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Purge Week!AnnoKano/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:33 PM
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AnnoKano/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:35 AM
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To be contradictory you have to have the same person hold both those values. I think there are some men here that this would fall onto but most men no. Most men have very low standards. This. Same goes for accusations of hypocrisy. "Men" and "women" are not hypocritical, individuals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:14 AM
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I was too lazy to write black pill and forgot that there was another pill beginning with B lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:12 AM
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To be clear, when I said BP I meant Black Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:11 AM
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Why limit themselves to only hating happy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:52 AM
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Oh, because all these RP and BP guys are clearly so happy with their lives. Pfff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:49 AM
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It's giving cringe OP, skibidi toilet Ohio beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:36 PM
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Blue pillers don't have an identity, it's just people who have heard a bit about the red pill and think its bullshit. Black pill is just undiagnosed mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:57 AM
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Perhaps people want to censor it because they know some people are stupid enough to believe everything you read and will end up trying to slip something in some poor woman's drink or similar. It's preposterous to say that TRP is censored on a subreddit which exists solely to debate it in the first place, but the idea that being censored means you are right is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:55 AM
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How can it do that when it's even less defined than TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:03 AM
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No it's not, this is what most people are contesting. The person I was replying to said it was an attractive quality... maybe you guys need to get your story straight about what TRP believes or doesn't believe...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:02 AM
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Yes, thata the whole point lol.. hence the red pill metaphor Which is precisely why the red pill is fundamentally incorrect. The entire thing depends on a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:59 AM
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The blue pill is what society teaches men about women, most of us are born blue pilled and grow up with society telling us how we have to be kind to women, respect them, be chivalrous with ladies, protect them and never hit them, be gentle to them, etc, and that if we do all of this, we'll end up with a woman. Who on earth told you these things in a dating context? Are you in some doubt about whether it's ok to hit women? A lot of men then noticed some other males not doing any of this, and yet …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:53 PM
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No, bluepill is "just be nice person and eventualy right woman will come". Bluepill is just world fallacy. So in your mind the only alternative to believing in the red pill is to believe in a logical fallacy? I hope you can see how nonsensical that is. Yes, if they are already attractive, that would make them more attractive. Being kind to kids and having a pet is not what will make unnatractive man attractive. It's an attractive quality and it will make you seem more attractive to most women, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 06:28 PM
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You cannot "contradict" the blue pill because the blue pill is not a thing. It only exists because TRP is conspiratorial by nature and needs an enemy. I mean half the stuff you listed as TRP will be called blue pill if you dress them up a bit differently. Also, none of the things you mentioned as TRP are unique to it, they're all common sense. Regarding kindness and compassion, you mean to tell me that someone who volunteers with children or animals isn't attractive to women? That women aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:51 PM
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If you are not hot enough to attract a woman in a social setting, why would you be attractive enough to attract them when they are just going about their day? Surely that is the blindspot here. Assuming that all of your "translations" are accurate, you still face the same problem. And from there it seems obvious that if you go to the things women like to go to, then you will see women there. The only difference between it and approaching random women is that you have better odds. I would also sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:16 PM
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That is making an object claim. You're talking about OP's paraphrasing of what someone said in a thread he read as if it's a direct quote... about something which is by its very nature subjective. If I say that the Eiffel Tower is attractive, am I being subjective or objective?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:48 PM
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There is nothing "red pill" about standing up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:02 PM
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There are enough real problems in the world that you really don't need to go to the trouble of making them uo so you have something to be angry about. This "endearing possessiveness" is a load of bollocks. I think most savvy people recognise that as abuse. But if someone wants that, that's their prerogative and you don't need to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:00 PM
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Is it self-pity if it's true? Yes. I fulfill everything you designated as "good social skills" and women are still repulsed by me. In your own opinion maybe, but the scope for improvement is infinite. There are also parts of your story that didn't add up... it's not clear how you can get signals that someone is uninterested before you have engaged them in conversation... thats putting the cart before the horse. What now? Indeed. You're ugly. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:04 PM
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You can yourself whatever you like. If calling yourself ugly is going to provide some catharsis for you then that's your prerogative, but in general being self-pitying is not a good quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:06 PM
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Well, bp use to sell that idea that it didn’t matter much. What an ironic way of phrasing it. So, some men foolishly went into dating thinking it didn’t matter as much. It's a strawman, not something people really believe. Obviously looks matter. But aside from obvious points about hygiene and fitness, it is not something you can change and therefore not something worth dwelling on. Which was a big mistake to make, especially as a man. If looks don't matter for women, why are the womens fashion,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:56 PM
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Usually get "not interested" hints right off the bat, but I'm more than able to have platonic conversations with women where I make them laugh. How do you get these hints right off the bat, before you have had a conversation with them? It sounds like you are either doing it wrong, or are giving up before you have even tried. Yeah, I'm ugly. It gets frustrating having to constantly explain that and get condescending, contradictory spiels about social skills. Well if you know what the problem is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:26 PM
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If you had good social skills you would understand that nobody on all of God's green earth believes that "looks don't matter". Even someone who doesn't care about looks, cannot say that is true for everyone else. Advice to work on your "social skills" comes from the fact it is something which is obviously important if you want to attract someone, it's something which you have some agency and control over, and it something that the sort of men who end up on reddit are often bad at. Especially the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:10 PM
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Getting in a car crash is rare too. A car crash is not a rare event. Over a million people die on the roads each year, despite trillions being spent on measures to prevent accidents and minimise the consequences of accidents. In any assessment of risk you need to look at severity and likelihood. The likelihood that you will be targeted maliciously by a random woman for no reason is basically zero. There are some malicious people in the world who are vindictive though, obviously. Men and women. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:52 PM
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Your career, if they start a witch hunt on social media against you What are you doing, or would you do that would make someone want to start a witch hunt against you though? Especially on social media? The risk that someone is going to try to destroy your reputation out of malevolence alone is so remote that it doesn't warrant serious consideration. Yes it's theoretically possible but you may as well be worrying about innumerable other unlikely misfortunes. It is more likely that someone would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:19 PM
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Because some men here still possess the rare ability to observe reality without filtering it through the desperate need for female approval. How about filtering your posts down to a couple of paragraphs? Something more commensurate with your capabilities as a thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:16 PM
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If they could just keep it down to a few paragraphs and tone down the hyperbole, people might actually bother to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:26 PM
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Why are the men on this subreddit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:43 PM
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https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/09/sdhc-coupled-households.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:34 PM
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It may have started as a counterargument to the red pill The blue pill is not a counter argument, it's not even a coherent world view. It's a conspiracy created by the Red pill that only exists to give the red pill an enemy. It's hillarious that people here don't understand this when it is so obvious. the primary tenets of blue pill seem to be a bunch of survivor bias and just world fallacies. There are no blue pill tenants. There is a bunch of traditional bits of dating advice that people say a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:31 PM
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The reason you don't see blue pill dating experiments is because the blue pill isn't a real thing. It only exists to be the antithesis of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:31 PM
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I'm a man and talk about birthrates reasonably frequently. Primarily from concern about finanacing pensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:09 PM
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It continues to amaze me that there are adults who are bad at sex. It is not a difficult skill to master. Learn to communicate with the other person. Notice what they like and dislike. Make sure that you get involved and are not merely present. If your partner is a woman and you are a man, make sure they have had an orgasm before you try penetration. Unless they tell you otherwise, of course. Beyond this improving your physical fitness and endurance is beneficial, for obvious reasons. Learning a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:48 PM
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Romantically committed men who still have the mentality of teenage boys maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:34 PM
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"And more importantly, I'm of the opinion that a woman's ability to orgasm is her own responsibility" A lot of experience in disappointing women isn't necessarily going to make you good at sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:33 PM
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Because I'm not a gullible idiot. It is as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:11 AM
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I wonder if behaviour like this is one of the reasons men have so few options on dating sites, and if it makes their own experience worse over all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:10 AM
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If going tobthe pub is physical then I've finally achieved my dream of becoming a professional athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:30 PM
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Men don't bond over sitting quietly in a chair and talking about things. My man has never gone out to the pub with friends, gone fishing with his dad, sat around a campfire, met up for coffee with someone, etc. etc. Utter hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:17 AM
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Boyakasha!
/r/ExRedPill25/04/25 09:30 AM
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Andrew Tate wanting to become PM of the UK Would be like Ali G Indahouse IRL
/r/ExRedPill25/04/25 09:04 AM
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The name of the show is "Adolescence" and the show is about teenagers, not adults. While I know there are some teenagers on dating apps, I don't think it has much to do with teenagers being radicalised by the alt right. It is happening through other channels, like YouTube, TikTok and Discord Servers. I'm sure there are older people getting angry or radicalised because of dating apps, but they are not necessarily the same phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:30 PM
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The point is that the statistical average is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:21 PM
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It’s not an opinion. Obviously it is. Yes, objective data about penis size may be out there, but what actually matters is the perception of the woman you are trying to sleep with. A woman may say she prefers something 'above average' but if she underestimates average size (not unlikely given incomplete information, and the fact most women don't measure) then it doesn't matter too much. The average penis size IS around 5 inches. See, I would have said the average is closer to 6 inches. Kinda prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:50 PM
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What do women consider an "average" penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:18 PM
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We would need to EVENTUALLY see a noticeable decline but not immediately. Well it has been roughly 230 years or so and the trend is entirely upward. If you looked at the first like 20 years of aging, you could conclude that aging makes you stronger, faster, smarter, taller, etc.. but eventually aging does the opposite of that and makes you weaker, slower, dumber, shorter, etc... until it eventually kills you. The difference is that the data on aging is considerable, while the data on feminism ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:09 AM
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So what was the point of mentioning correlation if you didn't want to imply causation as well? Because it contradicts the OP's premise. In order for the hypothesis to make sense, we would need to see a noticable decline as societies become egalitarian. Yet feminism correlates strongly with the explosive growth of the industrial revolution and rise og the United States. It would be premature to say that this all happened because of feminism, because other factors were obviously at play. But it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:43 PM
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Categorizes something as "deeply unserious" and afterwards makes the most outlandish "correlation =/= causation" claim with utmost seriousness :D I swear, the word "correlation" really brings out internet psueds. I didn't make any claim that feminism is what caused society to become prosperous, I pointed out that the two correlate. This is not sufficient to prove that feminism is the cause of that prosperity, but it is sufficient to disprove the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:02 PM
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Cancer does not appear on corpses, that's true. People who have cancer tend to get sicker over time without treatment though, instead of becoming stronger and stronger the more the cancer spreads. I don't buy the idea that either patriarchy or feminism are what makes societies powerful, but if one of them is true then there's no question it's feminism. It's a prerequisite to escaping poverty, unless you are resource rich and can rely on developed countries to provide the technology needed to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:11 AM
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I am not saying I agree with OP hypothesis that feminism will destroy Western civilization or that a successful civilization cannot be egalitarian. Yes, I know you don't. But the people who cliam that gender egalitarianism is what causes prosperity are just as wrong as OP. Yes, I never claimed they did. Any explanation that is overly simplistic is obviously going to be wrong. Both groups are relying on correlations and nothing more. There needs to be a mechanistic explanation along with cause an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:39 PM
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Honestly i think that egalitarian societies are more developed because those societies adopt more modern, and Western, ways of life and not because they are egalitarian. This would still invalidate OP's hypothesis. Western society was patriarchal until like yesterday. Western society has become more and more egalitarian over time. American revolution occurred in 1776; Mary Woolenstonecraft wrote the first piece of feminist writing around 20 years later. Suffragette movement started in the 19th c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:00 PM
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A billionaire could afford to literally burn thousands of dollars every day and continue to grow their wealth exponentially anyways. Yes, because they would earn money faster than they are burning it. How would a society become both more patriarchal and more egalitarian simultaneously? Also, It's not like societies flip a switch from patriarchal to egalitarian overnight, they slowly turn from one to the other, on top of that, there's a ton of momentum to these kind of things so just because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:05 PM
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American ascendance does not correlate with feminism. It might correlate with the academic development of feminism, but does not with feminism's social/political power, which is what matters. The correct way to do this would be to agree when America was in ascendancy, and compare that with being more or less egalitarian. But before we even make it that far you're already making concessions that disprove your argument. America's peak power was just after WWII and just after the collapse of the US…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:39 PM
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It seems very obvious he's saying that patriarchal societies become strong and then can afford to become egalitarian for a little bit because they are so strong what they do doesn't matter, but then they get weaker and eventually either die off or go back to being patriarchal. In order for that to make sense, America's position would need to either stagnate or decline as it became more egalitarian. But in reality America became even stronger as it became more egalitarian. This whole "so strong i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:17 PM
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You seem to struggle a lot with reading and logic. Or you aren't prepared to admit when you've been humbled, or aren't smart enough to realise the flaws in your argument. Egalitarianism makes a country weaker and less stable. A country can only grow and maintain strength/stability under a patriarchy. THEREFORE, a country's that's already been made strong by patriarchy is the only one that can sustain egalitarianism for any extended amount of time. However, that is not forever- the country will e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:02 PM
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Learn the difference between correlation and causation. You are the one who said "egalitarian societies are doomed to fail" yet the most prosperous societies that have ever existed are also the most egalitarian. That alone disproves your hypothesis, lol. And I can hit you with the "correlation =/= causation" point and sink your entire theory about patriarchal societies too, despite whatever fallacious reasoning you might come up with to claim otherwise. As I explained, the correlation exists bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:11 AM
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This is deeply unserious. The rise of the feminism correlates with an explosion in human development and peace, and more egalitarian societies are the most prosperous ones today. That alone disproves your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:39 AM
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Pretending to be a different person is different thing. What guy who you are replying to is saying that good advice to those men is - understand and perceive where you can improve and work on that. If you are shy - you have to understand that you are not BORN shy, and you need to understand yourself, why are you shy, and work on that and eventually stop being shy He didn't say that at all. He said he isn't athletic, and trying to be athletic wasn't for him, etc. I started to train while I was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:26 PM
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Has it though? Because based what you said above indicates it hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:24 AM
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Sounds like the red pill isn't working for you, that or you might have depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:43 AM
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Yeah that works for women. If you're an unattractive man you have to become "the best version of yourself" which usually is just pretending to be somebody that you're not, otherwise you'll end up alone. No it isn't. Being the best version of yourself is not pretending to be somebody you're not, and you've fundamentally misunderstood both concepts if you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:48 AM
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It’s not a charade… it’s a man understanding that women like fit bodies, high earnings, interesting hobbies and clothes that fit. Men who self improve to this degree are never just doing it to make dating easier… that simply becomes a side effect. Trying to be someone you are not (pretending to have interests you don't, being insecure about your interests and concealing them, pretending to be a different person etc) is a bad idea because it is inevitable you won't be able to sustain it. While be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:42 AM
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Sorry, it's often hard to tell on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:35 PM
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Right. Most women wouldn't have been with guys over or under the average. Just like most men wouldn't have been with women over or under the average breast size. I don't know why you think sarcasm is warranted. First of all, how many different men do you think the average woman has slept with? Even if the number is in double digits, that sample size is still pretty small. Then think about the distribution of penis sizes. I believe the average is between 5" to 7" depending on the country... and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:05 PM
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I think that it's more likely that women who say they don't care are simply being honest. It's also quite possible that they haven't been with a partner who is significantly outside the average range.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:11 AM
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Penis size is a different issue. Women always say they don't care but it's pretty obvious size makes a difference from attractiveness and/or feeling. Just like guys having a preference for big or small breasts. Perfectly fine to have preferences as long as you admit it. I mean if we are going to indulge conspiratorial notions, let's go all in. Maybe the women who say they like big penises don't care either, and are only saying it to make you feel better about yourself / more insecure as the case…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:49 AM
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Why should anyone have to answer for the preferences of other people? Why does the majority opinion matter when you are one person and you can only meet an insignificant fraction of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:31 AM
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Is it reasonable to hold anyone accountable for the actions of someone else, other than their own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:16 AM
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Regardless if you think it works Red pill will go deep into specific actionable steps which is why it will gain more attention than generic platitudes ever will. It may well have more detail but it's ultimately just as generic. The main point of what I have been saying is that no one can tell you what you need to do. You need to figure it out yourself, or talk to people who actually know you. But if you absolutely must get advice from strangers online, don't go to the ones that are trying to tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:01 PM
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You happened to see some scenario where this worked and have become blue pilled. Uh huh. What you don’t see is the outcome of this “advice” failing. What, you think I ended up with the first person I asked? That I haven't been rejected before? Lol, obviously not. Of course you will get rejected sometimes. What you don’t see is the outcome of this “advice” failing. Nobody is making promises that this advice will always work. It is however more helpful than that redpill nonsense, which also doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:30 PM
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One thing I can tell you all women like is someone that can listen to them. Clearly, this is not something you are good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:29 PM
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I'm sure there wouldn't be much motivation to try that if 'yourself' was already killing it. Right, but someone who is already killing it wouldn't need datimg advice, would they? The advice assumes your not going to just continue to do what you've already been doing your entire life. Yeah, because it's tempting to think the solution when you can't get a date is to pretend to be someone you're not. Even though taking that approach means you will end up with someone you don't have much in common w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:21 PM
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You don't think people will pretend to be something they are not to impress other people, or fit in with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:16 PM
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And these advice aren’t difficult to understand they’re just overrated, like it highly increases your chances but to me it reeks of passive political correctness. So traditional dating advice is politically correct now? Pfff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:01 PM
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The advice has been beaten into our heads for decades And you still don't get it, so what does that say about you? It's not like TRP is even that different, it's just framed in a slightly different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:33 PM
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Oh look, another person who rejects traditional dating advice, who doesn't understand the point of that advice. What a surprise. Look, these cliches are not a panacea and many of them have more to do with working on yourself than actually finding success in dating. Nonetheless, they broadly represent good advice. Perhaps some of them don't apply to you... fine, we don't know you so we cannot tailor advice to your specific needs. But you would have to be a fool to think that "put yourself out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:45 PM
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I actually agree with OP, this does perfectly encapsulate TRP: It doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:04 PM
