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Treat them how you’d treat any other woman imo
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:37 AM
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Women aren’t that important. You learn that more and more once you get your shit together and got frisky with a few baddies. If you don’t, then you’re a child in a man’s body
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:42 AM
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To think you might get married one day
/r/seduction17/07/23 09:58 AM
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Step one get in the gym, find hobbies that resonate within yourself, start going out by yourself enjoying your own company, be making money, take care of the way you present yourself, read etc. once people start making use of their time they’ll improve their lives all round the board.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:41 PM
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Take a look at your name for starters, stop being okay with the situation you’re in. “Lonely_Man”, jeez dude harsh reality is nobody’s gonna feel sorry for you. Pick yourself up, brush yourself off & do the shit that’s needed to be the man you want to be. I use to feel sorry for myself like you but fuckkkk that, your mindset needs work. You need to feel empowered, not inferior. Be happy with yourself for starters, the things you’re doing in life, the path you’re on. It’s your life so make the mo…
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:07 AM
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I would say it comes down more to the love OP has for himself, whether a woman’s in his life or not that should remain unbreakable. Friends or not nobody knows a man more than himself. Work starts from within
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:04 AM
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Stfu your opinion means nothing
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:08 PM
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Hahaha tell em I’m older
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:23 PM
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Yeah I lie bout my age, if we’ve been seeing each other long enough I’m open to tell my real age. If they move on so be it but they don’t usually
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:51 AM
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Good man appreciate the input
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:54 AM
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Doesn’t answer my question tho man, would you cancel on a chick who’s tryna push back the time of our meet cause she’s got a “dinner date” planned? Like she never told me beforehand
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:41 AM
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I feel you bro, I didn’t specify she said she’ll see me after but for me I reckon I’d be better off calling it off. Imma decide real soon. Just want some more advice see if I’m tripping before I go head
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:58 AM
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Imo it helped me a ton bro, try yourself in the field and see how it goes for yourself. I was going through a horrible dry patch a few years back before I was like f it I’m gonna go brothel. Anyway, met some nice girls one in particular which we had pleasant relations before it grew sour. Anyway if I didn’t go to the brothel I might be in the same mess as I am now. But they’ll not just f you they’ll talk to you, you can try at gauging questions in an attempt to show your true self and understand…
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:53 PM
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Easy script for approach to start “Hey, how you doing” she replies then you say “I stopped you cause I thought you were really cute and was wondering if you’d like to go out sometime”. She either agrees or declines, but that’s not important. The important part is you done it. Simple. Don’t eat yourself up about it dude. Was so hard for me at first as well
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:48 AM
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Hahaha I was hoping you’d say that dude, but yeah boxing’s great. I done it since I was 9 on & off had a bunch of fights at all levels. Teaches you how to hold yourself as a man. One of the best things I ever done & also probably the best cardio as well as body sculpting workout. Don’t worry join a boxing gym, find a reputable one around you. They never chuck you in straight away. Also you’ll become a better fighter which is always a plus
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:25 AM
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No bud, the clit is the little bean thing around the top part of the pussy. If you stick your meat in her all the way while she’s on her back with her legs up and you bend her back a lil playing with it (whether it’s side to side, circles around, figure of 8 etc whatever it is) she should love it maybe even reach orgasm. But go for many positions, maybe attempt to learn more positions you can do with these women. You’d be surprised to know a lot of guys would stick to the usual missionary or dog…
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:06 PM
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Problem is you didn’t have sex with her imo, that would of put the ball in your court
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:47 PM
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Just tell her “Alright girl we’ll see bout that”
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:45 PM
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Just do it in the car, that’s where I do all my hook ups
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:58 PM
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I just play it cool man honestly, what attracted her to you in the first place you don’t need to change. She already feeling you if she sleeping with you first date. Just keep it light hearted, no need to be a goofball or change yourself after the first time youse met. It’s okay to be funny, but serious talks once in a while are nice too. Show your intelligent side, but keep a bit of a mystery bout yourself. Don’t wanna appear as an open book. You got this mate, also in your life look to better …
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:33 PM
