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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:37 AM
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. _.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:09 PM
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It wasn't that good of a post. Basically what I said was that if they genuinely feel they don't gonna get a date, there was a term that I saw that was queer platonic relationships, basically dating without romantic and sexual feelings ("friendships but with extra steps") they could get a men friendship/roommate they could live with toghether that could act like a 'Platonic Partner'. I kind of see why they would consider it weird. And it was banned because here men cannot ask men questions and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:08 PM
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They weren't exactly triggered, some considered it good but they said it doesn't replace the feeling of a romantic relationship. Basically what I said was that if they genuinely feel they don't gonna get a date, they could get a men friendship/roommate they could live with toghether that could act like a 'Platonic Partner'. I kind of see why they would consider it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:02 PM
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I will finally stop participating on this sub everyone :D Well, kinda. I will not post anything else related to try to fix men's loneliness for example with another men (platonic partner) or anything like that. And not post in general anything else. And probably stop commenting too. Well nobody cares anyway :^
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:51 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:30 PM
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I'm not looking for nothing and I never said I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:16 PM
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Tbh this is also the best way to comprend your feelings. That is also other of my reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:05 PM
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No. And first of all you said asexual and not aromantic. And second I'm mostly asocial and want to have my personal space. Are you trying to compare that to the question I did? Cause it seems like you are trying to prove a point with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:04 PM
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No because I like to lack those urges. But I see the analogy you are trying to do, that is impossible, and also for me to give an advice about how to deny those urges to people that does. I would define it more as giving a cope strategy though :v
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:00 PM
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Cause I'm a narcissist who feels like he is playing a game and being on the men's team. Or something similiar to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:56 PM
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That's sweet to hear not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:44 PM
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That's pretty shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:40 PM
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I didn't know that was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:35 PM
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But that would help a lot for men who are truly lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:34 PM
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Honestly there is no more I can think about then. These type of men are cursed. They just shouldn't obsess over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:33 PM
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I never heard the term 'soundbath' before
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:10 PM
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My dad also wanted to play the guitar, but he is too busy for doing that... Sorry if I do too many questions but in what sport do you participate and what videogames do you play? And that you work at IT kind of explains how you can be at this subreddit at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:56 AM
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So you're technically not mentioning another hobby :v What do you work at?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:50 AM
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I also played piano too! But I stopped because the place was too far from my house and because it was expensive. But maybe I will eventually start again. I only know to play two songs. One is from a game called Hollow Knight and other is the national anthem of my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:48 AM
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cool. The only two things I know how to cook are a burnt breaded cutlet. And soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:34 AM
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Do you have some hobbies apart from participating here? I'm not trying to imply something but I have seen some people daily here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:28 AM
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That is a quite stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:03 AM
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(I'm jooking) At this point I don't take anything here seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:58 AM
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Alpha widow? Are we humans pokemons? Oh and 'Widow' mentioned :v <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:46 AM
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Yes, but not a transGUY, most of the transpeople I saw where MtF (transgirls). This is rare to see. I thought your name was average testosterone dude not average trans dude xd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:17 AM
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Those qualities really depend on the individual. And about the other thing, that is basically how it works my friend. And that is supported by biology, and social media, and culture too. Take it or leave it :v
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:55 AM
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Are you a trans guy?! Omg, you are the first one I ever seen (even on internet) xd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:43 AM
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I already said it on other post but I believe homosexual men and homosexual women are more compatible with each other than straight ones does. And gender expectations still exist. So as a lesbian you might not experiment the issues men and women have when dating each other. (And that not counting that people are all different and where to they meet those people, and the fact that this is a gender war sub) About all what you said, I support that take. But from what it seems most men are straight,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:04 AM
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Argentina win >:)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:40 AM
