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| 2 | Need advice for Monk Mode period | Amon35 | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 12:25 PM | |
| 0 | Girls finds me intimidating? How can I fix this? | Amon35 | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 08:32 PM |
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| 2 | LTR Calling me out on dread?Nice line my dude Im stealing it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 5 | I "destroyed" my local circle , and people are going for my face, what should i do?They worry because people might find out that they are sleeping with a fuckboy. Would you give commitment to a girl who fucks around with fuckboys? Of course not. They just worried about their image. I had that issue one time and I said "Did those chicks ever asked for my commitment? They throwing shade at me cuz they didn't earned the gf titles. Hate the game not me". I think this is the most accurate translation. Next thing you know girls trying to get commitment from me because in their fanta… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Breakup after 5 years - lost attraction or not compatible?If your value is really high this means too many competition for her. She needs to be better than any other chick. She probably scared. Good riddance I would say. Move to the greener pastures. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Feminist ideas in the German education system - a case reportThe thing that brings people together is language. It's not just about trade and diplomacy. People often tells me "Don't swear in front of women" and I always reply with "I say fuck, when the fuck I want". If someone can restrict your speech just by existing that gives them power. You see this when you compare nice guy speech and asshole speech. We all know who gets the pussy. If the PC bullshit burrows itself even more deeper into education system I believe people will get more useless. Also if… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on my tinder account?Dude in the main picture and the rest is looks like two different person. It seems like you are also skipping leg days too my dude that's a no no. You have above average looks but all these pictures doesn't do justice to you. The golf one is ok. My advice is put a shirtless photo of you at the front. Face the camera. As for the rest use some of your sport activities. Take new photos. That will made you look like a sportsman rather than a gym bro. If you have hot body bitches don't care but you a… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | I(20f) often feel down about not having a boyfriendI read this and all I could say was "really queen?". Two guys you got really into is foreigners. All I can see is you want too much. You are young and if you are good looking too you basically have the pick of the litter. No single guy can be everything. Im sure you met many decent guys. Lower those standart of yours. Not everyone going to get a Henry Cavill or whoever is populer these days. You are your own worst enemy. Handle your issues then you can get a good boyfriend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?This is why you should set the boundary before saying yes to commitment. "Look Stacey I don't commit to girls who goes to clubs , does x,y,z ya da yada" At this point all you can do is either "I'm not ok about you going to clubs" or "Ok honey" You can plan an exit too. You have a gf therefore have some pre selection advantage. Use that to swing to another branch or put some plates to cupboard ;) I feel like she is probing you right now. This is all I can say with the information you gave. Stay s… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Female coworker “jokingly” asked my girlfriend if she wanted to stay away from me in a grouo call... should I have shut this shit down immediately?Since I don't have the full context all I can say from my own experience is the other chick is jealous. Your GF probably have a nice life and this other chick is probably a party hard fuck hard feed your cats hard cause you are only a cum dumpster chick. I just let you know when something goes wrong in the LTR she and other bitches will come in like vipers to poisen her to do something dump. I would turn up the dread a little. When she asks what's wrong you will be like "Well seems like Im being… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 12:20 PM |
| 8 | The great revelation of manhood during a fishing tripYou are spot on about the problems of new generation kids. I had the chance to talk with many university students and they really don't have any goal, skill or talent. At most they go straigh to one direction. In my opinion outdoorsman skills are very important. Not just about hunting for food but it clears your mind. You can have a wonderful time with your friends too. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?Seems like she has some fetishes. No girl wants to take the label slut and also don't want the label of weird. I got fwbs who are weird like this in the past. Her action means she enjoys the arrangement between you two. She might be seeing you as a fwb material too but Im not sure. At bare minimum she enjoys your presence thats for sure. I would continue to plate her or be fwb unless she brings a major red flag. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 6 | LTR is looking for jobs on the other side of the countryShe will break up when she goes away. She is just chilling for now. You should go and hunt some chicks in the near future. As for her silently demote to plate status. Act like everything is normal and have your fun. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Before ending an LTR, should I call her out on why I'm dumping her, or just do it with no explanation?The important part is the direction. Remember I said I don't know the full story so I wrote things based on a somewhat stable chick. No women can handle rejection. If our OP openly rejects her she will try to spin the story in a good light. It will be like "I love him he is just making a big deal out of this". The other people who hear her spinning will be like "Damn he can just threw her away in a flash? Seems like he is not sleeping alone right now." This way you can create a positive image fo… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 19 | Before ending an LTR, should I call her out on why I'm dumping her, or just do it with no explanation?Let's take this matter strategically. Now I don't know the full story so take my advice with a grain of salt. If you just ghost her she can be like "ouu mai goud he ghosted me so I hook up with Chad. I didn't cheat on him mkay I would NEVER hooked up with him if OP didn't ghosted me. Im not a sluuut". The point is she will have a chance to spin the narrative the way she wants to make herself look better. Ofcourse if you two are not in the same social circle this doesn't matter much. However if y… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Keeping failed leads aroundIf it's a girl you never dated but got the ljbf vibes sure it's possible. However if she said it out loud ljbf all her friends will see an unfuckable dude. If you were fuckable she just fucked you already. This idea will only lead you to a pre-rejection. