As I type this post I'm sure there are plenty of other dudes that are into game, pick-up, or whatever terminology you wish to use that have gone or are going through this phase. Hopefully some of you can provide some input. As I scroll and read the long list of posts, most of the content is about how to get the bang from a girl, how to get her to text back, etc etc. I absolutely appreciate this content as I read everything I could when I was starting out. I've been into pickup since about 2010 and have gone very hard after my most recent serious breakup about a year ago.

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I know how to pickup girls, I'm confident if I went out tonight there would be no issue getting a girl or at least several solid numbers. I'm more interested in discussing logistics of bringing a girl home then actually talking about tactics like "Whats your opener?" when anyone actually brings up the topic of game.

My main issue is that I can read a woman like a book. I can tell if that dude's gf is going to dump him soon, if that girl in the corner wants to be approached by me or some other dude, or if that guy leaning in at the bar to the hot girl has any chance in hell with her. I see it everywhere like a neon green sign as YaReally once said, where before I saw virtually nothing and hand't a clue how to deal with women except to pine over them in my room alone. Now my issue is that I understand all girls can be seduced, some just have different thresholds than others. With this knowledge is it even wise to make a girl that is interested in you your LTR(Long Term Relationship)? What is the point of a LTR? Do you just dive in knowing that eventually, no matter how much dread game or relationship game you apply, it's probably going to end in heartbreak? I was just recently dating several women, but one of them has caught my eye and we're, as far as I know, not sleeping with anyone else currently.

The object of my affection is a foreign girl(I'm an American) who is very into me and makes food for me, has sex, goes down on me, etc. We've been dating for a few months. She has communicated to me that she does not want to have sex with anyone else verbally and action-wise and I(Stupidly?) reciprocated that message to her verbatim. I think she knows I have a ton of options(Subtle dread game). Everything seemed to be going fine until last night I beta backslid pretty hard. I don't know what got into me, it's like the old beta me completely took over for a couple minutes and then just would not go away. My #1 advice to anyone trying to learn seduction is to absolutely not let your beta instincts drive you toward any action. If you feel it taking over just end your interaction with the girl and head home until you've got your head on straight. This will kill a woman's attraction for you INSTANTLY. Back to last night, I saw her texting someone and asked her who she was texting. Mistake, I should have not cared at all. She replied it's none of my business, and I instantly thought that she was texting another dude and it completely nose-dived my emotional state into one of a needy unattractive beta male. Later in the car, I let her know it was bugging me and asked if she was texting a guy and if she still didn't want to sleep with anyone else. Super lame, I know. She told me that no she didn't want to date anyone else or sleep with anyone else, however I could tell from her body language and behavior that she was completely turned off, as if she had discovered that I was someone(beta) that she had not expected me to be. The rest of the night I tried to initiate with her and get her to initiate physical intimacy with me and it was all just sub par. On the walk back to the car after the night out she refused to hold my hand half of the way and said she was in a bad mood with me, even said I was a terrible driver, (lol I'm a great driver). Just didn't make any sense except that I knew she was turned off and shit testing me. I just rode it out and drove her home. When I asked her what she thinks about me and that I'm really into her she told me she likes me a lot as well and we had amazing sex, which to be honest I did not expect at all. We cuddled and fell asleep and the next morning had really good sex and things went back to how they were before I went all super beta on her. I think I have recovered and I made plans to hang out with her again in a day.

My question is, after last night, should I give her a significant push because of my super hard pull or am I just overthinking this way too much? Like maybe cancel my plans with her tomorrow and text her less frequently, following the 2/3 rule of only texting her 2/3 as much as she texts/calls me. I really like this girl and have screened the hell out of her red flag wise, like bad relationship with her father or super high notch count. She checks out as far as I can tell and I'd really like to be in a relationship with her. Not sure if I fucked it up too much last night and should just chill on it for awhile or maybe just call it off completely? Any advice would be appreciated.

TL;DR - I was too forward with a girl that I'm dating after about 2 months of dating/sex and she was super turned off by it. We had make up sex the same night which was great, but I'm wondering what the best course of action to take from here is.