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Alzatorus/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:25 PM
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This post should be sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 06:30 PM
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To be fair, this is the first time I've seen a post by him.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 01:57 PM
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Anecdotal addition. I'm 32 and am involved with two women in early 20's with other interest from other women in early 20's. This hasn't been a struggle and they love referring to your age due to the intimidation they feel by you having your shit together and them not being there yet. My cousin is in his 40's and always dating women in their 20's. Not saying that that is the goal, but his style is on point, he has his own house, he's a 'bad lad'and earns a pretty decent wage in the UK at £4,000-£…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 02:19 PM
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If you're going to study medicine most people are going to be in the same position as you. Find the high SMV in the room and cold approach. Introduce yourself, "hey, I'm _____, good to meet you, mind if I sit here?" Then you can strike up a convo with questions and observations throughout the lecture. If you're having lectures over zoom or whatever, then remember that almost everyone is in the same or similar situation. A few will have 1 or 2 people they know due to being their home town or appl…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:00 PM
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What? 😂
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:36 PM
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Amplify. Be comfortable with your own body. Flirt with other chicks and dngaf. To be fair, if it were me, I would likely comment to the effect of... small tits: "have you ever considered having a breast enlargement?" | Big tits: "Have you ever considered breast lift surgery" ... same for her nose, her lips, her vagina, whatever. I'd do it unsolicited an unapologetically. But that's my vindictive side. Truth hurts sugga. Truth be told I'd fuck her and leave, as others have said. The fact that she…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:55 PM
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Stuffy nose and slight pressure in head (forehead) - other than that you're all good and it can be additional fun. Just dont bust a nut in 10 seconds. If you feel close, pull out and move to foreplay then continue. Throw her around a little and change positions. Will give you a few seconds to calm your man down. GL
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:27 PM
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GFTOW Go Fuck Ten Other Women
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:20 PM
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Dude... the first Three chapters of 'The Rational Male' will give you your answer. It's very black and white.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 01:59 PM
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I do think that your view could be considered 'reductionist' and it is a criticism/limitation of studies that focus on biological drivers of attraction. A part of getting those higher grades is considering studies from other disciplines. Take a look at some Psychology and Sociology studies and integrate them into the biological/evolutionary perspective for a much more inclusive and informed view. While we have underlying desires and needs from a 'mate', we have also evolved to a point where this…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 03:59 PM
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I hold a Masters by Research (MRes) in Social Science Research Methods and have to say that your literature review and conclusions are biased. There are not enough sources to make such bold statements, you do not critique the research you cover but only state the claims of others. You need to look deeper into these studies - who funded them? What was the design? Who were population from which the sample was taken (students? Office workers? Nurses?) - What was the age range of the sample? Is the …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 03:31 PM
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Oh... The lurker surfaces
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:19 PM
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What the hell... I'd have left fairly quickly... You dont want to get mixed up with Psychos, you will be a baby daddy or on rape charges in no time.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 01:11 PM
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Have your shit together (life, finances, education, business, whatever), give advice during difficult times, take the initiative and invite the older cousin to things rather than being the invitee (even if it's just meeting for coffee and catch-up), be more confident in who you are. I have older cousins and am respected because of these things.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:57 PM
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This. I'd even call her bluff. Retrospectively, you could have smiled and told her that she's "cute when she's angry" in front of all your friends. There are numerous ways to deal with her shit, even a simple yawn + encouragement to "please, continue" can work wonders.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:32 PM
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Can confirm, regularly have had two at 22 and 21. Same age as you. Just initiated casually and let it escalate.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:14 AM
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I agree with Kenyannn, many of my friends, and myself, are very undecided on whether or not to have children and it is less a reflection upon women and more a reflection upon the state of the world and changing societal values. The current snowflake generation will raise our children and it's already bad enough. In the UK, schools are now teaching young children about transsexuals/transgender/gender fluidity and normalising it in sex education, whereas not all that long ago it would have been di…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:28 AM
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I was going to bump in with 31, but senior took it from me 😂
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 09:15 PM
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Ppl taking this seriously? 😂👍
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:07 PM
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I would have done exactly the same but amplified. I.e. get the shutter speed to max and take 100+ photos and post every awful blink, chew, twisted mouth, double chin that gloriously appears 😂 she will soon delete your 1 picture.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:44 AM
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Pretty sure it was when I met her.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:29 AM
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To be fair, I completely take your point and understand the perspective, but I also believe we should remember that the army has a vested interest in getting young boys to join early. Obviously from a physical performance point of view, but also from a conditioning point of view. Christ, I look back and know that I was incredibly impressionable around late teens to early 20's. I'm not dishing on the Armed forces, we wouldn't be who we are without you guys (so mad props) but at the same time, man…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 03:25 AM
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I would love to see a study on Testosterone levels between RP and askTRP members VS blue pill over time. That would be very interesting.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 03:19 AM
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If he's wrong then someone needs to share your wisdom with one of my sister's coworkers (a dentist). That man gets more poon than Rollo's had hot dinners 😂
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:17 AM
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It's David's schlong that is hitting him in the head, we have no need to do it for him 😂
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 02:24 PM
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Only just seen this, apologies for the delay. I use the: Hyaluronic Acid, 1% Retinol in saquiline or 2% Retinoid, Vitamin C serum (the actual vit. C stuff not the 'special stuff' as that is not proven to work), Buffet, Niacinimide, Matrixyl, and a good SPF15+ moisturiser. I also brave a 0.75mm - 1.0mm hypodermic needle-based derma roller once every 1-2 weeks. It hurts to do it, but you get used to it fairly quickly. I swap out one or two products each time I order for something with a similar ef…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:02 PM
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I agree, but if it is true then it will be thrown out of court. Defamation is only defamation if he didn't do it. If she's got anything on him at all he would be fucking himself.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:17 PM
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It's a good option if you can find it translated?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:32 PM
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😂👏 you HAVE to be a troll. There is no way you're not new 😂😂😂
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:29 PM
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Get him a copy of 'the rational male' for his birthday. Start his journey.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:23 PM
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Dude, you are so far off it's unreal. Reported to mods for complete and utter misinformation. I encourage everyone else to do the same and ignore him. If you want some solid advice on Instagram game then check out Based Zeus on YouTube and search on his page for 'instagram' - he has some great advice that works. Back to commenter. Please keep your future comments to yourself and if you must post then be considerate and helpful, not rude and a keyboard warrior. Everything you have stated are all …
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:03 PM
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While this is true, tall girls are also more difficult to 'wrap', for want of a better word. So, although I agree that she won't be looking down on you, you may feel like you're climbing a mountain and have to raise her legs to really get in 😂😂😂 - just my experience. As you were chaps.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:37 PM
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Yes...... But Karen called my fine ass fat...... 🤓
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 02:06 PM
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What? 😂 That wasn't anything to do with what he said?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:20 AM
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The average age that 'children' leave home now is apparently almost 30!?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:49 PM
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Straight up agree with this
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 11:43 PM
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It's developing your game that should be fun dude, and getting laid should be a consequence. Try flipping your view a little. If you're focused on sex and DGAF about her, then 90% of the time she's going to know. As a side note, I don't know if you are doing this, but don't share loads of personal experiences or talk about emotions/emotional situations or difficulties. When you're showing her you're a boss you should be brimming with stoicism.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:32 PM
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Hmm... Well, i'll say what I mean and mod can remove if it's risky for the group, but she would basically want me to have sex with her throat while she hung her head off the edge of the bed backwards... Something like a porn movie and it just felt wrong... She was mental...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 05:56 PM
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Can confirm. I had one that used to lay off the bed and literally ask me to.... Errmm...... Slap her head repeatedly with my balls... Hard...... Don't know, quarantine, how much more can be said but yeh.... It was rough
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:25 AM
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You absolute BEAST 🤣 - I need to get me one of these.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:39 AM
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I fully agree with you, but he's been blue pill for 60 odd years, the old dog won't be changing now. It was hilarious to see the realisation spread across his face though. The whole convo started because they asked me something about a girl I'm seeing (can't remember what it was) but he didn't like my response and tried to lecture me about how you should treat women 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:35 AM
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I want to upvote this more.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:51 AM
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My dad was recently spouting some "hero narrative" about how men should treat women (full white knight bullshit). So, for the first time ever, I spoke to him about the mother and how he had idolised her and put her on a pedestal (gifts for nothing all the time when they were dating - they've only ever been with each other - and doing everything he possibly could to make her happy and her life comfortable). The dude basically worshiped the ground she walked on to the point of fucking himself over…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:45 AM
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If you have questions like this it seems more like you've FWB her and not plated. If you've continued to be clear that it was just sex and there was no emotional sharing etc. Then calling it quits should be pretty straight forward? If you've invested beyond sex, then i would tell her that you want to take some time to be on your own and leave it at that. Don't have her on social media, lock that shit down or delete it and make a new one, and stop hitting it. But, I've got to be honest, is this L…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:34 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:25 AM
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As the critics would say.... "The first rule of RP, is don't talk about RP with your lady" 😂 In all seriousness though, the fastest way to trigger anyone is to tell them they are normal and fit a narrative. She thinks she's special, 90% of us do, so telling her she isnt is just going to put her on the defensive. Just know what your know without telling her. Otherwise it's going to be a pain in your ass.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:22 AM
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I was literally about to say this. My text game is not the best (I always over think it and come off as trying too hard). Despite putting in the study hours, I overanalyze everything. Consequently, I use text for plans until it's something more. Once you've solidifed, it's much harder to fuck up through text.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:17 AM
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If you've got shit to do and are putting it off don't try to marathon it. Split your day/time in to 25 minute blocks dedicated to working and work hard, then 5 minutes for a short break (coffee, vape, whatever) then back at it for 25 mins. Give yourself a solid hour for lunch and squeeze in some exercise. Doesn't even have to be lifting, hell, take a walk for 20-30 mins and come back and reward yourself with an episode of anime if you've been working 25 on and 5 off every day from breakfast to d…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:11 AM
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Haha 😂 brilliant. I'm so glad that you got up and left. Top marks, well done.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:31 AM
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As I've explained before on askTRP, being aggressive is commonly misunderstood for being a man. While there is a time and place for it, in this situation it would simply make you lose face. Throwing anger around as a solution is a very young mindset, and certainly not one ever recommended in TRP culture. I would refer you back to the sidebar, but it's so often taken offensively as there as so many people that use it as an insult.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:05 AM
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I don't intend this comment to start an online debate, but feel it's worth saying. In my experience, handling it that way will simply meet her needs. Even negative attention is good attention for assholes like her.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:38 AM
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I would have just 'noped' out of there under the pretence of 'plans' and chilled at a friends, not giving her the satisfaction and making it a totally wasted journey
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:34 PM
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No worries 👍 happy smashing.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:17 AM
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Haha 😂 no, I'm slightly longer than average at 7.2" but average girth which I think is a little less than you. To be honest, it's been a good 4+ years since I measured, as I really don't care, and neither should you ✌️ - what I will say is that length means nothing. It's all about girth. Being any longer than I am is actually painful for a woman as you would be smashing in to her cervix with every thrust. Be thankful for thickness 😎
