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1

It means the other guy got her coochie tingling, but you give off nice guy vibes so she’s beeing slow with you. It means you have as much edge as Mr Rogers
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:51 PM
1

Have u fuckd this woman yet?
/r/seduction13/12/25 04:19 PM
3

If you and a girl are not exclusive, assume you are not the only guy she is sleeping with, which is why u should be doing the same
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:31 PM
9

This. When it comes to dates, always let the woman tell on themselves without judgement. They’ll spill their red flags willingly if you just left them, and from there it makes it easy and simple to just smash and dash and not get invested.
/r/seduction27/05/25 03:47 AM
2

I disagree with the thought process here. Of course the guys who aren’t needy don’t need to think about not being needy, the same way James Bond doesn’t think “this sounds cool so I’ll do it”. But OP isn’t James Bond. Said differently, there’s nothing wrong with emulating behavior of a not needy person right now because OP is a needy person, otherwise he wouldn’t have made this post.
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:35 PM
23

No one is saying you should keep the girl as a serious option. But if you leave the door open, she might walk back in and you can turn her into a fuck buddy. I agree I would not take a girl seriously after curving me, but I have no qualms putting her in the fun zone with casual sex and no strings attached if she spins the block
/r/seduction24/01/25 03:14 PM
12

Kiss on the neck, works every time.
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:43 PM
0

Why don’t u want to have sex?
/r/seduction12/01/25 03:56 PM
1

You guys are young, most young dudes have little sexual experience so you might have to guide him to what’s turning you on. If you want his hands on your body, just move them to where you want them
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:50 AM
2

Dating is obviously full of double standards because men and women are inherently different. The only people who try to pretend this isn't the case are hardcore feminists. You're a man, so be a man and lead which in this case includes paying. I was just joking with my comment earlier but if paying for a first date has you struggling that much, you're not in a place to be dating as a man anyways. So get your money uo my guy. You could always get with a girl who doesn't care about gender roles at …
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:13 PM
2

Always. If you're broke just say that /s
/r/seduction08/01/25 05:06 PM
2

This. OP the girl told you word for word she doesn't want to keep seeing you. Being get friend or pressing her further will just make her more sure of those thoughts. Take the L on the chin and move onto the next one. Happens to all of us
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:08 AM
8

This. Purposefully being gentle is just gonna make you the gay best friend
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:03 AM
1

How long did you go without talking to women?
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:02 AM
-1

Why don't u take them back to your spot where sex can take place?
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:01 AM
6

Nah it was genuinely a random dude lol. The girl wasn't even from here. He just walked up to her, danced together for maybe 20 seconds (mind you she told me she was too tired to dance just before) and then they started making out. It was so bizarre lol
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:34 PM
11

I once was at a club and spent ~15-20 talking to this girl. I tried escalating and getting her to dance but nothing was working. Eventually she's getting up to leave and as she's walking to her friend, some random dude who isn't even good looking walks up to her, doesn't even talk to her and they make out for a bit. It was just so odd to me even looking back at it now lmao I was a bit younger though when it happened so it annoyed the hell out of me, but I wouldn't care these days
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:48 PM
2

The dating apps are purely a numbers game. Just get as many matches as you can by maximinuzinf your profile and then try to get the girls off the apps as fast as you can. Even a mid girl in a big city will get dozens upon dozens of matches and messages, so you need to separate yourself from the app to stand out.
/r/seduction04/01/25 04:29 PM
16

A/B: Was about two weeks ago. Haven’t been as active since I’m with my family for the holidays still, but I usually go about a week between lays since I have a few reliable options to hit up plus a main girl
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:00 AM
22

That’s not a noticeable difference so no big deal
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:11 AM
28

Holy fuck, stop being a smart-ass and use common sense my guy. The point of assuming attraction is so you don’t spend the entire convo second guessing yourself and instead focus on the conversation and escalation.
/r/seduction02/01/25 12:27 AM
30

If it’s a girl I think is just going to be a hookup/fwb/situationship type of scenario, I usually do: 1) First date drinks at a cocktail bar 2) Second date drinks at a different cocktail bar 3) Third date wine + movie at my place 4) From the 4th date and on I just invite them over straight. If it’s a girl I may want to start actually dating, I’ll throw in a few activities after the third date here and there like mini golf, bowling, dinner, comedy shows, museum, etc.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:53 PM
0

What scenario would u need a music playlist for?
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:48 PM
6

Different strokes for different folks I guess, but I don’t think it takes multiple dates to build lots of anticipation
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:03 PM
7

Exactly. Why would I wait when I know other dudes have hit it sooner
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:02 PM
7

What is unethical about getting sex on the first date?
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:55 AM
9

It’s part of the game my friend. One day out of the week for a date here and there won’t kill your social life
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:53 AM
4

Stop texting these girls all day like you’re the gay best friend. Text with the aim to set up a time to hangout. Nothing more nothing less
/r/seduction30/12/24 06:41 AM
2

Okay
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:29 AM
1

Yo you’re the dude who made the wingman post way back right?
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:28 AM
62

You do you, but if I can fuck on the first date I’m always going to lol.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:23 AM
14

Fridays, Saturdays, and early Sundays my guy
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:02 AM
170

I’m of the opinion that you should skip coffee dates and just grab drinks. The logistics are much easier and the vibes/ambiance are far more conducive to first date lays
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:23 AM
2

There’s opportunities but I’d strongly suggest you also download hinge. If I had to guess I’d say ~85% of girls are on there. If you start swiping now, you’ll be able to line up several dates before you even hit American soil.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:56 PM
1

This. The problem with saying “are you free X day” is that if she says “no”, and suggests different days and u agree to them you look too available and like u have nothing going on which is a turnoff. I always ask when the girl is free, so I can pick a day out instead. Girls wanna know u have stuff going on and you’re not just available 100% of the time.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:54 PM
3

Few mistakes. 1) unless you are a single father, why are you pursuing a single mother? 2) you’re texting way too much. Text should primarily be used to set up a date. Sure, a few flirty texts here and there in between is fine, but your goal is to date this woman not become her pen pal. Once you got her number or even her Snapchat, you should’ve quickly pivoted to setting up the date. 3) you’ve already fucked up now, but assuming she’s still texting you I’d pivot to asking her on a date now. To a…
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:35 PM
2

This. If you want easy macking then La Caverna, wiggle room, DL, hair of the dog, etc. literally any spot in the LES should be easy
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:28 PM
1

The actual words don’t matter all that much, it’s your tonality, body language, confidence, and whether she finds you attractive or not. I’ve said so many different stupid things that ended up working for me in the past. Hell depending on the setting/venue you sometimes don’t need to say anything at all
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:27 PM
2

You’re only 19, you’ve got plenty of time. My advice to you would be to get in the gym immediately and be consistent, work on your hygiene, get your clothes/style down, and then interact with as many women as possible. Go to parties, go to clubs, socialize in friend groups etc. The more u hang and get comfortable speaking to women the less you’ll pedestalize them
/r/seduction29/12/24 03:01 PM
2

I don’t think saying there’s nothing to do around here is closing the conversation. Lots of things u could do with that, could easily pivoted to something of the effect of “let’s find out/explore together” or something like that. Sounds like a skill issue
/r/seduction29/12/24 02:58 PM
1

Just fuck the girl and move on my guy. What’s the issue here?
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:16 AM
1

The moment you confessed your love to her it was over. Onto the next one my guy
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:14 AM
4