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You actually do have other options than just wildly speculating about another person’s life experience to explain why the feel the way they do. Speculation is inevitable when you complain about the situation you are in but refuse to be candid about the circumstances. You could ask them why they feel like dating is difficult other than the non-starter of them being an incel. But quite often, being an incel is the reason people here who complain aren't able to find relationships. The buck stops wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:22 PM
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what is the difference between spending time with casual acquaintances and spending time with someone who loves you… People are aware of the difference between a romantic relationship and friendship. But loneliness usually refers to being socially isolated, not simply being single. or real left leaning folk would do a hell of a lot better convincing people of their ideals if they didn’t approach every discussion as if it’s the first time they’ve ever heard of the issue and ask obtuse questions d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:28 PM
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Isn't this a gay thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:04 PM
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Women should want me for something real, like my slightly above average performance in RTS games. Not my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:25 PM
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Yes, men wear suits to attract women. Then why has wearing suits become less important over time? I think it is fair to say that women still find men in suits to be attractive, but the social pressure to wear them no longer exists, so most don't bother. And the exceptional cases: politicians, lawyers and certain public facing roles are again down to social pressure not attracting women. There is no logic whatsoever in wearing makeup "for yourself", since it's something devised explicitly to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:24 PM
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Is a man wearing a suit doing it because of women? I'm sure if we try hard enough to rationalise it, we can reach the same conclusion that they do. Men wearing suits look powerful, and being powerful attracts women. Suits look good, and men want to look food because it attracts women... and so on. The only reason we don't is because the idea they do it for themselves, is not inexplicably unsatisfactory. We assume that men have the kind of autonomy to do things of their own volition, but not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:59 PM
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Aren't you the one pretending red pill is stoicism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:02 AM
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Most women will tell you they wear makeup for themselves. I'm sure you think they are lying, but it actually makes sense. Everyone likes to look good, and people who look good are treated better generally. Not to mention the fact that women will wear makeup even in situations where they do not want male attention. Lastly, some lesbians wear makeup!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:56 AM
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It is not controversial to say people care about looks. Even in bluepill spaces. That is self evidently true, or people wouldn't buy things for the sake of appearances. It's a moronic straw man. However, there is no utility in focusing on your looks when it comes to dating... at least aspects of your looks that cannot be easily changed. What exactly are you looking for here? Will someone saying you are right about looks make your personal situation better? Because you seem to be of the opinion t…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 12:48 PM
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I swear to god are these the only posts allowed by the mods so bluepillers can stroke their ego with an easy bunt To be fair, every thread here is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:52 AM
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Conservative women? I've never met one, other than my dear old grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:59 PM
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Why are we even entertaining a question with the premise that women aren't judged for their appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:05 PM
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You would think that two grouos of virgins would have a lot in common, but alas not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:04 AM
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Hahahaha... no, the absolute opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:37 PM
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Genuinely surprised that you were using cuck semi-accurately I don't think it's the issue per se. Why would your private thoughts affect how others behave towards you? But maybe there's something else.
/r/seduction22/03/24 11:15 PM
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I think people who have selective ideas about democracy should be excluded from democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:00 PM
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The way we make society better is by simply forcing everyone to be better. At gunpoint, if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:59 PM
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You are missing the elephant in the room OP, the fact that having kids at 25 is not economically feasible for most people, especially those who attend higher education. I was looking after kids at that age as an assistant in an after school club (well actually I was a bit younger) and at the time felt I definitely had enough energy to be looking after kids. I was also making a few dollars an hour and was living paycheck to paycheck. Now I'm working in a decent paying job and can keep myself and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:43 AM
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Sorry, I don't know. Have you tried to ask someone else? I'm so sorry. They might know what the answer is...
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 06:35 PM
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My favourite thing about this post is that you have written it in the style of a cave man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:10 AM
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"Oh, I'm not a fan... I'm more of a casual enjoyer of that band" Simply rolls off the tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:14 AM
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If you can't recite each album's linear notes by line number, then stop pretending you like their music. Don't you dare say you like that thing that I like, unless you like it the same way I do, OP. (i.e. obsessively categorising it).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:12 AM
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Well of course. Having interesting hobbies means nothing if people don't know what hobbies you have. One of the issues with PPD is that if you try to talk about one problem, people will respond to you as if you are saying that everyone has that problem, and the fact that they do not have that specific problem proves you wrong. TRP solves this problem by shifting the blame to women rather than men, meaning that all men can apply it to their own situation. But trying to be all things to all men, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:55 PM
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Well those are some solid choices, although maybe not best suited to meeting the opposite sex all arr relatively solitary hobbies. In any case, you are confident that being boring isn't an issue for you personally and you're probably right. Doesn't mean there are a lot of people out there who are dull and get rejected for being basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:33 PM
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What do you do that is interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:57 PM
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If this is the case, isn't bluepillers advice for redpillers is same as rich person giving advice to poor person on how to make money ? I see giving advice to RP guys similar to the way I see telling my mother not to respond to phishing emails. It's not about your background, it's about how vulnerable you are to hucksters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:40 PM
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Tone isn't always easy to read in text, so please make it clear when you aren't being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:24 PM
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He would become akin to a god. Present him with pickle jar, and allow His Brininess to bless you with his savory bounty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:11 PM
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Millions of views isn't all that much on a planet with billions of people on it though. The idea that its affecting marriage and birth rates when most of the audience are teenagers or men in their early 20s is just laughable. Touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:56 AM
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I'd kick her to the curb. Hook ups for me, not for thee!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:02 AM
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I would have to meet a self proclaimed red pill man in the real world who wasn't a total embarassment. Needless to say, I'm not expecting to change my mind anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:50 AM
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The red pill is something, the blue pill is a straw man created by the red pill to represent anyone who disagrees with them. The whole framing is incredibly conceited too, especially from a group that shows time and time again that they don't exactly have a tremendous grasp of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:17 PM
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Doesn't the blue pill make an actual assertion? Blue pill doesn't make any assertions, because it is not a set of beliefs. It's just a name used by TRP for people who disagree with them. For example, it would have to make a certain claim if it is to refute trp No, because the blue pill is not defined in any meaningful way. so can we really say that it is nothing but a reactionary prespective? It is not even a reactionary perspective. It's not even a perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:10 AM
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OP: Women have begun behaving in a way that is completely counterintuitive to evolutionary biology and everything that drives attraction in the opposite sex. Gender norms and primary/secondary sex characteristics predate modern society by millions of years, and suddenly saying “nah let’s do this” is not going to change any of that. Also the OP: Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:37 PM
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Systems analyst
/r/seduction09/02/24 09:40 PM
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Laugh AT you, not with you! Nah, whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:29 PM
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I am here to laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:10 PM
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The blue pill is to redpill what not being a muslim is to being a muslim. It doesn't tell us anything about what you are, it tells us one thing you are not. There is no consistent blue pill ideology, just people who are not red pill. It doesn't matter if this is because of opposition, indifference or ignorance... they are still blue pill. This whole method of defining people is a bunch of malarkey. Like when Ancaps refer to everyone else as 'statists' regardless of what their actual beliefs are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:30 AM
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"Judgemental based off of little to no information" That's the internet for you, but what exactly do you expect? Why would you even make such a comparison, if it wasn't accurate (aside from driving engagement)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:30 PM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:43 PM
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OP is living in a different world. I don't know anyone in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:41 PM
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For me, I would tell someone to 'work on your personality' when there is an obvious issue which is readily apparent from their post. Writing a multiple paragraph screed explaining the uncontroversial point that people who grew up in a good environment will usually do better than those who didn't, to justify the belief that changing your personality is hard... you shouldn't be surprised people have told you that, based on your behaviour here. The only snippet you are being judged on is whiny, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:30 AM
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Just to let the ladies of PPD know, I'm 6'5. Please form an orderly queue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:50 AM
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This is farcical. TRP changes behaviour by telling you 'this is how you need to act to attract women'. The point of analogies is to make the original point clearer, not to change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:33 PM
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Well I have to say, the other guy had a more coherent explanation and a much better metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:08 AM
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Why don't you tell the class what you think it is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:43 PM
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This is a defeatist attitude, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:28 PM
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The part where you are saying another demographic is more desirable than the one you belong to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:00 PM
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But you are not telling me about Stacey, you are telling me about all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:57 PM
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'I'm not trying to change your values, I'm just telling you my own interpretation of how the world is and how you should change your behaviour in order to take advantage of it.' Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:57 PM
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If you can’t see how occupy Wall Street and TRP are two COMPLETELY different things then there’s no need for discussion There is no need for discussion, because you are being hysterical... one simple example of a leaderless political movement and you are pretending that I said they are the exactly the same. Goals around shaping society. I do not care what women do, I will say how women act though How do you think you will be able to suss women out, when you aren't smart enough to understand your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:50 PM
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Sorry, formatting. Hopefully it is clearer now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:18 PM
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Social values. It says it right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:16 PM
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"There are no leaders" Occupy Wall Street did not have leaders either, nonetheless it was a political movement. Even so, there are clearly influential people within TRP. "There are no goals" Quite clearly there are goals. To be blunt, perpetuating a misogynistic world view is the goal. Or as they would put it, "telling the truth about how women act" would still be a goal. "There is no party" You do not need a party to exert political influence or be a political movement. "There is no representat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:15 PM
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Insisting the problem is insoluble expecting others to identify the problem for you Aren't you proving the OP's point that TRP is 'defeatist' in this response?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:03 PM
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Red pill is not a political movement. (from what I believe) They have a pretty specific worldview, they are organised (admittedly loosely) and they are trying to co-ordinate a response. I think that's sufficient to qualify as a 'political movement' and people do talk about it like one. Red pillers, correct me if I a wrong Even if they say they are not, that doesn't mean much. Political movements often try to avoid calling themselves such because being thought of that way invites scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:50 PM
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"Bluepilled guys here seem to think (self-improvement) is GUARANTEED to work" Well this "seems" like a strawman argument to me. Obviously no-one would seriously make such a guarantee for everyone in all circumstances. In general though, it's helpful. Obviously. "They don't care about self improvement, only if you are succesful" I'm not particularly invested in whether a stranger is succesful with women. The motivations for me are: Keeping people away from the self desyructive downward spiral of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:32 PM
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This is a great example of how showing too much vulnerability can put people off. You need to tone it down mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:32 PM
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Vulnerability doesn't kill tension... it makes people open up more, provided you get the balance right. Not too much, not too little.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:35 PM
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"Reddit is out of touch with the real world, except the subreddits I use personally" -someone who is not out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:12 AM
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People are dismissive because the conversations here are so beyond the realm of normal experience, and they laugh at the posts because the authors are cartoonish. If I showed PPD to my friends, they'd laugh. If I showed it to my partner, she would ask me my why I'm wasting my time here. My parents would say that you're strange people. No one is going to say the self proclaimed Alpha male who is annoyed that men are expected to pay for dates makes some intelligent points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:40 PM
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Am I so out of touch? No, it's everyone else who is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:26 PM
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You don't know why their relationship ended though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:58 AM
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You need to address the problem itself, which is the feeling of resentment. For that you probably need to attend therapy. Beyond that, rather than resenting other people's success, try to celebrate it. Compliment people, be positive and enthusiastic about them. This behaviour is not only infectious (people will be nice to you in return) it also reflects well on you in front of others. Bitterness on the other hand is a total buzz kill. If you are really concerned about your appearance, either tak…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 06:09 PM
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Let's assume that you are correct about the benefits of LTRs versus casual sex. The problem is you are not going to form a deep, meaningful connection with someone if it is arbitrarily imposed upon you for your own good. You need to make that realisation for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:24 AM
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Just because it's the most popular way doesn't mean its the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:11 AM
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Someone who looks at the red pill and says "This ain't it, chief"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:34 PM
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Essentially there was more variety in their profiles than among mens. Different interests, different tastes in music, some wordy, some short etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:25 PM
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Both genders have many profiles which could be described as 'basic' or cliche because they have a formulaic format in regards to photos, interests and so on... but this problem is slightly worse across male profiles than female ones from what I have seen. It may be because these people are following the same advice on how to structure OL dating profiles, in which men in particular have a harder time finding matches and are more likely to seek out advice. Personally, I also suspect most of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:59 PM
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I haven't met anyone who has a phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:28 PM
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They all have iPhones Well if you are only meeting American women, maybe... She likes Drake But is that the only artist they like? She likes travelling OK, I agree with you on this one. Travelling, i.e. going on holiday/vacation, is something almost everyone enjoys. Unless you like doing something more specific like visiting offbeat locations, taking long road trips or interrailing or whatever then you shouldn't put travel as an interest. Regarding the point that many women are basic, a female f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:26 PM
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designed by the CIA Oh you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:19 PM
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No. Redpill is a grift, feminism is a political movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:03 PM
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OP needs to understand that everyone can see through this ridiculous facade and can see the deeply insecure person standing behind it. Most men are not going around worrying about being cuckolded, nor are they thinking that other people are being cuckolded. It's ridiculous. Some men might be resistant to the idea of becoming a stepfather and that's understandable, but for most it's not because they are worried about being a 'cuck'. And if you are happy to be a stepfather, I don't think you reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:43 AM
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OP is completely wrong. He claims more than 50% of posts are "gotchas", and the rest are complaints about personal issues. He's completely ignoring the shitposting, sarcasm, bait threads and other nonsense that appears here on a daily basis! Honestly though, god help anyone who takes this place seriously. That's like thinking cartoon characters are real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:55 PM
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It’s not a system of ideals. It’s a system of observations. There’s no call to action, or no way to be, to be “ red pilled. “ like with any online space, people can latch on and add with their own agendas. Which people do a lot with conservative religious points and the red pill. But that’s their call to action. That’s not what the red pill “is” I’m a red pilled leftist. The Red Pill subreddit has a whole section on 'Theory' and several guides on how to be Red Pill. There are numerous threads on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:22 PM
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That’s the literal opposite of what the redpill is lmao. It is an ideology- a system of ideals and ideas. In this case applied to dating/relationships rather than politics or religion. The blue pill is the status quo and the status quo a mantra. Even if this was true, then the bluepill wouldn't be an ideology, because it wouldn't be a cohesive system of ideas. It's usually framed as trite platitudes about dating. Describing the bluepill as an ideology doesn't make sense because it's a term that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:03 PM
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No, the red pill is an ideology, and blue pill is how red pill people describe non-believers. Any other framing of this is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:46 PM
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This is realistic which is what RP believes, reality. The opposite would be a bluepiller believing all women are wonderful and can do no wrong. By this standard, blue pill does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:18 AM
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The red pill philosophy is what makes them a bad partner, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:41 PM
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I think partner is more childish than boyfriends and girlfriend. Even if it is gender neutral, gay people should just use those terms. They can. No one is stopping them. Ok but what does your boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/fiancee/husband/wife think? Because I'll bet they will tell you that using one word instead of six is just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:27 PM
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https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?year_start=1800&year_end=2019&corpus=26&smoothing=7&case_insensitive=on&content=partner Usage spiked from 1970s onward, peaking in early 2000s. Seems reasonable to assume this was down to people using it to refer to a relationship partner. Anyway, best of luck in your attempt to resist the natural development of the English language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:22 PM
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The term is popular because it's simply much more practical. Someone might have a boyfriend or girlfriend, but they are not necessarily their 'partner' unless the relationship is serious. I've been with my current girlfriend for several years, technically speaking we're engaged, and functionally we are pretty much married... but for the sake of convenience i just call her my 'partner', especially when I don't want to get into the specifics because of privacy or my own convenience. All you need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:08 PM
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I'm sure you are king
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:57 PM
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Quelle suprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:20 AM
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Not all men are like the OP, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:14 AM
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I'm here to laugh honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:20 PM
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It's really unfortunate that people would make unfair generalisations like that huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:51 PM
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I see a lot of conversations about how men need to have spaces to talk about their problems, but little evidence of men creating spaces to do this. Instead men tend to gravitate towards a surrogate father figure and try to embody them. Unfortunately this often involves becoming insufferable and preachy, which is why men like this get made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:26 PM
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Using people is wrong obviously, but what is the diffrrence between a 'surrogate boyfriend' and a friend here? Having normal friendships with women is an obvious step towards forming normal relationships with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:07 PM
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"Most guys are repulsed by confident women" What a load of nonsense. It doesn't matter what gender you are, being insecure or a wet blanket is not attractive. Or if men prefer women who lack confidence, why do men like women who flirt with them? What most men don't like is people who will try to domineer over them or control their lives. Because, big surprise, nobody likes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:52 AM
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*Keeps his personal matters private *Good sense of humour *Deep voice *Physically fit *Handsome *Intelligent *Relaxed demeanour *Generous *Doesn't make trite, inappropriate or false statements *Authentic *Sexually experienced *Prioritises the women in his life *Good conversationist *Takes his time *Does everything right *Able to satisfy sexually *Spends time with his children *Has his woman's back *Never disrespectful, because his momma taught him that. Source: https://youtu.be/jsBt4QNIjV4?si=lW…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:24 PM
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And if I put on some scrubs and a stethoscope, people tell me I look like a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:12 PM
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Who is thinking about standards like this? Yes, obviously a model is unlikely to date an unemployed schlub, but how much time do people spend thinking about this on the daily? If you make a connection with someone are you going to reject because they do not meet your standards? Or not give it a try even if they are 'out of your league'? It seems like wasted energy to me. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:39 PM
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"The problem here is that social skills, and developing them, can only be developed mutually. If there is nobody out there who is willing to interact with you long enough for you to learn some of these basic social skills....congratulations you haven't learned anything." The phrase "touch some grass" is less about going out to develop social skills, and more to do with not spending all of your time listening to internet hucksters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:10 PM
