy life the way she chooses, which is a very normal human desire.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:28 AM
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stop protecting your ego. The reason you pussy out, is because your ego has a self perception of your own attractiveness, competence and worth that you want to believe it’s real. Approaching a girl means that you put all of that at risk, your perception of your worth is at stake because you treat this girl as a judge if your worth. Your ego knows this and thus tries to stop you because your ego would rather continue the lie it tells itself, than finding out that other girls do not value you. If …
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:20 AM
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You need to get laid.
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:00 AM
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Attractive people get laid more often than unattractive people. In other news, water is wet.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:58 AM
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If no one cares including you, you wouldn’t care to respond to me mate
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:06 PM
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Interesting, and did i like it?
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:00 PM
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You are in control on whether you get friendzoned or not, because it’s not women that put you in the friendzone. It’s men who put themselves in the friendzone by acting platonic and too safe with girls.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:34 PM
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By calling it “small talk” you treat it as if it’s some inconvenience that you are forced to do before getting the number, when the whole point of seduction is to have banter fun playful conversation that you can even enjoy more than sex itself sometimes because it’s fun to be playful and witty and having smooth conversations with women that you like. But you however are outcome dependant, your goal is getting the number, your entire obsession is thinking: “Can i ask already for the number? or s…
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:30 PM
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It is indeed needy, don’t listen to that advice. You should never ask a girl why she is taking so long to reply, specially if she isn’t your girlfriend.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:54 PM
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Demanding explanations to a girl over a why she is not replying soon enough is one of the most needy lame things you can do, so that’s an absolute no.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:53 PM
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You are treating this as an issue whereas others do not. No one goes around verifying someone’s age before they approach. They just approach and through out the conversation they just say “you seem kinda young” and that’s when the other person just says their age. If they say they are a minor then you just say “good to meet you”. It’s not that big of a deal, honestly.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:52 PM
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You are a such a red flag. No wonder she isn’t into you.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:49 PM
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That shot is over dude. She isn’t interested in you. You are being creepy and borderline harassing her.
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:28 PM
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The good news is you never needed to do that to get laid. It’s try hard behaviour, and if you then don’t know what to say to the woman, it was all for nothing.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:01 AM
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The point of texting is to get her in the mood to go out with you. You don’t ask her straight away for a date if she isn’t in the mood. For her to be in the mood you have to text her playfully to get her in that mood. The key to know if she is in the mood is because she is having a good time texting you which she shows by laughing, and replying fast and asking you questions and being very proactive about keeping the conversation alive. You need to feel the vibe, but NOT text for more than a week…
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:52 AM
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If a girl is bored, you are probably boring person to be around and it doesn’t get solved by simply sayings a phrase. You need to have an interesting life and talk about it, a life where you get to live experiences, so you can share anecdotes and stories, and your crazy adventures. You don’t need to text her every day, you don’t need to text if you are doing other stuff and are busy. You only need to say stuff when you feel like sharing a laugh with. And you shouldn’t go wrong a movie date on a …
/r/seduction20/08/22 10:10 PM
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Start treating her more sexual. Start behaving like a guy who wants to literally fuck her, not like a guy who wants to be her nice friend.
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:41 AM
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She is not sure if it’s just friends or dating with you because you don’t act like a guy who is sexually attracted and turned on by her, you treat her the same way you would treat your sister: A hug, a handshake,… The problem is you are playing it safe and friendly, you don’t take any risk, you don’t act sexual with her, the way you treat her is appropriate enough to treat your sister in the same way and that’s the problem. The way you treat a girl you are on a date with, shouldn’t be the same w…
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:37 AM
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At the end, I hugged her and thought “I might as well go for the kiss and see what happens rather than not make a move.” The problem is that based on what you wrote… in those “dates” you weren’t actually being 100% clear about being into her. So suddenly coming out of nowhere asking to kiss her is something that would be unexpected. Because you are talking to her in such a way that isn’t really man to woman, but more like pals. She asked me, “are you into me?” to which I replied “A little bit.” …
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:30 AM
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There is usually lots of things you do wrong: Not sexualising the conversation, and showing sexual intent via your flirting, and instead making the mistake of giving compliments that her mum could also say to the girl. Not making her feel emotions, and instead sticking to logical, generic, predictable conversation… Trying to romance girls and being romantic and acting like you care a lot for them, when that’s not how you get casual sex. Being completely clueless about your image, and your lack o…
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:33 PM
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Girls should always find out from you that you are into them, not from friends or relatives or any third party. So no. Don’t involve other people into your private matters.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:26 PM
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The question is why on earth do you have to say those things to a woman lol. You went into logical mode with her and activated her defences. There is no need to remind a woman that sex is a woman’s decision, or any of the other stuff you said. Like what even is the purpose of saying those things? It almost feels like you resent women for those things, it feels kinda like you are judging. Next time just don’t t talk about those things, they are not seductive, and they are pointless to discuss wit…
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:16 AM
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That’s not dirty talk. 🤣 That’s sexual flirtation, which is fine on a date. Dirty talk would be telling her what you want to do to her sexually.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:30 AM
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Start a conversation, feel the vibe, see if there is chemistry and if the conversation flows smoothly for 10 minutes, and then you can suggest taking drinks together right there on the spot. Forget about numbers and try to escalate as much as possible in person and go for a “same day lay.”.
/r/seduction18/08/22 10:28 AM
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There is nothing sexy about saying “do you prefer calling or texting” but keep telling yourself that narrative.
/r/seduction18/08/22 04:22 AM
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A girl looking at you can have different meanings. She is looking at you because she is interested. She is looking at you because you look weird or more ugly than usual. She looks at you but without really noticing you just lost in her own thoughts, as if day dreaming,… Behaviours like this in silent from a distance are not exact in their meaning. It all comes down to “you wanting to avoid rejection” and that’s the mentality you need to switch, you need to stop trying to avoid rejection, and ins…
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:14 AM
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Many woman are not gonna give you any noticeable signals, as they are quite subtle and most guys just don’t get what they mean or if they truly mean that they are interested. So you should approach anyone you like, talk to them and try to escalate things to see if they are into it or not.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:31 AM
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Yes, nothing worst than guys who keep asking questions for like 80% of the conversation, like it’s some sort of police interrogation. Say things, jokes, assumptions, opinions, observations, stories, anecdotes,… etc The questions should be kept to a minimum like 10% of the conversation at most
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:53 PM
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You can learn social skills with a mentor, or coach that specialises in social skills. Just google them, and you will find tons of coaches and mentors who will make a step by step plan to improve your social skills in an effective way.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:29 PM
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If you don’t meet up and kiss within the first month or 2 at most, it will not happen with that foreign girl. Just saying. It’s fine to talk with foreign girls provided that you two meet as soon as possible. Anything more than 2 months at most, and you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:26 PM
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It means that you are trying to accommodate to her preferences and wishes. Basically, that you are trying to be the kind of guy she says she wants, trying to prove to her that you are everything she is looking for, trying to impress her, trying to make sure she thinks well of you as to making sure that she can’t think badly of you. all of this kills any attraction, and it kills the connection as you are not being true to yourself, you are being unauthentic… Examples: Let’s say you hate Justin Bi…
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:21 PM
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She can like you initially, but if you make mistakes she can be turned off and stop liking you.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:09 PM
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Talk to them for 10 minutes at least. Be playful, be humorous, right away, you don’t want to start off dull and boring, you want to make them laugh fast, so go there with lines or jokes or something like lick up lines or if you are naturally funny just improvise. exaggerate, be absurd, be provocative and shameless… Compliment her personality, her virtues, her accomplishments, and her values… Now her looked
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:04 PM
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You don’t show your intentions by complimenting her looks. You show intentions by sexualising the conversation in the middle of the conversations Saying “You look cute” does nothing with girls, it’s generic, it’s overused, and even her mum says that to her, it doesn’t have any sexual connotation, and as such, it does nothing to show your intent. It might be fine to start the conversation but it certainly doesn’t build sexual tension which is the important thing. However if you said after you hav…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:57 PM
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It’s not about confessing your feelings, dude. This isn’t a romantic movie where the protagonists finally reveals at the end of the movie how he feels, hoping that she will then understand the love and want something with him. It’s about kissing, it’s about sexualising, it’s about hitting on her, and treating her like a girl you just want to fuck, not have a relationship with. First you kiss and sleep with her, and after that the girl is the first one to admit before you do, that she has feeling…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:50 PM
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Sorry but you are not gonna succeed with this girl for many reasons. 1 - You know nothing about girls and dating dynamics. 2 - You follow the friend route, which leads to the friendzone. 3 - You have oneitis, which means that rather than hitting on many girls at the same time to diversify and have more options, you are putting all your eggs on the same basket, which is the worst way to go about your dating life because you invest too much in one girl only for her not to be into you. 4 - You are …
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:46 PM
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I did sent to her a lots of sings that like her like sending ❤️❤️ to her and tell her that she is beautiful by commenting on her photos stories Instagram and she always reply nice That’s just feeding her ego by giving her free validation like all the other simps do. What do you expect her to do when she sees those hearts or after she sees that you think she is beautiful? Like ok she knows and now what do you expect to happen after that now? Giving her signals means nothing if you don’t need avál…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:40 PM
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What does it matter what she wants. The question is what do you want? What she wants is irrelevant at this point. If you want to have sex with her then you hit on her, ask her out, and escalate things physically, tell her she is attractive, and if she reacts well to that, kiss her… In other words stop trying to find out her intentions and just focus on getting to your goal without giving a shit what her intentions are. What matters are your intentions and see if she lets you make moves.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:34 PM
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Don’t ask girls where they prefer to go. It’s your job to decide and make a firm stand. If she doesn’t like your choice, you don’t accommodate to her preferences because that’s needy. You just say your lost, i’ll go with someone else” or “cool, if you change your mind to actually wanna have fun, then let me know”. So, next time don’t say shit like “or would your rather go to a movie first?” or “what do you prefer?”… It’s like you are trying too hard for her to say yes no matter what. Just be dec…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:31 PM
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If i’m honest with you, i don’t think you are ever gonna have anything with her because you are just so clueless about girls. You expect a simple solution to a difficult problem which is that in order to get girls you must know about girls, and you don’t. That’s not something that can be learned in a simple reddit post. For example, you say you want to get a good connection with her, and what does that mean? That you want to become her close friend? That’s literally putting yourself in the frien…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:16 PM
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The issue she is not putting my texts or priority when i text her Well she isn’t your girlfriend, you haven’t kissed or hooked up with her. So of course you are not a priority to her. I don’t know where you got the idea that a girl who has nothing with you should make you a priority and treat you as if you were already something. You are just people who talk nothing more. she take couple of hours or day to reply even she post stories and do some likes to posts of other staff but after hours then…
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:54 PM
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You should never ask the girl you want to have something with how to behave with her, because that’s not her job to tell you. She isn’t supposed to tell you how to treat a woman, or how to act like a man. She isn’t supposed to tell you how to succeed with her. Women expect you to know. So no, don’t ask her if she prefers calling or texting.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:43 PM
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The horny vibe is temporary. If you get her horny today over texts, but you have to meet on friday, then when friday comes the horny vibe is already gone. And since you didn’t escalate physically when she was horny, now she is more likely to be more defensive about you because she feels pressured to have sex even when she is not in the mood that she was, and could possibly even cancel the date you had on friday. That is why it’s often said that texting is for setting up dates, not to get the gir…
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:15 PM
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You have a conversation without asking so many question by making the following: Statements, opinions, assumptions about her, observations, playful accusations, messing with her, joking around, being absurd, expressing your admiration, satisfaction, curiosity, intrigue, disagreement, distrust, suspicions, your emotions,… Sharing anecdotes, personal stories and experiences, and talking about you imagine your life or her in the future, the dreams you want to accomplish, and how you will accomplish…
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:16 AM
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You have to escalate things physically and sexually, if she doesn’t let you escalate it means you are stuck in the same phase and when that happens you have to leave the conversation.
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:54 AM
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It means you are in the wrong sub. This can go in the sex sub, not in a seduction sub, where we discuss topics such us how to talk to women and men and how to date them , not problems with your anatomy.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:20 PM
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They are not dates at this point. They are hangouts. That’s the problem of acting asexual with a girl. You silently dig yourself into the friendzone. I’m sure the girl doesn’t call their hangouts as “dates”
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:33 PM
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What is the point of spending more time with her just to build rapport? If you spend time with her alone you need to escalate things physically already, not build more rapport. Excessive rapport only makes you enter the friendzone
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:28 PM
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That’s because you have to get the girl alone with you. You are not supposed to escalate in from of her friends. You can tell the group that you and girl, are going over there one second, and you’ll be back, or whatever excuse you can find to be alone with the girl. And that’s when you escalate, you don’t need ti go super far away from the group.. Just enough so it feels like they can’t hear you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:22 PM
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Sorry mate, but if you describe your dates as therapy sessions after 2 months, it means it’s already too late. You have positioned yourself as the go to guy to talk about problems, aka you have put yourself in the friendzone. I think at this point it’s quite clear that she doesn’t see you in that way, and it’s your fault for acting like a “teddy bear without a penis” when she is out with a girl. How to not be creepy? You have to be willing to cross the line to find the right balance of how sexua…
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:19 PM
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I don’t any contradiction. Women don’t like it when you ONLY want sex. ONLY is the key word here. They are not saying they don’t like guys who want sex. They are saying they don’t like it when guys ONLY want sex. That means they like sex, they just don’t like it when that’s all you want, because they want sex and also something more (a relationship). So i don’t know why you interpret that as “don’t get sexual and touchy”. It’s perfectly fine to get sexual and touchy provided you are giving them …
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:55 PM
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So, what you are saying is that it’s better to have a shitty unbalanced relationship, than no relationship at all. Got it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:43 PM
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I'm saying "kinda" cause i dont want her to feel too overwhelmed, Like, I like you, but I'm not in love either, its a way of taming down the sentence Then you shouldn’t say i like you, you should something playful like: “Girl you are fine” or “that smile of yours, is distracting me so much, please stop it” or “Those eyes of yours, make me go crazy, stop looking at me” I understand that approval thing, but like, isnt it a thing between couples or people who like each other to accept their flaws? …
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:13 PM
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First of all, don’t call it sexual intercourse 🤣… Call it sex. Please don’t use any type of wimpy language in front of women. Be willing to say words like fuck, sex, she is hot… Secondly, don’t tell women that you are inexperienced, just don’t talk about your experience with girls at all, be vague, and definitely don’t say to them that you are a virgin. Why? Because most girls don’t wanna teach a guy, and your options will be reduced drastically. There are very few woman who like teaching a guy …
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:57 PM
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Not really. Because the reason she ask for help now is because you have established yourself as the friendly helpful guy, so she has that expectation now. This is why i said you made a mistake, since you positioned yourself as the helpful friendly guy, rather than as a lover. It’s quite typical for girls to ask for help to a guy, and then they go out with the other guy who is a lover and they didn’t ask him for help because tit doesn’t feel right for the girl to ask the lover for that help buyin…
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:48 PM
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It’s a bad idea. You can help her, if you are already her boyfriend and have kissed and have had sex… But if you are in the attraction phase, you need to go on dates, for drinks or something seductive on the evening/night,… Not to spend the day like you are one of her parents, helping her to buy furniture… The dynamic of lover and friend is quite different, and you are choosing to go through the friend dynamic rather than the lover one, and that is literally just gonna make her see you as “just …
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:42 PM
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“Could work”… with 1% of women you talk to. So you need to approach a hundred to find one that this line can work with. And she probably won’t be very attractive.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:57 PM
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Hey I kinda a like you, but I really otherthink it when Im in this situation, I'll get more comfortable over time When you say “kinda” you are already showing insecurity. What is the reason say “kinda” if you like her, not just “kinda like her”. By saying you overthink it, you are hoping she overlooks your flaws which is approval seeking behaviour. It’s like you are asking her to forgive you, which she could do, but as a friend only. Girls want guys who act confident, not guys who act insecure a…
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:49 PM
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Thats really sad... I usually find shy and insecure girls cute, they dont put me off :( That’s because shyness and insecurity have been traditionally feminine traits. So it’s normal that it attracts you, since you like girls. Unfortunately for you, the majority of hetero girls are attracted to traditionally masculine traits, some of which happen to be confidence and extroversion. Girls like men, and men need to be masculine to attract the maximum amount of women. Just like women need to be femin…
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:36 PM
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You are not acting in the right way with this girl if you plan on having something romantic with her, because you are acting like her friend by helping her to apply to the dormitories, and acting like are her mum worrying if she successfully applied or not, and being mister helpful guy. Mister helpful guys aren’t sexually and romantically stimulating for girls. They just make you come across as platonic friend. It also doesn’t help the fact that you are trying to use texts to make progress when …
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:29 PM
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Mostly lack of options, yeah. Meaning no one usually pays attention to them so they are happy for any attention. The vast majority of girls aren’t attracted to shy and insecure guys though.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:22 PM
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Those who are very shy, and aren’t very attractive or fat, and don’t have many options to choose from are likely to be attracted to “beta males” since any attention feels flattering and relieving for them.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:18 PM
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90% of women on tinder do not treat tinder like a serious dating app, but more like an ego boost. Why? Because they can’t get what they want from guys, they know that almost all guys there only want sex and nothing more. Girls are more likely to go out with you in other dating apps like Hinge, Bumble, Meetic,… Because the dynamic is kinda different in those apps than Tinder, as people are there to find something serious. The difference is due to how superficial tinder is designed compared to the…
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:22 AM
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3 tips to be more masculine! Approach girls immediately fin real life even when they haven’t even given you any signs to indicate interest and be positive and high energy. That shows confidence, which is a trait typical from masculine guys. Develop your muscles. Having an athletic body, where your muscles, abs, legs, butt, triceps, shoulders pop is gonna make you look more manly. Be shameless and positive about your sexual drive. You are a man, you like sex, you feel lust for attractive women an…
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:12 AM
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Obviously you have to, because how else are you gonna show her you have confidence if you don’t approach her despite there not being any signs? You show confidence (and thus create attraction) by doing things that are risky and where the outcome is uncertain, not by playing it safe.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:02 AM
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If you are not her boyfriend, but you are trying to have something with her, then no. Because while it can send the message that you want to have something serious with her, the problem is that first you must have had something with her (like a kiss) and you said you haven’t kissed her yet. So it’s not properly justified as you are not in the right phase of dating yet. As for what to say on her birthday? It’s better to tease her to provoke her, than telling her some generic nice guy wish like “h…
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:59 AM
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Because that’s something personal to you, it’s like you feel she is telling you that your friend is better than you. This is what’s messing you up. That you are comparing yourself to your friend, and are feeling insecure. This is why you should not be friends with girls you wanted to date. Better to end it, because it’s never gonna end well, unless you have another girl that draws your entire attention.
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:17 PM
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If you are not naturally extroverted, then you really shouldn’t trying to force yourself to do solo game in a situation like that where everyone is with their group of friends. A super outgoing, extroverted, person can do it no problem because it’s his nature. He didn’t learn it from reddit, that’s just who he is since forever.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:56 PM
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You could meet new women, and stop trying to be close with them. Stop telling them about your problems, and actually try to be sexual, fun, provocative, and flirty… Stop acting like a teddy bear without a penis and start acting like a lion
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:51 PM
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When i say she only sees you as a friend, it’s just a lose term to refer to the fact that she doesn’t see you in a sexual or romantic way. You could say that “she sees you a work mate, a pal, a friend, a casual coworker she sometimes talks to or whatever…”, but she is not thinking of you in terms of dating or hooking up. She is not attracted to you. So don’t worry about issues with everyone involved because i’m sure she doesn’t even think about you in that way.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:49 PM
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Who says you need to go to a bar or a night club to get girls? There are environments like that in which you will always be at a disadvantage and other environments where you will have it easier. I know you say you are busy, but oh well then change your lifestyle so you are not busy anymore. There is literally no point trying to do over and over night game if it’s not working for you, you need to try other things. And if your busy life doesn’t allow you then you need to focus first on changing t…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:45 PM
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It’s all right mate. Unfortunately the way you communicate with her isn’t how it should between potential lovers. You don’t act like a lover in any way, you just act like a friend and she treats you like a friend only. That’s why i think she will only say she sees you as a friend
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:42 PM
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I feel like she is most likely interested in you as just a friend. Because when you get so close to a person talking about so much personal stuff, and telling you things she wouldn’t normally tell others, and her problems,… That always means that there is not really a romantic and sexual vibe which is why she easily tells you all of those things that she wouldn’t for example say to a potential lover. So, based on all that you wrote, it’s obvious she has a strong friendship with you, more than wi…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:32 PM
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There is no need to ask if she has a boyfriend. Just assume she doesn’t even if she does. It’s her job to tell you of any obstacles without you having to ask her if there are obstacles. Because then you are giving her an opportunity to reject you. If she forgets about telling you she has a boyfriend because you didn’t ask her the. you know the boyfriend doesn’t matter to her and that she is into you so much she forgets her other guy. But if you start asking for possible obstacles then you are ju…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:14 PM
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Dreams, goals, emotions, aspirations in life, wish lists, anecdotes, past experiences, how you imagine the future,… etc
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:05 PM
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You can sleep with a girl in the first night you meet her by simply being quite direct un the way you flirt with her, you need ti create sexual tension by expressing your sexual desire, acting in a sexual way, touching her and so on… It’s not about making her fall in love with you or expressing that you really like her or that you have feelings for her. Because then sex won’t happen. It’s about sexualising the conversation from first day, touching her, turning her on, getting her aroused, and go…
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:14 AM
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If you are annoyed and you say “ do not worry about it” you aren’t being authentic. It’s almost like you are excusing her. Should have said “thanks for wasting my time, i thought better of you”. And block her. And before you say “oh but I’d be over reacting” you are not. You are saying it exactly how it is, she wasted your time, you call her out for it which she deserved, and never talking to her again. If you don’t say shit like it is because you are afraid that she might think you got too upse…
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:12 AM
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Yes it’s better to wait and on the mean time date other girls. Just like she is gonna date other guys before you see each other again.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:02 AM
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to make this work, you need to go on dates in real life and escalate things physically sooner rather than later. Texting is literally the number one method to turn off a girl who was initially interested in you. It kills your mystery, it kills your cool factor, it makes you her pen pal that she uses to talk about her mundane life. It’s the most anti seductive thing ever created by mankind. It’s foolish to believe you can keep a girl interested through a screen if you cannot meet up in real life …
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:56 AM
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And there are many who are 5.9 who get tremendous success with girls. The problem with trying to find statistics is that you assume all of them are equal, and where the only variable is their height. It’s usually not enough to just be tall, you have to have other redeeming qualities, sense of humor, muscles, confidence, social value, being popular, being good at sports, or being good at singing or playing the guitar or having an exciting lifestyle or being the leader in a band… It’s not like the…
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:48 AM
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You should not put all your eggs on the same basket, you should diversify. Meaning that it’s not a good dating strategy to focus on just one girl at a time, specially when she is 8 hours away from you. You should be talking to more girls and trying to see where things go with those other girls. That’s how every girl does it with guys, girls never talk to one guy at a time, they talk to at least 3 or 4 at the same time to keep their options open and see where it goes
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:44 AM
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Plenty of 6.2 tall guys who are virgins and have never kissed a girl
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:41 AM
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There are plenty of guys taller than 6 feet and even taller than 7 feet, that are still kissless virgins at age 40.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:38 AM
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It’s easier to tell yourself that the problem is your height, rather than admitting that your real problem is incompetence when talking to girls. Because there are normal guys shorter than you, who are just like you, however they are good at talking to women. They just understand them, they know how to make them laugh, how to make them feel sexual tension, how to connect with them and get success. So, sorry to tell you this, but its not your height it’s that you are incompetent and dumb with wom…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:51 AM
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The sexual vibe has to be created in person first not over the phone. The sexual vibe is always created in person face to face with the woman. Sexual vibe over text happens after you have already had sex first with the woman. That’s the basic rules of sexual vibe that you need to know. The tone is set in person. And to do that you have to express how her attributes and traits are making you feel. What emotions are they causing it. How are those attributes of her stimulating your sexual drive. So…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:35 AM
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The problem is you hang out with her twice and still no kissing, that usually means the girl starts to lose interest as she realises that the spark isn’t there. So that means that your dates are only good in a platonic sense but on a sexual way. You are not showing sexual desire to her; you are hiding it, you are not moving things physically you instead are hoping it happens by some miracle. so of course now she is giving you excuses to hint that she ain’t interested anymore Learn this: If you a…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:23 AM
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By avoiding close ended questions and instead asking open ended question, and by joking, teasing her and being playful and humorous, so she drops her shield, and gets hooked to the positive emotions you would be causing her by doing that
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:20 AM
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You need to man up. Women don’t like scared little boys who are afraid of rejection, they like men who don’t give a shit if they get rejected and can accept it with graze. Sorry but if you are this insecure and this worried about rejection, how are you even gonna handle a woman like her. Women don’t like to babysit boys, and you are acting like a boy who needs babysitting, rather than as a man who can dominate her in bed. Women love rough sex, and being submissive to a man,… How is she gonna fee…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:12 AM
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Because, many erroneously think that in order to get a girlfriend or hookup with someone, they have to become best friends with the girl, and then confess one day how they feel for the girl hoping that if she knows how he feels for her she would say agree to date them. unfortunately for them, that doesn’t usually happen, as it’s literally the worst way to get what they want. So now that you obviously rejected him, they realise “oh it was all for nothing”, because they weren’t genuine friends, th…
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:43 PM
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University campuses, gyms, nightclubs, Starbucks, parks, malls, and big cities.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:10 PM
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It’s not really something you can control. The reality is that texting is a terrible way to keep a girl hooked. Texting is impersonal form of communication, there is no real intensity over text, or any attachment, it doesn’t even feel real. If she meets a guy she likes in person where she is, it won’t matter how much you text her or the content of your texts, because the other guy will have a huge advantage over you. He can touch her, he can make her feel emotions that only happen in person, she…
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:45 AM
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Women tend to be in a logical and defensive mood about sex over texts before sex has happened. If you try to make things sexual over text you are likely to turn them off. also when you make things sexual you have to escalate and follow through. Making things sexual is like warming up the food, and when the food is warm you have to eat it right away before it goes cold again. With women it’s a similar concept, when you turn them on you have to make out and have sex with her right away since she i…
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:36 AM
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Better to say : “You have green eyes, i love when a girl has green eyes” It’s more clear that you are flirting with her this way, the other is way too safe and ambiguous to be considered flirting.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:56 PM
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What you read in reddit doesn’t really represent real life, it just represents the tiny world view of the person who is writing what you read and the small minority of people who agree with that person which only represents 0.0001% of the population of Vancouver
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:05 PM
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Some woman do, and some don’t. Only way to find out is to just approach them and talk to them.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:14 PM
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You have the wiki on this subs menu for all basic stuff.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:10 PM
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Oh in the club you just dance and hit on her, and escalate things physically… i meant personal level next days after you already made out, and exchanged numbers
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:07 PM
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Hit on her, get to know her in a personal level, touch her and escalate things. Basically follow the advice published on the wiki of the sub’s menu.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:03 PM
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You only get friendzoned if you don’t make things sexual; when you keep acting like a teddy bear without a penis, and when you don’t escalate things physically soon enough.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:24 PM
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Mate. You are trying to rationalise a flirty game, like all the beta males who don’t get it, try to do. She is playing with you, it’s playing, that’s why it don’t make sense, that’s why there is literally no point trying to take it like a serious riddle that must be deciphered and over analysed. She isn’t being serious, so why are you treating it serious? Because you just don’t get it. You don’t get what the seduction game is about. It’s about the emotions caused, it’s about provoking each other…
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:32 AM
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Wrong move, talking about therapy and depression and that stuff. When you talk about those issues you kill any sexual tension that could have been there, and start to become her friend which means she doesn’t see you as a guy she would date anymore, and you get friendzoned. So, you already screwed up a lot. Probably time to move on
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:14 AM
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Most escalations happens in person, the only escalation you can do in text is getting her out on a date. Making things sexual is something that has to be done in person first. On texts you can only make things sexual after you have already had sex with her in real life.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:34 AM
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The point of the 3 second rule is that you just approach immediately. Maybe we should call it the 1 second rule. It’s basically approach, and you can find out if she is attractive once you have already began the conversation. You don’t need to guess their age, if she says to you she is a minor just say ok bye, and move on
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:14 AM
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You need to be willing to sometimes come across as creepy with some girls. It’s part of the learning curve.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:11 AM
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I like her, but never told her directly (at some level, she probably knows as well) and based on the conversations we have and the way she acts around me, she either also likes me or just sees me as a very good friend. Well that’s a bad start. The fact that she doesn’t know you are into her because you refuse to treat her like a woman you desire and instead treat her like your good close sister that you take care off and support, is the number one path to being friendzone. So yeah, she likely se…
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:03 PM
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Doesn’t seem like she is into you. I think you misinterpret a woman being your buddy for signs of attraction. It also feels kinda obvious that you don’t usually get success with women based from what you wrote here as this girl is way too in charge to be attracted and not submissive with you at all which isn’t a good sign. She just treats you like a friend.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:50 PM
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What matters is the conversation you have, not the initial line you use. Relationships start when you connect with a woman, you cannot connect with women just by saying a pick up line, you have to get to know her.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:33 PM
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The next level is saying: “By the way, i’m going to x place to do x thing this friday at 18:00, join me, it will be so much fun”
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:41 PM
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Her: “You have nice hair” You: “Thank you, i grew it myself”
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:40 PM
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And experience from the nervous and the confident guy would tell, that the confident guys gets laid far more often than the nervous guys which is the goal here.
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:08 AM
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If you don’t know what to talk about with women to get them to like you, then you should read a book to learn. Read “Models” or “Make Her Horny With Humour” or ”Mystery Method” to get an idea and specific examples on what to say on any situation.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:24 AM
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You are confused because you over think too much about what she does. That’s what causes hesitation thinking too much, when you should be doing more without thinking.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:21 AM
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You are taking it personally because you are desperate for external sources of validation. You lack self-esteem meaning that you don’t value yourself, which is why instead you want others to value you in order to feel worthy, and if you can’t get that then you get depressed. Part of being good with girls is to be willing to be rejected over and over and over and over on and on and on… And learning to not based your self perception of your own value on their rejections or their validation. Becaus…
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:19 AM
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If you don’t know what to talk about with women to get them into bed then you should read a book to learn. Read “Models” or “Make Her Horny With Humor” or Mystery Method to get an idea.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:41 AM
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You have to behave confident, and sure of yourself always with women.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:38 AM
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The vast majority of girls do not like guys who are insecure and hesitant. You cannot base your attitude with girls based on what 1% of girls might like.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:35 AM
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Rules are nothing but social norms, and seduction is all about biology and feelings not social norms. If you focus on feelings and what we are naturally attracted to in a biological sense, then norms become secondary and do not matter as much.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:34 AM
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Text sounds a little insecure: Should say next time with other girl: “Yo Christine, i’m going to this amazing ice cream place on monday, you should come and join me” Sounds more confident than saying stuff like “I was wondering if you would want to go out with me for ice cream” which is basically like saying “i’m not sure if you want to go out with me or not” which makes you come across as insecure, and thus less attractive. With girls you cannot sound like you are unsure she wants to spend time…
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:31 AM
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Mmm, mate there is no mix signals here. You are just very insecure and that’s a turn off for girls. The girl is sensing your insecurity and hesitation and as a result of that she is not interested, just blowing you off politely with the “i am not sure” which is a way to say no without saying it directly. Move on, ignore her and actually grow some more boldness and confidence because you act like you are walking on eggshells.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:13 AM
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Easier to get laid with any native girl from Peru than within your group. Those girls are easy as fuck if you are a tourist from a richer country.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:01 AM
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Girls don’t make a guy jealous unless they have a sexual/romantic relationship with him before. She is just doing that to flirt with him which is common behavior. When a girl laughs too hard at a guys jokes and those jokes aren’t even that funny that’s the girl flirting with him so he gets the hint. It has nothing to do with you because you are not even that relevant.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:58 AM
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Approaching girls is not creepy, it’s the person doing the approach who is or isn’t creepy. So it depends on what you do. Some guys can do it smoothly, while some other guys just don’t know how to make it not weird.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:56 AM
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By reading their minds obviously.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:54 AM
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You are in a loop. The more you want to get a girlfriend the less likely you are to get one, because you project desperation and neediness to women as soon as you try to make things serious with her.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:46 PM
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If you kissed (made out with her) and had sex in any of the first 3 dates, then it can be ok to tell her you have feelings for her. If not, then nope. You will just push her away and be friendzoned. Generally speaking, it’s better if you let her be the one to tell you she has feelings first before you do, and instead focus on making out and sleeping with her when you go out on a date with her without telling her about your feelings
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:39 PM
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You are relying too much on texts. Do things in person. Here is my challenge for you: Try to get sex without ever sending a girl a text or any call… Basically you are only allowed to speak to her in person, and escalate things forward in person.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:19 PM
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Ok then you are fine she is just sick
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:36 AM
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Well if you haven’t kissed her in those 2 dates at the very least, then it’s likely that she is not interested anymore. Sorry but you need to learn that when you go out with a woman on a date you have to make a move to kiss her to show you are sexually attracted to the girl. You are not there to hang out like like you are buddies. Doesn’t matter if you didn’t found the right time, or if there wasn’t any opportunity to kiss her, or if you weren’t sure if she wanted to, or any excuse you had for n…
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:04 AM
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You are supposed to be interested in what her dreams, goals, sensations, and desires are as well as sharing yours, so that she knows you too. You are supposed to talk about personal interesting or fun anecdotes that you have lived, be curious about hers, describe them in detail, specially the sensations caused when you were experiencing those stories. You are supposed to tease her, joke around, mess with her, being absurd, exaggerating, dumbing down the humor to the lowest common denominator… Yo…
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:56 AM
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A lot of women don’t go to a gym thinking: “oh my god, please let’s hope none of these hot fit guys approach me and talk to me” Many women are social, not every woman is embittered and anti-social just because they are in a gym. Many women like to be approached provided you are indirect, and start things slowly indirectly, maybe talking about a gym exercise that you need help with, or to ask her the way she does a certain exercise so you can learn from her. Basically don’t go into direct mode, j…
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:33 AM
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I meant other than casual sex and relationships, what is the purpose of having conversations with a woman?
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:47 AM
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My best way of interpreting it from the woman’s perspective can only be based on what i see which is that they are not smiling or have a stiff face when talking to me. Then your job is to joke about that, change her mood, be funny, witty, humorous, playful. Humans have the ability to influence how someone feels by trigger emotional reactions through the things they say or do. Humor is usually the best way to do that, although not the only one. Also, showing my interest in a woman has never worke…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:37 AM