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:15 AM
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She's the tightest I've been with, and that's quite an achievement 😂
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:06 AM
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If a fucking babies head is going to Trainwreck its way through it one day, I wouldn't be worried about a half inch difference between you and her ex. Woman like to think that they prefer a massive penis, but, in reality, many of them don't. The girl I'm seeing at the moment had her first orgasm with me and discovered that she squirts. The guy before me was a 10" monster and never achieved anything with her as he relied upon his size and size alone. Fail. The tight Vs loose thing is utter garbag…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:55 AM
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There's an app called 'meetup' that might help you find like-minded people for a good night out. I like being outdoors have met some top people in hiking groups. While it may be a miss, what have you got to lose?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:45 AM
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First trp post, or what?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:42 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PamWnKC5ueY Best bar pickup in under 1 minute I've ever seen. Watch it. Power, status, confidence. Place less value on your facial features and be confident in who you are.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:33 AM
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Send him here, to this post. "I wrote this on this forum, what do you think?" Show him it on your phone and let him take it in. Up to him then, and you conscience is clear. Hell, he might even join the subreddit.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:38 PM
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It depends on how you do it. I was the one being cheated on, but I let the guy know that she was with someone. He didn't know, felt bad, invited me out for a drink and then continued to bang her. Fair play to him, but just make sure that you have really cut ties and don't give a fuck. His LTR is going to take it badly, either way, and she won't believe you without evidence. However, she definitely deserves to know. Personally, I would play the game and go balls deep on the LTR, with the shared e…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:54 PM
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True that! I'm about to post a comment.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:49 PM
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https://www.beautybay.com/l/theordinary/ I order from here, but check the prices against ASOS
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:09 PM
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Can confirm. SOME of these girls go through a period of 'redemption' but if they are still posting this shit past mid 20's then they are going to be the 'put out and wonder why he's not calling' type of girl.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:17 PM
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You reclaimed it.....😂
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:11 PM
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I think the answer is that ”It depends" - it's something that has become so habitual to me that I do it almost all day and every day. I also do "neck crunches" (which sounds a lot worse than it is) by gently lowering my head from lying on a bench, bed, whatever, stretching my throat, and then gently focusing on using my muscles around my throat to bring slowly bring my head ilup again, while supporting a little weight (and I mean light like a couple of kg or a band). Slowly I have strengthened t…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:31 PM
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Start a skincare routine. Not sure where you are based, but I'm in the UK and use a brand known as 'The Ordinary' and it's dirt cheap because they put in what is important and not all the other crap (fragrances etc). They also have a downloadable guide explaining exactly what everything does and in what order to use products and recommendations based upon age and skin type. I would also get a good quality SPF moisturiser. The sun fucks up your skin and ages you, faster than pretty much anything …
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:59 PM
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As 'Hitch' has taught us, the rule of 2/3 😂
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:54 PM
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Check my comment about 'plausible deniability' above
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:50 PM
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Check out 'plausible deniability' within the context of TRP. If she is able to blame you for what she sees as "slutty behaviour" then she's more likely to go-ahead with it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:49 PM
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Depends what you're looking for. If it's plates then a girl that fucks on call is obviously beneficial. If you're considering a FWB or more then a ho is a no-go 😂. I've found that those that fuck quickly are often insecure, needy, have higher risk of cheating if you date them (due to the aforementioned traits) and are a pain in the ass with the constant shit tests. Those girls stay as plates with an eventual soft next. For your last question, I don't believe that it's quite as black and white as…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:28 PM
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As a 31y old male, I can assure you that your 'future self' will reflect and be grateful for the decision that your 20y old self made that day. Well done, young Padawan. No regrets. You made the right decision.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:49 PM
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You doing what other know they should be doing (but lack the motivation) makes them feel inadequate and like they are failing (which they are). "Misery loves company" - rise above it and succeed.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:33 PM
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When she throws a fit I would just let her do it and act indifferent with a phrase such as "okay, let's do it later in the week." Call her bluff and stick with it. In the last part she has transition from comfort testing to shit testing. Try to recognise the difference and act accordingly. GL ✌️
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:14 PM
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If I don't get a reply I wait three days and send a ping, usually in the form of a GIF* (not 'gift' - that would be a fail) and some funny light-hearted text to go with it, usually a minor playful insult. If she doesn't reply then I stop there, unless I have the motivation to try one final time. The last 'ping' will be about 1 week after the first. If no reply then, it's a hard next.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:06 PM
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Hence my previous reply. I out about as much effort in to that as I would in engaging a plate 😂
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:59 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't. Seems like she wants to draw a form of emotional investment out of you. I would ignore the message and hit her up in a few days, but that's just me. There are other options, but they require too much effort for a single plate.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:46 AM
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Have my upvote - Just to add to this, a quick Google and you will find this book online too (legitimately). This is where I read through it and refer back to it. Every point that has been written in reply to this is located there. EDIT: Downvoted for point people to the literal answers to all their stupid questions xD hahaha! Shows the state of this sub.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:34 PM
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I shuddered at that bit too 😂 and was like "Ohhhp... He's new" 😂
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:31 AM
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I'll chime in on you two going at it, just to add that, if he does have a fear of losing her, then he's obviously still new to this and needs to train himself to be indifferent. There are always going to be differences in opinion though, and what works for one will always be slightly different for another. I mean, I'm 31 and am finishing my postgraduate degree this month (so money is nonexistent) but I was still making my way through 19/20/21 year olds these past 3 years by just being present, m…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:29 AM
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I can see where you are coming from, but I think it is important to remember that she is just following her 'biological pus-wagon' (i.e. woman nature). There is nothing 'wrong' with her behaviour, per-se. It is his response that will push her musings to manifest into eventual action.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:54 AM
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I'm in a similar position to you. My day game is spot on and confidence high but messaging, not so much... I think it's due to a number of factors, but I put it down to trying too hard when writing/creating messages and coming across insincere. It's so easy to fuck it up and harder to recover, as you're a picture on a screen. In person I say what comes to mind in the moment, so it is spontaneous and flows, and I get to use tone of voice to its full advantage, where as with messaging I'm always o…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:53 AM
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You'll get there bud. One day it all just 'clicks' and you will wonder how you ever were the previous you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:36 AM
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If you remove her from your life then she will quite happily continue getting her attention elsewhere. You might be the 'asshole' today, bit there will be another one for her to focus on soon enough. If you're worried about that, then the best thing you can do is to stop talking to he, completely.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:33 AM
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If you're spending time with women that are like that then you need to read up on the TRP site about screening women. You don't need to leave things on good terms. Just be consistent and they will respect you. Get your emotions under control bro.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:25 AM
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I fucking love this 😂 thanks for the laugh.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:22 AM
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Tambamwham, I respectfully disagree. If you read any of Rollo's texts, I've pretty much rewritten his ethos in my reply. My advice hinges on him being consistent and not needy. The worst thing he could do is be angry. One of the first things you learn here is to maintain your frame. Masculinity is SO much more than anger and shouting. To think that is to misunderstand what masculinity actually is. In this context, my advice stands. He wants to be with her and nowhere in TRP will it say that a re…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:18 AM
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If anyone says anything about it to you either agree and escalate (laugh it off and portray her as amusing and dramatic) or play it off as something which makes you appear like you really don't care ("I must have been WASTED that night 😂") - from here on, as stated, I would take it as a lesson learned.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:10 AM
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You live on your own, so I would calmly tell them that you want them to stop and put more thought in to what they say. If they don't, then cut back on your visiting hours and make other plans when you are seeing them (any friends local to the parents?) - start declining invitations in favour of other things. Be busy and unavailable. Make them value you and your time more. The same basic principles apply here, as they always do, its just that you're overthinking it because they are your parents. …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:06 AM
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Shit happens. Learn a lesson and put her solidly behind you. You lost your frame after you apologised. Not because of the apology, but because you became progressively needy when she wasn't interested. So many guys put others before themselves these days and women are quick to allow it. Live for you, not for someone who is a waste of your time, energy, and resources. Look at it this way, if she was a 2/10 would you really give a shit right now? Now consider that her personality is most likely a …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:59 AM
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General advice: The worst thing you can do is be reactive. Being reactive is a femanine trait and will push her away further. My stance with this sort of shite is the ignore it entirely, as anyone I'm with knows that I'm with them because I choose to be, not because I need to be. Reinforce that ethic by not being needy, overly (or undeservedly) affectionate, and make what you say count. Don't complain, Don't whine, have asperations, continue/start living an awesome life and doing things to bette…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:41 AM
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Ping her. Meme or something funny/interesting with a playful vibe to provoke a non-committal no pressure reaction and if she replies, take it from there. If she doesn't, leave it a week and try the same thing 1 more time then next if no reply.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:11 AM
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😂😂😂😂 brilliant. I'm going to try this!
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:07 AM
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I'm happy with the outcome. She's still a FWB and isn't giving me shit because she now knows that it will come to an abrupt end.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 03:17 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:33 AM
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I had received 9 messages prior to sending this, all containing lots of shit tests. This was my response. "I'm going to be almost non-existent for the next 2-3 weeks until my work is handed in. So, from today, contact will end until I'm done. Your sarcastic comments (these were the shit tests) have continued to put added pressure on me over the past few weeks and now I'm going just focus on my work." There were then a series of messages from her that ended with "If I'm that stressful then leave …
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:19 AM
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You make good points, but the fact remains that a red pill mindset is to provide her with the choice, once establishing boundaries. If she wants to get married then she can choose to move on OR she can continue knowing that it is off the table. At the 1 year mark, it is important that he does this sooner rather than later. Personally, I don't think that having consideration for others is a blue pill mindset and this is threaded throughout the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:11 AM
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Ooof... I think it's worth saying here that just because you may have been hurt in your past by a woman, doesn't mean you should be okay with hurting women in general (and I mean this generally speaking, not directing it at you bro)
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:07 AM
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I completely agree with this. Honesty is underrated. This action is the typical "be cruel to be kind" and I have used it myself many times over the years, even today!? (Told FWB that she was interrupting my studies by trying to discuss her insecurities all the time and expecting me to reply. Told her that I won't be messaging her for 2-3 weeks. She then says... "(Enter typical girl chat here) if you don't like it then 'break up' with me..." my response was a simple "okay")
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:02 AM
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Sounds like you're well on your way to the 'DNGAF' mindset. Keep at it ✌️
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:54 PM
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I completed a Psychology Undergraduate, Masters by Research in Social Science Research Methods, and applied for Clinical Psych. PhD this year... Most common question... "Can you read my mind?" ... Most common statement "Oooh, so you're going to be a doctor" - it's common, it's repetitive, and a drain, but allows you to practice the ideal response for smooth transition between talking and taking her or one of her friends home. It would be annoying if I allowed it to be, but ideally I try to move …
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:53 AM
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Fuck dude... I'm about to blow your mind with an archived story/post. Hold my beer. Back in a bit with an update... ⬇️⬇️⬇️------------EDIT------------⬇️⬇️⬇️ ☝️- https://archive.is/Z2zmv - 'Solo gaming', a field report - NO WINGMAN NEEDED. ✌️- https://archive.is/afBrh - TRP endorsed Tinder guide & member post. Don't just rely on the side bar. There are not far off 300,000 members, some with v. Useful information. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:28 AM
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Thanks spell check bot 😂👏
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:35 PM
2

