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| – | What would happen if (X) gender disappeared?Don't let your wanting to be right and hate of women keep you from knowledge. Who are you to tell me how to write? The arrogance to think you have any power to control how I write? I can't help if I want to be thorough when I write, I'm a writer. Writing in shorter paragraphs helps people to read if I am long winded. Testosterone is higher in men for a reason. Never said women aren't violent, men are just more likely to be physically violent. I never said either was better. Statistics are there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:56 PM |
| – | What would happen if (X) gender disappeared?Why did you make it a gender war? The prompt was a hypothetical situation. I never said women are perfect, I simply said we aren't as prone to physical violence. I gave each gender their props and described differences. You can't do that because you have bias to keep men above women, even if the man is wrong. You would have to use honest data that would disprove what you feel, instead of cold hard facts. I used real world data to guess what would happen in this scenario. Statistics on genders do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:18 PM |
| – | What would happen if (X) gender disappeared?Women tend to be jealous, but we are not prone to physical violence. Women are more in tune to empathize with others so we would second guess violence against another human being. Risk of SA would plummet. Men on the other hand would want to use physical strength and violence to gain higher social standing in society or men with money would work harder to keep men lower on the totem pole where they are. Men would be more open to the idea of slavery. Robberies would increase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?No, that's not what that means. It just means they are don't openly show it. If you have the option between two apples and one is sour, the other is not automatically sweet, no matter how many apples are left. Women's wariness of men is a worldwide issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Why would western women choose to go to a country where they have less rights? I see these eastern people in America every day and they don't give up their culture here so it's very realistic of how they treat women in their culture. Those men are violent, at least in America there's a chance an officer will help a woman in danger. Over there they'll probably join her assault. Eastern men come with a lot of restrictions and their women don't really have rights like western women do. That is why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Eastern men come with a lot of restrictions and their women don't really have rights like western women do. That is why it's a downgrade. I've seen how eastern men treat their wives. He's always a 1st class citizen and she is below. She just accepts it because of the culture. I don't pity her because the women attack if you try to sympathize or help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…This post made me so angry. She's defending her husband in the comments and trying to "compromise". She says that divorce isn't an option so I guess she actually likes being abused? It was a waste of time so I didn't comment. It's sad to say, but the only way some women will leave is on the way to the hospital. Sometimes that needs to happen for her to come to her senses. It's best to stand on the sidelines and let her deal with her own problems so she can realize on her own. Otherwise she will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | I hate it when LVM approach me in publicI was in the grocery store a few days ago. I saw this guy who called me beautiful and I kept walking. He followed me while I was getting some brussel sprouts and he began reaching for the lettuce. Without even turning his head he said "You are beautiful can I have your number?" I pretended not to hear him and got in line. He got into the other line and checked out. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:28 AM |
| 51 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!Lol sometimes I am so petty. If I'd seen the post, I would have commented how it's ok because she can just masterbate to his male friends who have bigger dicks and who are more muscular. It's just a FANTASY. But part of my FDS journey is reigning in my snark when it is uncalled for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:21 PM |
| 30 | You ever get genuinely upset at the amount of effort guys put into themselves?Manipulation by self-depreciation. Run sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Greys Anatomy LVMTelevision has evolved from many troupes. One such is the "Women in fridge" troupe where a woman is "fridged" to motivate a male protagonist into action through the emotional manipulation of her death or rape. She simply freezes herself in time to motivate a main male character's journey. Originally used for superheroes, it is very common in a lot of movies. Especially in dramas where a woman will wait for a man to love her. Or accept whatever a man puts her through for a tiny hope he will marry… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 17 | How can you deal with celibacy & accept it?There's nothing a man's penis can do for me that a vibrator can't. I want a man who satisfies me beyond the sexual aspect so if he can't do that then I'm better on my own because anything else Is burden for me. As for friends, I've started talking to people less who are obviously not supportive or respectful of me. The loneliness is hard, but my resolve to respect myself is like a diamond and I cannot see myself ever going back to my old ways of accepting unfair treatment just to have friends. Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:39 AM |
| 43 | 99.9% of OLD profiles are like this.Casual, long term my foot 🙄. Make up your mind man because he's definitely fishing for everything in between and will claim "it's in my bio I already told you" when he wants it to end when he no longer benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 21 | Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lensesThank goodness low value men are low value for a reason. Most usually cannot maintain the charade for long unless they are genuine HVM. My question is what to do if they are good at faking for a long time? How will you know how to avoid the men who are long term pretenders and manipulaters? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 15 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …As a creative writer, his texting hurts me. I can't date someone who can't spell correctly or use proper grammar and punctuation, unless it has already been proven you can actually spell and are just using shorthand. It directly correlates to someone's level of intelligence as well as emotional development. Look it up like I do or just don't speak to me at all. Why are men so comfortable with being stupid and low effort? We all take the same education levels to a certain point. I always like to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:42 PM |
