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I do all that stuff as well... 😆
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 11:00 PM
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Hell yes it is!
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 05:37 PM
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Understood. I'm rather skeptical by nature as well.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 04:45 PM
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I'm not clear of what you're implying, but most of the tracks are about divorce and going through the process of it. Some track names DENIAL, ANGER, DEPRESSION, ACCEPTANCE, Self-Inflicted Wounds, Starting Over, Only Want the Best I've been a mess all morning and thought some others might appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 03:37 PM
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This is the answer. Keep conversations limited and only when dealing with the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 03:04 PM
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Childish, petty, narcissistic bitches are the worst! Best of luck with your situation. Look into the Grey Rock and 180 techniques if you haven't already. It may help to find a therapist as well. Stay strong bro
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 11:58 AM
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Sure, the form might "transfer the asset", but I'm very skeptical that completing that form will transfer the title of the vehicle as well. My current MSA states that we have 14 days after the issuance of the divorce decree to have our vehicle titles transferred into each respective parties names. Regardless, what your ex did was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 08:23 AM
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Something our lawyers should have had done during the divorce but amateur hour. This is patently false. Terms are put into the agreement that states who gets which assets, and then a timeline is given that the transfer date should be completed by. You should have both gone to the DMV and transferred the title. Your attorneys don't work for the DMV.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 12:25 AM
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That's a drop in the bucket. It might seem bad now, but you'll look back in 10 years and be grateful.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 11:40 PM
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That sounds to me like she outed herself as a materialistic, money grubbing, gold digger. It probably won't last with the new ex guy either. You dodged a bullet. Go enjoy life. How long were you two together?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 09:11 AM
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I've been attracted to women who treat me the same way that my asshole father did. So I'm a man with daddy issues. Go figure.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 09:49 AM
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I sincerely hope you got yourself into therapy to understand WHY you pick the same woman in a different body. I'm going through the same shit and finding the right therapist has been very eye-opening. I'm on divorce #3, the last two cheated on me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 10:38 PM
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There's 8 Billion people on the planet, I like your odds of finding someone that won't fuck with your emotions like this one is.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:52 PM
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Any idea if she's been seeing someone or was cheating? It sounds like she's trying to emotionally blackmail you after something else didn't work out the way she had hoped. I could be way off base, though.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:21 PM
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Bro, find a therapist. I've uncovered so much about myself in a few short weeks. Specifically, how I attach to relationships based on my childhood experience of being raised by an abusive father. Things are becoming so clear. A lot more work needs to be done, but I'm optimistic about my future as a single father!
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 12:11 PM
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I think my wife is delusional or something. The narcissism prevents them from thinking clearly. She thinks that you NEED her.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 04:44 PM
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I'm about 9 days into my stbx revealing her true self. The world doesn't look big yet, but damn do I feel like a weight has been lifted!
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 12:26 AM
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You do the same bro.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 05:57 PM
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I have zero desire for "genuine women" at the moment. Everything is too fresh. I can have a good time with my clothes on. If they come off, they come off, but it's not my objective. My mindset is to have a fun distraction for a few hours when I can. The club that I go to is not for teenagers, I'm nearly 50 and am on the younger side of a typical crowd. It's fucking bananas.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 03:31 PM
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Bro, I'm down 5 lbs this weekend. I allowed myself to drink my sorrow away on Sat (Dday), was up until 3AM, heart was racing and I couldn't turn my mind off. Was up and moving by 5AM Sunday morning. Last night in bed by 11 and up by 330, was off to the gym by 530. I'm planning to pull back considerably on the alcohol intake for now. I'm enjoying the clarity.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 01:32 PM
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Yeah, I have a friend who's wife went through meno and her chemicals were all out of balance. Fortunately she got some help before things got too bad with her hubby.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 01:12 PM
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Agreed. I've been close a few times, but I have shit to do right now.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 12:16 PM
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I still lay in bed sometimes crying myself to sleep while watching TV. I'm about 48 hours into my "new world" (stbx admitted to cheating after I confronted her this weekend) and haven't allowed myself to cry yet. I'm still so numb.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 09:56 AM
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No prenup. I didn't have shit going into this one to protect 😆. I'll have one for #4 though! /s
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 09:49 AM
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So, she always has her phone on walks, but it was walking out of the house with her WORK phone in hand, then watching her cross the street and connect to an ear bud, was the final piece to the puzzle. I don't have access to those phone records and she knows I'm smart enough to check our personal ones. There was a lot of increased work phone activities on weekends and late hours that she repeatedly tried to pass off as part of her new job.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 09:48 AM