If this doesn't make you feel privileged then I don't know what will.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:34 PM
1

I have directed him to our source material, Rollo's too, and high ranked user posts in the archive relevent to this post. Welcome to the start of your RP journey.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:26 PM
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Everything you need to know is in the 100 pages or so that we refer to as the holy grail for TRP. Head over to The Rational Male and learn. I highly recommend that you pull away from her and do not message her AT ALL untill you have devoured all the free information on offer. Then, come back and read your post here again. The reason we all know that you haven't done your home work and have skimmed the sidebar is because every one of us looks like this '🤦🏻‍♂️' after reading your post.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:32 AM
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😂🤮😂 Fucking hell... Oneitis at its worst. If she isn't in to you then you "forcing sexual tension" by sending her nudes is literally just going to end up with her dad beating you up 😂 - additionally, it's creepy, needy, and wtf are you even doing practically begging for her time and attention. Trying to convince yourself and us that you "don't give a fuck" yet you're trying to force her to like you and then writing a Reddit post all about it? Mannn GTFO, head back up to the sidebar, and either a…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:14 AM
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Gym, lifting, eating well, skin care routine (check out 'The Ordinary' for affordable good products), having outdoor or physically active hobbies, mental stability/consistency (relates heavily to Frame too). All that good stuff.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:59 PM
1

