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Because if you are truly happy what could be better than that? Coping leaves something to be desired.
/r/seduction03/11/22 11:14 PM
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Yes but also these material things reflect non-material things about yourself
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:08 AM
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That's why you should exclusively pull well off / rich girls so that they are used to it. They appreciate your success and hard work and are attracted to that, rather than your lifestyle.
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:19 PM
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Imagine a girl reads dating advice on the Women's Dating Help forum: “I’m fat.” There are some men who put emphasis on weight, and there’s nothing you can do about that. Move on. You see chubby girls with handsome men all the time. The weight requirement is usually a fabrication of the online dating world. A gregarious personality and confidence is far more powerful than weight. Ye ok, still not banging a fat girl. Let's not be delusional here. For women weight matters. Being fat makes things 10…
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:58 AM
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I will voraciously lick your voluptuous bosom
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:36 AM
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I found mine at the library. She was unsure about dating me at first because she thought my lifestyle was too wild because I do music and go to a lot of parties. She preferred me to be reliable, mature, and kind. Luckily she gave me a chance and realized that's how I actually was and the fuckboy musician thing was all an act. And I know she is a good girl because I know her values, what she gets excited by, and what she wants in her future. The only downside is before her I didn't give a fuck ab…
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:56 PM
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I mean if you look in the right places you can increase your chances.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:34 AM
10

Boy u a munch
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:23 AM
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How is it homophobic to call someone gay if they don't want to be with women sexually
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:42 PM
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I'm good looking but again, I'm 5'6. Under 6'
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:42 AM
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yeah ofc
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:03 PM
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Bro I'm a short Indian from sac and I found a girl here, it definitely is possible! I also lived on the east coast but found more like in the west because I'm into Indian girls
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:56 PM
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I'm half a foot shorter than him, also Indian, and have dated a popular model with 300k followers as well as some amazing hot girls. I did it by having confidence in myself based on my worth ethic and intelligence, getting a high paying job and healthy fun lifestyle, and making friends with cool and active people like musicians, dancers, etc
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:54 PM
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You need to spend more time putting yourself out there and finding new girls and less time working on yourself. Working on yourself is a lifelong process, you can't put your life on hold for that. I'm short, skinny, Asian, and still pull baddies. You just gotta trick yourself into thinking you're him
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:47 AM
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Bro I got rejected by ugly fat girls and have been chased by a hot international model with hundreds of thousands of followers. Girls have types, you are good enough.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:56 AM
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It is, I'm a pretty normal dude that just got a bit lucky with my career and certain living situations and I'm dating way out of my league. I just needed some initial luck to get validation from one hot girl and now the rest of them follow
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:14 PM
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In that case you have the right attitude and everything will work out for you! Don't stress, as long as you be yourself and keep trying to escalate with her by touching her appropriately and teasing her, you'll be golden
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:13 PM
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That's a bad attitude to have. You're a catch and there are definitely girls out there that would find you hot. The challenge is finding these girls and seducing them. Instead of obsessing over one girl it would be better for you to talk to multiple women. I get friendzoned all the time but I don't care because I talk to a lot of girls that do like me. I have a girlfriend now but before that I would never obsess over a girl
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:19 AM
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Hard disagree, I found her. I kept her in the dark about the money and even told her I don't have social media until very recently. If you can make a girl feel strong positive emotions about you without using money or status you're golden. It's hard though
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:00 AM
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It helps a lot. So does being rich. But at the end of the day these two things made it hard for me to find a woman that actually liked me for me and that I could spend the rest of my life with. And I did end up finding her by hiding my money and status from her so I knew she didn't care about it.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:37 AM
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I'm signed to a record label as a singer and they gave me press so I could get verified
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:58 AM
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I don't give girls my number, only ask for their Instagram. Then later I'll follow them and since I'm verified they are always surprised and message me haha
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:08 PM
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I love America though
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:02 PM
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His watch is slutty
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:32 PM
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Bro I'm like a 5/10 physically probably but I think of myself as a 10/10 with the total package and people treat me that way. For example, I assume every hot girl I talk to is into me, and somehow having this assumption makes me attractive to them and helps me pull
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:22 PM
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I don't give a fuck if u think I'm a beta, I'm rich, a startup owner, and have a loyal girl that's gonna be my wife soon
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:33 PM
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Bruh I'm 5'7 and my girl is hotter than 99% of these 6'3 dudes girls
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:28 PM
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The real answer is be attractive. If you're attractive she will chase you. A lot of this is in our control, I'm short and skinny, but I work out, get cool hair cuts, and am smart. I also genuinely vibe with her which makes her always want to talk to me and I take good care of her too
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:19 PM
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Bruh I did this to a super hot girl so I wasn't intimidated by her and then she ended up liking me but I couldn't see her the same way so use with caution 💀
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:38 PM
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Lmao yeah I love how this guy is bragging about being down bad
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:20 PM
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Hot successful guys
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:08 PM
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Zach Wilson burner account
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:23 PM
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Yeah this works for some reason lol just be light-hearted about it
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:28 AM
19

Say that's dope and move on to a new topic
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:27 AM
1

You be a man and tell them to stop because it's lame
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:32 PM
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Bruh u are sped
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:30 PM
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As someone happily dating an Instagram model with 300k followers I'd like to offer another perspective. She doesn't take herself or her Instagram too seriously, just treats it as a tool to get stuff like money, connections, etc. to do actual productive things in the world. Also, she looks even better without makeup imo. Her Instagram also gives her confidence in her self which I appreciate. It is a little scary that she has more "backup options" than me but I do think she's smart enough to know …
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:14 PM
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Lol a girl was covid positive but wanted to see me so she didn't tell me, I'd prefer if she'd just reschedule like u haha
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:13 AM
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Who cares about what other people are doing, I want to do what makes me happy. Not everyone is impressed by a Playboy lifestyle
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:16 PM
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Same but I don't let that stop me
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:35 PM
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I'm short and skinny and I get dates and laid very often by hot women. It's cuz I have an attractive face, make a lot of money, good potential, great personality, and high status
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:55 PM
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Helps a shit ton, I'm verified on there and 90% of girls get really excited if I follow them back lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:23 AM
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If you're insecure then that sounds bad but I don't mind that my girl is desired by a lot of men online, cuz I know we're a good team and she loves me.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:22 AM
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The stupid girls that he isn't able to have have sex with of course lmaooo
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:08 AM
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Yeah exactly be a musician, it gives me an excuse to work with hot and talented girls that either catch feelings for me or are great attractive friends
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:36 AM
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I'm dating a model and I must say your situation is fucked because you feel below her and she maybe will pick up on it. My girl also gets dms from hot dudes and celebs, but I feel secure because I know I'm also a catch and we make a great team. If you don't wanna commit that much energy just use her to find other girls
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:53 PM
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Exactly and people would be surprised, average or ugly girls can be hoes, and super attractive single girls can not. It all depends where they are in life
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:32 PM
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Sometimes I took "not needing her" too far and would not express that I do want her. You just have to balance it. Like don't call her every day but also don't ignore her texts. Say you want her but don't crave her attention
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:35 PM
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I'm fine with not getting laid because I am looking for very specific things in a girl. My hand can do as good of a job as some random girl, but if I have an actual connection with her and am highly attracted then it feels so much better
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:52 PM
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Yeah, if you really like talking to her then have some phone sex and invite her for a future trip or hit her up when ur in the area. If the girl really really likes you she might move to wherever you are but that's harder to do lol, I've pulled it off tho
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:50 PM
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For a different perspective: 5'7 brown indian, skinny, average looking, smart, rich, talented, get the girls. The thing is I know the type that likes me and I go for them, and I rely a lot on social circle games cuz I have too tier social circles
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:14 AM
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Yeah I wish someone told me this sooner. I used to never want to start the gym grind because I thought seeing results would take way too long and I'd give up after a week of feeling weak. But I stuck with it and started feeling way stronger by week 5 and started getting compliments by both girls and guys by week 10. Now I'm dating models and shit 😎
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:06 AM
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You'd be surprised how much you can level the playing field by having some game and bringing value beyond your looks. My proof is that I'm dating a girl who gets hit on whenever we go out and celebs try to slide into her dms etc., But she wants me. But we have the same interests, she finds me smart, and is attracted to my confidence so in her eyes I become hotter.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:09 PM
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Facts but at the end of the day who cares. Sure I may have to work a little harder to get the girls I want but I'm blessed with health, intelligence, money, and talent.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:19 AM
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You need to know where attractive girls hang out. I learned this by getting hot friends who were girls, they opened a lot of doors for me.
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:40 PM
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Ask to get tested together then
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:49 PM
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I always want the hottest girl at the event and will never reject myself based on their perceived pickiness. I've seen a girl reject every guy she talked to besides me. I've also seen a girl reject an A list celebrity, and I dated her for a while lol
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:40 PM
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True, but in 99% of cases unless a girl is genuinely busy, if she likes you, she's gonna reply quickly
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:21 PM
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Yeah I've seen first hand, when a girl wasn't into me she'd reply after hours, now that she's into me she responds within 5 minutes 90% of the time.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:54 PM
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Usually when girls get naked for you it's a good sign...
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:53 PM
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Lmao bro r u an incel or something, just because you can't pull 9s doesn't mean they only go for hot looking guys. I have a 7/10 face and 5/10 body (short and skinny) but I'm always iced out, make good money, and have high social status which is way more attractive than a pretty face and big muscles. I'm also confident because of these things and satisfied with life which women admire. Sure there's a lot of gold diggers but there's also hot women that genuinely think my success makes me more att…
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:29 PM
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Lmao people on reddit are so salty whatever tho
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:23 PM
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Nah looks don't matter I'm pretty ugly but I'm high status, rich, and successful and I'm dating a hot asf internationally published model with 100k followers on Instagram
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:56 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:37 PM
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You can keep her hooked over video call tho
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:01 PM
0