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You need to stop seeing things in a logical, rational and objective way, and instead focus more on the emotions that the girl and you are feeling when interacting with each other and expressing them while being shameless about your sexual desire that you feel, for who they are as a person. Dating and seduction are all about the emotions you both feel in the moment, including sexual tension, laughter, and feeling valued for who you both are rather than for how both of you look. It’s not about sol…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:09 AM
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laughter, and sexual tension.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:01 AM
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Other than to get a girlfriend or casual sex or whatever end goal, for what do you want to talk with a woman that you are interested in? Why do you think people talk with women other than the end goal of getting sex or a girlfriend?
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:59 AM
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Get a room with him if you want, peace.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:20 PM
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The problem is that most guys think just because there is no awkward silences and the girl laughs and asks questions back, then they assume that the conversation was great, when it’s not. At least, not for dating purposes. I’m pretty sure the conversation is the problem but unless you tell us an example of the full conversation you have with her, there is not much we can do here. Because you are saying that the conversation wasn’t bad, but you have your own bias. You cannot judge the conversatio…
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:25 PM
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It’s likely that your conversations with women aren’t solid. Most men tend to overestimate a lot how good a conversation with a women went. They think a conversation went great and amazing, while for the woman that conversation was mediocre at best.
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:17 PM
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Because even if you do everything right ultimately you don’t have control over how a woman feels about you or what she does. It’s called illusion of control thinking that if you press x y z in a keyboard then she will behave like a computer and execute the command that you want. Also here are all the things you did wrong: Your conversations aren’t sexually charged, meaning there was never sexual tension. You didn’t establish that you were hitting in her, instead your proposals and invitations ju…
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:16 PM
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Why did you tell her she looks like your type of trouble for you don’t even know what your type of trouble is? This is the problem with repeating canned lines that you read on the internet, just because you think they sound cool
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:08 PM
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“Reading is for losers”… Only a stupid person can actually say that phrase, and be serious about it. “Just do it and experience it yourself” That’s like telling someone who is learning how to drive that rather than reading the book to learn the theory and the driving guidelines and rules, they should just take the car straight away into the highway. Basically a recipe for disaster. And you claim here to be a winner? Pff
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:04 PM
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You don’t understand seduction. It’s not about what she expects from this hang out because women don’t have any expectations they just go within the flow, to see what happens. It’s about getting her in the mood for sex. She is neither decided if she wants to hookup or just to be friends yet. That’s why she is going out with you, to make a decision based on how she feels on the moment you both are together interacting. Women tend to live in the present meaning that they are all about things happe…
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:00 PM
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Not really. No. Men at their 20s cannot even seriously be considered men. Most of them are not mature enough. Dont have their own place. Don’t have an established career. Haven’t developed their confidence as much as they can. They are far more inexperienced… Those are solid arguments as to why women at their 20s don’t generally like guys their age, but older. Women on the other hand is true that their prime is at their 20s because male are attracted to fertility and youth in women. And women ar…
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:31 AM
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It's hard to believe this would be a "yes" because I can't really conceive the idea of a man being "attractive" and a woman actually liking a man Lmfao.. So now you say women can’t find a guy attractive or like men? Then why are there couples everywhere, making out and having sex? Men are ugly as hell, we have ugly faces, ugly bodies, everything about a male is ugly, they are "unlikeable", so to speak. Just because you are ugly, doesn’t mean every man on earth is ugly. Sorry, but this is nonsens…
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:25 PM
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Important to note this comment was sarcasm, for all the autistic people in this sub.
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:46 PM
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If that were the case then no one would ever date ever, because most women do not tell guys “Hey i want you to talk to me”. If everybody waited for people to talk to them first but at the same time everybody thought that others don’t want to be approach and as a result they also want others to talk first to them, then no one ends up talking to anybody ever. Fortunately though, people have something called social skills, and confidence and most people in the world like having fun conversations. W…
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:44 PM
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Sorry to tell you this. But men at their 30s are at their prime. At their 20s, guys are just immature grown up kids and also don’t even have a career established. 30s is their prime because in theory they should already have a decent career and are still young enough to look good. Then at 40 is usually when the downfall of men starts. The only people who are at their prime at their 20s are women. It’s far easier to attract young women when you are 30 than when you are 20, because those women wan…
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:26 PM
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You display confidence by avoiding the things that make you come across as insecure. You need to avoid being apologetic, avoid saying sorry for showing desire in a girl, avoid acting defensive with girls, saying what you want and what you think without apologising or without being nervous about it,… Avoid seeking validation or approval from them, avoid acting like you are unsure of how she feels about you… Avoid showing jealousy… Avoid saying insecure stuff like: “Would you like to go out with m…
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:41 PM
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This is not seduction related, so you are in the wrong sub. Admins should delete this soon
/r/seduction07/08/22 04:05 PM
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No girls are just bothered by socially inept guys. There is a difference. Cold approaching is fine if you are respectful, charming, fun, outgoing,… But if you are weird, awkward, and the conversation is dull, generic, boring and forced, then yes that will bother women. The problem is not cold approaching, the problem is that 80% of the guys who do cold approaching suck at it. But those same guys trying any other method, like approaching in nightclubs, or anywhere that is more normal, would also …
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:55 PM
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Yes, part of the game is understanding and accepting that not everyone you like will like you back, because no one can be liked by everyone and that’s ok.
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:34 PM
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You can be humorous, look at Pierce Brosnan James Bond movies
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:46 PM
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You can smile, you don’t need to be a bad stereotype of someone dull who can’t never have fun because he is too serious to have fun.
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:36 PM
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That happens when they feel you are nervous, awkward, hesitating or your dressing style is bad, or if you look dirty. So be confident, high energy, dress fashionable, don’t hesitate, don’t even doubt for one second, don’t stutter and own what you are doing.
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:23 PM
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Pretty much. But i think he is already friendzoned. Guys like this who hesitate so much because they wanna try to avoid rejection, tend to get friendzoned almost immediately.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:31 PM
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By being a fun person, who can cause all people in the group to laugh and have a good time before you even focus on one girl, then once you are welcome to stay as a member of the group you can try to get to know one girl of the group. it requires you to be super extroverted, outgoing, humorous, funny, and have lots of shit to talk about. If you don’t match this requirements then i’d suggest you go somewhere else and approach people that are alone or with two people max at best. Because approachi…
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:29 PM
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By connecting with her, flirting and being a fun person that makes her feel positive emotions such as sexual tension.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:24 PM
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It’s not about looking to find out if she is interested, so it’s not about looking for signs. It’s about walking up to her even if there are no signs at all, and talk with her in an outgoing way, and getting her to be interested by the things you tell her. So you don’t need the girl to be interested initially, it’s what you tell her that will make her go interested even if she wasn’t initially interested. So you need to approach now, without looking for any signal from her. You have to go out th…
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:45 PM
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Don’t be a simp, don’t comment on her hot photos, just ignore them and start conversations on something else by going straight to the DMs and without mentioning the photo or story at all. Basically ignore that she posts hot photos and talk about anything else that isn’t related to how hot she is
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:56 AM
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You don’t need to go to the gym to lose weight fast, you just need to stop eating all types of sugar and sweet stuff, stop eating processed food, and stop eating simple carbs (like white rice, pasta, potatoes, cereals, snacks, fast food, yoghurt, and most sweet fruits). If you do that, you will be using fat for fuel, and burning body fat like crazy. Gym is for building muscle, not to lose weight. Weight is lost in the kitchen.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:54 AM
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No, you should not match her energy. Girls should always be a little bit more into you, than you are into them. She should always be trying a little bit harder than you are. She should be a little bit more over you, than you are with her. That’s a nice balance to keep the relationship alive. So don’t match her energy no. Always be the one that is more likely to leave the relationship at any moment.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:50 AM
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Sure if you want to put yourself in the friendzone then involve your coworkers, that will definitely send the signal that you are interested in being friends and nothing more. If you actually want to date her though, then you have to man up and just go out with her alone.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:47 AM
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When someone says something doesn’t work (cold approach, online dating, club and bar game, social circle game, gym game), what they mean is that it doesn’t work for them and they speak for themselves only. At most they could speak for their circle of friends, which represents only 0.0000001% or less of the entire world’s population. Their experiences don’t reflect the experiences of every person in the entire world. So when someone says women don’t want to be cold approach, you have to take in m…
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:43 AM
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Just move on. She isn’t attracted to you.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:33 PM
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Yes, there is proof. It’s called the Elo algorithm from Tinder. An algorithm designed to prioritise profiles based on attractiveness. The more attractive guys (those who get more matches) are prioritised in the platform as to make the women happy that there is so many attractive guys. While the less attractive ones are put down in the bottom. This why when you initially start a tinder account from scratch, you get more matches because the algorithm has to analyse your profile and your matches to…
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:45 PM
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Step 1: Don’t be ugly or average looking. Don’t also look a sweet guy who could be taking her of her grandma and going to church, and instead try to look like a cool badass instead. Step 2: Don’t have shit photos, specially selfies, cropped photos or group photos, or photos with hotter or taller guys than you and photos taken with a smartphone. Why? Because any smartphone camera distorts your face making you uglier, since it’s designed to be wider to get more stuff inside the frame of the photo.…
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:12 PM
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Mistake number 1 you are making: Becoming close friends with a girl you want to date. Doing that leads to the friendzone. You cannot treat a girl you want to date the same way you treat a close friend. Instead, you need to hit on her, flirt with her sexually, make it about how fine you think she is, how attractive you find her, how you can’t stare at her lips because they distract you so much, how you are trying so hard not to kiss her,… and if she doesn’t get turned off by the idea when you men…
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:45 AM
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You can have dinner first, if that’s what you told her as an excuse to get to your place, then sit on a sofa or room, and continue the kissing that you started before, and start undressing each other, and so on
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:50 PM
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Yes, you can get consent by saying stuff like: “If you don’t stop smiling at me like that, i’m going to kiss you” or “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” and based on what she says or her reaction you can get consent.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:47 PM
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You don’t ask her, you go outside somewhere with her like a park, and start talking, flirting, etc face to face, after a while if the vibe is right you initiate physical touch, like playing with her hands, holding her hands, caressing her fingers, her palm of her hand, her wrists, while you keep talking and flirting with her… You start saying how she looks so fine, or how attractive she is, or how she is so smart and funny it makes you like her more, you tell her that “if she doesn’t stop being …
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:41 PM
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I messaged a girl I see every single day saying I know she had a bad day and she kinda vented about it. Mistake. Never lead the conversation into that territory because you will just become her therapist, not her lover. For the next few days I feel I hit her with very flirty / funny texts Flirting had to be done in person, expressing sexual interest in a woman has to be done in person. she never really initiated more conversations or asked questions, but she reacted really well with my texts whe…
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:42 PM
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What you are asking is: Should i risk getting rejected or not” Which shows you are a beta male, because attractive male don’t give a fuck about being rejected and don’t try to avoid it.
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:01 PM
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For starters me and her are close but we also bicker, call each other names and constantly playfully tease each other. So, no different than how the type of relationship you could have with your sister, then. You are pretty much nothing more than friends. Sometimes she will be cold as ice and other times she we be sweet and do things for me. I have noticed that she is only jokingly mean to me and no other guy. Yeah, just like with a sister. So far i see no romance at all based on what you wrote …
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:36 AM
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I mean, you need to be willing to mess with them, provoke them, roast them, make fun of them playfully… You need to come to terms to the idea that they are not evaluating you, to see if you are good enough for them, but instead you are the one who has to evaluate them to see if they are good enough for you. This often means you have to disregard their looks, act like their looks are overrated, and focus on their personality and values to see if they are good enough in those terms. You need also …
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:55 PM
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Look, more often than not all you get is a “i didn’t feel the spark/ the connection” If you expect them to rationalise with precision and detail why they aren’t into you, you will be disappointed because most people don’t over analyse why they don’t like someone. Let alone try to put into words to someone else. So it’s not like they can point out, you did x mistake and z mistake, so if you wouldn’t have done those things, i would be all over you now. Mostly because it’s not that simple. Attracti…
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:43 PM
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Maybe it has to do with doing flirting wrong. You said that as soon as you flirt back, they lose interest. So it’s likely that the reason could be that. That your flirting is not done well
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:00 PM
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Women are people yes. Much like children are also people. Some people are good with children and can get along with them easily, while other people are awkward and are better off staying far away from children. Overthinking usually comes from not having experience, being insecure, and not having learned proper social skills from a young age… Basically, it’s due to a suboptimal childhood and lack of interpersonal growth and lack of social intelligence
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:43 PM
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Because women feel weaker than guys. A guy is potentially more dangerous to women than women can be dangerous to men. Men can easily defend themselves from most women, but women cannot easily defend themselves from most men. It’s like a kid on the street who is approached by an adult who offers him candy… His natural instinct if he is taught well is to distrust the adult, because he knows that the adult could have ulterior motives and he cannot easily defend himself. however if a kid were to app…
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:39 PM
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Yes women can feel nervous, but men don’t get creeped out by women because they tend to be stronger and know that most likely the woman can’t be a threat to them even if she wanted to
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:33 PM
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Women tend to feel nervousness when the guy is nervous, because like i said it suggests you have something bad to hide, regardless of whether that perception or assumption is true or not. Like you are planning to rob them, or murder them, or kidnap them, or do something immoral at any given second which would explain why you are nervous.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:30 PM
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Drinking silences your ego. That’s why you can do it when you drink. Your problem comes from not wanting to accept the possibility that a girl might not like you. Deep down you can’t take a girl not liking you, and considering you not good enough. Which is a problem your ego causes. You need to learn humility, being humble and accepting that not every girl you like has to like you back… And that “her not liking you” doesn’t mean you are inferior, it’s just lack of chemistry, that will allow you …
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:28 PM
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Depends on what the guy does. You can be initially interested in a guy at first, and then be completely creeped out or turned off by him depending on the things he says or does. Happens very often unfortunately.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:25 PM
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Because nervousness and awkwardness reflect a negative state of mind, who are the people that get awkward and nervous? Those who had bad or shameful intentions in general. Those who have something to hide. So if you are nervous and awkward they feel like you have negative ulterior motives, because if someone has decent or desirable motives, they would be confident about what they are doing. It’s all a subjective perception sure, but people have to look p it for their security, based on what you …
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:22 PM
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You don’t need to go out of your way to force a conversation, but if the situation calls for a conversation you can just talk politely, like it’s some work partners Basically you don’t need to do anything drastic, or something big. Just be normal, as if it’s the first time you ever meet this girl and are having a small talk
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:59 PM
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That’s her saying she is not interested. Women often agree to a date because they don’t know how to say no. So they agree initially, and then flake. Basically, she was only interested in getting attention in the app for an ego boost and nothing more. She won’t have free time for you. Waste of time. Move on.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:56 PM
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Because at that age most of them are usually not in their prime of sexual attractiveness anymore. So they enjoy the male attention since they lost quite a lot of it.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:04 PM
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Mate. Creepiness is an attitude. You need to think of what makes girls feel creeped out which requires you to develop social intelligence. if you just say hi and start asking questions without explaining why you are asking a stranger so many questions, that is creepy. Why? Because asking questions for no reason to someone random could mean they are interrogating you or trying to find where you live or where you usually spend time with in order to rob you, or kidnap you, or rape you or anything l…
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:49 PM
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Just joke to diffuse the situation, you can tease her for example like this: “Wait you are a girl? I thought you were a boy this whole time… And that this was a guys night out”
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:32 PM
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Touch needs to be combined with verbal flirting. “I find you really cute right now…” “I can’t stop looking in your eyes, and getting distracted by them.” “When you smile at me like that, I feel my heart starts beating so fast” “Uff i get distracted by those pretty lips of yours, i don’t know how to stop getting distracted” “If you keep being so sweet with me, i might lose control any minute” Saying things like that builds sexual tension, because they are quite direct about the sexual effect she …
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:26 PM
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There are books like this one that teach you how to have better humorous conversations in a natural way, so you skip the interrogation mode and can build attraction through conversation by making her laugh.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:12 PM
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The problem though is that cold approaching requires skills, and practice. You can’t just try once, fail and then give up. You can’t expect to have a perfect conversation first try. You need to practice over and over to get good at it. Not to mention that asking a friend to set you up with someone still requires skills and practice talking and flirting with women. See it’s not about what medium you select to meet women, it’s about being good at talking to women regardless of which medium (cold a…
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:54 AM
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You do what you think is unnatural and make it natural. What’s “Natural” is just an opinion… An extroverted confident outgoing person can cold approach and make it seem like the most natural thing in the world. Whereas an introverted and awkward insecure person can try doing cold approach and his insecurity would make him act in an uncomfortable way which would make him look like what he is doing is unnatural and creepy. Overall, relying on a girl to set you up with someone is kinda beta. It’s l…
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:13 AM
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Talking with women is normal so the vast majority of people don’t care that you are talking to a woman. You are not the center of the universe. People are too busy worrying about what others think of them to have time to focus on you.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:02 AM
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If she is not your girlfriend then Keep it short, twice or so a week is a good balance. Texting should be goal oriented in the sense that it has to have a purpose of going out with her. Texting should not be used as a means to talk when you have nothing else to do. It should be used with purpose of rapidly getting her in the mood to go out, but to keep in touch or to talk about your routine life. So focus on making her feel excited about going out so that you can do the talkin in person. a good …
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:40 PM
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I already told you, make plans that don’t depend on her . Like “i’m going to x place at 7pm, join me if you like” That’s it. You have already communicated that you will go with or without her because that’s your plan. If she shoes great, if she doesn’t also great because you had fun plans anyway to do without her. So she is the one missing out. You don’t allow her to dictate when the plan takes place, ig she wants to she comes at 7pm, if she can’t or doesn’t want to or needs to think about it, n…
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:51 PM
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What do you want to know about her? Aren’t you interested in what she does with her life? What things you have in common? What things do you both like? What experiences you have lived? What kind of attitude she has towards life, her friends, her career, her family,… etc? What dreams and goals she has and how motivated she is about them and whether she is working towards achieving them? That’s what you talk about… Talking is about finding out whether you connect, not about saying the right thing,…
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:40 PM
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I hate you… You and I are not gonna be friends” “Oh my god, i’m scared of you” “My grandma said never trust a girl that has (x qualities or attributes or things she has)”
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:34 PM
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You get a girlfriend by talking with women, connecting with them, hitting on them sexually and escalating things physically. You need social skills, and sense of humour to lighten the mood, and make the conversation less formal and logical You need to get emotional reactions from them, such as making them laugh, or getting them to feel sexual tension. You need to avoid going into interview snide, and instead turn questions into statements, and sharing fun anecdotes, stories, making humorous obse…
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:32 PM
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What a strange way to admit you can’t get laid and are a virgin.
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:07 PM
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What if? What if?… What if she is a ho? What if she is your mum? What if she is married? What if she hates men? What if she is crazy? What if she is stupid? What if she has a covid? What if she has herpes? What if she has monkey pot?What if she is transesexual? What if she is a prostitute? What if she is a murderer? What if she is a thief? What if, what it, what it… Blah blah blah. If you start thinking about all the what ifs, you end up doing nothing at all. And keep living miserably wondering …
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:22 PM
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If they were identical in every possible aspect (which is impossible even if they were twins) yes. But since they can’t be identical, there can be many other factors at play that could matter more to the girl than whether one has more friends than the other. The “quality” of the friends also matters.
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:05 AM
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If you like a girl and you don’t hit on her, that’s almost like an insult to her. That is why you should approach her and start talking because it’s a sign of respect to make women feel desired and wanted and have her self-esteem raised. All you need to do is not come on too strong with your flirting, and be outgoing, chilled, fun and relaxed.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:15 AM
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Poetry doesn’t work to make women like you if that’s what you are asking.
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:33 PM
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It doesn’t depend on you. So don’t even overthink it. there isn’t any math or science you can apply here. You could be texting everyday, not text at all, or text once a twice a week, or any random combination and it still wouldn’t depend on you because it’s outside of your control. If she isn’t trying to maintain your interest in her and just assumes you would still be interested after 2/3 weeks even without initiating, then you shouldn’t either. You should accept that whatever happens, happens.…
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:29 PM
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You don’t deal with them. You go to the next girl. A “hard to get girl” is a girl who isn’t into you. When a girl is truly into you, she is super keen on making things easy and simple for you, they become submissive.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:33 PM
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Yes cause you know allot of sexual assault happens inside a grocery store where there are cameras and other civilians around. It has happened yes. Here you have one of the many examples of a sexual assault in a grocery store with cameras and civilians around. Here is another sexual assault in a grocery store: And here is another sexual assault in a grocery store. Seems like you would rather argue than learn and understand how many women feel, so that you can learn how your approach can be better…
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:42 AM
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Yes. It’s possible to pick up girls in the beach. and also in the gym. Whenever you meet a girl the point of having a conversations with her is to find out if you connect, if you like each other’s sense of humour, to find out if you actually like her personality, and not just her looks,… etc So what you say is basically anything that allows the both of you to get to know each other, you say first your intentions (why you want to talk with her, which is because you liked something about her or he…
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:29 AM
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Gyms are not off limits if you know what you are doing, use social intelligence and play your cards right.
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:21 AM
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Based on how little experienced you are and how she is handling you like a kid, i’d say no she isn’t flirting. She just sees you as a friend. Women want experienced men, not clueless boys. Basically everything you said here proves how inexperienced you are which is not attractive for women. It feels like she is in charge, rather than you. And when a woman is in charge it means she doesn’t see you as a man she would be submissive to. And if the woman isn’t submissive with you, it ain’t happening …
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:18 AM
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Bad photos, mediocre looks, bad poses, bad outfits, bad places to take photos, all contribute to being ignored on dating apps. Overall, it’s better to meet people in person, than online dating at least if you are not super good looking. Online dating is neither for noobs in dating women, nor for average looking people.
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:15 AM
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Ok I'll put myself in her shoes but only this times I'll have some brain cells and realize if a guy comes over and smiles at me while asking a random questions and introduces himself maaaybe he's into me. Or maybe he wants to rape her, or rob her… So, no it’s not about having more brain cells, it’s about understanding that from a woman’s perspective she feels fragile and weaker than guys in general and any random approach like that can be dangerous to her depending on the guy in question and how…
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:02 AM
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You should not start asking questions about her life without first explaining why you have approached her to talk to her. Put yourself in her shoes, imagine someone who starts asking personal questions for no explained reason. Imagine someone asking you where you live without explaining why the hell he wants to know. It would just be weird and for a girl it can even be creepy. So first you need to explain what you want, why you want to introduce yourself, what are your intentions, why are you ta…
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:31 PM
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If you give her a present, she will think of you as nothing but a “mister nice guy”, who she would like to stay friends with. It’s the kind of gesture that if you are not in a serious romantic relationship already with her, it gets you friendzoned if you are not friendzoned already. Overall, your attitude doesn’t seem attractive in general, so it’s likely she only sees you as a friend and that’s it. Extroverted girls are used to more extroverted guys and do not generally like shy, timid, scared …
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:39 PM
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1 - Women don’t like questions. 2 - Women don’t like to be given choices, so don’t ask for her preferences. 3 - Women want you to decide yourself and lead. 4 - A woman can seem to be interested a minute ago, and lose that interest immediately after that based on how you respond. Now, i’m not saying that 100% of women are like this, but maybe 80-90% are like this.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:30 PM
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Friendzone occurs when you don’t behave in a sexual way with women. When you talk to the them in a similar way to how you would talk to a friend or to your sister. Basically not acting sexual at all with her, not expressing your sexual desire, not making them feel wanted. The women you talk to in person are giving you a chance, but you are wasting it by playing it too safe and generic. Your conversations with them stay on the surface level, and never get into personal territory as well as not ge…
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:27 PM
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Women are not property therefore they can’t be stolen. This girl is not your girlfriend, and you are not entitled to her, therefore she has a right to talk and flirt with other guys. Making a move to ask her out for drinks is what you should do if you want something to happen. If you take more time, it’s likely she will go with the other guy. Talking about work related stuff is impersonal stuff, which is not good for seduction. Get personal with her. Go out alone with her somehow here for drinks…
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:23 PM
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Or just say you don’t like photos or social media. No need to come up with convoluted fake stories to get laid and no need to have social media at all.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:15 PM
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Here is a revolutionary idea: Take photos Here is another: simply say that you don’t like taking photos and move on to the next topic.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:11 PM
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It sounds pathetic as fuck. Both the story and the fact that you think you have to make up a story.
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:17 PM
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So i cannot generalise but i can give him false hopes that this might be one of the few girls in the world interested in having long distance relationships, even though in my experience the vast majority of women hate long distance relationships? How does that help him other than to have false hopes of something that it’s far more likely will never happen? How does not generalising help him better? So you want him to cling into a false hope forever? Because personally i think it makes more sense…
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:31 PM
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Most women hate long distance relationships and they only get into them when they already had a serious thing to begin with. But starting a long distance thing from scratch, sorry but most of my female friends and most women i met are completely against it. So i don’t know what you are smoking, or if you are deliberately trying to give OP wrong advice and false hopes
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:19 PM
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Yes, i know good for you, but you were playing it way too safe and that’s why i think she will only see you as a friend she can trust and that’s it
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:04 PM
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I’m afraid you took things way too slow with this one. You should have already kissed. I think at this point she sees you as nothing but a friend she can trust and that’s it. Also, girls don’t like starting something romantic from scratch over long distance. So i think it’s time for you to move on
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:59 PM
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i approached while she was going home ( first mistake) Why would that be a mistake? It’s perfectly fine to approach her when she is going home. i came across very nervous i was shaking and i was stuttering i asked for her name and after she gave it i asked for her number Being nervous is not very good, but if you can’t hide it then you have to admit that you are nervous to her, so that she has to overlook it, and it isn’t as uncomfortable. In other words if you can’t hide a flaw, use it to your …
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:56 PM
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Text her on instagram and tell her you enjoyed the conversation, and want to go with her to take a drink and get to know her more.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:44 PM
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Invite her to take a drink outside with you, and get more into personal territory with her.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:41 PM
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Rule number 1: Don’t try to interpret a woman’s behaviour and just go there to talk to her. Take the risk and stop trying to decipher signals Guys who try to understand what the girl is signalling, always get friendzoned at best.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:04 PM
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1 - Keep questions to a minimum because women hate them. Anything more than 10% of the conversation being questions shows you are boring, and have nothing interesting or fun to say. Skip the interrogation mode, and actually tell her anecdotes or how you feel about things, or joke around, tease her and flirt with her. 2 - Talk for at least 10 minutes and escalate things sexually. Daygame isn’t just about saying “she looks cute, and that as a result of that you wanted to know her name and get her …
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:57 PM
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Get the memo. If she doesn’t reply she ain’t interested. She only swiped you for validation. If you double text again you are already being needy.
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:42 PM
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Don’t ask. Women don’t like questions. Say specific things, rather than asking vague things. Don’t ask, ”can we take a coffee somewhere sometime?” Instead say “i’m taking a drink later this evening around 19:00 at (cool bar), if you care to join, that’d be cool”
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:38 PM
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It’s not just about guessing things about her, which is weird. Nobody goes around trying to guess everything about the other person and it’s not much better than asking tons of questions. You can say a lot of things without asking questions or making guesses such us: Sharing funny or interesting personal anecdotes. Making funny or absurd accusations for fun for example: If she says she is allergic to dogs, you can accuse her of being the world’s biggest dog hater as a joke. Roasting her / Messin…
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:23 PM
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No, never remind a girl that you got ignored by her. Just move on from that, and talk about something else, something humorous. Getting ignored isn’t humorous so no amount of laughing emojis will make it humorous. Also, if you want a girl to laugh, don’t send laughing emojis. Laughing emojis are try hard attempts at lightening up the mood which end up being counterproductive. It’s the equivalent of a laugh track in a bad comedy tv show, where the laugh tracks are used to let people know when to …
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:12 AM
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You say to her “because you just proved you ain’t worth it” If she asks why, you say that “she barely knows you and already wants you to get in trouble and that’s a red flag as you want a woman who can defend herself and isn’t a damsel in distress” then get up and walk out of there
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:54 PM
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You don’t ask her if she wants to hookup or be friends with benefits, you get her in the mood for sex by going out with her, making her feel desired, touching her (consensually), etc and make it happen.
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:48 AM
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That’s not flirting, that’s teasing the girl. Teasing is not flirting. Flirting is expressing your sexual intent, your desire for her, or that you want her. Teasing can work well to get her emotional, but getting a girl emotional isn’t necessarily flirting, flirting is going into “damn you are fine, if you keep smiling at me like that, i’m gonna kiss you” that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:51 AM
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Being nice isn’t bad, but being boring, predictable, approval seeking, and playing it safe (typical nice guy attitude) is indeed bad.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:26 PM
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Stop eating “sugars”, “simple carbs”, “sweet stuff” and “processed food”, and workout.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:20 PM
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On the one hand we have people saying that girls always make it super difficult to go out, always giving excuses that they are busy for them. On the other hand, we have people saying that women go out with guys they don’t like all the time, just to get free meals and be entertained. Girls very rarely go out with guy they are not midly interested in. They would rather tell him excuses than getting ready to see a guy they wouldn’t want anything with. At least that’s the reality for young girls… Ma…
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:08 PM
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She would rather go to her grandma’s place and not give you a time to reschedule than meeting up with you and only gives vague promises that she will go out when she stops being “busy”. Sorry but when a girl really is into you, you are her priority, not her grandma. When a girl is into you she ain’t busy for you, specially not when she is 18 years old. People are only busy for things they don’t prioritise and if you are not her priority that says it all. What matters is not what she says but wha…
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:59 PM
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The breaking point was the date. The date was mediocre at best for her, and since then she lost all interest. The reason she replies like that is to signal in the most polite way possible that she is not interested. Girls won’t be direct in telling you they are not interested, so what they do is become super cold, dry, text slow, and show a lot of indifference, and give you constant excuses to not go out with you, saying they are suddenly busy, even though they are not that busy. What you had ov…
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:41 PM
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Too many questions, you are not really having a conversation. You are only interrogating her. A conversation needs to be personal, it needs to have statements, observations, opinions, anecdotes, assumptions, playful accusations, teasing, telling personal stories, expressing how you feel about things, explaining why you do the things you do with your life, or what goals and dreams you have and how are you planning to achieve them,…
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:28 PM
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You can be clear about what you want, the problem is that girls always catch feelings, so even if they agree for a while to be just a friend with benefits, it’s only something temporary. It’s a friends with benefits until they catch feelings, once they do the “free trial of casual sex” is over. It’s their nature. Girls aren’t like guys where they can just see sex as nothing but an exchange of fluids. Sex is a big emotional investment for most girls. So yeah, you always should know that they some…
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:10 PM
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Online dating approach is basically starting the conversation with a girl for the first time through online apps like Tinder, Instagram, Hinge,… etc Cold approach is basically starting the conversation in real life with any random girl you see out there face to face. The main difference is that while girls in online apps, are more likely to be receptive to being approached, whereas in person they are less likely to be as receptive because they don’t expect it. Having said that online dating is h…
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:09 AM
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Yeah, women tend to be low risk investors when it comes to investing in guys. That means that second chances are completely out of the question, because their job is to quickly disqualify guys, rather than to give chances to those who already gave red flags, or had bad vibes. That’s because they have abundance of guys, they can afford to be picky and disqualify most guys so that they can focus only on those who gave less red flags. This is specially true in online dating where they have far more…
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:44 AM
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You are investing too much emotional energy on the outcome. I simply don’t care if a person i like wants to go out with me or not because i accept that not everyone i like has to like me back, and that my happiness certainly doesn’t depend on someone wanting to go out with me… if they want to great, but i won’t go crazy just because they want to, and if they don’t too bad but i won’t go into depression just because they don’t wanna go out with me/ I just have a carefree attitude; whatever happen…
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:40 AM
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Girls are addicted to feeling strong emotions, drama just creates a certain type of emotions, but it doesn’t have to be that one specifically. You could also create laughter and joy which is fine with humour, rather than drama. If you are humorous funny guy, you can create addictive emotions like joy and euphoria. You can also elicit other emotions like surprise, sexual tension, and feeling valued… So you don’t need to create drama which is a toxic emotion, you can focus on those other positive …
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:33 AM
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The goal of an approach isn’t to get a number, it’s to get her excited about seeing you again based on that initial conversation. So that means you need to forget initially about the phone number, and spend at least 10 minutes talking with her getting to know each other, and being playful, flirty and fun. You need to talk about yourself, why you do the things you do, and how you both feel about the things you do, your goals, your accomplishments, how you both are trying to achieve those goals ,……
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:28 AM
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Why lie? Because dating isn’t a fair game, it’s actually more like a war. The strategy of each person in the dating world isn’t cooperative. It’s selfish, where people only think of what’s best for them and maintaining their options open, even if it means leaving you hanging.
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:34 PM
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1 - Meh 2 - Nope. There is no need at all to bribe a women with drinks into listening to you. It’s a waste of money, and the girls just end up leading guys on because all they want is the free drink. 3 - Sure being fit helps 4 - No need for this. Your own personality should be able to get the girl feel strong emotions, if the personality doesn’t do it then no amount of tricks will compensate for that because eventually she will get bored of you. 5 - Sure. 6 - Nope. Flowers should be given when s…
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:28 AM
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Too much complimenting is needy. Your job is not to feed her ego, remember that. Your job is to create sexual tension. And simply saying that she is pretty over and over, doesn’t do that. That’s something her brother or her dad or mum could say. What you need to do is to stop complimenting her and instead tell her how she makes you feel in a sexual way. How much she turns you on, what sexual effect she has on you in order to show her that you are sexually desiring her, that you are thinking of h…
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:49 AM
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All you are doing is reinforcing the error even more by making such a big deal out of it. There is no need to say sorry for that. Move on dude. It’s not that big
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:04 PM
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It’s bad, because you sound like you are desperately looking for validation, which is off putting to most girls
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:54 PM
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Girls are emotional beings, if you try to understand them you’ll go crazy. Their behaviour isn’t based on logic, but on emotions, which means that trying to understand the logic behind their actions is a waste of time. Girls do things without any intention whatsoever, you think that they are signalling you and in reality they are just inside their head thinking about their lives and aren’t even conscious about how their behaviour comes across to other people. So what you thought were signs, were…
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:46 PM
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You don’t need to say anything next time you see her, just like she didn’t say anything to your text. It also isn’t a big deal, you simply sent a text to the wrong person. It happens. As for your chances with her, your chances do not depend on this incident. This incident doesn’t change whether you had chances in the first place or not. It’s just a text.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:37 PM
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Seems like humor flies over your head, big red flag
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:15 PM
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Or maybe you are just reading too much into it, and taking it way more seriously than you should
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:13 PM
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It’s a choice much like when you choose to stop drinking water. You focus on comparing yourself to your past self, and whenever you find yourself comparing yourself to others you think to yourself that what matters is your own progress and focus on remembering how much you have progressed and how far you plan on improving from the version of yourself that you are today.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:51 PM
1