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It's okay but why does transisionating felt more right for you for this fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:03 AM
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Nah, I see it more like I'm free from that desire. So I don't see it as negative if I'm missing something, I still would wish this more than to feel that desire and be fulfilled, so I don't see it as anything close to a curse, some people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:34 PM
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Is the same thing for me, to be realistic one have to be morally gray the majority of time. And I couldn't care less of your example, I mean I know it wouldn't be good if most people were asexual for the specie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:03 PM
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That is a good criticism. English is not my first language, and it's obvious I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:44 AM
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Mentioning that wasn't necessary at all, and I don't see any reason of why I would end up here again. But thanks for the advice I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:30 PM
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That is way better explanation than my entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:26 PM
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You aren't less human
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:04 PM
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Why do LGBTQIA+ (in this case "A") people think they can evangelize to other people when their entire identity has been about not being evangelized to? I'm just one person. I not represent a portion of that community, and I just happened to be aroace. Just clarifying that. They aren't doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:48 PM
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I know. I would describe it as watching your team lose, you aren't playing but you feel frustrated to see how they are losing (not losing on dating, but in their desesperate behaviors, and their attraction). I genuinely think there could be some way for them to be happier without being dependant of that, but I don't know in what way to explain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:44 PM
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I can't argument anything right now. This was a stupid idea. I just feel frustration that some of them are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:38 PM
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Because I genuinely feel pity for them, and I see that crave and nediness some of them have as VERY pathetic, but it seems I can't do anything for changing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:34 PM
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And a friend can love you too. Just not in a way that they'd want to smash with you, but they can still genuinely love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:28 PM
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Looks like I'm going to be swimming in agreement...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:23 PM
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I can't even know why they want that not matter how they explain it, and that is frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 PM
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I honestly can't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:46 PM
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For what I've seen on a study straight women have more bi tendency than men, and also they have lower desire for men. But that can vary. So their sexuality could be more of a ""choice"" than straight men. I still think framing it as a choice is incorrect. The only choice there would be not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:41 PM
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Would do what? You mean date? Because if is being straight people can't choose that. Well obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:54 PM
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I don't have to do that because some straight people themselves says dating and their options sucks for them. But tbh you are correct, the unique reason I'm here is to feel superiority over others by seeing their struggles that I will never experiment while ignoring the ones I have for other reasons. But it also is kind of pitful and frustrating to see sometimes. (Even cringe sometimes, but I don't have much right to talk about what is cringe)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:03 AM
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I didn't get it tbh. Why did he said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:46 AM
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Fair enough, I only said based on here, just read some of the comments and posts and you will notice why did I said that. Like I always said why did they keep dating if dating and relationships was THAT bad for them and they just responded they can't turn off being straight so they still desire for those even if it sucks for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:39 AM
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That kind of relieves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:36 AM
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That is you talking from your experience? Well, anyway is still sucks for me regardless. But that is because I only see it as some kind of not necessary natural dependence. And that is not even considering about all they talk about here, nothing positive it's all trash for both genders and generalizations to each other. But tbf even if they said something positive I still wouldn't change my opinion, but literally all contributes to my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:35 AM
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Based on all what I see on this sub being straight seriously must SUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:28 AM
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Ok, I will see it. It seems there are two Hades too. Hades 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:51 AM
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Yep, EVEN while being losers they could get a friend, but apparently that is not enough or as easy for them. Because having a relationship is a "need". Then they should adjust, and get used and comfy and stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:48 AM
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That doesn't even exist outside the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:37 AM
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Very loud and pitful people indeed. But much lesser. I don't understand why they are like that, it's just pathetic, degrading and disgusting to have people that needy belonging to the same sex as you. I'm relieved they are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:34 AM
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I see, you like games of control of resources, farming and survival. Now that you mentioned it I remember one called Solateria (I will check the other ones too but I just remember that one so I will put priority xd) I also think there could be a way to make Minecraft a soul-like game. Thanks though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:56 AM
