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So... The cobra kai effect?
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:37 PM
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And yet whenever you actually try to talk like a human would with text that are longer than two syllables you are labeled "needy". It's a very thin line.
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:00 PM
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I don't do cold approach much. There aren't that many places in my city that you can hang out in with that sole purpose (that said I'll have to force myself more out of my comfort zone one of these days). But whenever I did do cold approach, the girl was almost always with a group of friends. Which I've always assumed is the standard way of meeting someone in a free day. So the first thing I'd suggest is not making this a problem unless you want to depend on rare occurrences when you can meet th…
/r/seduction12/12/21 11:04 AM
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Well, what do you know... Matched with a cute curvy redhead today and tried just that: "Hi ! Pleasure, I'm OP. How are you *name of tinder match*?" I say. "Hii" "All good, you?" She answers. "Good. Wish it was Friday already" "Wanna go out *name of the tinder match*?" Aaand... No response whatsover. I don't even wanna try this anymore. I try not to have any expectations going in. But every time it's like God himself is laughing at me. For example, just twenty minutes ago a gorgeous looking girl …
/r/seduction07/12/21 10:21 PM
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Look, I know you're trying to help here, but you could have done so without deleting the main post. Sorry if I inadvertently broke one of the rules of the sub. I'll try to provide more context tomorrow.
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:46 AM
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I simply said alot of people find ghosting easier, ghosting (unless one ghosts an obsessive or narsistic person) has usually indeed only to do with the one ghosting, not the one ghosted. Well I'm sorry if I came off as rude, but as it is plain to see I'm really not in a mellow place right now and reading stuff like this does not make it seem like you get how wrong that garbage is that much (even if you say you do). I never tried Facebook dating so something might have gotten lost in translation.…
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:24 AM
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It's not. But okay, let's say it is and I'm just not aware of it (which again I hardly consider a possibility) how would I do that? I'm really asking. And please for the love of all that is good, don't say therapy. It's garbage how they handle that in my country.
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:13 AM
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Not really. I mean, nowadays even if you get to know someone IRL at some point you'll still have to text at least a little. Actually, the girl I met before my last hookup I had met through tinder and we did date on and off for about a year and a half. So I guess that's why I insist on online dating. Because I can see the potential. But again, even if I deleted tinder, I still feel I'd have to at least know how to be good at texting so that the girl I talked to IRL won't change her mind and lose …
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:05 AM
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I get what you're trying to say. But giving your number away today equals to start chatting on WhatsApp anyway. That might not be a social media, but it kind of still works like one. Still, there is some truth in what you're saying. Not a bad advice.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:53 PM
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And silence seem like a better alternative to you? Grow the hell up lady. I'd rather be openly rejected with half a decent explanation by a honest strong woman rather than just being ghosted by a stuck up, flimsy, cowardly, flaky bitch that started acting that way a minute too late. Newsflash: so does every other poor guy that was ever led on in his life. Ghosting is infuriating, does not give you any closure whatsoever and you don't even learn from your mistakes (if you even made any). But I'm …
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:50 PM
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You're either a woman or an apologist for shitty and cowardly behaviors. Hell, maybe both.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:53 PM
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It was not born without cause, friend.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:50 PM
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Just be yourself. So, a half depressed angry ticking bomb? Btw, if you are Italian how come those texts are in english? If you are living in America or elsewhere, or if you're only dating foreigners it's kind of different is it not? Italian girls mentality barely resemble those of foreigners. They are way more stuck up, as you should well know.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:47 PM
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Oh please, spare me. For every girl that perceptive there are ten who are not and I assure you I'm not showing it at all. I get angry (privately btw) only after they start ghosting. I learned a long time ago to mask my disappointment with people. So they are not sensing shit, mate. And even if they were it'd be kinda hard to do over text. So, yeah, no.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:23 PM
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Just like that? A "hey" and a "wanna grab a drink"? Come on, how is that supposed to make you stand out? I understand that on tinder you are already there for a reason, but if you put so little effort there is no way they are going to be that interested to actually say yes. Besides, this particular text was only an hail Mary attempt after the girl had already stopped answering me (after seeming quite interested). Sadly I'm not from a big city, sure it's a capoluogo, but I'm not from Rome or Mila…
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:16 PM
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Wishful thinking, man.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah, right. You're describing yourself like the average Joe and yet you say you NEVER text first? Did you make a deal with the devil too? Because if not, sorry to say, it would sound even more like bullshit.
