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Over the weeks, I gradually matched her level of investment. By the end, I was more internally invested In the outcome of the relationship. She was the one constantly bringing up planning for her future life & asking me questions constantly like: will we do this, will we travel, can we own a farm, would you be open to a wedding like this, can you change X about yourself, do you think we can get along since we both don’t love X, etc. I was overanalyzing if I could win & keep her. She was overanal…
/r/seduction25/06/26 03:11 AM
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In her head she is very serious about it, apparently. She’s definitely hot enough to date a younger multi-millionaire. But she lives in an apartment with a roommate, near the center of our city. And has an average job. The chances of her meeting a multi-millionaire who ALSO wants a farm with animals on it (who is attractive) seem quite low to me.
/r/seduction25/06/26 03:00 AM
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I tried to hold out & was still hooking up and seeing another girl the first 2 weeks. But she was coming in hot & I genuinely lost interest in others. I guess my frame is now slightly stronger than before for next time I meet someone like this.
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:58 AM
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That’s actually one of the things that confused me the most. I’m not saying she has BPD or avoidant attachment because I obviously can’t know that, but there was one night where I seriously wondered if she was having some kind of emotional breakdown. We had been drinking wine at a wine bar (2 tall glasses each. She’s tiny). On the drive home she started crying. I asked what’s wrong. She was like “I don’t know if we’re right for eachother.” Her reasons were (to me) insane things like “you don’t a…
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:53 AM
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I agree that showing willingness to commit (early) shows negative traits. She was hinting she wanted only me or directly saying it to me in ways though. So eventually after 4weeks I was like “hey, I only want to date you btw.” Then a week after that I was like “hey you’re my gf.” And we agreed to be exclusive. Then boom. Get dumped. Didn’t even see it coming it was the day after a random day where we had a great time, had sex, etc.
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:41 AM
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Yeah, I’ll never know
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:38 AM
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I agree. Although it actually took her till the 4th date before she had sex with me. Wasn’t a first night hookup. But yes, definitely high intensity (“love bombing”… however you want to call it) in her communication from the start. It actually gave me super high anxiety internally because my brain created my relationship with her and “getting her” as high stakes. I have a good poker face… and she was texting me way more than I was her. But it made me super nervous. Most things about her I like t…
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:35 AM
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He was rich and famous. He acted himself even if insane/ridiculous and didn’t give a care what others thought. Went after what he wanted. Probably outcome independent
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:19 AM
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This is a great comment
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:18 AM
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That ain’t your friend
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:14 AM
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like lockpicking. You only have one hairpin and you’re trying to get into the vault. Have to finagle it and try to pick the lock. Dont force it too hard or you’ll break your only hairpin and never get in.
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:45 AM
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Run club
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:44 AM
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I mean… just drink less. U really dont need to be tipsy to talk with girls and pick them up. Maybe keep it to 3 beers or less
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:41 AM
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Don’t do this unless you’ve consistently been banging her for a long time
/r/seduction11/04/26 05:25 AM
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Sounds really normal
/r/seduction11/04/26 05:24 AM
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They just change their mind. Or… more precisely, you didn’t do anything meaningful enough to “hook” the girl on your first date sexually/emotionally (most important is emotionally). This happens to me all the time after what I think is a “great date.” Sounds normal
/r/seduction11/04/26 05:23 AM
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Seems normal and like she’s responding normally. Just ask her to hangout a few days from now
/r/seduction11/04/26 05:21 AM
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I mean… do you think I should call her back and try to hang out with her again? This is the text I had sent her to break it off after she had texted me asking about plans for this weekend: “Hey, I’ve really enjoyed spending time with you this past week and I’m glad we got to hang out and get to know each other. I do want to be honest though. Im not feeling that this will work out long term, and I don’t want to lead you on. I think you’re great and I really respect you.” ————————- If I called her…
/r/seduction04/04/26 03:25 AM
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Well, the thing with this girl is that she WAS GOOD at sex. She did all the things that I would want. But when I visually looked at her body during sex… I was not turned on because of certain things, angle of her face/neck, her overall shape etc. So I’m not sure I could explain this to her: “hi, I really like you but your body isn’t attractive enough” obviously would be an awful thing to say. I feel bad typing this because she is such a sweet woman. Wha do you suggest I do? I could certainly cal…
/r/seduction04/04/26 03:04 AM
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😂
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:41 AM
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It’s not the most important thing it’s just one of the important things. Isn’t at all the only thing on my mind.
