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If you didn't have mental health issues before getting into RP, you certainly will afterwards.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/23 11:41 PM
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There's a link between autism and most batshit crazy groups in general.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:31 PM
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Tale as old as time
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 11:12 AM
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Because redpill is full of groomers luring impressionable young men towards right wing fundamentalism
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 10:12 PM
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I don't get it. A Man can love a woman without being aroused by her. Ever met a guy who's been married for 40 years? I've known guys in their 20s date women they don't find sexually attractive. It's not female specific. But if I understand your question correctly, yes- men are better to talk to about your guy problems, because they're guys.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 10:06 PM
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Does Nazism seriously harm Jews? If so, what way? -- Some guy probably, 1929
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 08:16 PM
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It was amazing, there has been a turning point recently with more people realising how much BS the RedPill pushes. I think this interview was one of the big moments in this transition. She has a big following and it's great knowing her fans were probably watching and seeing these ideas outside of an echo chamber.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 11:24 AM
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The average Joe cares a lot about minor differences in identity. The average Joe cares about their flag, their God, their ethnic and gender identity. The average Joe will go to war over these things, and politicians capitalise on that. Then again the "elites" seem to actually push for a more globalised, unified world of trade and cooperation. I agree that we should all get along, but it's not the elites that divide us, it's the plebs.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 01:05 PM
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Seems like you need to go back to those open minded intelligent men you're used to.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:09 PM
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Gosh!
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 08:36 PM
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What's the point of a relationship without feelings?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 08:08 AM
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Glad someone else wrote this so I don't have to
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 08:06 AM
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You've provided no detail so maybe there is more to this story. A lot of people hate their therapists because they actually challenge them to think about their problems. My brother had severe anxiety and OCD and he hated his therapist but says that she helped him so much and he's eternally grateful. This is because he wanted to get better and she challenged him with exposure therapy and CBT, which he hated, but it helped him. I know someone else who seems to have new therapists every month becau…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 08:31 AM
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It might surprise you to learn that people LIE about their sex lives.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 02:15 PM
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Yep, or basically a healthy looking physique. You don't have to have bowling ball muscles, but looking fit makes a person more attractive. Slim men can look attractive. Just like a woman can be athletic, slender or curvy and be attractive. Healthy physiques are more attractive than unhealthy ones.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 12:34 PM
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None of this is true. Toxic masculinity refers to situation when a man feels socially pressured/pressures other men to conform to "masculine" social norms to an unhealthy degree. I.e. not allowing oneself to be emotionally vulnerable, and subsequently being unable to form healthy romantic attachments. I.e. men committing suicide or going on a violent rampage because they never allowed themselves to admit they think puppies are cute. I.e. insecure masculinity
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:49 PM
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I believe most of redpill ideology is wildly untrue and unhelpful
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 06:28 PM
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Which truth? Redpill "truth" is that women are hypergamous and unable to love unconditionally. Women only care about a man's resources and to get women a man must acquire these resources. Redpill is a specific subculture with specific beliefs. If you don't believe those things you're not redpill.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 11:39 AM
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Wow that's where your mind went
/r/ExRedPill10/07/23 09:08 AM
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Seems to keep the species going so I don't think it's bad.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 09:58 AM
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Being motivated and active and being ambitious is NOT redpill. Redpill is the belief that women are hypergamous and unable to truly love somebody. Redpill is the belief that relationships are transactional. Redpill is the belief that feminism has emasculated men and that men need to exert their authority back over women, which is the natural way of the world. Redpillers believe most men are fed the "blue pill", which leads them to idolise women, be ignorant of the truth that women are loveless w…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 04:36 PM
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Um, okay...but I think you're in the wrong sub
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 05:34 PM
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Can't you just accept that I didn't mean ALL women, even though I didn't specify that. And I clearly don't think NO men ever do that, even though I didn't specify that?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:58 PM
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Probably going to get a lot of shit for this, but I have found that women describe their previous relationships much more unfavorably than men. An example: Man: after a few months we realised we weren't quite right together once we really got to know each other. Woman: everything was good at first but then he changed. He wasn't who he said he was at the beginning.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:41 PM
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I think it's because most people are more interested in culture wars than high politics. People would rather watch reality TV than the News, so it's just human nature really.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/23 12:59 AM
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I hate the word "dominant". Confidence is attractive to everyone, even if it's not a sexual attraction. Women may want a man who can "lead the dance", but "dominant"? What does that even mean? You gonna arm wrestle your date at the table?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 12:21 PM
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The men who say this are normally well moisturized, well groomed guys, sitting in air-conditioned podcast rooms, with not a single callous on their hands.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:23 AM