| 23 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Last week at the gym, my friend and I were on treadmills. This big buff guy comes in and as this woman in leggings was walking by, he legit stared at her butt for like 30 seconds as she walked past him out of the entrance. He pretended to get water from the water fountain but didn't drink or have a bottle. I stared him down as he walked past us and I guess he knew I saw him. Then he gets on the treadmill directly behind us. My friend is legally blind so she didn't see him. I knew he was looking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 80 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhI agree. He can afford it if he's using her $250,000 income as his second piggy bank. Her money is his and his money is his as the saying goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:06 AM |
| 63 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhI just got a comment deleted for a question in this same sub. I said "forcing someone to like your kink is wrong when the other party isn't into it, so we should shame others who insist on forcing their kinks out into the open onto those who don't want to see it. Keep to the kink places". I was deleted because I was "derailing the conversation". The question was "what things have become taboo that should not be?" or something line that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:05 AM |
| 67 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhIt's extremely sad that people think the cost of the ring is the problem. The price is not what matters here. The cost of the ring is just symbolic of the level of comittment to the relationship. People who are committed will invest more because they value the other person and think they are worth it. If you were able to afford a ps5 as a gift, would you get your best friend a cheap gift to celebrate their accomplishments from a dollar store? Would you get a total stranger a brand new car for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 86 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhYep. He doesn't see value in her besides what he can get her to do for him aka keep him happy and entertained while making his life easier. But he's willing to buy a $80,000 truck he doesn't need. Also an expensive boat. All for his entertainment. I guess the girlfriend isn't entertaining enough for him. If he could get away with giving her a pull tab as an engagement ring, I'd bet he'd do it. She needs to raise her self esteem, standards and dump him. It's not about the money (she makes more) b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 110 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhSame. Make him live in it like a dog. Some of these guys don't deserve to share the bed their women sleep in let alone the home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:30 PM |
| 32 | This entire Twitter thread had me shookLol the comment that said it's women's fault for staying when getting beaten by a man took me out. I suppose she puppet mastered his hand to slap her? Or the comment where the guy wanted his gf to have an abortion and when she refused, he beat her so badly her body force aborted and now has a 2% of ever having children again IF she has a special surgery to repair HIS damage. These comments are so sad I had to stop reading. It makes me lose faith that there are good men in the world who will care… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:28 PM |
| 41 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!I've taken a look at the comments. They all tell him "it's ok you're not a burden". Cooking isn't that hard. He can get a $40 crockpot and throw a bunch of veggies in, meat and potatoes. Basic stew. Put some basic spices in with a bit of salt and bam! But he's too lazy to to even that. It just solidifies my decision to never cook for a man not even my husband. If he can't cook for himself then the relationship is already done before its start and I'll move on to another man who is capable of bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:41 PM |
| 29 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!It's extremely sad that he sees nothing wrong with this and wants to mooch off people on the internet now that his wife dumped him. Sucking up the time and resources of the women in his life only to learn nothing from them in 40 years. I'm glad his ex-wife is finally free of her burdensome ex-husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 58 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!I feel drained from just reading the post. Men really are out here sucking women dry with no reciprocation. In 40 years he could not cook himself a decent meal or grocery shop? All he needs is a protein and vegetable, with a starch if he's feeling it and fruit for dessert. Google is wonderful for recipe ideas. I just cannot fathom how lazy and dependent these men are. Without women they'd starve I'm certain. Natural selection isn't doing its job fast enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:21 PM |