It depends a lot on how they say no. If they say no and don’t give a valid reason like they’re out of town that weekend, or offer an alternative I just move on and assume they’re not that interested. If they do give a reason and/or still indicate interest I’ll keep asking every week or so until they say no, but I’ll move them to the backburner. I’m usually on the apps so I can pretty consistently get one or two dates every weekend. So if a girl flakes on a weekend, I’ll just try the next weekend…
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:09 AM
1

I always ask them when they’re free first so I can avoid this issue. Usually once we’ve determined we’re down to get drinks this is how it goes. Here are a few actual examples from my phone I like this approach because it avoids the problem with having to look too available since instead of providing my availability I just ask for hers. Her: said something sucked at work Me: “But anyways, I feel bad so I’ll make your weekend better by taking u to grab drinks at a nice spot. When are u free” Her:…
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:50 AM
1

Why are you driving two hours for a date my guy? Do you live in the Sahara?
/r/seduction22/12/24 04:24 PM
1

Good lord get to the point my guy
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:43 PM
1

This is such an odd approach…approaching a woman and not closing/getting friend zoned isn’t a success my guy
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:55 PM
-1

I brought this one girl home the night or two after one of my FWBs came over. Earlier in the night the girl asked me if I was a fuck boy because I’m Haitian. I told her “of course not, we’re good guys” or something like that. Well, we get back to my spot, kiss very lightly and then I tell her to spit out my gum, she goes to spit out her gum, I follow her as well. The first thing I see when I bend over to spit it in the trash is last nights condom….her mood changed immediately after Second fumble…
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:53 PM
4

No, this tells me everything we need to know about why the girls are leaving you. Girls would gladly fuck a guy with no promise or hint of a long-term relationship if they’re genuinely aroused. You’re just not that arousing to them right now so you’re compensating by offering them security/commitment
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:02 PM
2

What was wrong about what he said?
/r/seduction26/08/24 11:36 PM
4

Yeah, the eye contact, the smirk, the tone, the energy etc. is what really matters. I've had dates where we never once brought up anything remotely sexual or flirty and still closed
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:52 AM
0

It means you give off nice guy/friend zone vibes. You have as much edge as mr. Rogers
/r/seduction19/08/24 03:04 AM
2

Then fix that first. Think about it, if you were an attractive woman with endless options would you want to be with a guy with no self control and with mood swings or the guy who has his shit together and has discipline which shows in a respectable physique? The weight is a symptom of a bigger issue. Sure it may be tough, but nothing in life is easy. You’re trying to skip the fundamentals and get to the prize without having put in any of the work to be attractive. Get in the gym, and change your…
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:25 AM
3

Agreed. No reason to not try. Worst case she doesn’t do sex on the first date so she says no and u try again later. Best case you have a great night of sex and determine if there’s sexual compatibility
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:23 PM
3

Bro y'all aren't actually coworkers. Just go ahead the fuck
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:28 PM
0

Fellas, when y'all think the competition is tough, read posts like these. We've got a girl practically begging to be fucked and this dude knowingly ignores her. OP, this is embarrassing. Please be a man and grow some balls
/r/seduction19/07/24 12:52 PM
1

Okay
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:49 PM
1

I never said it was over, I said I'd avoid dating apps. The reason being because girls in there filter by height so you'd be better off in person where your personality can shine
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:41 PM
4

If you're just going to keep your head down, get off my thread bro. This isn't a place for dudes who've given up on themselves. It's sad that I don't even know u but I probably believe in you more than you do yourself.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:37 PM
29

Depends how attractive you are and what city you live in. I'm in NYC and a decently handsome guy so I get a lot of play off hinge, but if you're ugly or sub 6' I'd avoid because ur personally can't be involved
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:32 PM
62

When girls ask you this, you want to give them an indirect answer. This is some diabolical fuckbky shit, but here's my script every time a girl asks this (and they will ask you this at one point if they're into you): "And like I said earlier I just [moved to NYC a few months ago], so I’m not necessarily trying to rush into anything or get down on a knee and propose right away. (Make sure to say this part with a smile so it comes off lighthearted if you guys are talking in person) My goal's been …
/r/seduction05/07/24 02:16 AM
-2

Introvert isn’t synonymous with being a pussy. Grow some balls and approach a woman instead of fearing rejection
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:51 PM
2

Agreed. When I'm out at the club, it's the first way for me to tell if a set is gonna work or not
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:46 PM
10

This dude is really crying because a girl didn’t text him for five hours. Jesus Christ OP do y’all even read any of the other posts or the sidebar?
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:52 AM
0

Lol this is comical. For one, dude hasn’t even closed this woman and is passing off advice. For two, dude still led by choosing the date location once she suggested. This whole post is just a weak humblebrag
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:32 AM
3

What did she say that was wrong? While I generally agree with your sentiment, she wasnt off in this case
/r/seduction20/04/24 06:21 PM
0

You’re either not smooth enough with your escalation, your kissing/whatever foreplay youre doing is shit, or you come off as too much of a nice guy and that’s how she sees you so she’s making you play the boyfriend/long game. L either way
/r/seduction15/03/24 02:05 AM
4

It means you give off friend zone vibes. You have as much edge as mr. Rogers
/r/seduction06/03/24 06:38 PM
3

Within a week? Hell I’d bet my first son she could have a dude over by that night
/r/seduction01/03/24 12:22 AM
2

Ehh I agree with most of it except the 1 hr date limit thing. Some girls take a bit longer to open than others, so that extra ~30 minutes can go a long way
/r/seduction01/02/24 11:20 PM
1

Disagree again. A well told story won’t be interpreted wrong and isn’t hard to follow
/r/seduction29/01/24 04:44 PM
33

I agree with most of it besides the stories. If you’re a good storyteller it makes for great conversation and displays high value
/r/seduction29/01/24 05:53 AM
2

There's a difference between being able to get a girlfriend and being able to get layed regularly. All getting a girl requires is one girl to find you and for you to be in close proximity. That's not that hard, it's why you see tons of mediocre dudes with attractive girls in college or HS. Getting layed regularly tho is a skill that takes either natural abity or some understanding of the stuff we usually talk about on here
/r/seduction01/09/23 12:24 AM
7

Men envy him, and women wanna fuck him. Simple as that.
/r/seduction31/05/23 10:35 PM
10

Worthless advice full of useless buzzwords. If guys want more matches, 90% just need to spend more effort on taking better pictures.
/r/seduction31/05/23 07:10 PM
1

I do, but there are exceptions to every rule. Obviously teens aren’t expected to have their own place, so it doesn’t apply to them. That exception doesn’t apply to OP though, which is why it’s not relevant.
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:57 AM
1

That’s a different scenario that doesn’t apply to OP
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:42 AM
51

If you don’t have a place you can bring girls back to, you have much more to be focused on than getting layed my guy
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:38 PM
1

You need more experience. Women aren’t saints my guy.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:54 PM
1

You need more experience. Women aren’t saints my guy
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:54 PM
2

Said it better than I could’ve said myself
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:12 AM
1

Meet at the train station, grab tacos at a nearby taco spot, get drinks at a bar that’s pretty close to my apartment, then invite them up to my spot and make my move. 8/9 so far(the only one that I didn’t have sex with on the first date let me hit the next date). It helps that I have excellent logistics due to location EDIT: and if the girl doesn’t drink, I replace the drinks with a very popular desert spot nearby
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:03 AM
2

Psst, not all women have the same type in men ☺️
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:35 PM
1

Dude I have no idea what the fuck you’re even asking at this point. It’s simple, the guy is an incel and it’s evident in his post. You’re making this way more complex than it needs to be
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:53 AM
1

You said the guy we’re referring to is not an Incel, I linked a post of his proving he is one. What aren’t you getting?
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:29 AM
1