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Are you lying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:50 PM
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Are you a pedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:49 PM
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OP is right, going to assert my own strength by following his every word!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:49 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:31 PM
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I'm sorry but after using the phrase 'politically incorrect truths' you are exactly the kind of person I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:10 PM
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Here's some brutallu honest and politically incorrect truths for my brothers out there: Women are not interested in self pitying men, or moping. Women are not interested in your conspiracy theories about them. Both of the above are harming your success in dating more than being a so-called "beta" male, being ugly, being mentally ill etc. There is some truth to the notion that men have a harder time on dating apos than women do and some men are uncomfortable approaching women. Focusing on this wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:53 PM
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Most actual communist/socialist governments in the world incorporated some degree of biological determinism or rather assumed it. I do not think you can make a credible case that biological determinism was more important to socialist or communist states, than it was in liberal, monarchist or fascist states. Modern liberal views on gender/sexuality/ethnicity would have been considered bizarre within those contexts. Why is that important?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:12 AM
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"But you yourself admit that something like personal responsibility "is not uniquely conservative," so the outcome of RP belief shouldn't inherently result in a certain political outlook by your view." 'Personal Responsibility' is not a uniquely conservative idea, but there are many interpretations of what that term means and some of those at the more extreme end are inherently conservative. For example, when you start to include biological determinism into it, which the Red Pill does (paradoxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:02 PM
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I think when people vote it could come down to a handful of issues. You're absolutely right, I can see that you've got a keen sense of- Also I don’t think men embody their political affiliation like women. Liberal women will stamp it on their forehead. Men are much more subtle, indifferent imo. SIR, THEY IDENTIFIED THEMSELVES WITH A HAT. A BRIGHT RED FUCKING HAT WITH BOLD LETTERS WITH "MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN" WRITTEN ON IT. STAMPED ON THEIR FOREHEADS. STAMPED ON THEIR FOREHEADS, NOT FIGURATIVE…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:18 PM
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Chickens have no room for eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:03 PM
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TRP isn't a political movement though It is not an organised political party and politics are not it's stated primary purpose, but it is a 'movement' and it s ideology has political implications. If RP men believe that you can overcome all obstacles by working on yourself and that women are less rational than men, then that is undoubtedly going to result in a conservative outlook. You aren't wrong, but one shouldn't be too naive about these things either. dating is the one area I've found where …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:02 PM
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Because in sports it matters. In physical activity, someone shouldnt be harassed or expelled because they recognise biological sex This is surprising to me, because I previously thought that it was the different physical characteristics of each sex that were the reason that men and women perform differently in sports. I hadn't realised that it was just their names and pronouns! Perhaps if we can have every female athlete compete under male names we can resolve this problem. This isnt an argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:05 PM
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Why do you think all men are pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:17 PM
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Why do you want to call someone a man, if they want to identify as a woman? Why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:09 PM
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Male rationality and logic at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:05 PM
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Neither party caters to the working class. That’s absolute nonsense to think. Correct. The left likes to think they cater to the working class. They don’t. Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:39 AM
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They aren't. It's mostly older men who vote republican, not young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:38 AM
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The left caters to the working class, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:31 PM
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Most of the Ukrainians who made it to the west are already rich. The ones who only made it to central europe are not as welcome there as you seem to think. Most doctors, lawyers etc are not going to choose to keep stacking shelves or delivering food in the West once the war is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:34 PM
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Men do the same thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:19 PM
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Not sure if giving yourself blue balls is dominant or assertive
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 12:10 PM
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Let her read your reddit posts and the problem should take care of itself.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 11:49 PM
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They should look up to people who are accomplished in the fields they are interested in. So if you are interested in football for example, you might consider Ronaldo a role model. If you like punk music, maybe someone like Ian MacKaye. Having someone like Andrew Tate as a role model... well, the man is an obvious grifter trying to sell people a false prospectus, so for that reason he is a bad role model. Jordan Peterson is a bit better, but he's basically gone completely off the rails at this po…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:26 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:09 PM
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Avoid dating teenage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:23 PM
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I would tell him that if he comes near my daughter again, he won't need to worry about fertility any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:52 PM
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Or to put it another way, repillers are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:45 PM
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Not even remotely surprising.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 02:01 PM
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She's having sex with her brother too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:33 PM
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Do you want to have sex with your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:59 PM
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Mikhaila Peterson's relationship with her father is weird. That's all I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:55 PM
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I think her relationship with her father is pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:17 PM
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Among bluepilled normie circles, the most common relationship advice is to communicate, communicate, communicate. This is the magic bullet that will solve all your relationship issues. Most people are terrible debaters and resort to all kinds of logical fallacies when arguing I wouldn't stop working on those communication skills yet OP. Still plenty of room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:42 PM
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As a man, I am not impressed by men who sleep around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:50 AM
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Online applications may be preferable to handing applications in directly, but tge principle of applying for lots of jobs is still a sound one. Similarly the more people you meet, the more likely you will find someone interested in you. The method is out of date, but the principles are fundamentally sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:41 AM
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OP, we don't know you. Therefore, we don't know the specific reasons you (or anyone else) is struggling to find a relationship. That is why you will only see two kinds of response here: Generalised responses to percieved common problems: shower regularly; don't try to be something you're not; be more confident; dress better; be kinder. Ideologically derived responses: anything red pill, black pill, incel etc. If you want specific advice, ask your friends where you are going wrong. But regardless…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:37 AM
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Really getting bored of threads like these. OP makes a stupid generalisation, attempts to justify it, but ultimately cannot escape the fact that generalisations don't matter in relationships, specific details do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:12 PM
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You are allowed to be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:43 PM
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There weren't even that many of them until the last few months, iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:24 PM
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Well done OP, you've realised what everyone else figured out about this guy when his name first started doing the rounds. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:04 PM
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Maybe you are in the wrong industry then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:42 PM
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It would probably be more accurate to say "work on your behaviour" but it's still a fair point in my opinion. You may have a shy personality for example but that doesn't mean you can't force yourself to be more sociable. The advice to be yourself means you should not try to be a different person to attract women, or a specific type of woman. Mainly because people can see through it. Obviously both are fairly generic bits of advice but this is the internet, we don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:03 AM
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"Working on social skills is the number one thing you should be working on" Sounds like working on yourself is really good advice then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:55 AM
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Ah yes, the sexpat strategy. Revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:46 AM
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People in their 30s wait for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:23 AM
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Literally the first two grouos that came up when I searched, you were the one who said looking up "any red pill facebook group" would prove rp guys are chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:18 PM
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I am 6'7 and have to admit I do feel a bit uncomfortable when I am around someone taller than me. I'm just not used to it. That said, I wouldn't say it's insecurity. More like a lack of familiarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:32 PM
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Why would I joke about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:20 AM
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"This can be verified by looking at any TRP facebook group" Decided to take the Pepsi challenge on that one and it was exactly what I was expecting: cringey men posting shit memes about entrepreneurs, complaining about women and being hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:26 PM
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Alright, I went back through the thread and while your post was a bit smug, you did not actually claim to be more intelligent than others. I apologise for the mistake. I accept that I may be self-righteous and sometimes lacking in awareness, but I reject the idea that I consume rather than think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:54 PM
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I linked to that subreddit because you sound like the type of person it's making fun of: an arrogant pseudo-intellectual who believes they are above politics. You said (several) times here that you are an intelligent person, but I don't think anyone is going to be convinced by your rather desperate assertions. Intelligence speaks for itself after all. And your attempts to put me into a box because I suggested you sound like a stereotype is betraying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:44 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:19 PM
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From the sounds of it your understanding of politics is very superficial. The idea that knowing less about something means you understand it better than people who know a lot about, whether politics or anything else, is simply nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:55 PM
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r/enlightenedcentrism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:26 PM
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The main problem with Canada is that they are too right wing. Americans I'm sure will balk at such notions, but it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:19 PM
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Reddit is not trying to convince men of anything. The people on reddit you are refering to are people just like you, trying to convince everyone else they are right about this or that. If it seems like a lot of people have the same opinion... it just means a lot of people think the same way. If lots of people ssy that body count doesn't matter to them, it's not a conspiracy... that's just what they believe. I have slept with women who had higher body counts than me, and it didn't make a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:51 AM
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Indeed, you can complain as much as you want, to the point where it not only turns you into a miserly curmudgeon or alienates you from society, you can actually complain so much that it actually distorts your own understanding of reality. Ha...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:55 PM
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Who said anything about judging people? Just suggesting you expand your horizons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:54 PM
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Then maybe you need to start moving in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:50 AM
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Even hypocrites can date, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:22 AM
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Actually the only place where I have ever seen someone say "all men/women are the same!" is on television, and even then it's obviously hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:14 AM
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Touching grass and being an adult? You don't need to believe this nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 08:26 AM
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Society is important and all, but I just have to nut or I'm going to tear my hair out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:46 AM
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I’m sorry, my understanding is that men respond well to tough love and hard truths. Isn’t that the premise of the red pill?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 10:05 PM
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in the future, the current dating situation will no longer be current, and held up as the halcyon days of a bygone era by a new generation of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:24 PM
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OP is correct, nobody cared about appearances before online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:49 PM
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I think it’s important to have a strong father figure or a male role model, but I’m not sure why any of these manosphere guys would fit that role. I guess I might have thought some of them were cool when I was young and impressionable, but they are also the sort of people I would now as an adult look at as losers and ask myself why I ever respected them in the first place. You need role models OP, but you need to find some that are doing well in something you care about and who you can respect a…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:20 PM
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It’s not just me guys, even the monkeys aren’t getting laid! “Men who matured late socially and sexually, are expected to wash it off and be confident” Regardless of how difficult it is, this is nonetheless what men need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:00 PM
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You are correct, these vile women haters are a minority of the general population. They do make up 100% of the people posting threads like this on PPD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:42 PM
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Point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:01 PM
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Whatever size OP’s penis is, it’s 2 inches less than the minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:57 PM
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The trend for both genders is towards less formal clothing. Men are no longer expected to wear neckties and business suits at work, outside of a handful of professions (lawyers, politicians, some sales jobs). Morning dress, black and white tie events are a novelty. Most nightclubs no longer implement dress codes requiring proper shoes or trousers. Other social clubs like golf clubs, gyms etc are also more casual. Athu-leisure clothing is the most popular fashion style among young people, with sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:23 PM
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I feel sorry for them to be honest. Here I am with a fairly average salary in an ordinary job and against all odds have managed to find a fiance, while these rich and successful software engineers can't even get a date. It must be because I am above average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:18 PM
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How about recognising the obvious truth that different people want different things in life and leaving it at that? What use is this breakdown into percentages? What purpose does it serve and how does working this out help me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:49 AM
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As a 6'7 man, I am disgusted by women's preference for shorter men. Why can't lanky bastards like me catch a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:53 AM
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Finally, a reasonable proposal on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:15 AM
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This is kinda silly. Try talking to the average person in these professions and it is readily apparent why they don't attract women. It's not because they are "too intelligent", but because they are often socially awkward or are single minded about their interests. Because believe me, the ones who don't have those tendencies but still work in STEM don't have any issues. But hey if you think being thick as pig shit will help you to attract women, you could always try huffing paint thinner to kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:28 PM
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So the people who know you IRL can’t tell you what the problem is, but some internet personality will? Maybe women don’t like dating gullible men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:06 AM
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Have you tried asking a friend or someone you trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:35 PM
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“Is there any alternative?” Yes. You work on yourself instead, focus on whatever it is that you need to improve instead of looking for easy answers from people who see you as a dollar sign. “Admitting defeat is a suicide trigger” The first mistake here is equating one’s ability to pick up women with your self worth. If you are in that position then the answer is attending therapy because you are not in a position to find a good relationship. In fact, any relationship you do enter in those circum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:01 PM
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The solution isn’t behind a paywall, those are scams. Fools and their money are easily parted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:25 PM
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I’m here for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:33 PM
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All the best sex I ever had was immediately after moving furniture so OP may be on to something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:42 AM
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Well there’s at least one situation in which you have sex with someone who you don’t want a relationship with, so clearly you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:23 PM
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I didn't become a feminist because I thought it could benefit me personally, I became a feminist because I agreed with its arguments, conclusions and morals. It seems quite obvious that we treat men and women differently in society, that we do this based on assumptions based on gender, and we do this even when it is against the wishes of the individual in question. Feminism was the first philosophical movement to try and address this injustice, and that is why I call myself a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:14 PM
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The women here are more representative than the men are because they're not all brainwashed cultists. The only well adjusted people on PPD are the ones here to laugh at the people who take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:08 PM
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Of course you don't, because these 'problems' have existed since before the internet existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:01 PM
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Which only goes to show how universal dating and relationships with the opposite sex are. People don't bitterly complain that they don't have a ferrari because most people don't expect to own one. They do however complain about being unable to afford housing because most people expect to own a home at some point. So it goes with relationships too. Just because someone complains about women doesn't mean they're in the manosphere club.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:03 PM
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Real world problems for a small percentage of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:26 AM
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Why is it that learning in every other arena in life the "strategy guide" is acceptable but not when it comes to sexual and romantic relations? Which is not to say the pills are the meta, they are just something they can tell themselves is the meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:42 AM
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Women aren’t claiming to be hyper-masculine, alpha males though. It’s not just the whining that’s comical about them, it’s the fact they’re trying to be hyper masculine at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:38 PM
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Very often, a debate will start on these pages where the men explain to the women how a huge reason for the rise in popularity of the "pills" and "manosphere" is the complete lack of direction men get in terms of how to improve their results in the romantic field. Instead of trying to learn the game by playing it, they just want to read the strategy guide and then use the meta. Which is not to say the pills are the meta, they are just something they can tell themselves is the meta. We often make…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:46 PM
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Who are the women you are asking, how well do they know you, where and in what capacity are you asking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:51 PM
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I wouldn't say "hot buff bodies" because I didn't grow up in the 1970s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:45 PM
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So it never occurred to you that in school, most girls tend to like the athletic guys? Or that in movies, the leading men tend to be physically fit? Come on dude. Maybe they didn't tell you to go to the gym, but it's obvious that improving your fitness will make you more attractive. RP always try to recruit with this because it's obviously true, they don't talk about the other weird shit until they have you hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:25 AM
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It is important to remember that most of the people contributing here are freaks and weirdos who are in no way representative of the population at large. They don't know how to even present themselves as normal. They think for example that the common, cliche advice about dating is the product of a specific worldview. They love to crunch numbers and look at the world through a catastrophic lense, but aren't willing to consider that they may just be making mistakes. They believe that a few men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:16 PM
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You're a guy pretending to be a woman, aren't you? Because I have trouble believing that any woman would ever suggest that a guy should ask his male friends for advice on how to give women orgasms. It's honestly laughable. You also write in the same style these RP guys do. Sorry, clocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:39 PM
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Communicate for better sex, or don't communicate and put up with bad sex. The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:30 PM
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No. Sometimes you can do something with good intentions that comes off as creepy. I was attending some social event with my Uni some years ago and a female classmate that I didn't know too well was very drunk. I went over to her and her friend and asked if she was ok, and asked if she was going to get a taxi. Her friend told me to fuck off, and I was pretty offended; the implication being that I was trying to make a move on the passed out drunk girl. Over time though, I realised that this respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:25 AM
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The only career you mentioned that isn't desirable is being a delivery driver. Farmers and plumbers are both well paid jobs, at least in the UK. Society in general values higher education because our economy has advanced to the point where people often need higher education for their jobs. True, some of this is down to the perceived need to have a degree, but obtaining the degree is really a test in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:33 PM
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One small step for a man, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:59 PM
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I would say a good way to become a more competant man is not buying into internet scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:53 PM
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But they still need to make decisions at the end of the day, which by their nature are going to be divisive, just serving up word salad isn't going to save him then. It's also clear at this point that he's a little unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:17 PM
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I wonder how popular he would be when he needed to propose concrete policies, rather than vague aphorisms. Or if he had to appeal to female voters, or sexual minorities. Or anyone outside a distinct subset of middle class manchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:03 PM
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Being good in bed is about understanding what your partner wants in the moment, and responding appropriately. That's why communication is important. Thinking that a one size fits all approach is going to work means you probably suck in bed tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:48 PM
