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| 4 | Concerned about MGTOW...could use adviceIf you think becoming a monk will make you truly happy, and you can do so without hurting anyone, then go for it. A lot of MgTOw guys are not that. Many of them are the adult version of the child sitting on the front lawn, hollering that they're going to run away because Mom said they can't stay up all night playing Nintendo. If you are going to go the first route, I say power to you; there are many teachers that would be happy to take on a disciple and traditions such as Taoism offer a rich met… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Show weakness and she is gone?Thanks man I'm glad you got something out of it! I mean if sparks truly fly and you feel good about going in right away, you shouldn't hold out. But if not, or if you're unsure, sometimes it's better to build first. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What ideas in red pill theory do you still believe, if any? And of course, I mean other than the obvious "Getting fit makes you more attractive" stuff.How is that helpful? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/17 12:03 PM |
| 8 | What ideas in red pill theory do you still believe, if any? And of course, I mean other than the obvious "Getting fit makes you more attractive" stuff.The rules make it clear this is a not a space for redpill apologia or defending. This thread is posed to rehabilitate and/or put a positive light on TRP ideology. Ergo this goes against the spirit of this community. Take the propaganda somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | What ideas in red pill theory do you still believe, if any? And of course, I mean other than the obvious "Getting fit makes you more attractive" stuff.How does this help the mandate of this community? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/17 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?Which brings me back to my first post: Who tf is TRP to tell you anything? Pop on over there and take a read. Do any of them seem happy? When I read it they seem to be a mix of angry and pathetic. Is that where you want to take life advice from? Especially given that the basic idea is something you don't like or want? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?Yeah why not? I'm shooting to make enough money to live comfortably. I don't care if I'm top dog. Why do you? Why do you do things you don't believe in? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?So let me ask you this, if you find this competition meaningless then why do it? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/17 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?Exactly. The way I read this is that if you really believed that, deep in your soul, you would be hyped because you're playing with a great hand. But instead it upsets you. The idea of competition, even one stacked for you, upsets you. I would challenge that your issue is with a competitive framework. It sounds more like you aren't secure in yourself so competition scares you because you think you won't make it. Am I far off? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/17 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?I challenge the idea that life is fundamentally competitive. I think there are aspects of life that are competitive but every interaction? I doubt it. There are too many cooperative ventures to unilaterally say that. But even if that is true, you also need to consider how averages work. If life is a competition fundamentally, that means there is about 7b players. Given that you have a computer, internet connection, and speak English, odds are you are miles above huge swathes of humanity already.… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/17 03:20 PM |
| 10 | Do you find that cynical world views mess up your interactions with people, vibe and emotional well being?Human beings are strange creatures aren't we? We can learn anything. But where does this information go? When I'm writing, or speaking, how does my brain intuitively know which word comes next? How to structure a sentence? When did I pick up these rules? It's not like a consciously think "if I want to declare an object possesses a particular quality", I just intuitively think the word "it's". I, like all other people, wasn't born speaking English. Somewhere along the line I learned the language,… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/17 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Show weakness and she is gone?Thanks! Glad I could help | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Show weakness and she is gone?Glad I could help. If you have any other questions feel free to dm me | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/17 07:55 PM |
| 22 | Show weakness and she is gone?So a few things. First, anecdotally, I've experienced both. I've been with women wherein being vulnerable was no problem and I could openly talk about my insecurities, problems, struggles etc and receive useful feedback without it hindering our relationship or damage our sex life (often it improved it). I've also been with women wherein opening up in that way quickly killed it. So at first glance I think given that TRP assumes all it's talking points are universally true (AWALT), this one must b… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/17 08:16 PM |
| 12 | How do you geniuses explain away the Pussy pass???Men don't take women seriously and treat them with the kid's gloves. And then other men blame women for being treated this way. And then some dumbass comes here and asks us to explain it. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/17 07:17 PM |
| 13 | Explain to me the problems of Red Pillthings like what? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/17 02:22 AM |
| 15 | Explain to me the problems of Red PillWhat part of TRP has helped you that you couldn't get somewhere else? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/17 12:09 AM |
| 9 | Please lets debate rationallyYou have not read the rules of this sub clearly. People who post here are expected to respect the rules. If you want a debate go to r/purplepilldebate or r/cmv | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/17 01:06 PM |