| -1 | Potent.I don't see how my routine would break you out? I focus on a cleanser and hydration as well as exfoliating at the minimum. If you have acne though, texture may hinder physical exfoliation since it's very abrasive which is why I prefer chemical exfoliants. They are slower but gentler and work better over time. It also reduces signs of aging or wrinkles since you aren't forcefully rubbing the skin. I always rub upwards since we fight gravity every day. As you should know, moisturizer will not do m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 38 | Potent.Amen to that. Men also need to put effort into their physical appearance. First impressions are everything. A guy approached me on the subway in front of a bunch of people today. He asked me for my number, saying he'd seen me pass by 3 times and I asked him why he asked me (although I'd been in the gym for the past 3 hours and had only walked to the train stop once and waited so how did I pass by him 3 times?) He said I looked good and wanted to "hang out" and "get to know me". I held nothing ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…I have never paid more than $5 for my brows. Call me cheap, but all they're doing is removing 10 hairs every couple of weeks. Otherwise I do it myself. If it's any more then the guy can pay if it's that big of a deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 101 | Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husbandAny chore you do for yourself to keep a clean and organized life is off limits until a man proves he is genuine and engaged to be married to you, and even then those responsibilities are to be shared equally. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, emotional labor must be reciprocated (preferably with you benefiting first from him to judge his emotional capacity so it doesn't turn into you being an unpaid therapist to his problems only) etc.... Paying for anything that doesn't benefit you is also a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farI have not used a hitachi. I see the suction vibrator as a foreplay device since it's really similar to oral. I just use a vibrator I got from Amazon, but I believe the hitachi is stronger. But go for it I got the satisfyer 1 from Adam and Eve but there are more advanced models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 372 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farI just bought myself a suction vibrator. 10/10 recommended. It doesn't get me THERE like the reviews but if a toy can simulate oral better than a man can I'm better off with a toy. Can you imagine a robotic creation being more reliable for sexual satisfaction than 95% of men? Men ought to be ashamed at their selfishness. They still have the audacity to become enraged women aren't laying down for painful unsatisfying sex when it's not worth it for women. Toy= 10/10. Men who've made me orgasm= 0/1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Don't feel guilty for choosing your own happiness over someone else's. It may feel wrong and selfish in the moment, but it's worth it in the end when you come out of the other side.I just feel like at the time I was not emotionally ready to be in a relationship but wanted to prove I was dateable. My mom always shamed me for not being boy crazy, she even forbade me from dating until I was 18. My friend encouraged me to break up with him at the time (although now I'm realizing she was on the rocks with her bf who is my cousin--she was abusive, they both were to each other, and now tells people he abused her without telling her part in it, which is a lie according to how she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 68 | Say It Louder For All The LVMs/NVMs & Scotes In The Back 🗣It elevates a pick me's sense of self worth to be chosen and to see themselves being treated well while her man treats other women like trash. Like a high school bully, they have to feel superior in some way. "He chose me over you, ha ha! I'm better!" . If they can be prized above another woman then they think they are part of the top percent of women who are unobtainable to other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Trust He SucksThank you. I just like to ask men questions about their own hypocrisy to remind myself why I remain single and focused on my own career and why I keep my standards high. One day they may see their double standard is causing women to turn away from men and marriage entrapment (that is what I believe modern day marriage is), but it's not likely. I don't have many, but the posts are in my history if you'd like to take a look. I plan on posting more in the future. I was vague on which sub it was as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 54 | Trust He SucksA few months ago I started an experiment on a male dominated sub which concluded yesterday. I asked "Do you believe women and men are impacted equally in the patriarchal world we live in? How are women treated worse than men?" I got two responses, summarized as "it's a trap, I'm not answering" and the other gave a legitimate answer, saying "In countries where a female is a ruler like England, there is less violence so maybe that is the key". I asked on the same male dominated sub "What are some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 14 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him.She did the correct thing divorcing him. He could have severely injured her. He was poisoning her on purpose. Yes it is poisoning. I have an egg intolerance and have similar symptoms to what she goes through with dairy. Eggs make me sick and vomit so I use egg replacements (Flaxseed for baking, Moong Daal when I want "eggs"). Although I am not egg free (I still eat pre packaged baked goods) I definitely feel the effects of eating eggs within 10 minutes of the first bite and I can't keep eggs dow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I agree as well. The cultural atmosphere of black people in other countries is much better and respectful. Idris Elba would be my ideal black male, either in terms of role models for young black men or as a romantic choice because he respects the women in his life, at least that is what is presented publicly. So many young African American males in America have it ingrained in them to take what they can from women without consideration. I belive that is a problem with all men, especially in Amer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 20 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I agree with everything you've said. It just frustrates me that women are held accountable for men's actions no matter the circumstances. But it also frustrates me when women stick it out with men who don't reciprocate. Societal pressure has so much to do with how we react and how our cultural backgrounds allow us to solve problems. I just feel if women are to be held accountable for so much then we cannot leave room for that man to come back when everything is already done and he reaps the bene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 42 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨It's so prevalent in media that black men are in need of a "strong woman" to help them through life. Especially a woman who is "ride or die" and doesn't complain or "stress him". A woman who let's him be the head of house and lead her even if he hasn't earned it. Because black men require recompense from not having recovered from being emasculated during slavery. Black men supposedly deserve pity sex or "a chance" because police officers gun them down, or their lives are "harder" due to skin col… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 34 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I'm talking about single mothers or mothers who have no other option but to raise their children alone. Not being a father isn't an excuse. The father can be dead or have abandoned his family and mom is left behind. That doesn't mean mom can just wait for a new man or do nothing and hope for the best. I don't think I was specific enough in my post, but I will edit it. Single mothers have a mindset of "not knowing how to raise men" but want good, respectful sons. African American women are often … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:52 PM |
