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The mindset while being in a monogamous relationship tends to suppress the competitive nature we have as single men in the dating world. I haven't been to a "night life" location since COVID and completely forgot how it feels like...
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:13 PM
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Watch Queer Eye. Helps with every aspect
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:02 PM
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I'd say reddit for educating yourself and finding like-minded individuals that can help growth is definitely the way to go
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 10:29 PM
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"Let's do it again sometime" is my favorite lie to say
/r/seduction24/05/20 10:08 PM
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I love this response. I kind of became the guy who I was trying portray through canned game. Canned game really helped me get a high success rate online and in real life. I NATURALLY, do push-pulls with everything I say whether it be towards someone or myself. It helps with my jokes (I do improv comedy), and flirting in general. I believe canned game allows us to have a basis of comparison to adjust our style to what a high percentage move would be in a given time. I'm all about high percentage.…
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:48 PM
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I like this. I used to go 100% canned and still go canned but natural only works if you've internalized the concepts and the psychology behind every single move in the interaction. I'm personally not a fan of natural game because how can someone succeed naturally if they can't naturally be attractive to women. This is all history to me. Finally met a girl who can accept my pua past and knows everything about it
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:09 PM
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I can't support this. Game does not come later or way before. You are game and game is sales. You're the product of your past decisions and it's your job to convey your personality right off the bat. You shouldn't settle for a number off the bat when you can pull after a while (given that you have good game) in a day game session. At the same time, you shouldn't settle for a number when you can close after 45mins-1.5hrs during night game. Never settle for less unless the logistics don't line up …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:02 PM
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This works on girls who already think you're good looking. For us average guys, you kinda have to make them jump through your hoops a little bit
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:51 PM
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All I see is a decent body fat %
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:56 PM
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He's just immature, man. Guy failed at having relationships because of this exact thing. I mean, come on, would you really fight a person for talking or TRYING to hit on your girlfriend?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:12 AM
1

Bars and clubs too
/r/askTRP28/07/19 08:48 PM
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Based on a sample size of 1. Seems pretty accurate Edit: cheating's usually the fault of the one who got cheated on. There was something missing, buddy
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:51 AM
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Learn how to shuffle. Tons of girls stand around you waiting for you to approach and basically you just choose
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:25 AM
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FUUUUUUUUUUUAAAAAAAAARK
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:24 AM
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In terms of being social: Pulling girls and stealing girls from guys For the latter, I figure out the logistics and the relationship between the two out in the bar and if they've only known each other for a month or less or if they even just met that night I have a stack (which is a routine but OG PUAs call it this) for a specific scenario. In terms of life: Being able to solve various problems and overcoming risky situations. Also achieving goals as mentioned above. Basically, winning The most …
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:40 PM
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Probably more competition. Lol it's just online game, man. Looks + text game should get you dates. Time to put some big boy pants on and learn how to pull irl
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:14 PM
5

I'm subscribed to r/poker and I thought you were talking about overcoming pocket Aces
/r/seduction25/07/19 04:39 AM
2

Gonna be honest, I try to not shit where I eat. I kinda avoid doing gym approaches because I know I can pull doing night game anyway. There were a couple girls throughout the year where I was in the same situation as you when I was a beginner. Used the limited amount of knowledge I had and picked them up and went on dates w them. Honestly, I'd rather not if you have bad game. Building a reputation can take months if not years but destroying one can only take a few seconds
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:44 AM
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This made my day, thank you
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:21 AM
2

How bout flair categories for beginner/intermediate/advanced Most posts are pretty much the same..."too scared to approach", "what to say", "body language" etc. Would love to see more content on the dynamics of pulling/closing using different variations or handling logistics
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:06 AM
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I don't think makeouts and other stuff count. You should only consider sex. My reasoning is because that's when the woman is being 100% vulnerable with you.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:20 AM
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I think most people have a misconception of what negging is. Sure, you can neg to make a girl less confident about herself or to devalue her. Those are two good reasons. What negging really is is challenging a person's beliefs. A neg can be a negative or neutral or even a positive statement. This will subsequently pose you as a sexual threat and instigate the shit test which should be passed with ease if you're a witty guy.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:43 PM
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Positive followed by negative
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:32 AM
0

True...but also... *you're
/r/seduction14/07/19 03:58 AM
1

That's funny. Nope. There are drug dealers and there are steroid dealers
/r/askTRP13/07/19 07:18 AM
1