Tell her the things you would do to her with precision, stimulate her imagination.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:14 PM
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After the girl has been talking about herself for a while tell her: You: “I wanna tell you something” Her: “What?” You: “You’re the kind of girl I would invite over to watch a movie, but not to watch the movie” Her: “To do what then?” You: “Adult things… like paying taxes, cleaning the house, paying the bills…” Another ones you can say: You: “You know the more i look at you, the more distracted i get with those eyes of yours, can you tell your eyes to stop being so attractive? Thank you” You: “T…
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:40 AM
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Just be sarcastic: “You are absolutely right, the law of kisses says that no matter how much two people are liking each other, the kiss must be complicated, failure to make it complicated results in 10 years in jail… But you know what? Today we are breaking the law” and then you kiss her.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:21 AM
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It’s because you are not being honest with her and are trying to hide things. You could just say: “Hey, you know i was just noticing you, and suddenly my mind went blank, and it’s totally your fault cuz this doesn’t usually happen, so now i want to meet you. What’s your name?” Her: “Oh my bad, ha i’m sandra and you?” You: “Tom… So Sandra, how often do you make people so nervous they forget what they were saying?” Her: “I don’t think that’s ever happened must be the first time” You: “So i’m the w…
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:17 AM
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You are under the illusion that confidence comes from being better than others, when in fact true confidence comes from your own achievements and being better than the person you were in the past. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others and focus on comparing yourself to the past version of you, your confidence sky rockets because you realise how much you have grown and that you are not in a competition with other people, you are in a competition with your past self. You don’t need to b…
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:42 PM
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She will presume you have plans… what you want it is to make it casual and non threatening, and also maintain the frame that even if she says no, you are still gonna do it, which means that she will be missing out while you have fun anyways with or without her.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:44 PM
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You fucked up by asking through texts. You should learn one day that the phone is actually a horrible tool. It kills all the excitement. It works against you. Don’t use the phone with girls, avoid it like the plague. And focus on doing everything in person. Use the phone as little as possible when it comes to dating. Also, don’t ask so many questions: Are you free tomorrow? wanna get dinner? Just make statements instead, for example: “i’m going tomorrow to x place, join me and let’s grab a coffe…
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:27 PM
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No. You don’t need a signal at all. You just need to be outgoing and fun when you approach.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:09 PM
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Not sure I agree with the statement 'once in the friendzone, always in the friendzone' though, seems to me you can escape it by slowly letting her change how she sees you. More often than not, you can’t. Because being friendzone means that the girl isn’t attracted to you. Attraction is either there or it isn’t. Most people who get friendzone never manage to change that. The girl never sees them as anything different than just a friend because the girl simply is not attracted and that’s not somet…
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:30 PM
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I'm totally confused as to why people want to create attraction immediately instead of being friends first so you learn to know each other first without all the attraction stuff. Because most people here just want casual sex… They aren’t planning on getting into a serious relationship. Which means that being friends first is counterproductive to that goal, and it only wastes everyone’s time. yet somehow everyone who is in this 'pick up thing' seems to want to avoid the friendzone at all cost and…
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:19 PM
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You are acting like this is too much of a big deal, it’s just going out with her somewhere, not asking to marry her. Just treat it like you are inviting her for some glass of water, stop acting like her saying no is a huge thing because it’s not. You should treat this more casual, more chilled, and stop making this a bigger thing than it needs to be. Don’t even think of it in terms of a date and instead treat it like you aree just hanging out with a friend.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:23 PM
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Use pick up lines to get them laughing… Just go on google and search “pick up lines for instagram”
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:14 PM
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It’s not your job to try to get them to do something which they find uncomfortable. Focus on your purpose and worry about your things, not theirs. The reason the can’t is because fear of rejection, and nothing you tell them will change that. It’s above your pay grade even professionals would have trouble getting them to go out of their comfort zone. So a waste of time.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:48 PM
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Depends on the girl. Some girls who do all of that which you described, can indeed like you, but many other girls who do the exact same thing could only like you as a friend. Their actions do not have a universal meaning, so you just have to make your move, and the outcome you get from your move is the answer. In other words, you cannot find out if she likes you by interpreting her behaviour and as such you cannot avoid the risk of rejection.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:42 PM
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It doesn’t matter if she likes you or not, no one can read minds and you don’t need to. What you need to be doing is making moves. That’s how you find out if she likes you by asking her out, holding hands, going for a kiss. (aka making moves)… You don’t know by interpreting her behaviour because their behaviour doesn’t have a universal meaning. A girl doing one thing could mean she is interested while another girl doing the exact same thing could mean she is not interested. so you just have to m…
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:39 PM
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See, this happens because you aren’t clear about your intentions when you hanged out with her. If she says nice catching up as friends, that is because she got the idea that based on your behaviour it was all just a platonic thing. You were basically treating her the same way you could treat your sister. Safe, platonic, and not acting like you are sexually attracted to her or like you sexually desire her. So when you act platonic with a girl the girl will just come to the conclusion that sure th…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:51 PM
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There is nothing to read. It’s about talking about yourselves. Only you know yourself and what you have done in your life, and plan on doing in the future.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:49 PM
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To know what to say to a girl you need to understand what the purpose of saying anything is which is to connect with her, share jokes, share your point of view about things, and relate to each other. So what you say is basically what things you are doing with your life, what plans you have, what goals, how are you trying to achieve them? What do you do with your free time? What is some funny anecdote you can tell her that taught you something about friends, life or about yourself,… That’s what y…
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:45 PM
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Overthinking even the most simple stuff. Next thing someone’s gonna ask “how do i find out if someone likes to drink water”. What happen to men here? Second guessing every little fucking thing and acting like they need to walk on eggshells… What a bunch of pussies. You: Do you have a boyfriend?” Her: “Yes/no” You: “Cool, now i’m more/less interested in you” There done. That’s all there is to it. If things are weird so fucking be it
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:36 PM
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💤💤💤🥱🥱🥱😴😴
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:34 PM
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You make moves to find out if she is interested, that’s literally what making a move is for.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:26 PM
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Like i said you just have to do it if you know how to flirt sexually, and just be willing to accept negative consequences if they happen. You cannot learn in reddit how to do it right as that’s mostly about calibration and testing the waters, which is completely subjective and relying on many variables the situation the context, how deep in the friendzone you are, how horny she is, whether you are her type, whether she is not already talking to someone else,… etc And things don’t just happen. Yo…
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:05 PM
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You are overthinking. “Friend” is just a polite term to refer to anyone. It doesn’t mean she is setting a boundary. Having said that, if you just keep talking and you don’t try to make moves then yes eventually she will think of you as nothing but a friend. That’s what happens when you take things so slow. So the question is why aren’t you making a move already? You don’t need to know if she is interested to make a move Just ask her out
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:52 PM
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The problem is you should not become best friends with girls you are attracted to. I know you didn’t initially thought of her as a woman you’d fuck, but that’s exactly the problem. Every guy who gets friendzoned always makes the same mistake of trying to become close friends with girls. Just don’t do that. If you want a so called “best friend” make sure it’s a guy, not a girl. Never try to get close to girls unless you plan on having something with them. Never spend time together with a girl bec…
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:46 PM
1