| 9 | Please lets debate rationallyThis is not a debate sub. Take it somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/17 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The real “Red Pill” that you need to swallowThis is against the mission of this sub. Take it somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/17 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Need some help, am afraid.So perhaps one route forward is to engage in some narrative jamming? How read are you on feminism? When you have conflicting narratives it's hard to "fall back" into one | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Need some help, am afraid.Why are you concerned about that possibility? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/17 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Need some help, am afraid.So what exactly is your question? How do you self-motivate? Or how do you avoid TRP propaganda? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/17 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Husband posted on r/askmrp and he is wrongWhat is the purpose of this post | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why not to listen exclusively to successful people.Exactly! the worst offenders are people who say shit like "oh before I joined TRP I would literally never talk to women, and today I got laid (6 months later). TRP works!" Well no shit, if you go from 0/0 to 1/0+x attempts then of course it "worked" | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/17 09:43 PM |
| 14 | Meta: I've never been a redpiller but is this the appropriate sub to make fun of them? If not, can you point me to the appropriate sub?r/thebluepill is your spot, this subreddit is not an appropriate place to make fun of red pills | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/17 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Is it useful to detect "shit tests", and deflect them?Nah I think /u/aMaIzYnG is mostly correct, and me and her are just phrasing the same idea in different ways. Everyone has boundaries; if you're with somebody and they're constantly pushing through your boundaries, they're going to come to think you have no boundaries or that your convictions are weak and fickle. This will inevitably lead to conflict and abuse further down the road. It's okay to put your foot down in a relationship and take a stand for things. I think the difference between our p… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/17 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it useful to detect "shit tests", and deflect them?link wat | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 10 | Do the majority of people you know cheat on their spouses?No. And the few cheaters I do know are extremely dysfunctional to begin with (substance abuse, low income, broken homes, etc) | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it useful to detect "shit tests", and deflect them?So where's the problem? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/17 03:59 AM |
| 19 | Is it useful to detect "shit tests", and deflect them?I challenge the idea of a shit test. The idea, iirc, is that a women will intentionally test her boundaries with you. Ask you to do shit, ask you to break your own rules, etc. The aim of this game is to establish a dominance hierarchy; if she can get you to do the small things early (pay for her shit, cancel plans without notice, etc) she will be able to own you later. Right? Not quite. The issue I have here is the intentionality implicit in the idea of a shit test. In TRP land, if you say no to… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Can anyone break my fall? I feel like on my current trajectory I'm gonna end up redpill.Good! I found that I get the most angry when I don't have other things to focus that energy on. Meditation is a good outlet. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/17 11:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Can anyone break my fall? I feel like on my current trajectory I'm gonna end up redpill.Why don't you return to the practise? It sounds like it was a positive thing in your life | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Can anyone break my fall? I feel like on my current trajectory I'm gonna end up redpill.Can you share more about your meditation practise? It seems strange to me that you had success with meditation got PTSD but you're still sliding into hatred | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Thank you, and advice pleaseI mean if you want to, go for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/17 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Can I get my husband to leave TRP?Get out | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/17 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Thank you, and advice pleaseHow do you intend to go about this? I'm a firm believer that you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?This is a bi-partisan consensus because like I said, our entire economic system stops making sense if it is 0 sum. Staples and Officemax both provide office supplies. Lets say demand for office supplies is variable X. The world you are describing is only true when X is a fixed variable. There is a demand for say, 1000 units of office supplies, 1 unit per person. For each person that buys a unit of office supplies at Staples, they're not buying a unit at Officemax. On a long enough timeline, Stap… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?The idea that business is not zero sum is well established in economics (and also just logical; if every dollar made is a dollar lost by another, how can the economy grow and shrink?) | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?Ah but in business, investment, and negotiation, the results are non-zero sum. Two businesses can compete competitively and be successful; the result is the economy grows. In TRP, every alpha is competing for a limited number of women with every other alpha and every beta. An alpha's success at the bar is a failure for every other guy at that bar. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?But, as I already said, and you agreed, the difference is TRP is predicated on the idea of a secret or forbidden knowledge. If everyone learns TRP, the advantage is lost. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?Sure whatever, my point originally though was "there is no free lunch", so why is TRP giving out free lunches? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?No no no you got my point backwards. We, the users, are the product. The company that owns reddit (Conde Naste) is the seller. And ad companies, PR firms, etc are the buyer. It works like this; Conde Naste enters the market and says "we have an content aggregator that has x million users a month". Firms invest in Conde Naste, who uses the money to keep the lights on, finance other products, and make a profit. Then, marketing departments, PR firms, whoever wants to reach those x million users for… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 10:53 PM |