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:05 AM
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Sure. But that’s not the main point of my post, so I’ll remove that part. I have no problem dating a 37yo. It was the lack of physical attraction during sex despite really trying to make my brain be attracted.
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:01 AM
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It’s for both. It’s like the same as if you walked into a city of 500K people and you asked “is this city for hooking up or dating.” There’s not one answer. Some girls are looking for a quick hookup. Some are only seriously dating trying to find husband.
/r/seduction21/03/26 07:56 PM
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In my City, and it seems in the most of the USA, Hinge is the most popular and seems to have the most high quality girls (girls with normal jobs. Not hairdressers with 100 tattoos). In other countries, other apps might be more popular. All the normal girls I interact with as friends say they use Hinge
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:58 PM
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Yeah, I understand. I responded to another guys comment in this thread with a success I had earlier this week after I took such advice, was present on the date, wasn’t trying to escalate barely at all…. And then the girl was super into me and escalating with me and came back to my place. Ended up having sex with her but I wasn’t even trying to. She was trying to hookup with me. So I took the advice on this thread and it worked. Will keep in mind for future dates too
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:54 PM
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Got it. I’ll start obesemaxxing ASAP
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:56 PM
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Okay, so as an update… 2 days ago a girl from Hinge hit me up to hang for a first date. She flaked before so I’d never met her yet. Seemed low chances of her showing up so I just told her to meet at my place and we will go grab drinks. Didn’t expect her to show up + legitimately did not care. Well, she pulled up to my house in a nice Mercedes, told me to hop in. And she was much cuter than photos. On this date I literally had no agenda and didn’t try to like “guide” the date super hard like “mus…
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:54 PM
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Okay, so as an update… 2 days ago a girl from Hinge hit me up to hang for a first date. She flaked before so I’d never met her yet. Seemed low chances of her showing up so I just told her to meet at my place and we will go grab drinks. Didn’t expect her to show up + legitimately did not care. Well, she pulled up to my house in a nice Mercedes, told me to hop in. And she was much cuter than photos. On this date I literally had no agenda and didn’t try to like “guide” the date super hard like “mus…
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:44 PM
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I want to do that. But in my experience if I don’t have sex with them on the first date, they never want a second date. All my LTR’s have started when he had sex on first date. So I’ve been conditioned that
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:39 PM
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Haha yeah. At first I was confused and couldn’t figure out who had written it about me on the FB group. I was suspicious of the younger of the 2 girls I was dating. But then I got my brothers wife to sign up to the group. And it turned out to be this girl I had went on one date with that showed up 50+ lbs heavier than her picture. Body type like a literal sphere. I wasn’t even mean to her at all on date. Sat there with her for an hour. She kept posting anonymously but I could tell it’s her from …
/r/seduction15/03/26 09:13 PM
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Well, back then was right after I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. So I immediately made my only goal to date again. Cause I hadn’t dated anyone in years besides my LTR of 5 years. I watched Todd V dating videos, and liked his advice cause it resonated with me. I studied the strategy and despite lack of sleep from dates the day before, would bite down on my mouthpiece and try 100% on the next date. I wanted reps, so at first even if they were mid I’d go on a date. I made my only goals 1) …
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:40 PM
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Trying to be as descriptive as I can so people can provide advice lol
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:01 PM
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I want to do that. But in my experience if I don’t have sex with them on the first date, they never want a second date. All my LTR’s have started when he had sex on first date. So I’ve been conditioned that bringing home on first date is the only way it will work + if I seem to be having a good time on first date but don’t bring them home, nothing will ever happen again from there
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:00 PM
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There’s truth to this. But she was actually really hot and fun in doses. I’m not on dates with 6’s normally. Or if I am by accident. it’s hard to even make myself care enough to try to bring them home. I end up on dates with plenty of good looking women. A lot don’t pan out though.