What you wanna do is to skip formalities and instead just get them to laugh fast, which can be done for example by pick up lines. So just google “pick up lines” and try them all on every girl for practice. Then just introduce yourself, and talk about your lives.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:54 PM
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Your father failed you, about time you seek other masculine figures. You cannot get girls with this pussy attitude you have, not gonna lie. The girl here treating you like her little 4 year old brother that hasn’t grown into a man. Women cannot respect you like that.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:47 PM
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Why do you wait 2-4 days to text someone? That’s just so dumb…. what you afraid of? that the girl is gonna think you are desperate if you text sooner? Bitch please. It’s fine to text her the same day or next day but more than that, any girl will feel like you are either playing games or not interested. As for what to text to not be boring, don’t even try. Nothing worst than a guy who tries to not be boring… Just text her normal, be yourself, say that you liked something about her, and tell her y…
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:44 PM
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You seriously need a father figure. You are too much of a pussy. Need to man up, grow some balls which you seem to be lacking. And stop giving a shit if a girl fucking rejects you. Real men aren’t afraid of rejection. They take it like a man, and fucking laugh at the bitch.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:38 PM
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Tik tok dance videos
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:56 PM
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It doesn’t depend on you what other people do, so that’s why you have to take the initiative, and just get it done. You won’t lose opportunities that way.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:51 PM
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You are a kid, and a 40 year old woman will easily tell you are a kid as soon as she sees your mannerisms, your tone, your lack of sexual experience, etc. Doesn’t matter how grown up you think you are, the average 40 year old woman can easily be a 100 times more matured and experienced than you. heck the average 40 year old woman feels that even 29 year olds are kids. You are not on the same level.
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:51 PM
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It doesn’t work that way. Doing that only makes you her text buddy/penpal. You’d pretty much text yourself into the friendzone as you steadily kill all the mystery, and all the excitement by becoming her routine guy she texts when she is bored. Texting is not a medium to keep a girl interested, it is a medium to set up dates. Being on her mind by texting her doesn’t keep her sexual interest high, it just makes you her friend. If you don’t know when you can meet her again, then it’s better to foc…
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:46 PM
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You could just say: “_i’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now_” or “_If you keep smiling at me like that, i’m going to kiss you_”… If she doesn’t get the fuck away or doesn’t get visibly repulsed at the idea, that’s your sign to just kiss her. Sometimes the consent is non verbal and implicit too
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:12 PM
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Boring is a guy who doesn’t know what to say to make the conversation fluid, smooth and engaging. He keeps asking questions or says the same generic predictable stuff that they heard already over and over from other guys. To avoid you need to be someone with an interesting point of view about things or mentality, and a sense of humour that makes people laugh with his jokes
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:49 PM
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You don’t get in a relationship by telling a girl that you feel something for her, you do it by taking her out somewhere, and seducing her to the point she wants to kiss you during that hang out, and you take things into the bedroom. You should never tell a girl you feel something for her if you haven’t slept with her first because that’s completely random.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah but you should not say to girls you approach more than one woman like that, because it kills the magic. Should make her believe that this is your first time doing it.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:10 PM
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What she means is that she thought this was something unique and special. So by saying that you do it all the time that magic is suddenly gone. Daygame works better when the girl believes that your approach was something unique and special, that you didn’t just go outside planning to hit on other girls, but that instead you saw something in her that made you do it, because then it feels like something that happens in movies. That’s all.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:07 PM
3