| 0 | What I've learned the hard wayWelcome to being an adult. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?It's not an assumption, it's documented. Same thing as facebook, twitter etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?We as users are the product. Conde Naste is selling an audience to investors, advertisers, and power brokers. There's been lots of work done on the intersection between corporate/political interests and this website. It's definitely not "free". | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?Right so then the question is, do you believe in free lunches? These power users have the secret, and they're just giving it away? Or are they looking for validation that they know what they're doing? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?But if that is the case, the more people discover TRP the less useful it is | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/17 01:32 PM |
| 10 | Why not to listen exclusively to successful people.How this ties into redpill: Redpill is full of power users that says TRP has gotten them results. This is survivor bias; people that haven't seen any success don't stick around. Since it's an anonymous board it's impossible to know whether a power user is seeing results because of TRP methods, or due to something else (appearance, wealth, blind luck) and so trusting their advice is foolish. Further, TRP insists you need to try their methods on lots of people to see results. Each encounter is dif… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/17 08:26 PM |
| 12 | Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology?Redpill is full of contradictions that don't really add up. Think on them long enough and it falls apart. For example, in TRP biology is the basis of dating and sexual attraction; AWALT. Further, men fall into two categories; alphas and betas. If these are biological categories, then the beta men of TRP are going against their own nature to try and achieve something. If it's possible for people to go against their own nature, then how can AWALT exist? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with an insecurity?I'm shorter than you and my romantic life has been going okay. It sounds like you're in a good spot; you have a lot going on, have interesting talents, you're educated and so on. This is all good. It sounds like you're just in a dry spell. It happens. Be patient and keep putting yourself out there. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?If you dont want to be with somebody dont be with them. Not complicated | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?Okay so I just want to make sure I am following correctly because the way this conversation has evolved has now confused me. Your issue is she has done things in her sexual past, which you found out through a third party. You want to do those things with her, but you are concerned she won't. If she doesn't, you intend to end the relationship, is that correct? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?Sorry I think there was some confusion; I was saying ask her about it but she may not want to do it with you, not she may not want to tell you, which I think is what you took me to mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?What's your proposed solution then? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/17 01:06 PM |
| 8 | I've found ERP. So what's the difference between ERP and BP?I can tell now that my senior's "wisdom" is definitely TRP, Is it though? All of those things (stand up for yourself, improving yourself, independence) are all pretty standard cultural traits for men. Heroes like Captain America embody these ideals without it being based on exploiting psychology to get sex (in the movie Captain America is explicitly stated to be very conservative when it comes to sex and yet we would never claim the Cap is a push over). What makes you feel that TRP has a monopol… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/17 10:01 PM |
| 6 | I've found ERP. So what's the difference between ERP and BP?What exactly about TRP brought you success? What did you start doing that you weren't doing before? There a lots of comments here by men who whole lives have fallen apart by taking an adversarial approach to dating as advocated by TRP (search by top if you want to see). This is a community where those men can vent their frustration, interact with non-TRP men in a non judgmental way, and slowly try to heal and return to the mainstream. TRP is just one part of a large network of men, and the major… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/17 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Want to be ex redpill but....You are fortunate that you have a friend who is willing to listen to you when you want to be open. I would keep them in your circle; even if you rarely (if ever) talk about this stuff to them it is important to have people around you that care. I think the most important thing to remember is that if you're serious about getting back on the right track (which I think you are, based on the nature of your post and your response to me so far), you're probably going to want to change a lot of differe… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/17 06:07 PM |
| 26 | Want to be ex redpill but....Hey man, first I want to say I'm sorry to hear what happened, people can be very cruel. For me, on of the scariest things about dating is the fact that you're basically putting yourself out there and being vulnerable, which can be really hard. Some people are terrible and take advantage of that. But it's also important to keep in mind that not everyone is like that. People are widely different and just because this woman treated you like shit, doesn't mean all woman are like that. If you want to… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/17 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?A rule I learned a long time ago is "don't ask questions you don't want the answer to" You know this info. What do you want to do with it? If your desire is to have similar experiences with her, then ask her about it. But she might say no. Is that an answer you're okay with? If no then don't ask | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/17 08:40 PM |
| 2 | wtf guy/gals?!woah, personal shoutout by redpilldetox, I'm flattered | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/17 04:09 PM |