On the post that I linked. Should be pretty straight forward lol
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:05 AM
1

Boxing, salsa, bachata, and surfing seem to be the ones that girls take the most interest in when I tell them I do it
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:46 PM
1

That’s not what an incel is
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:41 PM
1

Read the link. That’s not accurate at all
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:47 AM
1

Connecting with people in general is a skill. It’s the same with women. If you’re regularly not able to connect with women your game needs work
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:59 AM
-5

You’re a self-proclaimed incel. No offense, but I dont think anyone should be taking your words seriously
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:09 AM
4

Congratulations, most women aren’t like you. Next
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:07 AM
6

Jesus Christ this sub has gotten pathetic.
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:16 PM
5

If you’re struggling to build chemistry, your game needs work
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:34 PM
1

You came off like a pussy. She tried telling you as directly as she could that she was down to hookup and you didn’t make a move. It’s not a surprise she isn’t being as responsive anymore. There’s a chance she might reach out again depending on how interested she was in the beginning tho
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:22 PM
1

You just need more experience
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:17 PM
4

No. It’s pretty clear what my intentions are when I invite girls to get drinks with me. Calling it a date with words is redundant
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:24 PM
6

You’ve been talking to a girl everyday since September and still haven’t hit? Welcome to the friendzone my guy
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:21 PM
5

True. I think it comes back to how we infantilize woman as a culture in general. Double standards exist, no use arguing them
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:53 AM
1

It’s an age gap. Who cares. She’s not his teacher or his boss, there’s no imbalance of power or any thing of that nature. I don’t see The problem here
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:49 AM
1

How is that a red flag?
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:30 AM
16

He’s a full grown man. Nothing wrong with some older poon
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:07 AM
1

Why would you want to be friend zoned?
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:36 PM
1

I have no idea how many times I’ve been rejected, but I go on a date about 4 times a month, sometimes more, sometimes less depending how free my weekends are. Once or twice with a return customer and the rest new girls
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:57 AM
0

Think about it. This girl was only going to be in the city for one night. If she truly was the kind you’d have to do several dates with to hookup with her, she wouldn’t have gone on that date in the first place because there’d be no time. She wasn’t into you my guy. It’s really not a big deal
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:04 AM
0

You’re getting downvoted, but you’re right. If she was into him, “comfort” wouldn’t have been the issue. She just wasn’t into op. Not a big deal, onto the next one
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:36 AM
17

No, the fact she met up with you means it likely was on the table. She just wasn’t into you man. Not the end of the world
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:33 AM
1

Your post history says otherwise. Two dates isn’t anything to brag about
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:31 PM
1

It’s unjustifiable.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:26 PM
1

If it’s preventing you from making moves with completely unrelated women, you need a therapist
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:19 PM
1

You need to see a therapist
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:14 PM
2

Scared to kiss because legal issues? What? Lmao
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:34 PM
3

Agreed. Easiest way to make your intentions clear and avoid the friendzone. So many guys get stuck with the “you’d make a good friend” because they don’t have the balls to try and actually seal the damn deal
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:44 PM
4

Agreed. There’s not really any need to. Strong eye contact and good conversation is enough
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:12 PM
0

Why the fuck are you taking a girl to the club on a second date?
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:02 PM
1

Whatever you say dude
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:02 AM
2

Well we all see how well that’s going. “Wanting to build something” is just a convenient excuse for being a pussy.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:20 AM
7

Just move on. Don’t think that’s the kinda girl u want regardless
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:02 AM
11

You’re getting way too deep with these girls. It’s a first date, why the fuck are you even considering discussing traumas? Sounds like you’re getting way too attached and clingy. And if I can sense that through Reddit, TRUST ME the girls can sense that. Talk to more girls
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:00 AM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:59 AM
3

I stopped reading after “I wanted to build something with her from the get go and she seemed receproctive.” Just grow some fucking balls man
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:37 PM
5

One more I’ll add is leading her by placing your hand on the small of her back anytime you go through a door, or a crowd or anything like that. It’s subtle but a very masculine gesture. It’s the only form of touch I consciously think about tbh.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:17 AM
110

Are you homeless? Why do you want to sleep at her place?
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:47 PM
23

This. When you have no options, you hold on for dear life
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:54 PM
3

That’s not negging it’s actually a shit test. It’s been done for decades, it’s not really new lol
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:56 PM
1

Lol sure bud. Any big city has thousands of single, available women.
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:29 AM
1

Then what’s the point of this post
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:04 AM
1

There’s millions of available women in the country. Why the hell would you engage in drama over a random broad
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:37 AM
-1

After reading this pathetic post, I can see why she ghosted you.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:33 AM
3

I disagree. In a club type setting, having a full on Convo is probably not possible. Would just ramp up the kino, strong eye contact, then go for it if she's reciprocating
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:24 AM
2

Please point out where in my comment I stated "all men" or anything similar
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:53 AM
2

Not sure how that's relevant. We're not discussing high value men.
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:50 AM
1

Guy should always pay. If you're not in a financial situation where you can shell out twenty bucks, you shouldn't be dating in the first place. You have MUCH more pressing things to be dealing with
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:23 AM
21

Depends what you mean. Usually when girls ask that I just tell them "right now I'm not really looking for anything serious but if i vibe with someone and it leads to that then it is what it is." Then I tell them I'm a go with the flow kind of guy and I don't really plan these things. Not sure if you'd consider this leading them on or not.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:17 AM
18

I agree with a lot of what you said, but I don’t think the supermodel thing is true at all. Guys generally have much lower physical standards than women do. Most dudes would fuck damn near anything(source: data from online dating apps). There’s a reason even fat chicks get dick regularly
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:26 PM
3

First: sit close enough to her where touch is actually possible: Second: start small. Example: ask her about a bracelet, or a tattoo on her arm or wrist and use it as an excuse to hold her wrist or arm or whatever. Example: playfully push her very gently or something when she makes a joke Third: gradually make the touching more and more physical, for example putting your arm around her or something while you’re flirting with her. Four: when the time’s right, make a move. In all honesty, how you …
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:08 AM
2

Simple: Secure condom She comes over Put on the movie, build some rapport and flirt with her while watching Make your move. There’s two ways of going about this. You’re going to have tj do some calibration yourself to gauge where she’s at in terms of how down she is. Don’t let her initiate, you’re a man, LEAD. She’s not going to your house just to watch a movie, I’m assuming she’s a grown woman. She wants COCK 4a. If the convo’s going really well, start making out during the movie. 4b. If you do…
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:52 AM
7

Just don’t bring it up.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:47 AM
5

Not to the same extent. To put it simply, most dudes would fuck a girl just because she has a hot body, even if the face is mid. Most girls wouldn’t do the same.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:41 AM
1

They’ll be more interested in the guy who responds them playing hard to get by not being affected by it and pulling back then the needy guys who tries to overcompensate
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:37 AM
2

How have you dated a girl four times and not even kissed her?
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:22 PM
14

This “woman” is in high school. Don’t take her words seriously
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:34 AM
6

This. I’m significantly happier now when I’m having sex regularly versus a few months ago when I was grinding for my CFA exam
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:03 PM
11

This. Last thing you wanna be is “that guy” at the gym.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:33 AM
3

Are you me? Because we game the same exact way lol. Especially the misinterpretation, easiest way to tease someone
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:32 AM
1

Usually when she’s back at my place
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:33 PM
1

There’s a difference between being an introvert and being a loner. Can an introvert get a gf? Yeah, provided he can socialize and make friends. A loner? Probably not. Most women, Especially attractive women, aren’t attracted to hermits
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:20 AM
2