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HK a billion times and Hades no. I gotta see that game, I've seen it mentioned before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:52 AM
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"Brutal" I hate that word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:39 AM
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I have a PC and I recently played Sekiro and Nine Sols. So I'm searching some game similiar or it can be a whole different game. Idk budget but I have 20 gb of space so for preference less thna that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:28 AM
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Can you people recommend me some videogame to play? Idk why do I ask on a subreddit mostly full of people that probably aren't interested in that but well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:26 AM
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Yeah, I edited that. I'm just doing many things at the same time that I didn't understand well your point at first, and that is a pretty good point I don't even know why I take the contrary (well, no specifically contrary but unable to understand) Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:25 PM
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Well, I agree with that. Obviously having one person to support you is always something positive. And as you say there are systems that makes relationships less needed to have stability and health. Plus I wanted to say dependence no emotional dependence. My mistake. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:17 PM
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I was specifically talking about dependence on one individual alone. But well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:59 PM
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By systems do you mean for example a healthcare system and others? Because we obviously depend on others in those regards because we are on a society. But other than that I don't understand what do you mean by that, because that is different from being emotionally dependant of other person. I don't know why are you mixing these two things together, do you think people stay in relationships mainly because they might get some support when they are physically or mentally ill or need economical supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:52 PM
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I don't agree with the last point, and friendship could be enough to replace that feeling and it should be. Other than that you would be just creating some kind of dependance on a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:30 PM
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And that is pretty hard for people that want that to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:53 AM
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I see, people are gonna shit on me because of that overgeneralization I made about young people. Shit. Well, it's true though. Obviously if you go at a park or some place you are gonna see more young couples. But that doesn't deny that young people are having less relationships BECAUSE that social pressure is disappearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:47 AM
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I will, and it's fine, I didn't deny there are other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:26 AM
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Sorry if I didn't bring many points, you seem smart but a bit morally gray. But it seems that at least we agree on one thing that is what I said on the title of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:22 AM
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So you say that encouraging people by making it more socially expected and more of a need for some benefit they might get from it, is the best method for a high pairing rate that is needed? I see... I don't say you're wrong, that might work well, but that doesn't sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:11 AM
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Yes, one would expect it to decline, that is what is going to happen this time in a few years on my opinion. People still want relationships but people that don't, or at least in the current time, now have more choices and are less pressured. And some people were forced to pursue that for one specific style of life like you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:53 AM
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I think that was called compulsive heterosexuality or something like that. But that is not the exact term. And I think that is VERY true for women, and it happened much time before on history, that they didn't even had choice sometimes. Nowadays this is disappearing more and more. And that is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:36 AM
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Fair enough. I wanted to frame it more as a question but the post would be banned for "circle jerking". I still believe part of my point is true though, for a good portion of young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:32 AM
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Who even says that? I usually like to befriend men more but friendships are friendships and it's only dependant of what kind of dynamics are you searching
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:36 AM
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I'm not sad or dejected, and I'm still here <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:48 PM
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I see. I guess you like way more the Dark Fantasy setting and dodging-based combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:08 PM
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It's much parry focused, I didn't play the other souls games. Sekiro was boring for you or something more you didn't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:49 PM
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That sounds like projection <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:44 PM
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I don't know you but I assume that is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:43 PM
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Yes it is. It's kicking my ass though. I thought it was going to be easy because I played Nine Sols before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:36 PM
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Some of you played Sekiro? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:31 PM
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How many of you are not straights here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:24 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:54 PM