| 114 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨I am so SICK of older women raising their sons without any skills and sending them off to us younger women to "take care of him" "teach him". That was YOUR job. A guy I went to middlep school with went to a high tech college, is intelligent but he is morbidly obese and a disgusting slob (won't wash his a**) and his own mother is surprised that any woman wants to date him, yet applauds that he has a girlfriend. Women need to take accountability and stop saying "only men can raise sons" if that's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Men will screw you out of money if they can get away with it.Thanks for the advice. I just had no hope of proving I worked there as I believe they trashed everything to do with me. It was only 2 days and I never got tax papers and I only submitted an employee information sheet that they had control of. I'll talk to a DoL rep although I think they can just say I'm lying and never worked there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 21 | He called me a princessYep you dogged a bullet. I rember a couple years ago when my friend (or so I thought) set me up in a blind date she and another friend went to high school with. They told me how great of a guy he was but he was just "misunderstood" and a "virgin like you". I wanted to be nice agreed to go out with him and both of my "friends" were there to introduce us and sat at a table nearby for the first 5 minutes. I sat down with him and 10 minutes in he asked me if I was really a virgin, if I wanted to see… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 108 | Another example of how men will only be decent to women they find attractiveSome of the guys in the comments are claiming "this happens in other situations too!" Like how your speech pattern determines how people perceive you as well and contributes to being helped as well. They're saying it's not just looks. Simply shows how far they will go to pretend women being treated differently depending on how we look (usually you're catered to if you're pretty) doesn't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with never being a first choice for girls?Are you sure it's your looks? 9/10 betting these women are seeing something in your personality that tells them that you aren't a safe option. You thinking it's your looks may be coming out as hostility or entitlement toward females time and energy. Are you demanding? Do you pick what food she has on a date and ignore her protests? Do you mansplain? Do you remain silent or at least supportive when she explains something instead of talking over her? These are all signs to women that you can be co… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Men will continue to suffer in silence as long as women prioritize confidence over emotional opennessI believe what a lot of men don't understand is women want reciprocity that most men are too selfish to give. Men expect women to be understanding at all times, but there is a double standard when it's time for him to reciprocate. Women don't want to deal with men's emotional issues because it feels like we are being used. If women are the "empathetic gender" then many men see it as an excuse to say that listening to other people's problems is a" woman thing" and gladly receive emotional labor. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 9 | If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rulesI definitely want to share this with my friend who is an overweight insecure woman and thinks the world of this guy in Russia who leads her on. But I know she will probably watch the first 30 seconds and reject it because she doesn't want to accept the fact that this happens and he is using her or the fact that she is overweight. He even talks about other women he wants to date with her AFTER she tells him it makes her uncomfortable. The reason she's uncomfortable is because he made it seem like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 20 | Thanks to this sub, I’m divorcing my extremely LVM husbandAny family and friends to help you move quickly in a matter of hours while he's at work? Also check the history of the cop. I saw a story about a cop who was secretly friends with a woman's abuser husband. The cop told the ex husband where his ex wife was hiding and covered for him when the husband went harassing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 302 | We absolutely are being bullied into having zero standardsI responded to a comment on a YouTube that said "I love when women take care of themselves..." to which I responded: "it would be nice if men did the same, women don't want to touch men who don't moisturize/shower, don't exfoliate or who don't shave at the very minimum". Some scrote responded to me that "it's women's fault for accepting these kinds of men. Men just do what we think attracts women. Women should speak up just like men do for preferences" 🤣 As if man stank has ever attracted a woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesWhenever my ex would tell me I was pretty, I'd say something like "I know, I exfoliate my skin/use this moisturizer" and he'd say "whoa, whoa, whoa" to me and "not be so full of myself" every time I didn't gush over the compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:12 PM |
| 31 | Never again!!!Even in my pick me phase, I wasn't traveling to a man. I had a guy 40 years old who I was sleeping with (stupid 19 year old brain, thanks for the emotional damage mom). I made him drive me to and from his house and we lived in different cities. I did not get ready until he was on the way and he waited outside while I got ready. He eventually got tired of driving to me so I blocked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:49 PM |