Wear a baseball hat everywhere
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:42 PM
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Like i said you have to have something else to do. Approach max 2 women in one place per day, and move on. Don’t ever say to the girls that you went to the mall to talk to people. Just say you were shopping, and are on your way home, but had to meet her because she looks interesting. Basically act like cold approaching was something spontaneous that you didn’t even plan doing until you saw her specifically and don’t stay there in that place for long, move on.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:54 AM
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Do women like being cold approached at grocery stores, malls, and parks? Some do some don’t. Depends on how you make them feel during the approach. Is it considered creepy to go only for approaching women? If you just go there stopping every woman that walks through the mall you will draw attention to yourself because yes hunting girls is creepy. It’s creepy because it feels like you want to get something from someone and are looking for your next prey. So you need to be doing something else and…
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:16 AM
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Just because some women don’t like it doesn’t mean all women on earth are the same. It’s like asking: do men like being talked to? Some do, some do not. Much like with everything else. You cannot generalise about what people like or dislike.
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:06 AM
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You should learn self-control. You know that overtexting is bad and yet when you like a girl you keep doing it, when you know it’s likely to ruin everything. If you really like her there is even more reason to play it safe and not text her so much, rather than risking it all by over texting her.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:57 PM
1

Can you accept like a grown up person that not everyone you like has to like to like you back, regardless of what you do? Move to other city if you talked to all the girls already.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:51 PM
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You need to be fun and high energy in clubs, so the opposite of what you are. There really isn’t a trick other than to just be naturally extroverted. If you are not extroverted like that, then just accept that some places are not meant for your game. Because trying to put a facade will just take all your energy rather quickly and you won’t really feel it’s worth all that effort. It’s better you focus on finding places where you feel comfortable being you. Nightclubs aren’t for everyone, certainl…
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:48 PM
1

It is simple yes when you know
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:29 PM
2

Mate don’t ask out close friends. Those are the ones who always put you in the friendzone. Ask girls who aren’t your close friends.
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:29 PM
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Read the wiki on this sub’s menu, You have all the answers there for free. And then once you read that, go out there and practice talking to girls. But to summarise: How do I get a girls number. Need to approach her, tell her that you want to get to know her because you like an specific thing about her, proceed to find out what she does for a living, why she does that, how she feels about it; what her hobbies are, how she feels doing them, what her plans for this summer or this year are, how she…
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:25 PM
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A man who doesn’t put up with any bullshit just walks away, without closure or anything… he doesn’t try to get her to change her behaviour or look for her explanations or complain about her attitude.
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:06 PM
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Should I text first or let her take initiative. It’s always the man who takes the initiative. Girls very rarely take the initiative even if they are interested. Mentioned I found it strange she suddenly didn’t reply (gave explanation of hard times at work) and afterwords texted I found it stupid why we didn’t have sex (after making out heavily for hour). Every time, you complain to women about shit like this it never ends well. Never. I know you feel the need to call her out, unfortunately calli…
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:11 PM
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Oh i’m just predicting the future, i only need to see the patterns and come up with the prediction. And more often than not i end up being right sooner or later. Good luck though. Peace.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:25 PM
6

Sure, it’s great when you have feelings for your friend, and yet she fucks other dudes while you can’t have her.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:23 PM
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“1 in a million chance” “Wanna take it slow” You already start with the wrong mentality. You are saying that you want to play it safe to not lose, when getting girls is about being willing to take risks, and accepting that you can easily lose girls. Taking it too slow = friendzone thinking of her as “the one” = putting her in a pedestal Let me tell you what you should not do. Don’t try to become her best friend, don’t try to spend time close as friends with a girl you want to have something with…
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:20 AM
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Creepy as fuck…. if you wanna talk to her just do it, and stop staring at her like a creep.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:28 PM
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Just tease them, challenge them, accuse them of absurd things, act like you don’t trust them, provoke them, exagerare things or your reactions, scare them as a playful joke, imitate their behaviour, mannerisms, tone, gestures, use sarcasm, mess with them like you would to your little brother.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:36 PM
1

Dont ask questions to women, they hate questions. Be more decisive and just tell her: “Hey, Sara… I’m going to get lunch later, i would like you to join me, so we can enjoy it while we talk”
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:24 PM
5

Girls are not interested in what you do, but how you feel. If you are gonna tell her something she will be far more interested if you focus on the feelings you felt, not in the facts
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:49 PM
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Because woman’s attraction is based on their emotional state. No spark means lack of sexual tension. Sexual tension is the emotional mood women experience when they are attracted to a guy. So when they say there is no chemistry, not feeling it… etc It basically means that your vibe between you and her was mostly platonic. No different than the vibe you would have with your sister. You are a man and are used to be logical rather than emotional, women do not like focusing so much on logic, and pre…
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:44 PM
1

Never bring other people (coworkers, friends,… etc) into what you have with a girl. Only talk with her and if you can’t move on. Don’t bring 3rd parties into your private relationship with girls.
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:37 PM
1

You acted like an average platonic nice guy that tries to play it safe with girls, aka like a beta male. This girl has lost interest, and it’s not gonna come back. She also won’t give you explanations other than some vague shit like “i’m not ready to date anyone” or “I’m too stressed” or any bullshit excuse. In this game getting closure is an anomaly, so wouldn’t even bother to try getting it. The key factors here were the 2 times you went out with her in person. The second time you still acted …
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:34 PM
1

They would introduce them to me (knowing I want to meet more women). We would do the usual - share our names, I would ask them how they know my friends, how their night has been so far, if they come here often, etc. Usually, after around like 5 minutes, the conversation would sort of fizzle out and then they would say it's nice to meet me and leave. I have no idea how to escalate the interaction. You have to pick a girl you want to flirt with and start doing it directly and without being apologe…
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:19 PM
1

Everybody knows that people who use android phones don’t get laid. Every man who has the android phone is a virgin. Definitely… 🥱🥴
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:55 AM
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When you flirt it’s all about how her qualities make you feel… you can say her intelligence, her behaviour or whatever rather than her beauty, but what matters is the second part how it makes you feel in romantic sort of way. Simply saying “hey i like how smart and caring you are” isn’t flirting… Saying that “she is so smart and caring that it makes you crazy” is flirting.
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:17 AM
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You can tell her things like: Your smile is so lovely, i can’t take my eyes off you” “The more i talk with you, the more cute i find you” “You are so smart and funny, that my heart is going crazy” “You look so fine right now, that it’s hard for me to concentrate” Basically, flirting is about telling her how her attributes, make you feel. It’s not just about saying: “hey you have a pretty smile” or “hey, you got nice yes” or “your outfit looks good” Notice the difference, it’s about saying how he…
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:49 AM
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You clearly don’t understand girls mate. When you do things and the girl feels you have an ulterior motive which you hide, the girl gets creeped out. And, flirting is literally about being open of your desire for her, it’s not something indirect, or about giving her indirect signals… It’s literally about being clear that you realise she is an attractive woman and not just a friend or coworker or pal. This game isn’t about hiding your interests and then one day confessing your feelings And no! Sa…
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:37 AM
1

If you ask her if you can put your arm around her, she will likely ask why. What will you say?
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:28 AM
2

lost cause and needy if you apologise to women for shit like that
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:23 AM
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The question is why aren’t you just approaching rather than overthinking? You don’t need a girl to confirm she is interested for you to just go there.
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:21 AM
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Stop caring if you lose the girl and text her random bullshit
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:20 AM
0

Whenever you feel the need to “recover it” it’s already a lost cause. Women look out for congruence. So as soon as they notice a change of behaviour that isn’t coherent with previous behaviour, they see it as a red flag because they can feel the “facade” you are trying to put now.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:28 PM
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Whenever you feel the need to “recover it” it’s already a lost cause. Women look out for congruence. So as soon as they notice a change of behaviour that isn’t coherent with previous behaviour, they see it as a red flag because they can feel the “facade” you are trying to put now.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:26 PM
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Don’t apologise ever with girls (unless you did something morally bad) So no, don’t apologise in this situation. You just need to get her in the mood, and you do that by making her feel positive emotions like joy, laughter,… etc . Bring a smile to her by being humorous, provocative, etc or reminding her of a funny moment,… Once she starts laughing and having a good time texting you, then you can ask her to go out
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:26 PM
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You get over by actively meeting more girls in person, and going for instant dates with them, rather than going for numbers or social media. If you are a virgin you are not gonna have success over social apps, that’s advance game. It’s easier to meet girls in person and try to escalate things in person without using the phone at all.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:16 PM
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Nah, even without emotion the dialogue would be better… also, you shouldn’t ask women out over text, and you should not ask them if they want to go out with you and instead, you should talk as if you are certain they wanna go by simply saying “i want you to come with me to x activity or event i’m going this friday. Also talking casually at first meeting, sounds like you act platonic with them. Basically you don’t act like a flirtC you act like an acquaintance, and by the time you show interest i…
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:26 PM
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It’s not helpful, because the problem is literally in your dialogues. And if you can’t give examples of how you talk with a girl then all you will get is vague advice which won’t help and you will continue to get rejected. Next time you talk to a girl you should record it, and then transcribe it, so we can look at it. But up to you.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:19 PM
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I’m talking about in person. How do your conversations, before you ask them out, go exactly phrase by phrase? How do you get to know them face to face? You can write it like: You: Hey my name is tom, nice to meet you Her: Hi, my name is Sarah You: You new in this place? Never see. you here before? Her: Yeah blah blah blah
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:15 PM
1

When you say you get rejected? How? What do you propose to them exactly? What exact words do you say? What is your whole conversation like? Write it like a dialogue of a movie script
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:10 PM
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Yeah i know, that’s how fucked up the internet culture is. Good thing real life is different
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:04 PM
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Lol, based on that text what she means is that she is not attracted to you. So if you suggest a one night stand, all that you show is that you don’t get it, and are super clueless. She will just leave you on read. Girls saying they are not interested in having a relationship, it’s not an indication from them that they would rather have a one night stand. And also, sex isn’t discussed coldly like that. You don’t seal the deal over text that you want to hook up with her. You literally are very clu…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:57 PM
2

Staying on surface levels means you don’t really connect with them. You have to get personal with them and create sexual tension.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:22 PM
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First things is that you should approach girls in person and forget about dating apps, and text messages. Just basically forget all sorts of online communication for now with g irks and focus on learning how to talk to women face to face in real life. Then you need to try to maintain the conversation for at least 10 minutes with any new girl you approach in person. The conversation needs to have humour, it needs to get her to talk about herself positively, and you must get her to feel valued by …
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:10 PM
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Well, it probably has to do with not understanding women, and social dynamics between women and men. Many guys also think they have to act like they see in romantic movies, which is a mistake. The guy acting like a good boyfriend trying to prove he would make a good boyfriend hoping the girl will realise that it makes sense to be with him. Other guys, are just too logical and generic with women, they don’t stand out, and are generally boring with them, they don’t take risks with her, they are to…
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Texting is for setting up dates. 80% of the conversation with a girl should happen in person, not over the phone. Right now you are not even talking in person with her so you are doing it all wrong.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:36 AM
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The world is uncertain, specially the things that are out of your control. You need to accept the fact that some people will like you others don’t. Regardless of what you do. If you could control the outcome all the time you would be God. You save your confidence by realising that you are nothing but a spirit inside a body, that nothing you do or experience in this life matters, things affect you o lu if you choose to take them seriously, by not taking yourself seriously and not giving a fuck ab…
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:34 AM
18

If short guys couldn’t get a girlfriend then there would be no more short guys on earth as they would have gone extinct and everybody would be over 6 feet tall.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:17 AM
1

If you can’t do it because you are in a car then there is nothing to feel bad about. Next time just walk instead of taking a car and approach any woman you are interested in.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:08 PM
1

Too much looking. You just need to approach not stay there staring. You don’t need signals to approach. You don’t need any clear indication from girls that they want to be approached. You just have to do it
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:58 PM
1

Because you keep seeking their approval and also you are boring when you talk to them. Generic conversations like “what’s up?”, “What you do for a living? what are you liking for?”, “i like movies”, etc And always trying for them to approve and give you validation. Women can’t therefore connect with you, specially on a dating app.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:56 PM
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Meet girls in person and don’t be boring, formal, logical and predictable with women. Focus on sparking emotions, make them feel positive emotions.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:17 PM
5

Need to flirt sexually with the girl. Acting like a guy who has a penis and wants to fuck with her, rather than hiding it like you are doing now to avoid being seeing as a perv. Basically, telling her she is hit, sexy, that her smile makes you crazy, you can’t take your eyes off her, that she is the kind of girl you would invite over to watch a movie, but not watch the movie… Basically acting more sexually suggestive in front of her. Right now you get stuck in the friendzone because you play it …
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:16 PM
1

The problem is that the behavior towards a girl you want to date or fuck with cannot be the same as the behavior you would have with your sister. talking about childhood, ex boyfriends, etc builds a friendly connection. That’s fine if you just want ti be friends, but it creates the wrong vibe. The vibe that she can trust you to open up and talk about her feelings, and her problems,etc which is the path to the friendzone. You need to break that rapport, you need to create sexual tension, make her…
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:21 PM
1

Yeah… You clearly don’t know.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:18 PM
2

By telling her you find her hot/sexy, that her smile makes you crazy, that she makes your heart accelerate when she smiles at you, that you can’t take your eyes off of her, looking at her body up and down, caressing her hands and her wrist intimately… Sexual tension is created when you act like she is a woman you desire sexually, not by talking about her ex boyfriends, or your childhood.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:17 PM
2