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Yes, I never would walk alone on night, but what kind of logic is that? I never say they are the responsible for the action that happened to them. You're just trying to make me seem like I was, but I wasn't. I just said that things are more probabily to happen in certain circumstances. If someone gets the thing done to them by other person IS NOT THEIR FAULT. I already specified that most of the time the people that say that are on bad faith trying to blame the victim. But FAIR ENOUGH. You are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:23 PM
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I'm pretty sure there is always a circumstance where all is more probabily to happend, I don't know why are you thinking I'm saying the victim contributes to the violent act on them by saying that. If I go alone at night there are more chances to me getting st 4bbd to death than if is on day and accompanied, that doesn't make me one that contributes to that act on me. And that doesn't mean that it can't happend to me on day and accompanied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:07 PM
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Obviously no. But things have more chances to happend in certain circumstances. Humans are much harder to evade so any attempt to compare it to another thing is hard, because even with all preventions it can still happend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:38 AM
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"but vampires can stand in the shadows" of the day too. It was a bad analogy, I know. I think people already know that the blame is from whoever is causing harm. That is basic knowledge. If someone feels the victim is the one to blame is simply delusional. About telling the vampires to fuck off... Well one vampire literally owned an island so good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:31 AM
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That is very relatable. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 AM
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I don't understand most of the text. But on my opinion all sympathy from everyone I encountered is performative or for selfish reasons. No gender exceptions. I'm pretty sure not MOST men will say that. And unfortunately if someone is saying those things it might sound like blaming but is to be aware that they have to be more careful, not that is their fault. Is like being on a place full of vampires, they advice you that you don't go out at the night, but the vampires can also stand on the shado…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:51 AM
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What even is this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:55 AM
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Well, thank you, I'm not that good investigating data. Or I not take enough time to analyze them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:52 PM
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It feels normal? I mean, I don't really have anything to compare to. It's not like a plus though, I would say I'm just lucky to evade having the need of having a relationship or the problems that it might have. Other than that I'm just another bored person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:29 PM
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Not even that it seems. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:21 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/women-display-more-fluidity-in-sexual-attractions-and-fantasies-than-men/ "Men reported very high levels of attraction toward their preferred gender. At the same time, they reported very low levels of attraction toward their non-preferred gender. Women showed a different profile. They reported slightly lower levels of attraction to their preferred gender compared to men. More importantly, they reported higher levels of attraction to their non-preferred gender than men did…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:10 PM
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I'm reading those. I respond you while I read. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201710/are-same-sex-or-heterosexual-relationships-more-stable (2017) "The gaps in the stability of same-sex and different-sex relationships are diminishing. Still, if you thought all relationships would show the same stability today, given the current legal and cultural climate, that is not the case: Overall, same-sex couples reported shorter relationship lengths than different-sex couples …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:49 PM
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Basically dating itself sucks and depends highly on luck on who you find. Seems like I have a win with my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:49 PM
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Is that Hatsune Miku in the style of Power Puff Girls? Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:46 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:32 AM
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Most are kind of toxic here. Tbh if it wasn't like that I wouldn't be here on first place, I haven't any reasons more than to watch the levels of toxicity while trying to sell a pretty "general" truth the two can have Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:13 AM
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Some straight people have the belief that dating for gay people is easier. Maybe it is because men and women are a bit incompatible or at least for what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:37 PM
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The difference is that you need a job to survive. You can dislike working and complain about it, but you're still dependent on having a job to support yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:20 PM
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I don't mean on general, just those type of people here, I don't identify with any of those terms, neither know what some of those means completly tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:25 PM
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Ok, that would be fine. I will do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:28 PM
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First of all I'm not straight. Second. I don't believe that anyway, he is a damn ped0.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:27 PM
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That they are attracted to youthful traits. And the mentally ill part was what you mentioned "He could turn his wife into a 16 years old" but that is an exaggeration I GUESS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:21 PM
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You take it as complaining. And who is stating facts? To 1, I'm pretty sure I lurked enough to see that is basically at least a third part of the content here, at least. To 2, I think is a good advice for the type of people I find here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:18 PM
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This sounds mentally ill to me. But I guess is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:14 PM
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Nope. No to red pill and none in specific. This sub in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:08 PM
