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Then go have sex. When the guy leaves after either you'll see you still feel lonely or feel better
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 03:42 AM
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If sex is literally your endgame, which OP said, then yes I agree with you. Thanks for addressing
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:38 AM
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Awesome post and great lessons
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:36 AM
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They'd say it's racism. Stereotyping. Hypersexualization Easy
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:27 AM
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How about addressing some of these (2&3 personally) instead of just dismissing them?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:18 AM
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Hey to be fair, you perfectly described pre-TRP me
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 09:09 PM
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Maybe you should share her, you'll get some alone time
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 08:48 PM
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It's been about half a month. How's it working out?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:31 AM
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I did approach. Got rejected. Still a win since I don't think about her anymore :)
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:30 AM
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Is that a realistic goal or am I bullshitting myself if I think 5 months is enough? That depends entirely on one thing - how bad do you want it?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:44 PM
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I mean exactly what you said. I daydream about bullshit situations I'll never be in where I save the day or some other dumb crap. I also fantasize about the oneitis that I've barely talked to. I'm trying to do it less Something I found that helped me yesterday was working on my whistling. It forces me to pay attention to something that's in the moment. Can't always be walking around whistling though
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:41 PM
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Hmu if you need help with coding
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:53 PM
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Good: Gym has become disciplined. It's no longer a question of if I want to go. I even lifted in jeans last week because I didn't have my shorts. Bought a tank when I was wearing a dress shirt, ended up fitting really well too Socializing has gotten a lot easier. I still spend a lot of time in my own head, but I recognize it and hop back to reality Bad: Guitar & cooking are still not disciplined. I have to try harder Developed serious oneitis, I fantasize way too much. Gotta find a way to fix th…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:48 PM
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I still listen to the same music, I just understand it more now
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 06:29 PM
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Got membership at a gym that's on the way home so I have no excuses to skip it anymore. Started making more food in bulk and am always eating. Taking guitar more seriously by employing No Zero Days (if you haven't read it just search no zero days Reddit). Here's to hoping I stick with it for that summer bod
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 06:28 PM
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I didn't do anything today. I left work early to cook, clean, play my guitar, then go to a dancing event and I did absolutely none of it. I did, however, not smoke weed all day. Holy shit what a difference. I was depressed all day! But I got through it and I feel a lot better actually. Thank you; here's to a new opportunity tomorrow
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:32 AM
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Any advice for a fellow SWE?
/r/ThankTRP03/04/17 05:05 PM
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Thanks for this, I've been slipping it seems
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:20 PM
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Thank you friend. I really needed this
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:30 AM
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I find him attractive, but I've never been deeply sexually drawn to him I stopped reading right there. Like it or not, you've already moved on
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 04:46 PM
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I think I'll go for a "wild/untamed" look and make my hair messed up on top instead of super neat and straight. Thank you for all your help so far
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:14 PM
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What about us middle eastern men that are hairy everywhere? I mean everywhere
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:21 PM
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Never regret anything. You wouldn't be here if you hadn't been there with her. You'd still be wishing for some girls closeness. Instead you woke the fuck up, so be happy
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:56 AM
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Yeah. Techniques are to help you mimic confident behavior, which in turn gives you confidence, resulting in you no longer needing the techniques. Some people start off with this mentality due to better or worse upbringing (strong or no family, good guy/bad boy). Others, like a lot of us, start weak, but can adopt the mindset through mimicking it and seeing its results, then setting those results as a new standard. It's basically as simple as a "I deserve this because I deserve this" mentality An…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:44 AM
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That's like getting millions of free dollars and setting it on fire
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:39 AM
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You're more mature at 17 than I was at 21. Good for you, keep that momentum and have fun
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:49 PM
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If it works for you, sure. But odds are if it were working for you, you wouldn't have looked at Men of March for improvement
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:16 PM
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Sure, it might be a psychological placebo. But if that placebo leads to results and nofap leads to the placebo, then nofap leads to results I haven't done it in 2 nights due to finally deciding to take it seriously (it was every night before this). Already I spend less of my day thinking "how can I get laid" and more of it thinking "how can I accomplish everything I want out of today". Is it a direct result or just a correlation? I don't care, it's working and that's what's important