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Why the disparity?Women wants successful men, men want hot chicks. It's simple as that Ugly and average dudes needs to improve themselves like they are going to face gods of olympus to get some action. I know from experience :D Today hot dudes don't improve themselves( most of them). Because they have unlimited source of pussy. Ugly guys stories are way different. The level of success an ugly guy achieves are way higher than ugly women and hot dudes. Also a chick's face might be ugly but they can get boob and ass… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/21 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Is my pair bonding affected by promiscuity if I never enjoyed the sex?From what you gave in the text your problem lies heavily on your self esteem and respect issues. Will you cheat on your bf if you two fight? That's the issue here. Pair bonding will get damaged for women when they sleep with too many different partners. There is no magic number. No one can say for sure whether you are broken or not. You should think about what you are putting in to your RL right now instead of your past. How are you earning your validation from your partner other than giving the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Ask Whisper: How to use intermittent fasting to lose weight?In my experience fasting is really important. I used to do Omad and workout. The results are amazing. Also there are calculators that can be use to calculate your own ideal diet. You can pretty much tailor the best diet for your body. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel pretty enough?Misery is a never ending market. It's designed to make you feel less no matter how much you buy. Instead of "be healthy, be fit" we see mencatcher69 makeup sets. Don't buy in bulks. Buy less, be fit and you are good to go ^^ | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Feeling frustrated and not sure how to handle this :/Answer with question. Like "What do you think" or "What do you have in mind". Also men don't see as much colour as women. Our eyes not designed for recognizing all those different colours. If the issue is about colour don't mind too much it's not possible for a men to see those colours unless he train his eyes. In your situtation however it seems like he just want to open a topic and ran with it not thinking ahead. If my first idea doesn't improve the situation just say "If you are not taking my… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Feeling frustrated and not sure how to handle this :/His train of thought: "Yeah I like this girl lets ask some ideas" *gets idea and imagination of him and you happily ever after goes wild "Yeah but what if she leaves, cheats etc. and this colour reminds me of her and my dreams?" That's one possibility. Since I don't know your RL this is the only thing comes to my mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I just feel very drained by society and got lost in bad thoughts.It's good to acknowledge your shortcomings. People have brittle ears these days. When you say the harsh truth they crumble. I give you a plus for not doing that. I made a lot of wrong choices when it comes to friendship too back in the day so I know how you feel. You must make sure their friendship truly tested. For example tell them you are short on change or you drop your money and need 5 dollars. Their reaction will tell a lot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOJTbWC-ULc Times are fucked and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Is The System Rigged for Women?Society wants to keep the illusion going. Imagine what will happen if every dude wakes up to reality. Love is a lie, being expendable, sacrifice means nothing. Women and the elites that controls the world wants the illusion intact. You and I not going to pay for weddings, expensive gifts, onlyfans etc. When you get married your boss be like "well... you have a baby coming I now we are paying you low but you can't find a job in a short notice riiight? So suck it". The thing is illusion is falling… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls reply to my flirting with jokingly flirtingMost of the times your average joe would text "you look nice today m'lady" or "wanna fuck" and they receive hundreds of them. You making dirty sex jokes actually a good thing. They like what you are doing. I use the same stuff too. It works for me. You should excalete from there my dude ;) | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | The Rapidly Inflating Sexual Market Bubble Is Going To BurstI think way more men will stay away from marriage when the bubble bursts. Sure most guys are BP but they can see the pain of others. When media and their environment tries to cover all these shits it actually gets more visible. There was a term for this but I don't remember. Next will be the LTRs. When all these BPs sees that Chads banging this chicks left and right and the same chick comes to them with "let's take it slow" they be like "fuck this shit I know how this will end". Probably even th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend is mad that I have let him spend his money on me when he invites me for diner or lunch.Only thing I can say is you made a bad choice for a boyfriend. This issue is not related to relationship but his personality. He was showing this behaviour for 4 years and you being ok with this only encouraged this behaviour. We don't have much context but all I can see is this is beyond a relationship issue so I can't give advice for this relationship. All I can say is choose better next time. Wish you the best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is mad that I have let him spend his money on me when he invites me for diner or lunch.From what I understand this behaviour started recently. If this was happening for 4 years this is on you. Made better choices next time. If its recent all I can say is something happened in the background. Maybe its another chick. Maybe something you did made him change his behaviour. I would say he has money issues but the way he threw it at your face makes me thing otherwise. Almost like he is punishing you for something. Like you are getting in his way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 01:01 AM |