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Because it's a common stereotype. In order to correctly identify where someone is going wrong when trying to find a date, we would need more information about them than can be found through reddit. Even if we know how you look and what your interests are, this is insufficient. Maybe the thing you do that sabotages your efforts doesn't even come across until meeting you in person. Maybe you make inappropriate jokes that make people around you uncomfortable. Maybe you tend to pick your nose. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:32 PM
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Sounds like you think you have a big penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:16 PM
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Is this a humblebrag?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:55 PM
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An outwardly overly happy and excited man is weird. Maybe you'd think he's gay. Oh boy, sounds like you're suppressing more than just your emotions to me, champ. If you think being gay would make you happy, maybe you should be gay? Someone who's always making jokes is weird, you'd think he's escaping something or screws loose. I dunno man, if you were playing a character right now, I'm sure you could be funny. Unless it's appropriate for the situation which is rare. Even undertakers like to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:10 PM
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Lying is fine when done correctly. What you mean to say is that lying is fine, as long as you don't get caught. You shouldn't outright lie obviously when caught. And why shouldn't one tell a lie when caught? Because being a known liar is devastating for your reputation. Please come back to the real world and out of your childish cartoon utopia communist Fantasyland where everyone just says what it is without censoring. Lol. How is that anger working out for you? I'm sorry but all the evidence in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:55 PM
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Not telling them to hurt people or set off meaningless confrontations with people. Like starting drama. I get the impression that you are so used to debating the straw men in your head that you're no longer able to distinguish them from real people any more. My advice is that people remain calm and collected, which is completely the opposite of starting confrontations and drama. Yes sure high Testesterone men like "doing" like moving. The activities you said fit under that. It has nothing to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:45 PM
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High testosterone Men can simultaneously love their significant other and still have unattached sex with other women from time to time who aren't even as pretty as their partner for variety's sake. You don't need testosterone to sleep around chief Older Successful men with wife and kids can also manage to have sex with the younger secretary who is into them, not take it seriously. And then go back to his family and still be a great loving husband and father for the rest of his life. Until the di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:29 PM
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I say things people don't like all the time, but nobody has ever called me an incel. Sure they will now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:15 PM
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Male bonding is done when two or more men have a similar objective or goal, a problem to solve, by necessity. That's self evidently not true though, since going to the pub with your friends doesn't have any objective, goal or problem. Unless you are going to define those terms so broadly that drinking itself is a goal. Whether its winning against the opposing sports team, or building something for the community to solve an issue. Neither of which are examples of anger driving success; both are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:07 PM
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The whole industry is predatory. Even the ones who aren't literal child predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:01 PM
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Anger at your situation and saying "I can't take this anymore" channeling it into action is a fantastic source of drive. I don't agree with this, because in my experience people who have an angry disposition are prone to becoming overly emotional, spiteful, reckless and unhinged. I doubt you would say the people on r/publicfreakout are examples of powerful people in control; they're mostly a figures of ridicule. To be clear I don't disagree that being determined to improve your situation is a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:57 PM
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Please give me some examples of good role models in life who are "angry". Anger is seldom a useful emotion, and indulging it more often than not is going to land you into trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:07 PM
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No, good male role models need to be seen as the highest value men in society just for being good The highest value men in society are already seen as good role models. You don't think politicians, academics, business people and community activists aren't seen as role models? The fact that entertainers are also seen as role models does not change this. Women just do not find men who have value as attractive. Yes they do. Women are attracted to the examples I gave above, and all are examples of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:02 PM
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I remember talking to a Peterson fan through his subreddit who was very into the idea of mentoring young men. He turned out to be a pedophile... Of course young men and boys should have role models, but it's up to them to choose them. They aren't going to pick a certain role model just because you want them to, they have to be inspirational. I certainly had my role models growing up: Ian MacKaye, Jello Biafra, Ian Hislop, Christopher Hitchens, and George Orwell. I had personal mentors too. I see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:19 AM
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I think OP is correct that when RP guys describe BP, they are talking about their former selves rather than mainstream opinion. Guys in this thread are claiming that BP will tell you that looks don't matter in dating, which I don't think anyone seriously believes. I've always taken advice about not focusing on looks to be something more akin to not worrying about things you can't change, which is absolutely solid advice in life. Of course you can take steps to change certain aspects of your appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:12 PM
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"Black pill is the new blue pill" The blue pill is not an ideology, it's just a catch-all term for those who reject red pill ideology. Nobody is prosletysing for it, nobody even hears about it without first hearing about the red pill. Sure, RPers will say that old cliches about dating are evidence of a blue pill ideology, but that's like saying that sayings like "grass is always greener" or "an apple a day" are examples of ideology. I am not sure if black pill is an ideology either, It seems mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:52 PM
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Then why did you take it seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:16 PM
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Last week my girlfriend asked me to clean the dishes, I like to take action by throwing all of the toys out of my toy chest and drawing on the walls. She hasn't given me any lip at all since then. In fact, she left without saying a word and hasn't come back since. Sounds harsh I know, but sometimes you just need a firm hand when dealing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:01 PM
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Well maybe you shouldn't believe everything you're told.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:49 PM
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What exactly do you feel you need to do for a date to be successful?*
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:21 AM
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Not sure that staring blankly at someone is "taking action"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:06 AM
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My apologies, I have rectified my original comment to reflect this. I hope the amendment is satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:13 PM
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A: All women like trait X B: But I'm a woman and I don't care about trait X A: WHY ARE YOU TELLING EVERYONE THIS? B: Because you said that women like trait X... C: UM ACKSHUALLY IF YOU READ THE POST IT DOES NOT SAY ALL WOMEN LIKE TRAIT X, WE'RE JUST POINTING OUT THAT A MAJORITY OF THE SAMPLE DO LIKE THAT TRAIT AND THEN MAKING GENERALISATIONS ABOUT ALL WOMEN BASED ON THAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:06 PM
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"Another explanation is that the words used 50 years ago may have fallen out of fashion" Golly, these hep-cats must be horsing around. Vocabulary changing over time? That's real corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:01 PM
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No arguing here about the fact you have the right to pick your own friends, but the fact that being rejected makes you feel lesser, to me is evidence of some insecurity. If you get rejected by someone, don't let yourself turn it into an existential crisis. Maybe you are just not her type, or maybe she's just looking for something else right now. I'm not saying this is easy to do, but you need to try your best to minimise the pain of rejection. Easiest way to do this is probably to: 1.Ask early o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:46 PM
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Another day on PPD. Problem: Having deep anxieties about your height and masculinity, as well as who you are attracted to. Telling men they need to be themselves = bad advice Telling them to pretend to be something they are not, as if they have a hope in hell of sustaining this charade for the rest of their lives = good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:33 PM
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You said it’s often seen as an inappropriate relationship. If I am moving the goalposts, explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:14 PM
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it’s not inappropriate for a man to be friends with a woman, and none of my female partners ever had an issue with the fact I have female friends. In fact a lot of women would say that not having any friends of the opposite sex is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:45 PM
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"When it comes to opposite sex relationships Insecurity and jealousy are words that are commonly tossed about when the man has an issue, but it’s generally called an inappropriate relationship when the genders are reversed." No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:32 PM
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You should probably direct your question to anthropologists, since they would be better placed to answer it. I have no idea whether or not there are societies that prefer short men. I suspect most have a preference to slightly above whatever is average for that culture. But as far as I am aware it's a fact that size preferences are influenced by culture... and height preferences being biological wouldn't change that. In general though, biological determinism is a pretty dumb theory. Clearly peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:03 PM
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Would you rather talk to someone who thinks it takes "effort" to speak to you, who is only interested in you because of what you can do for them... or would you rather someone is simply interested in you? The fact you look at relationships in this way is almost certainly the source of the problem my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:05 AM
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Throwing in trading jargon into a discussion about dating is probably my favourite PPD trope. The fact you are looking at relationships as an abstract transaction, rather than a personal connection you make with someone else means you are treating people like they are objects. No wonder they don't want to spend time with you. Neoliberalism is a disease of the mind, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:26 PM
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The point is that you shouldn't try to be something you are not in order to impress people.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:21 PM
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The biggest issue with TRP is not the misogyny or the con artists trying to get insecure men to buy testosterone cream, it's that it ignores the importance of skull shape in determining character.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:09 AM
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Mainly for men, but I suppose there's no reason women couldn't answer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:32 AM
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Even if we accept the spurious assumption that women can't relate to the problems that men face, that doesn't mean your only option is to go to the red pill. Don't you have any normal friends OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:08 PM
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Getting your life together before looking for a date... especially if it's a LTR you are after... makes sense. Not saying you can't find someone in those circumstances but it will be easier for you. You won't be dependent on someone else, and people are less likely to be put off by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:00 PM
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Pretty sure the red pill is mostly just a scam to be honest with you, I don’t believe any of them have any social competency at all based on their behavior here or on their subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:48 PM
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Well if we are talking about tinder, then I suppose I did get “rejected” by about 90% of women. Although I have no way of knowing if those women even saw my profile in the first place and I wasn’t exactly putting myself on the line either... like if someone didn’t say yes to me on a dating site, big deal. I don’t think I ever really tried to pick up women at a bar to be honest with you. Pub with friends is more my scene. Several women have tried to hook up with me at those places, but the attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:58 PM
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Why are so many men annoyed about makeup today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:29 PM
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Not even remotely surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:05 PM
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Civil Engineering. More women than you might expect, but still majority male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:24 PM
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I wasn’t rejected by 90% of the women I approached, although I didn’t go after every woman with a pulse, or any woman who I found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:30 PM
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Is that why you are buying fake instagram accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:28 PM
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Be the change you want to see in the world, and buy yourself some makeup then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:22 PM
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Nobody is stopping you from wearing makeup though. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:21 PM
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The more people there are, the more attractive people there are. It’s simple. Large cities are also attractive to young people, generally. Also if you want to see more attractive people, go to the places where attractive people are likely to go. Your corporate job is likely to have a mixed bag due to age differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:13 PM
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“Attacking their masculinity” Not once have I ever seen MGTOW guys and thought “they are too masculine!”. Usually the topic of masculinity doesn’t even come to mind, and when it does I usually think the opposite. “I decided to focus on my goals” Good, although you obviously do not need to go MGTOW to do that. “I satiate my sexual needs with...” Nobody is interested in listening to how you get off. “People hating on MGTOW is disheartening” MGTOW is essentially turning being a bitter divorced dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:59 PM
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Why do you need to control someone who is an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:24 AM
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No one talks about it, except for here, where I hear about it every fucking week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:13 AM
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But they don't let you feed the animals at the zoo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:18 AM
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Sorry OP but I don't take advice from people who make hasty generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:14 PM
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Is marriage only a legal contract, or does it also have symbolic importance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:19 AM
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Nothing gets women's panties wet like being a skinflint curmudgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:35 PM
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What argument? What exactly do you think we disagree about? Succinctly, I said: "The problem with making a relationship your main source of happiness in life is that it makes you very vulnerable if the relationship fails, and it might create an additional burden on a potential relationship." To which you replied: "I'm gonna stop you right there because that's not what anyone is advocating." Odd choice of words here since I'm not sure why you thought I was suggesting anyone would "advocate" makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:25 PM
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I'm gonna stop you right there because that's not what anyone is advocating. No? You can have many sources of happiness but if you are treated like you're invisible/garbage by people around you for a prolonged period of time it will poison the well, regardless of how happy other things make you. Sounds like I hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:14 PM
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I don't think the advice to 'be happy with yourself' is means that relationships are not a source of happiness. The problem with making a relationship your main source of happiness in life is that it makes you very vulnerable if the relationship fails, and it might create an additional burden on a potential relationship. I feel like people here complain about cliche dating advice but they often don't actually understand it fully. And if they are as easy to read in real life as they are here it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:31 PM
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How many layers of irony and sarcasm are you on right now bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:41 AM
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Incredibly biased against myself you mean? You tit. Look, I am a straight male and I am not seeing these alleged biases in my day to day life that Redpill guys talk about. However, I do not subscribe to RP ideology or misogynistic workd views. So that leads me to one conclusion; the "bias" is against RP ideology and misogyny, which makes sense because they are both nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:58 PM
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That doesn't seem like a 'hot take' at all, in fact it seems like a fairly uncontroversial observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:20 AM
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Yes, and I'm not seeing this alleged bias against men in my day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:38 PM
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It's not a bias against males, it's just that nobody outside of your own little community is interested in listening to your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:07 PM
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I don't care, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:54 AM
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Couldn't the problem be avoided altogether by simply avoiding hasty generalisations?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:10 PM
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Not necessarily! I remember an ex ordering steak when i offered to pay, while I ate something cheap. Her income was about double mine at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:49 AM
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I don't think it's a good strat. Better to use fewer quality puns imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:44 AM
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Are they fucking strawmen though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:39 AM
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I mean you have to be truly exceptional with puns to be funny with them. And referential humor is obviously dependent on your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:38 AM
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But Seinfeld is observational comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:35 AM
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I would actually put it differently: just because a woman laughs at your jokes, it doesn't mean she thinks you are actually funny. It could be out of politeness, or even embarassment. Or because she is attracted to you, I suppose. If they genuinely find you funny though it is an attractive quality but not a silver bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:28 AM
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I mean I would be interested to hear about Bismark's social reforms and I am sure some women would be too... but are you sure she wasn't laughing at you for your nerdiness? I think some women would be turned off by that immediately, especially if you are always 'explaining' things to them because it comes across as patronising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:23 AM
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It's not a real cultural phenomenon though. It is a term which has been created in some right wing circles, so that it can be applied derisively to others. There is no self-identified "cuck culture". At least when people criticize red pillers (for example) there is a self identified group of people who go by that label. And it's clear you are talking about your own insecurities from the fact that your realization about "cuck culture" only came about after reflecting on your own behaviour. And I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:23 PM
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Making insecure men feel guilty about jerking off is probably the best play the far right has made in years. The irony is that you are talking about it being a cultural phenomenon but it's clearly just your own insecurities you are talking about here. You even told us as much yourself. Why are you so worried about other people fucking OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:52 AM
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If that's what you are doing here then yes, I guess I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:35 AM
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On the left hand we have forced or tokenistic diversity in films. On the right hand we have some undefined left-wing utopian society. What I am asking you to do is explain how one leads (or in the minds of tthe media, is supposed to lead) to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:53 PM
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I don't usually have trouble reading the written word, but have to admit that reading minds continues to be a struggle for me. You just said "the whole diversity thing is bullshit" in your previous comment. I'm just asking you to elaborate your views here, but as expected, there is nothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:50 AM
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Again you aren't really explaining what is going on, just reiterating that you don't like diversity. I am not seeing the 'political agenda".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:34 AM
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Yeah I appreciate that, I am just trying to understand what you think is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:14 AM
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OK, if you think there is a political agenda involved, please explain what that political agenda is and how so-called "forced diversity" is going to achieve that goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:08 AM
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So it was diagnosed by a psychiatrist, who practices in the field of psychiatry, which means that ADHD can be be broadly classified as what type of disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:00 PM
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"lol are you starting to realize that progressive leftists are fucking morons and can't even maintain their own belief system? They believe whatever is most convenient for them." Yet everyone in this thread is trying to explain how smacking someone makes him a beta male, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:03 PM
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It's pretty simple: the only reason the people here aren't calling Will Smith a chad alpha male for smacking Chris Rock, is because they already decided he was a cuck months ago. There are people saying that the alpha male thing to do in this situation would be to practice "stoicism" and not to react at all. But you can guarantee that if Will Smith had done that they would call him a beta for failing to defend his woman's honour. OP mentions that people in Asia don't see him as a cuck; but that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:55 PM
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Hollywood is liberal and progressive, but it's still fundamentally capitalistic and therefore not 'left wing' in any meaningful way. Liberals are not left wing. As for politics being 'injected' into films, normal people don't consider the use of black actors or diverse casts to be a political statement; that's pretty much limited to online reactionaries and old curmudgeons sat at home watching Fox. They are not doing it because of a political agenda; they do it because it's more profitable for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:11 PM
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Why do they need to? Nobody on the left cares about Smith, he's just a right wing totem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:16 PM
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The funniest thing about this whole debacle is watching the conservatives, traditionalists and manosphere ideologues pivot to condemn a man using physical violence to defend the honour of his wife is psychotic and dangerous, only because they had already decided that the man who did it is a limp-wristed cuck. Let's face it guys, if you had previously thought Will Smith shared your opinions, or even if you simply didn't like Chris Rock, you wouldn't be condemning him for this; you would be saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:59 AM
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An undiagnosed mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:08 AM
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Well the more likely explanation is that they are exaggerating, but if someone sincerely has invasive thoughts that disrupt other activities (ie their hobbies) then yeah, that's not normal and indicates a larger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:54 AM
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That's interesting, I'll have to speak to my psychiatrist about that in our next appointment to discuss my ADHD treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:46 AM
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If this is really true then you should probably speak to a psychiatrist, because having intrusive thoughts like that is a common symptom of a few disorders, including ADHD and anxiety disorder to name only two. If you have these problems then simply getting more hobbies isn't going to resolve them, but that doesn't contradict the underlying point that focusing on something else will help make you a more complete person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:57 AM
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Finally, someone gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:49 AM
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It's a definite turn off, because so far nobody I've ever met who claims to make so-called "politically incorrect jokes" has ever actually been funny. Aside from the fact this kind of humour is simply way too played out to actually be funny anymore, the people who set out to try and be "politically incorrect" are themselves the unwitting victims of irony. The irony being that the phrase "politically incorrect jokes" is itself a 'politically correct' way of describing what are otherwise just raci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:22 PM
5