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That was the kicker with her, she did offer a lot. Even though things were a bit disconnected, I still thought we were on solid ground and were slowly making progress.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 03:20 AM
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It hasn't been my top priority in the last 24 hours... lol. But yeah, not going
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 03:15 AM
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Right? I'll tell her to take him or fuck a bartender while there. It was supposed to be the honeymoon we never had.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 02:57 AM
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Our incomes are similar, so no alimony, but she got a nice inheritance when her father passed. She thinks we should still go on a vacation together in Jan... fuckin looney tunes. We're already in the process of dividing assets and rerouting paychecks, etc
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 02:20 AM
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100% agree. I'm reaching out tomorrow about counseling/ therapy. I'm either driving them away or missing serious red flags.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 08:54 PM
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Meanwhile, we live under the same roof but she gets nothing from me other than her bills paid. Are you still in this same situation? If so, how's that working out?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 08:10 PM
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Let that sink in..she allowed that to happen If she allows that she is unstable and she has no self.control or respect for.what you built. Her feeling in the moment over took her rational thought. That's unstable That is the hard truth my friend...move on Damn bro, this hits hard. Great advice.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah, it's definitely info that I learned over the years after we got married.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 06:51 PM
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I wish it was that easy
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:53 PM
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The other dude didn't ruin anything, she did. I don't even know if he knows her living situation (married, kids, dogs, etc).
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah, it's not my first rodeo with this. Silly me for thinking she was different. The kicker is, as soon as she started traveling, she started looking and quickly found what she was looking for. This morning she gave me the, "we've been through a lot of things in the past 12 years, you can't judge me by this one action." I can't? Why not?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:09 PM
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Thanks. I didn't really sleep last night, 2 hours max. Have been running on adrenaline, rapid heart rate, full of anxiety, etc. This shit sucks
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:05 PM
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I've been thrift m through so much already with her as my ROCK. If not for her, I wouldn't have gotten custody of my kids. It's so complicated...
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 06:40 AM
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This is the crux of my turmoil.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 06:05 AM
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I'm not sure I can keep things stable without the whore.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 05:56 AM
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I don't know where I can go that's in the school district. I don't think I can afford it on my own. She's on the verge of her senior year, will most likely be cheer captain, in the process of selecting college, etc. I'm not sure if I'll be that much more unhappy than I already was. I'm a bit relieved right now that I'm not crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 04:34 AM
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I just don’t want you to get screwed over like some men have in this community-where she claims abuse and he can’t go back home That sounds like a nightmare. I really don't think it's like that. I was there for her when she lost her parents ffs. To be completely honest, I'm not shocked. She admitted to cheating on her ex husband and I've slowly pieced together that she was the high school slut that lost her virginity at 15 and would blow dudes in the park after sundown. I had hoped she'd be a ch…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 04:15 AM
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Yeah, it's been on my mind this week while I was thinking through everything. Obviously her word doesn't mean shit.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 04:10 AM
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Out of curiosity, as you have re-married a few times, were things different in the beginning each time? Yes. I really don't know at this point if it's me or the partners I choose, which is also me. 😕
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 04:08 AM
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It's my daughter, not her daughter. Wife is like a legit borderline millionaire due to inheritance. I've lived a life for the last decade that I've never imagined. And so have my kids. I feel like stability for my daughter is in her best interest, but I'm not sure what that looks like at the moment.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 04:06 AM
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Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:57 AM
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Just some thoughts. De facto, your #3 requested from you a one-sided open marriage .. Not at all. I flat-out caught her. Quite frankly, I think it's just physical for her, we've been physically disconnected for years. I can count on one hand the number of times we've had sex in the last 15 months. How will she react to the news that quasi-mom #3 is cheating/checked out from marriage/looking for her way out? Won't she think that quasi-mom checks out on her, too? I don't know, I don't want to tell…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:56 AM
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Take care of yourself; if you will be OK, you will be able to take care of your kid. If you won't be OK, it's practically guaranteed that your kid will suffer too. So here's the thing, wife #2, fucked around on me AND got pregnant. She drug out the divorce to use my insurance benefits for her child's birth! This one is just the cheating...lol. We even dated for 4 years before marrying so I could be "sure". I'm already a 5x plus/ week gym goer. I think I have the mental strength. My mindset is al…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:43 AM
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Ironically enough, I've thought about martial arts in the past. I tend to hyper-focus on things and think that would be a positive outlet.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 03:31 AM
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