| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 75 | "New in town" | RED FLAG 🚨 | AnansiNeon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | "New in town"Right? Like... you're new in town and Tinder is where you go? ALSO, one of these men I'd previously matched with. I remembered his face and his same story from several months ago. So like, you've now been in this city for several months and you're still haven't made any connections at work? No hobbies? He didn't remember me then lied and said he vaguely remembered... Tinder saves old chats when you get rematched, and I was able to reread our original conversation. Very suss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:29 AM |
| 6 | We got a real winner on our hands hereA Leo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:08 AM |
| 22 | For those who still feel guilty dropping people- remember maybe it’s not that they don’t like you, it’s that you don’t like them, and that’s okay.I'm seeing this a lot in my life lately. Realizing I don't have to like everyone or have them in my space. I can be polite from a distance. ✌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:05 AM |
| 41 | Tinder over 50: the continuing amazementHe just needs a rare goddess to "khelp rule ther" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:37 AM |
| 8 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastThat's the first thing I noticed. Then I looked at his photo and saw how dusty he is. So 🤷🏾♂️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:35 AM |
| 83 | Tinder over 50: the continuing amazementDid he have an aneurysm in the middle of writing that? Like... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:20 AM |
| 109 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Thank you. I often feel like I'm not dressy enough, but also it's not in my character so I'd rather show up as me instead of putting on an act. But I admire women who dress up, because women are stunning and men put in maybe a quarter of the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:39 AM |
| 7 | All I see is red flags. 🚩He sounds unhinged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:12 AM |
| 2 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 42 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?The Griiiinch? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:36 AM |
| 21 | Woman cancels date with stranger, entitled guy has tantrum over itThe comments are roasting him. Love to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Cringe! I find it so tacky when women take couple selfies with beauty filters. It’s also insanely comical. Do they seriously not realize they are beautifying the man too?!Most men could use a filter. 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:36 AM |
| 15 | They're Everywhere!Right? Sheesh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:19 AM |
| 13 | Best thing I never hadWoooo, thank you for the laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 76 | They're Everywhere!His whole shtick is that he's a busy man, but he's made time for me and he's at my service etc. I'll never get the chance again. I'm like... So be it. This was fun. ✌🏾 Before FDS I would have taken that bait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 51 | They're Everywhere!After reading FDS I find it so hard not to laugh when I see men in the motions of their games. Like, I already see what's coming. And a lack of response from us makes them flustered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 154 | They're Everywhere!Yup. I went on a date on Sunday and I came armed with FDS knowledge. I just sit back and let him do his thing. He was a nice guy, he paid, didn't neg, seemingly charming but what have we learned about charmers? They usually have an end goal. He tried so valiantly to get me to sleep with him but I said no. It was a fun date though. He asked if I would call him after, I said, "you call me. You have my number." he said he was too busy. But that's not my problem. 😂 There were several conversational … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 84 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableDon't plan a baby with a boyfriend. Vet, vet, vet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?"Boyfie" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Did you mean to share this on this account? I saw you posted this on a throwaway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Learning this has saved me so much mental anguish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:43 AM |
| 5 | Emotionally unavailable LVM that I ghosted tries to flatter me by comparing me to a potential one night stand from BumbleWhat a weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:03 AM |
| 13 | What do boundaries feel like?Boundaries feel great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:34 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys think of him? We are going on a first date tomorrow in public (stores are opening up!)I'm a Sag and I was going to say the same thing. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 4 | I let my ex back into my life just for him to break my heart again. I’m ready to commit to the FDS mindset.This goes for friends too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 10:32 PM |
| 16 | If the “squishy” girlfriend junk wasn’t enough, they’ve also made an actual MOMMY girlfriend stereotype. Does it get any worse than this?!"Anon"????? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 9 | Saw this on Instagram, and had to share IT with you all!How nice of him to fit her in the schedule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Why highly educated does not mean high value! Black man graduates from a law school were only 50% of graduates are employed. He has 2.5 GPA and hasn't passed the bar exam after multiple attempts yet he totes he is the prize. He then goes on to degrade black women in his description. 🤢🤢🤢It's embarrassing that he felt the need to type all that. Social media is so bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:25 AM |
| 94 | Princess Diana breaking royal protocol to take part in a Mother’s Day school race for WilliamIs she running barefoot in nylons? 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:17 AM |
| 53 | Dude...If the roles were switched this wouldn't end well. Edit: Let me clarify... Men play video games and ogle their female avatars and use generally despicable language. Some barely move their heads to acknowledge their partner in the room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:42 AM |
| 12 | Women aren’t special MY ASSLol. Poor kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:08 AM |