There are a lot of thirsty men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:54 PM
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Your entire conception of what is ‘traditional’ is a mythology which conforms to your own personal ideals, not an accurate reflection of the past. Traditional working men didn’t want higher taxes; they wanted communist revolutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:24 PM
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If you cannot get basic facts like whether or not Ukraine is a member of the European Union right, why should anyone take the rest of what you have written seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:22 PM
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There is no point in being upset or angry about things you cannot change.
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:13 PM
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OP is a man pretending to be a woman, calling it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:08 AM
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Ah yes, a status symbol which is also intangible. Brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:59 AM
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Because women often feel like they aren’t taken seriously when they talk about being the victims of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:40 PM
1

Sure, but what is the functional difference between wearing clothes to improve your appearance and wearing makeup to improve your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:37 PM
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I am not a woman, but I can tell you that I try to dress well for my own sake. I like to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:32 PM
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To me the real issue is not women wearing makeup, but men bathing regularly. People who follow a basic personal hygiene regime are disguising their true scent and greasiness. They claim that it’s for themselves, but it’s obvious they feel that not smelling like shit will help them get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:30 PM
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I am OK paying the bill on a first date, because I am not a miserly curmudgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:11 PM
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I don’t think I know any woman who wouldn’t be impressed by a man who uses the word ‘fornicate’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:35 PM
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I don’t buy the story tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:25 PM
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“You’re talking about outliers” So says the person talking about Victoria’s Secret models dating unemployed 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:03 PM
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It doesn’t help you understand reality though; it obfuscates underlying complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:17 AM
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I think the main problem is that none of the things you are talking about here are actually real. If someone has some requirements for potential partners, then all that matters is whether or not they find someone that meets them and they click. If the person meeting those criteria has different criteria, eg wanting to date someone younger, then they don’t click. Different people have different criteria, so the idea of SMV is useless and counterproductive. It only purpose it serves is as a coping…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:09 AM
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No, because the advice isn’t for you- it’s for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:28 AM
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“What do you mean you don’t want to go out for coffee with me? Facts don’t care about your feelings!” Interpersonal relations aren’t a physics problem my guy. The facts are not on your side, or the Red Pill’s side; confirmation bias is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:17 AM
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As opposed to the completely fair and innocent strategies of TRP? Face it, if you were born with a vagina you’d be on FDS too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:00 PM
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The original claim was that TRP is different to FDS because it is also about self improvement, as well as dating advice. I said that in fact FDS is also about self-improvement, because there is an entire FDS affiliated subreddit which is about the topic of self improvement. At that point, the matter should have been settled. Whether the advice offered is useful or not is largely a matter of opinion, and isn’t relevant to the discussion anyway since the point being made is that TRP and FDS are tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:55 PM
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You should probably ask women, but I suspect that it’s either a coincidence, that they are less intimidated by men who aren’t single, or they are into guys who are already taken.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:57 PM
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It’s literally an offshoot of FDS. And like TRP, the FDS ideology is supposed to be a complete package, it’s not just dating advice. So the fact that you don’t think most of the advice they give there will help them with dating isn’t really here nor there. Not to mention that these things are largely a matter of opinion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:44 PM
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You laugh, wicked jezebel, but with the combination of barnum statements and testosterone cream, I have unlocked the mysteries of the female psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:59 PM
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It is a self-improvement subreddit; FDS is the subreddit which is about dating. I’m trying to demonstrate that despite what TRP would have you believe, ie. that TRP is different because it is also about self improvement, that there is in fact a self-improvement aspect to FDS, it’s just on a separate subreddit. Because they recognize there is (and should be) a distinction between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:57 PM
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But from my experience most of the posts on FDS are not about trying to attract someone, but asking whether or not X is an example of shitty behaviour or a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:51 PM
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So is that someone who doesn’t follow TRP, but agrees that working out will help you attract women? One is an ideology, and the other is a rejection or criticism of that ideology. Adopting the enlightened centrist take and saying that both are right about some things is missing the point; either you believe in the ideology or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:24 PM
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You forget, women are all lying harlots, so nobody is going to listen to what they say. They so not even understand their own nature. But for the low, low price of $19.95 you can, with my ebook ‘The Really Intelligent Male”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:14 PM
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I don’t think you can make an assumption like that based on the activity of those two subreddits. Even if I was into TRP and wanted to learn about weightlifting for example, I would go to the weightlifting subreddit, not the Red Pill. Most people also don’t need self-improvement advice either. Most of it is just navel gazing anyway, if you enjoy your life and have hobbies you enjoy you’re already set.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:07 PM
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OK, if you already knew that both TRP and FDS are like that, why did you point it out in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:37 PM
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r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:31 PM
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But that’s exactly what FDS does too. They also talk about ‘male nature’ (HVM vs LVM), relationship dynamics (male dating strategies, abusive relationships, having standards). They simply have a different vocabulary to you. How do you guys not see it, it’s like you are looking into a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:26 PM
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As if TRP isn’t full of bitter divorcees as well. Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:11 PM
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There is literally an entire FDS subreddit dedicated to women improving themselves. If you had been born with a vagina, you would be on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:11 PM
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What a winning hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 AM
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Yes and lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:21 PM
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Ah yes, treating women as though they aren’t fully human. What an excellent dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:24 AM
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In my opinion people with Aspergers are an ideal fit for the redpill because they have a tendency to be trusting towards other people, and are therefore much easier to rook. Really, nobody should be looking to the red pill for advice, but certainly not people who are especially vulnerable to con artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:36 AM
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When all is said and done, the grass is always greener on the other side and we should ask not what women can do for us, but what we can do for men. Because life does not move to the beat of just one drum, got milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:28 AM
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Jokes on you op, having sex with people is my hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:42 AM
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We are more than the sum of our parts, not a simple list of traits and characteristics. So I think people tend to look at this in the wrong way. You start with simple attraction to someone, then as you get to know them more the rose tinted glasses come off and you begin to learn more about the person they are underneath, their personality, goals, outlook and so on. This is where a deeper bond is formed. I think settling is when you are in that phase and recognize that there are issues in the rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:16 AM
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You claim that women won’t be interested in men who are ugly, poor or have a small dick; but that personality is an exception because it only matters at the extreme end. It’s obvious though that is true of all of them are relative though. If you are at the extreme end of any of them then yes, your options will be limited/high accordingly. People who are very attractive will get away with being shitty, and people who have attractive personalities will do well even if they don’t look good; excepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:43 AM
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Well then you should work on your communication skills, because I’m not telepathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:14 AM
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That car accidents are more common than murder? Yeah, I understood that “point”. Quite a slam dunk, well done you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:10 PM
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Not a great response when you think of the time and money spent to reduce the likelihood and damage caused by car accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:12 PM
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“The reason why making sex a commodity is often thought of immoral is because it cheapens it” It doesn’t matter what their reasoning is. It’s a matter of personal morality. If someone considers that immoral, then that is their prerogative and there is nothing more to discuss about it. Furthermore, even if you personally believe that casual sex ‘cheapens’ sex, it does not attach a dollar value to it. There is also no reason that someone could consider something which is materially abundant to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:34 AM
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It’s simple, confidence is when you believe you are correct assertive is when you know you’re full of shit but just have to say something anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:08 AM
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I would tell him that it is impossible to give specific advice about a hypothetical example, and the only real advice one can give in the circumstances is generic stuff like confidence, good hygiene and grooming. If pressed I would say that he needs to find a way of making the other person interested in him, but what that will take is going to depend on the girl. Making them laugh is a good start, as is showing you are interested in them. I would wish him luck and caution him that anyone who tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:00 AM
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“I believe this is true equivalence...” Well it’s not equivalent. And despite your best efforts to squint at the problem hard enough to see what you want, it’s still not convincing. “I don’t know how you can consider prostitution immoral but casual sex moral” If you consider making sex into a commodity immoral, then you consider prostitution immoral. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:43 AM
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I do not know why anyone would care about how many people their partner had slept with, but regardless, there is obviously a distinction between paying people for sex and simply sleeping with a lot of people. If you consider prostitution immoral for example, then it’s not hypocritical to reject someone who has visited prostitutes, even if you’ve slept with hundreds of different men before yourself. If OP wanted a fair comparison they should have made both sides truly equivalent, and it is obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:24 AM
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Conservatives are more likely to value marriage, so it’s no surprise that for married men and women there is a conservative lean. You mentioned single men, but does that mean single or unmarried? Because someone who is against marriage on a fundamental level is more likely to be left leaning. As for why women are generally less conservative than men are, it probably has to do with the fact women make less than men on average, and people on a low income are more likely to lean left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:51 AM
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According to the FDS guidebook, the chapter “HVM and what it means to be one”, women should expect even most HVM to do less than 50% of the housework and those that actually do half of it are ‘unicorns’. The main point is that the HVM should be respectful about doing housework, and try to do it to the standard their partner expects. source: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hwg0bt/high_value_men_and_what_it_means_to_be_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:25 AM
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Again, just because you don’t want to hear it doesn’t mean it’s not advice, and they would probably consider your repulsion towards it to be evidence of it working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah, they are telling women they need to be more selective about who they date. That is also self-improvement advice, albeit from a perspective that applies to women rather than men. Just because that isn’t the advice that you would give women, doesn’t mean it’s not advice. Regarding your edit, there is an entire subreddit affiliated with FDS on the subject of self-improvement. I don’t know man, I cannot really break it down for you any further just because you don’t want to accept it. As for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:02 PM
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FDS also contains self-improvement advice, it’s just written from a perspective that is applicable to women. Secondly, the toxic elements of TRP are not difficult to find, or a minority of what is discussed on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:59 AM
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Sorry, who are you accusing of bad mouthing an entire gender? I’ll have you know that I am a misanthrope who hates all of humanity regardless of their gender identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:34 AM
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I mean the “made you look 😘” thing in your profile is pretty feminine, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:33 PM
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Is it the rehersed lines that bother people about PUA’s? No, it’s the deception and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:04 PM
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So you did, in fact, get laid by being yourself... as opposed to getting laid by pretending to be something you aren’t. As you said, we are all in a state of constant flux. The reason for the advice to ‘be yourself’ is given is that A) People will probably pick up on it if you lack authenticity B) changing your entire personality in order to get a date is exhausting and unsustainable Perhaps this wasn’t a piece of advice that you personally needed to hear, and the people who say it are often a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:01 PM
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Nothing obsessive about keeping tabs on which users you think might be either female or gay. That’s just totally normal, extra regular behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:43 PM
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Children born into families with problems are more likely to have problems, surprise surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:34 PM
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Pretty sure Red Pill advice also recommends ‘putting yourself out there’ and ‘working on your personality’. I guess it includes working out more, but that too is pretty generic life and dating advice. And fuck me, posts like this one are dime a dozen, so you probably aren’t as interesting or as impressive as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:14 AM
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OK guys, I checked the thread and it turns out nobody is saying that being attractive isn’t an advantage in dating, so we can stop pretending that anyone believes this and try to actually understand what the people who disagree with us are trying to say, instead of using this ridiculous straw man to silence all detractors? ok, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:31 PM
-1