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...have you seen, idk, even twitter? Nope. Exactly, why haven't you consider not complaining, considering all this post is just complaining? In my eyes I'm just stating a fact. Instead of complaining on the internet for nothing, saying that they hate the activity they could just... Not date and not waste time? But fair enough, this sub whole purpose is to discuss those topics. Is just that there are people with genuine resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:01 PM
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Most people here are better single, for their own sake and the sake of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:42 PM
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Is still impressive to me that people call the dating a market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:32 AM
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It's dumb because you are mixing things, friendships with partnership, and parenthood. They might share emotional similitudes have but they are not the same, and one can't be a "replacement" for the other, obviously you think you are correct if you mix all those things. From YOUR perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:21 PM
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That they have to be resourceful, be prepared psychologically, and that it can ruin their life, priorities and plans, and they can ruin the life's of their kids too. Believe or not it seems that s big amount of adults didn't know that. That is why young people are not having kids, I didn't thought of it much, but now I see, relationships don't need to disappear to make the same results: lowering population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:06 PM
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You were more reasonable on your other comment, maybe bringing a point I didn't see. But in this one you weren't as smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:55 PM
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That is 100% unrelated to what I wanted to say, and I was referring in general, in no way we would analyze one kid and when we know they are gay be like "Oh, yes, you have more priority to have relationships" or something like that. And I'm aware they like each other, that doesn't change much the idea, is just teaching them the truth about parenthood. They might still form relationships, but be less eager to have kids, there is protection to evade pregnancy And wherever it is convenient for some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:30 PM
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i bet the straight young people don't desire it as much as generations before, even less to desire to be a parent, plus that doesn't really matter, we are aware that population will decrease the next generation. So they'll have to start planning how to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:45 AM
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Telling them that is exactly the opossite extreme of what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:54 PM
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That is a pretty good opinion. Knowledge of how bad it can be, while not discouraging anyone directly it can be useful for having the same effects, but that is not morally bad because it lets them be aware of what can go wrong or what is negative of motherhood and parenthood, and let's them take their own risk and decisions about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:09 PM
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I know. This is purely for entertainment, I'm not searching agreement. And my opinion is not similar to what a "duck" would say so it doesn't make sense, plus if I talk like a clown doesn't mean that I work in a circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:44 PM
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Not incel. And what is wrong with me if I am young? Do my opinion changes it's credibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:40 PM
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That is an exaggeration. But you are right, we shouldn' manipulate people to get in one way of life or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:38 PM
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In my opinion we are still very incentivated, from family, and from our social circles, it's treated as normal to eventually have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:36 PM
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You are not gonna do anything anyway, it's an exaggeration, but even without interruptions and not bothering people, we will still have a decrease in population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:33 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:32 PM
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The jokes goes as response to the comment where it belongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:31 PM
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Much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:29 PM
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First of all what you said is not true, they shouldn't have kids if they not want it and in some cases is life destroying both for them and the kids. If you think it is the purpose of life then that is up to you. But maybe you are partly correct, the problem will not disappear, it would be just more slow. But even now we not think much about climate change, almost like it is inexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:28 PM
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I actually agree, we should encourage them to be nice dudes with other dudes and then have them french kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:02 PM
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Why is it a threat? I only see stupid and bitter people online debating with the most generalizations I ever seen XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:58 PM
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I usually don't participate on this but dude, that is just not true, they are the most pathetic version of men, at most men wouldn’t protect because of fear. You have a very negative version of men if you believe most would feel happy, not saying that most are protectors but definetly no pathetic bitter psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:46 PM
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You know how to fix it? Not participating. I hope my advice helps you 🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:42 PM
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There is no one who gains benefits from marriage more than the people who are only on it for interests (money or sex or status or someone to do the housework for free). The only benefit I can think of is being financially stable if the two of them works (but that would create a mismatch in who does the housework if it's not done properly). Other than that, marriage is not supposed to be something for obtaining benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:27 AM
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I was refering to the other thing about the confusion that if someone wants a long-term relationship or one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:01 AM