| -2 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthM z.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 72 | Working on Leveling up and I’m on my financial goals right now. This woman has been a huge help and I cannot express how great it is to see women reaching their goals and sharing their success secrets with other women. Share and grow together and one day we will rule the world;)This is why I will never tell my partner about any bank investments I have right now prior to meeting them and will never put money into joined accounts for funds I don't have 100% access to. Those funds will also be used for shared household expenses such as groceries and we both have to be putting in equal amounts based on income or I'm pulling out what I put in the moment I sense any funny business. A lot of older generation men in my family like to control the finances of their wives and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Have you ladies seen this? This gorgeous, married woman has been fighting her EX in court because he wants their embryos from the time they were in love, to be born.Noop no follow ups. I checked the post 2 weeks ago. It must have been a throwaway, but it was dead silent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Friendship struggles with a pick meI've never pushed any beliefs onto her. I don't even speak about FDS because it's a harsh reality some are not ready and isn't always the answer. I disagree diagaree about criticism. My mother criticized me all my life and it made me want to get away and prove I'm none of those things. But my mom gave me the wrong type of criticism. Criticism to improve is good sometimes but it depends on type. I just want her to find her own way to undo the damage her mother has done (we were both raised by sin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 14 | “fDS wOmEn ArE gOiNg To EnD uP SiNgLe AnD aLoNe” — Sounds pretty good to me if men like this are the other option!I don't want to make this a race issue but in my experience a lot of African American men have a very high (and hypocritical) standard for women. Most are raised to be the bread winners and show masculinity by dominating women. Any African American female I know had been told by an African American male that she's too "loud" or to let him "be the leader" and to accept what she can get because her darker skin or African features makes her unattractive. It was just something I noticed when the fir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 10 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.I remember my mother telling me in high school that I was "ugly" and how I was "slow witted" and "no one really likes you, they're just being nice". She'd often compare me to other children and "why can't you do that". Even now she makes comments on how others are progressing faster than me in life (driving and buying their own cars) and I have to "get on the ball". I told her I was doing the keto diet and weeks later she suggested over text about keto diet pills. She asked if I knew what they w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 11 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceCovid is still a thing. He physically assaulted you. There doesn't need to be lasting injury to be assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 20 | Feeling a lot of regret and sadness about how little self-respect I used to haveI can relate. I used to have so much of my self worth tied to how sexually appealing I was for men. Part of it came from how my mother treated me (single parent). I had low self esteem because of this and wanted to feel some sort of affection that my mother never showed me. That was only 3 years ago and i have come so far with my self worth and after moving out at 19 I promised I would never base my self worth on another person's opinion of me. It would be based on my accomplishments and how I c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 10 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceAs a person that will be entering into the professional media world very soon, I'd like to say this is a common tactic. "If it bleeds it leads" is a real thing. The media puts forward the most horrific or eye catching headline to get more views. Even if it isn't true, if they can make the headline and story more exaggerated then it's done. As long as enough truth is in there to cover the exaggerated parts, it's acceptable. Every piece of information we see today has been fabricated and edited by… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 182 | Blaming a literal child is easier than calling out a pedo. GrossReminds me of this question on quora where this 29 year old man asked what he should do about a 15 year old requesting sex and is it considered rape if something happens, implying he had no control. I was so mad I called him every name for a pedophile I could think of. It's disgusting how grown men want to blame a child for sexual advances when they know very well they put themselves in the situation to manipulate it to their benefit. He could have said no and told her parents before cutting con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 86 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsShe was also a personal trainer or employed at a gym and was in amazing shape. She snapped right back after the baby so he was probably bitter that no one could tell she'd been pregnant so he wanted to out her as a deadbeat. He didn't want her to move on and enjoy her life, he thought he could shame her for not sacrificing her life for a baby she never wanted to take care of but was forced to have. He wanted to back out of his part of the deal as soon as the child was born because then it would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 46 | Women are showing her/his side of the bed differences and they are disgusting. He looks like a homeless slob while her side is clean and organized. The anger in the comments from men is palpable 🤮🤮They believe it's a false representation of men. "Not all men" but it's too many to be a minority in my opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 55 | .Get that fluffy puppy since they can ward off men who aren't right, especially if it's female. I listened to a podcast where a woman gave away her dog because she didn't like her bf who she thought was perfect and HV because he essentially hid his real self until the engagement happened. Turns out he was abusing the dog when she wasn't there, but treated his male dog respectfully in private (even though he still abused both dogs). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:58 AM |