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It sounds like you've hidden yourself away and now you have social anxiety. You've developed a negative view of men based on very little first hand experience. Men have the same feelings and vulnerabilities as women. I agree with you that younger men and women have weird relationships because they have to work themselves out. I often think that men and women just want each other to be different to what they are. Growing and maturing means realising that the world isn't made for you, and people a…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 04:56 PM
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I struggle with this one because I am single and want to make a good impression with women, especially when dating. I can be fun and charming when I want to be but frankly this just masks my melancholy and common depressive moods. It has taken me a lot (with no support, simply through sheer tyranny of will) to get out of toxic thinking habits. My self esteem is on the floor, but I doubt anyone would describe me as lacking in confidence. I'm the "joker", the "funny guy". I personally think that r…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 03:25 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. I've definitely met some love bombers in my time. They do this because they are anxious in their own way, doesn't mean they meant to "use" you. It is important to look after yourself and I think in future it might help to set boundaries by being explicit about emotional labour i.e. "I don't want to be your personal therapist if this is not a serious relationship". Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you're young, hook up a lot, and haven't found anyone emotionall…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 02:39 PM
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Just watched the video and frankly this kid is just nuts. I don't know who he is or if he's a redpill streamer or whatever but to me he just seems like someone with psychological issues rather than someone who's watched too much Andrew Tate.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/23 11:58 PM
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I've actively avoided this kind of content and yes, it has done wonders for my mental health.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 04:15 PM
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Everyone should control their emotions. It's what you're supposed to learn as a child. It doesn't mean rejecting them or stifling them, it just means taking perspective, controlling your response, and being dignified. Emotional incontinence is a bad trait to have as an adult.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:21 PM
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The reason you see "so many" guys making these comments online is because the kinds of guys who would think these things spend a lot of time online and have a lot of motivation to be nasty. The majority of guys who don't give a toss about the relationships of single mothers and don't hate women and themselves aren't posting online- they're outside, living healthy and happy lives.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 11:22 AM
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Here are some blue pills for you: 🔵 Most people don't hook up with tonnes and tonnes of people. Most people lie and say they've been with more. Most girls your age will have been with a few guys, but not many. 🔵 Most people (including women) want a monogamous and faithful relationship. 🔵 Virginity is over-rated. "Purity" is a nonsense idea. Let it go. Being someone's first is not as special as being their last. 🔵 When your parents and grandparents were young, people still had sex before marriage…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:49 PM
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Most Gen Z kids seem to think it means "simpleton" or "simpering", but I don't know why.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 02:10 AM
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Are there any good heroine dealers?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 11:05 AM
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In a society where men become more sedentary (office jobs etc), they will attempt to adopt the most superficial elements of "masculine ideals" and promote those as the definition of your masculinity. Things like going to the gym. I have met farmers in rural Africa. They don't go to the gym or shout about being a man. They were skinny and strong, and their sense of value came from the value of their work, and their position within the community. They were the head of their house, but they felt no…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:24 AM
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EX boyfriend Ex problem
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 09:45 PM
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I'd wager that most people on this thread ARE men, as the whole point of the exredpill sub is men trying to unlearn the toxic perspectives that they have adopted through Redpill content and the manosphere. This isn't a man-hating subreddit. This is a subreddit for men trying to better themselves by pointing out the flaws in the Redpill rhetoric, which hopefully encourages other men not to get sucked into that way of thinking.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 02:19 PM
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I see what you mean now, and I agree.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 03:45 PM
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I know it's not really the issue, but what do you mean about men in porn being cowards? I'm genuinely interested in what that means exactly.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 08:21 PM
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The thing about red pillers is that when they feel like someone is accusing them of hating women, they get defensive because usually they actually have a lot of hangups about women and relationships and the RP was a way for them to rationalise that. They don't want to be seen as somebody who resents women because deep down they know they do, and deeper down they know that it's an insecurity. Also there is a small amount of kudos you can get for being edgy and anti-establishment, so it's also an …
/r/ExRedPill11/10/22 05:48 PM
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When reading RP content like the quotes above, it helps to imagine Sheldon Cooper is saying it. Sounds like a robot providing his analysis of human mating rituals.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/22 05:43 PM
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I can't fathom why you got into RP in the first place. RP is usually a cope for men who haven't been very successful with women and decide that this is because they don't make enough money/women are the evil spawn of Satan unable to love a man for anything other than his money. They are usually not on a high income. I had to try not to be judgemental when you started with "I make 300k per year". Now I don't know what country you're from but that's a dream salary. Sounds like you have a good life…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 02:20 PM
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You know the answer to this question. RP isn't about truth. It's a grift. If someone is trying to convert you into their cult, they will not encourage self reflection because that might stop you from joining the cult.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 09:38 AM
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Never ask that question on Reddit, everyone will just tell you to dump him. Misery loves company, and Redditors are miserable people. First, what do you mean by "heteronormative"? Because if he's a straight guy in a straight relationship, his view of the world will be heteronormative. Is he a homophobe? Does he have issues with trans people? Does he hold sexist beliefs? If no, then it doesn't sound like a problem. When he says he "agrees with Andrew Tate about some things", so what? That guy say…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 04:17 PM
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You're 18, you're fine. You've unplugged from this at the perfect time. 18 is just the start of your story. Hopefully you'll have great relationships going forward, without being held back by RP. Also, late bloomer? Sounds like you're on time. Most people start having serious sexual relationships at 18. You're still literally a teenager, and in 10 years you will still be considered a 'young man'. Just don't get dragged back into RP when life gets tough