How the convo actually goes: You: "you're the kind of girl I would invite over to watch a movie, and not watch the movie" Her: "omg hahahaha" You: ...
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:40 AM
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Why do you care? Just go for it, ask out girls, get rejected, grow
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:13 PM
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To your last point, people do think like that lol. "I would never join a club that would have me as a member" - Groucho Marx
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:41 AM
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Tldr keep your unpopular opinions to yourself at work and throw them out there occasionally on dates
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:35 AM
2

I've actually started writing a weekly diary, and it definitely does help! I've noticed I feel guilty when I'm not honest to myself in my diary, and since no one is going to see it I force myself to be vulnerable and separate my persona from my reality. You're definitely right though, my persona meshes with me as a person
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:00 AM
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Yeah I'm kinda using the musician thing as a crutch and not being active about finding girls in different settings. I just haven't had to actually pursue a girl in a long time and I don't interact with many girls that aren't in my social circle.
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:50 AM
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Bruh you're being used u simp
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:08 AM
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Lmao but if you can get to the top 10% then it's an absolute dream
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:12 PM
1

I am family oriented, interesting observation I'll look into them. Previously I've dated models/influencers and singers, hasn't been great lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 10:07 PM
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I'm not into them though, I know a lot of them went through a ho phase and now just want to settle.
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:52 PM
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Wow this was actually extremely helpful! You're spot on it's hard to ignore the attention I get from the groupies, and it's definitely a confidence boost. I actually have my eyes on a girl right now that seems like she could be what I'm looking for but I'm nervous I already fucked it up because I met her after performing. Maybe I need to escalate more slowly with her and try being sweeter
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:04 PM
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Fuck bro idk I feel like me being myself should get them wet. I'm pretty cool. There have been some girls that have rejected me because they think I'm too much of a player (I found out from mutual friends). I want to find a non slutty girl that actually genuinely likes me and isn't attracted to me because they think I fuck a lot lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:03 PM
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The problem is if I don't talk about other women then I don't know if my girl would be the type that gets turned on by that, which I don't want. It's like a catch 22, how do I attract the women I want when my image attracts women that are the opposite of what I want?
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:41 PM
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I'm having a hard time finding out what being myself means. When I make music I have to create a certain image for myself (aloof playboy). Girls legitimately expect me to be like that.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:34 PM
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Can confirm, have money and status and get 10s but most of the time it's not worth it. It's hard to determine who's with you for the experiences you provide vs who actually likes you.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:14 PM
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It's cuz you talked to her too much and gave her all the attention she needs all at once. This makes her subconsciously think of you as less valuable, people want what they can't have. "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member" - Groucho Marx
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:25 AM
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I would've just said "thanks" but her response isn't too negative so you're probably good. Next time save it for in person
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:26 PM
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All models are different though! Yes some are vapid and boring but others have a lot going for them and just happen to be hot too
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:40 PM
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Bro I'm shorter than my girl, might weigh less than her, and she is objectively hot asf and is a published model. I just have a lot to offer. I have extremely high status in our social circles, and am really talented. I also make good money but so does she so I imagine that's not as important. But us "twinks" have a lot going for us that u can't see.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:35 PM
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Just say something cocky like "you have good taste in guys 🥺😍"
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:31 AM
2

When I'm leading her somewhere I stick out my hand and usually she grabs on to it. That starts by breaking the touch barrier. After that if she seems into it I just keep holding her hand
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:24 AM
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I'm signed to a record label and their marketing team was able to get me in some press releases that helped me get verified.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:51 AM
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Why u hating on someone u don't know man? I'm not narcissistic, if u know me u know I'm just trying to help my family friends and community. But I am very ambitious and am realistic about the value social status brings.
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:36 PM
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I am young but I also have had meaningful relationships. I just have really big goals for myself and I don't want to live a boring life with boring people. I need people that are at my level of ambition and are realistic about what it takes
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:29 PM
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Bro being high status is exciting for everyone once you're on the inside. Once you get a taste for it you'll understand and I don't blame girls for getting addicted to it. It's not about what others think about you. It's about the opportunities that open up when you have status. People invite me to once in a lifetime events. If I have a business idea, I can get investors immediately through connections. If I need a favor done in any city, I know someone that can help. Girls are obviously attract…
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:33 PM
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Lmao bro I don't buy them shit, most of the girls probably spent more on me than I have on them haha. I'm also not that rich like I have much richer friends that don't get these girls. I do have status like I'm verified on Instagram and friends with a lot of famous people. But girls just like to be around me because I have a good life and they want to be a part of it. And then the dick keeps them hooked.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:49 PM
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Are you talking about physical attractiveness? If so you're completely wrong. I'm short, skinny, and average looking. But I've dated girls that people would consider 10s (models with 300k followers, business owners, singers etc. that are all hot asf). And their self esteem is fine, some of them think too highly of themselves lol. The reason is because I'm successful, make good money, good social proof, good ambition, and have solid game. Girls care about how you make them feel. Looks is just one…
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:48 PM
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Yeah but you don't lose much by sending a message, worst case she doesn't respond. Just go for it if you see a hot girl on ig
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:48 AM
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Hmm I mean now I do have lots of followers and am verified but even before I had some success DMing random girls in my city. More ig clout just makes it a little easier
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:25 PM
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You can if you have a good profile
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:27 PM
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I'm okay with being in the friendzone if she can help me get other pussy. I've been friendzoned by a lot of models I work with but they invite me to parties where I meet other girls who are dtf. That's how I met my ex actually
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:12 AM
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🥺 cope commie
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:59 PM
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I mean in my experience girls do it once or twice early on to make sure you don't act like an asshole and then stop. The best response is to not react and be uninterested "oh really that's crazy lol"
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:16 PM
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Facts bro u don't want to be a clown it's tiring and predictable. Fuck around in different ways like being quiet, telling stories, just listening to her talk and being normal
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:41 AM
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I have trouble with this. I'm usually free whenever she hits me up because we both are busy during the day. But it works both ways, she's usually free when I hit her up, and it seems like we both enjoy how it's going so far. Would be a shame to turn her off if I'm being too available, but faking being busy seems kinda stupid
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:58 AM
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If I can't think of anything to say I just say. Sorry I didn't hear anything u just said you're voice is too soothing/sexy/insert compliment here.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:04 AM
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No, it makes you look salty lol. What he said is perfect, acknowledge what she said and make yourself clear. I know cuz I've tried both and only one leads to good results
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:04 PM
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Science 😂 I've had shits come out my ass that contain more science than whatever ur saying
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:30 PM
1

Yeah I'm addicted to seduction lol. Seduction is always important even when you're in a relationship. My last one didn't last cuz I got lazy at you and blamed my problems on others
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:17 PM
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I'm rich, talented, and dating a hot and intelligent model lmao I don't need a lecture about capitalism from you
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:01 PM
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Nerd
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:46 AM
0

Me, my hair grows fast and I love looking sharp and fresh. Plus I'm rich so it's not a problem for me. I don't do it specifically for girls but my girl does love it when I get a fresh cut.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:52 AM
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I got more girlfriends being dishonest and saying I just wanted sex lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:29 PM
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Love is capitalism, it's always been so. Look at nature, animals try to impress their mates and show high value so they get chosen. That's a wonderful thing. I want to show girls that I bring a lot to the table, and I will choose girls similarly. The connection is what will be used to filter out people, but connection isn't something you only have with one person. You can connect with someone that offers value
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:52 PM
0

How is a fresh fade beta lmaooo. He's not getting his eyebrows waxed
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:45 PM
1

Whatever bro at the end of the day whatever I'm doing is helping me attract hot girls I actually like so I'm not gonna confuse myself but you do you
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:23 PM
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I love hippie vegan antivax girls but the far left ones are too scary lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:21 PM
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No, I attract hot girls that get a lot of attention but choose me because I have great things going on in my life so I don't overload her with attention. Of course I want to connect and build a connection but the way to do that is not overinvesting up front but building it over time. That way our connection isn't built on lust / the rose tinted glasses effect. With your "building connections" method aka being horny and making her the sole focus of attention, you are guaranteed to scare away the …
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:26 PM
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Lmao bruh the top tier girls want you to look fresh so they can flex you to their friends
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:42 PM
0

Crazy cat women have been great to fuck in my experience
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:39 PM
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This guy blaming getting no pussy on capitalism lmaoo
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:11 PM
1

You want to attract women that want you to be clingy and needy? Trust me if a hot girl wanted that she has thousands of options ahead of you.
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:09 PM
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Basically in your subclass you need to override loadMetadata() execute(_:with:) newValuesForObject(with:with:) newValue(forRelationship:forObjectWith:with:) obtainPermanentIDs(for:) Make sure not to override newObjectID(for:referenceObject:) referenceObject(for:) You can choose to override identifierForNewStore(at:) managedObjectContextDidRegisterObjects(with:) managedObjectContextDidUnregisterObjects(with:)
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:32 AM
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Lmao like I didn't logistically plan it out cuz it seemed unlikely lol.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:03 PM
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That is indeed hard mode. But the fact that you're not a virgin means a girl was attracted enough to fuck you. You should have insane confidence, despite playing on hard mode you've had better results than some of the guys here that can't get laid. Btw I'm balding too but I hide it. Money can cure baldness too, I recommend getting money it solves all problems
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:04 PM
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Nah I stop being needy when my needs are met, and they are. But whatever you're entitled to your opinion. I'm getting great results with what I'm doing, actually just started dating a hot asf model with 100k followers on Instagram that I met online lol
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:53 PM
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I'm not him, but I'm 5'7-5'8, skinny but toned, and have an average face (girls don't give me compliments about it except once or twice in my life). Literally within 6 months of me hitting the gym I was able to date a model with 300k Instagram followers. It helped that I had a shared hobby with her, had decent social clout, and make a good amount of money, but she's also clearly physically attracted to me. People are attracted to the best versions of multiple different types. Just be the best ve…
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:50 PM
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Facts bruh. I invited this super hot model to travel with me cuz I thought it'd help me fuck other girls if so she came to places with me. Like I didn't even think about fucking her cuz I thought she'd be out of my league. But she was the only girl I was fucking the whole trip and I ended up dating her lol
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:45 PM
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You're fucked if you think she's out of your league buddy
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:48 AM
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I don't think my advice would be applicable to everyone, I make music. My social proof is pictures with famous singers I've collabed with that comment on my stuff and then a bunch of bragging posts about my music accomplishments lol. I guess just focus on getting food at your hobby so you can get recognition for it lol. Vague but it gives me purpose
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:56 PM
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I've only been with US born Indian girls because they're more relatable to me as I'm also US born
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:54 PM
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Both Instagram and real life. It started on Instagram, I would game the women but be cool if they rejected me and would build my social network that way. Some would invite me to their parties with hella hot girls and mini celebs so I would game them IRL. Now I'm verified on Instagram so I've been relying on it haha
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:40 PM
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I'm an Indian guy and exclusively date Indian girls now for compatibility reasons. In my experience some Indian girls are insecure about their race. I hate these girls and will try to identify ASAP who they are so I can steer clear. The remaining 25% are amazing and we click so much better than I do with other races.
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:26 PM
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Yoooo do you ___? You look like you do haha
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:11 PM
1

