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You asked your question in the first half of your post and answered it yourself in the second. I myself love to go to the woods/ be isolated and would likely invite my future Bf despite going with an ex but I’d likely switch up a location. Does he love weekend trips to the woods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:41 PM
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That’s what I though too, Every six months they should publish a common slang list so us aging ladies can keep up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:18 PM
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I almost want to ask if we live in the same city. Those dudes are nuts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:41 PM
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I’m probably late to the party but what happened to the chat room? Several times I’ve wanted to hop in there for some random advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:57 AM
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Would that be enough? I’d be like 100? What about the other 5 days?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:18 AM
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If you listen in her audio she says “ he’s always saying I can’t do this, I don’t know, he’s such a downer.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:18 PM
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The feeling you’re describing is resentment. Married women want me to act like their husbands wives. They resent my ability to go, to do and to speak. For them I exercise compassion but gently say “ you’re on your own sister.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:11 PM
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Oh like when I asked my bf if i embarrass him and he shrugged but lovingly said “you used to.” Like I or he had grown out of it. Spoiler, I embarrassed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:49 PM
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If he has eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:33 PM
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That’s her, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:12 PM
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Pleas respect “us” even though I do not respect us. Thx like and subscribe. Poor baby she looks so sad. I predict a full and successful recovery. She’s beautiful and silly and young yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:12 PM
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My roommate is a cool girl, it’s frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:31 PM
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My ex boyfriend would notoriously make plans the day of some special benchmark I was approaching. He’d forget my last day on projects and recently told me my math grade could be better. <sent from the bedroom he lives in.. in the house his sister bought.. that he shared with his mommy. I’m fucking honor roll compared to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:05 PM
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I’m always In my head if that’s what you mean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:13 AM
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Oh I should have clarified, this was not my son even though he very much behaved like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:09 PM
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Ok but have you ever slid your man your credit card before the check comes so he can look like he paid without him asking? Not that I did… but my friend.. Anne did It
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:57 PM
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Ahhh did we date the same guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:29 PM
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There it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:21 PM
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Right? What’s that stupid little emoji with the face and the two index fingers pointing together with sorry eyes. That’s this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:34 PM
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That is all, ok bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:31 AM
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But then how could he gauge her response to such an idea?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:22 AM
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“ are you a gold digger?” he texts from his childhood bedroom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:05 PM
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This applies to women besties of my past as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:30 PM
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Just glad someone else remembers the song 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:54 PM
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🎶 I remind him of his jeep ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:31 PM
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Very true. Also what kind of woman is mom? I realized too late that my ex’s mother was a completely dependent and non self sufficient person, her husband was an abusive drug user and alcoholic, but he had a decent job so he was The King, so when my boyfriend had a shitty job and a heart beat he thought he was shooting the moon but he wanted a woman like his mother. A woman with a job and the audacity to look nice and work hard is just not acceptable, can’t outshine mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:54 PM
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Adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:35 PM
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Projection? Absolutely. If they are so concerned why don’t they try to get us help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:41 PM
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You monster!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:03 PM
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Crazy how my symptoms left when I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:13 PM
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Mine diagnosed me with BPD over face time. Have at him, ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:34 PM
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I have experienced some of this with my own brother and now, as an adult watching her, it’s a front. She will never admit it but she doesn’t enforce the boundary because it requires more thought and effort. Female children usually take to this better as has been covered in lots of different topics, the males respond to it just as well, but parents, sometimes moms, shy away bc it’s too hard to enforce your very own boundary on the child. My friend said she feels shame or wrong for disciplining he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:41 PM
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My friend has two sons and no is almost completely optional. They touch and break and take and say whatever they want and suffer no consequences. She is an abuse survivor and does not see the risk here. They almost actively fight against boundaries and she feels proud they have such agency. There’s a middle ground, hold your children accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:31 PM
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This is good in expressing your feelings as well, the just is like an attempted minus sign for the impact we anticipate. Just make the impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:49 AM
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I actually just started working for a firm and almost everyone uses emojis and exclamation points it’s making me have a hard time deciding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:48 AM
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Ooh tapas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:57 PM
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Also when they allow you to struggle. My bf would see me struggling to carry something or dropping the things in my hand, or I’d be stuck trying to move something and he’d just look at me. Like mfer help me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:55 AM
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“Needed to hear this today”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:50 AM
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I had thoughts along the same lines of it being much easier to make an example out of her than the countless wealthy white Wall Street men doing the real dirty work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:06 PM
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Unless you consider that she owned her fraud and served her time without bucking back. She committed a crime, served and is seemingly rehabilitated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:16 PM
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Who was arguing with you about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:18 PM
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No it means I am highly capable. The patriarchy needs some work. Again, I wasn’t the one complaining about it, I chose to adapt and get on board. Success is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:59 PM
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I’m absolutely thriving from this system I’m not mad at all lol. I don’t struggle to feel like I can hack it in a male dominated society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:47 PM
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Lol just say you’re mad you can’t cut it and go. Is the system working if you’re mad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:48 PM
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That was never a talking point of mine so why would I create a counterpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:03 PM
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It literally doesn’t take effort to pay for a meal. It takes money. if you want to be appreciated that’s a different conversation. You should buy the meal because you want to buy it/ want that person to enjoy it and in exchange you share their company and get to know them. It’s an endearing and very human gesture. I am also willing to bet it’s not really that much effort to earn the ~30 it costs to go on a decent date considering or assuming you already have to go to work since you need money an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:25 AM
