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Just to be clear, that is the social media stuff we see that says "all men should die" and stuff?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 07:55 PM
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Ok, so here are the facts as I currently see them: It is clear that misandry exists. There is a strong and percasive belief that feminists perpetuate misandry. This study basically says misandry is a myth and is not associated with Feminism. A central aspect of feminism is social justice for all. Misandry is an act of social injustice. What is feminism doing to promote social justice for men?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 07:51 PM
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I find some of the data weird. Like low scores on both abivolance and benevolence. There also isn't a lot of writing defining what misandry is, how it is experienced, or how it has been studied. I'm curious what language you are referring to. Do they have their own dialect or something?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 07:25 PM
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In the limitations section it does say something about feminists hiding their true feelings for strategic reasons. That seemed oddly specific. I can see how feminism, as a philosophy, does not "hate men" but that sentiment does not line up with society or even my own experience (and it sounds like it doesn't line up with your's as well). Something else I found interesting how the ratings they used showed both a lack of ambivalence and benevolence for me. That seems contradictory, at least superf…
/r/MensRights23/03/24 07:16 PM
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That's absolutely fucking terrifying. Also, where can I watch that interview in full?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 04:20 PM
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This makes me so sad. Why do so many women hold these views? I really do not understand...
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:16 PM
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Are you thinking of psychological projection?
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:10 PM
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This is the first time I've come across him. He makes a lot of sense in this video. What other videos of his would you recommend?
/r/MensRights21/03/24 02:48 PM
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I hate it, dude. The worst is when women think they are experts on men's mental health, are dismissive of the huge lack of men in the field and say things like "well men should suck it up and see a woman therapist." Women can absolutely be abusers and you would not tell an abused woman to "suck is up and see a male therapist" when their abuser is a male. This is exactly why women's shelters do not hire men. But no, men must suck it up and be vulnerable, not to benefit themselves, but to benefit …
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:32 PM
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Where can I learn more about that? Do you have any links to videos or articles you could share?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:30 PM
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There are a lot of "left" ideas I support. Especially taxing the ultra rich. I'm Canadian and would love to see that happen to fund our healthcare and education systems. I see the misandry. I've lived it. It's awful. I don't know how to change it other than encouraging men to challenge it openly. I definitely won't be voting conservative. They often seem to do more harm. At least with the left winged parties in Canada, they are... more open to science and statistics. So I feel there is a better …
/r/MensRights14/03/24 09:29 PM
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I'm pretty open. I've had a lot of valuable lived experience to set me up for success in being non-judgmental and accepting different perspectives. A big part of being in therapy is to build on that further and working through some of these biases and experiences that shaped them. Thank you for sharing. It's nice to know that there are other dudes out there that have relatable experiences.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 04:37 PM
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"It just makes me wonder why there aren't more men of varied ideologies entering into psychiatry, but there seems to be a wide variety of women entering." That's an interesting obersevation. I'm really not sure. I can't say that I have noticed this myself, as I have only seen a few therapists who have mostly been men. The first one was not helpful. It was more like cheerleading and not actually therapy. I had a female therapist that was really good for a short time, but she was so overwhelmed wi…
/r/MensRights14/03/24 02:37 PM
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Here is one more for you. Link.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:58 PM
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I think it has to do with the overall message that men receive from society. This is a balanced take on it. Here's an excerpt: "The second big flaw in progressive thinking on men and masculinity is individualism. Usually, progressives are reluctant to ascribe too much responsibility to individuals for their problems. If someone is obese, or commits a crime, or is out of employment, the progressive default is to look first to structural, external causes. This is a valuable instinct. It is all too…
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:57 PM
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What did they do to Jordan Peterson?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:51 PM
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I'm also in this field. Formerly a teacher (my experience here was that it was full of misandry and nearly everybody was ready to hate you for being male) and currently completing a masters program in therapy. While I don't consider myself neutered, I am not in the breadwinner role at the moment. All but one of the practices in my area are owned and staffed by women. Some have a single male on staff, and typically, they are non-binary. Even looking for a place to do my internship is a bit uncomf…
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:49 PM
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Check out these articles. Forbes, The Dark Side of Me Too Skip to 36:55 to see what often happens when men open up.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 07:42 PM
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So, in a sense, you are asking the men on this sub to open up in a vulnerable way. Many are responding with why they think they shouldn't. In my own experience, I have been traumatized by women with power over me. Attempts to open up and be vulnerable with how I feel have been punished. As a child I was frequently discouraged from experiencing emotions, even when facing adversity., from all angles These days I am in therapy trying to figure all this shit out and feel a sense of worth. I specific…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 06:24 PM
