Which is the bigger nightmare?

SkeptiCynical · 2023-12-21T14:53:05+00:00

This is literally a poll. Please, no polls.

anon4hlp · 2023-12-21T12:51:37+00:00

Honestly, #1 is worse. Depending on your country's laws, you might still be assumed to be the father simply because you're married.

Bretweir_jerky · 2023-12-21T12:22:04+00:00

I’ve lived #2. Can’t imagine if it resulted in #1. Either way she’s gone ASAP. Sad part is it’s 1 or 2 for all men

Cookbook_ · 2023-12-21T12:34:30+00:00

I've been there. We shouldn't endulge such masochistic fantasies, it will just makes us upset about things that aren't happening.

I was like that when my ex started dating a man she knew while we were still married. I could torture myself with the images I pictured in my mind.

I realised I got angry purely about things I imagined.

Sure they are having sex, but other people intimate things are always weird to picture, try to imagine your parents or friends doing it and from the revulsion it's clear that one should only think of their own sexlife.

Selfhate and wallowing on such feelings and images serves no purpose and will just keep you down.

guy_n_cognito_tu · 2023-12-21T12:58:38+00:00

Those two aren't mutually exclusive.....

One is worse. In most states, you'll be assumed the father until you PROVE that you aren't. In many places she can just add your name to the birth certificate.

darweter_DPI · 2023-12-21T14:12:01+00:00

It's like a Biden vs. Trump election question, both are worse.

tragicaddiction · 2023-12-21T14:40:17+00:00

scenario 1 has longer term issues and is terrifying if you already have kids.

judasholio · 2023-12-21T14:56:21+00:00

I’ve lived through a scenario one. With the other man being convicted rapist and felon.

joemoorcarz · 2023-12-21T17:39:30+00:00

You missed scenario 3 you discover wife's infidelity by getting an STD.

ALL are bad and far to common.

Poundsi3 · 2023-12-21T23:50:34+00:00

Both suck brother. Get out there and live through the silence. You got this. In 2 months time. You won’t even be concerned. Cause you’ll be better.

Decon_SaintJohn · 2023-12-22T03:15:05+00:00

Hmmmm, shes driving a Vagina Clown Car or has a new Baby Daddy? Nightmares for her maybe, freedom for you.

bg555 · 2023-12-22T07:04:31+00:00

1 is much worse because an innocent child is being brought into the world by a shit person.

Title	Which is the bigger nightmare?
Author	AlwaysCheatedOn3
Upvotes	14
Comments	18
Date	December 21, 2023 12:14 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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1 is much worse because an innocent child is being brought into the world by a shit person.