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AnnieSchueler/r/MensRights26/01/13 05:24 PM
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Precisely.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 06:20 PM
2

I, as a woman, agree with her except for the 'short end of the stick throughout history' bit. I think the sticks are equally long, the inequality is evenly spread over different areas.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:54 PM
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You know why some women actually do earn less in the same position than their male coworkers? Because they don't ask for a raise. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:50 PM
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My boyfriend has.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:42 PM
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I was just about to say that. I get why he feels this way, but fighting fire with fire will never lead to anything other than a charred mess. There are female MRA (like me). That's a good starting point. If male and female MRAs can organise themselves effectively, THEN we can show those men hating bitches how far off the track they are. And just to be clear, I'm not trying to say you guys need female MRAs to save you. Not at all. I'm just trying to show that gender blaming either way won't help.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 11:19 AM
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So how does someone you'd expect to be your common feminist look like?
/r/MensRights07/02/13 11:08 AM
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That's what I guessed. Try West Cork. Different planet altogether.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 07:04 PM
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Where in Ireland though?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:51 PM
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Yes, I get the concept. I was just wondering how and when we made the leap here.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:19 PM
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How did we get to the point where someone might lose their job?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:19 PM
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Not all men do. Not all women do.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:26 PM
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Damn right you are.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 03:02 PM
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It should be. And I do the same. But I know a lot of women who take serious offence if any male doesn't hold the door for them, even if he actually has to wait for them to reach the door. It's madness.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 02:51 PM
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The Irish. ;)
/r/MensRights06/02/13 02:11 PM
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It sure is! Thanks! ;)
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:39 AM
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I don't think so. If anything it would make me more self conscious sometimes. No, I really don't think the age difference is a factor here. It's a personality thing. Like, I would pick being single over being with someone who doesn't get the concept of equality. I'm happy I found someone, who does and also happens to possess a fuckton of other great characteristics. But he could just as well have been older than me.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:28 AM
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He's 27 and I'm 33.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:18 AM
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My boyfriend and I treat each others as equals, yes. And we hold the door for each other (whoever is closer opens it and holds it for the other). We also both casually curse whenever we feel like it. Why would I require special treatment?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 09:59 AM
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LOL. Like an equal, not like some helpless frail creature that needs doors opened for her or people feel they can't speak their mind in front of ('Watch your language, there are ladies in the room!") So fucking what? ;)
/r/MensRights06/02/13 09:53 AM
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Being treated like a lady pisses me off, too. Pretty much for the same reasons it would piss off you. :D
/r/MensRights06/02/13 09:12 AM
0

In not trying to minimise the effect a false accusation has, but take lasts a month??? It's been years and trust me, it's not over. PTSD is really not fun. Any idea how many rape victims commit suicide? Any idea how many rape victims are raped again later? And trust me, there's stigma. It's a different one, but it's there.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 08:42 AM
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Okay, I guess it might be geographical. I'm not the US, and here false accusations are taken seriously and prosecuted.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 10:32 PM
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I don't oppose his decision to stay away from women. I merely tried to explain that it's the same as women assuming every man is out to rape them. I says a number of times that I understand it though. It's his second comment that's uncalled for, don't you think?
