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Inner Game Alternative_Lime158/r/seduction27/05/22 07:17 PM
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So, you've never learned to cold approach? btw, I've sent you a DM
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:01 AM
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I see, and what changed then? You're implying that this happened in the past but not now
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:11 AM
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What do you mean by natural?
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:44 PM
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It works surprisingly well once you have the skills to do so.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:07 PM
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With all due respect, If you think that about meditation, then, you have no idea what meditation is. But I agree that you can just go out and approach with your wingman without practicing it.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:19 AM
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I'm glad you don't, but it's extremely common.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:14 AM
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Yeah, you can, but this post is for those who have tried going out by themselves a lot and still aren't able to overcome their approach anxiety. ​ I didn't say this is the only way, neither that everyone needs that stuff. I'm just saying "This worked for me like a charm, and if you've been going out by yourself and don't seem to overcome your approach anxiety, this may work for you"
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:12 AM
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Go out on the street, one where you can find a lot of people constantly, and cold approach, that's how you do it without relying on your social group.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:05 AM
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It's good to know haha. ​ But my guess is that most of the people who will read this don't suffer from those conditions. And even though it could benefit them, they won't try because people are lazy haha Human condition I guess!
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:13 PM
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Yeah, there's an overwhelming amount of studies about meditation and all of them agree on the fact that it reduces anxiety and stress. And if approach anxiety it's what keeps them to approach, it makes sense to integrate meditation in their lives. But most people who read this post won't even try, or will leave it in the first week. That's why I was hesitant to write this post, but if just one person take it and do it consistently, that'd be a win I guess haha Thanks for your answer!
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:23 PM
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Yeah, it takes balls, confidence and just by saying that you can make her day. It's true that it's not necessary to start with an "excuse me", but I kinda feel uncomfortable if I don't do it haha I just did 9 approaches, so, I'm starting to be more flexible and open in different ways. But thanks for the feed back, I will try today!
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:38 AM
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If you have practice, those 20 minutes go very fast. But if you're a beginner, you can start with 5 or 10 min. If you can't meditate for 20 min a day, that means you need meditation more than everyone else.
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:18 AM
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I don't think the lines or even the topics are important. I think it's more about what you project. In my case, I open in a very direct and clear way. "Excuse me, I was passing by, I saw you and I had to come to talk to you because you look beautiful" But like I said, you won't get the same results if you say it with confidence and projecting your masculinity or being insecure and speaking too fast. Actually, I would pay attention at what you're projecting even when you say "Hi"
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:59 AM
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I highly encourage you to read the post I made yesterday on this sub. It's called how I DESTROYED approach anxiety. You will find some guidance on how to find a wingman among other useful advices. I was like that, I've tried going out alone, but I was so terrified of approaching girls that whenever I had opportunity, I just get paralyzed and I wouldn't do it. And now, I don't feel that fear.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:26 AM
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Yeah haha! I've tried mantras and what I noticed is that they help me to focus on the present. I think it's because you hear and feel de vibration of your voice which "distract" you from your thoughts. I don't do it anymore because I get good at it, and sometimes, mantras could be a little bit tiring. But they can be useful. Thanks for your comment!
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:16 AM
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Thanks brother haha <3
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:09 AM
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Absolutely! The thing is that meditation, doesn't just impact your game but almost every aspect of your life because it makes you more aware of everything. Your own emotions, thoughts, people, situations, life... It's almost impossible how meditation, if you're consistent enough and do ir properly can impact your life. But most people won't even try haha
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:21 AM
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Yeah! You can do all kinds of funny bets haha. In my case, I didn't need to go that far, but that can work too! Thanks for your comment.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:06 PM
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You have no idea... haha We feel a lot of anxiety and fears. Of rejection, of not being enough, of being embarrased or judged by the girls we're attracted to. It's crippling in many ways, but we have to overcome them in order to get the intimacy and romance we crave.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:00 PM
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In my case, I found whatsapp groups and I started messaging the members privately. Try facebook groups too and any forum about daygame. I'm from Spain and here, daygame is not even a thing, I think if you live in an English speaking country, you will find people easily.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:35 PM
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I see, in my case, I approach on the street and girls don't usually have headphones, at least in my experience. It's totally possible to approach girls with headphones, I've seen it, but I can't give you advice with this specific case because I've never approached a girl this way haha
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:28 PM
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1-I'm not exaggerating when I say that without meditation I wouldn't be able to do anything. Because without it, I would be way more anxious, way more in my head and in negative thinking, and I wouldn't take action Being present, it's way more profound that it seems, because if you're in the moment, you can notice your body language in your interactions, and spot mistakes that hurt your game like speaking too fast for example, and improve. Also, your interactions improve because... well, you're …
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:24 PM
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That's not how I do it and I wouldn't recommend it, let me explain. I don't let myself dive inside my mind because the whole point of this type of meditation is to be able to get out of your head and be present. Instead, I focus on the present (my breathing, the noises of my environment, the physical sensations of my body, etc) And whenever your mind starts wandering, just stop and bring yourself to the present, over and over and over. If you meditate without bringing yourself to the present, yo…
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:05 PM
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It's really simple. Find a quiet place (usually, your bedroom is more than enough) Set a timer with 20 minutes. Close your eyes, and FOCUS ON THE PRESENT. Your breathing, the noises of your environment, the physical sensations of your body. DON'T let your mind wander. Whenever you catch yourself in thoughts that have nothing to do with the present, stop and start focussing again in the present moment. The reason you do this is to be able to be present and get out of your head. If you spend 20 mi…
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:51 PM
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I wouldn't recommend it haha
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:39 PM
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At least in my city, most of the girls don't have headphones, so, it's not really a problem. The only few I see I don't bother, to be honest.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:38 PM
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Hey, I live in Madrid (25M) and I'm looking for a wingman too, I'd like to go out with you, how can we stay in contact?
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:59 PM
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