What do you usually do for the second date?

Chunkstyle3030 · 2024-12-31T20:48:29+00:00

Get ghosted

lildudefromXdastreet · 2024-12-31T21:53:34+00:00

If it’s a girl I think is just going to be a hookup/fwb/situationship type of scenario, I usually do:

1) First date drinks at a cocktail bar

2) Second date drinks at a different cocktail bar

3) Third date wine + movie at my place

4) From the 4th date and on I just invite them over straight.

If it’s a girl I may want to start actually dating, I’ll throw in a few activities after the third date here and there like mini golf, bowling, dinner, comedy shows, museum, etc.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-12-31T21:21:25+00:00

Cooking dinner together at my place. Almost always leads to sex.

AntonioBanderas007 · 2024-12-31T20:34:20+00:00

DevuSM · 2024-12-31T21:05:43+00:00

Walking by a place I know is pretty good on the first date and saying ,"Have you been there? They have the best xxx.." and then asking if she wants to try the whatever.

Or just something between 2-7 days that you're doing anyway and ask if she wants to come along.

I once took a girl in a second date to Topgolf because I was going to play in a corporate golf tournament later in the week and didn't want to embarrass myself too much.

It could easily have just been a 6-pack and a cheap driving range, depending on the girl. Sometimes you want to play to a stereotype, but subverting expectations gives you depth.

TotalFNEclipse · 2024-12-31T23:18:12+00:00

Bow chika bow wow

KongWick · 2024-12-31T21:09:56+00:00

Depends what Happened on the first date. Go to pool, or go on a run, or invite to my house

Basic-Parfait3122 · 2025-01-01T12:27:09+00:00

Invite them straight to mine.

StrikingImportance39 · 2024-12-31T20:36:26+00:00

Ask for a walk and then end up at my place.

I mean. If u can’t close it in 2 dates most likely u won’t close it at all.

Title	What do you usually do for the second date?
Author	HedgehogOk3756
Upvotes	10
Comments	17
Date	December 31, 2024 8:31 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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