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 11:19 AM
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It's the literal basis for the red pill. In 1999 in the film The Matrix, the protagonist is offered a blue pill or a red pill. The blue pill will make him forget his choice and he can go back to his normal life unaware of the truth. The red pill will set him free and he will gain awareness of how the world truly is. This is the backstory to the red pill. "Blue pillers" believe all of the normal stuff. Be kind to people, find a girl you love, marry her, support her, be the provider- both of you w…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:38 AM
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Those are completely different things
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 03:29 PM
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Completely
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 02:45 PM
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In the sense that they are different completely
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 10:22 AM
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He's the new Covid variant
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 08:45 PM
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Short Answer: No Long Answer: Nooooooooooooo
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 09:10 AM
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At 24 you're supposed to be broke. I was broke, most people I knew were broke at that age. You don't have to have it all together by the time you're 24, or 30, or even 40. But especially at your age, I wouldn't call it being "a loser". You're just young and broke. And if time is money, then youth is WEALTH. Don't try and fix everything all at once. Work on the things you can control, and think about your priorities. Maybe dating shouldn't be the focus at the moment. Instead take the time to focu…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 05:10 PM
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Being black doesn't make you blackpill. It sounds like you are just having some trouble getting a girlfriend. You don't sound like you hate women and think the whole dating world is rigged, so you're not blackpilled. Your issue might be because of where you live. I can only talk from what I've seen in my country (UK), but black men seem very vogue these days. Sorry if that sounds insulting, but women here seem to love black guys. There may be a little bit of fetishization going on, as women seem…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 05:10 PM
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I didn't mean it to come across like that. Definitely not suggesting he doesn't do this because it's not an "alpha move" or whatever. I just don't think it always works to confront someone about behaviour that is under the radar as it can easily be turned around on you to make you look bad.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 04:48 PM
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When he said "pushed" I imagined a kind of light push that barely moved the OP, but still got into his personal space. If his boss pushed him to the floor or into a wall then obviously OP should confront him, but I imagine this wasn't that. In my scenario, getting all hoity toity ends up with OP looking worse, as everyone will think he is overreacting. I'm not saying it's right, just saying it won't be the result that OP wants.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 04:39 PM
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This is a really good tactic!
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 10:52 AM
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You have to think of male spaces more politically than that. It's all about optics in this situation, and what you're suggesting can easily be framed as "OP is a bit sensitive isn't he? He's a bit feeble and can't handle the banter". Every man will take the side of the boss if the OP confronts him publicly. Being direct and upfront can easily be framed as a man being shrill and unmanly. To the female coworker, who won't see the underlying tensions, she will see a man who can't take a joke. Even …
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 10:51 AM
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I think people go for a "match" more than anything. A very smart woman probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who's not as smart. I find many women say they like intelligence but like all people they will be intimidated by somebody who is much much smarter than they are. This type of person makes them feel inferior, which isn't a positive for dating. I've seen that highly intelligent people find it hard to make friends or form relationships sometimes and I definitely think it's because of the…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 10:16 AM
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But this story had a happy ending... If he had divorced her because of the initial issue, he would have broken up his family, be an estranged father to his kid, and probably be miserable and even more redpilled. If something is broken, always try and fix it before you throw it away. People divorce too easily nowadays rather than working through their problems. They think they need to be happy all the time otherwise something is wrong, which is not the reality of a marriage.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 06:56 AM
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Contact a lawyer and find out what you can do because a lot of this sounds sort of illegal.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 07:21 AM
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Sounds like you need help dude. Women have 0 empathy 😂 what utter twaddle.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:30 AM
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He sounds like he's an alright guy. A few other commenters are speculating that he "hates women"....BULLSHIT. How many women from time to time, say "men are X" or formulate negative opinions of men in general because of a bad experience with one man? Men are the same. Why do people say these things? Because deep down they are looking for someone to contradict them, and prove them wrong. People do this unconsciously, but they absolutely do it. Kind of like a "shit test" if you know PUA lingo. Sou…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 03:48 PM
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Sounds a bit spergy and that type of dude absorbs people like Andrew Tate without any critical thinking. "Nice guys" don't think that only their opinion matters, and don't shit on people for using dating apps. Your boyfriend is either just parroting what he hears (lame) or he's just an asshole. Sometimes we can all be assholes and (especially guys) just spout half formed opinions like fact to look big and impressive. Maybe the content is shaping his views, or maybe his views led him to the conte…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 09:38 AM
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I'm glad you started this with "I'm going to leave my husband", because it sounds like you should. Regardless of what he might be going through, it doesn't excuse that behaviour, and you should leave him before it gets worse.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:11 AM
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It's superficial and immature. Admittedly, some people age badly and look better in their youth. Many age like fine wine though. Women and Men in their 30s still look YOUNG and even people in their 40s look good. If you don't look after yourself at 20 you'll look like crap too. The other part of SMV I hate is the idea that if a woman sleeps with a lot of people her SMV goes down. Like how? She's got more XP points. Virginity is highly overrated and seems to be fetishised by the insecure younger …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 07:25 PM
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