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Field ReportAndThenThereWasOne0/r/seduction10/03/24 02:54 AM
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Field ReportAndThenThereWasOne0/r/seduction23/10/24 04:40 AM
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Geez, fuck the three dates plan then. I won’t rush during the 2nd date, but will escalate when she feels comfortable
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:14 PM
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Great recommendation. I’ll make sure she’s comfortable, and will escalate on Friday. I don’t have my own place until spring next year, and live with my parents. She has her own place. Do you recommend I do the same ice cream idea, near her place? During our initial convo we talked about her house renovation, and the remodel she’s doing at her place. I’m doing something similar at a rental I own. Can I suggest that after ice cream, I’d love to see her updated place?
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:10 PM
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I wanted to set a baseline in the first date, escalate on the 2nd date, and close on the 3rd date. I thought that was the standard
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:58 PM
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I was thinking that driving 45 minutes might’ve been too much. The movies set unrealistic expectations. Yeah, I’ll just hit send on my plan then. I’ll take it easy and stay cool
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:57 PM
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I’m looking for a causal relationship. Towards the end of our date, I asked her what she was looking for in a relationship. She said she’s looking to get into a relationship to spend time with someone, do things like grocery shopping together, possibly settle down, among other things. It sounded more like she just wants a relationship for cuffing season, and see where it goes from there
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:46 PM
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Damn I was hoping for some sort of redemption. I'll try another date, and if I strike out I'll use it as a learning experience. I'll learn how to generate the sexual tension and go from there. I wish I started learning this earlier
/r/seduction10/03/24 09:05 PM
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No chance I can redeem in the third date, if I get one? Maybe go to a cozy bar like another comment said, and talk more personal and romantic, then a bit half way through go for it? Or even tell her "I should have done this way sooner, but I really want to kiss you right now" and then go for it. Thanks for the guide and books. Going from rusty to somewhat proficient is probably going to take all summer haha. I'll take a look and implement
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:51 PM
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Its polar opposite on what the guys have said so far. Its nice to see the girls perspective also. Thanks
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:46 PM
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That's a great line. If I get that third date, I'll make sure to do this. I'm pretty dense when it comes to the signs girls give. I bet she gave me plenty on our first date and I should've done something but didn't since I didn't want to make her uncomfortable. I'll take the reins on the 3rd date, and I'll bring it home
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah I'll be the first to admit that I'm super rusty. I felt that friend vibe while we were drinking coffee, I'm like wtf this feels like I'm her friend. If I were to get a third date, what would you do in my situation? Also do you think this text is any good: "Yesterday was fun and I'd like to make another memory sometime in the near future". If its not what would you send to her instead? Also any guides other than this sub wiki you'd recommend so I can better myself?
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:33 PM
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Yeah I'll definitely need more experience. Thanks my guy
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:23 PM
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Your right, your right. I've pussied out too much these past two dates, and if I get a third date I'll make it happen. I feel like at this point, if I don't kiss in the third date, then I'm a dead man walking
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:22 PM
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After assessing my past two dates, yeah I can see the neediness. My texts definitely don't match my energy on dates either; ie I didn't make a move yet. I have seen that I am more worried about her attraction to me first. I haven't thought that much about if I'll be happy with her. I feel like I would be, but I haven't thought deeply about it. If she ends up giving me a third date, I'll be honest and open with her and see where it goes from there
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:21 PM
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That's fair man. I'll send the pic with a short playful "Yesterday was fun and I'd like to make another memory sometime in the near future". If she's willing to give me another date, I'll take her to a cozy dinner spot, and I'll bring her close and make a move. I've been in my head too much. I'll keep it simple
/r/seduction10/03/24 08:13 PM
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That's fair. Dancing is an option and I'll consider some more as I feel them out. Thanks
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:14 AM
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Holding hands is a boyfriend thing, I admit that. I more or less wanted to escalate, and it just kinda happened. I didn't make a move cause I feel like it'd be uncomfortable for her, and more importantly I didn't have any liquid courage to help me out ie. I pussied out. I wanna try and build up the courage on date three, so that's why I wanna go on a more high energy, more physical date (maybe escape room/ bar trivia night/ a nice food place); she loves food and coffee. Another idea is the roman…
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:08 AM
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Watch out for stds man. Also they might be setting you up for some shady shit