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Ok but paying for a meal isn’t effort, just wanted to clarify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:00 AM
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What do you call evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:53 AM
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That’s a system that men designed and perpetuated. Also many an affective matriarchal society. Depends on how you measure efficacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:51 AM
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Paying = \ = effort
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:42 AM
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In other words the stakes are higher for what women require of men on a moral/ social and economical level because the means of survival are accessible to women now, too. In the past women would accept things they wouldn’t today bc having a man was a means to an end. Amazing the amount of agency you develop when your ability to provide for yourself is realized, just like men strived for the hottest and most compliant, women are tailoring their preferences at a higher standard since we have the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:40 AM
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He says he’s 6” in girth but is using a Pringle’s can as a reference.. I think the Pringle’s can is only 3” in circumference Is dude using metric
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:23 PM
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Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:00 PM
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Just answer the basics, my favorite color is blue, I sleep nightly and need food to live. WBU?😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:19 PM
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It’s kind of cute there’s a beat that drops and they’ll cringe a few times, seems like a good fit :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:17 AM
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Have you seen the tik tok trend with ladies “cringing remembering the BS be put me through”, that seems like some PickMeTsd for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:59 AM
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Its ok once you’re single again you will start to age in reverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:10 PM
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I have a mouth and require food to live. I’m worthy of the dinner, Gary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:52 AM
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You know what, sometimes I don’t even think it’s to justify deserving it I think it’s just to make the sex nicer. Like hey! I’m not just trying to fucc u, I bought you nuggets as well, I’m decent! Please fucc me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:49 AM
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I have literally never met a man who ever even mentioned empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:30 PM
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Poor Nicole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:17 PM
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They exactly want a mother and not one that provides any guidance or input. Teet only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:22 PM
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My ex at age 35 “challenge accepted“
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:21 PM
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Absolutely! I used to get dressed and put on makeup for my boyfriend to get home and he would legitimately find my dog and start going on about how cute she was and ignore me. Like he would actually find the dog in the room And make a face or exclaim how cute she was while I’m standing there with straight hair and fresh makeup/ sexy clothes. it has been FUN undoing this mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:56 PM
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Yes! As if we can’t see the big ass baby, you have a kid dude! Own it, use both hands like you do on them apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:06 PM
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Just my calendar app on my phone,If you go like you’re making an event and scroll all the way to the bottom there should be a small section for notes, otherwise I just place it on the day of the calendar like a doctors appointment or anything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:13 PM
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I made notes on my calendar to track my Mood and started adding his behavior and his name so when I search my calendar lots of notes about what was going on popped up ex acting distant November 10, “my mood is low and I can’t think clearly” would be the following entry. When I see them in list form it’s pretty sad, even worse when you start quoting his awful texts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:18 PM
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Mmm but I’m still accepting payment ookkaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:03 AM
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They’ll say you’re “full of yourself”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:09 PM
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I was gonna say, pretty sure my ex “changed” like every fucking week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:25 PM
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I think all men can change, I think the Catalyst is less the woman than it is an overall cost analysis. If he changes, he will change only when that change provides a benefit greater than the loss of the effort it takes to make the change. That could be you, that could be a major car accident or family trauma. I personally find it a little self righteous to assume I’m so shit hot a man would just be motivated to do a 180 for me. Further, isn’t our premise not to entertain men on the hope of said…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:24 PM
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Thanks for the pat on the back. I swear every time you post they line up so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:14 AM
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Fawning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:55 AM
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I literally got the grandma card like two days ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:08 AM
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Who’s gonna tell her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:24 PM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:26 PM
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And the maintenance. Maybe I’m lazy or low key a slob but there is so much prep work involved in sex. Being shaved, clean, presentable, sexy. I happen to feel really cute and beautiful hairy and dressed down and I hate that I have to morph into sex woman sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:56 PM
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Wild you just sum up my childhood like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:22 AM
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Wild you just sum up my childhood like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:22 AM
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I think this is trying to say that women, woopsie! Fall in love with men who use feminism as a reason to expect them to split the bill or not get treated like anything special. The angle from men being that If you want equality then why would get treated like a special being because you’re a woman. Dude tried to be deep and went too far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:23 PM
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This really made me go “wheeew” audibly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:27 PM
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I still feel guilty and like I caused and deserved it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:00 AM
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Unresolved childhood trauma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:26 AM
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I’m in the same boat as you! I just choose to believe that I can’t predict the future and if I’m supposed to be with a good man he’ll come into my life eventually. I’m also rogue and in my thirties and I just cut allll the ties to start over. Low key terrified! But my ex’s vision was so narrow and evidence shows I am effective and desirable so I’m just trying to practice patience and not trying to manage everything right now. I’ve never been one to go with the flow but I’m trying it on for size.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:41 PM
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And it’s never just in this department they are being deceitful. I realized too late that my ex would rather do anything than take responsibility for his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:37 PM
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I am her, sis. Just got out of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:01 PM
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I’m pretty sure I was just being used to try to make his ex jealous and when her situation became permanent he just couldn’t cut the chord and thought I didn’t have the nerve to. Crazy makes me pretty courageous. I cut all communication too but I’m sure I was already filtered on his social media. He was completely sneaky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:21 PM
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I’m the crazy ex. He did a magnificent job I acted out everywhere. I have no proof but I’m certain this dude was cheating on me and using me the entire time. I think there were periods where he experienced guilt and actually did care for me but if I stepped on his toes at some unbeknownst time I’d end up paying for it. Had to dump my entire life and start over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:04 PM
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