/r/MensRights05/02/13 10:21 PM
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Equality. This is great.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 10:18 PM
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That's awesome. Are there falsely accused women? This is a serious question. I've never encountered it.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 09:48 PM
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:)
/r/MensRights05/02/13 09:25 PM
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I think it's pretty obvious who's feelings end sanity here. I get it, you're pissed off. But if you hop on the 'hate all women' train, how are you any different from those hardcore men hating feminists who created these grave injustices in the first place? Hint: not at all.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 09:21 PM
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I wish it was different, but to be honest I can't blame you. At the same time, I manage to not walk around thinking every man is a potential rapist.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:09 PM
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I'm a woman, I have feelings, I still manage to stick to the truth. I hate women who make false accusation more than anything under the sun. You see, they obviously potentially destroy a man's life with their actions. No argument. That's despicable. But they are a problem for women, too. They make it a hell of a lot harder for women (and men) who really were raped (by men or women) to be taken seriously. You know, like reporting rape isn't hard enough as it is. My bf was falsely accused as a tee…
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:49 PM
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No need for generalisations. I'm a woman and I'm as outraged as you are.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:27 PM
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I can't even begin to fathom how many things must be wrong with this woman. Honestly, at this moment in time I feel ashamed for being female. This is, by far, the most disturbing crock of shite I ever read. EVER.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 07:07 PM
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I disagree.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 01:14 PM
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I believe so. If I don't unlock my door and someone trespasses it's still the criminal to blame, not me. If I'm raped (and I was) its the rapists fault, not mine. Your logic almost renders criminals as victims of temptation. There is so much wrong with this.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 12:50 PM
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You don't? That's ... scary.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 12:29 PM
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You're still engaging in picture book victim blaming.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 12:10 PM
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That's the problem with feminism today. They have long reached their (previously justified) goals. But they refuse to acknowledge this and instead continue pretending they are still fighting the good fight. What they are really doing is a perversion of what they set out to achieve, i.e. replacing one inequality with the opposite inequality. I am a sociologist (female) and the majority of other females in my department are feminists. So they walk around saying how excluded they are and how they h…
/r/MensRights01/02/13 10:08 AM
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My point is that if someone wants to rape (and there is probably not a lot of 'I'm gonna rape precisely this person at this particular time today' going on with stranger rape), they'll rape. Doesn't matter if the victim is running around naked or wearing a duffle coat, if the victim is a stranger, their friend, their wife; sober or drunk, passed out or not... Non of this truly matters. Rapists will try to rape. There surely is the instance of picking one potential victim over another because the…
/r/MensRights01/02/13 09:27 AM
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Actually, (and I too only learned this recently) apparently the vast majority of rapes fall into the category of acquaintance or marital rape.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 09:27 PM
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Not saying you're wrong, just poking a bit: what if you're raped by someone you do know and trust?
/r/MensRights31/01/13 08:33 PM
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Bit of Irish input: I never consulted a lawyer, but when my ex husband moved out we started splitting the mortgage payment and I pay all the bills etc. alone, since I'm the one actually living in the house. Other than his share of the mortgage he doesn't pay any maintenance either. Not sure how this works when kids are involved. I don't think she's entitled to you paying for everything though, under Irish law I mean. But again, I never consulted a lawyer. I think you could rightfully move in aga…
/r/MensRights30/01/13 09:37 PM
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Ya, it's insane. This shameful collection of gendered attitudes is truly disgusting. Well, I guess today we learned you'd at least be positively welcome in my (future) rape survivor group. Except I'm more the one-on-one counselling kinda gal.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 10:45 PM
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Gladly there are women concerned with true justice and equality as well.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 09:49 PM
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You're free to call me sister, brother. :)
/r/MensRights26/01/13 07:35 PM
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Hells no! I'm an equalist, but definitely not a feminist. In all honesty, these two positions couldn't be further apart.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 02:42 PM
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You're fighting the mistakes feminism made (and they are plentiful) by making the same mistakes in reverse.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 10:20 PM
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Women. Which? Non of the women I'd voluntarily communicate with. If someone calls Hitler a prophet, that doesn't mean we should call Mussolini a saint. It just means someone was full of shit.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 05:41 PM
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While I agree kicking a man in the balls is assault and bad and a despicable thing to do, it's certainly not rape.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 11:04 AM
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Why is it necessary to say this? Why blame it on the one who's cheated on? Isn't the better, fairer response 'yes, man cheat for all those reasons. And so do women.'
/r/MensRights24/01/13 12:07 AM
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It's rape in most countries by now.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 09:49 AM
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Wow, that's messed up. I'm sorry this happened to you.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:25 PM
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As a (technically German) woman I'm gonna say: drunk sex is shit. Jawohl.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:37 PM
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She (the one in the Facebook discussion) says 'he', because the person she got freaked out about is a guy. And if anyone gave the whole thing a racist spin it was the poster himself. She pointed out that whether the guy is black or white, she'll be worrying about rape equally. That's not racist (and not sexist either).