Whining about random internet articles isn’t manly by anyone’s standards OP, give it a rest. Do you respect these viewpoints? If not, why are you so bothered by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:36 PM
2

They have an entire subreddit dedicated to self-improvement, which (at least to my knowledge) cannot be said for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:03 PM
1

FDS does have an affiliated subreddit called “female level up strategy” which does contain practical advice on self-improvement, while the Red Pill does recommend that you lift weights and stuff. Arguably though in both cases the advice could be completely divorced from their ideologies, and the advice itself is rather obvious. Who would have thought for example that getting a better paying job or being physically fit would improve your life? Oh that’s right, everyone thinks these are good. Mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:02 PM
2

I don’t go on dates with my friends, we hang out. If you are describing it as a date, it sounds more like a dating. But it’s ultimately semantics. If both parties know the score, then it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:41 AM
1

You think we are interested in seeing that mess on top of your head? Put a powdered wig on at once!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:21 PM
1

Two fictional characters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:31 PM
0

What are you talking about, a straw man? I just responded to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:52 AM
1

Then why did you stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:59 AM
1

It seems immature and cringe if you dress like a teenager in your 40s+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:50 PM
2

No, so you’re probably doing something wrong.
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:06 PM
-2

Men don’t follow the red pill because they want to date women, they follow it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:30 AM
1

Your decency and good intentions positively shine here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:21 PM
2

Do you think that’s why the SJWs are attacking MGTOW etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:13 AM
2

I will never shame someone for struggling to find a partner or for being a virgin. I’m sympathetic to anyone who is in that position. However, if you are an incel I would suggest going for therapy because there’s probably something more to it than simply being unable to find a partner or get laid. If you decide that relationships aren’t for you, that’s fine too. I have known a few men who have made that decision and are completely upstanding guys. You should pursue your own happiness. However, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:17 PM
8

Red pill: 14: “There is no shame in being a late bloomer and your balls will drop soon.” 16: “If testosterone cream shows up in any of my bank statements, you’re grounded.” 18: I would start referring to him by his PUA nickname at family gatherings. 25+: I would tell her that of course I still love her, that I’m very proud of her and yes, I’ve always known. Incel: 14: “I’m making an appointment with the psychiatrist.” 16: “I’m making an appointment with the psychiatrist.” 18: “I’m making an appo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:56 PM
1

The reason people like to make the human nature argument against communism is that in their mind it is absolute. There is no purpose in exploring what happened, where it went wrong, or how it could be improved if the problem is with mankind itself. It’s a thought terminating cliche. Your suggestion that the history of the 20th century would be sufficient evidence to disprove communism is an improvement, but it is still a bit simplistic. There are complex reasons why the USSR collapsed, it didn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:28 PM
1

Again “gender is a social construct” is not a left wing view. In what way does that affect the economy or the relationship between employer and employee? It is a true statement nonetheless, but it’s not a “left wing” position. I am impressed that you are willing to work so hard for the benefit of your superiors at the hospital, but I think you should expect better for yourself. As you mentioned you had to bust your ass to get where you are. Why are you letting others benefit from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:01 PM
2

Nobody believes that everyone is a blank slate or that everything is the result of social programming. That’s just your own straw man interpretation of what left wing views are. Some people are born taller, shorter, smarter, dumber, stronger, weaker and so on. This is unfortunately a fact of life. The idea is that we should change society so that these characteristics do not place an undue burden on these individuals. I wouldn’t even accept this as a definition of left wing politics, which is mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:24 PM
3

I have learned that there is a sizable group of men who unironically believe they understand women better than women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:00 PM
1

Woman #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:18 PM
1

People who disagree with my worldview are not only wrong, they are actually living outside reality. This is definitely a healthy mindset to have and there is no way a rational person like me would ever fall victim to a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:11 AM
2

Why do you think that women (or indeed men) shouldn’t be looking out for red flags when deciding whether or not they want to continue dating somebody? If you are smitten with someone, it is very easy to overlook any negative behaviors they might have, meaning you get invested into a relationship before you realise there is a problem. This is why you are supposed to look for red flags early on, before you become invested in the relationship. I was previously in an emotionally abusive relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:24 AM
1

Corporate virtue signaling = genuine support for left wing politics There are plenty of right wing think tanks corporations pour their money into as a tax dodge, nobody is doing that for left wing think tanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:50 PM
1

OK, and I also spend most of my time out in the real world and that isn’t what I have seen. The only people I know who fit that description are the extremely online, and it’s by no means limited only to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:06 PM
1

I’m not sure how you can diagnose those things on a societal level. They seem more like the problems experienced by a section of society, primarily the extremely online. I don’t know if they apply to the people out there in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:46 PM
1

What do you mean by general unhappiness? Is that the stuff making you unhappy, or is it a diagnosis or society at large?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:57 PM
5

Just drop it all man, honestly. I’m working on it myself. Leave discord servers, unsubscribe from politically charged subreddits and just focus on your own happiness. Join subs for cooking, houseplants, chess or whatever else interests you that isn’t infected with that shit... you’ll be happier for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:55 PM
1

I would say I am about an 8 out of 10 for personal happiness. My fiancée and I are living together peacefully in the countryside, though we would like to go back to the city once she graduates. Though we are single income we have enough money to get by each month. I’m spending my weekdays working in an enjoyable job and at the weekends we go out and explore nature. Walks on the beach, or through the forest. Unfortunately as it’s winter now, the weather and darkness make that more challenging but…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:50 PM
1

Pretty sure even FDS thinks men should go to therapy, although there are certain mental illnesses and disorders they would consider to be red flags. You can check their guide for this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:45 PM
1

Tell them to stop writing amateur anthropology papers then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:43 PM
3

The only real red pill is the class pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:39 PM
3

The best use of PPD is a cautionary tale. Almost everyone here is miserable and most of them absolutely deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:34 AM
1

Why do you write like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:13 PM
0

You are right that there are a lot of posts on FDS about penis size, but it’s a bit silly to think that everyone participating on that subreddit agrees with everything said on it unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:08 PM
3

Lots of guys here who are very angry about the prospect of having to pay for someone else’s dinner lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:23 AM
1

That works, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:58 PM
3

Having issues with your link.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:56 PM
1

Yeah, haven't you heard of Schrödinger's pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:33 AM
4

The only "narrative" is the red pill one. There is no interconnecting theory for what redpillers call the "blue pill". Some of it is criticism of the red pill, but a lot of what people call blue pill is just cliche dating advice from people who haven't even heard of trp. I do not know which politicians are out there giving you dating advice either but if you think everyone is out to get you then you're probably nuts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:30 PM
0

Yeah, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:20 AM
0

I simply mean not in front of a crowd of people, ie don't humiliate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:02 AM
1

Clearly and unequivocally, in a private setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:01 PM
12

Why is her ethnicity relevant? Oh, come on now, you think that men who think women are out to rob them are above making racist generalisations?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:49 PM
0

I am happily married and tend to view the 'pills' as political leanings rather than this dumb 'What do women want?' conversation. Yeah, it turns out a lot of people like to imagine themselves as having some special insight into what is "really" going on in the world. The red pill, according to people who aren't desperately horny and socially awkward: The realization that we are in a carefully constructed narrative that is meant to keep some very unsavory people in power. As is so often the case …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:28 PM
1

Yeah, I was thinking that maybe you live pretty warm place because in my country you'd be freezing your ass off in the winter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:42 AM
2

I don't play in the WNBA, but I am sure even they have got bigger balls than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:39 AM
1

Personally, looking at the selections here my opinions of OP would be negative, and I would assume he is a fuckboy... At the same time though, I have no doubt some women like this style. I think the problem is that style is very contextual. Like most people in the thread have said already, this outfit is too casual for most dates. In specific circumstances it may work, but for a typical date (dinner, coffee, dancing... anywhere but the beach or certain kinds of nightclubs) it's inappropriate for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:18 PM
5

A gamer talking about Alphas, palette swap me surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:33 AM
1

You don't like my pick up lines? Do you think I need better material?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:11 PM
2

I have always felt that there is no better tool for cracking nuts than a sledgehammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:07 PM
1

I noticed that women have trouble holding their own boundaries If you go beyond your own boundaries, then your boundaries have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:53 PM
3

Touch the fabric of my coat ladies, I think you'll agree, that's husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:51 PM
0

Another day, another person telling on themselves at PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:39 PM
2

One thing that helped me to get out of my shell was studying abroad. I was the only person from my school in the place I studied and I was kind of forced to get to know people. Everyone else was in the same position, so that definitely helped, but I don't think it is strictly necessary. You just get out there and talk to people. Unfortunately, there isn't really anything more you can do. I think it is important to be willing to go through with small talk, not because talking about the weather or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:03 PM
4

Anyone else find it interesting that this phrase is universally used in complete derision towards men on the internet everywhere, BUT if spoken towards a woman it would be most likely a genuine question. And if it wasn't, it would reflect badly on the speaker in polite company? This phrase is generally used when they believe there is some underlying problem which has been left unsaid. Whether it is meant sarcastically or not depends on what was said before. On this subreddit you are right that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:52 PM
5

Telling on ourselves are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:24 PM
1

Yeah, basically women weren't horny until the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:12 PM
0

There is this commonly-shared notion that folks who fail to find partners, and specially enthusiastic partners, during their teens and twenties STILL have a chance at love once they're in their thirties. Pretty sure it is still possible to meet people in adulthood. Perhaps not as easy as when you are younger since adults usually have a smaller social circle (compared to University students for exampe). Problem is, that's not going to be love at all. That's going to be the old "I never liked you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:20 AM
1

So was that something that I said, or does my opposition to the red pill mean I have to defend anything anyone has ever said here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:55 PM
5

No prostitution in the Victorian era, nosiree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:52 AM
1

The blue pill, is, in fact, the real conspiracy. This response says it all really
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:42 AM
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The redpill isn't rooted in facts though, it's a conspiratorial worldview that believes women are acting as a singular entity, which then goes looking for evidence to confirm its own hypothesis. It's not rational at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:52 AM
3

Will (new consumer technology) result in the end of civilisation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:46 PM
2

The reason these people focus on the boost of self-confidence rather than their increased attractiveness, is that the confidence part is something they actually feel within themselves, while the attractiveness is always external and subjective. It's not a cope, or an unwillingness to admit that appearances matter. They have no reason to pretend otherwise, they already succeeded. It's just that people care about their own feelings than the feelings of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:45 AM
21

What are we trying to find out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:44 PM
1

No shit sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:00 PM
27

I lost my virginity around your age, so I wouldn't feel too discouraged. Try not to be disheartned and stay positive about yourself. Signal to people that you are a person they want to be around by being friendly, approachable, generous, kind, funny etc. Focus on your own stuff, hobbies and your career, rather than on trying to get women to like you. People who have stuff going on in their lives are naturally attractive.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:13 PM
-1

We can't trust the women on this subreddit, but we can take these posts from 8 years ago at their word because confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:47 PM
2

Instead of markings inside a door frame for height, you could put them across a kitchen counter or a dining table.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:11 PM
3

Wait, the 'and larger' size is only 7"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:08 PM
0

Only 17? What a fucking prude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:04 PM
2

If you see debate as a form of bloodsport that you participate in just for the thrill of it, sure. You can certainly one-up a few people by having a good grasp of logical fallacies. And no shame if that is what you are here to do, dunking on people is a beloved pastime for me. If you are looking for a deeper understanding though, it is probably counter-productive because just because someone may present the argument in a fallacious way does not mean they are necessarily wrong. If I say the earth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:16 PM
7

Pointing out logical fallacies is one thing, but another important aspect of debating in a place like this which doesn't recieve anything like the same attention in online communities is acting in good faith and being charitable in your interpretations of what other people say. Bertrand Russell said that when presented with something new we should try our best to look at the intentions of those presenting it in the best light possible, before dismantling it carefully with reason and logic. Discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:00 PM
3

He's faster than a speeding bullet, so depending on her priorities, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:22 PM
19

I don't think the people who actually buy the bathwater are complaining, it's other men who are complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:16 PM
2

If you want to talk about disparities in earnings, Jeff Bezos probably earns more money than everyone on this subreddit combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:47 PM
-1

"You know full well if the rate of STDs among men were double what women have, women would not accept the same kind of justifications and rationalisations you just spat out here. They would be shitting all over men for spreading diseases or gloating that their promiscuity led to this" And presumably you realise that if you had been born a woman, then you would have been one of them, right? Honestly, this is exactly the kind of squabbling my sister would do... when she and I were children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:24 AM
-1

A source might help too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:16 AM
2

I would strongly recommend trying not to be offended by the suggestion you might be gay and be careful about coming across as passive aggressive.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:38 PM
2

OK, do you think there is a middle ground then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:25 PM
3

There are definitely aspects of FDS which I find questionable, but the aspirational aspect of trying to be high quality is imho better than trying to manipulate women advocated by RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:49 PM
1

If by "notlikeothergirls" you mean I escaped puberty and no longer have the mind of a fourteen year old boy in the body of an adult male, you hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:14 AM
3

If I was the sort of person who needed validation, why would I post something like this here, attacking 90% of the people who post here? Do you think asking someone for their opinion is seeking validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:06 AM
1

Neo from the matrix?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:01 AM
3

It's not about feeling superior, it's just funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:58 PM
3

Is pussy something you find hard to come by? Are you fourteen years old? I do not care whether anyone thinks I am one of "the good ones". Even if all of FDS said I was, what difference would it make to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:55 PM
3

