AlwaysAnOption Archive

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2	In the divorce process First off sorry I know you didn't want this outcome. I don't know much about Colombian laws and I'm guessing you don't either. Please meet with a lawyer ASAP. Can you do a public or private school instead of homeschool? Her schooling the children will mean she has no job and that's going to mean you will likely end up supporting her. Getting your kids into a education program that is not your ex-wife would most likely help you, but talk with a lawyer first.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/24 04:42 PM
12	Saw my ex-wife on a dating app. I don’t understand. She’s your ex and both you and her had set up profiles on this dating app to try to find companionship. You don’t sound ready to date to be honest. Just take some time to reconnect with yourself, your hobbies, with your friends, etc. Good luck to you	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/24 08:16 PM
0	Ohio - Remarriage and Child support This one isn't true. Her getting remarried DOES affect child support. At least that was what was written into my divorce. I pay until children reach of age or she co-habitates with an unrelated adult.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/23 05:15 PM
1	Do I just need time? I used bumble and tinder. From my experience the women were more serious on bumble at least in my area. And I made use of the video chat feature for a quick call just to make sure I wasn't getting 5 year old pics or anything crazy, I'm upper 30's though and you're younger so I don't think you'll have that same issue.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 07:41 PM
2	Do I just need time? Be careful with generalities. The woman I am seeing now I met in online dating and she has been as generous and nice as I you could hope for. I have also met the "what can you do for me" types on there as well, but you'll just have to be quick to cut and move on to the next. One tip is to have your first date be cheap or even free. Walking and talking over coffee, gelato, or something small is a great first date and you're just trying to see if you connect on basic things first anyhow.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 07:34 PM
2	Do I blow it all up? m unless you have evidence that he maybe preys on his clients. Ju I agree with this too. Not going to help you in the least to mess up his life too. But will probably help you is not letting her know that you know about all of it. You said she talked about wanting a dissolution just push on that and she'll see her exit to freedom/happiness with the PT. Let that distract her and you'll probably get a very smooth and very amicable dissolution. Poking a bear with a stick (confronting her) just does…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/23 03:24 PM
5	14 years gone hurt and confused My divorce had some similarities with what you're going through and probably lots of other men here have gone through. She was no longer happy after 15 years married just as she was finishing up nursing school about to start earning money after over a decade of me being the sole provider. A big mistake I made that I only realized in hindsight was during separation she was asking for things like a new bedroom suite and an expensive family vacation and other stuff. And I stupidly did it thinking i…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/23 01:52 PM
2	I need a hobby for the 50% I don't have my son What’s a good starter car?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 06:51 PM