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When I say partially I not mean that I agree that women aren selecting partners thinking “if I get pregnant, will he hunt and protect" or that men should get their sense of security on relationships. I say that there usually are more reasons than just enjoying other's company. And there are interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:10 PM
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Finally, something I can agree with. Partially
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:14 PM
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Correct too. Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:52 PM
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That is fair I guess. But depending on the context, the best option is being sincere and tell them that you just want something casual. Otherwise that can generate confusion and lead to why the others are upset at this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:36 PM
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Does that happend often? If it does. Then yes, of course you have to make your intentions clear, both. I don't even understand completly what is your point with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:25 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:21 AM
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Thanks for clarifing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:00 AM
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Yes it does exist, I just basically not feeling sexual attraction or any type. I don't think it haves many downsides, whatever you see them as problems is up to you. And I'm aware what I'm talking about it might be a flawed overstatement exagerated so the post gets more attention, so don't consider me insane for that. I know I'm talking of the worse examples of heterosexuality, but they aren't that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:47 AM
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Thanks for everyone for giving your opinions. I'm sorry if my intial aproach or wording on this post was a bit unconventional, dismissive or agressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:25 AM
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Tbh I do have a quite negative view of male sexuality, I will not lie about that. But I'm probabily generalizing a lot and I'm aware of that, that is why I'm open to opinions like yours. That is a pretty good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:43 AM
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Mitosis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:41 AM
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I think there was some kind of method or procedure to reduce libido but I don't think is a safe option to men and not a solution too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:29 AM
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Didn't think of that. Fanfictions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:28 AM
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If the world would be that way I wouldn't exist in first place, and "everything enjoyable about being human" is definetly not sex and romance. I don't like fast food though, soup is more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:16 AM
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Thanks for proving me wrong :D If I'm honest I was waiting for that. I'm sick of these type of people. I still wouldn't change my opinion entirely though. Cause these men are still a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:12 AM
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Well, thanks. I will not invalidate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:10 AM
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How can I disagree with your personal experience without invalidating it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:05 AM
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I'm definetly not mentally sane and you're allowed to disagree I guess But at least say why I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:58 AM
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I didn't say do what I do, I explained what friendships are driven for. In my opinion you should stay like that, is better for people to not be friends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:50 AM
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I'm aroace. Literally all of my interactions I do are because I want to speak with the person. I like some personality traits of the other person and I like to be around them to talk or play with them some game or just chill, not all the time because I'm easily exhausted but that happends eith every person. And all of my friendships are with boys of my age because I can connect more easier with people of my same sex and I don't see much interest in talking with girls. You are practically telling…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:34 AM
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Sorry, I understanded your comment in a wrong way XD. I thought you say "he" is not missing. This person is insane, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:23 AM
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First explain why do you think men shouldn't want to be with other men. I don't understand that. You said you talk for yourself, and now say why men in general shouldn't form bonds with other men as simple as friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:22 AM
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I don't, do whatever you want. But I simply can't understand your logic, I wasn't forced to be friends with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:20 AM
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You are mixing concepts that are not related, sexuality with friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:17 AM
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Fair criticism. It would be more of a discussion type than debate. But it worked either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:10 AM
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I don't understand a thing. Are you mixing friendship with sexuality? Could you be more clear? So by your logic I don't have any reason with being with any human being just because I'm not attracted to them cause I'm aroace?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:05 AM
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It's fine. I don't experience that need so I can't give an argument against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:59 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't know if is biological or mostly for society. Is not an "issue with us" is a problem we face, and you can't entirely blame other persons for that. It was my error to frame it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:28 PM
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I clarify that I not said that this problem can be fixed with a relationship with "love", it was just for evading people saying that a relationship does can make one happier. But I still believe that if one is unhappy then he is still gonna be. I don't agree that most women are shallow though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:20 PM