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:37 PM
6

That's not self pitying either!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:06 PM
-6

I am not the type to be bothered by mean words on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:29 PM
7

That's complaining about a double standard, not self-pitying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:46 PM
6

A dysfunctional cocktail party where the men absolutely refuse to buy anyone drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:45 PM
2

I have been carpet bombing this place with truth bombs for weeks now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:44 PM
-9

Compared to the red pill? Yeah, I would go with FDS advice any day. Instead of telling you to indulge in self-pity, they actually suggest things that will improve your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:42 PM
3

These people represent a tiny minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:35 PM
4

I was a sad and shy teenage boy myself once, but even at that time I thought this stuff was reprehensible and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:32 PM
1

I prefer cheetos actually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:31 PM
10

Isn't that the movie about male insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:30 PM
2

Which women is that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:29 PM
10

I'm not, I see men doing it every day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:23 PM
2

Do you take me for some kind of coward?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:23 PM
5

How about one of the hairs plucked from my massive ballsack instead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:21 PM
3

Recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:20 PM
11

What, you think it's only women laughing at you? Oh dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:13 PM
3

What is there to get then, please enlighten me oh wise one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:30 PM
16

Ah yes, if it's not undermining womens experiences, it's exaggerating to absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:29 PM
4

Who said anything about being a normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:22 PM
6

I'm sorry, what do you think "change my view" means? No ego here friend, just here to laugh at self-important people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:21 PM
8

Do you know what car crash television is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:14 PM
5

I like to have a laugh after work, I already told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:09 PM
5

Well I can laugh at myself if that's what I mean, perhaps you should try it yourself Mr Betabucks666.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:08 PM
1

Yeah, there is always a reason to give up isn't there. Definitely the fault of the universe, not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:04 PM
9

I don't see the women here pitying themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:02 PM
14

What do you think I should offer? Because in my experience, nobody here is interested in changing their mind, they are looking to have their own opinions validated. When you actually offer them advice, they ignore it and repeat their cycles of self-pity and obsessing over their own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:01 PM
12

I am not laughing at their suffering though, I'm laughing at the insane shit they believe. Important difference. Nobody likes self-pity guys, get it through your heads. Speak to a therapist, not an internet cult intent on dragging you down with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:55 PM
3

There is no use complaining about things you can't change my guy. Even if being short is a setback in dating, you can't do anything about it so make your peace with it. Becoming bitter and self-pitying on the other hand is not obligatory and will hurt your chances more than your stature will. Nobody wants to spend their time with a miserable cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:49 PM
6

It's not the same because they won't let me feed the animals at the zoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:42 PM
2

Nobody hates short men as much as short men do tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:39 PM
1

Not wearing a call of duty t-shirt definitely will make you more attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:08 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:46 PM
1

That word means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. My opinion is that the primary source of hardship for the overwhelming majority of the world's population is their social class. It is not natural strength or meritocracy that allows one to rise to the highest rungs of society, but the opportunities afforded by your social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:53 PM
1

Ah yes, the naturalistic fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:16 PM
12

Why don't you try telling us the hardships you are facing that you believe are defining your character. We can then try to figure out whether or not women also need to go through those hardships. Life is difficult for most people sir. It's a byproduct of living in an economic system in which most of humanity have to complete unfulfulling busy work in order to raise enough money to survive. If you think women have it easy because some of them can become mothers, then you are the one who is delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:51 PM
2

I think that most criticisms of the red pill will fall along similar lines, regardless of the individual's stance on feminism. The point I was trying to make is that feminism is that there are many kinds of feminism than just "radical" and vanilla and I don't think it's a good idea to equate them to the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:27 AM
3

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:44 PM
3

I like a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:43 PM
0

If someone is going to tell me that the reason I don't accept "the truth" is because they think it will offend my sensibilities, tell me why shouldn't I be emphatically offensive in response? Is there a better way to quash the allegation I am trying to virtue signal than behaving so unceremoniously? I think that the red pill is a conspiracy theory that has evolved into a grift. I think the people who fall for it are cut from the same cloth as those who think the moon landing was faked, or that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:15 PM
0

Yeah I like to have a laugh after work, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:22 PM
1

Appearance matters, but wallowing in self pity or anxiety over your appearance is also terrible. Perhaps a golden mean between acceptance of ones appearance and regular showers exists.
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:17 PM
2

Are you really so average looking that you think looking for pity from others will fix it? Absolutely terrible mentality, be fun and interesting instead.
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:14 PM
0

Well allow me to be politically incorrect for a moment and call you a gormless rube for being taken in by someone promising you "forbidden knowledge".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:48 PM
2

I think anyone who is truly 'redpilled' in that sense would realise that the redpill is a crock of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:21 PM
6

The blue pill is not an ideology, it is just opposition to the red pill. Feminism is an extremely broad collection of theories, it goes much further than simply 'radical' and 'vanilla'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:20 PM
2

When you say he thinks single men are losers, what exactly do you mean by that? Does he think MGTOW, Redpill etc guys are losers because of their beliefs, or does he really mean single men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:08 AM
1

I prefer Grooming Tailoring Financing Outreach.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:02 PM
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Well OP, whatever the explanation is I am sure that reality is wrong and the red pill is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:07 PM
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Get back in your pot, lobster https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanPeterson/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:03 PM
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Do you believe everything you read online?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:09 AM
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Imagine thinking someone sincerely believes that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:23 AM
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Fear of my partner cheating certainly weighs heavy on my mind at times, and I know I’m not the only one. The first question is whether this is a problem with your partner, or a "you" problem. The fact that we are talking in general terms rather than in the specifics about your own relationship indicates that we are talking about the former. If you are worried about being cheated on because you believe cheating is in womens nature, that is on you. Redpillers, and honestly most of my male friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:13 AM
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If you are going to cherry pick a thread as an example of how awful they are, you should probably pick something banal, or at least one in which a woman does something shitty. Posting the one about a woman who was murdered by her own boyfriend, from a community where most of the members have previously been in abusive relationships, and then pointing to the mean comments... well, it essentially demonstrates to me how trivial your concerns are relative to those of the women you are trying to comp…
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:03 PM
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Well I've seen some RP guys suggesting that pornography is a good way to learn how to satisfy a woman, that you should focus on your own pleasure rather than your partners, and that you shouldn't perform cunnilingus. I don't know if those views are representative, but they're terrible advice. Foreplay is extremely important if you want to satisfy a woman but not strictly necessary if you are a man. Communication is also important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:56 PM
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Bathed and showerpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:25 AM
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The pathetic examples of men that can be found here is all the proof one needs to know TRP doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:21 AM
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From what I have seen, TRP's advice would make one worse in bed, not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:14 AM
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Every thread here is a shit show, the only reason to be here is to enjoy the madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:01 AM
3

My own dating ideology includes maintaining personal hygiene, having a job and not slapping the ass of strangers in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:00 AM
3

I'm laughing at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:19 PM
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"Blue Pill" = having strong beliefs that don't actually align with reality. Imagine thinking that the only people who understsnd reality are the people in your internet cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:03 PM
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At it’s roots all it says is that women and men are different that’s it. I have yet to meet a red piller I agree with and even I believe that men and women are different. It's far too broad a definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:38 PM
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Most conservative ideologies are built on longing for a mythologocal golden age and fear of a long descent into the end of civilisation. If these guys had been alive at that time, they would probably be in the same position they are now, disatisfied with the status quo and pining for another mythologised time in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:12 AM
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Their whole ideology is founded on bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:21 PM
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The second anyone tries to make you guys confront reality of what you say you just disengage. It might not bother me as much if you didn't try to present yourselves as enlightened rational thinkers instead of the cult you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:20 PM
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It's not the theories themselves that leads me to believe these people are unwell though, its the patterns in their behaviour which resemble those of some mental disorders. It also wouldn't be surprising for people with similar mental issues to congregate together in groups online either; that wouldn't be unique to TRP. They form a group, validate each other, reinforcing one anothers views against outside influence, becoming obsessive over certain issues. You can see similar behaviour in the gan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:13 PM
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I read that women just want a "nice guy" or that they want a caring individual that gives them security and comfort... However between all of the dating stradegies i and friends of mine have used over the years theres one thing that i see is a pattern and its deff not the case imo. Because they are not trying to teach you how to pick up women, they are selling you something. Why would you need a book that tells you to do what is simply common sense? You wouldn't. Nobody wants to be told there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:42 PM
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I'm not talking about just one guy, I'm talking about TRP in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:20 PM
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Feeling so emasculated that you need to adopt all these behaviours to feel masculine is totally normal, extra regular behaviour but feeling so emasculated you would actually prefer to be a woman is just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:42 AM
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I mean I suffer from crippling insecurities about my masculinity and even take testosterone supplements even though I'm already a man. I also have this pathological fear that women are sleeping with other guys and I am missing out, so I have sought out advice online so I can learn how to manipulate women into sleeping with me. I try to suppress my own personality and instinct and treat women like dirt because other men have told me that is what women want. I go through the data released by datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:06 AM
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Isn't the "blue pill" just criticising the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:28 AM
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See, when women suffer it is because they have a bad world view... but if I told you that your own world view is toxic and self destructive, then you would tell me I don't take men's issues seriously. When I say we should talk about men's issues directly, you say that the scale of the problem can only understood by comparing it on relative terms, but the thing you choose to compare it to something which you feel is greatly exaggerated. Don't give me that clumsy wording nonsense either. It is you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:24 PM
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I just think that reading a tragic story about young women and responding with "yeah but men have that problem in real life!" is pretty fucked up. You know, rather than accept the self-evident truth that both genders can suffer from insecurity, the OP feels the need to negate the experience of these girls and tell us about how actually men have it worse. Young women are killing themselves because of insecurity and bullying, but that's apparently just because they had a taste of what adult men ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:31 PM
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It's only a real problem when it happens to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:43 PM
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It's just that what you said sounded way too much like what the average guy here would want to hear. They are weirdly obsessive about women being feminine, so to have a woman endorsing that view is suspicious. It's a bit too on the nose. You also made a few comments about men that seemed a bit... off. The stuff about men not washing their hands for example sounds inauthentic to me. Most men actually do wash their hands and I think most women know that. And I would not be surprised if people here…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:54 PM
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Well to be clear, transwomen are women, but I'm still not convinced you are either a woman or a transwoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:17 PM
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I did, and stand by that claim. How can you say you stand by a claim without defending it? I think the truth is you haven't read any feminist writing and are simply too embarassed to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:01 PM
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No, you said that hating men is the foundation of feminism and that it unites all factions within feminism. If that is true, then it should be possible for you to provide evidence of this in the earliest feminist texts, since all outgrowths of the feminist movement originate from those early texts. If you can't provide such evidence, how can you possibly make a claim like this? Giving me a cherry picked laundry list of things feminists have said or done without any context would not prove that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:57 PM
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OK, what do you consider the founding texts on feminism, and can you quote the section which establishes that hating men is fundamental to Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:01 PM
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Because the very foundation of feminism is the hatred of men, which is hypocritical to pretty much all facets of feminism (short of the few ardent one's who openly admit it...). Ironically it's the 'feminiazi's' who are the least hypocritical. OK, what do you consider the founding texts on feminism, and can you quote the section which establishes that hating men is fundamental to Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:42 PM
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How could such a broad coalition of ideologies possibly be hypocritical when treated as a single entity? Here's an idea, lets stop accusing loose collectives of people of being hypocrites. Let's reserve that accusation for occassions where it is actually meaningful, ie. for specific individuals or organisations who we can be proven to have acted in ways contrary to their stated beliefs. I will also add that being hypocritical is not a slam dunk in and of itself. Telling others not to abuse drugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:12 AM
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I'm calling it, OP is a man pretending to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:01 AM
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Beat them at their own game by refusing to date women ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:38 PM
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Women absolutely love it when strangers compliment their breasts in public. The people who are saying otherwise are just beta males who have never tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:55 PM
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Yes but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I would probably speak to a therapist instead of browsing TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:22 PM
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It amazes me that people post stuff like this here everyday without being called out for what it is. If you genuinely feel that you have no power in your relationships, instead of trying to justify it in your own head through a reddit post, you should be looking for a therapist or a councillor and talking to them about it because that mentality is never going to lead to a healthy relationship or a happy life. Even if you are speaking hypothetically here, you're still probably vulnerable to abusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:13 PM
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Since everyone already told you that's average, I will add that you shouldnt be tempted to exaggerate your size because insecurity is less attractive than your penis size. You may even want to consider joking around that it's tiny. Women might find such confidence refreshing, and when they find out you are actually average, you may exceed their expectations.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:41 PM
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Women do not like "nice guys" because they aren't actually nice. Women do not like spineless men because they are spineless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:52 PM
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My ex and I set two people up. They're married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:48 PM
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Because it's only virtue signalling when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:24 PM
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If a couple's sex life diminishes, then porn is an easy alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah I would imagine it's quite common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:24 PM
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You're right my bad, I assumed they were referring to MGTOW since they have withdrawn from women and that's clearly a subculture. I don't think there is a 'subculture' of men preferring porn to their partners, it's just a phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:34 PM
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MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:45 AM
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People have assumed I am a woman here before because I disagreed with them. Also there's not even close to 50% who disagree with TRP, much less endorse FDS. It's maybe 5% at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:35 AM
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We are speaking entirely about generalities though my dude.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:04 PM
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Hard disagree. It's mostly about helping women escape abusive relationships, what's wrong with that?
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:22 PM
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Yes, or she could be a model, but also a serial killer... Obviously these are flaws that would negate high value status, but someone who can work and study clearly has ambition and a strong work ethic.
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:21 PM
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There is nothing wrong with asking your partner how many people they've slept with, but calling it a body count is pretty fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:54 AM
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Salty coins and milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:38 PM
2