Because you don't have it. 30$ isn't a lot of money, and if it is to you, then you should be more focused on getting that sorted out than dating
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:38 PM
15

This. If you don't have enough cash to shepp out 25-30 bucks, you probably shouldn't be focused on dating anyways
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:01 PM
0

I wouldn’t have responded in the first place. Move on dude
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:57 PM
41

I have a balcony so I mention I have a sick view and they always know what’s up
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:37 AM
1

You’ll enjoy it if you become good at dancing
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:36 PM
1

Dancing is a skill which can easily be learned
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:34 PM
8

Lol absolute nonsense
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:24 PM
2

I’m also black, and from looking at your profile, you look way too nerdy my guy. No homo, but if you just dropped the glasses, got a fade, hit the gym, and dressed better, you could be cleaning up
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:40 AM
3

What has this sub turned into
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:18 PM
6

Yes, how am I just now realizing that all we should be telling guys is to get friendzoned for years at a time just in hopes to get lucky that the girl pity fucks us. /s The guy you responded to is a clown lol. What the hell happened to this sub
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:50 PM
1

I’m genuinely curious, what took you three months lol? How did the convo progress
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:38 PM
2

You're already starting off on the wrong foot
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:23 PM
2

TO ALL THE GUYS READING THIS. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION. DO NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES REMAIN FRIENDS WITH A GIRL YOU ARE ROMANTICALLY INTERESTED IN IF THE FEELING ISN'T MUTUAL.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:45 PM
2

Good thing I never call unless it's facetime lol
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:14 AM
6

That's never happened before. The most I'll do is say "wow!" "Damn", "yeah he/she is such a xxx" etc. I'm not going to bring up something she's said before lol. Ideally I don't really say anything tangible outside of reassurance
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:02 PM
3

Because, unless it's a problem I'm causing, no point wasting energy thinking about something she doesn't actually want me to fix.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:21 PM
15

Just nod your head. Something I realized is when women have problems they don't want solutions. Actually makes our job easier. All you the gotta do is nod like you're paying attention
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:22 PM
10

This. Plus, if you’re just looking to smash, you really don’t wanna be pumping and dumping multiple girls you’ll be seeing regularly.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:57 PM
11

Agreed. This sub has just gotten horrible since women and nice guys started flooding it. We’ve seriously got clowns out here upvoting a post telling them to not approach
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:56 PM
1

I see no need to debate the things you wrote when you literally need to go to a social skills sub to learn how to interact with people lol.
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:41 PM
2

I see no need to debate the things you wrote when you literally need to go to a social skills sub to learn how to interact with people lol.
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:36 PM
0

I see no need to debate the things you wrote when you literally need to go to a social skills sub to learn how to interact with people lol.
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:28 PM
0

You don’t have social skills if you think I’m the one who’s embarrassed themselves in this interaction lol
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:26 PM
0

You have one post my guy, it took like five seconds to find, what weak ass comeback lol. Go back to the social skills sub, maybe you can learn how to roast better that way
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:22 PM
2

This you? You seem awfully sure for a guy that needs to pick up social skills from that subreddit.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:02 PM
10

That’s very rare though. Especially 1,2, and 3
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:00 PM
2

What do you mean by good relationship?
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:58 AM
2

How old are you, how much do you make, and what’s your career? It’s highly possible they don’t see you as a potential for LTR, but you’re attractive/charismatic enough to be a prolonged fling. Could also be that these girls just aren’t looking for LTR a the moment
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:42 PM
13

Most dudes couldn’t care less about how much their partner makes, so whether or not they make money doesn’t really have any effect
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:05 AM
0

Did you at least smash this girl?
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:25 AM
17

Recreational use only.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:54 PM
2

Agreed. I was wondering the same too. He really had no reason to say that lol
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:00 PM
1

This. Nothing wrong with not wanting to be seen with her, but there is no way you’re gonna completely be able to ignore her at a party she literally invited you to
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:11 PM
3

Sounds like you haven’t been in the streets in a while then because this happens 24/7. Tons of women go out with men just for the free food. Especially in bigger cities. Spend a week in Miami and you’ll see
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:37 AM
12

Yeah it’s kind of funny how when the roles are reversed guys all feel guilty and shameful, but this is just basic female behavior lol
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:30 PM
2

Mods... Please
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:23 AM
1

Sure, but that has nothing to do with the abundance mindset and for most dudes on here who simply want to get laid, it’s counterproductive
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:34 PM
1

Nope. But if I’m in a night game environment and I’m approaching it makes zero sense to not progress further than getting her number and walking away
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:17 PM
1

You’re very confused
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:43 AM
1

There were always noobs, but this shit is ridiculous lmao
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:36 PM
1

Lol this sub has gotten so bad
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:05 PM
5

I really wonder where this idea came from. It has to be woman because I’ve never met a guy who has ever considered that when saying they don’t like promiscuous women. The performance of a woman’s past partners literally never even popped in my head before
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:24 PM
1

I’ve read your post like five times and still have absolutely no idea what the fuck you’re even saying.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:02 PM
11

Nah ignore the other dude. She blatantly disrespected you. Just move on and don’t waste your time on this broad
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:12 PM
2

What’s with all the black pill, pathetic, crybaby ass losers who have been posting on this sub recently. Grow some fucking balls
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:12 PM
1

What the fuck does this have to do with this sub? God this place is becoming a shithole
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:39 PM
11

A trick I like to do is I’ll offer a piece of my gum at sometime during the date after we’ve eaten or had something to drink(I’m always scared of kissing someone who has bad breath lol), and then later when I want to make my move, I’ll kinda randomly tell them “spit your gum out”when we’re vibing. They usually ask “why” and then I say “because I want to kiss you”. Has worked for me every time. That being said, if she’s your FWB just initiate. You’re already fucking so what’s the big deal?
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:38 AM
1

You shouldn’t bring up anything at all with this woman. Leave. You can’t turn a 304 into a housewife
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:20 PM
1

Don’t be scared of rejection, just be careful. It’s fine to approach, but you don’t want to seem like a creep because that’ll hurt your chances with a lot of girls. Make some actual friends you can sit down with and hang out with from time to time so you don’t end up being “that guy” who just follows random girls tables all the time.
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:50 PM
3

I disagree a little bit. While its true HS reputation won’t matter after he graduates, I assume OP wants to get some play while he’s still in HS. If you get labeled a creep, no girl is going to want to mess with you. There’s nothing wrong with cold approaching but OP should be smarter about it. Walking up to girls all lunch is kind of lame. None of the guys in HS who get any do that.
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:48 PM
-2

Sounds like a waste of time
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:27 AM
2

This is horrible advice
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:07 PM
2

Agreed. I would not even bother discussing it with her
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:45 PM
4

I would go for it
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:18 AM
2

Is your ex a coworker or in a position where she could or would really fuck up your life? Otherwise, I don't see why not
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:16 AM
1

Are you still friends with your ex?
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:13 AM
14

Yeah, just look at OPs post history. He’s gay lol. This is just a troll
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:47 AM
1

Then expand that sphere
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:23 AM
1

Why are you trying to date a single mother when you’re 26?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:27 AM
-1

No it’s definitely significantly worse these days. An influx of women and guys like OP regularly giving horrible information.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:30 PM
1

There are always exceptions to the rule, doesn’t make the rule any less true. I’d wager there are significantly more man above your weight who struggle than succeed, you just focus on the ones who succeed because that’s what you want. No one said you had to take a complete break from dating while you lose weight, but if you keep on this path, you’re going to keep getting left-swiped. It’s just reality. Why on earth would women, especially on dating apps, choose a 315 pound guy when they get doze…
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:09 PM
4

