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Girls don’t want to be hit on by men the deem unattractive. If you have game and confidence and are hitting on them, that is inherently attractive to women. And that’s exactly what they want. If you have no idea what you’re doing, then yea, of course they don’t want you to talk to them. My point is, use the club and bar atmosphere to approach and work on your game. Don’t be afraid of girls that want to be left alone. Again, there is a reason they’re in the club drinking. If they really wanted to…
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:11 PM
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Also, don’t be afraid of bars and clubs. Hit them up regularly. Girls are way more receptive there, that is why they are out. They will hear what you have to say and reject you politely most likely. Come back here and tell us what you did so we can improve your game.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:38 AM
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And no, don’t fucking lie. Don’t be afraid to be yourself. I’m I. My mid 30s and younger women often times are super attracted to me because I stay in shape. Be yourself but constantly improve yourself. Never fucking lie about who you are air what you’re doing, that’s weak as fuck.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:36 AM
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Start thinking that you're attractive to women, and you actually will be. There are enough women out there that will get wet for you despite your looks, if you approach them confidently. In fact, I'd bet that there are women out there that get off on this exact thing. Dudes that don't look attractive but are super confident anyway. I'd be thinking "wow this dude must get laid a lot, if he looks like this and he's THAT confident." If I saw you at a random bar/club.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:37 PM
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Height and looks don’t matter It absolutely helps Lol so it does kind of matter then? ​ Well yes of course it helps, it will help you grab a girl's attention. And If you're super good looking she may just decide that she wants you and you just have to be cool and not screw up her attraction for you. What I mean is that, initially, being tall, muscular, jacked, having money is great for grabbing her attention. But beyond that you need to have game. Aka give her emotional spikes, escalate physical…
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:42 PM
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Height and looks don’t matter. I’m 6’1” and good looking and muscular. It absolutely helps, and do hit the gym. But I’ve seen dudes that are way shorter, way fatter, and way uglier get very hot girls. It’s all about confidence and charisma. Pre selection makes you attractive to women. Read old school RSD stuff and mystery method. You don’t understand how attraction works for women yet.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:14 PM
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We’ll bust a move man. Physical escalation should be natural to you. If it’s not, then work on that. She sat down next to you on the couch, put your arm around her, go in for the kiss. She probably was wondering why you weren’t doing anything at that point. Just go for it, if she pulls away, leave it alone for awhile.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:38 AM
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Now all of these lines can be super shitty or they can all be awesome to the girl. It all depends on who you are as a man. Your body language. Your vocal tonality, the volume of your voice. Be confident, even if you're not physically attractive.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:24 PM
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Stop thinking about "how to" and just approach. Say anything, just approach. Here I'll give you a line "Hey whats up hot mama, you look like you know how to solve a crossword puzzle ." And then wink. Honestly just approach more and think less, you shouldn't be in your head and thinking like this when you're in the club. You should be having fun and viewing people as friendly or at least approachable. At the end of the night, no girl is gonna even think about the very first thing you talked a lbo…
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:22 PM
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You need a total paradigm shift when it comes to dating women. First, ask yourself, why are you dating a woman a year older than you? Second, why would you tolerate more than 1 date with a woman where nothing physically at all happened? Are you really that desperate to hang around a girl that's acting cold toward you? You need to go out more and try to pick up women, you're not coming off as attractive to this woman at all, and if I had to guess, most women wouldn't find you attractive. Go out m…
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:09 PM
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This is good in that it is a call to action to approach women, which is usually the biggest hurdle for men to find romance. However, you should be as self aware as possible to improve your game/social skills. You can have an indifferent attitude towards most people yet still be polite and a gentleman. And there are limits to this as well, if you make a good friend, you're not going to have a "don't give a fuck" attitude towards them at all. At least you shouldn't. A gentlemen on the streets, a s…
/r/seduction23/05/20 09:28 PM
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If you can't understand the value that going out and socializing with people does for you, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:19 AM
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Don't forget ZJs on the roof ;)
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:16 AM
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At first I thought you meant 100 approaches to warm up for the night. I was like, damn I must be really good at game. Then I realized you meant total. Honestly I'd say you have to do 1,000 or so approaches for the average n00b learning this stuff to get decent, 100 doesn't come close. Keep in mind, you can approach as much as you want, if approaching and girls rejecting you is tearing down your mental state, picking up girls is going to turn into a terrible fucking experience. You have to learn …
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:37 AM
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Approach womans attract womans by begging and pleading with her to suck your little peenie woman will then engage in hot sex time with you ;) ??? Profit. No but seriously, get a little more detailed. What is the situation? What is your mood like? How tall are you? How good looking are you? Are you experienced at all or a n00bie? Get detailed and I can give you some decent feedback. In general though, you need to be confident, speak somewhat loudly and clearly, have a stronger frame, be outcome d…
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:30 AM
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Wasn't my best interaction, but it still counts ;) ​ I live in the western hemisphere if that helps.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:22 AM
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You mean like buy a hooker? I've got news for you, desire sex and some random soulless hooker sex are 2 COMPLETELY different things. When a hot young woman desires you and gets wet just from kissing you and sucking you off, and then jumps on you because she can't control herself and cums in 15 seconds of you fucking her - THAT'S desire sex. That is one of the coolest things I've experienced. Fucking a hooker with a thousand cock stare who might not even be naturally wet and is counting down the …
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:21 AM
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Thanks for the detailed reply. My main issue was that my emotional state starting dipping toward the end of the night and my recent oneitis caught up with me mentally. I'll make sure to go out with a "let's get fuckin laid" vibe next time. Realistically I should have gone with the bacherlorette party girl, she was actively talking about fucking me during our conversations, should have just led her out of the place. The two red heads twins were both 21 and both smoking hot, I also have a thing fo…
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:15 AM
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Watching it as we type. She is def in the chasee role at the moment, has recommended that we hang out at my place and again a few weeks from now. I said yes to both because I wanted to. Maybe I should say no in the future or just ignore her for a day or two to put me firmly back in control? I feel its 60% her and 40% me contributing. Ideal would probably be like 70/30. She definitely likes to ignore me for periods of time and then come back with something lovey dovey when I dont text. Yes I have…
/r/seduction18/06/19 11:36 PM
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I would like to discuss game. Anything from opening to logistics and in between. What do you mean to get more power in the relationship exactly? Like this is normal or is this a red flag I should be wary of. The power had shifted back to my favor for right now. Also what could she possibly use to gain more power, jealousy? Not responding to me right away? Social media?