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 06:43 PM
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Try being more sexual
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 06:23 PM
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They think we derive our attraction from a collective like they do (preselection) when in reality it's a huge turn off. It's hilarious
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 08:10 PM
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In theory, women are happier in a stable relationship than sleeping around. Rather than waiting until you're old and wrinkly to realize it, this sub tries to tell you this while you're young
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 04:12 PM
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When the guys that other guys think shouldn’t get the girl actually do get the girl (the “douche bags” and PUAs, etc.), their modus operandi leaves more of a mark on the other guys than if one of the good guys gets the girl. Guys understand why the good guy gets the girl. But if the lesser guy gets the girl the others guys think — “if that douche bag can get that kind of girl with that technique then I can, too.” Too bad this will never stop happening. You can't contain your female nature no mat…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:49 AM
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I'm having a problem not masturbating. I gave up porn long ago but I hamster myself into orgasm every night. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:30 AM
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Internalize trp, become desirable. I see it. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:01 PM
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True, I suppose it's all perspective and you always have to look at the positives. Thanks for the answer
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:49 PM
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Money is one thing, but how do you drop five years worth of emotional investment in an instant?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:40 PM
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How do you not get angry at "well, there goes five wasted years I'll never get back"?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:03 PM
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I aspire to be as strong as this man one day
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:40 PM
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I don't think they stand against each other at all. I think they're different halves of one whole concept
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 07:26 PM
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It's sad but it is what it is Also, I've noticed a couple of times now you've replied to your own thread. People don't know you're replying to them if you don't reply to their comment
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 11:36 PM
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Personally, I don't think it's possible. I think a woman needs to see how readily men will use and toss them like a product before they start to understand what's really going on. This is just from my experience though As for TRP, what about it gives you anxiety
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:03 PM
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We really should create a structure for this statement. Like a Stonehenge for trp. Anyone know 3d modeling?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 11:57 PM
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I quit not too long ago and hope to play again someday. That day will come when I'm in good physical shape with proficiency in my hobbies. But until then, I'm staying the fuck away
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 05:50 PM
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I just say "you get the next one". Implies another interaction plus she doesn't feel bad about me paying or that she owes me anything sexual for paying
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 01:22 AM
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So how was breakfast and meditation? Or are you "starting tomorrow"?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 03:54 PM
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Girls that have just been dumped are the easiest. Invite her over, don't let her talk about her ex, be the least bit entertaining, and you're in. They also tend to regret these hook ups. Your choice
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 09:22 PM
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Someone on here said a while ago that you should give her something at the end of the date (wish I could find the post to give credit). I'm not talking buy her flowers or anything, I'm talking about the top to a bottle of wine you drink or a cheap knick knack or something. Its a physical manifestation of her memory and time with you
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:07 PM
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I am now hoping to find someone to have a relationship with...I have never been in a relationship before, never kissed, and am a virgin Sounds like you know what you want but what you want doesn't want you I don’t really have many friends. Other than school and work, I don’t really have a life (depression), I have a horrible sleep schedule so I am always tired and am always a victim of procrastination. I have now slowly started to have new hobbies like knitting and cooking, but I don’t go anywhe…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 06:57 AM
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As in, you see women in music videos and go "I should be like that"?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:31 AM
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What is the Sex God Method? Edit - it's rough sex. Luckily I figured this one out already
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:46 PM
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Thanks for this. I just checked out RPW from a suggestion and there's good stuff in here. This especially hits home for me because the same thing is true the other way around - women don't owe me shit for the commitment I've given in past LTRs
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 09:03 PM
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Good for you, keep doing your thing. Where does this conditioning come from? TV? Fellow women?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:22 PM
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Hey, thanks to you posting that video, I spent all of last night meal-prepping for the whole week!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:20 PM