insert Jackie Chan meme here - if you know you know
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:09 AM
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I fucking love that 😂 how have I not heard that saying before
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:00 AM
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One of my ex's did exactly this to me. I found out she had been cheating on me with multiple men so obviously I broke up with her. She had distant Royal blood ties, and the shock of me (the 'pesant' [her words not mine]) breaking up with HER!? HEAVEN FORBID!? 😂 It was too much for her to handle so she started making exactly the same kind of shit up to get my attention, as I completely cut her off. That all changed when she started making some more serious allegations to Chad orbiters, which got …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:53 AM
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Seriously, you NEED to check out Gary Vee and 'Rich dad poor dad' 😁. They will help you so, so much! The secret to real wealth is diversity. So, it's not always about what you are passionate about, that just helps with motivation and ability to be consistent. However, if you have high self-discipline, then motivation and consistency shouldn't be an issue. The goal should ideally be to create something that will near enough run itself with minimal input, or that you can outsource (eg. A property …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:11 AM
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The reason it sounds like you're lost (to me) is because you have so many things that you would like to do but, for whatever reason, haven't. Don't try to suddenly do everything at once and focus on adding new skills slowly. We are in the information age and you are in a prime position now to take action. You live with your parents, so that's a HUGE bonus if you want to start a business or independent study. As your overheads are near non-existent. I would recommend checking out "Gary Vee" as a …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:47 AM
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Apply for a restraining order. Positive action now to support a case, should she bring one against you. I would also call a non-emergency police line to ask for advice and get the equivalent of the 'crime reference number' that we are given here in the UK.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:25 AM
2

The first thing that screams "no" to me is that you are going through her messages or at the very least having her send them to you so you can post them on here for all of us to read... You've already lost your frame. Don't do that shit. If you start freaking out about and treating her differently, then you've immediately made it an issue and made her question it further/think about it. Don't punish her, acknowledge it, and reaffirm his neediness and unpredictability. Above all, stay stable, rel…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:11 PM
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Dude... I learnt this lesson hard back as an undergrad. Broke up with a girl and was a blue pill hot mess 😂 - girl who was crushing on me at the time came to my room to "comfort me" and practically ripped my clothes off. The next day I told her I was just out of a relationship, cut-up about it, and didn't want another. The bitch then made me public enemy number 1 for the rest of the year and had the people around us ostracise me for 2 months following (same friend group). Women can be BRUTAL. Sh…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:06 AM
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That shit counts less and less as you get older. Later it's more about your aura/presence, frame, health, and how much you bank.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:00 AM
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"it's not you, it's me" 😂 jokes But seriously, anything you say try to say it with a quiet confidence and decisiveness. Do not be hesitant and stand by what you say and do, but do not be a dick. 'TRP confidence' is about CONVEYING it, not ramming it down people's throats. You want people to think "Fuck, he's a cool guy with his shit together" and not "Urgh...what a dick" - it takes time to learn this and learn it well.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:49 AM
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31
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:43 AM
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Same as above 🤙
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:42 AM
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Fuck buddy is one up from a plate fyi :)
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:25 AM
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Indeed 🙌
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:13 PM
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I've been working out minimum 3 days per week for the last 5 years and even in lockdown I've bought myself a squat rack, weights, bench, dumbbells, and use the THENX app for HIIT in my garden. I'm not 'ripped' but am muscular and around 16-17% body fat. I could go lower but I like good food and still want to have a sex drive. In terms of putting her on a pedestal... I take your point, however I do not in any way idolise her. I give credit where it's due and acknowledge her for who she is and how…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:28 AM
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😂
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:27 AM
2