/r/seduction15/03/26 05:48 PM
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I Normally shoot for age range of 27-34, being that I’m 34. I find that most girls that match with me on dating apps are mostly late 20s, 30s, 40s. Mostly 30s honestly. I’m not dead set on “being in a relationship” at all. In fact the opposite. Trying to build a funnel of compatible matches. Just seems most from Hinge arent compatible, or don’t like me. I see it like this.. a sales funnel : go on date > escalate to hookup > continue hanging out if we both like eachother > then that van build int…
/r/seduction15/03/26 05:37 AM
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I definitely don’t bail early enough on the dates in which we don’t click. Kind of just sit there and will begin whatever discussion topic to entertain myself for 2 hours until eventually saying I got to go, or them saying they have to go. For the older woman which i was dating for 1.5 months casually, I knew it would never workout long term but she was hot and ok enough to spend time and hookup with. Shes high strung and kinda demanding… “are you NOT gonna hold that door open for me?”… shit lik…
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:55 AM
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Text is only for logistics. But to answer your question, ghosting is when they stop responding to you entirely
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:34 AM
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Sure, can be. But if you’re internally thinking or caring about it this much… then it’s from a place of scarcity so therefore not masculine
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:16 AM
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Most people set filters within their age range. I’m 34 years old and very fit/attractive with good photos and prompts on the apps. I get tons of matches with hot girls. But almost all of my matches are late 20’s and 30’s. Below age 26, I get almost no matches
/r/seduction13/02/26 01:13 AM
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Build a Time Machine and go back in time 18 months. Begin working out and get ripped again. Then go on this coffee date with Sarah
/r/TheRedPill05/02/26 10:58 PM
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It’s only “pressure” if you care what others think
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 09:19 PM
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Join a hobby/group/meetup where you don’t hate the activity + there are lots of hot women run club (absolute best. Everyone in shape) climbing gym meetup pickleball (maybe. Lots of old and weird people too so choose carefully) hiking Also, just go on lots of Hinge dates and be outcome independent. But don’t only go on Hinge dates. Make a friend group too of guys and girls.
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:15 PM
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You think dating has gotten overall worse/harder for men compared to 1, 3, 5, and 10 years ago? If so, can you explain why?
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:11 AM
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You most certainly subtly act different around chicks you’re attracted to. Around girls you’re not attracted to: I bet you’re non-chalant, don’t care what they think of you, laid back, etc… that’s what makes a chick like you Around the ones you’re more attracted to, your brain probably labels them as “high stakes,” so although you try to act unfazed, you’re giving off subtle signs of neediness, slight lack of true inner confidence… or whatever. I have this same problem as well at times. Solution…
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:08 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:05 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:52 AM
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I’m open to criticism, but I know i laid it down damn well. If there’s an aspect I’m missing, it’s some subjective thing or really small aspect that I am unaware of. Or my overall emotional or mental state was not grounded enough in the universe. No point of overanalyzing now. I’m mentally over it, just dissapointed. And yes I have “pulled 8’s” before, to the other person who commented on this.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:46 AM
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She’s definitely not objectively higher than me in the SMV at all. I’m a really good looking guy in all aspects, have a nice house, good job, etc. better off than her by a long shot. I sound like a pompous delusional asshole, and I know this is Reddit where most are neckbeards, but this is the truth. Could I have maybe mega subconsciously given off “too fast” vibes? I guess, but I really ran the planning/dates/sex/talks/all aspects tight. But I actually don’t think it’d be super easy for her to …
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:43 AM
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She’s 30. I’m 33.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:40 AM