Doesn’t matter how good you are socially. Being 315 will automatically limit your dating pool because most women have a minimum physical attractiveness level you need to reach… Lose some weight. You’re 6 feet tall and 315 pounds. You weigh as much as an offensive lineman while being several inches shorter.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:38 PM
2

You’re 315 pounds my guy…lose some weight before you start analyzing
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:35 PM
1

No
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:58 PM
8

This sub gets worse and worse
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:12 PM
1

Just stop being a bitch. Girls reject for a million reasons. No reason to let it bring you down. Just stop being a bitch
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:12 PM
28

No you’re getting downvoted because you’re trying to pass off obvious hygiene and taking care of yourself(which has been mentioned on this sub plenty of times) as some sort of secret trick. Obviously every guy should be clean if they’re approaching women. If getting play was as simple as cleaning up, this sub wouldn’t need to exist.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:19 PM
2

I do this a lot as well kinda naturally. And I agree it usually works
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:21 AM
1

Ignore this OP
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:20 AM
1

Agree to disagree then. Maybe we just run with different types of girls, cuz I've never had girls regularly take almost a day just to respond that were interested. Im fact it's usually the opposite
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:46 PM
-4

No, that isn't normal lol. If you text a girl at 6pm and she's regularly not texting until 3pm the next day, she's most likely not that interested.
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:20 PM
5

Lol this thread is hilarious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 09:28 PM
12

Most of the advice women give on here.
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:08 PM
13

You should’ve stopped talking to her at that moment. You’re wasting your time
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:56 AM
26

Just move on. You’re already a simp in her mind, and that’s not going to change. She probably screenshotted the message to laugh about you with her friends. Don’t ever do this again.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:35 PM
1

What does this have to do with this sub? Mods?
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:43 PM
10

This sub is filled with cucks these days
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:58 AM
4

Agreed. Can’t imagine spending that much time with a girl in three months
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:57 AM
2

Lol OP is a girl my guy
/r/seduction14/01/22 11:31 PM
7

Wait for her to post on her story, then respond to it. Make some convo, then ask her out
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:23 AM
5

It’s possible, but you need to pull back. I’ve made it out once myself. Junior Year there were these girls on the same floor as me in my dorm building who I befriended early on. I knew from the get-go that they were attracted to me(one tried to hook me up with her friend, the other would ALWAYS ask me what I was up to, and would feel around my muscles when we were just chilling), but I didn’t wanna hook up with girls on the same floor as me so early in the semester so I didn’t make any moves at …
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:23 AM
2

This sub isn’t what it used to be. It’s a bunch of BP guys and girls these days, and I say this as someone who isn’t even that RP’d
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:36 AM
2

“As a guy I can tell you that’s not true” Immaculate cap.
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:18 AM
1

Doesn’t matter, she’s a single mom. Next.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:10 PM
8

Yeah I’ve seen a lot of guys talk about the touch barrier, but in most dates I’ve closed, I can’t remember initiating touch before they come back to my place
/r/seduction22/12/21 07:47 PM
2

What exactly is wrong with that word?
/r/seduction21/12/21 03:08 AM
1

Update?
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:06 AM
46

Not even a hug? Sounds like you’re being a pussy
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:04 AM
2

Do y’all have mutual friends in your social circle? If so, you can easily lie and say she just came up as someone“you might know”
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:33 AM
8

Nah, you’re just a typical FDS following loser and it shows.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:24 AM
2

Agreed with everything you said. It seems like people are misinterpreting the post. You’re not saying “Leave girls on read on purpose just because” you’re more saying “It’s okay to not respond when the convos reached a natural end or there isn’t really a response to what she last said”. When I was younger, I remember always feeling like I had to respond or I’d lose the girls interest and I fell into this trap a lot which just lead me to over texting a lot of the time. Nowadays I hardly text unle…
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:58 PM
4

Stop asking for instagrams. Get their number unless u wanna end up lost in the sea of lames Dming her
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:30 PM
5

No it isn’t. Maps are objective and directions don’t change based on a whim or an emotion, women will very often lead you on the wrong direction unintentionally because even they don’t always know why they’re attracted to someone or something.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:51 PM
1

What The hell happened to this sub? One of the first rules back in the day was to have an abundance mindset and avoid oneitis. How the hell are you “FWB” with a girl you’re not even regularly fucking?
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:09 AM
6

You sound like a loser
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:02 AM
-10

You can keep telling yourself that. But the vast majority of women do not want a man with little to no experience.
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:06 AM
-7

Just because soemthing worked once doesn't mean it's optimal.
/r/seduction14/11/21 12:20 AM
-33

Asking is never good advice. Even if you are inexperienced you don't want to give off that vibe
/r/seduction13/11/21 11:03 PM
6

If you're afraid to touch a girl then get your lotion ready because the only action you'll be getting is from your own hand
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:24 PM
1

Yeah that was horribly cringe just reading
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:36 AM
5

This. In my experience there’s like a 90% chance a drunk girl is gonna have no idea who tf u even are the next day
/r/seduction31/10/21 05:36 PM
-6

This isn’t an incel crusade. You may not like what he’s saying but he’s right. You’re behaving like a pussy.
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:59 AM
3

He asked her out in person. Absolutely no chance she forgot.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:31 AM
2

Make a move. Stop being a pussy. Simple as that.
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:07 AM
1

"My current thought process is, saying knock your bullshit off or I’m done (calm but firm) is a high SMV move" Depending on the situation, sure. For example, if she disrespects you by calling you out of your name, that would work. But in this situation all this does is make you look jealous for a girl who is NOT even your girlfriend...that screams scarcity. Scarcity is unattractive. Doesn't matter how calm you try and make it sound. And she easily sensed that which is why she kept prodding you. …
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:58 PM
9

There's your problem my guy. You're not acting like a guy who gets any play. You're acting like an orbiter. No guy with options is texting the same girl for 2 months straight and not even meeting up with her, then going on multiple dates with her, then not making a move and not closing on ANY of them. I doubt there's much you can do to fix this situation. If I were you, I'd talk to more girls and learn how to escalate. Also for the love of God stop texting chicks for months at a time if you're n…
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:14 PM
1

"You’re saying to her that she is allowed to be toxic and manipulative and try and make you jealous" No, I'm saying that I don't give a damn what she does with whatever other dude she wants to go on a date with because 1. she isn't my girl 2. I have other options and would be just fine without her. All your reaction did was show that you believe that 1. she is your girl(even if you've put no label on it), 2. you DON'T have other options and 3. you lack confidence. All of these traits are traits …
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:00 PM
1

Interesting take but I agree
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:26 PM
1

"it actually did make me upset, partly because I was a bit jealous" There's your problem. Fake it till you make it can only work so well. You have to genuinely not care My guy. She could see through you pretending not to. Start dating more girls OP, sounds like oneitis to me. If it was me in that situation I would've laughed it off and moved on like literally nothing happened.
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:23 PM
8

You dated her for three months and you didn't smash?...tf is wrong with you op? Of course she lost interest, you acted like a scared pussy.
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:11 PM
3

Horrible advice. Ignore this guy OP
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:23 PM
5

What's exactly the problem?
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:53 AM
1

So you’re saying the vast majority of women don’t want men taller than them and that make more money than them?…how old are you?
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:38 PM
1

She just seems a bit shy about it. This is good, as a man, you just need to take charge and make the move. She clearly wants you to make a move, just grow the balls and do it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:38 PM
2

I swear this sub is becoming more like r/dating every day. What in the absolute fuck kind of advice was that woman giving lmao
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:37 PM
1