Ur so needy lol I think this girl becoming a doctor is a little more important than ur date
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:11 PM
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I didn't understand this until I experienced it. I always thought I was below average and insecure, and it came off that way when I talked to girls. Looking back, some of them may have been interested but were turned off cuz if I don't believe I'm attractive then they don't either. Then I started working out and something just switched. I was still small and had only noob gains but I really felt attractive and I'd act like it when I'm talking to girls. Then I was able to attract girls that are w…
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:30 PM
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Bro I'm not needy anymore because my needs are fulfilled by pointless hoes so when I interact with women I actually like I'm able to be normal and not down bad. I also just got verified on Instagram which has helped a lot with reaching out to random hot girls that live in cities around the world I don't have text convos but I do have convos on FaceTime. Texting is just for random comments building sexual tension and setting up date
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:48 AM
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This is so true lol. I'm verified on Instagram and it helps soooo much
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:32 AM
2

And I'm 5'7 yet am able to get with hot girls I met there. Even people on dating apps don't care as much as people think
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:37 PM
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I travel a lot cuz I own a business and also do music. Usually I text and FaceTime girls a week or so before I'm in their city. I'm able to build sexual tension which is fun for both parties and makes it way easier once we are in person. Also I have some girls I text with a bit more like send a couple flirty messages back and forth every day. It's fun for me cuz before I used to be needy and always crave validation from girls too much but now I have a bunch giving me validation by flirting with …
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:47 PM
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You don't build attraction and escalate? Lmao wtf so u only like fucking whores then
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:02 PM
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Nah bro you just don't know my vibes. Men who have options do whatever they want. I like texting girls because I'm too busy to go on dates with all of them if we don't end up building mutual attraction. But after texting+facetiming I can gauge if she's dtf or a timewaster I am not scared of women lol but I am young at 22 and very busy so I know this is the easiest way to get girls I want. Congrats for fucking but I don't consider texting and calling time wasting if I actually enjoy it and it lea…
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:01 PM
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I agree it was over by the time he went on the first date, but texting a girl can definitely help build attraction if you do it properly and in a fun way. I feel it's outdated advice to just recommend not texting the girl. It's just don't text about boring stuff and try too hard. When I text girls I send whatever funny/flirty shit is on my mind and I mix it up by sending voice memos back and forth too. Then sometimes they call me or we do FaceTime which makes it even easier to flirt and build se…
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:44 PM
0

I don't tell girls that I like them but for you I might make an exception
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:30 AM
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Unless you do so in a joking way, like pretend to deny just cuz ur embarrassed about it
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:20 AM
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Fax bro and then later FaceTime her. Some girls might find it weird or u catch them off guard but I just say oh I was looking fresh asf so I wanted to FaceTime so I can look at myself They find it funny and love facetiming after that
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:35 AM
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Orrr, you could just be honest with her, don't overly compliment her, and tease her like a normal fucking human being. This shit might get u laid but only with mentally ill annoying bitches
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:32 AM
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Hahahaha dude I made her blink 153 times is this good enough to get me laid? I read that if she blinks she's into me
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:31 AM
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Ngl this is the wrong mentality. Everyone thinks like you do and the average girls end up having 100 options while the hot girls have 10 real options and 1000 simps with no chance. I dated a model with 300k followers on Instagram. Big name celebs were in her DMs even before we started dating but I didn't care, I knew I was the one for her because we actually connected. I didn't feel like I was competing with anyone because I knew she liked me. She ended up breaking up with me but it was because …
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:50 PM
2

Listen to Chris brown but don't act like him please lol
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:46 PM
4

80% of people that think they're physically unattractive can just get a cool haircut, shave, wear cooler clothes, and they will be set. And women see you based on how you act in tandem with how you look. They're not visual creatures like us, they are way more emotional. I know because I used to think I was unattractive but I fixed my style and hair, improved my confidence and wardrobe, and now I've gotten with girls that wouldn't even acknowledge my presence before
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:42 PM
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Bro I'm 5'7 135 pounds and get hot girls it's not all about muscles. It helps that I have a good face, make good money, have social status, and good game
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:40 AM
2

I am talking about house parties / frat parties but good ones
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:11 AM
2

Ur going to some lame ass parties then if u can only find Becky's. I guess you do need a strong social circle so you can get invited to the best parties, but there are a shit ton of options and you can shoot your shot to multiple girls at once.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:02 AM
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Meet girls naturally at parties, get introduced to them, flirt, escalate, date, fuck, marry, have kids, grow old, die
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:00 PM
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Idk, sometimes the sexual confidence can be off-putting, the humor allows the girl to feel more at ease and wondering if I'm just joking or actually mean what I'm saying
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:27 PM
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Yes because it's a subtle and fun way to show you find them attractive
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:03 AM
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Bro if the girl likes you you can text bullshit and she'll still reply. Just move on and keep improving
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:47 AM
1

Yeah but there is certain type of humor that can lead you to hit, like absurd self confidence or sexual flirty humor
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:45 AM
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When she's talking to you and asks a question pretend to not listen and just stare at her smiling, then after shake ur head and say u got distracted lol
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:40 AM
4

Horrible advice. Better advice is never be vulnerable with a girl you just met about something that is in your control. Don't whine
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:37 PM
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Lmao maybe the wannabe white Indian girls are like that but who wants them anyways. Most Indian girls definitely find me being Indian as a plus point. And on tinder I match with almost every Indian girl I swipe right on
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:35 PM
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I disagree, this isn't universally good advice. I've always been a high value guy but haven't been able to get the girls I wanted until recently, because of advice like this. I always thought I wasn't high value enough which is why only normal girls found me attractive. But when I learned how to improve my game and learn about women, I was able to get hot models and other women that I thought were out of my league.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:32 PM
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Or they have goals other than spending 20 hours a week at clubs trying to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:22 PM
3

In my experience I figured it out by disagreeing with her on something I genuinely have a different opinion on and see if I can convince her to see what I think. If I can it also builds attraction.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:28 AM
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There's two types of strong opinionated women. One is those who seem to be strong in their beliefs but when you disagree with them they are willing to concede because they respect you. These types of girls are crazy attractive to me and I just deal with them by not compromising my own values and becoming simpy. The second type is those who will argue with you when you disagree. These are dudes as far as I'm concerned, not attractive
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:52 PM
3

This used to happen to me and then I fixed it to stop drinking to the point of memory loss like a degenerate so I could actually remember the girls I talked to
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:02 PM
2

But even then their record doesn't matter, just the total number of wins
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:35 AM
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When your talking to someone you should look into their eyes, but staring at people in the gym is kinda weird
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:45 AM
1

Bruh why you hating on social circle game, if your circle is large and popping then it is so fun and gets good results
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:00 PM
2

Maybe you're right, but I noticed when girls don't call me annoying then I don't end up taking them home
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:15 AM
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Good idea lol I'm stealing this
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:12 AM
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I flirt with everyone and even I wouldn't say that unless I'm interested in the girl. It's so fucking direct lol he didn't even beat around the bush.
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:26 PM
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Dating is not boxing, we are trying to get the number 1 prize, not collect as many wins as we can. I've lost wayyy more fights than I've won, but the fights I have one have been the best experiences of my life, and have given me the confidence to look for my number 1 prize
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:25 PM
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Nah I talk slow and relaxed af usually, I also love to create awkward silences haha. I'm called annoying because I feel uncomfortable after complimenting them so I usually say something to negate it lol The point of this post was that I used to think being called annoying was a bad sign, but it usually leads to good results for me. Good advice though, people definitely underestimate how far a chill vibe goes.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:19 PM
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Ohhhh shit I'm a dumbass that's what that meant all along
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:14 PM
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Nah, if a girl says these things jokingly you're on the right path, but if everyone in society thinks you're like this then you are probably on the wrong path
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:27 PM
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Lmao yeah at that point they wouldn't even call you annoying though they'd just leave
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:26 PM
1

Yeah this is good advice if you want to have a boring below average unfulfilling love life
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:24 PM
1

I am pretty cocky but sometimes I feel like I'm doing too much
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:32 PM
9

Um I've had the opposite experience. I have two main friend groups, one with regular dudes, and one with famous singers, athletes, actors etc. It's way easier to get better girls in the second group even though I'm not as "Chad" as the other guys. Just be association the girls think I'm on the same social level as these guys, and since they attract hella girls there are always a few to pick from. With regular dudes even though I have the most social value I don't get the best results at clubs an…
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:28 PM
1