It actually does but on a biological level and incompatibility too! read my post above 😂
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:43 PM
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I’m a Social Science Research Masters graduate (UK) and came across this during my dissertation literature review. It appears very likely that we are turned off by a potential mates natural smell if they are genetically incompatible (aka will result in poor offspring) and turned on by their smells if copulation would result in strong offspring 😂 - funny that we are not so far removed from nature as we would like to think. Most people will fall in the middle though with no preference for smell or…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:40 PM
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Less is more but it’s a balancing act. Leave it too long between contact will put her off just as much as too much contact. Also, if she’s not in to you then she won’t care about how aloof and mysterious/distant you are 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:57 AM
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Amen to that!
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:44 PM
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This. stretching+meditation has been a revelation for me! I can’t believe I didn’t do these things each morning before quarantine!? I’m also using this time to finish my website and launch my 2nd side hustle 😂🙌🏻 (hopefully this one will become the main hustle!)
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:44 PM
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31 here and was recently making my way through a 21 yr old, 22 yr old, and 27 yr old. I say ‘recently’ as I decided to ltr the 22 yr old - she earned it. As long as you look after yourself (health, career, prospects) and know how to talk to women (it’s so much easier once you’ve solidly set your frame and know precisely who you are) pussy is easy to acquire.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:34 AM
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Check out the “bitch management guide” - this will massively help you here bud.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:46 PM
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Unicorns are real my friend but they are called that for a reason 😂 - rare as rocking horse shit 😂 - it’s funny though, right? All my social media is filled with the same. I’ve never seen one of these girls at any of the gyms I go to 😂
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:34 AM
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What would your sister say if she saw you this way? Take a moment to consider that. When someone close to you takes their own life there are always a whirlwind of emotions (as you are experiencing), primarily because there are a TONNE of unanswered questions, that you can never hope to have answered. As bull shit as it sounds, the first step toward better mental health is finding a way to accept this. If you are not able to workout due to lack of motivation, then try uninterrupted guided meditat…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:29 AM
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Don’t do it. Follow the advice written above. Asking her why and acknowledging that she is not giving you attention is weak and will push her further away from you. Never do that.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:01 AM
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TRP does not prohibit relationships. You can be open to one but you need to maintain the mindset that “you are the prize”, not the other way around. I recently started a relationship after taking advice on here (lots of children talking shit but a few bits of perfectly good advice). She was a plate then a FWB and now GF - 2 years for her to get there, but it’s really good! If you want something more meaningful then go find it and be happy 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:21 AM
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That’s called being a controlling asshole, not living by a Red Pill mantra. The nuances of RP and subtleties are what brings success, not being controlling.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:17 AM
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If she’s asking your permission to trim her hair then there is something seriously wrong with that dynamic 😂 - OP don’t react to it. Ignore and move on, if she pushes for a response then I would make a statement about it at most (“it doesn’t look as good as it did before” or “you do you”) Don’t question the “why” surrounding it. Just my two cents.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:36 PM
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I know this is a red flag and I knew my comment would be downvoted. It’s hard to explain without people shouting “oneitis” - long story short, she is the most mentally stable women I’ve met, despite the shit she went through and has proven that over the time I’ve known her.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:14 AM
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It’s not a case of oneitis. I’ve been around long enough to know that this is a case of her earning my consideration only. She has earned the right of this consideration while being a plate and then FWB over the past two years. She will likely move to level 4 (LTR).
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:11 AM
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That’s a very good point. Thank you, I will take it under consideration before solidifying.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:07 AM
1

Thank you for your input. I will definitely take that under consideration.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:04 AM
1

I will take a look. So, would you say that ‘feelings’ are unnecessary? I think for me it’s more that I lack any form of ‘emotional availability’ and she’s such a good person that I don’t/didn’t want to put her through that constant investment with little reward.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:47 AM
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I don’t care what women think of me. The whole point of my post was to ask how people deal with being unable feel any emotion for a woman when considering bumping her up to LTR status. Not to be rude, but I think you’ve misunderstood what I was asking.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:28 AM
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When I was in my late teens it was the idea that I couldn’t physically be close enough to that person. Even when we slept together, i still wanted to be physically closer. Like almost wanting to be the same person. But that was over a decade ago 😂 - since then? I honestly have no idea. I haven’t said it to anyone since.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:26 AM
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She was abused throughout almost all of her childhood and adolescence - and it was a LONG journey to plate to FWB. TRP practices achieved this. I am certain of her ‘purity’ in this sense. She doesn’t sleep around because she can’t.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:34 PM
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Given your current situation (checked your post history) I can see that you are going through a difficult time, so I understand why would would consider my post in this way as you must currently be of the “fuck all women and the world” mindset. My views are inline with TRP. I was always on the side of the fence that was “open to a LTR” rather than the “lone Alpha” mindset. It does not make me Betta, nor do I have oneitis, just because I’m considering moving a FWB up to level 4 as she has earned …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:30 PM
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Exactly man. I hear and agree with you. She’s earned it and continues to do so. I’m open to a LTR and have not looked for it. Willing to see where this goes.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:13 PM
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According to the bitch management guide she probably earned level 4 (LTR) about a year ago 😂 - I have maintained the FWB status for a long ass time and she’s still scoring on every level. I’ve decided tonight to promote her and check back in at a later date to update. Thanks for your input and everyone else’s
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:09 PM
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Never was a truer word said. Thanks for the advice man. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:06 PM
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Through the comments and community advice here tonight, I have decided to move from FWB to LTR and always retain the right to demote. I will update in the future to report back. Thanks for taking the time to comment 🙌🏻
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:58 PM
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She’s never had a ons and I’m the second guy she’s been with (First was an LTR). 2 years as FWB and she’s not gone anywhere else. According the the bitch management guide, she earned the LTR status a very long time ago as she has exceeded it all. It’s time for me to make the decision and either permit the her graduation to level 4 LTR or fully demote and let her move on.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:47 PM
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Agreed, but she’s still young and finishing college this year. These things are permissible due to the environment imo. You miss out on a lot of you don’t do what the others do through these years.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:38 PM
2