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This excerpt has a lot of valuable perspective.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:27 PM
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What does political power have to do with men's issues? Not everybody has power. There are many men who struggle to find their own voice and self advocate. That has little to do with who or what gender is in leadership governance. I think I would respond to them with reflective listening and open ended questions. At the very least they would get frustrated and never talk to me again and at most they might hear themselves uncover the flaws in their own reasoning and be able to reflect on that.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 08:48 PM
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Threatening you with repercussions for not having conversations with other coworkers about it being international women's day sounds... off. I'm not sure you can promote equality through power and domination. I'm reasonably certain that is not equality.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 06:03 PM
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There is some overlap with that example, but it doesn't change the collective socio-cultural narrative that has planted those automatic associations in people's minds. One way to change that narrative is to raise awareness of how it is harmful, but that is also extremely challenging because the current narrative is so deeply ingrained, there is a substantial amount of resistance to change. The current narrative around men is neither positive nor healthy. I suspect that is related to why there ar…
/r/MensRights09/03/24 03:49 PM
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As a male (former) teacher I have faced numerous accusations of all kinds of BS. It is a big part of why I left education. The school was minimally supportive when these instances occurred. Nobody was going to protect me so I had to protect myself. This was also drilled into my head in post-secondary and by other teachers and mentors. This meant never being alone in a classroom with students, especially female students. The accusations I encountered were all from female students. There was never…
/r/MensRights08/03/24 05:40 PM
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There is certainly an ingrained bias permiating a lot of areas in our society. There was an interesting article posted on this sub by psychology today, some time last week, about how people react to gender studies. It seemed to uncover that there was an inherent need to protect women, but that this was also harmful to men. My advice to men seeking mental health support (as a current graduate student in this field) is to find a male therapist. If you are male and identify as LGBTQ+, find a therap…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 08:56 PM
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I think, at least from the standpoint of scientific psychological studies, there needs to be a base of evidence that agrees on what the problems and connections are before research into micro, meso, and macro level interventions can be done. That said, the connection to mental health and neurdiversity is a significant finding as it is directly shedding light on the need for increased support in the mental health field for, not only men and boys who fall into this category, but support for men in…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 04:46 PM
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The connection to mental health and neurodiversity is important. I see this as further evidence for a stronger push towards dismantling the stigma around men seeking help for mental health issues.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah dude, I agree. It's not cool. In the context of my own experience the schools i worked in were understaffed, so there was not much choice about how to handle it. Even if I could have handled it case by case, it would take away from instruction time and I would still be faced with angry parents and students. Since you have stated that you have met with a doctor and there is a medical concern, here is what I suggest: first approach your teacher after/between class one-on-one and respectfully …
/r/MensRights02/03/24 02:18 PM
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It's important not to generalize. While the has been my experience, I also have had female bosses that were excellent. My current bosses are women, extremely supportive, and empowering. This also means I have trauma related to working for women who have been emotionally abusive, which is causing me a great amount of fear as I will be graduating my masters program next year, will be changing jobs/careers, and likely be working under a woman and surrounded by women.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 10:19 PM
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I used to be a teacher. It's hard to speak generally about specific issues, but I will share my experience with you. The bathroom was consistently used as an excuse to get out of class to do nothing but hangout in the bathroom, by both boys and girls. This occurred multiple times a class for ever class regardless of age level. Students actively avoiding class using the bathroom as an excuse. In public education where teachers are responsible for their students eduction and engagement, this type …
/r/MensRights01/03/24 09:16 PM
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I'm also interested in your opinion. I'm not sure where I land on this patriarchy discussion, exactly. If there is a "patriarchy" it definitely does not benefit all men since it seems to focus on men who fit into a certain shape, which leaves the rest out. However, the vast majority of times I gave experienced "forced masculinity" has been from women, with only a tiny fraction being from men (more specifically boys during my childhood/teen years before the development of empathy). Since growing …
/r/MensRights01/03/24 05:43 PM
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Look into forced masculinity (or forced gender roles), normative male alexithymia, and male drift. These are connected. Forced gender roles oppress men who do not directly conform to the narrow view of what a man is expected to be, this influences many men to become disconnected from their emotions and resist or just do not know how to be vulnerable and deal with difficult emotions. This also causes men to avoid integrating with institutions (such as post secondary education and even STEM areas)…
/r/MensRights01/03/24 02:15 PM
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Femcels are definitely going to hold some extreme and unreasonable ideas.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 10:47 PM
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What is the context here? What sub is it? (Are we even allowed to ask?)