Different things, it doesn't really matter what I say at that point because they have an image of me that is advantageous to me. Usually I'm just like "yes why would I change it if it works every time".
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:07 PM
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Haha yeah I actually noticed that if a girl hates my pickup line and makes fun of me for it, I have a wayyy better chance of taking her home then if she compliments me or says thank you. And if she says "do you use that on all your girls" then it's case closed
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:17 AM
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Lmao everyone discouraging using ig is lame. Ig doesn't take a lot of effort and allows you to meet people you never otherwise would. I've met models, athletes, and singers who I've went on dates with. To improve your profile take cool pictures, and throw in some of yourself. Add hashtags that are relevant to people who would like your content, and you can show it to new people you meet when they ask about your hobbies. Also, if you like taking pictures of people, find models and offer to take p…
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:31 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, but one way to make a women "feel" more attracted to you is by being successful, powerful, and achieving goals. Women that leave millionaires for plumbers are because those millionaires are lame and boring, they don't make her feel excited to be a part of their lives
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:47 AM
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I'm rich and I have both an Android and an iPhone. I did an experiment and get better girls when I text them on Android lol.
/r/seduction19/04/22 02:12 AM
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Exactly. Also, if you do want to be validated by women, at least find women that are on a higher level than the ones that get impressed by cars and clothes. Compete with the billionaires and celebrities
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:30 PM
3

There's no secret he's just a dumbass
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:35 PM
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Facts, definitely working on that too
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:37 AM
1

Idk I'm 22 and never really had a self improvement journey, just always did what I wanted
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:36 AM
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Idk, I'm really busy and I get frustrated when I waste my time with girls that I read wrong
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:08 PM
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Filtering out gold diggers isn't too hard. But the fact is that being successful and high status / powerful makes you biologically more attractive, it isn't all about looks.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:21 PM
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Job, wealth, status still matter a lot. I've dated girls that are way out of my league looks-wise but since I have a cool job, am rich, and have a fun high-status lifestyle, they are still attracted to me and think I'm above guys that just have big muscles but nothing else going for them.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:54 PM
1

Hey your willingness to respond positively to others views means you aren't that old 😁
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:26 PM
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You're old bro texting can definitely be used effectively for things other than setting dates. Although yes ultimately dates are the goal
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:04 AM
1

Not putting a label on it is bad advice in my opinion. I always want to make it 100% clear that it's a date and not just friends hanging out. I don't change how I act, instead I just put a label on it and then flirt and escalate as usual. This helps me avoid any time wasters
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:45 AM
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I'm not a supermodel or a huge celebrity, but I am well known and verified on Instagram. Social media allows me to connect with models and celebs, then I get invited to their parties and meet people there
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:42 AM
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As someone currently in the stud phase, I'd say go for it. I've learned so much about girls and have had great times. I also have matured a lot and feel prepared to deal with weird situations. Just make sure you don't turn into an asshole. I noticed that I was starting to become an entitled asshole. This made it easier to attract a certain type of girls but made it harder to have them stick around.
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:40 AM
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If she really wants you then meet half way or make it somehow inconvenient for her too. That way you both have something to lose if it doesn't work out
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:37 AM
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I 100% agree, take it from someone who is popping on Instagram. I spent 2-3 years grinding on my business and my hobby until I became set up for success. After this I was able to create content that people liked and got lots of followers on Instagram. Now I'm able to slide into dms with a very high response rate. I'm able to get dates in different cities and meet people I'd never be able to meet otherwise (models, singers, actresses, etc.) And I don't have to waste time maintaining a bullshit ap…
/r/seduction17/04/22 01:37 AM
1

Idk about Sikh but I'm Hindu and our gods are Female. We treat women well historically, it's just the backwards Muslim invaders brought their cancerous "culture" to India. From my experience Sikhs and Hindus are very pro women
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:43 PM
3

Indian is not middle eastern dumbass
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:08 PM
1

Nah don't confront her about it later even in private. I usually just try to convey that I'm bored because she is being boring. Like you have to show to her that you do not care for the conversation and just be kinda curt and change the subject. This is how you pass the test and it makes her like you more
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:19 PM
1

Check out the comedian Andrew Schultz doing crowd work, he's always cracking up at his jokes. Sometimes he can't even get them out cuz he's laughing so hard, and everyone loves it. Life is fun when you're funny
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:18 AM
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My humor is for my own entertainment, other people find it funny because I laugh at my own jokes. I'm not a comedian but I'm trying to have a good time and make everyone else have a good time too. And that's worked for me so far
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:36 PM
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I've been able to sleep with most of the girls I'm talking about, although to be fair I have other things going for me which may have offset my personality. It's possible which is why I'm avoiding generalizing. But also, my arrogance does tend to appeal to their insecurities. I'm not arrogant about my looks or anything, but I am about my career success.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:18 PM
4

Do you ? You look like you _ haha.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:21 AM
0

In my experience, even if you're right that arrogance is a sign of insecurity, girls often don't pick up on that sign. I'm sometimes extremely arrogant and make it clear I feel I am above other people, and girls pretend to hate it but actually love it. It makes them want to impress me and makes my compliments to them much more meaningful
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:58 PM
2

Haha wild shit, I also pulled a 300k follower influencer but then she got mad at me for flirting with her mom
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:28 PM
2

Maybe some do but I'm 5'7-5'8 and date models in NYC. It does help that I'm popping on Instagram and somewhat wealthy but I'm not that good looking.
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:08 PM
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That's cuz he's old and not attractive. They do thirst over Tom Holland who's short and skinny, but dresses well and has money and status.
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:07 PM
0

Just ignore it, girls don't notice that shit as much as we think they do. There's a vocal minority of girls that heavily favor tall guys but even models I've been with don't care as much about height as they do about other things (money, status, looks, personality)
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:10 PM
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No point asking, don't put so much value in a girl that you need to know
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:54 PM
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I didn't mean it like that, I wouldn't be mad or anything. I just would think she wanted to end the conversation. You should start a new one now! I love it when a girl takes the initiative to start a new convo after the previous one died out
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:48 PM
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If a girl replies "if went fine" then that's the end of the convo lol, I have nothing to respond to. It's on you now to continue the convo
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:41 PM
1

Bruh I know I'm not a celebrity but I'm still a public figure in my niche and people respect that. I've worked with a lot of huge a list celebrities on music and have a very strong network. Plus I've gotten some press which is what allowed me to get verified
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:26 AM
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I don't follow them or like anything, I just reply to a story with a flirty comment while leaving room for plausible deniability. Usually their curiosity is piqued and they respond. Yeah verified helps a lot, but probably some girls would still check the message from a non verified guy if they have a good profile
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:24 AM
0

Okay buddy
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:21 PM
3

I know this is unpopular but when a girl I just met wants me that bad, although it gives me a confidence boost, it makes me less attracted to her. I can't help but think she acts like this to lots of guys and it makes her less valuable to me. How it goes for me is, initially the girl may show a little interest but I've got to be the one taking the lead. This makes me feel more dominant and it's more fun for me.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:09 PM
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You're so right, the anti Instagram people are really missing out. My girlfriend broke up with me and I was worried I'd have to install tinder and would have no luck. But I recently got verified on Instagram and now I can get dates with almost any model I want including influencers with hundreds of thousands of followers. The hard part is keeping her interest after the dates when they realize I'm kinda average looking lol. But so far I have still had way more success than any other thing I could…
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:05 PM
1

I think that's a good idea, most of the girls I met are through music but I might have to diversify to more hobbies I'm interested in. I definitely want to learn how to dance better!
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:00 PM
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I gave better advice when I didn't get girls than now, because it feels more natural to me so I can't pinpoint things I'm doing.
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:21 PM
8

I've gotten pretty good at not getting attached initially. However, my problem is when the girl gets attached. Like this hot girl told me I showed up in her dreams and she moved to my city to live with me. That got me so excited that I couldn't help but think about things I wanted to do with her in the future and it possibly made me act a little differently. Maybe it was a shit test idk?
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:12 PM
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Bruh get a hobby. If I ever am sad a girl hasn't replied yet then clearly I'm not busy enough. I want to be the one that girls get mad at for not replying, but I make it up to them by calling later or meeting up in person.
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:07 AM
1

Yeah so far what's worked is social circle game but I'm starting to use up all the connections I have haha
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:16 AM
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I'm 22, pretty rich (250k salary, fintech), and also a well connected musician, and am about to move to NYC. I have one main problem in my dating life though. I am only attracted to really hot girls that get lots of attention. My looks don't stand out enough, but I know when they get to know me I become wayyy more attractive. But how can I get their attention initially so they can get the complete picture of me? Flashing my money or status seems tacky but idk
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:11 PM
1

You know what you're so right. Sometimes people get jealous so I try to pretend that I feel like an asshole but honestly I don't and I agree with what you said hahaha. You're awesome btw, I can tell you're one of the people on my level too 🥺
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:31 PM
3

Lmao I remember after I bagged my perfect 10 I wrote a fucking 3 page diary entry of mental masturbation
/r/seduction06/04/22 07:07 AM
1

Yeah but I'm still an asshole for acting arrogant about it, a lot of it is luck, destiny, God given talent etc. Stop feeding my ego more, that's what these girls I talk to do and it makes me even more of an asshole lmaoooo
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:10 AM
1

Sometimes I feel like my success/achievements have gone to my head and I feel "above" other people. The toxic part is this arrogance has helped me a lot when it comes to girls. Most girls try hard to impress me and prove they are also on my level, and I think they get attracted to me because of it - like they almost look up to me in a weird way.
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:32 AM
1

If only I wasn't so much of an asshole lol
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:06 PM
1

Bro startups are life they are the best way to change the world and feel you are doing something with your life! So much respect for sticking with it! Cheers
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:05 PM
6

As someone in the top 0.1% of earners I can say that women definitely do care about money at that stage. Even though their worries are not relatable to me, I seem like someone who has it all figured out and they could benefit from getting to know. Combine that with social status, looks, and a little charm, and they become obsessed. This seriously works, a model went from asking me for business advice to saying I fucked her in her dream last night within the span of a week. They just have a diffe…
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:12 PM
1

This makes no sense lol, how do money and status EASILY follow from looks? Even professional male models are usually poor
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:08 PM
1