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This happened to me recently, as we speak. I met a girl ~ 10 days ago. From Hinge. 8+/10. We had extreme chemistry and she was all over me at the bar, stroking me. Kissing me. Opening up. Brought her back to my house and had amazing sex. I fucked her like no tomorrow and she has multiple orgasms, and she slept over. We also talked a lot. Did this 2 more times, so we are 3 dates in. On one date, I took her out to dinner first (date 3). We had made verbal plans for a 4th date, 5 days after the 3rd…
/r/seduction21/10/25 02:33 PM
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It even happens to celebs I guess like Johnny Depp. And gangster rappers who write songs about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 11:02 PM
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Sure. I’ve always lifted and been jacked/successful my entire life. But once I had sex with a girl 1x I thought was attractive, I would fixate only on that girl, stop dating other girls, tolerate disrespect, orbit them. Etc. I mostly would date girls for 2 months and then they’d break up with me and not give a fuck. Cause I displayed beta behavior. I had 1 long term LTR during this period. My brain was programmed to be nice to them, call them back immedetiately, chase them if they ignored me. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 08:21 PM
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This is the cycle: - I go on dates and outwardly and internally am a chad - date a few women at once - one likes me the most and I also like them - girl asks to be my exclusive girlfriend - I agree - then they’re my exclusive GF - the 5 year one ended 1.5 years ago - but yes, I need to learn to say “no,” and be more selective
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 07:03 PM
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What you’re saying is correct and makes sense
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 07:01 PM
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lol. Sure I bet it will. But like what should I be doing actively to get my mojo back
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:34 PM
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Yeah I lift 4x per week every week for past 20 years. I don’t take any hormone medication. Everything you say makes sense though
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:31 PM
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Alright, I’ll be introspective. had relationship for 5 years with a girl who truly loved me and cared for me, and I loved her very much. She kept gaining weight, I lost sexual interest and didn’t want to have sex with her. Eventually found she was cheating on me nonstop on work trips. Kicked her out of my house…. This was 1.5 years ago. From here I was pissed for 2 weeks but immediately hit the pavement dating. Had failures on first dates because I was rusty…. But eventually got 2 GF’s ad the sa…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:20 PM
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Millennials will be between ages 45-60 in 2040 bro
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 04:03 PM
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Sounds like your idea of “9’s and 10’s” are tattooed Instagram baddies that live off other guys’ money. Only considering looks when talking about the 1-10 rating scale. My idea of a 9-10 girl is a chick who is: very fit, has normal $75K+ job with room for growth, is mostly sane, is nurturing, doesn’t have insane family issues or traumatic upbringing, has stylish clothing and good makeup/hair/grooming habits. A complete thot hairdresser with giant booty and titties wielding her recent eviction no…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 03:55 AM
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No, it’s the same
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:32 PM
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I was actually in this situation recently. 2 hot chicks I met. Started casually dating both. They both were all over me and into me. They both asked me to be their boyfriend at the same time. I said yes to both of them. Then I had 2 exclusive girlfriends who didn’t know about eachother for 2 months. Wasn’t paranoid because they were in different cohorts. Age 26 and 39. Eventually one of them started disrespecting me subtly, so I walked away and dated the other one actually exclusively for 8 mont…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/25 05:56 AM
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Gotcha. I’ve heard the same thing on popular YouTube vids, and from my few friends who are extremely successful with women. I have a hard time not trying to escalate on first date (touch, kiss, makeout, try to get her back home), because i envision it too much as a completion with myself. And I fear coming off as “too weak” and “not confident enough to escalate.” So… I basically ALWAYS try to escalate. Often to my benefit (being home and have sex, or get 2nd date). But I think sometimes to my de…
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:23 AM
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I totally understand, and have been there. And will be there again. Just have to move forward. Girls often put on a show, and will deny you after date even if you F-closed or had her on top of you in the car. It’s because of scarcity mindset. Need to have abundance mindset. And also work on personal goals.