This is definitely a risk. Could be why I’ve been hesitant?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:36 PM
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I haven’t looked for an LTR, but two years as a... tbh I shouldn’t really call her a plate, she’s in the FwB zone, and I’ve been starting to think that she’s worth investing in further. Submissive but playful I’m the boss Good girl - one previous LTR no other sexual partners Ugly duckling story MASSIVELY applies Proven supportive through frame dropping times Incredible in bed (doesn’t even know it due to lack of experience) - 2 years in and she can’t keep her hands off of me Very relaxing to be …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:34 PM
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Been spinning this one for 2 years bud and she’s still showing my photos to guys that try to hit her up on a girls night out
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:13 PM
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I was messing dude 😁 - British humour, we suck at it 🤣
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:11 PM
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This is the second comment that has completely resonated with me. I had two women in my ‘pre-RP exposure’ days, who I almost worshipped. I shudder even thinking about how much of a beta... no... Theta cuk I was back then. I was ready to ‘love’ and both cheated mulllllltiple times. Broke me a bit and I found TRP later. Realised just how much I had failed. Not only in selection of who made LTR and who didn’t, but my behaviour on the whole and why they did what they did 😂 I look back now and laugh …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:09 PM
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Honestly man, thank you so much. This is a game changer.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:57 PM
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👏🏼 well said
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:18 PM
2

😂 perfect! Or even a selfie with masking tape over your mouth followed by “send help” 😂
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:17 PM
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Dude... I’ve just finished reading that and holy crap I’ve been failing HARD. My text game is even worse than I thought 🤦🏼‍♂️😂 - now going to try round two on a potential lead
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:48 PM
1

Awesome! Thank you!
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:01 PM
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Perfect, thank you!
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:01 PM
1

Very true. I totally agree with this statement. It is very easy to get consumed by it to the point where you actually MISS opportunity through trying too hard to live by a Red Pill mantra. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:57 PM
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No, it’s the other way around. She has oneitis for me and I’m currently still spinning 3 plates. I have begun to want an LTR and she is consistently proving herself to me without me asking anything of her, hence my consideration.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:56 PM
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If everyone’s done it, then where is your advice? What you have written so far applies to literally nothing that I wrote about in my post. Do you understand the content and what I’m asking? It’s a request for advice on a specific topic, not a request for someone to tell me what I am when it doesn’t even apply 😂 - I am happy with everything in my life and am ready to move on to the next phase. I just wanted an answer to my specific dilemma which you have not achieved. It’s okay though as someone …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:52 PM
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Gandalf?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:41 PM
1

My text game is weak - I’m better in person - do you have a link to this?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:41 PM
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Link? 🙏
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:40 PM
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It’s your space, your rules. If you don’t want her to stay over, I would tell her that in a polite but firm way, without justification if possible. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:38 PM
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😂🙌🏻
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:34 PM
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I saw that post too! Thanks for reminding me, it slipped my memory. The odd thing is that with this girl I’m considering an LTR, I’ve had her as a plate for 2 years and adding “...right now” on to anything she feels about me just doesn’t ring true. For every other woman I’ve dated/plated I can 100% agree. Definitely. She’s the only one that I can honestly say that couldn’t possibly apply to. I mean, we’re not even together and yet, when she’s out with her friends, she will make guys wait who hit…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:30 PM
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If there were awards for “worst commenter” then you’d have nailed it with this one 😂 - I’m not angry about anything, nor am I looking for validation. I’m asking for advice from those who have experience in the matter on which I’ve posted. Clearly you are not one of those people.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:23 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 fuck... this resonated with me! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I hadn’t even considered it that way, at all. This is it. I’m going to stop the maladaptive thoughts of “I’m missing something” and going to just go with it. If I had any awards to give I’d be dropping them. Thank you 🙏
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:19 PM
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Hmm... I don’t believe that I’ve hit any of those points? I’m just thinking that there must be a way back to emotion and giving a shit again - if someone has experienced that then I would definitely like to hear it. I’d say I’m feeling more... apathetic toward the emotions of women (a good thing in many respects) but that has also resulted in a destruction of the concept/reality of ‘love’ if you get me?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:38 PM
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I completely take your point and definitely well said/illustrated. I think because I’m considering moving on from plates toward a TRP backed LTR I may be overthinking it? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:10 PM
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I do agree with you for 99% of cases bud, I really do! But the ‘emotional unicorn’ that I referenced above has proven herself in terms of everything you mentioned above. I hit a wall hard and she was completely there (even when my frame slipped). That is a big part of why I’m considering bumping her up to a LTR, but I’m trying to understand how people who have experience the emotional distance and inability to feel anything deeper for women (that I think has come from me using TRP practices) hav…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:01 PM
1

You’ve pretty much summed up how I feel, but I tried to dance around it a bit and you’re in like 💥😂 love it. Do you feel that way because of the way women have treated you (been unfaithful etc.) or because you have just come to prefer the plate spinning life?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:57 PM
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I am not gloating, I’m asking for advice.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:12 PM
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dude... I completely empathise. If you check my previous comments I had an LTR fuck over 10 guys (that she could remember) and my TRP journey built from there. I got a free mackbook pro out of it though and an apology letter 😂 - maybe it’s our experiences that lead us to TRP and to lack the emotional availability/trust of women rather than employing TRP concepts? 🧐 gave me something to think about, so thanks!
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:32 PM
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At least once a week 😂 - no not that often, but I do reflect sometimes and almost shudder at how I used to be. There are cons though, as I do think I have now gone too far in to TRP and struggle to feel much of anything for any woman 🤷🏼‍♂️ and shit tests really have no/little impact at all - I don’t know if that is a good or bad thing, at the moment I consider it a trade off. Has anyone else experienced this lack of emotion/empathy and figured out how to combat it? I might actually post this sep…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:34 AM
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I bought 18 chickens and now have a shit tonne of eggs every day 👌🏻 - going through about 10 egg whites and 4/5 yolks on alternate days and smashing the frozen meat on others. I also bought a bench from FB market place for £20 (bargain) and while it only had 40kg worth of weight, I’m doing minimum 20 reps x 5 sets close grip, minimum 20 reps x 5 sets widegrip, over head press for 12 reps x 4 sets minimum, hand stand push ups to failure, barbell squats close to failure, and whatever else I can ma…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:34 PM
1

I hear you. I’ve become a pessimist over the years, that’s for sure
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:39 PM
1