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You're right. I missed that point. But "most" men is a bit of a generalization though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:15 PM
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That is a completly different topic from what I said. But that happends when you mix two things that have the same word "loneliness", it was my mystake. If I just framed it on other way, or publish it on another place it could be better. But my main point was for an specific group of men that believes that every misery comes from not having sex with women. Well, obviously they don't think of it as an absolute way, but I think what I talked about on the post is related to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:05 PM
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I kind of agree, making others aware of your inner issues is selfish. But I don't understand how your gender "sparks joy".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:52 PM
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I see. I was talking of a different type of loneliness then and I mixed it with it. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:47 PM
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It's isn't that serious for my own luck, I'm better than most people. But thanks. Yeah, you're right talking with your family doesn't help much. About the love thing, tbh I don't really understand the concept of what love is. But I understand it as mutual empathy and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:18 PM
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Having way too much IQ and being that fed up sounds like an awful experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:31 PM
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Then she would be a stupid and immature person. That interaction sounds almost fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:02 PM
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I literally never heard of that case. But I guess is more on the individual side because most women not care about that, I would say that they would like if most men were indifferent about what they wear XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:57 PM
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In a specie level, yes men and women need each other. On an individual level, nope. Now it haves the correct flair. (Clapping sounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:28 PM
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That is still on a specie level. But I could give you the point because basically all people wouldn't have been born at all so tecnically that affects the individual level. But separating that, people still not need a person of other sex as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:04 PM
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In a specie level, yes men and women need each other. On an individual level, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:58 PM
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I mean. The statement is correct but the flair isn't the correct one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:12 AM
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Both are important to some extent. We are all at least a little superficial, even when it comes to thing unrelated to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:11 AM
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I mean there are people who surely do that as some kind of way to vent, since they can't tell nobody else. But not taking the diagnosis or advice of an AI seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:34 AM
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Realistically, I think I would be dead even before that is a thing, or have no money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:16 AM
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I would only buy a robot as a friend if it looks like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:15 AM
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I honestly don't care. I don't know why I even posted this on first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:10 AM
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If I'm honest I was originally going to do some kind of criticize of heterosexuality or sexuality itself. The worst part of it like the obssesion, how it change lives and behavior. Etc. But I was about to generalize a lot and people would get mad so I choosed this and erase most of the parts. And there is no much room to 'debate' about this, is something peope agree to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:42 AM
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Didn't think twice. And I don't know what kind of problems they face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:39 AM
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I didn't mention LGBT because I didn't know about their experiences tbh. Most of what I heard are of straight persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:34 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:33 AM
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What worries me most is that I literally think I've seen a couple of people do that. On internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:48 AM
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Why casual sex is such a deal? I understand that people maybe want a relationship to feel less lonely but why do you do that much work for just an such overrated experience? It's doesn't sound like it's worth it for a lot. It mighy be that these guys feel the same as if they want a drug?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:36 PM
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That is obvious on my opinion. Who is telling men to feel guilty for other people's action? But women aren't to blame for the abuse they received, not the other men too. But people, just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:23 AM
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For what I see many people would rather be not attracted to the opossite gender. You don't have any idea of how much it relieves me being aroace while seeing straight dating struggles XD. It's like watching a war with no-clip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:28 AM
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What people always say is: -Womens have more options but not good ones, since most guys just want sex with them and some are bad persons. -Men have to put much more effort to get one option. I consider both true but biologically it makes sense. Women have to be more picky and men the pursuers. My recomendation is: play Celeste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:15 PM
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You are correct. But I don't think the typical provider–home mom relationship dissapeared. I see them a lot incluiding on young relationships of people slightly older than me. The worse part of it is that some women does both at the same time (home mom and second provider) without the help of their partner. But is good that these stereotypes are dissapearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:44 PM