As someone with money and social status, the social status definitely helps more. I try not to flex my money so only the top vetted girls that like me are really aware of it. But also the top hot girls already have horny rich dudes offering to pay for everything for them. But having social status, like being verified on Instagram, is insane. It instantly makes girls think I'm more attractive and accomplished, and they definitely get excited by the idea of talking to a guy who's "verified on Inst…
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:06 PM
2

Oh, I see. That is a difficult situation and might be worth hiding until you make some friends lol. Like at least don't make it obvious
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:59 AM
3

Yeah that scenario you made up in your head is never what a girl would think. If she likes you she wants reasons to be with you. If you change yourself and try to seem like you have more friends than you do it will only backfire.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:56 PM
10

My girlfriend has literally hundreds of thousands of followers so I feel I'm qualified to answer this question lol. Do not do everything differently. Just make sure you don't get jealous, remind yourself that you choose to be alone. You're a fucking badass. Of course this girl wants you instead of these lame fruity popular guys. As long as you are confident it'll work out.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:07 PM
1

Yeah she love Doggystyle wooooooo
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:56 PM
6

Idk I think there's value in seeing some feel good fluff every once in a while. Sometimes I get in my head about game and technical shit but I realized, I'm attractive and successful, I should just be confident, say what I mean, and girls will want me. I might fuck up and lower my chances slightly but it feels more authentic
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:26 PM
1

More like status digger
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:59 AM
4

If she likes you then she'll respond quickly most of the time
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:14 PM
1

Mainly models, YouTubers, influencers, etc.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:05 PM
1

Yeah you need to have a good profile to get responses
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:35 AM
1

It can be toxic to maintain for sure, but can also be fun and rewarding. Definitely not for everyone
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:35 AM
4

Damn I'm 22 my girl is 29 but she's a popular model / influencer lol. She's not really insecure about much, actually is pretty confident and direct. And I don't feel like a beta bitch when I'm with her, I feel older than her because I'm more successful in some ways than her, even though she has a higher social status. I do have no idea what the futures gonna look like though, but she's really fucking hot so idc right now
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:17 PM
1

On the other hand, in the past I felt limited when I was approaching because I could only seem to pick up a certain type of girl. Playing the social media game helped me find girls I wouldn't be able to interact with in person, including my now gf. There's just so many more people to choose from on social media
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:09 PM
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I mean people do care if a woman does it, I'm 22 and my gf is 29 and we get hate for it sometimes. But at the end of the day if the man to woman power dynamics are still there I don't see any issues with it
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:44 PM
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That isn't how it's been in my experience. The social value is like a hook, it makes the girl initially interested in you. So yes, someone with more social value might get prioritized initially. But true attraction is built after that once they get to know you. This is also the stage where I'm able to filter out golddiggers etc
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:21 PM
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From what I've seen that's not how it usually works. The social status part is like an initial hook, it shouldn't be the basis of the entire attraction. You use the status to get dates/hookups and then the rest of your package to get the girl.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:50 PM
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There's no formal requirements but the reason I got it is I worked with some famous artists and got some press attention. There were also people making fake accounts with my name so I requested verification and they gave it.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:49 PM
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Probably yeah, but I guess there's a lot more of those girls then I thought lol.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:47 PM
2

Definitely, but i've also found calling can build up sexual anticipation over longer periods of time when used well
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:23 AM
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What about calling? I've had success even after talking a lot with a girl on the phone. It's way easier and non cringy to flirt over voice too
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:26 PM
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Well I am very young and I also know that at some point I will want to settle down. But as a young guy it sure is fun. I do look for girls that will reject me, but I put my energy into self improvement and it serves as motivation until they don't reject me. I do have a girlfriend now so I've been doing this less lol
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:09 PM
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Ik like bro???
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:37 PM
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Is that true though? I used to adopt a "fake it til you make it" confidence and cockiness that I only displayed with girls. This got me a lot further than when I used to be myself. Now I actually have that confidence and cockiness lol
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:37 PM
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I think you need to find hotter girls. I still get those butterflies but only with top tier girls. Especially feels good when that girl has lots of horny guys in her DMs and comments but she chooses you
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:27 PM
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Nah bro I respect it never travel for pussy. But if you're traveling it is convenient if there is pussy in the area haha
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:07 PM
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Why not? I mean if you have a trash profile it's not worth it. But I've been able to slide into dms of girls with like 300k followers and I only have 15k. Plus then I don't need to be dependent on finding girls in my area, I can find them in different cities and meet up with them when I'm visiting. It's really fun and effective if you don't care about relationships yet
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:48 PM
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And OP should learn to enjoy the "trying" part too. I have so much fun flirting with girls, seeing how they react, and trying to escalate. It feels like an adventure and is so satisfying when it works out.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:38 PM
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I mean it feels safe. But now that I'm on the other side and able to have great sex with my model gf whenever I want, I definitely feel happier than before lol.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:34 PM
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I'm pretty good at texting. The goal is to make the girl feel emotions. Emotions means they will think about you and want you again, then get her to meet up. One way I do this is flirting by messing with her. Just make jokes and lightly tease her while also not taking yourself too seriously. Like one thing I did recently, I was walking and then I saw a patch of flowers with a boulder in the middle. I took a picture of it and said this rock reminds me of you. She found it really funny cuz she wou…
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:39 PM
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You lucky motherfucker lol
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:30 PM
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What the fuck? Lmao I'd rather have a good convo with a fun guy any day of the week rather than game some hot boring chick. The reason is cuz I'm not desperate, I have an abundance mentality, I know everyone wants me. I don't wanna deprioritize the homies just to pick up girls, I will do what I want and girls will come along for the ride. I met my current girl, a popular model, by talking to a guy at a party. She knew him so she asked him to introduce her to me and the rest is history.
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:33 PM
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There is no chance anyone replying here has sniffed pussy before based on the quality of their ideas lolll
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:12 PM
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I call them dude, bro, my guy, homie, etc while also sexually flirting with them to throw them off. I wanna see you naked my dude
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:00 PM
1

You ah gae
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:57 PM
2

True but I think even more guys use grinding in the gym as an excuse to not approach women. I was one of those guys. I'm 5'7 140 pounds basically no body fat, all muscle. I always thought I needed to gain even more muscle and get ripped since I'm pretty skinny and was self conscious. Then I read something in this sub about not using that as an excuse. I am a pretty confident person about everything but my size, but I faked confidence, and now I'm dating a popular model. She even tells me that I'…
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:25 AM
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Slight caveat, they can be friends if there is an ulterior motive to the friendship (one party hoping it leads to more than friends, one party looking for attention/validation, one party wanting to fuck the other party's friends)
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:16 AM
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I'm not tryna knock you, I'm sure you work very hard! But to be honest I do think it's fair for women to appreciate success in terms of how much value is created for society by this guy. Maybe if you're the type of cashier that talks with the customer and makes their day better, then you're having an impact on people and women would be really attracted to that. In my situation, I own a business that helps disadvantaged people, and I love it when women find that attractive.
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:00 PM
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It's all fun and games until you accidentally believe your own fake self confidence and it turns you into an extremely unhumble narcissistic type person lol. Somehow this is still helping me with girls though. They try to teach me to become more humble and feel so validated when I give in and don't act like I'm better than them in every way
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:33 PM
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I agree with the first thing you wrote but kinda disagree with the second. It may be good advice in this situation but in general improving status and wealth should be encouraged. I think attraction based on these things can be genuine too, I want a girl that appreciates that I've worked hard to become a successful man who has an impact on people. I want them to appreciate all the assets I have, not just my looks or sense of humor, but the complete package.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:30 PM
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That sucks dude. I guess the chase is only fun when you know you're gonna win at the end
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:05 AM
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Sorry to hear that man. Keep on the grind, the feeling when it pays off is so worth it.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:22 AM
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Nigga what
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:16 AM
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Just escalate slowly but steadily. Start by standing close to her and see if she backs up or leans in. Talk into her ear if it's loud. If she's chill then reach out and have her hold your hand, and lead her somewhere else you can talk more. Talk about anything, music, the people you met, anything that isn't serious or boring. Then if she's giggling and happy, take her to a more secluded part of the party so she isn't embarrassed, look at her lips and eyes, be quiet, and lean in. She'll know what…
/r/seduction23/03/22 11:59 PM
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Not just effort but if there aren't trials on the journey then it isn't enjoyable. Plus, girls that make it too easy are suspicious, if they're giving it up easily to me are they to everyone? If so it isn't as special
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:36 PM
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Idk personally I get bored if it's too easy. Ngl I kinda enjoy the chase and the butterfly feelings when she's showing you indicators of interest
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:41 PM
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Valid, but in my opinion without these little tests I feel bored sometimes. These are ways for me to assert my manhood and "know myself". These tests aren't toxic, they are subconscious things like she changes her mind about what she wants for dinner etc. What this really means is she wants me to decide for her, and I enjoy taking that initiative.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:35 PM
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Don't say boring things then! I wouldn't say something quickly just so people don't get bored of it, because that thing is probably not worth saying at all. Silence is a powerful tool too to increase confidence. Sometimes when I'm talking to a girl I just go silent for like 3 seconds and it really helps me gain power over the conversation
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:26 PM
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Getting a job will definitely help with your confidence. And try talking about more fun topics that are less serious. Just keep randomly changing the convo based on something she says, it doesn't have to be logical.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:22 PM
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As a somewhat wealthy guy I do agree, money is something attractive, like a good face or body. People always say she's gonna take your money but how? I'd never just give money to a girl unless I trust her, and I'm smart enough to know at what point to trust someone.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:18 PM
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OP shouldn't care about who she's fucking. He should keep fucking and then go on the trip with her. It's not like he's in a relationship, he just wants a fuck toy of worst case eye candy for the trip. If he's as rich as he says he is then why not
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:28 PM
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Yeah, if the guy is popping then he should let women approach him. My now gf slid into my dms as a fan of my music, and since I gave her some attention she flirted back so I'd give more. The balance shifts in your favor if the girl is the one that initially wanted your attention instead of the opposite
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:29 PM
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Treat her like you're above her, make fun of her to the point where it feels mean, then call her cute or something and I swear she'll be all over you lol. It's toxic though. I don't condone it. But it works
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:23 PM
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They don't mean it literally, they just want to make sure it's in the back of your mind
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:57 AM
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Nah, me and my friends thought we were superior to the frat guys because we still got to enjoy their parties and perks while still having free time to do cooler things
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:55 AM
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I take it you're from the US? idk bro be careful, I guess if you can afford it easily then it might be worth it. But make sure she doesn't run off with ur money or anything
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:26 AM
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Are you trying to be average? Google alone hires 10k software engineers per year. People need to realize that they are capable of much more than they think. My salary is very realistic for a new grad. In fact I know people making 375k at places like citadel and Hudson river trading
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:57 AM
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Having a predictable steady job is definitely a comfort. It's up to you to figure out when a good time to take some risks is. Could I recommend you a book? Check out black swan by Nassim Taleb
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:33 PM
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Ah, you must be outside of the world of tech then. Check this out to see entry level salaries for tech companies: levels.fyi
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:32 PM
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Switched from business/econ. It's a Fintech business that helps small businesses
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:13 PM
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Keep switching jobs and leetcoding, FAANG+ and Unicorns pay 200k to their new grads and they interview anyone with experience. I recommend switching every 6 months until you are at FAANG. Switching is not a red flag for SWEs. Btw, FAANG does not make u work hard besides Amazon. I work 20hrs/week, and no one even knows what I do.
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:10 PM
0