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:18 PM
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No need to box yourself in and set limitations
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:16 PM
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while slowly running your fingers through your hair. Then
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:06 AM
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Love to hear it. Way to get past this moment
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:11 PM
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Like a couple of days. We all live busy lives, so make plans after a day or two and let her know you had a good time. See is she wants to meet up this weekend or next week for some coffee and you guys can do stuff
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah I was told something similar when i was talking a girl to prom. It wasn't cringe at all, I did almost shit my pants though. It was her dad, three brothers (huge guys that looked like the rock), and a dude who i think was her uncle or maybe family friend with some crazy ass hair. They all told me to be respectful to her or else, then the crazy dude took me to another room and threatened me if I made her feel bad that night. Rest assured, I was a gentlemen and didn't even wanna take it to fir…
/r/seduction22/03/22 04:15 AM
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When Girls approach me its kinda hot for me. The best way to do it in my opinion is just come up and talk to me. Talk to me about something I’m wearing or if there was a football game this past weekend, then talk to me about that. Just kinda talking and getting to know me is awesome. Then escalate by getting my number (I’ll probably ask for your number, honestly at this point). We can meet up to do something cool like axe throwing, see an art exhibit, go to the lake/ park and chill & talk, or go…
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:31 PM
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Following
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:45 AM
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I like this idea
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:15 PM
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Fuck no. But the dudes here for advice so just give it to him and let him make his decision
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:21 AM
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Yeah man. Though I think it’s kinda weird, but you know that’s my culture and I won’t be imposing it on you. Remember, from the way your wrote your post, she seems to want it and you do too. So just take it nice and easy, feel out the signals and get her comfortable & feeling safe (both really important). Then it’s a home run for you after that. Good luck
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:19 AM
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If I was in your shoe and this girl is just another girl, I would get to know her abit more. I would get a booth with not too much lighting but just enough lighting. Then I would go and start learning more about her, and really listening and getting to know each other, flirt alittle bit. Then I’ll slowly move abit closer and flirt abit more. Then add some sexual flirting and then make sure you are getting close enough that if you have to kiss, you can. At this point you really have to feel out t…
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:12 AM
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How do you last longer in the bed then? Also how do you stay sex free for a week before a shoot to have a larger cum load? I've noticed this that if I have sex multiple days a week, my load becomes lower the next day. But say I take a week break, then I last longer and I also have a large cum load. The longer I wait, the longer I last + larger cum load. Is this your experience also?
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:07 AM
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I've come to talk with you again
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:23 AM
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Yeah, I do. For me, I think more than two or three guys is too many
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:51 AM
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This is the comment. Just being comfortable is the best first step forward
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:53 PM
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Honestly, OP should get casually involved with another girl. If he still likes the olf girl, this will may make her jealous. Kinda force the decision onto her
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:40 AM
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Yeah it is. I try not to approach women close to where I work/ live
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:18 PM
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Oh yeah, that's a good one
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:16 AM
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Yes it is possible man. But you gotta take care of yourself first. Fix your financial situation and grow your wealth. Get a job, everyone's hiring now. If you can, get into the trades, I'm talking plumbing, electricans, HVAC, etc. THEY WILL PAY YOU TO LEARN. Then fix your health, physically and mentally. Then go on to get a girl. Work on yourself first and fix your problems before you do anything else. Start today
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:16 PM
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Some of those "work on yourself" videos maybe has some solid advice on how the viewer can improve their lives. Also, I agree that people do resonate with comfort, it's human nature to want a comfortable life. And if you are content with your current life, there isn't much need or desire to change. To my point about rewording your phrasing. When the phrase "work on yourself" gets thrown around, people can look inward and decide for themselves what they want to improve on within their own lives. O…
/r/seduction04/09/21 12:58 AM
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You could've phrased that a little better but I agree that being specific on what you need to improve about yourself is a great first step
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:50 PM
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