| 22 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I feel we should look at it from a different perspective. I highly doubt there is a man on this planet who's never looked at porn, either from curiosity or just to do so. That's a reality we have to accept. We cannot change their past. What we do have to look for (and have a right to demand or kick him to the curb) is a guy who sees the dehumanizing aspect of porn and refuses to watch of his own choice, not because you threaten to leave. In order for him to be with you, he must realize how awful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Yep. I no longer leave notes. It never worked. I also currently have 2 female roommates who do this as well. It was just me and one male roomate taking out the trash. Theres 6 of us in total (4 female 2 male) so it was just him and I taking out trash for 6 people. One female thinks taking out the trash is "too masculine". Well I guess you better grow a testy or two bc I will not be the house maid and she got angry because "she's a lady", but she certainly doesn't act like it trying to be queen o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 21 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Not an ex but the guy who tried to start an fwb with me (while his gf was living in the same house bc we're college students, who he claims they were on a break at the time) texted me Merry Christmas and I haven't responded 😂. They moved out in October and I have not heard from either until then. I'm not a holiday texter. Text me all year round or you're blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 44 | every timeSadly I saw a post where a guy asked AITA if his urine ended up on the floor of his gfs nice bathroom. He never picked it up as she always had to. She locked him out because when he peed it would get everywhere like a toddler and was angry he had to use the crappy bathroom. Might have been her asking is she AITA for locking him out but that was the story and it was disgusting he never saw anything wrong with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 18 | "Not all humans; get over it" -said no one ever to an abused cat/dog/petMy female friends female dog is the same way. The dog doesn't like her bf but he insists that the dog loves him more than her. But he never does anything for her and always has to be asked to take care of her then he wonders why the dog doesn't run to him or panics when she leaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 97 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointI'd have taken the ring and flicked it somewhere outside. Then he can crawl around to find that 50 cent vending machine ring. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 7 | No words.I agree. Remember all those celebrities who had their nudes leaked by the Apple cloud? Not even all the money and fame in the world will keep you safe. Already been proven. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:11 PM |
| 24 | Wow...Sounds like my male roomate. He had my other female roomate cooking for him; there would be entire pan of lasagna that was gone in a week by him and she got two pieces. Then that all stopped when he offered her $200 to fulfill his kink of rubbing her down with massage oil. I turned him down almost 7 months ago when I moved in (he made a move as soon as I'd settled in) and now I think he's circling back because now we are speaking again when we see each other in the kitchen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 3 | I really think they are losing there minds. THE F***ING AUDACITY.Men think we are so stupid. He says he doesn't want a hookup but then says he wants something without exculsitivity? He thought he could twist the words and she'd fall for it! Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 17 | My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣Trust me I know I've receive the messages before and it doesn't even phase me. It's so funny that they don't have the nerve to say something that can be traced back to them. Cowards 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 46 | Just another manipulation tactic!Just told my male roommate this a couple weeks ago how he wasn't attractive enough for me to think of him in that way. He was on break with his gf at the time (who also is my roommate blah 🤮). Fast forward to now and he no longer offers to take me places, when we're both in the kitchen he doesn't speak to me like he used to (no more friendliness its more straightforward and courteous now with no friendly banter). He swore up bad down me turning down his offer for "casual non comittal sex" wouldn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Another oneI always say if that's their philosophy then I'm bringing measuring tape so "I'm not tricked" either. It can go for the height or their penis idc 🤣 men are so offended when k say that as if they didn't just say the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Just had an email alert from the sex offenders registry. Our nice, friendly, attractive new neighbor? Rapist. ALWAYS make sure you have the information to keep yourself safe, and stay aware.How do I sign up for the registry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 0 | 👋👋Lmao I'm in this situation right now. I have a male and felale) female roommate who are dating and the guy hit on me and I shut him down immediately. Now I'm debating telling his gf to keep the peace because he said they were on a "break" so starting something "casual and non serious with me is fine. Also don't tell my gf because she goes out to do stuff too and I wouldn't want to know about her doing stuff. "y mom says don't tell her and everyone else but I don't feel right sitting back seeing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 12 | My roommate is on a break wiith his gf and wants me as a rebound. Plot twist, we all live together with our 3 other roommates.Thanks for the advice. I'm always cautious. They're actually moving in together in a few weeks or so he says. I plan to move in a year or so and am saving as much as possible to make sure I can remain independent and on my own without needing a roommate to keep me afloat. My next roommate will be a close friend with a similar mentality if I do decide to accept a roommate, not strangers. I don't see why they'd want to keep their finances tied together while this is going on but it's her choice. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:55 PM |