/r/seduction07/05/25 04:03 AM
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Build pipeline of dates on online dating. Go on dates. Some of them will be good hopefully and you will K close, F close, and setup second dates. Before those second dates, have 1-2 first dates set up with other women and repeat. Takes a lot of time (A LOT!) initially, but if successful you’ll end up with 1 girl on roster who likes you locked in. And then scout for #2
/r/seduction07/05/25 04:01 AM
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💯agree
/r/seduction07/05/25 04:00 AM
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Can you explain the general trajectory of your first and second dates? How does escalation process, when is first kiss, when ask back to your place, etc? Been there & done that. But interested in the strategy you find most effective. As far as escalating hard vs. holding back.
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:59 AM
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I think you should always try to get them back to your house on first date. But don’t be overly pushy if they say no or are unsure. In that case, have another date. As long as you don’t seem desperate, they’ll think more highly of you if you somewhat go for it. Can always do 2nd date if they don’t want to.
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:52 AM
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I was 32. pulled a 39 year old fitness MILF who owned her own brick and mortar business with 50 employees (CEO of company). She built the company from the ground up and was super hot and looked 29. Wake up at 5am, get PRP therapy and Botox in face, hit gym, run 5 miles. Hire and fire people. You could google her name and find 100 videos of her leading conferences in her field and doing fitness and shit. And find company website. She would post daily fitness videos on Instagram to boost her brand…
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:46 AM
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What about them aren’t working for you? do you get matches? do your matches talk to you? do you get your matches out on dates for drinks? do you perform well and have good convos on dates? At what point do you feel like you’re failing? Also, is your profile optimized and have you paid for the subscriptions on Bumble and Hinge so you can see who matches with you? as a man, even a super attractive one, it’s a waste of time and worthless to not pay for the subscriptions. Pointless to waste hours sw…
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah it’s simple. Just don’t tell them unless backed into a corner. Even then, makes most sense to not answer or lie at first. Unless you’ve been dating multiple of Them for over a month and multiple explicitly ask for an exclusive relationship
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:18 PM
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Don’t tell them unless they explicitly ask. That’s dumb. Dont go to the EXACT bar that one of them frequently go to, and you’re fine.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:15 PM
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Best way is to Take a date with you for new years
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:13 PM
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You’re 34 and you started snap chatting a woman instead of getting her number. Come on. Also, why would you invest in someone who lives 30 miles away. Just move on to new prospects.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:13 PM
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Literally just go on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge. Then invite girls to first date to get drinks at night, after dark. Then during the date, kiss them a little bit. Have 2+ drinks each. After 2 hours, invite her back to your house.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:11 PM
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Depends what Happened on the first date. Go to pool, or go on a run, or invite to my house
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:09 PM
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1) get 1 job. A man shouldn’t need to do shift work if multiple jobs to support himself. Study or learn a skill to get a better job where you work 40 hours per week max 2) don’t marry someone if you’re already having these problems
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:50 AM
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If you have good arms, then definitely wear short sleeves.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:09 AM
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I only do first dates 1) after dark and 2) for drinks. This eliminates such problem
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:06 AM
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How many have you F closed?
/r/seduction22/12/24 06:39 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/12/24 05:49 AM
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There is no difference. All will fuck a man they see as being high value
/r/seduction22/12/24 05:48 AM
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Lmfao
/r/seduction22/12/24 05:47 AM
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I agree with this list. I am same age and have had success doing the same framework. One thing I’d kinda change, or draw attention to is this: waiting until the very end of the date to kiss shows weakness and will reduce likelihood of closing. Better to kiss her 1 hour in and continue the date for a while. Don’t continue mega escalating unless she wants to. But make it clear half way or 2/3 way thru date you can be physical. Then save main making out for home. So she has more reason and mystery …
/r/seduction18/11/24 05:16 AM
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Get hotter by working out, having good hygiene, makeup, good haircut, sexy clothing, etc. I doubt your face is severely deformed. Anyone can become an 8/10 just from trying
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:33 AM
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Start dating 1-2 other women
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:55 AM
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Could be love bombing and trying to seduce you to gain her trust. But if you’re mentally tough and not a pussy, this shouldn’t faze you. Smash her if she’s hot. Date her for a bit, and deduce for yourself if she is being malicious with her intent or if she is genuinely just interested in you. Have you guard up but trust in yourself that you won’t get sucked into the black hole of a toxic woman. Girls do this to me a lot. Usually not until after the first date or after we’ve smashed. If out of th…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:53 AM
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Tells you you respond too slow? Maybe a red flag, maybe not. Depends if you’re actually slow. Also depends on if she communicates it politely or with a shitty or unhinged attitude. “Gets really angry” - anyone getting really angry at you after only dating you for 1 month is an extreme red flag. Unless you do some horrendous shit to her, in which you’re the red flag.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:50 AM
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indeed
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:04 PM
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Did you F close any of them on first date?