Haha I had the same reaction
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:15 AM
3

This OP. Ask her out ASAP, If she gives you anything but a yes, move on and stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction02/10/21 02:12 AM
1

Why are you even thinking about three next day? Focus on the task straight ahead and make your move when she comes over today.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:55 PM
1

You missed the point. Your English skills and your delivery are horrible
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:46 AM
2

It's not that he's just trying to get confirmation, it's how desperate he is and clingy. Just look, " Last night I got really drunk and messaged her: "So, how'd totally ghosting me work out for you, instead of just telling me the truth when I asked?" She left me on read." He's literally only had sex with her twice yet he's out here drunk messaging a girl who's clearly not that interested anymore lol. If a girl did this to me, I'd be creeped out too and would probably not respond either.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:40 PM
7

On a scale from one to Snoop Dogg how high are you?
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:57 PM
1

No. I spend hours a week in the gym working hard and pushing myself to be better every day. Why the hell would I waste my time on a fat chick?
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:55 PM
4

I hate when ppl use this word but you sounded creepy my guy. This is why you should be dating/talking to multiple women. When you don’t, you get attached and start acting needy and desperate. Acting in scarcity is never going to work out. Just move on and try not to repeat the mistake bro.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:51 PM
-1

I would wait. Don’t shit where you eat. If things go south, it could cause problems in the group and affect your grade. Idk about u but I’d rather not risk that for some poon my guy.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:48 PM
4

My method was always to take the girl to a spot on campus to eat, then casually mention watching something back at my crib. If they say yes(I’ve never gotten a no), we go back to my crib. Once I get there, we go to my room, put on Netflix, watch a little of whatever I brought up, then I make my move when I feel like it.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:46 PM
7

Additionally, we don’t know what OP said to her. Not every message needs a response
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:40 PM
1

“It was later revealed she was putting up distance because she wants to be ready for a relationship” You really believe everything girls say huh? If she wanted you, she would be fucking you my guy. No ifs ands or buts. Talk to more women. You’re 30 years old and acting like a highschool boy. It’s embarrassing
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:16 AM
2

Stop talking to girls you aren’t Able to Fuck. You’re literally giving her free validation without getting anything in return. Recipe for friendzonr my guy
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:13 AM
1

I don’t think that’s the case tbh. Sounds like he’s deep friend zoned
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:11 AM
1

You spent five hours with a girl and didn’t make any kind of move OP?….why?
/r/seduction25/09/21 09:43 PM
4

Why are you on this sub? Ppl like you remind how bad this sub has gotten lmao.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:03 PM
1

Alright, you remind me VERY much of my younger brother, so I'm going to be very blunt with you the same way I was with him a few years ago when he was in a similar spot. You are 19, it's not over yet, stop crying and do something. "I’m black, 6,3, but pretty fat and need to lose weight." Lose the goddamn weight. You're 6'3. You're literally in the top 1ish percent of males in a very important metric, Do you have any idea how many men would literally kill to be as genetically blessed as you? Stop…
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:15 AM
3

God this sub has gone down the drain. Never thought I’d see the day where we have actual members purposefully not kissing girls for no valid reason. Head to r/dating
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:24 PM
5

This is why you should never ask girls for advice guys
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:41 AM
1

Are you fucking this girl?
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:07 PM
3

Agreed. Don’t listen to that other guy OP. Showering girls with compliments like that makes you look either like a simp or gay. U/UrFavPlayerIsBack has some good examples. Misinterpretation, exaggerating, and light teasing work a lot in my experience. Just have a little charisma with your delivery
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:13 AM
2

This is stupid. Learning how to dress properly isn’t “obsessing” over anything.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:55 PM
-2

This sub has gotten so bad. What the fuck is wrong with you OP
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:14 PM
2

Sadly, no. I think askTRP made a forum you can find which imo has better info and less white Knights than this sub, but I don’t think there’s any other seduction subs like this
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:02 AM
1

This you?
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:30 PM
2

You’re a single woman over forty with a dog as your only companion. What makes you think any one cares about your advice? You’re literally a meme lmao. You can’t make this shit up.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:21 PM
3

Agreed. I was on here more frequently Two to three years ago and this shit is unrecognizable. A few months back I saw a single 40 year old black BBW who literally posted on R4R trying to give advice to a guy. It was at that point that I realized this sub was long gone.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:05 PM
-13

You’re a loser
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:57 PM
1

You validated her twice in a row. First with the “dazzling” black dress and second when you double texted. She was never interested brother. Girls like this just want the free attention from time to time, hence the super long response times
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:22 AM
1

Women don’t like men without friends. Get a social life first before worrying about women.
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:09 PM
7

Also false: example 1 example 2 There’s Plenty of examples of you asking for pickup advice. EDIT: also unless you got significant plastic surgery you’re not a 9/10 example 3 example 4 Which if you did, doesn’t make sense with your story because you’re supposedly a “natural”. Why would a natural need plastic surgery?
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:33 AM
11

I call bullshit. Your profile doesn’t line up at all with what you’ve said on this post. You’re a handsome guy, but you’re objectively not a 9 and you have plenty of posts asking for dating advice…sounds like cap
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:09 AM
4

Used to be here a lot back in the day to cuz I like giving advice to help out the bros. But I’m honestly not on this sub anymore because it’s been filled with women and super PC nowadays
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:14 PM
2

Then pull to your friends places. It’s a lot easier to get a girl to come back to your place than it is to get them to come to a hotel or to fuck in a car.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:05 PM
2

That’s the problem.
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Do you not have your own place?
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:42 PM
4

This sub has gone down the drain. Ppl like her shouldn’t even be on this sub back in the day
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:12 PM
10

Men are generally expected to be the providers financially while women aren't. This gives women lots of incentive to seek a partner. There's a reason women always ask "what do you do" very early on into dating and it's the first question a girl's friends ask a lot of the times when they tell them they're seeing someone Courts heavily favor women and give them significant leverage. This is something a lot of men especially MGTOW have found to not be worth it. Women on the other hand don't have mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:48 PM
7

It's because marriage benefits women significantly more than it does men. It's not all that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:03 PM
2

More women on the sub
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:45 PM
1

Fair. Though to be honest I wasn’t really calling him an incel. I was moreso trying to say what he said is the kind of shit incels say. Because in my mind you can’t be incel and MGTOW at the same time. I guess I could’ve been clearer
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 03:05 AM
0

lol what hole? I’m genuinely curious
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 02:07 AM
0

Am I not supposed to respond to a direct reply to me? Do you not know how Reddit works lol?
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 02:02 AM
1

Projecting my own insecurities? Lol the lack of self awareness
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:59 AM
2

Deflecting when proven wrong. Another feminine tactic lol. Your lack of self awareness is comical
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:54 AM
0

Reread my previous comment. I’m not trying to change your world view guy
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:28 AM
0

This is Reddit. On Reddit we share our opinions. So that’s what I’m doing. I haven’t once yet told you or anyone what to do in your own personal life or here. Because I don’t give a fuck about what other men are doing.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:22 AM
0

I’m not shaming you for not “playing the game”. Read again. I don’t give a fuck what you do in your personal life. I’m calling you out for worrying about what other grown men are doing. A feminine trait.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:12 AM
0

It doesn’t take that much time and effort my guy. I’m a pretty good looking guy. I just swipe every night on tinder or work my already existent social circle , and usually get a few drink, coffee, or Netflix dates a month which don’t cost me all that much at all. Sure, it may take a few hours out of my Saturday or Sunday night, but do you really expect men to be working 100% 24/7?... MGTOW quite literally means Men going their own Way. It can be different for different people. MY OWN WAY is not …
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 12:59 AM
1