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I agree. But I wouldn't say is useless, it's good to improve but the mentality is wrong. If you do it all just for getting women's attention instead of yourself is a trap. But I guess for some people think that is a good reason because "is biologically wired into men's mind" type of shit to justify their pathetic obssesion, even if is was for biology, it doesn't erase critical thinking, they can choose their own motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:14 AM
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I'm not sure in what tone did you mean that but anyways thank you, my adults are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:30 AM
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Asexual too? Good to find another one here. Why do you want to find a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:27 PM
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I didn't think that was the "obvious" part tbh. But it makes sense. Is a sequence= 3-2 and last 1 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:54 PM
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Is more easy to think like that when you are uncapable of experiencing things. Every answer can be true with the right proof and to the correct audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:33 PM
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Don't worry, I didn't change my mind on nothing. If I'm super honest that IS the type of answers I was expectating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:29 PM
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Thanks for telling your daughter experience. I personally see asexuality as something stable for me, though I know experiences can differ depending of the person. I also think labels shouldn't feel like limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:43 PM
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"Child-like nature"? Meeeen that sounds creepy XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:46 PM
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I'm not calling your daughter a liar. She just may have been wrong about her intial perception of herself, she wasn't accurate but close. Asexuality is not something that can change, aromanticism maybe, because "falling in love" is something people not experiment often, that is why I not label myself as Ace because I'm not sure if I will feel something similiar to romantic interest, that is very unlikely because I never felt like that. She is probabily asexual but not aromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:38 PM
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That is a good theory! I believe that is one of the main reasons. And that people tied the idea of relationships to their self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:10 PM
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She wasn't ace then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:04 PM
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So basically the only reason people want a partner is because it makes them feel superior and because they are attracted to them phisically. I'm not interesed in relationships anymore xd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:32 PM
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That's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:20 PM
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Cause I have a weird interest in knowing how relationships works for people even if I not want to be in one. And tecnically asexual doesn't mean lacking romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:19 PM
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I'm sorry but I noticed your flair says Non-binary male, non-binary means no female and no male neither so why "non-binary MALE"? Sorry, just a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:51 PM
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I didn’t mention my sexuality in this post. And what's the problem if I don't understand that? If you're bothered by me or don’t have anything relevant to add, please don’t comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:30 AM
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Damn that is a lot of dates. What made those five-four stand out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:16 AM
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That makes sense if you value long-term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:08 AM
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That is basically what the other person said. And that is true, but I don't think people can simply find their perfect person easily, and some persons like solitude. Well, "solitude", because they might find friends instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:04 AM
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My memory is fckin great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:58 AM
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That is great. But I didn't say being single "is better", I said better for you. If that was the case. Because some people are simply not compatible with most or simply don't like the idea of having a relationship. It's not that being single is better for everyone, or that being in a relationship is better for everyone too. It's neutral. But I'm fine with having more than one opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:47 AM
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Yes, I genuinely don't understand those who consider it so important to have a partner. Pursuing a relationship should be something secondary in life and it's not something everyone gets or wants. That is why I'm so curious of how others sees relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:30 AM
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How would you describe that feeling of "not compatible enough" or for example what would be compatible for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:11 AM
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I see, thank you for explaining. But I think I may add the thing they may be searching is some kind of connection and shared pleasure in the act, not only the pleasure of having it (that is why they not only hire prostitutes). Like a combination of physical pleasure with emotional connection? Or at least that is my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:20 AM
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The trick is that there is some men that indeed do hire prostitutes and that sees no difference in having it with a partner. I think s3x itself may be "overrated" by people, the thing they may be searching is some kind of connection and shared pleasure in the act. Or at least that is my theory. Personally, I think it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:18 AM
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Your entire purpose for existing is to eat, sleep, poop, and have sex. That sounds honestly unfullfilling. I don't get why "sex" is supposedly a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:00 AM
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The majority of simps I've seen are pathetic. So I don't know what simping exactly means here :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:54 PM
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