| 37 | How To Change The Kind of Man You Are Attracted ToGood pointers for young girls. I like to add some pointers. Change yourself and Self Moderate: Invest in culinary arts. You are what you eat and drink. Look at a binge drinking and fast food eater girl at her 25 and her polar opposite. The difference is day and night. I know a girl who is very invested in her kitchen and she looks 20 - 25 without makeup despite being 30 years old. Change your friends: Every girl has a sinister friend. You might not aware of it, but she is there to sabotage you s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 10:13 AM |
| 6 | how to secure the poon?She is keeping you as an option. All you can say is( if you must) "Ok I got you np. Wish you the best." or "Look Im free this week/weekend/day (or whatever) if you wanna date let me know". Then move on. Don't beat a dead horse. Move to greener pastures. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I hook up with ugly girl off bumble tonight?If you meant your dead body as body count sure go ahead. First time for everything right? Jokes aside hell no. Not because she is ugly but the risk std. Back in the day I set this rule among my male friends. "If you didn't get laid in 3 months, you are free to bang an ugly chick. Not even gods can judge you." Try a safer bitch. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?No std risk No relationship trauma Better at pair bonding If she gives me her virginity( Dating after a while) I think she wants a ltr so I vet her accordingly If she makes a mistake, she makes a genuine unintentional mistake. They tend to make up for the said mistake These are simple facts. There is no story. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 02:15 AM |
| -2 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?Years ago I had to make a choice. A blond hot chick with a low N count or a brunette virgin. Blonde was way hotter than her and she is the sister of one of my best friends. I gone with the virgin in a hearth beat. Virgin always better for many reasons which you are going to find out in the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 8 | My LTR could be cheating on me.Calm down satan :D | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Plate/fwb of <2 years wants a relationship. I’d appreciate some good advice on vetting. This will be a bit long, I’ll do my best to space it out.itiswr1tten summed up very well my dude. Consider what he said here. Even if you don't want a OLTR his method will keep her around. Its like a heavily upgraded and overhauled "let's see where it goes". Damn I love that shit :D | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Plate/fwb of <2 years wants a relationship. I’d appreciate some good advice on vetting. This will be a bit long, I’ll do my best to space it out.She acted as your cum bucket for 2 years. By saying "I still fuck you but I need to know" is she is playing safe. She is into you thats for sure but she needs to seek some branch for emergency. If she is in the army she is no ltr material. End of discussion. Everybody nows the military girl. Im sure more experinced rp dudes here can enlighten you better on this matter. Something happened to cause her to want a ltr with you. Maybe in these 2 years you raised your SMV higher and higher, maybe some… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Started giving LTR vibes to my FWB. Can I redeem myself?Since you break the illusion you can just enjoy the ride. Keep vetting her. Think like a safe investment. If she is LTR worthy you can ltr or leave. If she is not and plate breaks than you gain experience. Win - win without any lose. You are young and experience in your age is very important for your future. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Plate learns about other plate; chaos ensuesNext time use their weapon against them. " She is just a friend, why do you have to be so insecure?". Every chicks knows just a friend is a future branch. By this method she might start to up her game or stay stable. For your second question I don't have a clear answer. Its 50/50 . Good luck my dude :) | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 3 | One of my plates shaved her head unexpectedly and blocked me on social media after I ignored her requests to hang for a month straight.Hair is a woman's crown. She either got cancer or something really bad happened. Either she did something or someone did something. That kind of change is an indicator of danger. Imo you should distance yourself. If she has cancer just wish her the best and move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 04:41 AM |
| 34 | What is up with guys in their mid-twenties with no previous sexual experience committing to “experienced” women without playing the field themselves?This also shows the part where PUA failed. Lots of game but no frame after the first sex. The chick knows the dude is on the leash so I don't see a bright future for this dude. I also have to applaud you for doing a detailed research even on the commenters. Nicely done my dude :) | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Genetic Selection for LTRTurkiyeden selam dostum :D Jokes aside finding a chick with a high IQ is near impossible in this day and age. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Jaw ExerExercisesLosing body fat and working out works wonders. I got fat due to illness then worked my ass off to get in shape. Now my Jaw looks much better than before. Im sure there are more detailed explanations on the internet. However I can vouch that working our really helped. Those tools probably doesn't work. They know looks matter the most so they are just dipping in the market if you know what I mean ;) | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Who should an unattractive but successful woman in her early 20’s date?Its like they are empty. They have nothing to talk about. They just... stay there you know its almost creepy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Who should an unattractive but successful woman in her early 20’s date?Both my male and female friends asks me why am I not committing to a hot chick I am dating. I always say " I would prefer to commit to someone that when we both get to our 60's and laugh at something stupid and have fun". I dated a lot and most chicks don't have a personality. Now lets get to you. Define unattractive. Are you fat? workout problem solved. Are you flat? Get better at blowjobs. Are you 2m tall? I used to date a chick who is 190cm tall and I am 170 so go figure. If you are succesful… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/21 10:12 PM |
