Anarchiztic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The Friendzone is Your Friend		Anarchiztic	/r/seduction	14/01/19 02:11 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? I would genuinely love to find out you’re a sweet hustler scorin a 10 for every day of the week. I believe you’ve got women, you can spare us the fan fic, but if you didn’t know, anon flexes make your circle sound less like a harem and more like a circus lmao	/r/seduction	24/07/26 12:09 AM
1	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? Waiting on that DM would love to hear from the source about what makes you so irresistible	/r/seduction	23/07/26 01:04 PM
1	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? Oh amazing. Anonymous internet flex? Check. Pre-Darwinian gender essentialism? Check. And then the cherry- "I just want us to be happy and healthy," like you're providing health and dental to your little harem. Absolutely feel free to DM me, would love to chat with these "women" irl	/r/seduction	19/07/26 12:14 PM
0	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? You have so much experience with them and still see them as foreign creatures? lol buddy	/r/seduction	19/07/26 02:15 AM
-2	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? No way to prove what women want? You could try asking lmao	/r/seduction	18/07/26 03:50 AM
1	Any sex stacks or sex routines? This is a terrible summary of foreplay. Foreplay doesn’t begin at the start at the beginning of an interaction, and arguably not even at the sexualization of an interaction. Some women genuinely need gradual, physical touch moving toward their vagina in order to enjoy it even if they’ve been flirting all day. The top response is a better approach Edit: The top comment changed. I’m recommending Mr. Guidelines over here	/r/seduction	13/07/26 05:17 AM
2	What's Your Thought Process Before Approaching a Stranger? Long-middle-short. Long: If I meet someone tn, what am I offering? What are we doing, where are we going? Middle: what’s an engaging question I’m genuinely curious about, not specific to anyone I’m talking to? Could be about the place, the setting, the architecture, the news, a movie/book/celebrity, doesn’t matter. Clever is good, concise is best, genuine is charming, change subject if they don’t pick up on it. Short: how can I start the interaction? Some on here say not to compliment because it…	/r/seduction	07/07/26 06:34 PM
1	Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex? And what you said shows you don’t read. 14 “modern society” states have abortion bans. As an aside, pregnancy-related and newborn infant deaths are up ~10% in those states acc to a new study, I’m sure we can agree that’s tragic	/r/seduction	13/05/26 07:01 AM
1	How can I tell if eye contact means interest or is just random? If she listens to your stories, laughs at your jokes, and especially reciprocates light/brief touch to the shoulder, arm or upper back, you should shoot. If she falls into the gray zone between yes and no in those categories, it’s a judgement call of whether to initiate, keep talking or move on to play the field some more	/r/seduction	11/05/26 10:48 PM
2	Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex? Everyone here who jumped to “she’s already gettin railed by a provider dude” is projecting. I’ve followed this sub for years and found plenty of good advice here to make connections and conversions. But if you listen to women talk with one another about why they don’t sleep with someone, it’s often not this two-dimensional hierarchy/provider bs. It’s complicated. This guy got good social experience with her and now can comfortably friend zone her until/if she changes her tune and he’s still inte…	/r/seduction	11/05/26 10:40 PM
6	Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex? Tell that to the US Supreme Court	/r/seduction	11/05/26 10:21 PM
3	Girls sometimes describe me as "analytical" My response to overly-analytical people is to analyze yourself out of the need for analysis. To flirt, you gotta play things cool. Part of being cool is not caring about stuff more than you should. Doesn’t mean not to care about stuff, means to not fixate for too long before shifting to another fun subject. Analysis is the deep investigation of something. Don’t investigate them, just be with them. Imagine conversations are a dance. Keep moving until the music stops, then bow and move on	/r/seduction	02/05/26 10:50 PM
1	Why women don't chase men? I agree that genetic markers can be substantial, but I doubt that dress and especially hygiene could be characterized as “noise” for most women even in the short-term. Just anecdotally, I’ve seen women choose more attractive men over less, but more often, I’ve seen women choose no sex over sex if her only options are gross and not put together. I think you’re right to point to feminism/liberation as cultural shifts, I simply don’t think we’ve moved as far as some think. Which is why men still ha…	/r/seduction	23/04/26 11:55 AM
2	The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural Men Smart post. Just to emphasize- phatic communion isn’t just seeking connection, it’s seeking assurance of safety. We’ve all experienced that creepy feeling in life or media when people are acting normal during a tense or horrific situation. Someone who can talk about the weather isn’t contemplating murder, nor do they think murder is imminent lol	/r/seduction	21/04/26 11:43 PM
6	Why women don't chase men? Hello, Anthro BA here. This response has some accurate biological information but misses the woman-sized mark. Yes, there are physiological and neurological factors to our attraction based on smell, size, skin/hair/teeth health, that sort of thing, that subconsciously convince us that a potential partner would be a healthy reproductive mate. Being cool and funny similarly demonstrate intelligence and composure to deal with problems. Difference is, our females (which we tend to call women in poli…	/r/seduction	21/04/26 11:31 PM
1	I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matches If I’m remembering OP correctly, my issue wasn’t with his success, it was with his conclusion. He finished by saying something like “women don’t know what they want.” Alternatively, maybe they want to match with the kind of man he isn’t. Hard to know why women matched with him since he didn’t follow through with any of them	/r/seduction	16/04/26 10:00 PM