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Search online tips during sex, how to make her squirt etc. I dunno I never looked it up but once a video popped up & I used the technique it’s now been added to my arsenal. But work with what you got, while you’re having sex stimulate her clit, go like 10 seconds fast & 10 seconds slower sometimes more depending on what’s working, also get in the gym. You’ll be able to last longer & your body will look better (always a plus). Also can’t go wrong with buying toys which will make it an experience …
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:24 PM
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Shouldn’t be a problem for yourself man, as long as you’re attracted to her go for it. I’ve slept with women on the first date many times & continued seeing them for months. Don’t make a big fuss of it
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:21 PM
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What you said resonates with my style in women once I become comfortable, appreciate your input. Take care of yourself
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:06 AM
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Damn that’s an eye opener man, I missed out on the golden era of tinder it seems. I was 14 in 2014 so I heard the buzz but couldn’t capitalise. Besides a few hooks ups it felt pretty rigged for myself to be on there can’t lie. Didn’t have the best taken photos of myself on there must admit. Once I dealt with a few flakes I’m like f this, no woman’s that special
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:49 AM
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I feel you on that, I’m off it at the moment. What made your opinion change on the app?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:38 AM
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Every one of them 3 years? Must’ve been doing something right
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:36 AM
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Haha love the story matey, sounds like she’s lived quite the life aye. In that time away you never once hit her up, did you? Also was it strictly sexual or did you often do activities with one another? It’s the best knowing the women who appear the most innocent are really the nastiest you’ll come across
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:34 AM
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Niceee, do you feel her being older than you has been what’s helped it last so long? Did you take her out or keep things strictly sexual between one another? Also what was the vibe you had with one another if you could describe it?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:29 AM
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It be like that dude haha, did you ever use to take her out for something to eat, fun adventures etc or strictly sex?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:27 AM
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Niceeee, how’d youse meet?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:25 AM
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This forum gives me hope I can carry on to a long-term FWB, appreciate the input. Had to a while back make the same decision to cut off a FWB cause like yourself I felt she didn’t get the message. What was it that drew these women so strongly to you in reflection?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:24 AM
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Niceee, but why was it toxic? What sent the ship sailing?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:21 AM
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Awesome man, here’s to hoping youse cross paths again in the near future. How did the attraction first come about between youse two? What were the characteristics of yourself that most charmed her?
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah, it usually ends up that way with exes. They like to hold onto the past if relations are rekindled. Especially if you yourself has grown as a man in that time away. You had a decent run tho dude
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:16 AM
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Tell me about it, onto the next mate. Don’t stop searchin
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:13 AM
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Ain’t no stress man, least you know what went wrong. I’ve caught feels for chicks during the start of my FWB experiences, always makes you go soft & lose what made you attractive in the first place. We live & we learn
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:12 AM
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She’ll probably be back down the line, it’s happened to me previously. But even if she don’t who tf cares? Walking away’s part of growth, it’s where you find your true self worth. Yeah, I had a few girls in my rotation a while back. Went to shit in the end. You’re always on a high, then there’s a low haha. Just gotta remain in the same frame of mind whether you with company or nobody
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:09 AM
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Whether FWB or relationship, at times you gotta stand your ground when you sense the tides are turning. You can’t appear happy go lucky or often times women will take it as weakness. Your attitude should mostly remain the same, cause what attracted them to you in the first place was the aura you originally presented. Just my opinion on the matter
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:28 PM
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It’s alright bro, hit the gym work on that body game, maybe look online for tips to a better dress sense (if you’ve never made an effort), pick up some meditation (helps to keep you present), reading & chess (helps with mental clarity, attention, problem solving as well as a bunch more things), find a new hobby & become knowledgeable on it, incorporate cold showers throughout your weekly routine, practice good hygiene all round etc, possibly hire a pro photographer for pictures of yourself (I pe…
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:08 PM
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Mate I’m curious to know myself on what the answers were to PM’s questions
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:44 PM
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Hahaha
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:42 PM
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Not always bud, but yeah it does happen. It can be a little bit of a turn off when she gives off obsessive vibes even when you’re up front about everything