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:32 PM
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Lol perfect. I can tell you have experience. I was thinking something along those lines. Most likely there beta work dudes anyway. How long have you been gaming/sarging?
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:46 PM
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Well everything is actually going very well between us. Shes back to being super loving and great sex. I think were good for now. Something that did throw me off though is that she invited me to go to an art gallery with "some guys she works with". Not sure how to respond to that one. Probably nothing.
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:14 PM
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Uhhhhh, she texted me if I want to go out to eat at a place near her work and I said sure. Then I realized it would take me an hour in traffic to get there so I texted her back to just meet me at her place since we planned to go there anyways and I'll take her somewhere else. She got really short with me and said that makes no sense at all for her to drive home and then drive back to the restraunt, like she didnt understand what I was saying. Then I clarified for her and she said she was confuse…
/r/seduction13/06/19 09:58 PM
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Well last time we saw each other it ended well enough. Today she took like 6 hours to respond to one of my texts that was basically like, "hey don't do that, that's gonna turn me on." And she replied way later with, "haha I'll just pepper spray you." Feels bad man. Yea I don't like where this is going, I feel like she's moving toward investing next to nothing into me. Or maybe I'm just reading to much into this? She replied to me earlier in the day to logistical shit real quick. She's off work n…
/r/seduction13/06/19 03:23 AM
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Right, I'm gonna start adhering to my schedule and budget, I've been letting that slip lately. Also want to start training MMA more as a hobby in place of some gym days. What are your hobbies btw? I'm into archery, tennis, kayaking, Snorkeling, lifting. Last thing we texted about was her asking details about our trip for the weekend. She dosent feel distant at all, they're just sporadic. I'm keeping the texts to a minimum for sure, and I dont reply right away, I finish whatever I'm doing first.
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:32 PM
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Rsd is a great resource to learn from. Yes, your emotional state is very stable. In regards to investing less into her, what are some day to day habits I can adopt? Always take a while to reply to her texts? She isnt replying to my texts as fast as she used to, usually takes a couple hours. So far I've just been taking a few hours or more to reply as well.
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:48 PM
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In regards to warming up, I'm talking about rsd Tyler's concept, I'll send you a link to a video. Everyone has to warm up somehow, unless you're just constantly in state and talking to people. I'm naturally pretty introverted and work an IT job so I'm always needing to warm up before I go out or at the beginning of the night. Yea I guess I fucked up, but like I said everything seems fine as far as her behavior is concerned. I'll just keep up the subtle dread and stay busy with the gym, mma, my c…
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:27 PM
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That's bloody awesome about the pull. Keep it up. I love a night out where I can virtually eliminate approach anxiety after I've properly warmed up. One of the best feelings. I actually did bring it up and she basically told me that she wants to be exclusive and said I shouldn't have brought it up so soon. She said shes not sure if she wants to be in a relationship, however shes still doing all the things a good gf would do, going down on me, making me food, suggesting we go out, wanting sex mor…
/r/seduction11/06/19 08:47 PM
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This is an awesome response, thank you for taking the time to post this. Question: Being that we haven't actually discussed a relationship at this point, although we're basically acting like we are in one. Should I just point blank ask her to be my girlfriend?
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:09 AM
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"As a consequence and as a feature women don’t tend to develop feelings for emotional escalation at the same rate. " Understood, and interesting, I was thinking she would have just as strong feelings for me if not more. I suspect she's masking her feelings a little because they slipped out here and there. But as of last night I've expressed more interest in being in a LTR than she has. I half expected her to just go home and call it quits right there with a little talk with me or long winded tex…
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:09 AM
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Tinder is all about your pics. The girls swiping on there have SOOO many options, literally thousands. You MUST stand out and be attractive or it's simply not worth the time invested into it, unless you like dating fatties? 1.Get best pics possible Message her something simple and direct to the effect of "I like you and would like to take you out in the near future." Obviously be more creative than that, but even that will get you a date if your pics are solid. If you're not physically attractiv…
/r/seduction08/06/19 10:03 PM
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