Not particularly, it’s not 10 steps ahead. Literally the first time you go out with her alone you should have already done that…Instead you made the mistake of being platonic and acting like her friend. Talking about friend topics like ex boyfriend, past relationships which you shouldn’t talk with a girl you want to date as that only puts you deeper in the friendzone. It’s quite clear to me that you don’t understand women and aren’t very experienced. There is no sexual tension at all due to the …
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:13 PM
0

When you openly tell her you find her sexy followed by caressing her hands, and she lets you do that and starts blushing because of that thing you have said.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:08 PM
2

I know women and this isn’t the behaviour of a girl who is into you. Too platonic.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:06 PM
2

She only sees you as a friend dude. move on
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:58 PM
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If that were true then lesbians wouldn’t be able to have a good sex life. Sex is so much more than just putting a penis into a vagina. There are 7 basic erogenous zones in a woman’s body. And the vagina is just one of them. That means that girl can orgasm even without inserting your dick into her vagina. Biting and sucking her neck and her earlobe will make any women go crazy with the feelings you are causing her…. It will be more satisfying that inserting your dick into her vagina. You need to …
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:50 PM
1

80% of conversations with a girl should be done in person. 20% should be done through texts. You are over texting, and killing your chances. If you love engaging with them then meet in person and talk in person, other than that you need to have other hobbies or activities that keep you busy from texting her so much. Texting is far more likely to get women turned off than anything else, the more you text the more likely you are to fuck up, being misunderstood, being needy and clingy, and making h…
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:39 PM
1

Girls don’t usually make the first move. The conversation has to be at least 5-10 minutes to be able to make a solid connection, get her excited about you, show that you are a fun gay, and getting them to trust you since you are an stranger. Not to mention that girls will feel like you do this with every random girl, giving out business cards to all of them, as if you are playing a numbers game, and that causes them to be turned off.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:27 PM
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Example: You: “Hello i saw you looking at me so shamelessly, that i almost blushed, so i wanted to meet the girl who almost makes me blush, my name is Jack” Her: Oh hi, i’m christine… You: “Christine… Please tell me you are not a secret spy on a mission to kidnap someone” Her: No haha, i’m not a kidnapper or a spy or anything like that. I’m a dancer” You: “So you are not just a pretty girl, you are also a dancer, my interest is growing now. I’m assuming you dance salsa or bachata” Her: Bachata a…
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:10 AM
5

Maybe you ask her too many questions, that tends to turn off women. No one likes feeling interrogated.
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:09 PM
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Some guys think asking questions is flirting because they don’t really know how to flirt. So you have to flirt back and insinuate you desire them, to find out if he reciprocates. Or just be direct and say: “Are you hitting on me?”. Doesn’t matter if he gets caught off guard, his reaction will tell you a lot about his personality, his confidence, and intentions.
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:32 PM
1

You sound boring as fuck. How old are you? 70?
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:18 PM
3

A woman saying “I’m busy the whole weekend” means “you are not my priority, and i’m just gonna be watching some tiktok, and some netflix series” It’s pointless to say “let me know when you are free” because girls do not typically take the initiative specially if they give you that kind of excuse, and because she doesn’t need to be reminded that you are interested she can reach out if she has free time without the need of you telling her. So move on
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:57 PM
5

No never say the words: “are we still (positive thing you want)?” It makes you come across as insecure. Don’t ask it like that if you want to confirm: Say something like “wear something cute tomorrow” or “don’t forget to bring your smile tomorrow” asking the question “are we still going to the date”, just sounds so lame
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:05 PM
2

You need to connect with her, make her feel valued by expressing what qualities you like about her, make her feel wanted and desired by expressing your sexual desire (flirting) shamelessly and without being apologetic, touching consensually her hands, and caressing her hands her skin to make her feel a sensual stimulation so that she is turned on and wants to make out with you and sleep with you.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:47 PM
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Day game checklist: Pick up line with the humour (not necessary but the humor is fine) Check ✅ Building a solid connection to avoid flaky numbers: Missing ❌ Flirting to make her feel wanted/desired and to create sexual tension: ❌ Qualification to make her feel valued, and justify your interest in meeting up again: ❌ Kino: ❌ No touching at all, not even a high five. Too platonic. The conversation is too safe, generic platonic, so it shouldn’t even count as seduction. If all your convos are like t…
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:42 PM
1

Forgot to add that you need to do it in a smooth way that feels right
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:09 PM
2

I don’t have any hobbies, and i am confident. Because confidence is not about having hobbies. It’s about the psychology and being mentally stable. Not being a slave to your ego, learning to be humble, being capable of diffusing tension with humor, not taking things other say about me personally, not comparing myself to others, learning to laugh at myself,… etc
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:24 PM
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Lol no dude. No picnics with a girl who isn’t your official girlfriend. Go for a walk in the park, play on the playground with her, sit in a bench, and flirt with her. Bringing food, and drinks and everything required for a picnic is overkill
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:20 PM
5

Example: You: “Hello i saw you statist me so shamelessly, that i almost blushed, so i wanted to meet the girl who almost makes me blush, my name is Jack” Her: Oh hi, i’m christine… You: “Christine… Please tell me you are not a secret spy on a mission to kidnap someone” Her: No haha, i’m not a kidnapper or a spy or anything like that. I’m a dancer” You: “So you are not just a pretty girl, you are also a dancer, my interest is growing now. I’m assuming you dance salsa or bachata” Her: Bachata actu…
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:34 PM
0

average means that you are neither repulsive but nothing that stands out neither as something super pretty. Basically, you have to show other qualities to attract people as you can’t rely on your looks alone. But the good news is that you are still presentable enough for girls to give you a chance. that’s what being average means
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:08 PM
1

She could like you, but just because she likes you initially doesn’t mean she will continue to like you if you end up being boring. Her interest isn’t set in stone. It depends on your behaviour and how you make her feel.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:07 PM
4

Approach girls in person. If you suck at talking to girls in person, then online dating or instagram just will not work for you. Online apps aren’t for noobs who can’t talk to girls and charm them in real life
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:45 PM
3

They got hundreds of guys wanting to go out with her many of which are just as attractive as you. Why should she be willing to go out with you straight away? She doesn’t know you, she doesn’t know if she can trust you? Or if you are a serial killer? Or if you are the kind of guy that would pressure her to do something she wouldn’t want to, and get mad or aggressive about her rejection. The idea that you can swipe right and assume girls are gonna be like; “oh yeah sure stranger, let’s meet up and…
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:43 PM
2