| 12 | wtf guy/gals?!So where does that leave us? We need to engage TRP on TRP terms. That doesn't mean we start spouting jargon; that means that if we really want to reach a TRP, we need to sink into the mindset of a TRP man and attack his conception of masculinity, specifically the link between sexuality and masculinity. I want to be clear I'm not advocating we dismember masculinity; exactly the opposite: we need to liberate it from this toxic relationship of sexual domination. We need to talk to TRP in terms they… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/17 04:40 PM |
| 19 | wtf guy/gals?!Thank you for posting and I am sure this is coming from a good place. That said, I think that overall this approach is not very productive when it comes to de-programming redpills or providing a constructive environment for exredpills. I've been in and around the red pill for 4 years. In 2012 I read the Game and within a few months was a member of TRP. I was there for about a year-year and a half and then became disillusioned due to red pill thinking putting me in a couple really fucked up situa… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/17 04:15 PM |
| 5 | The red pill made it impossible to feel attractive, even after 2 yearsI'm sorry to hear about this and I sympathize. It's hard as a guy because we don't get a lot of attention that way day to day, and TRP preys on that by telling you that your insecurities are correct. Don't be too harsh on yourself. You were all those things before TRP, and you can be all those things now. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/17 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Dude claimed in one of his replies to me that he goes from "first time meeting this person" to "break up" in under 2 months. Now I'm not a dating expert but most people wouldn't agree to a committed relationship on date 2... | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.If you read the rest of my replies to this user it is clear that he doesn't see a difference between dating (as in meeting people) and being in a committed relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/17 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I can see how you would get that impression but I think it's ultimately a misunderstanding. I have a very hard time trusting people. My "circle" is extremely small. This is because I have been in situations where I trusted people before and got burned, and it has severely effected my ability to trust people easily (for example, I've been in a few relationships I would call absuive or semi-abusive). It's also because my mental health goes up and down and the stigma I have received from some peopl… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/17 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Do what you want dude. Sounds like you got it all figured out. I have better things to do than sit here and be insulted for trying to answer your question. Especially given that I'm happy with my level of romantic and sexual success, and you are the one who is here asking why you are not seeing the results you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/17 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.No, though even if I said that I fail to see how that would be autistic? My last girl, we dated on and off for about 3 months. Finally one day she just said "we gotta talk" and we met up and she said "so what are we" and we talked for about an hour about how we felt about each other and what we wanted. At the end we agreed that we wanted to date seriously and be exclusive, that we really cared about each other and that we would try be honest and make dating work. We lasted about a year before ir… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Like to each other or to a third party? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/17 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I think you are making assumptions about how I think. You said it yourself, you're not a mind reader. I'm just trying to figure out how you could "know" that you and these three women were in committed monogamous relationships if you never actually talked about it? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.So then how did you wind up dating them for 1-2 months if you have no idea what they wanted? You guys never talked about it? Like you said they were monogamous relationships, you must have discussed it if you can claim that | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/17 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I asked if the women you have dated and broken up with expressed to you directly a desire to date before you stated dating them. How can you not know? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/17 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.These three specifically though? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Did they express a desire for serious dating before you guys became monogamous? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Gotta diagnose the disease before you can proscribe the medicine | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.How often have you been in these situations since leaving high school? How often does this happen to you? Also where are you meeting these people? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I just want to be clear, I'm asking because I don't believe in TRP. One of the things I don't like about TRP is that it treats men like little robots that can be dropped, swapped, programmed and deprogrammed. True sexual success depends on knowing yourself and knowing what you have to offer; as such, that means if you want useful advice we have to drill down into you, personally, if it's going to go anywhere. If you want advice straight outta the box, by all means TRP it up. But don't be surpris… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Okay well, Let's put aside the question of your OP and just talk more about your dating process. In 1-2 months, you experience: Being monogamous with a girl I always feel her respect for me slowly dwindles. We will become "A thing" I'll pay for some meals every now and then. Well do shit together and I'll get comfortable in her emotionally. Letting my guard down always makes her less attractive / more likely to leave in my experience. Eventually she'll start acting distant and annoyed constantly… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Okay so now I'm forced to ask some more questions; how old are you, which country are you located in, and how much baggage are you bringing with you (i.e. has your life been generally good? or generally fucked up?) | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.So it takes you 1-2 months to get into a monogamous relationship? Or you are going from first date -> break up in 1-2 months? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.You didn't answer my question: what is your timeline look like for all this? For example, if I like a girl, we won't become monogamous for at least the first 2-4 months of dating. But I will "let my guard down" pretty early and slowly ramp it up; if I'm serious about a girl then I try to establish pretty early on how I'm feeling, what I need emotionally, etc. Some girls dont like that but that's the point of dating, to figure out if the person you're with will work long term | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.What does posessive look like? Which emotions are you expressing? And maybe the most important question, what is the timeline for all of this? Like lets say you meet the girl, she's cute, she's fun. What does the first six months look like for you? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 03:19 PM |
| 8 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I'm curious as to what "warn up" means to you. I've noticed plenty of people (of both sexes) suddenly come on very strong when they get even a little attaention. It's a turn off to a "normal" person as you don't want to dive in head first. How do you warm? When? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 01:04 PM |
| 9 | Why are people here so against TRP?Where on TRP do they preach blood, sweat and honest self reflection? Maybe I missed that memo? TRP preaches a very stripped down image of blood. Sure they preach sacrifice, but do they live it? How much blood would TRP wager? All of it? And for what? This is a serious question. What would TRP sacrifice for real growth? Everything? Their whole ideology? Themselves? You have mentioned you did psychedelics; you know then about that other world, beyond ours. Would TRP give up this to get to that? Ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/17 05:34 AM |
| 13 | Why are people here so against TRP?Well, I am not trying to be rude but this will come off as abbrasive. Based on your reply and how your post is worded I question whether you are open to having your opinion changed. Do what you want man. It's a free world. I've gone through the mental health + self esteem thing and believe me it takes a long fucking time to climb out. I think you have overstepped in assuming that because I think TRP is stupid I've "crawled back" into depression; the truth is I did the TRP thing, I did the anti-T… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/17 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Why are people here so against TRP?Sarcasm? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/17 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Why are people here so against TRP?I'm glad you are improving yourself. Nobody should feel suicidal, and it's good that you have identified that. I myself have felt the way you now feel, did some time on TRP, got disillusioned and went back into be suicidal bend. For as long as you don't do it for yourself, you're not going to be happy. https://xkcd.com/1027/ | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/17 03:42 AM |
| 8 | Why is every post of dissent towards Red Pill deleted?The whole concept is premised on the idea that they are "awake" and have a secret truth. If people come in and say "dude I tried this and my girl punched me in the dick" then the illusion is shattered | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/17 07:08 PM |
| 15 | Can't seem to think women are equalThat is not at all what I'm saying. If MGTOW actually went there own way then I would agree. The problem is that they do not. MGTOW is essentially the TRP mindset turned inside out; while TRP believes they can game the system by buying in, MGTOW believes they can beat the system by stepping out. MGTOW is the adult version of the child who, upset he can't eat chocolate before dinner, yells and cries and packs his bag, threatening to run away. Of course, the parent knows this is a ruse, that the c… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/17 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Can't seem to think women are equalThat's his point ? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/17 02:20 PM |
| 11 | Can't seem to think women are equalIf you are comfortable with where your life is right now and the type of people coming in and out of it, then by all means don't change and keep doing what you are doing. But I suspect that isn't the case. Your post makes it clear you are dissatisfied with how things have been going for you. Tbh I don't think you would post here or TRP if you thought everything was working the way you want it to. If I'm wrong and you're perfectly happy and aren't open to having your mind changed, that's fine, bu… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/17 01:41 PM |
| 19 | Can't seem to think women are equalI am not married, mid 20s Are you asking me why self-improvement is valuable? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/17 09:15 PM |
| 25 | Can't seem to think women are equalSo what issue are you looking to argue? That women are unequal or that women are not marriage material? If it's equality then you haven't really elucidated what is inequal about this situation; plenty of men are also living pointless, hedonistic lifestyles with no eye on the future. If that's your metric for the quality of a person then certainly you can't claim that's a gendered problem; all you can say is that most people of either sex are shallow hedons. And if that's not what you're saying, … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/17 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?those who do don't look very happy about it. Something I realized a while ago, after a failed friends with benefits situation, was that getting a girl to sleep with you isn't extremely hard; if you are a good enough liar, it'll happen. The hard part is getting a girl to sleep with you and then being able to still sleep with yourself. If you build your romantic life on lies, it's going to be a life of lies, and you will go mad trying to keep it all together. Only a fool builds his house of shifti… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/17 01:00 PM |
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