| 17 | My roommate is on a break wiith his gf and wants me as a rebound. Plot twist, we all live together with our 3 other roommates.Definitely will be! Either on my own or with my female bff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 11 | Not mine, but what on earth?Lol I want to try it in person like I'm the narrator of Willy Wonka if the situation comes up. I imagine the confusion gives me enough time to run for it if he's handsy or violent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 128 | Boyfriend shamed girlfriend for sleeping in the same bed as her mom on a trip he wasn’t even invited too. This is what happens when men watch too much porn...THE AUDACITY 🤢Lmao if my future significant other ever told me he/she expected my MOTHER, the woman who BIRTHED me out of her body to sleep on a couch when HER BED is in the same house I'd be single before the day was out and they'd be kicked out of the vacation. The disrespect was so real with the implications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Worst thing I’ve read all day...I'm dead. He tried to manipulate her in the texts I would never lend a man money ever again. Bought a guy a pack of beer once for $20 🤡🤡 and he tried to give me $20 worth of nyquil when I told him I was sick (probably from his own house). Didn't even ask him to do that and then he ignored me when I asked for my cash back. Cut him off and haven't spoken to him in months. Don't even know why I did any of that but I'll bet it took me one experience to learn. Never again 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.Lol I would have let the phone drop and said "oops sorry it was an accident". Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Back when I was using OLD I had this happen....the audacity is astounding!I had this happen to me once. Only he just ghosted me without a warning message. After a month he messaged me again and I basically said "oh I see those other women you ghosted me for rejected you and now you're crawling back? No thanks!". He never replied after that. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:44 AM |
| 5 | I feel like an A**holeAt this point there is nothing you can do on your own. He sees you're not really strong enough to move him and laughs in your face each time you try. He is staying in your house by force and taking away from you in every aspect of your life. You my have to go to work early or instead call off to call the police if it is your house. Have him escorted out. Use any means necessary. He is using any means necessary on his end to stay. Or if he goes out for at least half an hour change all the locks a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 33 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?I went on a blind date my friends set me up on. It was one of the worst decisions of my life and it damaged my trust in the friendship. We were in our sophomore year of college at the time and we all decided to go on a date so they set me up with one of their friends from high school. We went to a Friday's and every 5 minutes he'd talk about having sex with me and how his dick was so big. I was a virgin and he'd found out from my friends and kept telling me he'd "be gentle the first time" becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | This girl is crying on tik tok after being blackmailed by a LVM 😞🥺Wow that's sick. I got a dick pic on snap with a "make me cum" caption. I sent a dick pick back of the biggest one I could find, called him a bitch and blocked his ass. Funny thing was I didn't even know him and this was my first time logging into snap in a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Ladies: Do you tell men you’re in a relationship with about beauty treatments you do?I think men should be aware but not every time you get something done. It should be something educational that men need to understand so their views on beauty won't become distorted. They are easily led to believe that these beauty treatments are "natural" and expect every woman to look like they are a supermodel with botox or something as simple as a lash extension. Men need to realize what women look like naturally instead of being caught up in a fantasy and forcing every woman they're with to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 4 | In which depraved men of Reddit openly admit to being pornsick pedosI had to Google what guro was with a VPN and now I'm terrified and disgusted 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 23 | Sometimes I unmatch. Sometimes I get sassy.At first I read "I'm a transplant from another planet" and I thought it had an "alien looking for love" theme. It's finals week I need sleep 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:53 PM |
| 13 | The LVM in my life is... my older brotherBrother or not you have to put yourself first. He isn't going to change because he doesn't believe he's doing anything wrong, as is a very common trait I've seen with men. You've probably already explained this to him, but do so again so you can keep current screenshots in case your other family turns against you for cutting contact with him. Treat him with indifference. Tell him if he won't care about your problems why should you take an interest in his and not to come to you with any problems.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Thank you I had no idea I had assumed it was too rough of a grit which is why I stopped using it. I'll have to stop suggesting it thanks for the info! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020I use it every day, I feel 2x a day might be too much until I adjust fully so I use it once a day. So far my skin has not become dry or chapped. But it has only been a week since I started. The results were almost immediate the next morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020I have oily skin as well. I tend to stay away from physical scrubs but I use the ordinarys aha Chem exfoliation serum 2x a week no more than 3. For homemade scrubs I used to use baking soda in my cleanser or anything that was dissolveable like sugar with honey. Idk about salt seems like it would be dehydrating. I've just started using an apple cider vinegar/water toner. I use braggs organic original and purified water. Surprisingly it does not strip my skin it's normalized some of my excessively… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 31 | I have no words.I love how he didn't even have the balls to ask for nudes. Like he knew it was inappropriate and still had the nerve but not enough to come right out and say