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:04 AM
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How TF do you manage to sleep with most on dating apps? My problem is I can get on a date with anyone from dating apps, but can’t get them to agree to come back to my house. And I’m really good looking
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:51 AM
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Okay gotcha. Thanks
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:36 PM
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Nice bro. I’m gonna try this. The same quality and type of woman (high value women) you’d take on a date are also the ones you invite to your place? Or are you downgrading on looks and classiness for the ones that come directly to your place?
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:49 PM
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Gotcha. I tried a FaceTime call with one girl, but she wasn’t into it. Wasn’t into FaceTiming. Still met up with her and made out at bar though. What’s the “activity” that you suggest you guys are gonna do at your house? What do you actually end up doing? How do you escalate, and what’s the average time from them walking in the door, to you having sex with them?
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:14 PM
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Excellent write up and success. I have made out with each of my dates so far at the bar, or also in parking lot/car. Maybe I’ll try to hold back more, to add to mystique and make it seem less like I’m going for sex. I’ll keep some of your tips in mind. How many of your 14 hookups have led to a 2nd or 3rd “date” or meetup? Also, how many dates per week with unique chicks were you going on. Bout to be 4 in a week for me (I keep dates to 2 hours) and it’s mentally exhausting. I can do it, but it ta…
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:00 PM
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What’s your age and the age of your dates? How do you pull off the “come to my place” as first date. I’m 32. Been on OLD before and done this. But just got out of 5 year relationship trying to re-learn.
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:09 AM
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How do you close with sex on first date everytime. I just got out of 5 year relationship like 10 days ago. Went on 3 dates (one girl was super ugly wouldn’t have banged)… so let’s say 2. 1 girl was super hot but clearly going to bathroom to use cocaine (lmfao). And I called her out and she wouldn’t admit it. She was a nutcase. Other woman was age 42 single mom. Had great personality looked okay. Both girls I made out with publicly, one I made out in her car and grabbed boob (the 42 year old mom)…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:01 AM
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The way I previously dealt with my neediness 6 years ago when struggling with it (and which worked) was this: I go on dates with women and start “seeing” (and having sex) with 1 woman even if I really like this women, I continue dating new women until I find 1 or 2 other women that I am “seeing” (and also having sex with) somewhat regularly when my emotional brain pulls me to only focus on one woman, and neediness happens, I pull back from the main woman which I have feelings for, and do my own …
/r/seduction28/07/24 08:36 PM
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Indeed
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:40 PM
5

Don’t talk to her again unless she initiates
/r/seduction15/06/24 10:18 PM
14

No. But like… if you age terribly and don’t exercise, and are balding, and look 39 when you’re 30, and have weird not current clothing style… you’ll look like a creep. Goes for anything. Just be attractive and you can still club when you’re 40. It’s not weird cause chicks will find you attractive. If you’re a fat slob and old it’s creepy. But by that age you probably wouldn’t want to anymore.
/r/seduction15/06/24 09:28 PM
1

Seems like you think these random people at your job are “high earners” just because they earn like $200K. That isn’t a ton of money. And working a W2 job doesn’t build wealth. You have to have active investments to build wealth. Those dudes aren’t mega successful. They’re Joe’s who are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:27 PM
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