1	I want to learn how to flirt but being autistic is kind of getting in the way, can y’all try to explain it and maybe give example examples? I’ll just say - the best flirting is humorous, so if you don’t have that baseline, start there. Watch comedians with female audiences (Glaser, Mulaney, Chappelle) and imitate the parts of their tone that suit your style without trying too hard to be cool (which means just don’t care whether the joke landed or not. If they laughed, let it go; if they didn’t, it doesn’t matter). Only once you get positive signs of intimacy (laughing, eye contact, light touch) should you start thinking about conver…	/r/seduction	10/04/26 12:20 AM
1	9M feeling paranoid about STDs and relationships I agree with DrFly - your concern is valid. It is nerdy and paranoid, it’s naturally uncool to worry about what might happen, but don’t let that hold you back from making the right choice for you. Syphilis isn’t cool either	/r/seduction	09/04/26 10:47 PM
1	is it like weird to be more interested in serious relationships as a daygamer ? lol who is this even to?	/r/seduction	09/04/26 10:42 PM
1	Is dating sustainable for below average men? Always hard from these posts to know what the real problems are. If you’re genuinely in good athletic shape, if you’re already smart about your smell and your fashion, then I’d say consider your hobbies. If you’re not doing anything interesting, you’ll have nothing interesting to say in your opens. And I always says - consider friend zoning a few women and asking them for their opinion about you so you can hear some feminine perspectives. I find women these days appreciate men who can foster rea…	/r/seduction	09/04/26 10:39 PM
4	This is how you cure nice guy syndrome How very Aristotelian my guy	/r/seduction	09/04/26 10:32 PM
19	I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matches Kinda the male “pick-me.” Mostly liberal men who fashion their personality around “fem” politics/art/sensibilities. It’s a straw man for the most part, like 99% of internet-bred archetypes	/r/seduction	09/04/26 10:07 PM
3	I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matches Which group? The disembodied idea of women in this dude’s head?	/r/seduction	09/04/26 09:57 PM
3	I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matches lol let me get this straight. Your conclusion after faking your personality with AI is that women don’t know what they want? Cuz you know this reads like they all knew they didn’t wanna date a performative clanker	/r/seduction	09/04/26 09:55 PM
6	Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you? People live in their own bubbles with their own problems. You might have energetic trouble, but as long as you’re regularly bathing and exercising, don’t conflate the reactions people have to you much. It’s a waste of time to worry and you’re probably wrong about the cause until you ask them	/r/seduction	07/04/26 09:47 PM
2	is it like weird to be more interested in serious relationships as a daygamer ? One could imagine a version of the seduction community that emphasizes practice over ideology, but that’s not really what this place is. Your experience is valid, you’re a flirtatious monogamist, but many in this subreddit advocate for their own flavor of polyam. Just be respectful of women and do your thing imo	/r/seduction	04/04/26 04:25 AM
13	9M feeling paranoid about STDs and relationships If you’re trying to be perfectly safe, know which fluids transfer STIs and use condoms/dental dams. Many couples continue using these methods through their relationships to avoid pregnancy/STIs. When you’re ready to take the next step, get screened for STIs to show your partner and request they do the same. If they refuse or try to push you into unprotected territory before you’re ready, that’s a red flag and you should walk	/r/seduction	31/03/26 10:54 PM
1	A detailed guide on how to set up Instagram in order to utilize it as a secret weapon in dating What’s with the thin skin?	/r/seduction	27/03/26 05:58 AM
10	It’s Actually Pretty Easy To Get Girls You’re telling on yourself. Bashing a post for using an example of confidence makes you seem unconfident	/r/seduction	21/02/26 06:58 AM
5	appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships? Aren’t you cheery	/r/seduction	16/02/26 10:05 PM
1	Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sex Leave. Plenty of good advice to be had in these comments, take it. A take I haven’t seen on here is that rather than set the ultimatum, just leave, move on emotionally, and there’s a slim chance that losing you will convince her to try being intimate to win you back. That said, this would only work if you’re committed to moving on, so don’t rely on it. Just leave.	/r/seduction	08/02/26 10:10 PM
1	The Friendzone is Your Friend What if I told you that you’re never really friendzoned if you respect having women as friends?	/r/seduction	14/01/19 04:59 PM
1	The Friendzone is Your Friend “You mean by telling men to act weak they would get laid?” If done right, making good use of your time? Yes. How pleasantly controversial of me.	/r/seduction	14/01/19 04:56 PM
-1	The Friendzone is Your Friend Ah yes. Me the beta. You the alpha. How tragically cliche m’dude. Point by point, here we go. Weak is how it should probably sound to you. If my message didn’t ring true m’alphadude, it’s probably not for you. There are some people for whom the welfare of others is more important than our getting laid right. that. very. moment. This was for them 👍 I would say most honest PUAs emphasize the high failure rate of seducing women. I pull better than most solid introverts, here’s my worldview, take it…	/r/seduction	14/01/19 09:46 AM
9	Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ? “A woman is built in every way to receive a man.” Maybe don’t say it like that. I recognize the kernels of truth here, the cultural expectation for hetero men to initiate with hetero women and the penetrative aspect of heterosexual, erm, sex, but the inchoate phrasing in this paragraph gives off a gross, aggressive vibe, especially in the context of different sexual preferences. Everything else here rings true enough though so not callin you out	/r/seduction	14/01/19 01:09 AM
1	How should I handle these two curveball rejections? Not sure I agree OrgoEcon. You’ve formed a number of assumptions as to the attitudes of the women involved that might not be fair. I say take the rejection at face value, walk away and keep fishing. What I do agree with OrgoEcon about is that the only way they change their minds is by developing a new understanding of who you are. But don’t be polarizing for its own sake - go live an interesting life, invite them along for the ride if they ever seem interested.	/r/seduction	10/01/19 08:37 AM