it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Will I ever have an orgasm with a man?I feel the exact same. I'm about to turn 21 and have already decided I'm celibate from men. I will not have sex until he proves himself and even then I'm not going to get attached. My mom always told me a man has to love you more than you love him for it to last. I just can't do non emotional sex it's so awkward and uncomfortable to know they don't even care about you only if they orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:21 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else ever have trouble with an extremely persistent guy?There was one guy who I explicitly told that I had no interest or attraction at all and he still persisted saying that I was "young and he can teach me". I was 20 he was 28. I continued to tell him the same and that his attempts were actually making me even more turned off. It didn't help that I worked with him and we had the same lunch break (I think he saw what time I wrote for mine and changed his to match). Then he called all the women in his life bit**es for "leading him on" and I had a fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Woman (19F) is dumped by her BF (19), who "wanted space to figure out if he loved her". She immediately texts & kisses another guy 2 days later. BF comes crawling back, is desperate to "get the love of his life back". LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I love how in the comments for the original question, some people suggest he not speak to her and he says now that he isn't going to speak to her until she comes crawling back. 😂😂 Ridiculous. He lost her she deserves better than to be strung along. He only wanted her when he saw she wasn't mourning over him and had options. He didn't show her he was stable to begin with so she moved on ASAP as she should and now he's mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:09 PM |
| 18 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!I would have followed the ring tone and threatened to call the police if they tried to stop me from retrieving my phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Giving you his number instead of asking for yoursThis is why I advocate for Google voice. It's a phone number that connects to your own and is free and can be changed in an instant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 22 | I need to memorize thisThis is why I date myself. It's very hard to top what I provide for myself when I'm all I need. Another person is just supposed to be an enhancement in my quality of life of what I csnt provide for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Listen up Scrotes! This is How Men THINK rape happens, vs how it ACTUALLY happens!This is why I use Google voice most of the time. It's a phone number that connects to yours. Whatever goes to that number also goes to your real number and changing the google number only takes 10 seconds. It does run the risk of whoever getting the number next getting your problem but I've never had to change my number so far and only give the real one to people I trust. I also always take an uber or have a emergency number on speed dial if needed but I always carry pepper spray or another prot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 15 | Listen up Scrotes! This is How Men THINK rape happens, vs how it ACTUALLY happens!I was answering a question and young woman asked if she was raped when she went over a guy's house and she told him about a past trauma and he used it to manipulate her and ask for sex. She said no repeatedly and then the final time said yes to just get it over with. This guy answered that she wasn't raped because she said yes eventually and I told him that multiple no's with a then a forced yes does not mean a real yes. He had the nerve to tell me I was brainwashed (he actually said I was drink… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 04:44 PM |
| 35 | She speaks the truth. 😂😭Lol there's a way around that too. Guys will just post it as private or to specific people to fool you. I'd tell him on our 65th anniversary 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Your sexual history is YOUR business.I made that mistake with my ex. I broke up with him a year prior. He was just so whiny and cried when I broke it off. I'm not trying to be cruel here it was just what happened. Fast forward a year later and he's moved back to the city and wants to be friends. I accepted this as I had no problems and he had a GF now. I texted this to him asking if his current GF was alright with him being friends with an ex and he said yes of course. This was just for my protection as I didn't want him to say I l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you become a better woman?I would have gone to HR but I was still in training at the time and he was such a likeable person and he never did anything at work so I figured it wasn't worth it plus he got fired a month into the job anyway. But now I know I won't tolerate it and it hasn't happened again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Don’t apologize unless it was actually your faultI used to be this way. Then my friend pointed it out to me and I took it upon myself to change. Whenever I got the urge to apologize, I stopped myself. It made me think about why I should be apologizing. Why should I say SORRY for doing something that I like? I took on a very selfish way of thinking and began to really watch and see how others never apologized TO ME so, why should I? Now I only say it if the situation calls for it. I stopped saying sorry for the little things. It's taken me abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 12 | Why peel a potatoThis fuck boi I was seeing legit told me "I don't mind the hair on your legs. I'm not insecure." and I just had to look at him. Like I don't mind it either that's why it's there. 🤣🤣 I hate people who try to manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Bye 👋🏼I just got out of a situation like that. I used to go to his house when he wanted to hang out. Whenever I'd invite him over he woukd agree. Then when the time came he would ask if I wanted to hang at his place. Out of the 7 times we hung out he only came over to mine once. This all went on for 2 months before I realized wtf was I doing. I told him I wanted more from this "friendship" or I was done and I told him I didn't care if he texted me if he just wanted sex bc he wasn't a big focus in my l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:56 PM |
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