| 8 | HVMs won't ever tell you to shut up <3My ex shushed me. I was stunned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 33 | Older man ✔ Much younger wife ✔ Drinking problem ✔ Multiple wives ✔ Violence ✔ Just because someone is celebrated, famous, and rich, it doesn't make them a HVM. "Sean Bean 'hurled a glass at his wife...'"" 5th wife " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | LADIES HELP!!! LVM Ex Fiance sent me this e-mail - I turn to you so I don't reply!Mine today too lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂This ain't golf Mark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 3 | How to become a racist LibFem or TradWife Pickmeisha in one helpful illustration! Brought to you by the racists at r/TradWife!Amazing! That's what we love to hear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Watch out for these greasy men, ladiesSo lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:54 PM |
| 12 | How to become a racist LibFem or TradWife Pickmeisha in one helpful illustration! Brought to you by the racists at r/TradWife!I peeked into that sub and found this post and most of the comments are calling out the racism of this image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 16 | CringeHis account seems very...him-focussed. She's got way more followers than him and they've been dating only for a year. He may be using her for "exposure". Anyway, what do I know? That's enough e-speculation for today 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:29 AM |
| 63 | CringeThe pressure of proposal? Girl.... She's going to be doing things for him for the rest of their married life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:19 AM |
| 5 | 50 Cent confirmed LVMI used to bop to this song but the lyrics really aren't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Classic example of how a LVM traps a woman into falling for him. She's highly insecure about herself while she's in a relationship with him and yet she stays because he makes her feel validated and "seen."This is not cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | JLo Discusses How Being with LVM Ben Affleck Almost Finished her - But Knowing Her Own Worth and Value Eventually Saved Her.That music was intense! But I teared up. She's truly amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:48 AM |
| 34 | Ladies, can we talk about Love is Blind on Netflix!?Just started episode 1 Man: Do you cook? Woman: I DO cook! Man: Okay... 😃 *scribbles notes* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | 1920s LVM Vintage Valentines: These hoes ain’t loyal!And he's sad about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:02 AM |
| 11 | 1920s LVM Vintage Valentines: These hoes ain’t loyal!The tin of ashes is slightly morbid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 13 | What's up with this guy.Did you have plans to meet before volleyball came into the question? I'm a little confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 18 | Ladies, you need to have a busy life in order to maintain your FDS mentality! All the advice here doesn’t mean anything if you don’t have your career, hobbies, goals, and social life right. So share what keeps you busy and not focused on any man!Kickboxing, writing, reading, volunteering and spending time on family and dear friends. If I'm focussed on my goals my mind does not have the time to wander on what HE'S doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 24 | My so called bf hasn't even wished me on Valentine's Day yet. Guess who is getting dumped tonight.Oooof. This sounds familiar. Last year I was in a ldr with someone. He was 30. Kept saying how this was his first relationship and he was new at things. He said he was trying. He wished I could see how much he cared. He wanted me to trust him. He said verbatim, "I wish you would just trust me." But this was my first serious relationship too. And I didn't use that excuse. People aren't molded from cookie cutters. Every relationship is different. I think he kept comparing us to other couples in hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 100 | That made me lol 😂 They are all the same no matter what language they speak. *Not my messages, got it elsewhereSend 🐽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 8 | Out of pure curiosity, how would you describe your own looks?Some people tell me I'm cute, others tell me to smile more. Both are true and not changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:07 AM |
| 33 | Tv shows analysesThe Simpsons is sooo painful to watch. Like Marge honey what are you doing? Homer is straight trash. Are there people out there who think he's cute and redeemable? Or is the toxicity the joke? 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Low effort, I’m telling you!"only real men will understand" Okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:08 AM |
| 20 | Throw the whole bar awayI can almost taste it. Ew. That account is funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Somebody needs to hear this... life without you is his punishment.😢 It's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:26 AM |
| 17 | Would you accept any low value traits, if the high value traits outweigh them?Gamer and porn? Would you accept that in someone else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:05 AM |
| 17 | Eartha Kitt on MenThis gives me the energy I need. I love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 11 | What in the pickmeisha hell...?! Secret child? 14 years? Oh hell no.This can't be real. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 8 | Facts.Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?It's always about how bad THEY feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:39 AM |
| 15 | Our best friend Lauren Chen tells us all why Incels are the REAL victims. (Sis really knows who her audience is, eh?)I stumbled across one of her videos the other day and I just... WOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | FDS Movie suggestions??I watched this movie on Saturday and it rejuvenated me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:20 AM |
| 9 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Then don't. Throw him in the trash and don't recycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:23 AM |
| 16 | Most interesting/helpful thing this sub has taught you?Yes. My ex was so concerned about his image and worried about being the bad guy for how he acted in our relationship... And I always consoled him and subconsciously blamed myself even though I knew this was self betrayal and he wasn't shit. 🤮 I'm so glad I found this sub. 2019 was an exhausting year and now I know why. FDS is helping me find my strength again, to celebrate ME, and get mine. I'm so inspired by all the women here and ready to spread the positivity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Stop reading mixed signals, start blockingI wasted so much time and energy last year and in the end he was still more concerned with how he looked in the whole situation. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:10 AM |
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