Anewse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	My First Real Heartache	Need Support	Anewse	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 01:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Overlooked the Childhood Trauma — Key Mistake I’m a statistic. Cool. I mean it makes sense. Especially those with deep rooted childhood trauma. We both had it. Both of ours was deep and unresolved.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/25 07:57 PM
1	Am I lonely? Ive been separated since May. Living separate since September. I only just accepted where things are. I feel very lonely when I don’t have my 2 girls (toddlers). I feel like I beat the slump finally. But I know I still miss physical closeness to my wife. I miss having someone to talk to who doesn’t judge me or try to control what they perceive I need. Interesting you say you felt like an extrovert but get anxiety when close to somebody. This almost sounds like PTSD or straight trauma.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/25 07:34 PM
2	Men who’ve gone through it all - what advice would you give yourself a year before this process started? Wake up. Be present. Heck give me 5 months before it started.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/25 06:48 PM
1	My First Real Heartache We had a real conversation today. I had a chance to save it back in December- I don’t remember it, I don’t remember the moment.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/25 10:55 PM
1	My First Real Heartache I have to.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 05:00 PM
1	My First Real Heartache She doesn’t. I know. She did. I wanted that. I’m working through it. It’s fresh and raw. I don’t want to be free. I want her to I want my family. These things are out of my control. I am letting these feelings out. I am letting them breathe so I don’t suffocate.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 03:11 PM
1	My First Real Heartache Thank you. I am riding it through. It’s a struggle, I know.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 11:00 AM
1	My First Real Heartache Thank you. It’s been a rough 36 hours. 7.5 months… I thought I could save it. I thought there was hope. I’m working through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/25 10:59 AM
4	Update post from yesterday Yay part 2. Sounds like the judge should have just thrown out the whole thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/25 10:00 PM
2	The truth is… I’ve only ever come back because of my daughters and I don’t want to burden my stbx with guilt and grief.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/25 04:34 PM
1	STBX is upset that I am expecting her to file Lack of accountability and ownership is baffling. I guess I was fortunate? I said since this what you want, you handle all the paper work, I don’t want this, I want to work it out. Court Date is 12/17 @ 10:00 AM CST	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/25 02:08 PM