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Ironically this is what sends us to trp, wondering why no woman wants to commit properly
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:29 AM
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So for many men there's going to be a time when they have to fake it Thanks for this, it makes sense but I never thought of it like that
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:22 AM
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This is a lot of good stuff. Thanks for writing it out
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:13 AM
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I was gonna comment but you perfectly captured all of it. The only difference between being objectified and getting attention is how hot the guy doing it is
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:15 AM
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see it as "she's not attracted to me" How do you know? You didn't even try anything
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:31 PM
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Dude, it's one encounter. Learn from it and move on, plenty more women out there Escalate early. If rejected move attention to someone else
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:28 PM
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Then it wouldn't bother me and I wouldn't push to improve myself. I just agree and amplify "Yeah I'm a feminist, I believe all women should have penises"
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:01 PM
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Gotta hit rock bottom to start climbing ¯\(ツ)/¯ I make the best of it and let it serve as a reminder
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:52 PM
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I know a bunch but my favorite is Tango. You get really close to your partner and it's literally constant push/pull. There's also opportunities for really long dips, should the occasion arise
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:59 PM
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If you google image my name, the first thing that shows up is me holding a sign at a feminist rally. My linkedin picture comes after. Yeah...
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:50 PM
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What do you do for meal prepping? I've tried that but it never lasts so now I cook every day
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:49 PM
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I remember the anger phase. You can try your best to change things or make the best of how things are. That's honestly it, you have no other options whether you fume in anger over or laugh at the joke
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 08:26 AM
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Here's the beauty about rock bottom: if you get through it, things only get better. That's why it's called rock bottom. The only thing that will get you through this is sheer will. Do it because you can laugh at it in 10 years. Even if things only get to average for you, average is a lot better than rock bottom and you can live a happy life Hire a very good attorney. Take out a loan if you have to. Spending part of your paycheck for 5 years working to pay your loan sounds like shit, but 15 years…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:58 AM
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You're getting hate but I say good for you. All we are doing is learning to get the most personal gain, I have no problem with women doing the same. Hell if anything, it makes my life easier as monetary gifts become devalued and being a man is more valued
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:07 PM
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And what better way to support that than to have a whole sub dedicated to it? Obviously it would need mentors as well
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:12 PM
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But they can be made aware of it. Whether they listen is a whole different matter, but people generally do come here for advice
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:11 PM
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Exactly. People step in to talk to them too, which could also happen in the angry sub
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:11 PM
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I've been thinking you could make a sub for trp for people still in the anger phase, that way there's a separate place to vent and to discuss
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:14 PM
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Having fun is not easy when you're angry. Taking time away from everything helps to get in a good mental state where you can act from being a rock rather than being explosive
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:56 AM
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To be fair I wanted monk mode because I was so angry. I knew I could do no good so I wanted a break from everything to focus on myself before changing anything external
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:49 AM
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Got rejected last night and gave up. I should've kept trying with more women rather than let my self-worth come from validation from a woman. I kept pondering why but I suppose it's not my problem. Thanks for this post
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:41 PM
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That picture is too real :/ Thanks! Anyone else on iOS can get the same app here: https://appsto.re/us/Cg7Rfb.i
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:28 PM
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I think you're evolving even over the course of this conversation. You wanted to tell her about a cute romantic crush but now it's to laugh about it. That's the tone switch I was talking about I don't think I can help you any further, you've got it from here
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:51 PM
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That's perfect, but is it true? Why would you tell her you loved her back in high school then?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:41 PM
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Wow, I really like this ideology. Thank you! I'm gonna forget about 1st consequences and start focusing on 2nd consequences. 3rd is still too far for me but I'll work on it
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:20 PM
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What should I do with this opportunity? No one can answer this but you. My suggestion is to go with your first thought, don't think about it too much
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:18 PM
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Don't worry about what she's trying to do. Focus on what you're gonna do with the opportunity. I'm just showing you this is AWALT