You need to talk with her about the moment you met, remind her of the best moment of the conversation you had with her in person with an inside joke, joke around a little bit, get her to laugh, and when she is having a good time talking to you through texts, then you just tell her about a plan you are gonna do and invite her to join you. You can text the day after you met her. Important that texting works better if you spent 10 mins talking with her at least in person during your Daygame approac…
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:07 PM
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The problem is not your flaws, the real problem is your attitude about your flaws. Having a “flaw” isn’t as bad as the girl realising you dislike yourself for your “flaw”. As soon as she feels that you aren’t comfortable in your own skin, that’s game over. Because women are not perfect and flawless, they don’t expect the guy to be flawless… In fact, it would be suspicious if the guy was seemingly flawless and somehow decided to be with a flawed girl like her. Why would someone flawless desire a …
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:32 PM
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grow up
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:41 AM
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Cold approaching isn’t creepy. People are creepy. It’s the person who does it, not the act itself. Provided you do it right it’s fine, if you do it wrong then it can be creepy.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:12 AM
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If she asks “do you normally approach women” it’s because she already knows you do, and wants to see if you lie or get defensive or any red flag reaction. You can be honest and say: “Yes, i approach women who i find attractive, because i’m single and want to find out if i like their personality too” or You can amplify too: “Yes millions every day, but hopefully you will be the last one” or say that only the ones that look like her, like: “Yes, as soon as i see a girl that wears (x clothes she is…
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:55 PM
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The problem is that you isn’t understand how girls operate. Their sexual behaviour is driven by their emotions, that means that in order for you to hookup with them you have to get them in the mood first by provoking them, messing with them, teasing them, flirting with them, etc… A hookup cannot be negotiate cold like “hey i’m only here for sex” even if she doesn’t mind hooking up with a guy in general… because to want that with you you have to get her in the mood. you are trying to look at this…
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:07 PM
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I never heard of someone who’s ego got hurt to admit their ego got hurt, even when their actions show it. Not my fault you are slow and kinda autistic. You got enough on your plate. Peace
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:57 PM
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Help with wha exactly? People can react badly to things when their ego gets hurt… Just like you reacted badly to my comments that hurt your ego here, girls and boys react badly to getting rejected because it hurts their ego. That’s human nature. Now you understand why they they acted like that by experiencing it yourself. Glad i could help.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:47 PM
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First off, just because I ask a question (even a stupid one) means you can assume I'm autistic? What if I am? If you, are are. I simply say it would explain everything. Also if your going to defend women on this topic then you are at the same time defending men, arguing that they can lash out in the same way, if your not saying that then your a hypocrite. I am not defending anyone, I simply explained that it's normal that people get upset and how that can get them to react badly to it when they …
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:24 PM
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DMs you are competing with all the wankers there, approach in person. Real-life seduction is better than online. Getting girls interested is all about how you make them feel, and through texts, you cannot do much to make them feel anything. The rate of success through online apps is far lower than in in-person approaches. I know you feel like online dating is easier because the rejection doesn’t feel as bad as in person, but the reward is far bigger than in person. In texts, you are not talking …
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:20 PM
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Every time i read a person asking something like this i feel like 99% never actually go on a date, which shows that asking for a date in advance is not a good move. The date should be same day in the evening/night or the next day after you set it up. Anything more than that, i always feel like the date is gonna be cancelled.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:49 PM
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Every time a girl starts giving excuses to not hang out means she is not interested any more… Think if it this way, she would rather take care of her cat than going out with you, she woud rather go to the gym even if she doesn’t know what time exactly than making time for you. what does that tell you about her priorities? That you are not a priority to her, more like something to entertain herself when she is bored. So ask yourself, do you deserve to be a priority? Or do you deserve to be her te…
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:45 PM
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Have fun being friendzoned with every girl that you ever meet then
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:40 PM
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Dude, how do i tell you this? Seduction isn’t about waiting for signals from a girl. It’s about approaching the girl even when she hasn’t even noticed that you exist. All the beta males here are always asking “how do i know if she is interested” you can’t know it. Instead, you approach her, you change her mood and that’s when she begins to be interested even if she wasn’t interested initially.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:39 PM
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So you want to do the thing that won’t work, and will lead to her saying “i only see you as a friend” got it. You cannot get a girl to reciprocate your feelings if you haven’t kissed with her first at the very least. Anyways, I’m a firm believer in letting people screw up by doing the wrong thing so they learn the hard way how things work or do not work.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:33 PM
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So, you don’t understand that people don’t like getting rejected and often react badly when it happens? Getting rejected hurts someone’s ego, so of course many will react badly to it. “Unnecessary reactions” is just a subjective thing. Are you really expecting cold headed behaviour when the person has been hurt? I mean some might take it better than others, but if it’s taken badly, i’m not sure why anybody would be surprised if it happens. That’s literally human nature to feel hurt or upset when…
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:26 PM
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You don’t. It doesn’t plan the idea or anything lol. Girls don’t even “work” like that. Girls agree to go on dates based on how they feel about you. And those feelings can change the next day after the date. So even if you ask a girl for a second date during the first date and they say yes, the next day or a few days after she can completely change her mind and pretend she never agreed to it in the first place. That’s because her mood about you has changed. She has had time to think mor rational…
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:19 PM
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It’s not about confessing. You should never actually confess anything to a girl. You should never say “i really like you and i was wondering if we could be more than friends”… you should never say any of that shit to a girl. dating and seduction is not about revealing the truth that you have been hiding… It’s about hitting on her, which you aren’t really doing… What you call flirting probably isn’t even real flirting. Complimenting a girl isn’t flirting, if it’s the type of compliment that even …
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:07 PM
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You should ask to do something later during the evening/night that same day. Don’t set up dates in advance because you always have this problem of the girl losing interest right before the date if you plan too in advance, regardless of what you do ghost or text. Just plan the date for a maximum of 1 day, if she says she can’t and need to wait more than one day, assume she isn’t truly interested and move on.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:55 PM
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A walk in the park during the evening/night, play in the children’s playground with her, sit on a bench, flirt and make out
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:51 PM
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Validation = Ego boost = more confidence = more optimism = More dopamine = Better mood Simple as that
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:47 PM
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No, a woman insulting you isn’t a shit test. And negging a woman is insulting her not shit testing her. Negging a woman like: I like your shirt, it makes you less fat isn’t a shit test it’s insulting her, And woman who respect themselves won’t tolerate that bullshit, only super drunk and insecure women with daddy issues could fall for that, and not for long anyways, not to mention how toxic it is. based on how mystery was doing peacocking, it was stupid, you don’t need tattoos, you don’t need an…
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:43 PM
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No, but you have to understand that they need to say it to you due to society standards and for the sake of their reputation and for what you might think of her for being “easy”. Just don’t give it that much importance.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:20 PM
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You are literally in a PUA forum even if it’s not called PUA, and instead called seduction. The only thing that died is mystery method because game theory has evolved beyond some of his most absurd ideas (like negging or peacocking), but core principles (High value, Qualification, Seduction, Kino, Empathy, Escalation) are still intact.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:15 PM
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You really don’t need a whole summer break to get intimate with her and kiss her. Within a week you can do it, and even faster if you have good game.
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:24 PM
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Yes, you are not the only person who stayed virgin at 20. Some people lose their virginity at 40 years old even.
/r/seduction12/07/22 09:17 PM
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It depends, lol isn’t a problem. It’s when you over use emojis and it’s hard to tell whether you are a guy or a girl texting. Men are not as expressive as women so being that expressive over text feels weird and not very masculine. Specially when you use these ones: 🥰😊😘🥺🤭🙈💕💖❤️ Just basically it’s better overall for men to be more dry over texts.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:05 PM
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She doesn’t respond fast enough because she has neither the obligation to do so, nor give you any explanations, and because she has other bigger priorities than you. Every time you try to pressure a girl into giving you attention, you are screwing up. Every time you ask her to give you explanations you are screwing up. So just don’t do it. It’s just a choice.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:00 PM
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You can have validation from a girl but you won’t probably sleep with her or have anything with her. Seeking their validation is needy, so you will probably get friendzoned at best.
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:57 PM
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Girl needs to be motivated into being interested in the heat of the moment; meaning you have to express your sexual desire make her feel wanted and valued, so that her mood changes and she begins to feel sexual tension name wants to kiss you. Basically what i am saying is that you cannot focus on trying to guess if she is interested or not because that’s not how women “work”. Women feel like it when you begin to make moves and have to decide on the spot if they feel like it based on how smooth y…
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:59 AM
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Dude. she is an only fans girl, she makes a living out of having chemistry worth everyone. It’s her job. Online you are not gonna do much cuz you are just another guy for her to lead on in order to get more money. If you could get her out on a date, then maybe but that’s as simple as “hey, i’m going to x place to do x activity, this friday, why don’t you join me” If she accepts great, if not understand that whatever excuse she gives is just a way to politely turn you down, because she ain’t inte…
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:31 PM
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Definitely don’t say that you are a virgin. If you want to perform well here me here just focus initially on licking (sucking) her neck and her ear while you kiss her. You will drive her crazy without even penetration. Don’t say you are inexperienced, don’t say you don’t know what to do, don’t say you never touched a woman at age 27. Trust me dude. Just don’t. No matter why they tell you that they don’t mind that they would accept it, just don’t. It’s a trap. The vast majority of girls will be p…
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:18 PM
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It’s because they don’t wanna look easy or make you think she is that kind of girl that would do this with every guy, and also to see if you get angry, upset or try to pressure them, which would be a mistake. The key to answer this is to agree and amplify with humour: “Of course we are not. I’m gonna sign a contract with the devil to make it clear no sex tonight” and change topics.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:05 PM
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Dude, you are making a big mistake by sounding more interested in a relationship than she is. Don’t try to rush into a relationship, don’t bring it up, unless she does it first. Women don’t appreciate it when you try to lock her down into a commitment. Having a relationship should be her idea, she should be the one asking you and wanting it before you offer it. For now only focus on having sex no matter how many months it takes for her to bring up having a relationship. Let her be the one that a…
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:01 PM
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Attraction in women is based on their emotional state. This means that attraction cannot be negotiated in the sense that you cannot logically convince a woman to feel sexual attraction or give her logical reasons as to why she should like you. However their emotional state can change with the way you make her feel through your actions and words… If you make a woman feel intense positive emotions, and change her mood, she can be more attracted to you in that moment than she was just a moment ago,…
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:54 PM
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If you ask questions after questions then people will be turned off because it feels like you are interrogating them. No one wants to feel like they are in an interview or interrogation. 90% of the things you say should be statements, not questions. Types of statements include, making hilarious assumptions about the other person, making absurd accusations, sharing fun anecdotes, making observations, exaggerating your reactions, teasing them, messing and joking with them, sharing how you feel abo…
/r/seduction11/07/22 09:09 AM
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No. It’s only good the girl posta a photo of you with her, because it means she is bragging about spending time with you and that raises your value. Whereas if you are the one posting pics with a girl you are the one bragging about spending time with her and that lowers your value.
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:47 AM
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To have sex you can’t outright say “i want to have sex with you” what you need to do is escalate things smoothly, hold hands, pull her in for a kiss, take her home, keep kissing at home, start undressing her, and so on… You do not ask for sex verbally, you just feel the vibe and make things happen by just doing the moves.
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:12 AM
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saying I’m such a “nice guy and someone would be lucky to have me, just not her” (which to me is an insult) etc. When a girl says that, what she means is that she didn’t feel sexual tension with you, basically you acted platonic with her, meaning that the way you behaved with her was not much different from the way you would act with your close sister. All safe stuff, friendly, never acting sexual with her, sure sharing some laughs, some jokes even, or talking about some deep or personal stuff, …
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:51 AM
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That happens when the convo starts boring and generic as if getting through a checklist of generic questions to ask to start things. In tinder you have to be playful and fun right away, you need to skip the formalities, and avoid asking questions, unless they are absurd questions on purpose for the sake of being playful.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:45 AM
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Never ask a woman if “we are good” or “if she is ok” when her interest seems to drop. Never. The only thing you accomplish by doing that is coming across as insecure, and reinforcing that negative thing making her even more uninterested. You should always assume that everything is good even if it doesn’t feel that way. Always assume there is no reason for her to lose interest even if all evidence points to the contrary. Confidence is shown precisely when things don’t seem to be going good, not w…
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:44 AM
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So you have gone on all these dates and never had actual sex with her? Because yeah that would a reason why she friendzoned you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:37 AM
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Just remind her if a funny moment or something fun you guys did, an inside joke basically. You need to provoke an emotion right away from the first text, so provoking laughter is a good way to do that.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:35 AM
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But to have sex with most girls, you have either have to be in a relationship with them or they have to be super drunk. Wrong. A lot of people have casual sex outside relationships, and without being drunk. You don’t need to be in a relationship at all. Wouldn’t that be real asshole behavior if I tricked a girl into being in a relationship with me only to ask her to be a fuck buddy in my rotation after getting sex for a couple times? You don’t need to trick her or lie or anything immoral, you ju…
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:06 PM
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That’s the thing…. a date doesn’t have to be traditional. You could just go out with her causally without any social constructs of a traditional date, and still consider it a date and treat her like a girl you want to fuck. So, flirt with her, don’t try to get her to clarify what it is, just get her to talk about herself, flirt by expressing what qualities and personality traits you like about her based on what she has been telling you, start flirting physically and sexually, and make your moves…
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:56 PM
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You do know that when you plan dates so far in advance it means that there is 95% change the date won’t happen, right? Regardless of what you text her or not, also. You don’t sound like you have been on many dates with women.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:47 PM
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If you go on instant dates, then treat it like a normal date and go all the way in to a kiss at least. You need to create the intimacy, the sexual tension during that instant date and make the move to kiss her. If she moves her hair so be it, but you have to make it happen. I think the issue is that I have an overly friendly personality with everyone. This is good for opening girls but for closing, I've to escalate/flirt. I perhaps haven't made it clear to these girls that this is a date. So, ne…
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:03 PM
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Nigga talking about sex like it’s just playing videogames or exchanging fluids. Girls need to feel turned on by you first of all or want to have sex. And then you need to be great in bed for them to want to continue having sex. And then you need to make it clear after you have already slept with her at least once first, that you want to continue this but in a casual way. Important to note that first you must have sex already before you discuss how you want the relationship to evolve into friends…
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:45 PM
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Sometimes this girl will take days before she OPENS my messages (not reply) even in the middle of us talking or when I find her for something important. Well if she is your actual girlfriend and she doesn’t reply to you quickly enough, that’s a bad sign. If she is not your girlfriend then she doesn’t owe you any explanation and she will only pull away further. I may be the only guy she knows that has the balls to actually say it to her face ( shows I don't put her on a pedestal ) but the situati…
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:23 PM
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some cuddle some don’t
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:35 AM
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meh, doesn’t really make me feel laughter or anything. Would decide mostly on your photos. This text would not really add points
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:33 AM
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It’s only too soon if she ends up not being that much into you during the date. If you truly make her feel the sexual tension, the spark, or whatever, her emotions will drive her behaviour and they will make an exception to do things sooner with you. Then they will say that they don’t usually do this but that you have something different which is why they did it this time.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:48 AM
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Avoid asking questions Me: "Hey, I was just walking by and I saw you. I love your style so I just wanted to meet you” She: "Thank you" Me: "I'm Tom by the way" (extend my hand for handshake) She: "I'm Christine, nice to meet you" (handshake) Me: "Ahhhhhh, my hand!!” (Acting as if she hurt you with the handshake) Her: Oh i’m so sorry” Me: “Just kidding, i love how we barely just met and you already got worried about me” Her: Oh my god, asshole you scared me” You: That already tells me you are a v…
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:58 PM
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Flirt sexually to build sexual tension, get her in the mood to kiss by holding hands first, caressing her writs, her palm of her hand, and kiss her. Don’t wait until the end of the date to go for a kiss, you need it try in the middle of the date. She has to know you made an attempt to kiss at the very least, or there won’t be second date most likely. If you just talk to her like you would with your sister, meaning you don’t express your sexual desire for her during the date, then you put yoursel…
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:29 PM
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No, drop the haha. Don’t laugh at your own jokes specially when there is no joke or nothing humorous about your text like in this case. Any time you think using haha would lighten the mood, do the opposite, because if you don’t that “haha” comes across as insincere and needy try hard attempt to seek rapport. Don’t laugh at the end of your texts, just better to be dry. Yes, i literally just said it’s better to be dry on texts. It’s more masculine and less approval seeking. Your text opener should…
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:24 PM
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Yes, it works but only if you got the social skills which most people in this sub don’t have. If you can hold a conversation for 10 mins minutes with a met you met in cold approach, manage to evoke emotional responses from her, build a connection, get her to familiarise with you, and flirt with her smoothly during that cold approach, (which, like i said, requires at least 10 mins approx of conversation) then yes it works. If you just go around saying shit like: “Hey i think you are really cute, …
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:17 PM
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I don’t know but you can google their names and contact them to find out
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:23 PM
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Johnny Berba or Yad.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:11 PM
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Not really no. Seduction is about creating positive emotions, negative emotions just pull her away, by destroying the connection, the trust, and building up resentment or even anxiety making what you two have toxic in the best of cases.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:48 PM
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You don’t ask, you also read her mind. You just escalate things physically and if she lets you escalate te game on, if not back off.
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:47 PM
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No. For a girl to kiss you she has to be in a favourable emotional mood, and a woman being cold and distant isn’t really a favorable mood. If the vibe changes you need to focus on creating positive emotions, you need to be more emotional in a positive playful way, be dramatic as a joke, be humorous, be sarcastic, you can role play and accuse her of hating you in a playful way like: “Oh my god, stop hating me so much!!” You can offer absurd propositions like telling her: “I feel like marrying som…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:41 PM
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You have to get her excited about a second date through some texting. It’s not about directly suggesting another date because the emotional state of a girl after a date changes generally speaking and she goes more into “logical mode”. So you need to be playful, humorous, create some emotions in her to change her mood to positive again, and then when she is genuinely in a good mood that’s when you ask her. Any time you want to escalate things with a woman, you need to get her in the mood. Not exp…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:13 PM
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You: “You are the kind of girl I would invite over to watch a movie, but not watch the movie” (sexual insinuation) Her: “To do what then?” You: “Adult things, you know 😏? Like paying taxes, cleaning the house, paying some bills…” (Bait and Switch) —— You: “You know the more i talk with you, the harder it is from me to concentrate with that cute smile of yours” (Bite your bottom lip) —— Look at the girl up and down and say with a suggestive deep tone of voice: You: “Hey girl, how you doiiing?” (T…
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:31 AM
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I was giving her little touches and she was giving them back. Giving little touches does not do much, that’s good for breaking the touch barrier but if it’s just little touches throughout the entire date and you don’t transition into something 100% intimate, that doesn’t really make the girl feel anything. Towards the end of the date I was getting nervous because I wanted to kiss her. You should not wait for the end of the date to kiss her. A kiss should happen in the middle of the date which re…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:51 AM
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If you don’t approach then women won’t generally speaking do it. If you want to attract women, then walk up to any girl no matter if she is in a group or not, and start the conversation.
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:17 AM
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No, you don’t have to make it clear that you are not gay. That only shows you are insecure and have a fragile masculinity, so you’d fail the little test. She is literally waiting for you to fall in to the trap so that you show your fragility. By not falling for the trap you stand out, and prove you truly are confident. If you joke around it that shows confidence on your own skin and you pass the test and the girl will not seriously think you are gay.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:40 PM
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Doesn’t matter if you are good looking because you got no game and getting good game can be learned in one afternoon by reading a reddit post, it requires real life experience with more girls, which means you have to focus your attention on other girls, talk in person with them and make things happen with them. You ask why she gives mixed signals, have you considered they are not mixed signals? She is just not interested? If she sees your snaps, that doesn’t mean she secretly likes you. Nowadays…
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:14 PM
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You don’t understand game. If someone asks if you are gay, just play and don’t take it seriously or logical. Her: Are you gay? You: “Well not for you darling” or “I was, but now that i see you, i think i’m getting inside the closet again” or “Oh super gay, but i think you are gonna be my cure 😏” That’s how you stand out by joking and stop treating things so logical or rationally… Missed opportunity here. Never take anything a woman says about you seriously.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:01 PM
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Be extremely good looking, other wise you will, more often than not, have to be the one to make the first move
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:57 PM
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Your ego wants you to avoid getting rejected because he would rather tell himself the narrative that if you can’t get a girl is not because you suck or at ugly, but maybe because you didn’t try. So your ego prefers the uncertainty of what could have happened, than the confirmation that your might not be attractive or good enough to have her. You would feel bad if because you let ego drive your life, you are more worried about maintaining that fake self perception that your ego built and which yo…
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:51 PM
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You are reading way too much into this. She followed because that’s the norm. You had sex with her, she is interested in seeng your life. Doesn’t mean anything more than that. It’s not a sign of anything. There is no universal meaning to someone following you on instagram. She could be interested in dating or she could be interested in being in touch for just something casual here and there. Nobody can know because there is no universal translation for it
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:33 PM
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If you are not having sex, then it’s really bad. If you are having sex, then it’s just a bit less bad.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:24 AM
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You need to have a personality, and saying what everyone else is saying shows her immediately that you don’t have one, which will kill any interest she had initially when she saw your photos.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:01 AM
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I wonder why you deliberately wait 4 days to text someone if you are interested in them. That only makes the person move on because they feel you are not interested, so by the time you show up, they might just don’t care anymore.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:13 AM
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No. You need to talk with her for 5-10 minutes first, connect with her, see if there is chemistry, get her excited in person about you, get her to trust you first… Girls don’t go out with strangers, so you need to spend some time talking so she feels like you are not a stranger anymore. So don’t ask for a date or a number right away, and focus on connecting so that she gets more interested and excited about you and don’t compliment her looks, compliment her personality.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:05 AM
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Initial starter is to say what do you want and why are you talking to her, which is: “I want to get to know her because you are interested in her for x reason”. Thats the initial thing you say. Then the conversation transitions into: “What you are doing at that moment before you met, what both of you do with your lives (jobs/studies) and why you do it. Also, how do you both feel about it. And then joke around, tease her, flirt, share funny anecdotes, give opinions, challenge her, talk about your…
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:12 AM
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More like a tease, which you shouldn’t take seriously. Guys with a thin skin don’t get laid. She just testing to see if you are comfortable in your own skin. If you get hurt about this it shows you are not comfortable in your own skin and she did well to test you. Just say: You: “You know women, alcohol, women, drugs, women, work, did i say women yet? ;)” It’s not that serious
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:55 PM
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Don’t take it seriously and joke like: You: “You know… women, alcohol, women, drugs, women, work, did i say women yet?”
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:54 PM
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Start moaning, guys don’t usually moan because they feel gay or something but women love it, when the guy acts like he is enjoying it like crazy. Little secret that guys with fragile masculinity won’t take, because their ego makes them stupid like that. Bite and lick her ears and neck, suck them. Don’t stop it. Those areas are super sensitive to women and can get them to orgasm without penetration.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:47 PM
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Initial starter is to say what do you want and why are you talking to her, which is: “I want to get to know her because you are interested in her for x reason”. Thats the initial thing you say. Then the conversation transitions into: “What you are doing at that moment before you met, what both of you do with your lives (jobs/studies) and why or how do you both feel about it, and joke around, tease her, flirt, share funny anecdotes, give opinions, challenge her, talk about your passions, motivati…
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:35 PM
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The game doesn’t care if someone is in a relationship. A guy with game can make a girl cheat. I’m not saying that it’s right or morally correct to get a woman to cheat, i’m simply saying that the “boyfriend obstacle” is rather easy to overcome for those who don’t give a shit about morals.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:29 PM
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You just introduce yourself say some humorous stuff based on the environment or what she is saying, and her interest grows
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:19 PM
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It always has to be obvious that’s not the real question the question s whether she has earned it throughout the conversation you had with her. Have you qualified her? Does she know what qualities she has that justify why you are flirting with her? Because that’s what matters. If you are just flirting because she is cute then she didn’t earn it and you are pretty much giving away your interest which is low value behaviour. So, you need to go through the process of qualification, get her impress …
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:57 PM
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Asking for a number straight away isn’t the best way, it’s better to just tell her if she wants to get to know each other ruegue there or take some coffee. Numbers lead nowhere if you ask so fast more often than not, but connecting with girls on an instant date increase your odds of success at getting a kiss or even same day sex
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:10 AM
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Interesting that tells me that the way you are doing is not exactly smooth, and calibrated because the vast majority of people are sexual and don’t get restraining orders. So you need to analyse how exactly you are trying to be sexual with girls, and from which moment and in which context to understand where exactly needs to be fine tuned
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:03 AM
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Ok, getting girls is all about getting the girl to feel favorable emotional moods like sexual tension joy anticipation surprise etc and using those temporary emotional moods to escalate things physically with her. You therefore need to be sexually expressive, direct, confident; outgoing, provocative, getting to know her, making her feel qualified and special and escalate things
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:56 PM
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By kissing at the very least by the second date. Otherwise you end up friendzoned more often than not.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:26 PM
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Then you will experience very often a thing called the friendzone: “let’s just be friends” or “sorry i only like you as a friend”
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:51 PM
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Doesn’t have to be you can just have sex with her and then she will far more likely to want a second date with you and you could continue this until it’s official relationship
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:31 PM
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You don’t need to tell her that it’s a date date as that’s just not smooth, you just ask her out for something casual and then flirt sexually in person to build sexual tension. If you play it well and smooth during the hangout you will be able to kiss her spontaneously. Women don’t need to be told that it’s a date date, it’s perfectly fine to make things happen in the heat of the moment.
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:09 PM
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The purpose of kino is to warm up the food, and eat it immediately. Not to maintain it warm for weeks without eating it. In other words, you need to create sexual tension and go for the home run, (kissing and sex) that same day, not in a few weeks or months. If you get friendzoned is because you don’t escalate you get stuck in the same phase forever for weeks like you said kino isn’t about giving a hug and a handshake… Kino is about making things hot, express sexual desire and moving all the way…
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:35 PM
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Why do you think she is cute exactly? That is how you personalise it. What specific things in her appearance make her cute? Her gaze? Her rhythm when she walks? Her pimples i’m her face? Her smile? Her outfit? Example: “I saw you and i loved how captivating and hypnotic your smile is, it’s made my day better and i thought, “wow i want to meet this girl” So here I am… My name is Zach, nice to meet you”…
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:40 PM
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You can’t know if they want to be approached… if you ask any of them they will say no don’t approach but that’s because they don’t know what to expect and fear the unknown so they say no. If you are outgoing and charming and respectful then they will not mind that you approach them. It all depends on the vibe which at the end of the day is something they have to experience first before jumping to conclusions about you meaning that you just have to approach girls even if there are no signs at all…
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:59 PM
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This is a appeal to ridicule fallacy which is a fallacy in which mockery is substituted for actual evidence in an argument, but nice try. Person 1 claims that X is true. Person 2 makes X look ridiculous by misrepresenting X. Therefore person or 2 concludes that, X is false. No different than saying: Evolution? Yes, I believe that my grandparents were monkeys-of course that makes sense. or Person A: At one time in prehistory, the continents were fused together into a single supercontinent, which …
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:41 PM
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Inside the club you don’t talk, you don’t introduce yourself, you just dance, have fun singing out loud the songs, everything is non verbal, you pull her in, you turn her around, you get close and closer physically to her, and you just go for a kiss. there is no talking because you can’t due to loud music and girls don’t care anyway what guys have to say. It’s al about being direct, fun, the center of attention and confident to escalate things physically
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:40 PM
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Maintain gender roles. Be masculine, daring, shameless, confident, sexually expressive, escalate things fast, take risks… Don’t act timid, insecure, unsure, defensive, apologetic, shameful, and don’t play it safe.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:52 PM
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She didn’t find him attractive because she didn’t connect with him. Nothing happens without a reason.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:26 PM
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Literally the worst type of principe you could have. It’s like saying “if they want my product they will buy it, if not they won’t.” Except there is a whole marketing industry designed to make people desire your product because marketing works, and creating attraction also works. But first you need to understand what attraction is from a woman’s perspective which you don’t understand. You think of attraction from a man’s perspective which is visual attraction and that isn’t how woman feel attrac…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:23 PM
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It works if you have game… Based on what you wrote your conversations are generic, boring, dull, and impersonal meaning that you don’t have game.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:20 PM
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Wait until you realise that you don’t need any of those skills to get girls. You just need social skills and confidence to escalate things sexually. Nothing more than that.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:17 PM
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One of the rules of seduction is to stop looking for a woman’s approval. If you want to say the right thing you are literally breaking that rule which will have a high rate of bad results. If the girl thinks you are lame and loses interest so be it, that’s a choice you have to be willing to make. You need to accept losing girls. If you choose that you don’t ever want to lose ironically you will always lose.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:16 PM
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If you follow tons of almost naked girls on instagram, that will happen more often than not. If you want to follow instagram models, girls in bikini, etc then use a second account for that, and don’t follow anyone but your friends on your main instagram account.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:48 AM
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No. They will not come… No one’s gonna knock on your door. That is just stupid advice given by men who don’t have real life experience. You need to hit on girls, you need to take the initiative and go out of your way to meet women, you need to approach them and talk, you need to be the one making almost all of the moves. Girls are more passive in that regard. So yeah, you could keep focusing on your purpose for the rest of your life but if you don’t actually are the one initiating flirty convers…
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:44 AM
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Yes you should. Specially when they will continue to try to deconstruct masculinity and make men little submissive bitches with all this progressive bullshit agenda, they will need more than ever a role model that teaches them how to pull girls.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:39 AM
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Once you start flirting sexually you keep doing it, if she stays and doesn’t leave take it as passive interest, and start playing with her hands, touching them, caressing her fingers, her palm, lead the conversation. Get closer to her, make her feel like you are about to kiss her and if she stays, then just kiss her.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:50 AM
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Then you probably need to practice more the tone, the delivery, and fine tune the flirting.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:44 AM
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The line between teasing and negging is whether you are attacking someone’s insecurities or not. Teasing doesn’t attack someone’s insecurities, negging does. Negging: “That’s a nice shirt… it makes you look less fat” You are attacking her insecurities like this, and won’t be received well by the vast majority of girls even if they are not fat. Teasing - She drops a glass into the floor by accident and you say something like: “Hey Bartender, i think you need to cut her off!! She’s had enough alco…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:37 AM
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You need to flirt sexually with them, meaning you have to show and express your sexual desire for them in order to build sexual tension, which is the key to avoid the platonic/friendly vibe. Basically start saying to her how her smile her eyes her body etc make you feel sexually, what emotions she provoked in you, example: “The way you looking at me is making me crazy” “Stop smiling at me like that, or i won’t be able to control myself” “Uff, i can’t take my eyes off of you, when you are so cute…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:27 AM
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You might need to either try social circle game or if you don’t have social circle, just do daygame (daytime cold approach). You could also join hobbies and meet girls in those hobbies.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:21 AM
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Things that don’t apply: Peacocking - The vast majority of guys who are good with girls don’t need to dress like a clown. They just dress normal. Nothing spectacular or anything. Negging - Teasing and messing with her has been found to be far more effective than negging, as it’s not offensive unlike negging, and women actually enjoy it more. No need to attack a girl’s self-esteem. Pretending you are not interested in the girl at first because you lose value - It’s perfectly fine to be interested…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:15 AM
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I feel also when i have hung with women privately it’s a good time and i enjoy just spending time with them but the whole thing goes by without anything happen that would indicate they wanna be more than friends. That’s because you are not making things happen, instead you are waiting for her to give you a clear sign that they want something to happen. The problem though is that you need to understand that seduction and dating doesn’t work that way. You cannot wait for signs, they won’t come sim…
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:55 PM
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Bing fit will help you with initial interest in your approaches, girls will likely be more receptive when you approach them. More happy to talk to you, more smiley at first, etc… But that’s it, you still need to have good social skills, be fun, flirty, etc
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:28 PM
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Like something playful something that you find funny, use your sense of humour. That’s what having a unique personality is about. It’s you who has to be creative, not me.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:26 PM
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Your first messages were probably boring like: “what’s up? Just chilling and you?” or something similarly dull. Need to be playful, more creative, more fun, more absurd, more provocative… Need to show your unique personality that differentiates you form other guys. If you write same predictable stuff that other guys, then you don’t stand out.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:22 PM
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If you chose to believe you are creepy, then your behaviour will adjust to that belief and you will creep out girls. If you chose to belief that you are making the girls day and are just having fun, then your behaviour will adjust to that belief and you will come across as fun and outgoing, not creepy. So it all depends on how you feel about yourself that will dictate how your interactions go with girls
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:04 PM
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Oh sure, if you reply to a girl thank you when she compliments your hair, she won’t date you or sleep with you. Absolutely. Keep overthinking
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:56 PM
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Talk about overthinking shit which doesn’t matter on the big picture.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:25 PM
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Women aren’t specific about what you did wrong even if you ask, they just say the vibe wasn’t right, or they felt no spark, or some little thing you did they didn’t like, but which actually isn’t the real problem when looking at the bigger picture.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:23 PM
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You stop catching feelings so fast the more women/men you have something with, and the older you get. Sex and girls/boys stop being so special, when you realise they are all easily replaceable.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:20 PM
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No. you should not ask a girl you haven’t slept with, how she is feeling as that is mister nice guy behaviour. it’s better to tease her like: “Don’t go around spreading the virus, or i’ll tell the cops”…. Teasing her more fun, and it avoids the “mister nice guy who pretends to care about a girl because he wants to sleep with her” vibe… Specially when that is more often than not an excuse, whenever you offer to go out to a girl and she says something like oh i’m sick” she is not really sick i’m t…
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:18 PM
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There is nothing that indicates she has a crush, her behaviour is similar to any other friendly girl. So it’s all platonic.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:14 PM
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you? 🤣
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:10 PM
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This post gave me aids. It’s so bad 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️. Perfect advice to get friendzoned though.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:31 AM
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It matters when you know what you are doing. If you are just talking for the sake of talking, but it’s all dull conversation then yes, it would be a waste of time to talk more than one minute as the results would be the same in that context. 1 minute of dullness is enough, no need for 10 minutes of dullness But that’s precisely where that argument falls apart, which is that you are not meant to prolong the conversation with dullness, you are supposed to show her that you are far more than what y…
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:29 AM
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If you get flakes so often, it means you are doing something wrong in your conversations before you ask them out. If you are cold approaching in person, you can’t just ask for a number right away within the first minute of conversation,… you have to build trust, connection, sexual tension and get her excited for plans which requires around 10 mins or so of conversation at least. If you are doing online dating in tinder then that gets more complex because most girls are just there for ego boost a…
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:52 AM
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you already started wrong, she only reacted to your last comment not bothering to give you something to work with. So at this point continuing is just try hard. She isn’t interested
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:51 PM
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You seduce literally by flirting shamelessly with them and having them realise that you are into them because seduction isn’t about hiding your interest in them. It’s literally about creating sexual tension with the girls, to make them feel desired and wanted. If you don’t want them to find out that’s a problem because it doesn’t depend on you. If they know each other they will find out.
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:51 PM
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If the woman takes this kind of jokes seriously, then that show she doesn’t have a sense of humour, and as such i wouldn’t want anything with her. An old woman with a sense of humour will just know it’s all playful and fun, and that will make her far more attractive. So it’s a win win to say these things to weed out bitter women, and stick only with those who do not take themselves so seriously. Considering she was the one reminding herself that she is older by saying she could be your mother, t…
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:47 PM
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Just make an assumption about her: You: You look like a tennis player” Her: am actually a badminton player. You: “Oh, nice. My name is Jack by the way… How long you been playing badminton” and take it from there.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:53 PM
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Cold approach is not about using “lines”. It’s about starting a 5-10 minute conversation that causes the girl to feel like she can trust you, to feel that she connects with you, to feel sexual tension, and to get her excited for a date. So if you only say: “I saw you there thought you were cute, give me your number” That doesn’t work. Sure, you could get a number doing that, but it wont lead anywhere because you forgot about the need of trust, connection, sexual tension, and excitement for a dat…
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:45 PM
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Just agree and amplify: “You mean, old enough to be my great great great great, grand mother” “Oh yes, but i’ve always being interested in mummies” Basically amplify her objection by exaggerating it as much as possible in order to tease her and then change topics.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:24 PM
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Just read erotic literature, that will teach you how to describe sex in a way that he can imagine the whole situation and feelings just by reading the words you write to him.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:41 AM
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The question is what are you apologise for exactly? Some guys apologize for things they shouldn’t like: “Sorry if it’s creepy, but I think you are really cute” You should not apologize for saying that she is cute, and if you suspect that what you are doing it’s creepy saying sorry before hand doesn’t mean you get away with the creepiness if it turns out to be creepy. It just sounds weak like you are being defensive because you expect a bad reaction from her. However if you step on her foot, or p…
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:18 AM
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You need to introduce yourself, and get through the get to know each other because the conversation was too impersonal, like you are just talking about cheetos and stuff which doesn’t relate to your personal lives or feelings.
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:04 AM
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You don’t ask those things ever. You need to seduce her and escalate things without telling her “hey wanna fuck?” When was the last time you saw in a movie the guy asking “hey wanna fuck? wanna her sex?” No it just happens, you start talking, touching her, she plays along and let’s you touch her, you tell her she looks fine she blushes, you pull her in for a kiss she accepts the kiss and kisses you back, you lick her neck, you start taking off her clothes, and so on until you insert the penis… Y…
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:00 AM
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The problem is not that you are skinny the problem is hating or disliking yourself for being skinny. In other words the lack of self-acceptance is the main issue that the girls are gonna pay attention to. They don’t care if you are too skinny or not, what they care is whether you are comfortable in your own skin or not. When you realise this, then it’s easy to be confident and be prepared when the girl brings up how skinny you look to test your character. You just say jokingly : “Look at all thi…
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:35 PM
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You need to be aware that this is all a game. As such anything a woman says to you that could break you should not be taken seriously. Because they are just testing you. They want to see your character. They wanna know whether you are truly self-accepting, confident and are strong, or whether you are weak, insecure and do not accept yourself. As such, when you understand that the girls are just waiting for a reaction then you just need to switch the mentality and realise that it’s all about play…
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:01 PM
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Sure, you can do that. Personally i would just skip completely the coffee. Too generic
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:57 PM
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Go for a walk to a park, sit with her on a bench, simple as that. Don’t have dates inside coffee shops, do activities outside
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:47 PM
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She was uncomfortable because she wasn’t into him. It would have been a different story if she was truly into the guy.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:53 PM
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I already said why he is doing it. To keep his options open in case it doesn’t work out with his current relationship. It’s like keeping food in low heat, so that it cooks slowly until it is ready to eat. he doesn’t need to eat now he just needs to keep you cooking slowly but steadily. Maybe he won’t ever eat the food after all, but if his relationship is in trouble he will
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:55 PM
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Ok, so yeah he is flirting for fun of it, sort of like keeping you guessing and invested in case his thing doesn’t work out he has other options. Like investing just enough to keep you intrigued and curious but without committing to it because he is in a relationship.
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:05 PM
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What does he do to make you think he is flirting?
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:58 PM
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Learn to read. Nobody said being fit isn’t beneficial to seduction. What has been said is that this sub isn’t the right place to talk about proteins, carbs, fats, calories deficits, dumbbells, press chests, or squats,… It’s irrelevant if you agree or not. The rules of the sub clearly stay this is not the right sub to ask for fitness advice. This sub is about social skills, and inner game with the purpose of attracting women. Yes, fitness can help attract women, but specific advice on diet and wo…
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:02 PM
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Read the rules, this is not the right sub for this. Go to the fitness sub. Admins will delete this soon anyways
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:39 PM
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It is the wrong sub because the goal of this sub is simply to talk about seduction skills, not about fitness or diet advice which has its own dedicated sub.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:37 PM
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Wrong sub. The rules of the sub clearly stay this is not the right sub to ask for fitness advice. This sub is about social skills, inner game with the purpose of attracting women. Yes, fitness can help attract women, but specific advice on diet and workout belong in subs that focus on that, not on this one. Having money also attracts women and yet this sub isn’t about advice in making money, there are other relevant subs for that. If you start bringing any possible area that could help to attrac…
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:34 PM
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No, just go out with her and start hitting on her, make her feel sexually desired. That’s what you need to do when you are spending time with her. You don’t need to announce that you are officially treating her as a girl you want to hit on, you just need to hit on in front of her. Next day that you go out with her, hit on her, tell her you find her cute that you think she is sexyX play with her hands and if she is ok with the hand thing and let’s you caress her fingers, then go for a kiss that s…
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:37 AM
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Just get to know them, what they do for fun, for a living, for hobbies, what dreams they have, what aspirations they have, what experiences they had with friends or with people in x place, how they feel about all of these things… I wouldn’t start with negs, you are far more likely to offend a girl by insulting her, than to get them interested in you. the key is to get her to talk about herself in a positive way so she starts impressing you, qualifying herself, so that you can then escalate thing…
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:04 AM
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POV: Tell me you don’t understand the concept of neediness without telling me you don’t understand it. Neediness has nothing to do with someone’s sexuality. Being interested in someone doesn’t make you needy.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:46 AM
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Just say that you think they are cute and want to get to know them, and proceed to introduce yourself, and start talking making assumptions about her like what you think she does for a living, or what she studies, or where she is from and so on
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:18 PM
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Dude where exactly did i say that? I think you are confusing me for some other comment. Anyways, that’s not what i said. I said to just go with her in a date and make things happen like i described above.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:04 PM
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Who says you need to stop talking to her? I didn’t say that anywhere. I said you need to flirt sexually with her to make her feel wanted and desired. So you need to go out once with her face to face and have some sort of casual hangout just you and her in the evening , you talk about what drives her, her motivations, her dreams, her experiences, etc And then you start telling her how you think “she is special and different from other girls”, “how you can’t take your eyes off of her”, how “that s…
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:02 PM
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Even if you tell her he has other girls it still doesn’t mean she will disqualify him, lol if anything that will only cause her to be more interested because girls find guys who other girls like as far more attractive. It’s also not about winning her over lol. Seduction isn’t about proving you are a better guy, better boyfriend or to prove your worth or anything like that. It’s about making her feel sexual tension so that she is tuned on by you and can’t help but to want to make out with you in …
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:48 PM
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No, you should not say anything. They are out there to party, have fun, not to talk with you over a text. She already told you you could join if you bring a friend. I don’t see why you wanna get her to invite you to the club,… It sounds like you are insecure and like you want to control her. Honestly no dude, doesn’t matter what your reasons are, just go to sleep and see her when you have to se where the next days. Let them enjoy their night out.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:21 PM
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Because most women aren’t in online dating apps to go out with guys. They know and get to meet plenty of guys in real life so they don’t need to date guys online. The only reason they are on those apps is because it gives them an ego boost. Girls love validation, and guys on the internet give so much validation for free to the girls. That’s all they need to feel satisfied, they just need attention, compliments, praise, to feel confident again. They aren’t really planning to go out with any of th…
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:07 PM
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Like a girl says they want a guy to be there for her, and I get that having emotional support is obviously lovely to people. Yes but when q girl says that, what she is referring to is a guy she already likes or has something with. She doesn’t mean she wants a guy she doesn’t like to be there for her. If a guy she doesn’t like starts giving her emotional support, he will just be friendzoned at best. He will only be considered a friend. But at the same time, being needy turns off girls?? Needy is …
/r/seduction02/07/22 08:59 PM
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It means that girls have more things going on than just texting you, they have other matters to attend, they have other friends to text with apart from you, they have other priorities or they feel like simply watching tik toks, and sometimes they just don’t feel like talking, or they have to think for a while before saying something to you. It could also mean that your text are as boring as they get, dull, generic, unimaginative,… etc and they dot. wanna bother following such a dull conversation…
/r/seduction02/07/22 08:17 PM
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You shouldn’t say it, with the vast majority of women it will not be good. Same goes with phrases like “with all due respect” or “Sorry if i annoy you” “hope i’m not weird but…” “Hope you don’t take this the wrong way”… Delete all of those phrases or similar from your vocabulary when talking to women.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:35 PM
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Don’t try to kiss girls in front of their friend. Always isolate the girl
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:13 PM
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You don’t need to say “i hope this doesn’t sound creepy”. Saying that comes across as defensive, insecure and like you are inexperienced when talking to girls which is off putting. And also, you can’t get away with being creepy just because you tell her that you are aware it could be creepy. Lastly, it’s likely she doesn’t remember that she said you have good genes or whatever so just say something humorous or make a funny observation about her.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:05 PM
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She just doesn’t want to feel like a slut, or easy. Part of being good at seduction is to be discreet, specially if friends are aroundZ Showing off will always play against you. You need to keep things with a between you and her more often than not, specially if you two aren’t actually an official couple. She just said not rig her now because of that, not because she isn’t interested, but because girls always worry about their reputation with a guy they barely know.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:33 PM
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By telling her things like: “You are the kind of girl i would invite over to watch a move and not watch it” “The more i talk with you the harder it is for me to see that cute smile of yours, and not fall for it right now” “Girl you are so cute and sexy, you make my heart pump so fast right now” “Your eyes are so hypnotic, i can’t even concentrate right now” You say things like that about how she is making you feel sexually with her attributes, and also combined with gestures such as looking at h…
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:56 PM
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First of all you need to do it in person, not over the phone. sexual attraction is created by touching, and flirting sexually with her to make her feel wanted and desired, elevating the sexual tension. So go out with her, sit on a bench and proceed to flirt sexually and touch her to make her turned on by you
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:48 PM
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Girls aren’t easy. It’s the guy that can make it easy with his skills. Any girl can have sex fast if the guy knows what he is doing with her. It doesn’t matter if the girl is that kind of girl or not, it depends on the guy’s skills to get her to be that kind of a girl at least for that day as an exception.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:46 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:47 PM
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Research in google
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:44 PM
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You shouldn’t say to girls “sorry for wasting your time” that makes you come across as insecure which is also off putting. Don’t apologise with women for being bad at talking to girls. Don’t justify yourself to them. Haven’t you heard that women like confidence? Then stop showing them that you are insecure and start acting like you are confident in yourself. If you can’t make jokes don’t do them, but also avoid being dull and boring. Tease her, provoke her, mess with her, roast her, flirt with h…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:39 PM
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Why wouldn’t they help out if you are asking indirect questions? Most people both men and women always help out others if they are asked. You are not even hitting on them by asking indirect questions, they don’t even know you like them… Direct means you actually tell her you want to get to know her because you find her cute, and want to feel her vibe, and introducing yourself and talking about your hobbies careers jobs plans dreams goals etc
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:36 PM
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Well that happens because your conversations with them aren’t much different from the conversations you would have with your sister, or your aunt or a friend. Let’s see you are in a date, with a girl that you presumably want to have sex with and start a relationship, and yet you talk with her like you would talk to a friend your sister etc. Sure with some laughs, some deep topics about life, some jokes and laughs, sure sure. But still all platonic and safe. The girl has no clue whether you want …
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:33 PM
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Nah, it’s just that insecurity is a turn off, negativity is a turn off, and resentment towards women for not giving them what they want is also a turn off because it makes them come across as entitled to a woman. It has nothing to do with them killing women, or morality. It’s more about the incel mentality. Take in mind that the guys who complain they can’t get laid here also wouldn’t typically say those things they write on reddit when they are in front of women. So when people here say “no won…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:24 PM
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Don’t tell girls that you don’t know how to flirt. That’s always a wrong move it doesn’t make you cute it doesn’t make you more attractive. Quite the opposite it just makes you sound like a loser who can’t talk to girls. Girls expect the guy to know. They don’t like inexperienced guys. And also avoid talking about logical subjects like religion. The conversation should be playful, humorous, fun, etc not logical predictable objective, conflictive, rational,…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:14 PM
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If you talk with women waiting for their approval then you will always be insecure. Confidence comes when you realise that their approval means nothing, and that you should not try to seek it. The only approval that matters is the one you give yourself for doing what you want and congratulating yourself for trying.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:08 PM
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You flirt by looking at her eyes and licking your lips in a sexually suggestive way, while you smile and talk to her and you tell her stuff like “your eyes are so hypnotic you can’t even concentrate” or that “her smile is so cute, it’s causing you to fall for her”… Basically acting and expressing that you want her, that you desire her… Both verbally and non verbally. You don’t hide the fact that you are so into her.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:06 PM
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You just ask, or asume her age by telling her “you look like you are 19”…. you don’t need to act like it’s forbidden or something to ask for their age.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:12 PM
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On the her last day you should have just ask her to take a drink with you that same day rather than asking for a useless number. You should always treat each approach as if it was the last one before the world ends tomorrow, meaning you have to get as far as possible within that same day with her, possibly having a a same day lay.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:09 PM
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Asking them out straight away leads to flaky results. It’s like you are tossing a coin waiting for a yes or no immediately and the most likely to that will always be “no”. You need to build comfort, get to know her, so she actually remembers who you are, and gets actually excited about you. You need to get her excited, not just assume that if she sees your face she will already be excited about seeing you again. Women are not interested in a guy just based on his appearance they need to gauge hi…
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:13 PM
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If you just wanna get laid who cares if she can be “stolen”?
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:10 PM
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But you need to be hitting on her and make it man to woman, not just talk in a platonic way, and i don’t think you know the difference
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:33 PM
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Because cold approach isn’t about getting their number in less than 2 minutes and then walking away. Doing that will get girls to flake even if they give you their number. they give the number because they know that’s all you want and it’s an easy way to get rid of you without confrontation, then they just ignore you or block you. Cold approach therefore isn’t about getting a number as soon as possible. It’s about connecting, spending 5-10 minutes talking with her, playing, and seeing if there i…
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:00 PM
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Why do you need others to tell you whether this is correct or not, rather than simply testing your theory with some girls and come to conclusions yourself?
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:09 AM
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Well with these things you just have to accept that women will often do that, and calling them out on it won’t change anything. I’m fast, it just makes you sound whiny and needy, so it’s best if you just don’t do that. The most she can say is sorry and then do it again. You see? Dating isn’t fair. People are not gonna follow good etiquette or be courteous with you. If you expect girls to give you closure, or to be direct about their intentions, or to have a behaviour that makes sense or is coher…
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:01 AM
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Yeah of course, i’d take it as flirting without a second thought. I’d just approach and hit on her.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:54 PM
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So I’m employing the tactic of giving my number to women instead of me asking for their number. Wrong move. Girls don’t feel comfortable being the ones to take the initiative, it’s part of their social conditionings They feel easy if they do that even if they are interested in you. It’s you therefore who has to take their number and take the initiative if you want a higher chance of success. Today I received a call from an unknown number and I didn’t figure who it was See? Another reason why you…
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:30 PM
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Whether there is a chance or not depend on you, not on her signals. You are the one who has to make them feel turn on by approaching her and flirting. Even if a girl is not initially interested in you, you cans still attract her and get laid with her. Initial attraction only helps a little bit, but girls just end up sleeping with guys who can make them feel emotions like sexual tension. It’s all about the increasing the buying temperature and striking while it’s hot.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:24 PM
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If i were you i would not make things sexual until you are actually face to face. It’s better if things feel spontaneous. And to me it seems like you are in the friendzone so better to just flirt in person.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:12 PM
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First have sex with her then you can talk about anything you want that could cause her to just run away. That way you got laid at the very least.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:07 PM
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You say statements rather than questions, you say jokes, humorous comments, humorous observations, random humorous thoughts said out loud, you accuse her of absurd things, you tease her or roast her to mess with her… Share funny anecdotes, or make humorous assumptions about her. You turn questions into statements by rephrasing them like: “I bet it must have hurt” rather than “did it hurt?”
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:32 PM
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then just did an opener of I finding them really cute. Wrong move. When you approach a group of girls you need to quickly establish yourself ho you want to hit on, not try to be ambiguous about which one exactly you like. You have to pick one target and then involve the other friends in such a way that it is clear you are hitting on your target girl and are trying to get her friends on yours side After a group 'thank you' I started to engage with all of them at the same time, moving my eyes from…
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:29 PM
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Don’t ask questions, and instead say statements… Questions need an answer from her, thus it’s needy. Statements don’t need an answer from her. Make sure the statements provokes emotions in her like laughter, surprise, joy, playful drama, anticipation. If she left you on read don’t bring it up next time you text her, instead just focus on making her feel another positive emotion to grab her attention. Never argue over texts or fight. Don’t try to clarify anything or justify yourself. Avoid formal…
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:42 AM
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🙄 If she took it seriously you just say you are messing around. You need to stop being afraid of being humorous. Those who try to play it generic, dull and safe don’t get anywhere. You have to be willing to take risks, and being humorous isn’t even that big of a risk. You need to have willing to show you‘ve got a personality that differentiates you form other guys. I’m sorry but the only people who talk about being threatened or murdered are people on the internet, the majority of people in the …
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:14 AM
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Mate brazil is know precisely for being a country where sex is pretty much as normal as breathing. I’m sorry but brazilian guys get laid. If you can’t it has nothing to do with the country you are in, but with your lack of skills and lack of confidence.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:30 AM
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Excuses excuses. While you go around thinking”oh it’s too risky to make moves” there are plenty of guys who don’t give a fuck and just do it and are successful.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:18 AM
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ugh, jesus you guys. If only you knew how much more off putting your insecurity is than your actual looks….
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:17 AM
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You don’t need to know her a little bit to start playing, you can play immediately. For example. Asking her: “What’s your favourite Dinosaur” is much better than asking her “what do you do for a living”
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:49 AM
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It doesn’t mean anything. Don’t try to over analyse what a girl says because you will always get it wrong, because most girls aren’t even thinking about what they say. They don’t send secret codes for guys to decipher, and yet guys always think they do for some odd reason.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:37 AM
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You need to get into personal territory, her feelings, her dreams, her motivations, etc. Do not just talk about impersonal stuff. Ask her how she feels about things you are talking about.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:35 AM
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You are probably not flirting sexually. Like probably the most risky thing you do with her is to tell her that she looks pretty. And that makes you come across as too friendly rather than like a sexual guy who has a penis and is turned on by her. Basically lack of sexual tension because you don’t make her feel sexually desired
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:33 AM
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You don’t need to ask if they have a boyfriend. You seem to assume that dating is a game where people play by the rules, where people show respect for boyfriends, or stuff like that. There are plenty of guys who don’t give a fuck if she has a boyfriend and who would still flirt with her and “steal her” from their boyfriends. The dating world is a like a battleground, only the fittest and the ones who don’t give a fuck survive. If she is loyal to her boyfriend and doesn’t wanna do anything she wi…
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:30 AM
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“I’m sorry i have a boyfriend” That doesn’t really mean anything in particular. Why is she sorry? Why does she say it? is she sorry about having a boyfriend? Why do you immediately assume she meant she wants to avoid talking to you? Just keep talking until she makes it specifically clear what she means by that. If she isn’t more clear then ignore it and keep going. Don’t ask her what she means by that, just act like she told you she had a dog and keep going
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:26 AM
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There are guys that are short and ugly pulling girls while others like you keep whining. Getting laid is all about the attitude, and with yours it’s clear why you don’t get laid.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:18 AM
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Your physique is fine, if you can’t get laid like this then the problem is your social and flirting skills, not your body.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:31 PM
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You are asking questions without y any purpose whatsoever, like “you doing anything fun today” The point of seduction is not to aka questions it’s to make her feel emotions, it’s to get her to laugh, get her to feel sexual tension, anticipation surprise, drama, etc So you need to tease her, mess with her, provoke her, roast her, joke around, share funny anecdotes, make playful accusations, make absurd assumptions about her,… It’s not about sharing objective information, it’s about making her fee…
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:25 PM
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It means that she feels like your interest in her is superficial, that you aren’t genuinely into her, and only want to use her for a one time thing, only to dump her the next day. You solve that by simply making her feel qualified, which basically means to tell her that you don’t just like her because she is pretty or hot, but also because she makes you feel different and has other less superficial traits like intellect or sense of humour. In other words, you make her feel like she has had to im…
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:17 PM
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Just tell her that she looks so fine, and that you can’t concentrate when she smiles like that, and that you can’t take your eyes off of her, and that she is the kind of girl you would invite over to watch a movie and not watch it. This is to come to get her blushing and turned on and then you just go for a kiss. Things to avoid: Confessing feelings of love, proposing, or telling her that you want to be more than friends because you really like her. Don’t say any of that shit. instead focus on m…
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:13 PM
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You need to avoid getting closer to her because that leads to the friendzone. What you wanna do is to hit on her to create sexual tension, make her feel like you desire her, make her feel wanted. Tell her how how she makes you feel, how you can’t take her eyes of her, or how distracting her smile is…. You need to do that so that there is a man to woman vibe between you and her rather than a pal/buddy vibe. Basically express your desire, how she affects you in a sexual way. You need to be daring …
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:02 PM
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The trick is t be talking to other girls in person and going out with them while you wait for this one to reply. That way you are still getting laid while this other chick makes a decision. In other words, fuck other girls, focus on more than one at the same time, and those who just wanna text for now keep them around just in case but make sure every weekend you go out there flirt with a girl in her face invite her out take her home and sleep with her
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:58 PM
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There are guys who would already ask her out and casually have sex with her without the need of being close, or involving feelings and succeed at it. Then there are guys who more often than not would wait and get friendzoned by the time they make a move. Your choice
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:07 AM
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It doesn’t matter if the argument was small and face to face… You keep repeating that as if that makes it less of a deal or something. Based on all this things you wrote here, she did very well to block you because not only are you creepy as fuck, but even when you are told that you are being creepy you don’t seem to understand it, you seem to be unable to do wake up and see things as they are, and that makes you so dangerous. If my daughter had a guy like you pestering her after she blocked him…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:28 AM
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What a girl said in the past, she only meant it in the past. It’s over mate. You are literally being told by her that you make her uncomfortable to the point she blocked you. Like she literally blocked you before you manage to even kiss her or have sex with her. Talk about being clear. But nope, apparently her blocking you and telling you that you are making her feel uncomfortable you interpret that as “she just wants me to back off and try again in a few weeks” If you keep harassing her she wil…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:05 AM
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Lol. You cannot get back someone you never had. Women don’t often give second chances but when they do it’s only to guys they already had something with because they still love him. But if you haven’t even had sex with her, you can simply forget about it. This girl has disqualified you. Game is over.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:17 PM
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Well, your mistake was arguing about texting or anything in generals Like you don’t even have anything serious with her and you are already arguing? That tends to creep out women a lot. You should never argue with women who aren’t even your girlfriends. Heck sometimes even if you have a girlfriend it’s probably better if you don’t argue. specially if you were arguing about how she didn’t reply sooner or left you on read or shit like that. That’s just a huge red flag like a biiiiig red flag becau…
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:13 PM
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Lmfao. stop it with the mystery tricks. You don’t need all that fancy facade to get laid with girls. Stop trying so hard to stand out it just makes you look petty. If there is one thing you shouldn’t copy from mystery is this idea that you have to be a clown to get laid. Literally mystery is the only person i have seen trying to be a clown to get laid everyone else just dresses normal but good looking outfits and can get laid easily
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:05 PM
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it was all 5-6 hour responses by her for around a day, and then i was like, "I see this is going nowhere, at least we talked a bit hahah". She was like "That seems fair" and thats it. Dude, never announce that’s what you are observing. Never describe her negative behavior because rather than enticing her to change her behaviour, you just reinforce her behaviour by doing that. It comes across as butthurt and it has the opposite effect of what you seek. Now i dont know what to do, is she into me, …
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:59 PM
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No, it means chemistry. When two people like each other everything feels smooth, fluid, you get each other’s jokes, you laugh at everything the other person says, you finish each other’s sentences, you just wanna be with that person. No need to talk about astrology.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:17 PM
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Things aren’t black and white. The solution might be to create more solid connections when you first meet them and escalate when it feels more genuine and for good reasons (qualification process)
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:03 PM
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No a fuckboy can text too. Fuckboy doesn’t mean he doesn’t text it means that he just wants sex and only plans on using her as much as possible.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:00 PM
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No, it’s not low value. But it can make you seem like you are a player or a fuckboy which isn’t good even if it’s not low value.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:51 PM
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K don’t care peace
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:42 PM
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If they leave you on read something about you isn’t clicking for them, maybe you escalate things to soon, or maybe they feel you are a fuckboy who does this with every girl, or maybe your texts are boring as fuck, or maybe they only wanted to have fun for the night or maybe they were too drunk to remember or maybe they regret having something with you, or maybe all of those things combined. Question is absurd because how is anybody gonna tell you what exactly it could be if we don’t know you, or…
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:34 PM
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If they leave you on read something about you isn’t clicking for them, maybe you escalate things to soon, or maybe they feel you are a fuckboy, or maybe your texts are boring as fuck, or maybe all of those things combined.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:31 PM
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Ok, let’s go with that then. Just because you have fucked them and they don’t reply to you, doesn’t mean that’s the same thing they experience all the other guys on LA.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:29 PM
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I’m not arguing what he does for him, i’m simply explaining why it’s not talked about which is what he was wondering and the reason is because for most people it doesn’t change much about their confidence. But anyway, not gonna bother replying any more to this pointless thread. Peace
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:28 PM
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Getting closer leads to the friendzone. Being close friends is not what you want here. What you want is to hit on her and make her feel desired and you need to be explicit about it. Meaning you need to express how fine you think she is in her face, look at her body up and down in front of her she needs to see that you are deliberately being sexual to make her feel sexual tension. And once things are heated go for a kiss. you don’t try become her close friend and you should not confess feelings o…
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:27 PM
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I read it and i stand by what i said
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:15 PM
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lol, just because they all leave you on read doesn’t mean they leave every other guy on read. Speak for yourself mate. There is millions of guys in LA. You don’t know enough of them to claim everyone gets left on read. And no, it’s not unacceptable if a girl leaves you on read because she owes nothing to a stranger not even courtesy. If she gives it fine, but it still doesn’t mean you are entitled to it. And if you don’t tolerate it nobody cares. Just move on. Women will reply to guys they are a…
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:13 PM
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Because it doesn’t bring that much confidence where it’s needed. If you are insecure about your other flaws, dancing well won’t change things about your own confidence or about your other flaws.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:56 PM
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Because you don’t need to dance well to get laid. That’s why it’s not talked about. It’s fine if you like it but completely unnecessary for seduction purposes.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:41 PM
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Women are always focusing on disqualifying the wrong guys, rather than choosing the correct one, because they hate choosing wrong. That’s why it’s over because she has no reason to give you another chance now considering you already showed your beta side, and that she has many other options. Women are low risk investors, as soon as a stock seems to go down in price, they sell the stock and switch to the next one. Same thing with guys. As soon as they notice any little mistake (or like in your ca…
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:44 PM
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You flirt back and invite the girl out. If you don’t take the opportunity now you will regret it when you look back in a few years.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:26 PM
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You don’t understand girls if you think apologising over nothing means she gives you a second chance. Apologising is done, not because you expect to get another opportunity, but because you truly regret doing something which was objectively immoral. Have you even done anything that is considered immoral here? Not really. So why would you apologise then? Because you hope it would get her to give you another chance to attract her, but that isn’t how dating and attraction works, i’m afraid. Another…
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:22 PM
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Forget about getting the number and focus more time on building a solid connection like 5-10 minute conversations at the very least, then try to aim for an instant date right there on the spot rather than ending the conversation. Make sure that 80% of the things you say are statements and only 20% are questions… Say humorous things, roast her, mess with her, provoke her, share funny anecdotes, joke around,… etc Focus on getting her to laugh out loud with you, and in making her feel positive but …
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:20 PM
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Because you did it wrong. Yeah, you can go from a casual friendship into romance or sex. But they did it different than you. You went full platonic mode, you then made the mistake of confessing you have feelings for her without kissing or having sex first. Can’t you read what i have been saying? You need to hookup with her first or kiss at the very least as “friends”, without feelings and without commitments. Your problem is this idea that you first have to get into a relationship to have sex or…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:35 PM
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It’s late because once the girl gets used to the idea of you being a close platonic friend, it feels super weird to start flirting sexually. It feels forced, and not natural. And it’s also hard to create sexual tension because the mystery is gone due to the fact that you already revealed your feelings. Sexual tension happens when there is mystery about how one feels, and yet that person flirts sexually. With you having revealed your feelings that ingredient is missing, so it all comes across as …
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:04 PM
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Yes. Because it’s all about creating sexual tension, making out, hooking up and being fun. That’s what the other 30 guys did. Just hitting on her, making her feel desired, turning her on, getting things heated, and escalating things by making out. The serious stuff like feelings and love, boyfriend girlfriend labels, commitments, and vulnerability, comes after. If you want girls to fall for you, first you need to make out and sleep with them casually for fun, and without any commitment expectati…
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:57 PM
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Even if you grew to like her you still shouldn’t confess. You should have just treated her like i mentioned above focus on casual sex casual kisses for fun without feelings and then she will start to catch feelings and want a relationship with you. I don’t think you need to approach this girl moving forward. She made herself clear she only wants friendship. Now you don’t need any more guidelines with this girl.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:42 PM
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Flirting is basically being shamelessly direct about your desire for her after you have been connecting in person for a few hours. It’s basically expressing your sexual desire for her as a woman… It’s when you stop treating her as just your “gym pal” or “buddy” and instead you start telling her things like: “you think she is fine”, that “you would invite her over to watch a movie, but not watch the movie” that “she looking like a snack” that “you are trying to concentrate in what she is telling …
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:17 PM
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You fucked up. Next time don’t try to be friends with girls you want to make out with or hookup with and just hit on them, make them feel desired sexually when you are alone with them, amd make your move to kiss her. Never again say your feelings to a girl you haven’t had sex with first for like a month at least. Never confess. Never ask her to be your girlfriend if you haven’t fucked.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:08 PM
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Social skills include, being humorous, playful, outgoing, suggestive, insinuating, getting into personal territory, always being positive, genuine, flirtatious, showing and expressing your desire, etc Not just talking about the whether or about covid or the gym, but instead actually talking about things that relate to your experiences, feelings, dreams, desires, etc… and escalating physically.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:05 PM
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Not particularly. You get friendzoned only if you never switch into being flirtatious. The indirect method is fine specially in gyms, and it’s how most people anywhere get into relationships, starting thing sin an indirect way and when the vibe is right switching into sexual flirting and hitting on them.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:56 PM
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Girls are even less receptive in night clubs unless you are a chad with huge muscles and 6.3 feet tall, and no one seems to complain about that. Women who say that they don’t like being cold approach just say it because the guy who did it approached them didn’t have a clue on how to do it right. If you know how to do it right then all women will say they love what you are doing and wish others guys had the balls. Like i said it depends on the person doing it and his skills.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:52 PM
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You get a second date by making sure the first date you build sexual tension with the girl, and at the very least kiss. If there is no kiss, or she doesn’t see you trying to go for a kiss, your chances for a second date reduce dramatically.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:49 PM
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If you want to get girls excited to go out with you, first you have to be talking and flirting for a while through texts. Not straight up asking them out. You need to build up to it, not go from zero to 100 that quick. Her excitement level is zero and seeing your invitation without connecting first is usually always gonna be ignored.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:47 PM
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You don’t. That’s not even how you start a relationship. You don’t start a relationship by confessing your feelings to a girl that you haven’t even make out with first or hookup for fun first in a casual way. Focus on hooking up with her without feelings in a casual way for a while first and then she will catch feelings too and will ask you what are we, that’s when you can tell her your feelings and start a relationship. Sex and kisses first, confessing feelings later. That’s the correct order
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:45 PM
1