Until they drive it out of them and threaten half their acquired wealth - sure, a successful attractive married man may be able to pull, but the law puts them at risk of losing at least half of their estate (more if children are involved) should the other half decide that it’s time to move on - I have no plans to get married any time soon. I just feel that it’s too risky in so many ways. I know in some countries (UK) that the law has even given rights to cohabiting couples so now you don’t even …
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:58 PM
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Doesn’t it depend what you define as ‘creative’? I create a better body and mindset through the gym I create a connection and trust with an animal through horse riding I create life through selectively breeding aquatic invertebrates I create a meal through shooting/hunting/fishing And, of course, as you said, I create a tangible item through making still-life out of road kill 😂 It’s all a matter of perspective and, as I said, having hobbies that you’re passionate about gives you a lot more to ta…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:32 AM
1

Gym, shooting/hunting, horse riding, beach/sea fishing, breeding aquatic inverts, taxidermy ... the last two are particularly easy to grab interest 😂
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:32 AM
2

Ask the guy how often he gets laid and the woman how often she thinks about it with him 💀
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:21 AM
2

See here’s the thing... I know this isn’t going to be a typical TRP response, but here goes... It is possible to reach a point where you simply shut off emotion and just don’t give a shit. I reached this stage a good few years ago and it has mega pros and mega cons. Primary “pro” is that women adore you and fight for your non-existent love. The con is exactly that, you’re not capable of loving anyone at this point. It’s all just sex and their tears mean little to nothing. Your response to her is…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:01 AM
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Pinning wrists firmly while taking a moment to kiss them sensually works well. Going from ‘hard’ to ‘firmly passionate’ then back to ‘hard’ is always a winner, especially with well timed and appropriate eye contact. Underline the word ‘appropriate’ as no one wants to come off a weirdo while banging 😂🤘🏻
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:33 AM
3

When I was in my early 20’s I nearly died from a cocktail of things that go up your nose. Ended up in A&E while a university student. I decided that I would go ‘t-total’ for a while and completely stopped everything, even drinking. I continued to go out to clubs and bars, but would just order diet soft drinks. The first couple of nights out I was bored and it felt a bit shitty, but then the third night onward I was in my element! It was so empowering to be the only one out who was ‘in control’ a…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:05 AM
1

😂👏🏼
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:53 AM
1

😂👌🏻
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:21 PM
4

Dude... there is no need to hit your children with a tree branch or leather belt. Simply making them consider their behaviour while told to remain on a step or in a corner with no stimulation for 5 minutes at a time is enough. Then once it’s finished, tell them that you love them (reassurance) and ask them why they behaved the way they did and if they understand why you had to do what you did. If they continue to be bad then they get another 5 minutes. It may not seem so long to you but to a 6 y…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:45 PM
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Okay, I’m in England - UK and it looks like in Scotland that ‘sharing intimate videos/images’ is an offence carrying a maximum sentence of up to 5 years - HOWEVER it only seems to apply to nudity/sexual acts/underwear/etc. And does not seem to include videos of abusive behaviour. At the end of the day, for you to be charged, you would have to be extradited to South Korea to face any criminal prosecution 😂 so good luck to her with that! Just don’t share it on a public forum with anyone in your ow…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:11 PM
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This. Apply to every person you meet and your life will change.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:37 AM
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I’d love to advise posting the video, but make sure you can’t get in trouble for it with the law first. Find out what the rules are where you are so you’re not going to get locked up. Alternatively, wait until you return to your home country for good then share it with all her Korean friends 👍🏻 I dated a 9/10 S. Korean girl for about 6 months, and a similar thing happened to me at the half a year mark. She started blaming me for shit and getting mad at me even if I was like 1 minute late for som…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:32 AM
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There is no way I would just come out with “I know you want to fuck me” - If it feels right, go in for the kiss. If she goes with it, sweet. If she says “Woah, I have a BF” you can follow up with something simple like “I know” or “okay, and?” And continue to make your move. That way she can blame you in her own mind for what happens and not herself 🤷🏼‍♂️ accusing her of wanting to fuck you will likely be to your detriment. Also, as others have said, I wouldn’t be messing around with women from w…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:18 AM
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Can’t you just get rid during her probationary period. 6 months is the standard here in the UK. Who knows, she might trip herself up anyway in that time 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:12 PM
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I like the way you handled it. Everything spot on. However, ‘setting’ her chores makes me uncomfortable. It’s one thing to live an alpha life, it’s another to be controlling. Making her think it was her decision to do that chore all along is the art form, telling her what she will be doing is chode material.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:09 AM
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I think the top comment is a great way to go about day approach - wishing you the best of luck bud :)
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:04 PM
2

The last cold approach I did was in a club with a girl that barely spoke any English. She said she didn’t understand, so I made a dramatic show of getting down on one knee and holding out my hand - she laughed and took it - I then took her to the dance floor and within 5 minutes I had my hands on her ass and her tongue down my throat 😂 - moral of the story, sometimes you don’t even need to speak.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:55 PM
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That’s fair enough bud, but it just sounds like you have some boring ass friends. I’d still recommend checking out the app I suggested :) - if you can find people who share your interests then you will definitely have much, much more to talk about and be able to find some quality friends.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:03 PM
0

Sildamax > performance anxiety - thank me later 😂
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:18 AM
5

Monk mode is the opposite of what you should be doing bud. Humans are social creatures by nature and isolation leads to mental ill health, as you have found out. Find purpose and give your life meaning, some of your suggestions are good! Self-improvement can do wonders, but look to connect with others when you feel able. Check out the app “Meetup” it’s been great for me and it’s entirely platonic. Go make some friends who enjoy doing what you enjoy doing in your area and be happy 🙌🏻
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:14 AM
2

😂😂😂 that last line killed me
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:05 AM
1

This. One of my ex’s primary ‘fuck-buddy’ didn’t even know she had a BF (aka me). He invited me out for a drink and apologised. We’ve been friendly ever since, and I’m sure it made her die a little inside 😂 - to be fair though, she fucked so many people that it was impossible to direct ‘postal anger’ at any one person.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:11 AM
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I need to find me a married woman 😂🙌🏻
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:23 AM
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THIS is EXPERT level amplify 😂 - seriously, please get everyone a buttplug, that would be incredible 😂
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:00 PM
1

All three of my plates squirt and in very different ways 🤷🏼‍♂️ - just got to learn your girl. One requires a dick in and no movement with a clit rub, another has to get the right rocking motion below and the other from on top. Just experiment. Unlike us guys (pump and dump) it is my strong belief that every girl is different and can get there if you listen to her body. I’ve only ever had a problem with one and she was seriously messed up...
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:47 PM
1