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:24 PM
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This how Normative Male Alexethymia develops. It's a shameful aspect of our society. But if men don't challenge it, it continues...
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:25 PM
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There are lots.. This is called a bildungsroman novel. Not all of those in that list have male protagonists, but there are several that do.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 04:55 AM
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I will do that. It's a complex issue with no simple answers. Thanks!
/r/MensRights24/01/24 04:27 PM
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My pleasure! I'm in a cultural diversity course for a masters in psych right now and it seems in the vast majority of the literature that men, specifically white men, are frequently excluded. White men are part of the dominant culture which affords us some degree of privilege, in some ways, but you cannot have a conversation on diversity without including ALL experiences. The infographic recently posted (gunman's post, I think) on this subreddit about normative male alexithymia is a pretty solid…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 03:29 PM
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Yes, that is a very common reaction. But the other side of that is, if men don't push back against it and express themselves emotionally anyways, it will continue to be a perpetual issue. Also, happy cake day! I hope it's a good one.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 01:59 PM
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FOUND IT! Starts at 37:00.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:11 PM
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I have had false accusations against me as well. Fortunately my life isn't ruined, but it did leave me with PTSD and I had to give up on my career as a teacher.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:05 PM
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Nice try Nancy**
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 08:47 PM
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And clear legal consequences for making false accusations.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 08:44 PM
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Don't forget the complete lack of accountability with false accusations and the unrecoverable destruction it has on the lives of men who are falsely accused.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 08:39 PM
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Their*
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 12:52 AM
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Those are grown women doing that to a child. In what way is this not predatory behaviour? Absolutely unacceptable.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/21 11:08 AM
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I thought the official term was "covidiot"
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/20 10:59 PM
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Me too! I made it to firetruck once.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/20 12:03 PM
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I'm impressed she can count to four.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/20 10:53 AM
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Yeah, I'm currently in a job that is a lot better. Still loads of unprofessionalism from my boss, but she isn't actively seeking out people to fuck with. Just picking favourites and holding a blatent double standard. It feels weird to consider this tolerable...
/r/PussyPassDenied24/12/17 04:25 AM
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I was accused of hitting one of my students during an assembly. The term used on the letter from administration was "smacked." Nobody actually saw it happen though one teacher claimed she heard it, even though she wasn't anywhere near me. A parent saw me tap her child on the head with one finger. Her kid would not stop causing a distraction. Rather than make more noise by talking to the kid, I opted for tapping him on the head to get his attention and then shushing him. My boss knowing full well…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/17 05:37 PM
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I am a male teacher as well. I've been in a couple ""nightmare" situations. Not fun.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/17 01:06 PM
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Does it seem like anyone else that the quantity female sex offenders is raising?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/17 06:27 AM
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Yeah, it's usually not worth disrupting the social harmony in Thailand. Especially over such a petty reason.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/10/17 01:04 AM
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The women were apparently informed that they were being serviced after hours and that certain services (air conditioning and hot water) would be unavailable. They agreed and went on with getting their hair washed all the while making special requests for the use of various products. When everything was finished, they refused to pay the 350 baht (~$12), the women refused to leave the store and asked for a discount. The owner lowers the price to 250baht (~$7) and the women still refuse to pay and …
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/17 06:38 AM
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I would really like to know how this ended up for the teacher. What repercussions did he face?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/15 08:16 AM
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You're waaaay ahead of where I am right now. Good stuff!
/r/seduction01/04/13 04:18 AM
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I'm in Bangkok right now... but I have never had a one night here. I'm also shy. Advice?
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:16 AM
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You mentioned you had AA at one point to. I struggle with it, some days worse than others. What can I do to get past it? What did you do? edit: great FR by the way
/r/seduction24/03/13 01:12 PM
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Thai is pretty foreign.. glad I know it!
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:38 AM
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This is good advice. Thanks!