| 0 | "Why you always wanna hang out at night"I always say "I only date at evenings". If she pesters I say "Im not your friend and Im not trying to be one". The ones that has genuine interest won't pester so if you have to say second line its most likely waste of time. I only had one exception to that rule of mine so take it with a grain of salt. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is going through a really stressful time at work. What are all the things I can do to make this period smooth?Don't try to be a sanctuary. Just be sure to don't hurt his pride. He knows the situation in the house so don't point it out. As long as you be a respectfull wife he will be happy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Does mental illness bring my RMV down?Culinary arts are a hobby of mine so I want you to know it's like meditation and also has way too many benefits. It might look complicated but it's not. It helped me a lot. When I got 100kg because of my illness and stress I created my own diet and wokout plan after carefully researching and gone down to 68 kg in 5 months without loose skin (and Im 170cm so its a miracle :D ) Some people say nurses bangs a lot but I have no experience on this so I can't say its a negative or plus. You having an … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Anybody been able to make it past 7 years with their LTR or wife?I thought it was 3 years itch? Most people I know cheat/cheated around 3 year mark. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Does mental illness bring my RMV down?First I applaud you for taking care of yourself. Second, It's going to be a deal breaker for most HVM guys. Ask any guy and they have one horrible story about an ex with bipolar. These type of chicks tend to love riding CC in a crazy way. Tendency of infidelity also always high. A man can be Chad Thundercock yet get cucked even with a normal chick. Your past also plays a role. Every man worthy of his salt will assume the worst and let the chick prove it otherwise with her actions. Since you have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Experience: Did having long(ish) hair negatively affect your chances of getting laid?Nope. I used to have a very long hair. Normally its wavy but when I iron it, it comes all the way to my waist. Still got laid. Its about what suits you. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 11:56 PM |
| 13 | Ignore LTR past if everything else is good?I looked at the comments and see that you need some clear vision. One hand this chick is good currently but on the other hand future is foggy. Seems like red and green flags are in balance that's why you can't make a choice. I'm not there so take my assumptions with a grain of salt From what I understand she used to know you before you plated her. Despite your presence she decided to sleep around then came to become your woman. In my book this shuts down the ltr road. Maybe that's not the situat… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Everything I wish every woman knew about weight and beauty.I wish more women acknowledge this information. I know some chicks that used stupid diets and died as a result. Anyone can get someone's attention momentarily with looks. But it's a much deeper and more profound ability to keep that attention in the long term Every dude rather date an average honest chick than a bombshell succubus. I also saw a chick repeatedly post about facial issues. Again dudes don't care about it that much as long as you compensate. As a guy that got many scars and got fat … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | my ex texted the girl I’m talking to, just kinda shitting on me, how do I respond. Do I message my ex (we haven’t talked in a year)Don't message your ex thats what she wants. Now the girl you are talking to knows you have above average SMV ( Maybe even higher but above average is a guarantee since we don't know the full story). For your ex you are a catch that's way she is texting the knew chick rather than sucking someone elses dick. The thing is chicks knows this stuff. Unless she writes something like "he is secretly murdering people in his basement" she is pretty much helping you out. Your ex just being a good bro at th… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinespush your sets near failure (except on squats, deadlifts, and other compound lifts where form breakdown can lead to injury) This part is the most important part which most people ignore. Most guys like "ok I done 10 push ups the set is done". True improvement comes when you push it to the limit. I got sick and ended up as a 100 kg fat ass. I worked hard and I am now 66 kg in a few months. I lost some muscle but I have no saggy skin and even got some traps to show up. On the other hand my friend … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | I had this idea for how women could handle the first time having sex in a relationship that makes strategic sense. No idea how this will go but am curious for your thoughts.For each of your good reasons Every dude with half a brain can see that bullshit. A chick tried that on me and I just like "yeah, right". Guess who I didn't called after that night. If a person's self esteem bound to sexual success they don't have self esteem. An experienced dude can make a girl come. It's simple as that. If a "shitty dude" don't make a chick come, the said chick give it to her again for validation. Why do you think there are so many dildos around here my dude :D Overall a very … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/20 09:00 AM |
| 15 | The Habits of Heroes - Pt.1You wrote a very simple and informative text my dude. Very well done. Especially the Showing Up part. At my previous job my boss once told me "Yeah we had a funeral it was sad but I need to bring bread to my home so I can't just mourn you know". It's really important to show up even at bad days. Lift while crying if you have to you can increase your multi tasking skills :D Jokes aside Im looking forward to future parts my dude ;) P.S I read it as "The hobits of heroes" :D | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 31 | Women Are For Sex – The Sexual Marketplace in ‘Current Year’Women won the battle but lost the war. I been telling this for a long time. Also everybody is getting laid is true. Atleast women getting laid. Men in general, not so much. My brother and my cousin also got the idea of "prize" and I had to go a little harsh on them. They were truly thinking like red pill oreos. Im also stealing this term my dude it really fits well :D Thanks for the writing. Its on point. Wish you the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about cosmetic surgery?You might want to get your hormones checked and consult a medical expert. Keep surgery as last resort. If everything fails go under the knife. There is nothing weird about cosmetic surgery since it became necessary these days. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Tracing the toxic history of feminism?Since this is off topic and has educational purposes I wanted to post. I suggest you to chase the money. When you look at Edward Bernay (Freud's nephew) he used feminists to sell cigarettes to women. You can watch his documentary. Looking at feminism as business will surely give you surprising infos. Have a nice day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Did I keep frame?The other dude came to fight you because of ego. If I understood right this dude is already banging the chick. My guess is this chick said/did something to cause this guy to attack you. The thing is you didn't start the fight. You didn't try to prove you are the top dog. You didn't lost frame. This is not about you but about other dude's ego. My advice: Find a better victory slogan my dude :D | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Do you ever question an ltr on who she’s with or what she’s doing or is that too insecureNot at all. Its just conversation. Besides one needs to set lines before promoting to ltr. If you like "No hanging out with boys" and she is now testing the waters like "he is just friend", you can go with "ok, wish you the best" and go to greener pastures. Don't let her have everything. If she is start to play "you are insecure" shaming tactics just go with "my ship my rules". Asking questions is not insecure. Interogation out of nowhere is. You know what I mean by interogation. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 7 | How do I become a more interesting person ?Going out of your comfort zone. You will always have a funny story to tell. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with your girls orbiters?You're welcome bro. Wish you the best. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with your girls orbiters?This is why making boundaries when giving promotion is important. Back in the day( Im not old but damn it was a long time ago) when a chick ask for promotion I always draw my lines. Its like "You can hang out with your male friends and go out with girls to party your life your choice. Just don't bother to come back here. My ship my choice". Combined with dread it works like a charm. At least for a while. Even if she cheats she slips up because of the fear. Constant fear cause chicks to make mist… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 290 | Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR]A girl that wants to lock you down wouldn't tell you threesomes. Calling this things as bad news is an understatement. From what I gathered from the story you told she knows you lack the experience. She knows that she can manipulate you. This is not the first girl that fall in love with you. She is taking advantage of you. Chicks like this has great experience and knows how to push the right buttons. Take this as a learning experience and nothing more. Maybe you can pull off a FFM who knows. She… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/20 01:43 AM |
| 14 | One girl sent me a picture of her and another friend of hers (also a girl) and asked me to choose one. Best answer?If you have an animal you can send its picture and say "my heart is taken". You can replace animal with food you are currently eating or with an istrument. You can also double down and send another chicks picture too but it will backfire if a good joke is not included. I can't come up with one right now. You can even make something out of the background of a picture like "yeah the old lady back there is lit". As long as you not make an actual choice its good. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledI was awesome then started to slip up three years later without realizing. Chick was acting like a unicorn and people ready to sell you some bluepill drug too. I have no excuse of course. Should knew shit was coming. Bluepill is one hell of a drug :D | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 19 | Getting hated for lifting seriouslyMaybe your father is worried about something else? Some dudes use video games, books, drugs etc. for escapism. Maybe your father thinks you are escaping from problems by lifting. I don't know the story but your father probably worried about you but acting low key. Your friends are haters thats for sure. However your close family seeing a 180 turn. They might be thinking the best of you so don't worry about them. When I started like that people thought Im going crazy but know they just cool becau… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get RpilledCount me in my friend because this is exactly what happened to me. Top of my game, everything almost perfect and then caught oneitis with a "quality" chick. 3 years later got cheated. I found out 2 days later when I choose an engagement ring. Thankfully I didn't gave deposit. I used to be an alpha dude then I slowly succumbed to a low place. The note everyone should take is every chick is capable of this. They know how to poison you. Even if you are redpilled. Afterall women hangs out lots of du… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 8 | Dealing with cockblocking girl in groups when cold approaching + tips?Bulletproof method. Provided the martry games her well. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on the “like tactic” to shoot your shot on IG?Slide to DM or react to stories. If she has zero interest you will be rejected and it will be over. Fail fast and move on to greener pastures. Also you are giving her attention while she is not giving you any RIGHT NOW. So she has zero incentive to give you attention. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Caught feels for an alpha widow plate that's also a huge hoe. Despite knowing this I still don't want to next her. What would you do? Can't stop thinking about her.Some chicks knows how to introduce themselves to your brain like a drug. Your situation is like a withdrawal. This feeling of yours will pass away in a short time if you cut contact with her. I give it a month at most. It will slowly fade away my dude. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Crosspost from PPD: CMV - Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableEvery attractive chick opening an onlyfans account seems realistic. However the problem with this theory is the dudes that pays this chicks has no discipline therefore majority of them will be jobless by that time. We can say fresh blood will take their place but when I look at the new generation of men I have doubts about it. Top tier chicks can get some stuff or become sugar babies but every attractive chick making bank seems unrealistic. At that time most of them might realize the fact that "… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?From my experience the answer is no. However 3/4 of the women who approached me had some ulterior motives. The others were cool chicks. When the majority has some shadyness you get defensive as a reflex. Men don't dislike it, they just get defensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | OUCH.It's sad that this kinds of stories are shocking for others while we know this is just a regular tuesday. Vetting is near impossible these days too. Its best to assume the worst until proven innocent fellas. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?I have long hair so this scenario happened to me few times. I just said "If you like what you saw you can come with me to the stall baby" in a amused turn. One time referred as a girl because of my hair despite having a masculine body (dude was just trying to throw me out of my game to get chick). I just said "If I knew you were into my kind of dudes I would called you yesterday baby. Daddy needs some sugar". For some reason when you joke about them being into dudes throw them off real hard. Whe… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating crush of good friend- am I breaking the bro-code?I don't think this is a violation of a code. If you tell him before hand everything should be fine. I got in to similar situations with my friends too. I been at the both ends of this situation. As long as I told before hand or vice versa nothing bad happened. If she pursues her without knowing she is with you would make him look like a fool. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls finds me intimidating? How can I fix this?Its not about getting approval since they give it themselves. This kind of treatment is just new to me. My personality is cocky and funny dude. But this days it feels like people see me as a authority despite me being not. I just got out of monk mode so maybe this is just something new that I will get used to. I just enjoy the ride for the moment. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls finds me intimidating? How can I fix this?Good idea. Definitely try this one. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Girls finds me intimidating? How can I fix this?Im looking at his posts to get more insight. Thank you. I should research more on this matter. I guess this is going to be my new normal. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Not a unicorn, but doesn’t follow TRPI don't know if its the right term in English but what I call this in my native language is a "pussy whip". She said no you kept interacting with her and one sex gets you hooked up. It has different versions but they are all similar. Something happened behind the scenes and as a result she came to you. Maybe she wanted to make Chad jealous. Maybe She wants a placeholder for validation. From this story I understand that you are in her frame. Be a fwb with her if you want to but nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 04:17 PM |
| -4 | LTR turns into LDR because she wants to study in a different townCalm down satan :D | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for Monk Mode periodThanks man I saved your reply as a txt and Im going to read those books after I finish the ones I have. Have a good day :) | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:03 AM |
| 2 | How to join an existing social groupIntroduce yourself, be friendly. You will definitely have some common interests with some people. Then slowly friendship will build up. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Are video games still bad for you even in moderation?Its ok as long as you treat it as a "game". Its a good outlet to release stress in my opinion. I rarely play video games for a long time. It can be educational too. I learned English thanks to games. I was learning Japanese too :D . It can be healty in moderation. Really bad otherwise. Im sure we all know that one guy who doesn't lift his ass up from his chair. Don't be that one. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Test through the roof since adding massBeing dominant is ok. Being aggressive is not. In my experience bigger ones falls first so my advice is keep that ego in check. There is always someone better and big mass won't guarantee anything in actual fight. What you are experiencing is normal. Since working out adds lots of mental stress too you might want to release that with a hobby or a mini vacation kind of thing. Wish you the best | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Employer probing for my take on current eventsI don't live in west but damn the things looks very scary from where I look. I would go with "Its sad brother is attacking brother you know things are just sad" or something like this if I really need to. But again I don't live there so take my advice with a grain of salt. Best of luck to you my dude. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Tinder date goes south.All the boys bends the knee since they don't have a backbone. A high quality man would not put up with that kind of shenanigans. Believe me what you gone through is way too common. Whenever I walk away chicks loses their mind because they are used to m'lady treatment. You did the right thing. There is no shortage of chicks. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | After years of this journey, did anyone else cut out most people in their life?I cut hundreds of people my dude. Some people comes to leech, some comes to be a burden. Some of them cool but life takes you different places. Most of the people lives in a bubble and since I don't live in any sort of bubble I just push away low quality people. I only have one male friend for example. Most men doesn't have a backbone :/ Thanks to them I don't need enemies :D | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 09:23 PM |
| 6 | Is telling funny stories about dumb things you did in the past beta?Depends on the contex. Funny story about something silly is good. It means you are living your life. Everybody does silly things. But a story like "I chased this chick for 3 years, she slept with everyone except me and I thought she was a virgin whole time ahahahah XD" is not a good story. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 09:17 PM |
| 13 | Hard nexted ex-LTR over 4th of July weekend amongst group of friends and wondered if I handled the situation well.From what I understand she wanted to try someone new, it didn't work out (don't shit where you eat goes both ways appearantly) then "by chance" you two met at someplace. From your story it seems like you handled well. No drama is good. She doesn't seems like a stable person. Seems like monkey branching gone wrong, then she tried to get you back then cuckblocked by that coworker dude that ratted her out :D Coworker in question might told you on purpose too. You are on the right path my dude. If y… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for Monk Mode periodThanks man looked at the book you recommended. I will read that book seems really good. Thanks for your advices. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for Monk Mode periodThanks my dude. I will stick hard to that list. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I think "co-dependancy" is the word for this situation. Chick in question might think like "Look at me bitches I got this hot guuuy XDXD" rather than "Im with a great person and we are lucky that we found each other". Co dependant chicks puts you on the pedestal but also dictate what you are and what the relationship is. A girl that loves you deeply and loyal is very different than a chick that you describe. This might not be the actual truth just my experience by the way. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Nexted a girl, am i too harsh?Depends on the culture and background and such things. She always with you why she had to tell you that you are hot. She is with you because you are hot my dude. If she is ltr material yes you are harsh. If its otherwise or you don't want a ltr its quite normal. Seems like you want some validation. Someone to tell that you are hot. Don't get mad at me thats all you written and not much about the chick in question. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 0 | What’s a good response to a girl who comments on my small hands?"My hands make everything I hold look bigger baby" | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Thought on ltr keeping ties with orbitersIf there is nothing to hide why keep passwords hidden? If you are in a ltr only privacy rule must be "Don't go in the bathroom when Im shitting". She flakes on you with the headache thing then goes to grab some drinks with another dude. Im sure I don't have to comment on this. The other think is she said "she could never date him". Let me tell you something my dude. If a chick says "Im not into those types" she is into those types. Also she said no dating, she didn't said no fucking. If she is n… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 11:20 AM |
| 0 | She won't cook?Everybody should learn cooking my dude. Atleast the basics. Men and women doesn't matter. Thats a huge red flag. She doesn't care about finance and her own health. She also quite lazy. Cooking isn't hard or time consuming. She is not going to feed an army. 1 hour top. Keep her as plate or FWB but no LTR my dude. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to stop believing what others say ?It might be good for you. Be sure that they are not political kind of charity. You know the type. They always brings trouble :/ | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | How to stop believing what others say ?Activitie clubs/classes are good to meet both men and women. My advice is be friends with everyone that doesn't act like a dick. Be like a lamb and chicks will chase the light like a moth. I suggest latin dances and cooking if there are any decent one. I suggest you to learn atleast one basic one complex meal and one dessert. You can hand feed some dessert if you know what I mean ;) | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 05:31 AM |
| 5 | How to stop believing what others say ?Trust me if everyone talking shit it means you are doing it right. Back in the day when I realized my so called friends doing this to drag me down I said "fuck you all" and left them. I became quite the lady's man. Since people tend to sit on their ass and not do anything to improve themselves they need someone get low so they can stay higher. Those people see you are flying like a butterfly and getting ready to sting like a bee so they starting blasting before that can happen. About your baldne… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there any practical benefit to understanding hypergamy?Of course you and other dudes are right. Given the chance there is a possibility. With a HB4 its higher. With a HB6 not so much. Men divorce emotion from sex but women can't. It all comes to value of transaction. If your LTR has zero red flags and quite the traditional woman which is an unicorn at this day and age I don't think a man choose to cheat. After all unlike a beta we are carefull who we are sleeping with and don't easily commit. I had LTR when I was a Lady's man but never cheated despi… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Is there any practical benefit to understanding hypergamy?Men can stay loyal to their HB4. We tend to appreciate things. "If she cooks good and sucks good Im golden dude" mentality. Women don't have this mentality. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 11:49 AM |
| 7 | What do you do when a girl that you ghosted reappears again and again ?Good catch | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How are you supposed to cope if no girl seems as good as your ex?That was brutal my dude :D | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | What are some good meal plans for cutting?Pretty much everything is on the internet. Its ok to make some mistakes along the way. If you are new things can be confusing. I personally use low carb high protein and go calorie deficit. Do fastening too. Im not an expert so I refrain from explaining in detail because it will be harmfull. Join some subreddits and search things I said on internet. Lift them weights bro ;) | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuity is bad for masculinitySleeping with girls you finding attractive is ok but running around like "booty, booty, booty" is not cool. A man shouldn't run around with a boner 7/24. For that you need to get laid from time to time. This is my observation of course. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm surely not the only one to do this but ...You can turn a L into a W if you can take it to chin my dude. I don't know your environment so take this with a grain of salt. Guys around here even the hot ones can't do cold approach. If you got the balls to approach even if you get rejected its cool. I say "thank you for your time. Have good evening girls" and leave with a smile. She rejected but I was very cool with it. Girls hate rejection. She expected me being sad but it was opposite. The chicks seeing this scene sees you more valuable fo… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 08:54 AM |
| 2 | My LTR of 6 months has a male "best" friend. She hasn't told him about me. They text daily . She has commented that he used to be "obsessed" with her. She has announced that she is meeting him for a walk tomorrow . Immediate hard next ?Brother - sister like friendship dynamic is very rare. If she said he was obsessed with him you have your answer my dude. A female friend of mine had someone like that. She broke up with her bf and became an alpha widow ( Yep chick was that idiot). Slept with him and gone into LTR as a rebound. Hard next seems like the best course of action for you. Also you said stuff about her female friends. No one should invite others to their bedroom affairs in a LTR. We are anon here which is cool but IRL … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | As a short guy, how should i respond to shit tests?I got into a lot of fights and its always the short bastard that got me :D If a guy is tall and reserved he is strong. If a guy has the body of an alpha chad but acts like god almighty, he is no shit. I always beat them up and Im not a buffed guy. Always be carefull about the short guys. Offer him a match. Tell him something like "Lets take this to the ring bro. My bois wants to bet on some fights" etc. Whatever happens it will be win-win ;) | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | “Do you love me”Sometimes people project themselves on to others. Constantly asking this question is alarming | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Facebook is acting like a bluepill bitchMy country's founder once said "If you want to know how well a country does, look at their women". The thing is you need to take control of the women to control men. Look how blue pilled men worships crazy women. Its about control my dude. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining frame Cost me (I Think)If you give something for free, everyone ask for free. Always have a prize my dude | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | I think she wants to cheat on her beta BF. And she wants it with me.She will cheat bro. With you or someone else. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Red flag or am I being a beta?Preach on bro. This guy sum it up well. A friend is someone you won't have sex with. Those guys not friends my dude. They are dick ready and she is ready to "critique" them. No one just cast aside old friends. Play the dread game if you want or next her. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 04:33 AM |
| 3 | friends backbiting youBeta guys needs someone to be "weak" for them to look "strong" because its easy job. People like us learn from each other and support. I swear some friends group are like chicks. You just have to put them in their place by using another group of friends to show them you have a better deal elsewhere. I had a similar situation and what I did was found other friend groups which I enjoyed and stoped calling them. Confrontation is inevitible. Some guy that thinks he is hot shit will try to undermine … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 6 | Do I lose value from fucking girls that are lower than a 7?If you are fucking girls like gollum from LOTR yeah it can lower your SMV. However if you are visible around hb4-5-6 and you are very social it makes you look like a reliable alpha. I tell a short story. We were used to go latin dance nights as a group. We had one fat chick. Despite her weight she actually can dance. My boys were trying very hard to get pussy(Save one guy and he is the other alpha) and they pretty much ditched her. I asked them why they don't dance with her and they gave a look … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys consider "cooking" to be an essential skill that every man needs to know?Cooking skill is essential to be a self reliant man. A lot of girls I hang out with actually turned on by my cooking. You don't have to reach chef level but you need the bare minimum my dude. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 9 | Hobbies That Get You LaidFor me its dancing. I did folk dance and latin dances for years. Key is you have to use it socially. Hobbies that cause you to have social interactions increases your SMV by making you gain a skill, be more social and gives you confidance. When people knows my dancing skill automatically assumes that I am social person and makes things easier when it comes to approach. Also since men leads the dance it increases your approach skills too ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 46 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromToday's binge drinking takes tomorrows happiness. Someone once told me this and he was damn right. Im not saying don't party. Going overboard with alcohol everyday takes you down. Before I set my goals I was a drunk beta. I cut alcohol for three months and got my shit together. Don't use external stuff to escape internal issues. Criticize yourself harshly and fix yourself. Once I stop running away, everything started to improve tremendously. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How would you have responded to that shit-test ?You nailed it, sir. I salute | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:33 AM |
| 4 | I got more girls interested just by rumors that I'm dating multiple partners. Have you ever been there?I had a similar experience to yours. When I was gaming around somehow people start to talk like I was banging chicks every night. Its source might be the beta males around you. They believe player label is a reputation killer. If you are a genuine person with a personality and not just flexing around it actually has the opposite effect. Chicks will think you are a prize, this dudes are jealous and you are dating around because you haven't met the chick that fits your standarts. Beta guys will de… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you hold frame here?There is a reason she is with you and not him. No man worthy of his salt take such actions. He is obviously envy of your existance. I would laugh it off and turn the joke around. For example one guy made joke about my height and I just said "Yeah god takes something gaves something who am I to decline right ;) " If you get mad in their mind they win. But when you laught it off beta guys goes mad. Later on when your gf talks with the other girls they be like "omg your bf didn't even give a fuck a… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Should the game be learned and not taught? Giving beta game??You can't save someone from themselves. I too had similar encounters like yours. The ones that genuine are takes what you say in their heart and makes a 180. The ones that way too far fallen from grace are never does it. He might probably stay as a simp. He might even want to learn game just to keep that crazy chick. Im sure you know how it will end. I had one guy like that bro believe me its more trouble than anything. If a beta wants to be alpha they follow their alpha and learn the strings. Y… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome envy of other's successIts great that you are seeing your shortcomings and working on them. Almost the entire male population isn't doing it. When you improve yourself further most of your male friends will start to give shit. Prepare to lose some of them. İt will hurt at first but then things will get a lot better when negative baggage goes away. I wish you the best bro ;) | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:52 AM |
| 8 | How to overcome envy of other's successI had that mentality in the past bro. What Im going to say is from my experience so take it with a grain of salt Im no expert. A man's quality increases when he overcomes hardships. I look average. However if a situation happens I go to the frontlines and take ownership. It can be a fight or some event that needs a leader. This kinds of stuff gives you confidence and aura of leadership. A good trait of alpha male. I bang chicks that my hot friends can't even talk just because everyone knows that… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 07:00 PM |
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