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:38 PM
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It happens man, longest FWB for me so far was close to 7 months but things were maybe running a little too smooth that’s why it ended. I didn’t create any tension between us or worry that I’d leave her
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:35 PM
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That’s a decent run, were there any moments where you the man had to pull back and if so how many times? I’ve had to do it once already cause I felt a sly bit of disrespect
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:24 PM
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Someone’s a little hurt nawww 🤣
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:03 AM
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You’re the type to be charmed on a date by a dude then cry rape later on when you realise he doesn’t wanna spend the rest of his life with a sexist pig
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:53 AM
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You’re a sad person, grow up
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:50 PM
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Just gotta get out there with the right mindset, enjoy your own company and look to bring good vibes to those around you. I’ve been out a few times as a 22 year old man, you meet some great people. Possible to meet life long friends, women, interesting characters who can feed you knowledge etc. It’s character building and people often respect a person heading out by themselves. Push yourself outside of comfort, that’s how you build yourself to become a better version of who you are. Go out with …
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:13 AM
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To be honest man any chance you have of changing the dynamic to her loving you is by leaving her
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:16 PM
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Get the f outta here you sorry sack of shit, not every man you meet’s a rapist
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:46 PM
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No
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:33 AM
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Yeah, it’s a turn off. Especially when they put that on their tinder bios and that. It’s all bullshit. They’ll do it for the right guy. Just shows they’re in denial and most likely not the most sound mentally imo
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:31 AM
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Not entirely, but you need to present yourself as a man who has it all together. Don’t be the guy who seeks approval from her. You should know who you are and that’s most important. No need to tell her you have no social status etc. leave shit a mystery it’s best that way
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:32 AM
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If she’s interested truth is she’d meet you at a park at night, but if she’s bringing a friend it’s probably cause she not feeling you like you feeling her. Just my two cents dude, I’d go against that. Just tell her “If you ain’t interested enough to see me by yourself then don’t see me at all”. That’s what I’d do. Best thing to realise is there’s plenty of fish in the sea and a lot of em ain’t gonna dick you round by bring a mate along. Imagine you brought your mate along to see a girl, it’s we…
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:14 PM
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Gasolina but you really don’t need music
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:35 AM
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You’re giving off the typical self entitled woman vibes, glad I don’t f with girls like you. Pay for your own food woman
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:12 AM
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This the reply I was seeking
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:01 AM
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Don’t even look her way, ignore her totally
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:06 AM
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Even I’m tryna stay solid on it but for instance looking her deep in the eyes and at her lips while talking, speaking slower but not so soft, wanna not be so fidgety, don’t move around a shit load, don’t be afraid to touch her like say go for an upper arm touch or touch her thigh while sitting etc, don’t laugh too much and be goofy
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:35 AM
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Don’t be afraid to break the touch barrier bro, do it in smooth ways for instance if she’s wearing a nice dress be like “Wow that’s a nice dress” while you put your hands on her hips and look at her down & up. Little things like that. Don’t be afraid to push her slightly, pull her close playfully, or shake her playfully while saying something the likes of “What are we gonna do with you (insert name)”. I say this cause touch barrier can go so overlooked at times
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:31 AM
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Improve your looks, fix your dress sense, quit giving off a friendly vibe and start giving a more man to woman, start working out and get yourself fit, do hobbies that’ll help you live with purpose such as reading, sports, hiking etc. you’ll be all sweet bro
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:28 AM
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What’s to say you knew them well enough? A woman is much better at keeping their needs out of the public eye than a man. I knew the most innocent acting women who were the freakiest
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:24 PM
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Almost all woman goes through a hoe faze, whether she’s a hoe now or she was a hoe in the past she’s been one. All it takes is that one guy to come along and spark it again
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:13 AM
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Haha thanks for the personal input man, I’d probably go the sober route nowadays but I only came to this conclusion as I saw this chick when I was on a tab of acid. Fair to say I did not feel or act like myself, corrections were made that very day. But as for smoking weed days prior do you feel any haziness in your brain, you’re more goofy/funny etc.?