Never said I needed women to complete my life. For someone who dislikes women as much as you, you sure act like one. There’s a difference between a want and a need. I want to go to the gym and lift four times a week and it brings enjoyment, but do I NEED to? No. It’s the same with woman. I want to have sex with women regularly because it feels good, but do I NEED them? No. There’s absolutely no reason for me not to have sex unless your argument is about STD’s or pregnancies. MGTOW to me isn’t ab…
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 12:11 AM
2

That’s not what MGTOW means...like at all. You sound like an incel
/r/MGTOW231/05/21 11:23 PM
2

How so? 90% of the time he literally just tells women to lose weight, stop having ridiculous, standards, and be less masculine. As for the men aspect, disagree. You can find old videos on his channel of him talking to men. He’s just as straight forward with them, honestly even more so.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:26 PM
2

Cool story bro
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:10 PM
2

Agreed. Delivery and confidence is everything. I’ve said so much dumb and corny shit in my college days and gotten away with it. I once asked this girl who was foreign how to say a couple of words in her language and then strung it together to ask her if I could kiss her and it actually worked lol. Also, most of the time if you’re at the point where you feel like she’ll want to kiss, you should be able to gauge how interested she is. If she’s really interested at that point, you probably won’t r…
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:55 AM
1

Ehh, it’s basically the same thing in this situation, it’s really just the delivery that determines whether or not you’ll sound submissive. For example, when I told the girl to spit out her gum, if I had said “would you please spit out your gum so I can kiss you”, instead of “spit out your gum”, “why”, “ I want to kiss you” ,it probably would’ve sounded a lot less confident
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:10 AM
7

This is way over complicating things. Guys are going to read this and overthink the hell out of things and make stuff awkward. Just do it when it feels right and you’re in a high moment with the girl. And if it you’re in a situation that’s a little hard to read, there’s nothing wrong with asking or telling her you want to kiss her. I’ve straight up told a few girls to spit their gum out because I wanted to kiss them and it’s never failed lol
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:20 PM
1

Haha I actually did end up going through some of my matches as well. Not to tell her she was replaceable, I was just joking with her about how girls have weak game on dating apps(she sent the first message and it was just “hey” lol)
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:22 AM
4

Happened to me back in college. Was eating lunch with a girl I was talking to, my friend, and a couple of her friends. Literally while I was sitting across the booth from her, she was talking with her friend about going to hang out with some football player and his friends from another college. All I did was act like I didn’t even care(I truly didn’t. I was in college and there were many other beautiful girls anyways, so abundance mindset was easy) and just kept shooting the shit and laughing ar…
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:01 AM
2

He looks like the remarkably average outside of his height. I’m genuinely surprised by some of those comments
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:02 PM
2

You’re an enormous simp...literally commenting on multiple threads to defend a woman you don’t even know...just lol
/r/seduction05/03/21 02:09 AM
1

You're about to catch a case. Run my guy
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 03:28 AM
3

You just agreed with me though, you started for the girls and now the majority reason is the “reminder that I can change” part. If your sole motivation at this point was girls, I doubt you would’ve stuck with it as much as you have. EDIT: also, you’re still a relatively new lifter. At 4/5 months it’s still possible someone could be in it for the girls. But when you get into the guys who have been lifting enough to get to an intermediate level, you’d be hard pressed to find one who doesn’t do it …
/r/seduction13/12/20 03:51 PM
10

Agreed. People who do it for girls usually quit after a few months when they’re not seeing gains quick enough either in the gym or with women. For me, I lift because I like being strong AF. Having a good body to attract women is just a side bonus
/r/seduction13/12/20 03:04 PM
63

Lol imma be honest I actually use some of these alot without thinking about it. Especially the “you seem like that” or “I get those vibes from you”. Idk why but that always piques their interest.
/r/seduction27/10/20 02:17 AM
2

I got banned for saying that slavery wasn’t the only thing black people have had to deal with in the past. The sub used to be good, but it’s turned into a hard alt-right, female hating, racist garbage. They became the very thing they swore to destroy
/r/MGTOW210/09/20 08:03 PM
2

Care to elaborate? If not, I’m just assuming you know as well as I know that you’re speaking out of your ass instead of just admitting you’re wrong lmao. The Reddit special EDIT: Nice try editing your comment after you posted it :) took a little long for you to come up with a response? “Your passive aggressiveness hurts so much. Keep it coming. “ I’m not being passive aggressive lol. I’m genuinely trying to help you understand. That’s the point of a “debate”....u know...what the sub is about. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:54 PM
2

Ahh. So it seems you still don’t understand analogies. Like I said my guy/girl, a critical thinking class won’t hurt. Obviously women are not locks, but in the context of dating/sexual relationships yes they are. The men pursue(key), and the women withhold(lock) sex until they believe they have a worthy suitor. Think a little hard buddy. When thinking critically, try not to take the literal definition of every single word and try to understand the analogy. Here’s a source I think would benefit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:32 PM
3

I explained the logic to you. If you don’t have the mental capacity to understand it that isn’t the fault of the analogy that’s the fault of you. Maybe take some critical thinking classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:26 PM
5

No they don’t. You’re not getting the point of the lock analogy. A lock is inherently meant to stay locked unless the specific key is opening it. Therefore, if lots of keys are able to open the lock, the lock is low value because it isn’t doing it’s job well. The lock is meant to represent the woman who are the “gatekeepers” of sex, and keys are the men who want to open the woman’s “gates” if u will. A pencil on the other hand isn’t meant to not be sharpened. Literally any pencil sharpener can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:11 PM
2

You really don’t seem to understand analogies do you? A key that can unlock any lock is valuable because unlike a pencil sharpener, which can sharpen literally any pencil, keys aren’t inherently able to open every lock
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:52 PM
6

What a cuck
/r/MGTOW16/06/20 12:06 AM
-1

Hmmm... looking at the actions of a few idiots and condemning the whole group... sounds like what Reddit did to this sub...
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 09:38 PM
1

I could explain it to you, but if you seriously think slavery was the only thing that set back black people in the U.S then I don’t know what to tell you other than to do some research my guy. I’m not saying that choices don’t matter or that it’s impossible to still succeed. My parents are both black and make over six figures, and I’m set to make six figures out of college next year assuming I keep my bonus so obviously it’s possible to succeed. This is America after all. But to say that black p…
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 09:20 PM
-1

“Most of the issues with black people in America comes from their culture.” What do you think lead to that culture? I’m not even a liberal or leftist or SJW or anything like that but come on guys have some sense. Y’all sound just like the left, not even taking facts and history into consideration. As for BLM putting fathers back into homes, I agree. But that’s a whole nother issue and was caused by daddy government and democrats. It’s not a simple thing to change and will take years to undo. For…
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 09:02 PM
-6

“What shitty hand” Dude....just....no...
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 08:54 PM
4

No one is saying you should feel guilty here. But it’s ridiculous to not think African Americans have been dealt a shitty hand and still suffer from the repercussions. As for why we aren’t talking about this in the Middle East....I don’t really get your point. We live in America so why wouldn’t we start here? Look man, no one is attacking you or white people here. There’s no need to be defensive. We’re all here for the same reason. No need to piss each other off
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 06:26 PM
1

This sounds like it was written by a woman who has read way too many sex novels
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:36 AM
1

“As I go to class and come home” That’s your issue right there
/r/seduction19/05/20 02:50 PM
1

Lmao that last sentence had me rolling😂😂😂 if I could give gold I would
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 05:25 AM
1

Yeah lol
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 09:55 PM
1

lol I literally watched that exact episode yesterday
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 09:06 PM
13