That's valid! I definitely also include people that worked really hard to achieve something or have immense impacts on people as successful as well. Definitely not who they're dating or how much they spend. Godspeed
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:02 PM
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Kind of, I'm saving it so I can be fully financially independent and not have to work. But I do want to work on my businesses full time, just building up a nest first
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:00 PM
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I have a variety of friends but I do respect that certain successful people prefer to be surrounded by other successful people. Like it or not, having a hot girl is a signal of success in some way. Some of these people are actually really nice too, there's just a barrier to entry.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:57 PM
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I am also a semi-popular musician and an outgoing dude. But bro just having a girl like that around you (in my case an ig model with 100k followers) opens so many doors. Before I would be the one reaching out to people, now they ask me to come to their events etc.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:54 PM
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I grinded for a year and switched to software, now making 250k in my early 20s. That's enough for me to spend lavishly and still save half my money. It might not be two orders of magnitude but it's so worth it. I also started a business I'm passionate about. I got investments and was able to hire people. Now it is sustainable and I don't even need to spend too much time on it, and it makes for great stories! These types of things are low risk high reward. Worst case scenario I could just go back…
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:51 PM
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That sounds like a lot of work and time investment, and at the end of the day the job still seems pretty boring to me. I guess if he enjoys it then it's different
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah I probably wouldn't marry a bimbo but I'm super young so that instant respect is actually useful to get into more successful social groups. My friends are pro athletes, successful musicians, businessmen, etc.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:38 PM
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Having money is just one part of the recipe that makes me feel more like "the man", but it is an important part. Money = concrete value you bring to the world in a way
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:37 PM
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Sometimes that instant respect is needed before the deeper relationships can be built. Otherwise you won't even get the opportunity in the first place. People would dismiss me before they got to know me, but since I have a hot girl they are forced to reconsider
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:36 PM
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Actually that's true, but if you can find a hot, confident, egotistical girl that actually likes you it's the jackpot.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:35 PM
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Oh, you totally should get the girl to talk about her passions and dreams. And then somehow connect it to yourself lol. She will associate her dreams with you and ur in.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:00 PM
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Bro there's a lot of perks that come with dating those model types tho. Like the instant respect you get from guys when they realize you're dating a girl with 100k followers is pretty fucking amazing
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:43 PM
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Broooooo this is amazing advice. I didn't even realize I do this subconsciously. Another thing I started doing was jotting down funny observations into my notes. Sometimes I tell girls these stories of stuff I saw in a day and it makes me come off as a spontaneous/adventurous person
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:14 PM
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Confident girls tend to care less about shit like that in my opinion. I also got rejected for my height after making out with a girl. But then she started talking about how insecure she was and how she actually had a boyfriend. Bullet dodged
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:11 PM
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Also idk why people always add in the "without having money" in their advice as if it's something out of our control. Bro having money is so fucking nice. It makes me so confident and attractive. I always feel above any women I talk to because I know that I have something they will probably struggle with for life, financial security. This drives them mad, and I don't even need to be a dick about it or show off.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:10 PM
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Why not? I'm built like you except I work out (which you should definitely do). I've been able to date models. Just become attractive in the things you can control. No offense but your career is lame, we only get one life why not spend it doing cool things! A lot of really hot girls don't care that much about looks because they know they could get any guy they want, so they'd rather get someone that has the whole package. At least, that's what I've seen from my experience, within my social circl…
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:06 PM
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Go ahead :)
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:06 PM
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Yeah but not very famous, only 15k followers on ig and a few hundred k streams
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:33 PM
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Nah op is right and I'm living proof. I'm a short skinny dude with an alright face, probably objectively a 5 or 6. But I have a lot of circumstances going for me like being rich, talented, funny, smart, popular, and well connected. Every time my circumstances get upgraded the girls get better. I'm now dating a girl who, if you told me I was dating a year ago, I would've thought you're joking
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:06 PM
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Trust me, it's more fun to get rejected from hot girls than ugly girls. Better for the ego too. The only downside is your standards might go too high but that can be fixed
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:44 AM
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Oh yeah her friends were not happy with me..
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:13 AM
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Uh yeah dude if you're feeling jealous don't do open relationship. You also cheated on her which is fucked up, and the fact she didn't care is telling. You should work on yourself.
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:39 AM
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I tried this a long time ago, doesn't work. Because, I would sometimes get rejected by these ugly girls and I'd doubt myself. Instead, I started going for people I thought were out of my league. I'd still get rejected but I'd just tell myself it's cuz they are hot and superficial. Except one day I didn't get rejected and now I'm dating a model lol
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah you should obviously text her. Overpursuing is when you text her, she doesn't reply, and then you text her again. Or she just gives one word answers and doesn't give effort
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:23 AM
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Can confirm, I once told a girl "yo you have a big ass wanna go up to my room later and I'll sing a song for you" and it worked lol
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:21 AM
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I expected it, talking about success somehow comes off as braggy even though this is an anonymous account and no one knows who I am. Anyways, I'm glad you're successful. Life is so much better for us successful people, we attract hot women just by being ourselves! You'll find some that really like you and won't play games
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:26 PM
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If you have any talents make an ig based on that
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:24 PM
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As a successful person this is how I keep hot women engaged and chasing me: Don't talk about my success at all at first to make sure there is some chemistry Slowly reveal things. Like if they ask for my Instagram I joke I don't want to intimidate them lol. Then when they ask what I do for work I say something ridiculous and change the subject. They ask again later and then I reveal it. But basically, this keeps them intrigued and curious about my life. I only give in after some pestering from th…
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:00 PM
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Unless you are also notable on Instagram (10k+ followers), then they respond
/r/seduction19/03/22 07:52 PM
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I've learned there's a sweet spot though. With this one super hot girl I was kinda putting her down and implying she isn't on my level. Then she called me out for being mean so I said a few compliments and she melted. Balance
/r/seduction19/03/22 05:44 AM
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you should respond something like - I lost braincells too so let's call it even 🤝
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:49 AM
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I've heard that but honestly it doesn't scare me. I feel satisfied with life right now, and optimistic about my future. Maybe I'll run out of energy later, but I'd rather be rich and burnt out than poor and burnt out.
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:15 AM
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Hmmm maybe an apt comparison would be he's like Obama. He isn't always trying to be the center of attention, but when he is the center of attention you can get sucked in.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:18 PM
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Idk exactly, it kind of feels like he's Jesus or a mini Zeus or something
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:19 PM
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I honestly disagree, this is just based on my experience though and I am pretty young at 22. I work 50hrs/week total, make $325k at my job, $50k from my business, and $10k from my music. I'll probably be able to retire at 35 if I play my cards right. I'm also dating a popular model and she is definitely attracted to my grit and intelligence, plus we are actually pretty frugal. Sometimes she complains about me being busy but she knows it's somewhat of a temporary sacrifice, and we still have tons…
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:14 AM
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Lmao this only happens to me with girls I'm not attracted to
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:31 PM
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Still hit though
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:15 PM
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You don't understand what is attractive to most high value women about money then. Obviously we don't want gold diggers that just want our money to buy cool things. But having money can say a lot about someone, such as they are intelligent, hard working, have grit, etc. Money comes naturally to people with these qualities, and they are very attractive. Plus, the lifestyle of a rich person is fun and of course women would find someone living such a life attractive. Hot take but I'd rather be like…
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:08 PM
2

