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More than 10 years is lifetime alimony?!? 🤬
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 03:36 PM
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Why does she think you’re obligated to support her career? She’s your ex for a reason and she’s not entitled to your support.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/25 12:39 PM
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A lot of women lurk here and downvote comments that are critical of how lopsided divorce courts are in their favor.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/25 12:36 PM
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That’s absurd. How can the family courts system possibly justify that?
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 04:53 PM
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WTF. How much do you earn annually?!
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 02:35 PM
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How many kids and how much were you earning to have to pay that much per month?
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 02:34 PM
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I work 60-70 hours/week on average and do the majority of cooking, cleaning, and taking care of our kids when I am home from work. She literally punches out the second I get home and refuses to do anything because she’s “exhausted.” My wife is currently on her fourth extended “girl’s weekend” since August — this time in Turks and Caicos, last time it was Belize — and I haven’t taken a vacation in two years. There is literally no comparison between who works more hours. You’re stereotyping and ha…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 06:56 PM
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Oh I absolutely agree. I don’t ever throw being the breadwinner in my wife’s face. I’m a firm believer that marriage and raising a family is a collective effort and the contributions of a SAHM are every bit as important and equal to the efforts made by the spouse who works. I think it’s a fatal mistake to take either for granted.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 01:21 PM
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How many of these women who resent being “caretakers” were SAHMs and/or dependent upon their husband’s earnings for years, yet forget this? And how many of these same women gladly accept half and alimony, yet claim to be better off alone? Here’s the truth: they’re not better off alone if being alone means zero spousal support/alimony. This is a personal issue for me so I’m obviously biased and likely irrational, but it infuriates me when my SAHM wife conveniently ignores and overlooks the fact t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:59 PM
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That’s suicide fuel.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/24 05:41 PM
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Lifetime alimony? How long were you married for?
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/24 01:27 PM
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Can you elaborate? How did standing up for yourself result in her going scorched earth on you?
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 02:25 PM
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She didn’t want you — she wanted that wedding. It’s a harsh reality when you come to realize that there’s nothing special, endearing, or unique about you in her eyes. Literally hundreds of other men could have filled the role of husband for her, you just happened to be the one to stupidly do so. I’m absolutely convinced that women do not love men. They love what men can provide. The second they feel like they can do better (or like they’ve found someone who can provide more), they’re out.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 02:43 PM
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Why? He says that she’s already moved on. He should do the same and I don’t see why he needs her approval to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 06:00 PM
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Can’t he be dishonorably discharged for knowingly fucking another serviceman’s wife?
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 06:15 PM
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I’m more interested in why she’s lurking on this sub rather than the main. Not to sound like an asshole or a gatekeeper, but I’m tired of women who feel the need to post here. If men wanted their opinions, they’d ask on the main sub.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 08:34 PM
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Spoiler alert: most of these divorced women are probably similar to your ex-wife.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 03:54 PM
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Still married with no evidence of infidelity and I’m the one who’s contemplating filing. My childhood best friend’s wife pulled this shit on him after fucking her boss for 6 months during a “trial separation.” She came back hat in hand claiming that she wanted a second chance to make things work for their kids. He laughed at her until she left in tears.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 02:17 PM
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I hope OP isn’t foolish enough to accept her back once her new guy is done using her as his new toy.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 01:48 PM
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What makes you think that someone who is willing to threaten you with weaponizing the law against you by filing a baseless PFA to leverage the legal system against you is actually willing and capable of repairing your marriage? Further, why would you want to fix a marriage with a person like that?
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 11:26 AM
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What do you mean by “roommate phase”? And more importantly, what role did you play in your marriage shifting from a romantic union to a friendship? Typically, if you cut off affection and sex for 4 years, then the relationship is going to wither and die. It’s like forgetting to water a houseplant. Once it’s dead, it doesn’t matter how much water you pour on it. It’s too late.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 04:21 PM
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Care to further elaborate how that shift came about? I feel like so many guys play the long game like this (ie, do the right thing, tell themselves that the truth will prevail eventually, etc.), but very few end up vindicated in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 02:54 PM
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Why are you posting here?
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 01:10 PM
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Curious — what are the friendlier divorce states for men?
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 07:21 PM
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There’s a reason why this message has endured for 1500 years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 03:10 PM
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Are you me? This pretty much mirrors my marriage, though we’re not separated or divorcing … yet. Post kids, I became officially useless to my wife. I quite literally do EVERYTHING wrong. From small things to large, my wife will find a way to nitpick everything. Two recent examples: (1) my wife is furious over how much we paid in taxes this year because, get this, I made “too much money on capital gains!” (yes, she’s mad that I made too much money); and (2) I recently got chewed out for putting t…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 03:05 PM
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Accurate. It is what it is I suppose. 🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 04:30 AM
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Did you ever suggest that it was because she was an uninteresting bitch that nobody liked? “HONEY! YOU ASKED WHY, NOT ME! I WAS JUST TRYING TO BE HONEST AND HELPFUL!”
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 01:33 PM
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