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:54 PM
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So how come when you get real for a minute and actually say what you are thinking it gets labeled as "needy" or "too fast"? As I'm writing this I just texted a tinder match that stopped answering me yesterday and said something like "look, can I be honest with you? I hate texting and I'd very much rather get to know someone in person. You seem interesting and I'd love to get a drink together with none of the online bullshit that are supposed to pass for a genuine interaction nowadays. After all …
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:55 PM
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You might have gotten to one of my core issues. I admit that I'm a bit unsure when it comes to escalate the conversation that soon. But that's because with the social climate we're living today it feels like anything remotely sexual can be labeled as creepy and give you a bad rep. Not to mention fuck up your chance with whom you're trying to date. It's a fucking slim line you're walking on and I'm unsure on how to do it.
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:16 PM
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What? No advice on how to stand out? See that's just the kind of thing that's funny to me. Everyone is so ready with answers like "stand out", "text only to set dates" but when you actually ask them how you are supposed to do that, no one is actually able to answer and they just go back to "meet in girls IRL" like a robot.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:55 PM
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Again, how do you get to set up a date if you barely or don't even know the girl ? How the fuck am I supposed to "stand out" within the FIRST damned text I send? Who am I, professor Xavier?
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:47 PM
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Yup. I think the exact same thing. But we also live in a post covid era (which really isn't that "post" ) where the virus does not help day game one bit and women already get so much fucking attention from their online presence that it becomes hard not get discouraged. Some days I'm like "time to go the the gym, maybe get a tan, go out to make friends and meet someone" while others I'm like "what the fuck is the point if everything will still boil down to how good my shit texting will be or how …
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:38 PM
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I don't know, if we are talking tinder usually the first text is just me keeping it short, introducing myself and give the girl anything worth answering to. Something like "Hi, Jess ! I'm OP, nice to meet you. How do you do?" and with the addition of something personal I can get from the profile pics, like if they wear a color well or they have a nice haircut, or they are doing a cool activity. They often answer to that and then I often ask" what is their story" or something like that to get the…
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:28 PM
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Depends man. They are either girls I've known IRL (often through other friends or acquaintances) that I've added on Instagram after an evening or two were we hang out with the same group of people (and that if I'm lucky enough I get to see again every once in a while, even though lately this rarely happens) or I'm talking about tinder matches.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:04 PM
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Dude, how do you get that from "they start ghosting after 2 or 3 texts"? Am I supposed to ask out a girl that barely knows me within the first text? How would that go down? "Hi, Jess! Wanna grab a drink this Sunday even though I just matched you/we talked like once at a party/we were hanging out with the same crew one evening"?
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:58 PM
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Oh, come on. How do you get to ask her out if you barely know her and she barely knows you? How do you get to that point if most text conversations you have stop after you exchanged 2 or 3 texts? But let's say I do try to establish a date that quickly, why the hell would she say yes to that? She'd either stop answering like usual or just say no.
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:54 PM
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Are you the sexless innkeeper?
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:01 PM
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What a bunch of bs. Generalizing like that won't get you anywhere. Free and boundless? Not all women have a mind like that. On the contrary some of the women I know I'd say are extremely limited and obtuse in their way of thinking. Same can be said for us. And you know , saying stuff like "we want to be put on a pedestal just be careful how you do it" (that's pretty much what you've said) it's some infuriating shit for us. That is why nice guys end up doing the exact opposite in the long run and…
/r/seduction06/09/20 01:12 AM
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Wouldn't that make it look like you're faking it?
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:36 PM
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Dude, really great job. Can I ask how you can come up with comebacks like those on the spot? I'd just think of the right thing to say only when I'd already be back at home.