/r/MensRights20/01/13 06:08 PM
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See? :)
/r/MensRights20/01/13 04:47 PM
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I was referring to the Facebook thing above, in which the person in question clearly was male. Don't you worry your pretty little head; I frequently point out that women can and do rape as well. It was just clearly defined in this particular case.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 01:32 PM
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It's a mindset, not a collection of parchments.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:48 PM
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Good for you?
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:26 PM
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As a matter of fact I found dating fellow sociologists works out best for me. But if your career is how you describe it (unless we're talking about writing manuals), I would consider you academia, with or without specific university affiliation.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:03 PM
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LOL, good one.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:01 PM
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I like your long term solution there.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 11:10 AM
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And don't forget a lot if women don't report either.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:38 AM
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I agree with everything you said, except for the last bit. I learned in countless discussions that it is indeed offensive for men. Yet, the fear (as you rightly said) is justified. It's a dilemma. I personally am running out if ideas how to solve it.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:32 AM
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No, her point is that the fact he's black doesn't have anything to do with the fear she was feeling.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:28 AM
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There's fearing the possibility of being raped and there's assuming to be raped. They aren't the same.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:15 AM
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A situation like this has scary elements. Wouldn't go as far as calling him a creeper. I also think situations like this can be just as unnerving for men. I don't want to start weighing fear of mugging/attack and fear of rape against each other. I don't think that would get us anywhere. I realise this fear women feel is sexist in a way. I realise this is upsetting. I have discussed this with my boyfriend recently. At the same time I personally don't know any woman who hasn't been subjected to so…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:11 AM
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I've tried to explain it more than once now, haven't I?
/r/MensRights20/01/13 09:55 AM
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You're still clearly missing the point.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 01:05 PM
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Read my shizzle again. I'm talking about a specific type of education that turns out to be crucial for me (and not everyone; me and some others) to illustrate that certain ideas of compatibility aren't stupid or arrogant or shallow, but make sense if you want a lasting relationship.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 09:33 AM
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You're not getting my point. It's not about career prospect, it's not about being able to hold a conversation. It's about live in academia. I've been with non-academics before. The no-education-great career kind, the no-career-well read kind... They are all good people, and I still think highly of them. I don't regret having been with them either. But i since have learned that a life together wouldn't work. My career consists mostly of reading, thinking and writing. And I need an SO who gets tha…
/r/MensRights19/01/13 09:30 AM
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I didn't say intelligence, did I? I know plenty if intelligent people without degrees. I said education; more precisely academia. Meaning staying in academia after the degree. Peculiar bunch we are, so most of us prefer to socialise/couple up/breed among ourselves. Is that so bad?
/r/MensRights18/01/13 11:54 PM
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I don't care about the economic bit at all. I care about education though. I'm an academic and don't see what I would talk about all day with someone who isn't. I don't think this makes me shallow. I think it's a particular type of men that readily married down, not the majority. It's the type that doesn't rate equality between the partners quite as highly. The men in my circle of friends date women of equal educational background. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 08:41 PM
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This is a load of crap. Why should a woman be 100% responsible for a child? She's only 50% responsible for the conception (assuming consent).
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:56 PM
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Because she told me so.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:38 PM
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Women have ultimate control over reproduction? Last time the condom broke I had no more or less control over this than my boyfriend. And for the record: I don't want to procreate, but if I happen to accidentally get pregnant, I'd rather "pay for it" for 2 decades than having an abortion. The latter is a price to pay on a different level, and it goes beyond the cost of the abortion and the physical pain.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:25 PM
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It's terrible.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:26 PM
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Doesn't the exchange with similar minded people help you?