Fancy bumping into you here!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:09 PM
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I dated a girl into swinging briefly. She wouldn't stop talking about it, which got old fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:06 PM
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I don't think you need to be so coy, if you wanted to give us advice then you should say so. You don't neee to hide your feelings from us (we can see them anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:47 PM
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Not at all, you said people who aren't qualified always want to give advice, and I couldnt agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:39 PM
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You want to go through that one more time in your head champ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:11 PM
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Happiness is a bird that may land on your perch while you attend to other things, but not if you stand there waiting to try and catch it. If you get into the mentality that you need a relationship to be happy, you will pursue relationships for the sake of having relationships. That isn't going to work out my man. Aside from the fact nobody is interested in being your compromise, you will end up getting sick of them eventually. The fact you are in a relationship won't sustain you forever. If howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:02 AM
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Nothing girds the loins for love like a bit of emotional manipulation eh guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:15 PM
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I am sure it happens everyday. Why wouldn't a rich guy in California go to the trouble of looking for women in the Midwest? Why wouldn't a woman in the Midwest accept such a proposition, aside from the obvious inconvenience of travelling across the country, the obviously short term nature of such a relationship and the risk to their personal safety? This isn't a paranoid delusion guys, it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:01 AM
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Do you mean incels, or virgins? Virgins are not feared by society at large. I think the anxiety that you are feeling about approaching women is an over correction based on the media reporting in incels and an example of paranoia. Incels are attracting negative publicity because a number of them have gone on killing sprees and because they have a misogynistic ideology. Although again I think most people haven’t heard of them anyway. It’s an internet culture thing mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:39 PM
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In other news, bears shit in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:47 AM
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So then why would Wayne Rooney for example, who was married to a model at the time iirc, go to a prostitute who was a grandmother? You are saying that these men have a free choice, but they are also under a lot of social pressure to date someone who is “worthy” of them. And if we are talking about people in the public eye, the pressures of that kind of life will narrow your options down to people who are comfortable in that position, ie vain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:14 AM
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How many levels of attractiveness you on bro? rips bong Guys, tiers of attractiveness may make sense when you are talking about first impressions but when you get into a real relationship it’s about more than just your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:39 AM
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If that’s the whole story, then that’s just him being an idiot. I’m talking about the guys who move to low income countries and throw their money around to get laid. I even met an American in Prague who was moving to Georgia to do this because Prague had gotten too expensive for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:33 AM
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No they don’t. I’ve lived abroad and we all knew who went there for fun and who went there to be creeps. If someone called you a sexpat, that’s a bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:32 AM
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I’m not female? I’m a 6’7 tall man employed in one of the most male dominated fields out there. I’m not an emotionally stunted insecure wreck though so I can see where you got confused... You don’t have a real response or a counter argument to what I said and it really shows. I didn’t say that you shouldn’t interact with the opposite sex, that’s an obvious straw man. I am simply saying that you must focus on yourself first, not what you think women want. You should interact with women as much as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:23 AM
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Or to put it another way... focus on doing things for yourself instead of for other people... Where have I heard that one before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:59 PM
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It isn’t nonsense. If someone won’t date you because of your height, that’s a situation which cannot be remedied. There is nothing you can do about it, so you aren’t being held back; you have encountered an insurmountable obstacle. If someone won’t date you because you have a neurotic obsession with your own height, that is something you have the power to change, so it is holding you back. Normally people only talk about being “held back” in reference to things which would otherwise have been po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, I suppose you could do that. Don’t become a gross sexpat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:34 AM
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But it is your personality. Height won’t hold you back, but your personality absolutely will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:23 AM
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Whether height matters in dating or not is irrelevant though, as it isn’t something which you can actually do anything about. Assuming you are a fully grown adult without a medical disorder, you aren’t going to get any taller. If some women won’t date you because of it, well, that’s too bad but... what can you do about it? There is absolutely no point in becoming transfixed on this detail, or in trying to use it as an excuse or justification to yourself that it’s the reason why you are single. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:32 PM
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And if the studies are making claims like this without taking this into account, they aren’t worth the paper they are printed on. My money would be on you guys reading the studies and trying to find evidence that will support your worldview, misinterpreting in the process. My bullshit alarm is going off, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:49 PM
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Alright, please explain how studying ‘demographics’ would allow one to reach a conclusion like this. And calling this “anecdotal evidence” is a bit rich. I’m not saying that my personal experiences in dating disprove the findings of a well written survey with a large sample size here, I’m simply pointing to several other metrics that one could use to determine whether appearance is more important to one gender or another which are not going to be compatible with research conducted using a dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:40 PM
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Imagine sincerely believing that men are held to a higher standard than women are when it comes to physical appearance. I don’t care what your dating app says, a look around the world makes it clear this isn’t true... How much money do women spend on their appearances, compared to men? How much floor space in clothing stores is for women compared to men? How much of the makeup market is for women? Why are trophy wives common but trophy husbands rare? Honestly guys, when your conclusion is such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:16 PM
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This is what we in the business like to call a straw man argument. There is a middle ground between saying ‘words have rigidly defined meanings’ and saying ‘words are meaningless’.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:30 PM
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If I say someone looks “tired and emotional” to an American, chances are that they will interpret the phrase literally. If I use that expression in the United Kingdom, most people will recognize it as a euphemism for being drunk. You are perhaps (and to clarify here, I use “perhaps” to be charitable) correct that the definition of the words, in pure isolation, remains the same, but clearly the meaning changes depending on the context. Therefore explaining to someone else what you mean by the phr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:28 PM
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I’m sorry but this is an Internet forum where we write messages in text. The other person did not in fact say anything. Words aren’t what you feel them to be as you put it, but as words are symbolic representations of things and not things themselves, the use of the word feel is also inappropriate. Hopefully this gives you a feel of how insufferable you are being here. You aren’t even right, people use their own language all the fucking time. What do you think jargon is, or coded language, or po…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:19 PM
1

The only red pill is that most of our problems are caused by living in late stage capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:18 PM
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If that’s all it is, why do they feel the need to write essays on every little thing? Every TRP thread posted either here or on their sub reads like a bad sociology paper written by a life coach. Several thousand words of half baked interpretations of data written by someone trying to talk like a tough guy older brother. If it’s so simple, why can’t they just get to the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:15 PM
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Spoiler: contemporary views of “traditionalism” are mythologized projections not accurate reflections of the past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:26 PM
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Confidence is inherently attractive and has its own rewards. Even if you aren’t interested in dating anyone or already have a partner you should try to be confident for your own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:40 AM
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This is one of the few problems I have with FDS. The general advice is usually sound but whenever someone asks about a situation the answer is invariably ‘drop him’. In a lot of cases this is probably the right thing to do, but I sometimes think that the man probably has no idea what is going on and dropping him without explanation is a pretty mean thing to do. I mean if the guy is abusive then by all means do that, but if he is texting too much/not enough or something minor then perhaps letting…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:18 AM
1

Ok, thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:56 PM
1

I have met everyone I ever dated online and not once was I expected or even asked to pay for their dinner. One even bought mine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:58 AM
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I wouldn’t say questioning someone’s ability to interpret data is a personal attack? Especially given the nonchalant dismissal of the OP without sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:45 AM
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And why should I or anyone else have faith in your ability to interpret data correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:00 PM
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I don't absolve myself of personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:24 AM
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Absolving yourself of personal responsibility is the most beta cuck move imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:09 PM
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Culture and society? It’s a few gullible men on the internet with conspiratorial mindsets. it’s not a serious thing. They are a weird internet curiosity, like furries or weeaboos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:03 PM
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You play the cards as you are dealt. If you can pull off a beard, go for that instead. If you can’t though, don’t worry, because plenty of women are into bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:08 PM
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You’d have to pretty dumb woman to find RP men intellectually stimulating. It’s such an obvious fucking scam, there’s a good reason it only attracts insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:40 PM
1

I want my partner to look after me when I’m sick... I don’t want her to be a surrogate mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:12 PM
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I am sure for most of them it’s a coping mechanism rather than being genuinely psychotic. But it’s a bit like using hard drugs as a coping mechanism in that it doesn’t solve the underlying problem issue and causes more problems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:14 AM
1

Not in the context you are using.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah, I’ve used online dating too, but I didn’t start habitually dehumanising women because of it. That’s entirely on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:53 PM
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Sounds needy to me, I’ll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:43 PM
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I don’t want to know what you think about dating, I want to know why you have made a decision to write this way. Have you just been studying accountancy for so long that it’s started creeping into all other areas of your life, or do you think it makes you sound cool? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:41 PM
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I’m sure, but why do you write about human beings in the same way you would write about financial instruments? You understand that is weird, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:27 PM
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If I am being honest, I don’t understand how probability would negate what I said. You are the one that said the term was dumb and offered an explanation why, and then I refuted it. I never made any claim that this happens frequently (personally I doubt many people, either men or women, know what a fleshlight is). But the idea that some men treat women like objects is nothing new and isn’t limited to sexual gratification. Lastly 2% of men is still one in fifty and means that statistically you pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:24 PM
1

“Investing in women has a terrible ROI” Why do you write like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:01 PM
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Is trying to change who you are to please someone else your idea of romance? You know, people shit on the advice that you should “just be yourself” all the time but I think they just don’t understand the point being made. You are not “being yourself” because that will please the most people and lead to more success with the opposite sex. That is just a fantasy. It’s because being comfortable with yourself is a prerequisite to any happy relationship. Change for them and you won’t sustain it, hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:54 PM
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Your assumption that because someone wants to have sex with a human over a fleshlight means they want human connection is false. The sensation is different; the impact for one’s self esteem is different. Nobody is bragging how much they use their fleshlight, but men who sleep around are often proud of it. None of this however means you’re treating women differently from an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:18 PM
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This thread isn’t flaired correctly. Someone who makes a sweeping statement about an entire gender and then includes a caveat at the end telling people who don’t conform to it is clearly not interested in changing their mind... Look, here’s an idea: go out with people who you like. If a woman doesn’t want to be feminine but wants you to be a man, that is her prerogative. It’s not “hypocritical”. It’s about preferences. You don’t have to date them. And it’s definitely not hypocrital for women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:59 PM
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Again, that isn’t what it means. First of all there is a difference between sex and watching porn. This is something women understand well, even if men sometimes don’t. When watching porn, one may like to imagine onself as the participant in the act, rather than someone performing for them or as a ‘sex object’. I am saying that more women are in the former group while men are often in the latter. However this does not translate into sex, as by its very nature it involves more than one person. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:09 PM
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Perhaps women simply prefer to look at women being intimate than looking at men being intimate? That doesn’t make them gay, it just means that they are aroused by different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:52 PM
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This subreddit never fails to deliver the quality cringe content. “Good bone and jaw structure” had me in stitches. Anyway, I think you are misreading FDS pretty badly. I think that rather than control freaks, most of the women there are just people who have realised they have been in toxic or abusive relationships, or that they are vulnerable to abusive partners, and are looking for a way to recover from them and avoid them in future. Personally I think the response they advocate is sometimes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:01 PM
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“Meta double standards” Yes, if we talk about humanity in aggregate, there are going to be double standards. What can be done about that? This kind of thinking is a complete waste of time. Pointing out hypocrisy has to be specific, and even then it doesn’t always mean a person’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:32 PM
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I don’t think the people that consider prostitution immoral are really concerned with whether or not it’s legal. I’m saying that if you consider paying for sex to be morally problematic for some reason, then it makes sense you would hold it to a different standard than simply being promiscuous without being a hypocrite. Perhaps if you made it clear that you had changed your opinion and didn’t agree with prostitution anymore and that what you did was wrong etc then you might be able to say that n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:23 PM
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Unless you consider there to be a moral difference between paying for a prostitute and simply sleeping with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:14 PM
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And what part of those papers condones hymen checks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:03 AM
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Is that the new date rape drug of choice then? “Leftist propaganda”? It’s incredible really, the extent to which you people are willing to deny reality in order to convince yourselves that men are downtrodden.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:49 AM
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What do you mean it’s separate? Meeting people in person for the first time is an intrinsic part of online dating, including the personal safety aspects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:33 PM
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OK, but being honest with us, do you think that online dating presents the same risk to personal safety for men as it does for women? Bearing in mind that most men can overpower most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:09 PM
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Come on now, most of these guys would fold in a moments notice if they had a chance with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:46 PM
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This is totally normal behaviour and not even remotely weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:43 PM
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Do you have to worry about your personal safety in online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:35 PM
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I agree, but any message that involves getting your self-worth from the opinions of others is a misguided philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:01 PM
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Well I have gone to great lengths in the thread to explain why I think TRP is misguided, if you think I’ve misunderstood something about it then please explain where I’m going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:00 PM
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You see, someone tries to reach out to you and you make a dismissive comment. Look dude, I’m not pretending to be some fucking spiritualist preacher here. This is common sense stuff, but you’re so thirsty and desperate that you’ll buy into whatever nonsense that teĺls you what you want to hear. Stop being a cuck and start being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:07 PM
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Well that would still be better advice than “change who you are so women will sleep with you” but you are clearly too emotionally and ideologically invested in TRP already to think about it critically. Any belief system that relies on the approval of other people is going to be a road to ruin, and TRP is particularly insidious because it preys on insecure people who will sabotage any chance of future successful relationships for themselves by adopting destructive behaviour. The point is not to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:54 PM
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Once again you are pointing to obviously unhealthy behaviours as justification for your own unhealthy behaviour. Given what I said before, what on earth makes you think I would endorse women getting breast implants to please men? I would tell them exactly what I’m telling you, that it’s unhealthy behaviour. And yes, men and women do dress up for their own sakes. It’s a confidence booster and an interest like any other. I have no interest in attracting women (I’m spoken for) but I still like to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:20 PM
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Well diet culture isn’t really a good example of a healthy mindset either. Going on extreme diets that fail and make your life miserable is not what I would use to try and justify my own beliefs as sane or healthy. If someone made that comparison to me, I’d probably stop and think about my own beliefs a bit. Maybe think on that. As for FDS, at least they focus on self improvement for its own sake rather than to please other people. They have other issues for sure, but on this point they are clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:50 PM
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In what world is trying to change your personality in order to get laid more an example of a healthy sex life? This is the problem: trying to improve yourself for your own sake is a completely healthy thing to do. Trying to improve yourself for the sake of others (whether in the form of making them happy or persuading them to sleep with you) is not healthy behaviour. Perhaps you will get to have sex more often, but you will become a fucking emotional void. Just look at the people peddling this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:18 PM
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To my mind, TRP appears to be the zenith of insecurity, since you are trying to implement major lifestyle changes for the purpose of getting laid. If getting laid is all you are interested in, go for it I guess, but it’s kind of pathetic and personally I would be ashamed to mention it, publicly or in private. But I’m not one for these kind of pop psy fads or self-help schemes. That being said, I am not sure where you are getting the notion that looking after your body and paying attention to act…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:07 PM
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I am not sure how else to interpret a comment like “reproducing only has value as long as it brings value to society”. We know where this road goes, and it isn’t a good place. Especially if you are going to say that because someone’s parents are criminals they will be a detriment to society, or that people who are handicapped shouldn’t have children. It’s messed up fascistic bullcrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:08 PM
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Oh boy, eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:01 AM
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How convenient that they reveal themselves directly when summoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:48 AM
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Fucking nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:12 PM
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There is a term for westerners who come to less wealthy countries to leverage their economic status to find women. We call them sexpats and they are the most contemptible losers imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:08 PM
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FDS is its own distinct ideology which has some superficial similarities to conservatism, but has very different reasoning behind it. They do not encourage promiscuity for example but they are absolutely not in favour of being subservient to men or starting families because that is what is expected. I have been wondering myself though where FDS people sit on the political spectrum... I suspect a slightly centre-right leaning in aggregate but with a lot of variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:58 PM
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Except you can introduce laws which try to eliminate, or at least reduce, discrimination. And once again, the bitterness is shining through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:34 AM
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You need to suck it up because dwelling on it is pointless and self defeating. You aren’t going to change anything about dating culture by yourself, and the more time you spend stewing over it the more harm it will do to your prospects of finding a partner. Quite simply, nobody wants to date a bitter, resentful person who complains about things he doesn’t have the power to change. That is really coming across in what you’ve written here and frankly, it’s no surprise that people don’t want to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:46 PM
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Good job on hitting the gym, but I never go and I have a partner... you do not need to go to the gym to find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:37 PM
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Why do you spend time on OnlyFans if you think it’s weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:53 PM
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I like it when women smile (or when anyone smiles tbh) but I would never tell them to smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:51 PM
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Well in my country the average age for a man to first get married is 29.7 years old, and the average for women is a few years less than it is for men. So it appears that your premise is completely backward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:49 PM
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The whole concept of HV is arse backwards. You’re not dating someone based on how many boxes they tick, you’re dating them based on whether you find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:44 PM
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I had to look up the definition of SMV, and it made me laugh. What an utterly moronic concept. Yes, there are conventional standards of beauty and things which are broadly attractive or unattractive. There is not however a “sexual market value”. Nobody normal is going to want to date you if you’re spouting nonsense like this. Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:39 PM
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Let’s get something out of the way up front; the idea that men and women are fundamentally different now than they were a few decades ago is ridiculous. We are fundamentally the same as our ancestors, in aggregate. What has changed is not men and women, but the economy and society. This is important because your premise places the blame for changing men at the feet of women as though they are responsible, even though ‘women’ cannot influence what ‘men’ do and vice versa. Instead of trying to pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:25 PM
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This was probably a test, and you failed.
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