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:09 AM
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Just to be clear, are you a man or a woman? 'Cause I disagree with 90% of what you just posted
/r/seduction15/07/19 07:19 PM
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Man, if you get a good answer shout it to the world. The game's rigged. I know we are supposed to welcome shit tests and that we shouldn't question this kind of behaviour and just adapt to it... But damn, sometimes it just gets to you how much little sense this kind of stuff makes from our perspective. They show interest in you and then when you show it to them they are put off by it. That is not like a rational human being should act. I profoundly dislike mgtows but sometimes you can't help to …
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:43 PM
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Well, how high should the threshold be?
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:52 PM
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Is there any way to get more advices on this sub? Anything I post gets like three answers and then that's it.
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:40 PM
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First of all, thank you for taking the time to actually answer to all of this. This sub doesn't seem to like long posts. A couple of things though: I didn't say shit about oral sex. Don't know where you got that from. And I also think you guys are not keeping in mind the fact we were never that close. We always were friendly but c'mon. You can't call someone friend if you hear from her every six months or so. I think she is trying to be the manipulative one and REALLY put me in the friendzone no…
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:52 AM
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Se non altro Torino è abbastanza grande e suppongo che app quali Tinder possano aiutarti non poco a trovare qualcuno con cui divertirti. Al Nord sicuramente più che a Sud.
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:55 PM
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Are you italian? So am I. You know how it is over here, girls can be so freaking boring it hurts. And HEAVILY tattooed girls are pretty much a rarity if you go look around for them as you would any other girl. So yeah, hard rock/metal concerts are a good idea and so are rock themed pubs if you know where to find them. I got one in my city (I'm from south Italy) though even there I never did see those many suicide girls à la Riae or something. Nor black girls (which I love). It's a boring country…
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:34 PM
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Man, I know how you feel. Tried to share a situation I'm currently dealing with just this morning and all the negativity and dumb responses I got made me feel somewhat demotivated, which really is the opposite that should be happening. Some geniuses out there just don't seem able to freaking shut the hell up even when they don't know what the hell they are talking about or did not even bother to read your post that well. ​ ​ But yeah, hygene is important. I mean... Doy.
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:37 PM
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Hung up? I didn't even go out with her yet, how can I be hung up? And how can you define it as an over-pursuit if all I'm doing is trying to go out with her (which she pretty much agreed on already) and then trying something from there? Does writing about it here to get a hint on how to handle it well enough classify as over-pursuing in your book? I asked about this specific situation only because I'll be able to try what I'll learn from the sub in a few days, that does not mean that what I'll l…
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:32 PM
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That does not mean you can't win them over if your game is solid enough. Besides, girls are not stupid. They know what a male who is single wants from them if he's texting them, asking them to go out and being playful. And if they respond in a positive way enough for you to actually go on a date with them, you at least have a chance to be intimate with them if you play your cards right. That of course is not the case if your game sucks bad, but that's what I'm here for. God, I thought this sub w…
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:04 PM
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romantically Sorry, but I think you're the one who is misinterpreting it. To you it's not a shit-test if you're not romantically involved with the girl? What, so guys that are just trying to get laid every night don't get any shit-tests? That would be awesome, but it's not the world we live in. Every guy get shit-tested if the girl is enough into him. And btw, I like this girl. I don't know if i'd want to start a relationship with her, but given the opportunity it's not like I wouldn't even cons…
/r/seduction14/04/19 02:29 PM
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Cringe all you want man. I know for a fact he treats her poorly (that's why i can write about it asking for advice here). I witnessed it myself and at least two of her close friends later confirmed that is often the case. I'd never consider to pursue his gf if he was a nice guy. He is the kind of dude that makes you want to re-evaluate how much effort you should put into yourself and into relationships since he barely seems to put any in both and still somehow managed to get a beautiful and smar…
/r/seduction14/04/19 01:02 PM
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Last paragraph ain't about moral qualms. It's about not wasting time pursuing someone if the fact she has a boyfriend destroys any possibility of getting me to my goal from the start. Something that part of me would still fear even though the girl is into me enough to go out with me.
/r/seduction14/04/19 11:25 AM
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And how do you suggest I should've done that? Or still should, anyway. It's not like you have much to talk about with someone you haven't seen in years. It's about trying to reconnect at first, with the small things. Or am i wrong about that??
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:55 PM
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