/r/MensRights17/01/13 09:04 PM
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My SO is incredibly wonderful. He deserves everything good in this world. Before I met him I considered myself 'done with this love bullshit'. So there you go.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:51 PM
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I'm sorry. This must be really hard on you. And no state should keep fathers away from their children. This shit drives me insane.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:29 PM
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:D I don't feel like I need a piece of paper stating we love each other. I already know that. But if he decides he'd like it in writing, I'd be all over it.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:23 PM
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Ha! I think it's cool. I'm divorced and as far as getting married again is concerned I can take it or leave it. But if my amazing, amazing man had walked into my life before I got all disillusioned and cynical, I'd have proposed the crap out of him.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 08:05 PM
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Liking shoes and boys doesn't necessarily make her a potential gold digger. Don't give up on her just yet.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:58 PM
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Sorry to hear that. But perhaps the youngest will eventually pick it up from her big sister.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:47 PM
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That's fair enough. :)
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:46 PM
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There's being dependent as a mutual decision and there's 'I'll go back to work in 6 months, dear' changing to 'don't make me leave my little princess out of my sight for any length of time until she starts school and even then I can't go back because (enter random idiotic reason)...' If a couple decides to have a kid and agrees one (either!) is staying at home for whichever agreed upon time, that's fine. But I've seen umpteen women breaking this deal and simply staying at home sponging off their…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:43 PM
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There there! It's your male privilege to be the one proposing... cough I kid.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:34 PM
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20 years ago I was in the early stages of secondary school. I'm sure your daughters will turn out alright. They've got you to learn from. I'll let my man know he should count himself lucky, so. ;)
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:33 PM
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Marry me! ;)
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:37 PM
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And mums have to stay at home?
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:34 PM
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Aaaawwwwww. Now I'm blushing.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 05:56 PM
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I know this to be true, but would like to point out I'm not one of them. I'm much happier being the breadwinner than being "taken care of". Then again, my dad jokingly refers to me as his 'oldest son'. So maybe I'm just weird. ;)
/r/MensRights17/01/13 01:33 PM
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I'd have an easier time sympathising weren't it for the 'dyke' and 'faggots' part... But that lesbian is scarily well prepared for a bright future in feminist academia. shudder
/r/MensRights16/01/13 07:29 PM
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While I agree there are serious problems with the media coverage, I am not convinced of his innocence (or hers for that matter). From the information at hand there's just no way if knowing. The fact she didn't report it sooner means jack shit. 8 years on I haven't reported. Doesn't mean it didn't happen. But again, the way it's handled in the media is appalling; regardless of whether he's innocent or not.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 11:10 PM
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In not trying to piss on your parade. I just think your 'observation' lacks a few dimensions.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:43 PM
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I'd go with relief rather than victory. A victory is something else entirely. Like winning a contest. Someone said it before. The actually being raped part isn't in all cases the worst part of it. It's the shock, the being subjected to a situation where you suddenly have no control. And even if I manage to escape somehow, what doesn't change this sensation. And it's neither empowering nor a victory.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:22 PM
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Elaborate.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 07:02 PM
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It's still traumatic. Empowering would be to come to someone else's rescue, perhaps. But being attacked in any shape or form is predominantly traumatic.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 06:55 PM
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How's being the victim of any form of attack empowering?
/r/MensRights14/01/13 04:46 PM
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Easy, tiger!
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:12 PM
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Bitch be crazy!
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:18 PM
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Well, my divorce is in its final stage. We've made it this far without bashing each other's head in or taking the shirt off each other's backs. So it's possible.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:48 PM
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It's honestly shocking. The 3 monkeys spring to mind.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:44 PM
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Is it really 'for free' though? Self respect for one is invaluable. As is respect for the relationship had (before the breakdown). No need to burry what has been in ego-trips and resentment. There were 2 people who loved each other, build and shared a life. Something changed. But that doesn't excuse the (self-) destructive path of "i make you pay for having to change my idea of how life would be".