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:20 AM
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She is interested in me. She has made me promise her to take her on a date when she returns to her home town... 3 months from now.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:02 AM
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How can I keep attraction/interest up over texting and internet over a period of 3 months?
/r/seduction09/01/13 03:24 AM
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If it doesn't bother you, then tell them exactly that. My last serious girlfriend was 33, I am 25.
/r/seduction19/12/12 11:06 AM
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Ok, challenge accepted.
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:19 PM
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I will hunt these books down.
/r/seduction30/10/12 02:49 PM
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Straight up meditation? Tuning everything out and observing your breath, pushing thoughts out of your mind? That kind of meditation?
/r/seduction30/10/12 02:48 PM
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Is this an author? Any specific books you recommend?
/r/seduction30/10/12 01:45 PM
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"Feel comfortable inside" This is my biggest problem. I have no idea how to come out of it.
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:40 PM
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Nice, ok I got it :)
/r/seduction09/10/12 09:10 AM
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That I would like to date her or take her out on a date?
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:42 AM
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Thanks for the insight and advice. I will suggest this to her today.
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:16 PM
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Ok, I see what you mean. I was respectful of her boundaries... I am of all women's boundaries.
/r/seduction01/10/12 02:01 PM
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What is wrong with ""No" and starts again" girls?
/r/seduction01/10/12 01:25 PM
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Alright, I got it. Thanks again. I'd buy you a round of beers if I ever got the chance.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:07 PM
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Ok, so let me make sure I understand. I need to know the places I am going, how to transition between those places in the funnest and smoothest way possible, and give her some reasonable sounding justification to come to my place (which will be cleaned and in order) so we can have some sort of fun. Yes? If so, do you have any suggestions on any of these areas? Mainly the justification to come home and transitions.
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:56 PM
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I talked to her today and she said that going out on Saturday after our course would be better. I agree completely as we will have more time to hangout. By logistics, do you mean the stuff we will do? So far my plan is dinner at some point and if it is not raining, grab a disposable camera and take a bunch of goofy photos throughout the day. Develop the photo's at the end of the day so each of us can have a copy. Hopefully she will look at the pictures fondly and remember a very fun time. Though…
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:25 PM
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Well, I've been somewhat successful. My job organized a welcoming dinner for me and all of the western and Japanese staff attended. Her friends encouraged her to sit beside me and "practice English." Practice she did. I tried to do as much non-threatening kino as possible, even managed to have my arm around her for quite a while. After the older members of the staff left, us younger folks moved on to another bar and continued our night of fun. The physical contact between her and I became more a…
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:28 AM
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Right, so do you want her to remain a wingman or do you want it to develop into something more? Either way, it might be wise to talk to her openly about it and see what she wants too.
/r/seduction23/09/12 04:50 AM
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"accidentally" ? What are your intentions with her?
/r/seduction23/09/12 04:34 AM
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I've dated several women from Asia and in Asia, so I am quite used to dealing with cultural differences. I am not looking to just fuck her, I want to develop something sustainable. We do work at the same school, but not directly together. Are there specific things I should know about or be wary of?
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:54 AM
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Careful? Please elaborate.
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:44 PM
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Understood.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:40 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I will give your AMA a read in the morning. I actually did ask her and her friend out for dinner after work today, but they said they do not leave until like 8:00pm. We did come up with a rain check. So hopefully that will get cashed. Also I should note, we are both living in Thailand. I'm not sure if that makes any difference. Anyways, thanks again!
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:26 PM
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Ok, She hasn't come off as overly shy to me thus far, though she has not actively engaged me in conversation. I have always opened. She is very dedicated to her job (as I understand most Japanese are). She works like 12 hours every day... and she's a kindergarden teacher. She is a lot of fun to talk to and she can be pretty funny when she's with her friends at work. She is very kind and sweet. I haven't seen what she is like out at a bar or anything yet.. so I have no way of knowing if she's slu…
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:50 PM
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With a name like TofuTofu, how can I go wrong??
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:16 PM
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Thank you sir.
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:06 AM
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Nice! Forgive me, I am new to seddit, but what is kino?
/r/seduction13/09/12 11:56 PM
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Say crazy over the top sexual things to a woman and not sound creepy? Challenge accepted!
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:46 PM
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I'm in the same boat you are. I have no idea how to open. I see beautiful women everywhere, but I have yet to consistently begin a conversation with any of them.
/r/seduction29/08/12 10:44 AM
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