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| 43 | If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating?Personally, I find it changes quite a bit when you get older. I’m around 25 now. I work from home now, so I have lots of opportunities to respond. So I pretty much respond immediately to anyone I’m talking too. The women in my life seem to be more receptive to that now then ever before. However, I do believe there’s a way to be a quick replier but also not come off as needy. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 12:49 PM |
| 2 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"It’s a really fine line between thinking “I’m have this this and this, ofc im hot” to becoming “I have this this and this...why am I not getting girl.” I one hundred percent agree with this comment. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Update: REMINDER TO HAVE FUNTotally. No hard feelings or anything. It’s a part of dating :) | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Update: REMINDER TO HAVE FUNIt was more that it was out of no where for me. She was very dry and hard to reach over text. So on the date she was suddenly the opposite. I think if she had been this way from the start with me I wouldn’t have minded as much | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Reminder to have fun.I made an update post | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Reminder to have fun.Amen brother !!! | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 8 | Reminder to have fun.I already got the date set up :) Yeah text and messaging is a little tedious at times. I usually text just to set things up but it’s also a great time right now to work on some online game. | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 9 | Reminder to have fun.Cheers man! I will be fine either way but I hope so too | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to have fun.I will! | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 84 | Reminder to have fun.For sure! I don’t have high expectations but I’m gonna come in as myself and try to have a fun time either way. | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Getting better at second dates.Gotcha gotcha. Thanks friends | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Getting better at second dates.Hmm. I usually go coffee first date or a drink. You think dinner would be too much for a second date ? | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 4 | How do guys differentiate between whom to pursue a relationship with and who they just want to have a good time with?It’s a huge trial and error process for myself. There’s no girl I’ve gone on a date with or slept with that I thought had 0 chance of being able to be a LTR, however most people don’t make it past a couple of dates. I think as a guy you learn this quick and you just naturally apply it to yourself, but most of your dates arnt going to lead to anything. So it’s kind of like just having fun with it until someone clicks . For me the biggest things are someone who’s upfront with how they feel and wha… | /r/seduction | 06/01/21 09:51 AM |
| 4 | When do you apply persistence vs just moving on?This answer for two reasons. 1- Even if she’s being coy or playing games. That type of girl is a headache. Women and men can say whatever they want about it, but the hard truth is “open and forthcoming” will always be more attractive to high value people, because they don’t have time to waste. AKA you! So don’t waste ur time. 2- Abundance abundance abundance. If you are not exclusive with a girl you SHOULD be seeing multiple people. That’s how dating works whether ur a guy or girl now. Why would… | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 6 | If a girl doesn’t give positive signs after the first initial set up for a “date” put her on the back burner of priority and she will come around.Sure. I agree with everything you said. What’s wrong with “I’d like to get know you first?” That’s a great positive sign that most men would jump on. This piece of advice is not generated for those types of situations. I’m saying that it might be best for you to move on from a girl who’s giving you no interest via text or whatever msg, after initiating for a date. If thats assumption of me then so be it. | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 16 | If a girl doesn’t give positive signs after the first initial set up for a “date” put her on the back burner of priority and she will come around.Yeah I think that sometimes happens. Flip the script however for a second with me. If your shyness led you to losing a girls interest, wouldnt most ppl put the fault on you? I also think it’s different once your in a date situation face to face vs talking over text. But it’s very true that some ppl are just naturally shy. Using common sense in every situation is advised but I was giving general advice | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 4 | If a girl doesn’t give positive signs after the first initial set up for a “date” put her on the back burner of priority and she will come around.That’s fine. Let me know if you’re down for a movie and drinks at my place some time. | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | If a girl doesn’t give positive signs after the first initial set up for a “date” put her on the back burner of priority and she will come around.I wrote this on my phone so my bad if there’s any confusion It’s subjective to the context but examples of bad signs are like “sure” followed by “I’ll get back to you” with no follow up. Or just simply ignoring the set up for a date. A “we’ll see” in my eyes would be a bad reply that would lead me to making a girl low priority. But others take it differently. Hope that clears it up | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Why do women resent you when you talk about how amazing your life is compared to theirs? Are most women just boring to be around?Naw mate it’s more like your taking the question as a way to brag instead of a way to connect. Don’t list off ur hobbies, pick a few and explain why you like them and try to relate it back to her. I like cooking, what’s ur favourite type of cuisine ? Maybe we can cook something together sometime | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Cold approchaing during the pandamic?Hit her up later or move on. Shouldn’t be really mindlessly chatting with girls tbh. Lot of ppl here will tell you, talk to girls to set up dates and that’s it. Be flirty for a little and then express interest in a date and kind of play it cool from there. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Cold approchaing during the pandamic?Try to find a social online hobby you can participate in as a group. (Examples: Improv, DND, poetry) In “regular game” one of the ideal steps for building yourself as high value is to have numerous social circles that you own. It’s different but you can for sure still cultivate these in an online setting with the hopes of transitioning into irl when COVID is more chill and with the obvious meeting of more ppl aka more girls. Get on dating apps and start setting up some good rapport with ppl that… | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Cold approchaing during the pandamic?You can still improve your game during this time though. Fuck around with the dating apps and try keep social online if possible. Expand ur social circles. It’s possible during this time really. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 14 | Cold approchaing during the pandamic?Don’t cold approach during a pandemic. Safety wise and game wise, not an ideal time right now. Wait till restrictions are looser at least if you are in lockdown. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 06:17 AM |
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