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:19 PM
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Ya, got ya. There's still a distinction. Max. penalty for assault is 5 years, compared to a life sentence for rape. This sucks. Interesting about the rape part for me is that a person apparently can shove everything and anything in my mouth or up me arse without it being rape as long as it's not a penis. Charming. This too is interesting in regards to female offenders. Surely there must be females raping females a well.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 07:42 PM
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This is unbelievably stupid. The moment this shows up on any if my friend's Facebook walls my friend number will instantly decrease. Not before I made my point about it though.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 07:28 PM
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That seems to be the text from before the amendment. See here (hope this works, I'm on my phone): http://www.irishstatutebook.ie/1990/en/act/pub/0032/sec0002.html
/r/MensRights11/01/13 07:11 PM
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I see. That's not my definition of rape. I just checked the Irish law. Apparently there was an amendment in 1990 in which both, assaults on men and women are equally defined as felony. It doesn't specify men raped by women, but it doesn't limit it to male on male assault either. So I'm hopeful it would be applied equally. I don't have data on this. But I'll look into it.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 05:57 PM
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Ah okay, that's different so. Hope it all turned out fair and square.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:47 PM
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Wow. I never even got a lawyer. We managed to spend a decade together without them; why shouldn't we be able to sort out the aftermath on our own?
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:35 PM
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Why thank you. Some of us womenfolk can use our brains beyond dreaming of shoes... ;)
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:29 PM
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Thanks! :) I hope so two. For the sake of both of us.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 11:32 AM
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My father is doing ok now. But he's pissed off, of course (as am I about how she treated him and lied her way through their divorce). As for the house: ex-hubby and I are both eager to sell. The only reason I'm still living in it is that (unlike him) I can't afford to pay my mortgage-share etc. plus rent somewhere else. And selling is more than difficult right now, due to recession and location of the house We're thinking 2014/15, when the left-over loan sum is somewhere near what we can get for…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:04 AM
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No. Not here. I simply chose not to drag him to court. Our whole divorce is done without either one of us hiring a lawyer.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:58 AM
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We shared it for 1.5 years after the marriage ended. He moved out because he wanted to live with his new gf, not because I made him. But how is that even relevant? He's not paying for the living in the house part, i.e. bills, repairs, insurance etc. etc. He's only paying for the 'owning property' part, i.e. the mortgage itself.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:53 AM
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The only money I "took" from my ex husband was his continued share of the monthly mortgage payments. But in return he still owns half a house. So I didn't really take anything. I was too proud, or rather too fond of being independent, to take maintenance payments. Is that really that rare though? I know my mother took my father for everything, but not every woman is in her league of bitchiness.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 12:00 AM
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Yup, but who can afford punctuation anymore. What with the recession and all. :)
/r/MensRights09/01/13 11:42 PM
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Is it? Not opposing or criticising your view. Just curious what it's based on.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:58 PM
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If they say that they're wrong. And it's not okay.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:57 PM
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Okay, fair enough. I understand your issue. Women can decide for or against abortion, men sorta have to live with whatever she decides. Means technically they'd have to pay child support if she decides to keep the kid against his will, or have to live with the abortion if they actually don't want to opt out of parenthood. I get it. And I think it's a problem. A big one. At the same time I'm a woman. And I wouldn't allow anyone to tell me what to do with my body. I don't think there's a truly jus…
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:45 PM
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Here, if he appears on the birth certificate, the father has to consent to the child being put up for adoption. If he doesn't appear there I'm going to assume he's already opted out of parenthood. But again you're completely ignoring the emotional component of it all. My mother put me up for adoption for all the right reasons. But I met her, and she's fucked up as a consequence.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:33 PM
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It isn't legal for the woman where I'm living...
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:13 PM
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Of course he can. Do I need to google statistics as to how many people never met their father? So obviously it's possible. My point is: after the (assumingly unwanted) pregnancy occurs the guy can just walk, whereas the woman has to have 'a procedure'...
/r/MensRights06/01/13 06:03 PM
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Did it occur to you that the woman actually bearing the child might make it harder for her to walk out? She actually has to have an abortion. He can literally just walk away. I'm getting increasingly sick if people acting like an abortion is a walk in the park.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 05:49 PM
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