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:26 PM
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Let me break this down for you using my female-to-male translator She hit me up on facebook messanger, sent me a picture of us at homecoming or something we went together to She tried to get me in the same emotional state as her Then asked if I was still seeing my ex which I'm not. Idk if she knew but she said she didn't know we broke up She knew I was single and would give her attention I also am pretty sure she is still with her long term boyfriend I'm pretty sure she wants attention, perhaps …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:18 PM
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Start there. Don't worry about her why or how, focus on your own
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:08 PM
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I'd give you gold if I had any interest in supporting reddit
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:52 PM
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A Freudian slip, also called parapraxis, is an error in speech, memory, or physical action that is interpreted as occurring due to the interference of an unconscious subdued wish or internal train of thought Your typo of "suck"
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:51 PM
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Here's what I'm wondering now: what do you want out of this?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:44 PM
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If he's not making moves, you're free to imo
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:42 PM
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why would this girl hit me up for validation or attention? Here's something I've learned in the last week: you will go mad if you ever try to understand the inner workings of the female mind she has posted a lot of selfies Again, my experience is limited but instinct tells me yes, she's looking for an ego boost
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:38 PM
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I'm a recent unplugee so take this with a grain of salt, but here's how I understand the situation: she messaged you out of the blue when she had/has a bf. Clearly she's looking for validation, affection, or attention from you. Telling her you loved her is putting that attention on the table from the get go and she'll realize all she has to do for your valuable time and effort is text you, so you become an orbiter. Let her give you a better reason to give her positive validation Of course, every…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:26 PM
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Might've just broken up with LTR and is desperate for affection. Might be preparing to branch swing. Absolutely do not tell her you "loved" her in high school, let her earn it
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:14 PM
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Those women are not interested in you because they are faulty
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:16 PM
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And some people can't afford college. And some people are allergic to foods that would help their diet. Doesn't matter. They can be whoever they want in their reality. In your head, 5'5 can be the most attractive height possible. Might not make it true, but not only will you feel better about it, that change will affect your attitude making you more attractive Anyone ever telling you 5'5 is not attractive is merely shit testing your reality
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 09:04 AM
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Yeah that's what I'm gonna do. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:19 AM
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Actually now that I'm reflecting, I think I understand the problem: she cancelled but I tried to replan. I lost my frame
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:05 AM
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It's still odd when a buddy's girlfriend tests me though Yeah how are you supposed to respond to this? Friend's gf asked me if I've been dating around and it caught me off guard (learned a great lesson about AWALT though, won't be caught off guard again) so I just said no
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 01:00 AM
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Ain't nothing to regret. Be glad it happened so you could wake up from it
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 08:34 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:03 PM
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I see. Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:02 PM
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I'm also a recent convert and most of my learnings came from reading the top posts of all time
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:45 PM
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Just writing that out and reading it back now made me realize that I'm blowing the whole thing out of proportion. I've still got all my limbs, so I'm more than capable of fighting. Thanks, keep on friend
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 07:51 AM
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I doubt any of you don't have a single moment when you're considering giving up. The moment when you're on the ground after a (metaphorical) beating, lying there, thinking of throwing in the towel and learning to be happy with the feeling of cool concrete on your bloody face. What do you do then? I know giving up will be easy, and I'm just exhausted at this point. I had a huge victory tonight but it just got crushed at the end
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 07:23 AM
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Do you have a go-to calorie-rich meal?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 01:01 AM
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Any specific recommendations from your personal experience? I've read the sidebar. I'm getting stronger but not gaining weight
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:54 PM
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Holy shit Let's make a record of all female speak and the male translation
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:45 PM
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Beautiful. I love how everyone in this sub tells it like it is
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:38 PM
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Gonna hijack this comment to say this is a big shit test. Don't break frame, as a man it's up to you whether this affects you in any way
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:54 PM
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You think I'd give a fattie a 5?
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:17 PM
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