Experienced exactly what you have recently OP. However, after her third flake I hard next her. Two weeks later (no contact initiated on my part) I get a message from her asking to meet up for drinks, I agree. Two days later she bumps in to my brother on a night out and tells him I’ve been flirting with her (making out it’s one sided - clearly it was only a need for attention/validation on her part and nothing more). The morning after I found out I messaged her a final time along the lines of... …
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:41 PM
2

I’m conducting research on exactly this for my post-graduate thesis. As things stand it looks very promising that the results will show a direct association between less social media use, lower anxiety and greater productivity. However, I am specifically focusing on a tool for self-imposed social media use/time regulation to provide the first evidence for behavioural techniques as effective for reducing addiction to social media. Behavioural addictions have been shown to affect the brain almost …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 09:50 AM
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Thanks bud, when frame all you have left you don’t want to lose it! 🙌🏻
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:36 PM
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Fuuuuuck... that is absolutely BRUTAL!? To be fair that would cut deep. Bros before hoes, always. I have no idea how one friend can do that to another. Any of my friends women made a pass at me, you can be sure as shit that 5 seconds later they’ve heard about it.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:32 PM
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I like your thought process, but she wasn’t and isn’t worth my time. The only sad thing about it is there’s probably multiple men out there meeting my ex for the first time and thinking she’s special 😂 My thought process was “fuck it... free Mac Pro 🙌🏻”
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:31 AM
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@savior1666 - EVIDENCE https://imgur.com/a/sHYmGXT Feel free to browse at your leisure. Main picture is of the Mac with apology letter I received, which was hand delivered and 4 pages long. The Mac is the same one mentioned in my post I have highlighted the escorting bit that she wrote in the letter After I blocked her she came to my house and put this through my door 😂
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:56 AM
1

If you had a choice between a 5/10 and a 7/10 who dressed exactly the same, text-gamed exactly the same, shit exactly the same, who would you bang? Up your game man and stop comparing yourself to others. You are benchmarking yourself against him and immediately making yourself feel inferior. Be you and like you for you. Women will respond to a positive vibe and confidence. If they don’t then hard next! Play the numbers game and don’t get tied down or hung up on any one woman, you’re way too youn…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:16 AM
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EDIT: As I’ve been called out for the content of my reply/post, here is the link to the evidence https://imgur.com/a/sHYmGXT 👍🏻 I’d blow that off immediately. It’s easier to see from the outside looking in. Try to look at it objectively and read your post from an external point of view, as we are. My last LTR gave me her previous Mac book pro. Said if I could fix it I could keep it. Got it working and when it signed in her emails were still open. Immediately saw an email from an escorting agency…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:07 AM
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Dude... my best friend is 5,4” and was banging the hottest girl I’ve ever seen 😂 - he’s been blue pilled, but FUCK I can’t blame him. They are now buying a house together/having it built 😂🙌🏻 Get out of your head. Sure, being taller would be nice. At 5,11” I’m always thinking I’m short. But fuck it. Get out of your own head and own it! 💪🏻 - others will sense your lack of confidence and feel awkward around you because of your awkwardness and insecurities. Plus you’re only 18!? Jesus, if I was 18 a…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:52 AM
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My immediate reaction/response: I would have acted surprised that she rated me so highly and then told her she was objectively a 5 😂🙌🏻 Seriously man... keep it light hearted and don’t take anything she says like that seriously. The moment you do and get butthurt it empowers her and emasculates you. If I get shit tested then you can be sure they are getting a shit test right back
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:36 AM
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This was my immediate thought too. You fucked up on the shit test. Personally I would have played off her comments about the ‘real/new’ guy that you don’t know, and have recommended that she date someone with CLEARLY lower SMV than you, that you both know, and been serious while doing so. Throw it back at her and get her wondering. If you recommend someone ‘less than you’ then it’s likely she will wonder why and want you more as in her mind you’ve indirectly elevated yourself above her 👍🏻
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:54 AM
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This. Ghost her for a few days or wait to see if she makes contact again. Leave her on ‘read’ and let her sweat it out.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:24 AM
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Point absolutely missed.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:52 PM
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You’ve entirely missed the point. It’s not about what you’re suggesting he say it’s about how you’re framing it. In everything you’ve suggested you’ve put her on a pedestal and put the power in her hands. I don’t believe I ever said I was the “Uber alpha” 😂 although the ‘Beta experience’ definitely left me in my early 20’s. At 30 years old I currently have 3 plates at 21, 20, and 28 and have no intentions of ‘settling.’ The key thing I’m getting at is you don’t want to be asking questions all th…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:58 PM
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🤦🏼‍♂️... because... You’re asking her a question/permission which is beta... read what I wrote above... I was inviting her to tag along which brings up the sensation of ‘privilege’ as in you have chosen to let her hang out with you and not asking if she will ALLOW you to take her on a date, as you have just suggested doing... seriously, that is bad advice. If you want to go down you’re route and have her one on one (awkward) then you need to say... “I’m planning on going out for coffee Saturday …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:05 PM
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DO NOT ASK HER ON A DATE! ..... Christ.... so many people saying to do this.... NO.... tell her that you’re doing something cool/interesting and invite her to tag along! If that goes well THEN invite her on a date. e.g. “A couple of friends and I are going to ______ this weekend around ___am/pm. I’d like you to come, if you’re free?” Then if that goes well, date her 1-1. You don’t know her so she will be much more comfortable in a group, especially if she can also being a friend (you can tack th…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:27 AM
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Precisely man... I mean, there’s always “that 1 girl” in our pasts that “got away” but other than her, how many do we realistically agonise over...? It’s so hard to act upon what you KNOW is right when you’re in a relationship or dating someone (even if it’s casual). So, I now set myself rules that I must follow. If she or I breaks one of those rules, then I’m out. No second chances. If we don’t respect ourselves then neither will anyone else.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:10 AM
2

Just felt it was needed 🤷🏼‍♂️ I feel for the guy
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:50 PM
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Dude... I have totally had a similar experience to you here before. If you’re anything like me then what it actually cane down to was/is that this girl challenges your own dominance/self-image. I’m guessing she’s one of the more attractive people you’ve dated, and as such you’ve obsessively worried yourself sick... literally... She’s high value in your eyes but internally you feel that you are LOW value. You might have it all externally, but internally you are not confident at all and insecure w…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:07 PM
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If I don’t trust someone then I’m out, whether they have done something wrong or not. If you don’t care about someone more than just sex, then I wouldn’t worry about it, but if you have feelings for her then cut the bullshit and cut her off entirely. Tell her that her actions have made you doubt her and you want out. Stop talking to her for a few days and see what happens. That’s my advice. Go hard or go home, and stay alpha. Even having to wonder over this so much is beta. Kick it out of of you…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:46 PM
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