Bruh what the fuck if my girl hangs out with random dudes while drinking with them and touching them she is for the streets
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:30 PM
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Bruh maybe for ugly women with no options you don't need to worry about this shit but if you want a hot girl with options then yes you need to make sure you don't be a simp and keep an image of yourself that is attractive and true to yourself
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:56 PM
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I'm 21M dating a 29F but it only works because I am more mature and successful than her. If the roles were switched it would be a weird power imbalance
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:24 PM
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No I mean if you want to be with hot girls then being ugly will unfortunately disqualify you. It is an unfortunate reality. Luckily for 99% of people they don't need to worry about this
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:04 PM
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You need to find other girls to take your mind off her. She's not special and she seems like a dick
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:10 PM
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As a medium high status guy I think this is accurate. People are kind of dicks and don't let you into circles if you don't meet the status bar. It makes it pretty easy to date once you are in though
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:51 PM
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Except this just isn't true. Yeah you can't be ugly but if you're average but have other things going for you (rich, successful, popular, etc.) that helps a lot
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:41 PM
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Lmao there's people like this and then there's the opposite side (which I am on). A girl told me my voice made her want to get in bed with me and I was like "yeah i do have a pretty relaxing voice haha".
/r/seduction11/03/22 06:45 PM
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"sorry, I zoned out, you have a mesmerizing voice" or some shit like that idk. Say it in a joking way so it's not creepy
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:47 PM
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/r/seduction06/03/22 11:26 PM
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Definitely not unattainable now that social media exists! Social media has allowed me to connect with some awesome people I would've never otherwise met. These early connections eventually turned into real friendships, it was all pretty natural. But none of it would've happened if I didn't take the first step and dm some people I thought were cool. Guys think dming Instagram models is useful, but in reality dming guys is way more useful for the connections. Then you can get the models in person
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:01 AM
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Not really but feel free to look at my post history. Most of the advice on this sub is good. Get a hobby, enjoy life, have cool friend circles. I am lucky because my friend circles includes models, athletes, celebrities, and influencers. This is way more useful than being tall and pretty.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:22 AM
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Depends on the car. I drive a cute yellow convertible and the girls love it. And it was only $20k used
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:24 AM
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Yeah I'll message u
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:05 AM
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Yes I am having success. I'm young and achieving my dreams. I run a successful side business, make fire music, make a good amount of money, and have great relationships with cool people. I also have unachieved goals I am working hard towards but having fun on the journey. That's why I feel any girl would be privileged to come with me on my journey, and this confidence has allowed me to find my current girl. Everyone can do it, they just need to be positive and work hard
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:52 PM
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They wouldn't because you are a loser. They'd pick 5'8 me over both of y'all though because I'm a fucking winner. I carry myself like a winner and expect people to treat me like one. If she doesn't, she's not on my level, and I lose attraction.
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:05 PM
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Those losers piss me off so much because I used to believe them. I am short, not super rich, and pretty average looking. But I'm able to date models because I tried, got rejected a lot, fine tuned my strategies, and also stopped caring so much
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:57 PM
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Lmao facts my friend is conventionally ugly and knows it, yet he's dating probably one of the objectively hottest women in our city (who also happens to be a micro celebrity). If you get a chance to talk with him you'll know why. The way this dude carries himself and treats his life makes him an absolute pleasure to be around. He's the type of dude that you would want to go into war with.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:56 PM
1

Looks are probably in the top 3 factors but #1 is definitely status in my experience as a 7/10 high status individual
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:14 AM
1

Do it once, then remember the feeling and just emulate it next time
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:56 AM
1

They're vocally annoyed by them, but they are still attracted to them I think. Girls have told me "gosh your so annoying/narcissistic" and then keep talking to me and seeking my attention
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:14 PM
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Too cocky is kinda funny though, as long as the other person knows it's a joke. Girls love being around positive, confident, happy people. Also, pretending to be cocky has been great for my mental health cuz I actually started believing the things I say about myself (like I'm destined for greatness, I'm in the top .1% of people, etc.)
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:16 PM
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We definitely have a strong emotional connection and an overlap of values (we are both religious, vegans, anti government, etc.) Thanks. I'm hoping it works out. If not it isn't the end of the world, she'll find a great guy and I'll find a great girl
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:50 PM
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Bruh what you're describing is true for any girl. If they wake up and don't want you, you can't do much. Also, I don't think it's healthy to need someone that will stay with you if you get broke, fall ill, can't lift, until you are married or at least have been dating a few years. If I wake up tomorrow and her face is ugly then I'm not going to stay with her long. But once we are truly long term partners of course I will have a deeper love for her. Her looks are going to fade anyways.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:06 PM
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Bro if I had this type of mentality I wouldn't be able to get with a model in the first place lmao. If we break up, we both will have great options, even if I have to work a little harder for them. I'm not dating a model by luck, I am a high value man. Who wouldn't want to be with a successful, confident, powerful young guy? I am completely relaxed. If I wasn't then she would lose her attraction for me, but the fact that I don't obsess over her definitely boosts my image in her eyes. She doesn't…
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:48 AM
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Idk maybe it's immature but I enjoy going after the most wanted girls. They also have more interesting lives than the girls at my uni. I disagree that she has all the power. She doesn't have money or a good career outside of modeling which is temporary. Also, I'm talented too and also have a lot of female fans (I sing r&b). I have a lot of confidence that I'm legitimately the best guy for her and she believes so too.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:03 AM
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Awesome, that's the right mentality. Gotta move on and remember she probably wasn't as good as you thought she was. Look up limerence, it's all an illusion
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:58 AM
1

Bro maybe we have different definitions of 9s and 10s. To me 9 = published model and 10 = magazine cover supermodel or famous singer/actor etc. I'm dating a model right now and they get so many dms from horny verified account guys with 500k followers it is insane. To separate yourself from these you need clout, personality, looks, power, and everything, just basically gotta be extremely high value. Now, if you just want a pretty girl who has a nice face and body, you don't need to have it all, i…
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:05 AM
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That's a horribly wrong mentality. I've been rejected over a hundred times but now my girlfriend is a model. If I got sad and only focused on myself all the time I'd be a loser
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:00 AM
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Idk bro u said you wanted 9s and 10s, for them you need to bring everything to the table and have extreme confidence. How much you squat, deadlift, and bench is probably a better metric of your strength. Girls notice the difference between underweight (110 pounds) and fit (140 pounds), especially at our height.
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:37 AM
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I might've done the math converting to lbs wrong lol. Yeah he is underweight, but I used to be too. Luckily I've been able to advance my career rapidly and am somewhat wealthy. I also make music and have a decent social media presence (15k on ig) and own a fintech business. These things probably help but when I was skinnier I had no shot with hot girls. Lifting and eating is what will get him to the next level, whatever that may be for him.
/r/seduction27/02/22 05:40 PM
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Bro I'm almost the same build as him, just 25 more pounds of muscle, and 9-10s are definitely in my range. Yes, it's harder, but you shouldn't discourage him from going after the top girls. He also needs to start lifting and eating but the practice of being rejected by hot girls and not caring is pretty valuable too lol
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:26 PM
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This is why abundance is so important. Whenever I start to catch feelings I immediately force myself to find other girls to give me attention. If that makes me lose feelings then I avoided wasting my time. If the feelings remain then maybe it's meant to be
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:52 PM
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Eh if you're not verified it's not too special. My friends are verified with 200k followers, and their DMs are like the Pacific ocean
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:02 PM
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Also u don't need a lot of pictures of yourself on social media like girls post. I have 1 picture of myself, and the rest of my posts are related to my music talent. If you have a small natural following (I have about 15k followers) this makes getting models to reply way more likely. You just need something to separate you from the pack. Once you have this it is easy. I just reply to a story and make a cold read about them. Whether it's wrong or right they want to reply and then the ball is in t…
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:43 PM
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Agreed. Some of the suggestions here are stupid, some guy said just message them "hi" and if they don't respond then move on. What type of girl would respond to "hi" lmaooooo. If you want to date models, or artists, or girls that actually have something going on in their lives, they aren't gonna respond to a random stranger sliding into their dms with a generic greeting. At least some effort needs to be made
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:37 PM
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Bruh it isn't a red flag to have lots of followers it means she's hot. Hot girl posting herself = followers. Yes, to date a girl with a lot of followers you have to understand she has lots of options and you need to make sure you do too so you aren't overly obsessed with her. But if you are a top 1% guy it's great to get a ig model girl
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:24 AM
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No I meant she definitely doesn't read all of them, of course she reads a few from interesting people. You bring up a good point, but the thing is I have options too. Dating someone like her increases my value in the eyes of other women, idk why maybe it's jealousy. If she turns out to be a cheater I won't have issues leaving her. I only want to be with someone who wants to be with me over everyone else, which she has proved she does
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:11 PM
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I guess I don't know if she selectively replies to some but I've looked at her phone, she has literally thousands of unread requests. Gets double digit new requests every day. I don't really care though, she chooses to spend her time with me and that's what matters. I'm not insecure
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:53 PM
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Bro you need to give some attention to show you're interested, just not a lot. Obviously girls get attention, I'm dating a model haha. But they don't get butterflies in their stomach when someone else texts them, only when I text them. So you gotta send something once in a while. Usually something like "check out this funny pic I saw when I was doing ___" so it seems she popped into your head when you saw something. But then, pull back and don't try to keep the convo going unnecessarily. The bal…
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:02 PM
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From randos? Hell no. From me, yes, but she dm'd me and followed me first.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:56 PM
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Social media is dumb for guys, don't worry about it. Yes that's a good sign! My strategy is to give her just enough so she's wanting more. For example, once in a while randomly give her a compliment, but then don't dwell on it and don't bombard her. Eventually she will crave that feeling again and will fish for compliments/validation. Give in sometimes but not always. Also if she likes you she will naturally seek your approval. Just make sure to be honest and lighthearted
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:33 AM
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I used to have the same issue, so I started weaning off of it. I'd take less shots and just pretend to be more drunk than I was (sounds cringe but it works). Eventually I'm at the point where I can just let loose and match the energy of whoever I'm talking to even while sober, it's awesome. Feel like I don't even need alcohol to get drunk anymore
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:39 AM
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One hack is to become a little more rich, a little more famous, and a little more attractive.
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:32 AM
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Honestly I have in the past and it's not as effective banter as it sounds. It can make the girl self conscious. Seeming like you don't care about social media has been way more effective for me. For example, I stopped looking at her stories and liking her posts for a few weeks cuz I was busy and she asked me why I wasn't looking at them anymore, which proved she cared about my validation lol
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:31 AM
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Having money is so useful bro it opens insane doors when it comes to dating. I'm able to upgrade my circles of connections to a pretty high tier due to making around 400k pre-tax per year at age 21
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:28 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:44 AM
2