What’s the point in that? Just leave her if she’s unwilling to try and get in decent shape. Sex-manipulation just seems feminine
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 07:07 PM
4

U can go your own way and still get layed u know
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 08:06 AM
8

That's why you don't propose to a women in two years. The guy barely knows her
/r/MGTOW05/04/20 05:51 AM
5

U can see in the pic that she has slight ab definition so she’s definitely not overweight. Ur right about the angles tho. She has her legs pressed together against the bed to make herself look thicker and most of the onlyfans simps fall for it
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 11:42 PM
9

Lol that’s not overweight my guy
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 10:52 PM
6

Best pen pal*
/r/seduction31/03/20 09:58 PM
8

She’s aiming this directly at black women it seems
/r/MGTOW30/03/20 02:15 AM
2

This is a fictional story man.
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 11:01 PM
2

Literally just watched this movie today lmao
/r/seduction08/01/20 05:37 AM
2

Maybe your definition of a fuckboy is different from mine? Very few men get layed enough to be considered fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:40 AM
2

"how available the item is affects its value" No. You're mixing availability with supply. In a supply/demand curve, the value of any good or service is based off the demand and supply of said item. Fuckbois are low in supply but indisputably high in demand therefore they're high value. Your analogy is pretty weak tbh because all men are accessible/available to most women unless the woman is seriously ugly or the man is taken
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:29 AM
12

Two things. First: everyone dates girls differently. Some guys rate any girl who is decently attractive a 9+ some guys are super harsh. For me anyways I won't date anyone less than an 8+ and wouldn't hook up with less than a 6, but my scale is different than a lot of other guys. Second: Not every guy has the ability to attract the girls they want so they may end up settling or not even trying to date the more attractive women, so they settle for a less attractive girl who has a personality they …
/r/seduction25/12/19 11:42 PM
1

Black guy here. Lots of us are RP but don't even realize it. Lots of contradictions in the community
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:24 PM
1

Not as big as a boost as makeup though. Dressing better only emphasize s your features. Makeup literally changes the way your face looks and hides your actual skin tone and flaws. Dressing well won't make an ugly guy attractive, but makeup can make an ugly girl look attractive. I agree though, guys need to learn how to dress better nowadays to maximize success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:00 PM
2

Nah. The average woman at least in America is overweight. Three only difference is that women can use makeup to give themselves a boost but guys really don't have much else to do but dress better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Wouldn't ask and wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:37 AM
1

Im not that into LTR's, but the times I've been in one I've never initiated them. I'm not looking for a wife ATM so I don't see the point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:36 AM
1

An attractive woman has tons of options. If she's choosing the fuckboys they have to be high value by default
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:35 AM
1

Not true. Look at P Diddy and Future. Both are bonified fuckboys who had high value women chasing after then (Cassie and Ciara)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:33 AM
2

Value is determined by the market. If women are buying what fuckbois are selling(which they are) that makes then high value. This is basic economics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:31 AM
1

Dude here. Whytge fuck would I want a drug user as a son? What kind of dumbass question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:56 AM
3

So she’s a single mother...she has two kids...she’s been through two divorces...and she’s rejected you two times....why exactly are you chasing her?
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:49 PM
1

Which Latin American country if you don’t mind me asking. Considering picking one when I retire
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 02:43 AM
5

Lmao I don’t want her. Doesn’t mean I can’t admit that she is physically attractive. You don’t need to lie my guy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 03:34 AM
8

“Nappy hair” Lol u must be white. That’s not nappy hair “Shit attitude” Irrelevant. We’re talking purely physical “Crap face” You can’t even see her face besides her lips which look full. “My girl is better” Lmao sure buddy. Imagine what u want
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 03:27 AM
13

Athletic body, lightskin, nice tits...are you sure you’re straight?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/19 03:03 AM
2

If you think there was no proper message you’re probably not old enough to watch rated R movies
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 10:33 PM
3

This isn't true. Maybe in the past, but as a young black guy it's never been easier to get play
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 04:27 AM
3

This ain't it
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:36 PM
1

You're 16 and not even in college yet. As long as you shoot your shot you'll get something by your freshman year of college
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:11 PM
15

We need an update
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 03:38 AM
8

This is why no takes advice from women
/r/seduction17/09/19 08:55 PM
2

You should've just told her dude. Now she probably thinks ur short and trying to joke it off
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:02 PM
2

I feel like I've heard this story before
/r/MGTOW06/09/19 05:10 AM
8

Oh that makes sense. You're a White Knight...carry on
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 04:59 AM
5

U really don't get it?
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 04:20 AM
1

I don't like using this term but you sound like the stereotypical incel
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:51 AM
1

Uhhh...what was the point of this post?
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:38 AM
2

Are you on the spectrum?
/r/seduction01/09/19 08:30 PM
3

Maybe it’s because I learned of MGTOW when I was younger, but I still can’t fathom why a grown ass man would spend his entire life trying to please a woman. She didn’t cook, clean, or do anything yet she wasn’t even working a job? Ridiculous
/r/MGTOW30/08/19 11:56 PM
1

Just don't give a fuck man lol simple as that. The guys I know who pull the most get rejected a lot as well, but they don't give a damn
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:28 AM
1

Thanks man. Never thought I'd be getting steak advice on this sub lol
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 02:44 AM
1

Quick question. How long does it take to get a sear usually? I usually reverse sear mine by using the oven then searing for about 45 seconds each side. Is it the same after sous vide?
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 10:20 PM
5

Imagine being a White Knight after going through something like this. The delusion is unreal https://www.reddit.com/r/depression/comments/629xrr/i_thought_it_was_over/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 04:23 AM
3

He's a dude and he's projecting. Apparently his ex GF he cares about ducked another guy and got pregnant lol. Here's his post "https://www.reddit.com/r/depression/comments/629xrr/i_thought_it_was_over/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 04:22 AM
1

Good idea taking care of your money at such a young age. I recommend you put your money into an index fund or etf. Your money will grow a lot faster
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 09:29 PM
4

Agreed. She’s just a terrible host. Always interrupting with her squeaking voice and not adding anything of value or wit. She should learn from the blonde girl from undisputed
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 07:58 PM
4

Agreed. I don’t care if you don’t like either sport. But don’t downplay them or act like they take no strategy just because you lack the athletic ability to play them. Edgy refditors seem fond of this
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 11:58 PM
14

Lol says the clown with mizztootznoootz for a username. I’ve played basketball all my life and never had my ass touched. Although I’m sure you fantasize about that quite often
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 01:58 AM
9

Play either one of those sports and you’ll understand it’s a lot more than “men throwing a ball around”
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 01:53 AM
1

Are you an investment banker? What job are you working where you work 14hrs a day?
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 11:48 PM
1

I agree that the female brat thing is nonsense. But wakanda as a concept has been around since the 60’s. This isn’t just Hollywood shit
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 05:04 PM
1

What? “The only roles for white males are as villains” the main villain is a black guy..... And almost every single hero in the MCU is a white guy....stop acting like a victim
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 05:03 PM
1

Whoops. My bad brother
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 12:35 AM
1

You don’t know what a compound sentence is?
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 12:32 AM
2

Huh? People squat in the curl rack at your gym? Weird....
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 09:44 PM
1

I drove my brother to the bus stop when he was a kid and he was only a 5 minute walk away. More of a safety precaution than anything
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 11:43 PM
5

He’s not begging because he wants to be with her he’s begging because he’s about to lose half his shit lol
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 12:24 AM
5

Someone seems to forget to add the letter “s” in lots of their words
/r/MGTOW13/10/18 07:24 AM
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