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:43 PM
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I get you bro, but do you feel for instance cloudiness come to you on dates or you’re more closed off? Things of that nature, but I agree it’s a lot about the vibes you feed off when smoking like that
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:50 PM
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Great breakdown, much appreciated 👍🏼
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:04 AM
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I feel you bro, we’ve all been there where success might’ve came but it felt as if it was a means to silence the awkwardness behind it all. Don’t stress on it, maybe take a break for a while. Limit your smoking to once a week or every two week
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:03 AM
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Hahaha I laugh cause I done that before as a teen, solid advice
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:46 PM
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I definitely understand what you’re saying, but also many women smoke. And also not every woman you see has to know you smoke. It’s more to enjoy in your own time once in a while. Holding negative connotations to things such as weed I feel only gives power to them and sort of goes against self growth. All in moderation
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:49 AM
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Yeah bro, the better you get at it the more comfortable you are with it. That’s when you figure out what approach works for you
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:35 AM
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Bro get comfortable talking with guys, have hobbies and enjoy your life, work out of your comfort zone doing things that surprise you. Ever tried hitting up the city nightlife by yourself? That’s ballsy. Ultimately it comes down to pushing yourself out of comfort. Pick up hobbies for instance such as gym work, reading, chess, watching self help YouTubers. It’s not impossible to break out of it. You will have more luck when you start feeling you’re the prize and it’s take it or leave it, if she d…
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:30 AM
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I’ve drove up to an hour and a bit a few times for a chick, wouldn’t drive more than an hour & 30 imo. If she’s really interested she should be able to meet you half way. These days I get women to travel to me or meet half way, best way to play it. Plus if you’re going completely out of your way to meet a girl what’s she suppose to think? I can tell you what’s gonna go through her brain and that’s the fact you got nothing going on and you’re that whipped to get a bit of pussy you’re travelling a…
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:17 AM
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Yeah bro, leave it for an hour even more. Maybe every now then get your texts out in like 10 min intervals maybe 20 mins. Sometimes I don’t message a girl for a day or two if I feel the vibes can’t be changed and we already been intimate. End of the day do what you feel comfy with but don’t be hitting her up all the time. Leave an aura of mystery and if you talking to her all the time it leaves nothing to speak on in person. That don’t mean you should be sitting round your house doing nothing, p…
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:45 AM
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Bro I ain’t had a girlfriend in 4 years now, learn to enjoy being single. Have fun with women but you don’t need to date. Just live your life man, don’t be so worried about that. There’s many great women to meet out there without even dating. Besides the fact that there’s also a lot of shady dynamics in relationships these days and it might just do you more harm then good
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:56 AM
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Horrible horrible advice, don’t listen to this dude unless you wanna be trapped in virginity for the rest of your life. And when you do put out you’re not gonna have the experience that will keep her
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:04 AM
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Move on my bro, you got a kiss that’s a step in the right direction. Even me as many dates as I have not my last date but the date before it I blew it, didn’t even get a kiss. But I move on as much as these girls are glamours we don’t kiss the floor they stand on. Onto the next, man
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:18 AM
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Nahhhh bro not even just give em smoochie kisses first you don’t need tongue, most times I don’t even do tongue. It’s no stress, work on your self-worth so you can go out get that kiss now man. Women are no better then men
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:22 AM
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3 days ain’t bad bro, just don’t make it any longer. Take a look at what I said and go from there
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:39 AM
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Tell her “Pass me your number so we can call, I’d like to make sure you’re not a serial killer. That’d be too much commitment for me”. Once she passes you her number then call her in the night and leave it to anywhere from a 5-15 min talk no more. During the convo tell her “Idc we’re doing something this week/weekend” then set the spot for your meet at the time you want she agrees with. You’ll be alright man, I stuffed up a lot before I got decent at messaging.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:38 AM
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Tbh bro it’s not so much where you go but the vibes you bring, tbh my last like 10+ dates I’ve taken a girl to like a big park walked around a bit and I’ve had much success closing the date and escalating to further than a kiss. It’s mastering being entertaining without having to take her anywhere that imo is important. Just my two cents
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:12 PM
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Bro basically be mysterious in your responses, be flirtatious in your energy and words, be funny if it calls for it, but don’t be nice. It’s taken as weakness by women. If any woman gives you shit check em or cut em off, it’s that simple. Don’t take nothing less than what you deserve. Also never tell a woman you love them or really like them, they want a challenge. Don’t listen to anybody who says different
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:27 AM
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