Over 100k, high engagement from simps and some b list celebs
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:10 AM
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Well, what do you mean by high maintenance? She isn't bitchy and is pretty sweet and down to earth. She does take a hella long time to get ready tho and always wants to look good. I don't mind that tho, I want her to look good whenever we go out
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:09 AM
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Idc if anyone else wants to verify it, but I know at least one exists like that.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:57 PM
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Wait I'm curious about what u mean. I'm in a similar position as the guy you replied to, still with the girl. She's really nice despite having a lot of followers.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:46 PM
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My girlfriend
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:43 PM
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My dumbass always catches feelings for these friends lmao
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:04 PM
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As a guy with 15k followers dating a girl with over 100k, I have to agree that the number means nothing. Girls with lots of followers often have few friends or a very tight but small circle. I also have to disagree that having a lot of followers is necessarily a bad thing tho. I have a lot of followers cuz I'm talented. She has a lot of followers because she makes money from her looks. It's not because of insecurities.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:45 PM
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It's literally the opposite bro. I'm short and skinny, definitely not an Uber Chad physically, and I'm dating a model in NYC. In every other city I'd barely have any luck except with girls I wasn't attracted to.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:00 AM
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I'm 5'8, skinny athletic frame, but hot and confident. That works too and I'm able to get models, but I do think it'd be even easier if I was taller.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:23 PM
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No, you're the one coping with your pity party. People are 90% the same everywhere, also NYC is literally known worldwide to be one of the best places for single guys in terms of dating. You are the anomaly and you're coping by blaming it on people being closed off, even though everyone except for you is having a great time.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:16 PM
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Why wouldn’t you value a woman “like that”? I would feel gross if people were paying to see my girl naked on the internet. It's also kinda trashy and cheap, not creating real value to the world. She is a status symbol to you. You are a success object to her. I'm not sure what you mean by success object but yes it does feel like a good status boost to be with her. She has great connections and we get invited to some crazy parties. Given your attributes though - it’s still Feminism that is informi…
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:03 AM
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She's an actual fashion model with a 100k Instagram and 500k YouTube following, she's not on onlyfans, I wouldn't value a woman like that. I agree with your point about society influencing what is considered attractive etc. I don't understand your point about age though.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:03 AM
2

28 is old to a 21 year like me bruh
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:42 AM
1

This is false, I'm 21 dating a 28 year old model lol. But I have money and am attractive so that definitely helps.
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:35 PM
1

Bruh just ask her out you have nothing to lose
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:27 AM
0

Get over her this is depressing. I've also had times when I'm infatuated with one girl. The cure? Other girls
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:38 PM
1

Just curious how do u stand out in the dms? And yeah my girl has 100k and always talks about her friends as if they are random people and not the celebrities they are hahhahaha
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:23 AM
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Hmm well I wouldn't say it's been easy for me 😅 but yes it's definitely not an impossible task, especially if you have some clout in their circles. You've gotta be secure to date a model though. So many horny guys in the dms it's insane. Including celebrities
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:00 AM
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Facts man they just want to be loved
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:31 PM
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I would think they're a loser and needy lol
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:55 PM
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How I got an ig model as a guy built like brown Tom Holland: get cool haircuts start my own business and make good money make achievements in my hobbies and gain some recognition make friends with well connected guys get invited to parties with models talk to them with an exaggerated confidence to the point of arrogance At this point I got rejected a lot. But it doesn't matter cuz the one that didn't reject me is now obsessed with me. So the point is, no matter how you're built, if you have some…
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:35 PM
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Bro maybe you are right. But I want to make sure you aren't selling yourself short. I also never got much attention from hot women. I always considered myself average or below average looking. But the thing is women are all different and have different types. This girl has thousands of horny comments every day by guys that are objectively better looking than me, but somehow I still had a chance. If I never shot my shot, sure I would have saved 9 rejections, but I would also not have gotten the 1…
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:29 PM
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Bro, I'm projecting because I literally was in the same situation as you word for word. I also didn't want a hot model. But when she became an option, I realized it was a pretty damn good option. And you'll be able to get cute girls like this too. Rejection isn't rejection, if I apply to Harvard and get rejected I'm not gonna be too sad cuz it's expected. But if I get rejected from my state school it will hurt a lot more.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:53 PM
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Don't have low standards bro. The way I thought of it was, if I get rejected by a 10 that's out of my league, I won't feel bad because that's expected and I have nothing to lose. If I get rejected by a 5, I'm just being down bad and it'll hurt my ego. But if you get rejected enough times by 10s then the other rejections don't hurt as bad too. This strategy worked out for me cuz one of those Instagram model famous 10s actually ended up not rejecting me and now we are dating haha. Btw u have no ex…
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:08 PM
3

I fuck first then help them
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:32 PM
1

Bro no one cares if ur working out but you are definitely making a mistake if you're becoming a hermit and not talking to girls. Working out takes like 1 hour a day you don't need to go into monk mode for that
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:40 AM
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That post is kinda conflicting too. At first he says how the pioneers would leave their comfort zone and move to places where there were no women to gain wealth and explore. Then it says people today need to be more proactive about approaching women and bet keeps talking about them like guys should be desperately trying to talk to many girls. I feel a better message could be: focus on your goals and accumulating money, women will come naturally
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:06 AM
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Obviously they care about what they look like themselves but they don't really care that much about a guys looks. Cuz it's kinda sad if guys are super focused on their looks instead of their mission in life. Girls are the ones that are supposed to look good. And why would she have issues bruh she just wants to be treated like a normal person and not put on a pedestal
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:18 AM
1

Lmao why u tryna bring me down man 😭 I'm trying to say that girls, especially at her level, don't just care about looks. She has nothing to prove, she could get with most guys she wants. But because I have a higher social status, income, cooler life, etc. She is attracted to me. I don't treat her like anything special and it makes her like me. And yeah obviously people have different opinions on girls but if every post she makes has hundreds of horny guys in the comments then it's pretty safe to…
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:18 AM
1

Bro Kanye is 5'8 Travis Scott is 5'10
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:03 PM
1

I needed this bro
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:46 PM
1

Yeah she usually calls at night so I have to make myself busy then too. The difficulty for me is finding the balance between being busy and giving her enough of my time
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:14 AM
1

Learned not to do that from experience 😅
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:14 AM
1

I don't think that would work in my situation because she's the one initiation convos, would be pretty weird to just not acknowledge what she's saying. I'm not convinced that would increase her attraction to me but maybe
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:08 AM
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Thanks for the advice! I would be interested to hear some specific examples of how I could end conversations in these ways. Like right now I was giving her some advice and I'm not sure how to end the convo to keep her wanting more. And in general, I don't know how to make mysterious/pending comments
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:20 AM
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Bruh this is false, getting a pretty girl gives you the confidence boost and then only can you realize pretty girls don't make you happy. Otherwise there will always be the what if
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:24 AM
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Sorry to hear that, would love to hear why it was a bad experience though! I've only been dating this girl exclusively for like a month but she's pretty amazing, although she is nowhere near 2 million follows (around 300k). Also, for what it's worth, she's the only 10 I've ever been able to pull, so maybe that's why I am enjoying her so much.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:03 PM
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I'm not a 10 and I am dating a 10 (Instagram model with a lot of followers). Looks don't matter much for girls, they care about other things a lot like masculinity, where you stand in the social hierarchy, how much money you make / power you have, etc. Gotta have confidence
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:10 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:57 PM
1

That's not for me, when I marry someone they will completely share my finances. I'm not elitist but I do prefer to date women who come from wealthy backgrounds because they aren't impressed with measly amounts of money and don't care about showing off
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:19 AM
6

Well I'm gonna be rich so it's a good investment for her :)
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:03 AM
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Nah we got introduced cuz my friend wanted to brag about how he knows random hot girls lol and wanted to help a homie out. The business thing probably helped me seem interesting and masculine
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:37 AM
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Lmaooo it ain't the money she makes more on one sponsored post than I have ever profited from this business haha. Maybe it's the potential money?
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:35 AM
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The business has nothing to do with modeling or art or anything cool. In my experience girls are attracted to guys that employee people and she even told me later she found it attractive that I own a business.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:38 AM
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I'm dating a model and while I'm not a musician with concerts, my friend who introduced me to her is. And I also own a business which is why she was interested in talking to me initially
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:41 AM
1

Yeah I got with her this weekend lol
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:31 PM
1

Lmaooo she calls me every night so she knows I ain't fucking either 😅 Unless she's a daytime fucker. That would be wild
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:45 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, I'll try it out. I just hope she doesn't get weirded out by it if she thinks we are going out as something other than friends. Our relationship isn't 100% clear rn, and she's not fucking other guys
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:26 AM
1

Yeah bruh hearing our brown brother say this shit is making me depressed lmao. I am built like you and honestly face is probably a 5/10 but I get hot girls too cuz I'm fucking talented af, smart, and genuinely confident. Like to the point where I hype myself up way too much and consider myself above others lol. It's kinda fucked up.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:15 AM
5

Hollup, I'm in a pretty lucky situation and want to make sure I take advantage of it. One of my friends is a 10/10 model and we are super close (very flirty and chill vibes). Do you think it would be possible to use her as social proof to pick up more girls, and if so how? I worry girls would think we are together and avoid me
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:08 AM
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Depends on the girl but tbh getting a hot girl gives more than validation. Obviously guys do not care about other people's sex lives but girls do. If girls know you get with attractive girls then they will find you more attractive, increasing the chance you find the special one
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:49 PM
3

I am a skinny short dude with an okay face and a nice beard. I also have a weak sense of style and I'm probably going to suffer from male pattern baldness within the next couple years. However, my confidence has allowed me to have an Instagram model girlfriend out of my league. The reason I had enough confidence to attract this girl is: A) I genuinely think I'm one of the smartest people my age, and have a slight superiority complex for this reason B) I make good money and know I could afford a …
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:38 AM
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niggalations 5:17
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:27 AM
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The longer the better, 1 week plus
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:01 PM
1

Models
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:27 PM
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When I am in that situation instead of writing some long ass new message I just say "yooo" and then if they reply then they are interested and I'll come up with something to say then lol
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:18 PM
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