Gym is more of a social circle environment. You see the same people every day. You don’t need to have a social circle to meet people in gyms. I have met plenty of people there without having any circle. Are you saying you would approach someone at the gym the same way you would approach them at the mall? Yes, you can casually start talking about needing help with some weights or some bar, and then take it from there. Or maybe join any of the group classes where they do yoga or dance zumba or do …
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:41 PM
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Dude, if you wanna make out with a girl don’t tell her your feelings, that’s not even what any of those 30 guys did. Those guys just hit on her, flirted sexually with her, and escalated things physically while they were alone together. They didn’t say “oh i really like you” or “i love you” or “can we be more than friends” They did not confess how they’re felt, because they just wanted to make out and have fun with her possibly hookup. You don’t confess feelings, if you wanna have casual sex with…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:35 PM
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Cold approaching anywhere, gyms by being indirect talking about exercises or asking for help and then switching to personal stuff, parks, beaches, public squares if people are sitting down, streets, malls, libraries casually talking about a book then switching to personal stuff, shops, college campus with adult students that are out there, lounge areas in airports when everyone is waiting for their flights, inside the planes with the people next to you,… etc People do approach anywhere as long a…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:31 PM
4

I have been told that going out and looking for something like this to happen is a bad strategy and it's best to wait and let those moments/opportunities come to you but idk I've been trying that strategy for over a decade with absolutely no luck. Lol, who the hell told you that? That strategy can work if you are a woman, but not if you are a man. Man have to approach and go for who they want, not just sit there waiting for nothing to happen. So how do most people meet woman? Cold approaching an…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:29 PM
2

Dude, you are a female friend to them or worst a gay best friend. Don’t go out with them on girls night if you don’t wanna be treated like their best gay friend.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:34 AM
1

Confident meaning talk and sound sure of what you are saying and doing while talking to girls. Don’t stutter. Don’t hesitate to make a move or when you want to say a joke. Don’t act defensive if a girl seems to judge you badly on something you said. Don’t try to justify yourself. Own your current situation when talking to her, own who you are, own your tastes, own what you currently look like no matter if you have visible flaws, own what you said and don’t back track on what you said just becaus…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:30 AM
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You need to have a conversation that flows smoothly not a conversation that feels like you are writing a script that you memorise. The girl can easily tell when you are just saying things that you copied from the internet and it’s not appreciated in the end
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:25 AM
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No, i did not say anything. I simply said that it’s a pointless debate
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:15 PM
2

What she means is that she is not interested so there is no point in rescheduling. She literally said “i’m not in a good head space” that’s just what a girl says to politely turn you down. It has nothing to do with Wednesday being bad for her schedule.
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:17 PM
1

No, i’m unsure.
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:15 PM
3

You didn’t do anything wrong she just isn’t interested. You need to accept that not everyone has to be interested romantically in you. Some people just want to keep things profesional.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:36 PM
1

It is not even a competition, but if you want to see it that way, i guess you are free to waste your time
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:21 PM
1

Leaders take the initiative, and leaders are natural protectors and resourceful guys. The traits of a leader attract women.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:20 PM
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You are still a virgin, you just think you are not.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:18 PM
5

You and all the people who keep posting the same question over and over this past few days are so stupid. Jesus. Pills, condoms, travelling to other state to get an abortion, i could keep going… You still will still be a virgin though. Peace.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:02 PM
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Dude, no girl will think: “oh my god a Friday??? he for sure doesn’t have a life” Just because you choose one Friday doesn’t mean someone can immediately come to the conclusion that you never have anything else to do in any of the other Fridays throughout the entire year… Jesus christ.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:18 AM
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You are wasting your time. If you want to improve your seduction skills you need to do it with girls in person, not over texts. That means that you have to be talking to other girls face to face. Texting isn’t a good tool for seduction in fact it’s really bad. Texting does more damage than good in the long term. Communication isn’t just about words, it’s about the vibe which needs to be felt in person, the spontaneity which needs to be felt in person,etc… Texting is not a tool to create attracti…
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:13 AM
2

You don’t need friends to get laid.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:05 AM
1

Said the guy who can’t fish
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:50 PM
1

The problem is when you talk to them or approach them as if you are expecting to be rejected, as if you expect a bad reaction. This makes you act defensive, and kills your charm. you should be acting playful, be energetic, loud, and outgoing no matter how much the girl is frowning. What you feel they feel. If you feel like you are bothering them, then you will act in a way that will bother them. If you feel you are making their day and you behave extrovert with them, you will act far more fun an…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:50 PM
2

Just joke (be humorous or sarcastic) to deflect the question, and don’t use texting other than to set up dates. Don’t be so logical with her, don’t try to be rational with her. Based on what you are writing here it sounds like you are not being playful enough and are instead being too serious with her.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:35 PM
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You can just say: “I like your eyes, they make me feel relaxed, what’s your name” “cool I’m James, do you live around here, or are you a tourist?”… And then proceed to take an interest in her career her holiday plans, her studies, hobbies etc
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:31 PM
1

You take it seriously because you don’t realise that this is all a facade and a game. Those things the girls do aren’t personal for her they are just a way to get rid of losers who don’t feel confident in themselves. If you feel bad then they did their job to weed you out. But it’s a choice to feel bad. You can just go with the mentality of “i know you are, but what am i?” to not take it personal, and once you pass that test, it will be easy. It’s just a test to get rid of losers who take themse…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:29 PM
2

No, not even a small flaw. Wait to discuss flaws until you have slept together first. And yes kissing is always a move you should make in every date. But if you start telling her flaws no matter how little, you are actually shooting yourself in the foot. Because women are always looking for potential red flags and flaws because they hate choosing the wrong guy. If you talk about your flaws you are pretty much shooting your self in the foot because you give her exactly what she was looking for to…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:26 PM
2

As long as you don’t present like a victim, or vulnerable or like a pathetic guy who has suffered a lot then it’s fine. But if you start talking about your flaws, your bad experiences or that you don’t understand girls, etc… then you will only cause her to feel you are a loser even if she seems to understand and will treat you as a friend. You cannot be vulnerable if you haven’t at the very least slept with her first
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:19 PM
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You might wanna try to be more indirect in mall approaches, and if the vibe is good then switch in the middle of the conversation to being more direct. That will get you more under the radar and this won’t happen again.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:30 PM
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“I’m going to x place to do (fun activity) this Friday at 19:00. Join me, it will be fun” Don’t ask her if she would like to go because that shows insecurity. Just invite her to join.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:05 PM
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Sorry but your photos are all really bad, and the 4th one your friend looks hotter, which isn’t good for you. If the friend is hotter than you that’s an immediate pass. I suggest you hire a photographer who takes photos of you outside doing activities but with well taken photographs and not this low quality mobile phone photos that are just so bad and so low quality.
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:59 PM
1

Not taking it personal, thanking the girl for helping you to put your ego down and allowing you to be more humble, and then flirting again with her one last time before you leave. Example: “Thank you for killing my ego, it helps me to be more humble, but just so you know, girls who help me to be more humble i find them even more sexy, if you change your mind, let me know, see yah” Saying something like this after getting rejected makes you stand out as girls do not expect you to thank them for i…
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:19 PM
1

That’s wrong advice. The friends first route to a relationship might look good in theory and in movies. In real life it’s one of the worst things you can do to try to get in a relationship with a girl. Because being friends first means you are killing the sexual tension and the man-to-woman vibe, which makes things feel platonic as fuck and makes the girl see you as nothing more than her brother, or as an asexual guy, or as her gay best friend. That’s not how you get in a relationship with someo…
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:59 PM
1

You put yourself in the friendzone and then are surprise to find out she didn’t like you as nothing more than a friend? Don’t become best friends with women you would want to eventually date. Don’t become close friends with women even if you don’t like them at the beggining. Focus on being friends with guys, and if you want to be close to a girl make sure it’s someone you are attracted to from the beggining and avoid becoming her friends first and instead just hit on her and flirt and go on date…
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:41 PM
1

Because she has no interest in taking the conversation further, so she decided to acknowledge your message rather than simply ghosting you which could be rude way to end it
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:09 PM
2

Talking one and a half month over text is dumb and a waste of time, talking needs to happen in person and you need to kiss her rather quickly not after a month has passed. If you want girls meet them in real life not over the internet. Online dating is less effective than meeting girls face to face from the start. If you meet girls through online apps then most will flake even if you talk for a whole year you need to cold approach
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:52 PM
1

You can be nice but not a doormat or a simp or being that guy who tires to impress women or tries to prove he would be a good boyfriend to convince her to have something, and you just need to flirt sexually with the girl to create sexual tension and kiss her.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:49 PM
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You don’t ask a woman if something is gonna happen, you make it happen by playing with her hands, flirting sexually and going for a kiss, then inviting her over to your place for some netflix, then continuing to kiss her then talking her clothes off and doing it. You don’t ask if she wants to kiss or have sex you just make it happen by making your moves
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:48 PM
1

Unfortunately to get someone to love you first you have to love yourself and you clearly don’t. So, you are in a vicious cycle. The only way to get out of that cycle is to love yourself first without the need of girls.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:41 PM
1

You ask her way too many questions like “would you want this or x or y…” Kind of a turn off as it comes across as quite needy.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:39 PM
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That tends to stop when you stop having one minute conversations with them in your cold approaches and actually take some decent time to get to know them first.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:31 PM
0

You can learn by reading books on seduction, and by practicing in person. You need to be interested in who they are as a person, tease them, flirt with them, joke around, etc…
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:30 PM
2

Girls pay attention to whether you feel comfortable in your own skin, whether you let ego drive your behaviour or can be humble, and whether you can make them feel sexual tension and chemistry. Looks can help but there are plenty of good looking guys who get turned down frequently because they suck at social skills and all of the other things i mentioned before
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:27 PM
0

You should take the initiative and approach them yourself. If you want a girl you need to be the one starting the conversation more often than not.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:25 PM
4

Usually yes, but it still doesn’t mean that they are 100% committing to it even if they agree to go to your place. They can still say no at the last second if they don’t feel good about it last minute.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:24 PM
1

The thing is this way they filter out way more guys than the ones who want sex. That’s their problem, and women got plenty of options anyways. I know they're not asking me to commit right away but they want to see if there is the intention from my side for commitment which of course there isn't before there is. Which means they will filter you out If to date you want intentions for commitment even before we have met you're asking for too much. Maybe it’s asking for too much, but again that is th…
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:22 PM
5

This girl is sending subliminal hints about wanting me but ignores my shit when I write her up on ig etc. If she ignores you that’s what truly matters, nothing more. Should I go about it like this? Hi I know we barely know each other and your ignoring me btw I don’t double text anyone ever, I just really want to meet you irl I think your really pretty and I wanna get the chance and give you the chance to actually get to know me” Lmfao. That’s so cringe mate. Let’s break it down: “I know you are …
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:57 AM
2

instagram, new reddit post, google drive, imgbb
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:56 AM
1

Well, post a picture somewhere for us to see, and we will let you know if it’s your looks or not
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:25 AM
4

People had those things both when abortion was banned and after abortion was legal. You claim that you have heard women say they will never have casuals ex but thats something they already said anyways when abortion was legal, and it’s no different than the people who say “if Trump/Biden/Clinton/Obama wins, i’m moving to Canada” and then they stay in US anyways. Those who had sex will continue to have sex, the virgins will continue to be virgins. People are emotional creatures who hormones and e…
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:45 PM
3

It means that she is not interested and this is her passive way of hinting it. Pretty common amongst women. Women don’t usually say it directly that they are not interested even if you straight tell them “if you are not interested just say it” they still won’t likely say they are not. What they do is just tell you “i’m interested, but then keep postponing it or ignoring you”. Basically her words say one thing, and her actions say the opposite. When that happens, what matters are her actions.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:35 PM
1

Yes women in general don’t give a second chance. A date is only good if you two kiss at the very least. To escalate you need to express your sexual desire for her, you need to express that you find her sexy, attractive, act like a hungry boy who is looking at food with her or like a hungry lion who watches deer. You need to use sexual gestures like looking her up and down, while you lick your lip in a suggestive way, you need to say you find her sexy,… You need to escalate things with the hands,…
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:29 PM
3

Whenever a girl says “Sorry didn’t text you back, I know i’m a dick” or anything similar to that. She is pretty much hinting that she isn’t interested. when a girl is truly interested in you she would not want you to think at all that she is disrespectful or a dick or a bad person at all. Also when a girl says “i will let you know if i can make it for thursday” that’s also a sign that she isn’t interested. If it’s not a “Fuck yes” 90% of the time it’s a polite rejection.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:24 PM
3

It’s a way to filter out guys who just want sex. That doesn’t mean they are asking you to commit right away, it just means that if you expect sex on the first dates and forget, you can forget about it, because they won’t sleep with you until they genuinely feel things are real. That’s pretty much 90% of women everywhere in the world. It’s very rare for girls to say “i just want casual sex” with a guy they haven’t met yet. if you don’t like it, hire prostitutes. But women will ultimately always l…
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:49 PM
1

“Because you like how cool her style and her outfit was, so you wanted to meet her” Basically just give her a reason and that’s it.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:42 PM
1

Yeah that’s what i meant you were friendzoned, and she was not into you
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:41 PM
1

It seems like a typical friendzone situation, she doesn’t sound like she is attracted based on what you have said. The date you had was horrible and dull and nothing happened. You tried to hug her and she didn’t want to. You over analyse when her boob or her leg touched you, but that doesn’t really mean anything if it’s accidental, that happens a lot without any sexual or romantic connotations because it’s just skin. Helping her with the books isn’t nothing but a good gesture, which is why she s…
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:24 PM
6

Dude, it’s tinder and you talked with her for 2 days. You are not the only guy she talks to or the only one she can like there. You got attached due to lack of options, she has more options so she doesn’t get attached so easily and can quickly move on. You are overanalysing too much when she probably isn’t even giving it much thought considering you are just an stranger that she is being talking for 2 days.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:35 PM
2

If you do approaches just to get a number most of them will flake. Guys needs to get rid of this “i need to get her number” mentality and focus instead on the connection and the attraction in person. You should approach without thinking about her number, like it shouldn’t even be a goal. Your goal should switch to going on instant dates and same day lays. You don’t need instagram, and you don’t need their contact details at all.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:22 PM
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You hookup with many girls by approaching as many girls as possible in campus, and hitting on them, getting to know them, building comfort, enticing them to talk about themselves positively, creating sexual tension by flirting sexually with them, and escalating things physically. This requires you to be bold, daring, confident, sure of yourself, high energy, positive, playful, fun.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:00 PM
1

That happens more often when you barely have a 1 minute conversation with the girl. Spend 10 mins talking with her and you will have more time to get to know each other, build trust, comfort and attraction and as a a result most women won’t mind as much to give you their number. But if all you are saying is: “Hey i think you are cute what’s your name, oh Helen. cool my name is ron, (2 more questions) and i thought you look pretty, can i get your number” And if your conversations barely lasts a m…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:41 PM
3

Just be playful like a kid: Her: “You think you are funny, don’t you?” You: (Stick out your tongue to her)
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:37 PM
6

Sexual escalations happen in person, face to face not over the phone. Don’t try to seal the sexual deal over text, and do not try to bring sexual topics through the phone if you haven’t slept together first.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:36 PM
5

Women don’t pay attention to what you have or your situation, what they pay attention is how you feel about what you have or your situation. If you feel embarrassed they will notice and will test you on that. The problem is that then you jumó to the conclusion that you were right abo it feeling embarrassed, but that’s a wrong conclusion. The right conclusion is that girls notice your feelings, and if they sense you don’t like yourself or that you don’t accept yourself or your situation, that tur…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:33 PM
0

A date is never a great date if you two haven’t even kissed. A date without a kiss is just a friendly hang out no different than hanging out with your sister. Having laughs, lots of talking, touching and eye contact means nothing if you don’t hit on her and do not make an attempt to kiss her.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:21 PM
1

If you are afraid of coming across as creepy, and causing offence then i’m afraid you won’t be successful. That’s because you will be overthinking and trying to walk on eggshells, which is something that kills your natural charisma, your authenticity, and causes you to seek women’s approval which turns them off. Your lack of experience will mean that you will fuck up a lot of times, and that’s something you should accept that it’s gonna happen. You need to fuck up a lot of times in order to get …
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:18 PM
1

Plenty of states to get abortion. People will still have sex. You just keep overthinking. Just get out there and star meeting girls. No point continuing this thread
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:02 AM
5

You are overthinking too much. Nothing will change much. People already had casual sex before the roe v wade thing
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:57 AM
1

No. Plenty of ways to avoid getting pregnant.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:07 AM
1

We’ll get ready to handle it better because this will happen very often. a you are young and think it’s the end of the world but eventually you will just treat it like another day at the office and you will not take it so personal, and won’t let it affect you so much. Also, one thing you need to learn is that you should never confess your feelings if you want to have a girlfriend. That’s not how you do it. First you need to hit on the girls, and sleep with them without feelings involved and then…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:45 PM
1

You talk about anything as long as you are humorous, can get them to laugh with your sense of humour, act playful, tease them, mess with them, joke around, imitate them, be sarcastic, be provocative… Just don’t bring logic into the conversation, don’t be objective, don’t try to rationalise things… Just get them to feel emotions, play with them, be fun, have fun with them. Get them to talk about themselves 8! a positive way, and flirt, let them know yo like you like them for their personality, hi…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:41 PM
1

Main problem i see is you left it for the last day. That’s usually always late, you had many days to make a move. You also shouldn’t ask girls “what do you think was gonna happen”. Girls like things to happen spontaneously, they don’t like it when the guy has planned for it before it happens.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:15 PM
2

You shouldn’t ask for her type. Her type is irrelevant, unless you choose to make it relevant. It’s like you are asking her to for extra obstacles on purpose which is dumb. Just say: “Good to know i’m the exception”
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:05 PM
2

You shouldn’t ask if they want to go out, you should just invite them to join you to something exciting you plan on doing with or without her. Women don’t like questions.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:02 PM
1

Yes. Most guys confuse signs of interest for friendly and polite behaviour.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:18 PM
1

Since it’s pretty much over, then need to move on and meet new girls
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:17 PM
1

Very bad yes
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:15 PM
3

yeah very bad
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:08 PM
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Your friends are just cowards. They are afraid of rejection that’s why they come up with all of those bullshit excuses. “It’s weird to talk to them” “not feeling it” “i don’t like any of her friends” blah blah blah… All because they are scared of rejection. Unfortunately, you can’t do much. You just have to approach on your own, because your friends aren’t gonna do it and you will never convince them.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:07 PM
2

Confidence is a trait that only high value men posses. Confidence means you are far more likely to get success in every area of your life. And women like successful men. If you are confident there must be a good reason. And women pick up on that. Your confidence speaks for itself and lack of confidence also speaks for itself in the sense that if you lack it then it must be because your life is full of failure. Ever seen how pathetic someone without confidence sounds? Always down, always playing …
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:29 PM
11

She is pretty… ok but you need to stop putting her in a pedestal, and move on because she is taken. It doesn’t matter how beautiful they are, they all shit, and they all have flaws. Being beautiful doesn’t mean that you have an special right to mess with their relationship, it would be so disrespectful to the boyfriend that she gave you her contact details.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:32 PM
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“I know this is weird because i’m an stranger, but you are really cute” Ok and? You are not saying what you want which means that the girl is just gonna assume that’s all you wanted to say a compliment and keep going. You should have said that ”due to that reason you want to get to know her.” and proceed to introduce yourself and shake hands. But you just left it at the compliment, so she left. She is confused because what you are doing isn’t clear, as you are not making it clear what your inten…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:50 PM
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