It's like it sped up my second puberty stage. I was skin and bone man, now even though I don't workout i look pretty masculine. That's when I started growing a mustache and it popped out of no where. It's testosterone, it hits u that way I took it when I was still back home about a year before I left for California - in the Philippines. It cost me $5-10/vial. Dianabol was about $30 for 100 pills which lasted a little shy of a month
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:00 AM
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How long did it take for those gains? A month and a half. Fucking insane. I then went on a lighter cycle with Stanozol after to maintain and cut a bit but stopped. I cycled for about 4 months Edit: it was also an expensive habit as a high school students but what's weird was my build permanently matured to something a kid who looked anorexic (me) wouldn't have had without the use of test.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 08:03 PM
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I cycled dianabol and sustanon 250 when I was about 17. Was 5'10" 145 lbs 13-14% bf to 172-174lbs 8-9% bf. Good times.. I was hospitalized for a couple weeks due to some gastrointestinal issues I've always had - not related to juicing - and pretty much lost a lot of the gains. It was a good experience but I probably won't go back since you have to take it forever to maintain the gains
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:32 PM
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Don't do the what's up! She should be asking that. I suggest shit testing/teasing her off the bat and give her a hard time
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:19 PM
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Do what you think works for you. I fell asleep halfway through
/r/seduction10/07/19 07:41 PM
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I used to approach 5's and 6's as my warm-up when I was a low intermediate in game and still had approach anxiety. You got this, just remember that if a girl is not trying to impress you then she doesnt like you
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:28 PM
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You can skip the qualifying if you're extremely good looking though
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:17 PM
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Flirting is shit testing them. Qualifying them is making them prove themselves to you - ie. Impress you. Basically you're letting her win you over not just because of her looks Flirting is like "you might either be really cool or a total weirdo. I you might be too much to handle for me. Well, I'm kinda high maintenance anyway" Flirting is more about the vibe than the words rly. When i find out a couple is out on a second date or they've only known each other for a month my mere "Hi" to the girl …
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:46 PM
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More like: Hi --> flirt --> qualify --> number --> text game Damn bro, u must have a very low number-date conversion rate and batting average
/r/askTRP10/07/19 05:13 PM
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You're the boring one bro. "What's up?" How does that spike any emotion? You have to spike emotion before asking any questions
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:08 PM
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THIS
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:05 PM
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You will like how it goes? Are you sure?
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:35 AM
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It's game. Literally 90% of women are gonna have a crush on you and it gets annoying to a point where when you don't have the intention of having an intimate relationship with a certain girl and you just wanna be friends but she's pursuing you hard you get this churning feeling in your stomach accompanied by nausea. Happens to those who are really advanced and isn't a rare thing. Basically it sucks when you're in a certain social circle with said girls and are forced to see them throughout a spe…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:22 AM
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Dude!! Yes! The distraction...i usually say "all I need is five minutes for this girl to fall in love". I get the 5 minutes and it usually extends. Two things usually happen: either the girl leaves her friend with my and ditches my wing or they both go to the bathroom and talk for like 10minutes then after they come out the girl either gives me her number or I ask for it. Fuck man, wingmen suck. Idk how most people don't get it but I guess it's a good thing for those who do. Yeah, gotta pull to …
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:31 PM
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Only decent photo is the second one. The others either have bad lighting, show that all your friends are dudes, or are pretty boring
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:46 PM
1

A good blow job is a good blow job
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:46 AM
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Just saw this now and it made me laugh. Sorry bro, I barely get rejected at any level. Maybe you'll learn real pua shit some day
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:15 AM
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Yeah, no attractive girl is alone. I find 3+ sets of girls easier because isolation is inevitable. 2 sets require wings unless they're special cases. I don't rly use dancing as an isolation - bc it doesn't really turn them on more even tho I'm great at dancing - and I prefer pulling them to a quieter bar bc my verbals are the best. Dude, you can't trust fucking wings...most of them are trash. I mean, what they say is there's only a 2% success rate for advanced puas In terms of pulling, logistics…
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:19 AM
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Tell me about it. Where are you from? Wdym when you say difficult? I find that the hardest approaches to do when you're solo or your wing sucks is the 2set. Can't isolate and the other girl usually gets bored of my wing and leaves
/r/seduction24/06/19 09:08 PM
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It's all a matter of knowing when to escalate verbally and logistically through text. I have a pretty decent conversation to date ratio. Decent ratio irl too maybe not 80% like you but roughly 20/30-50% depending on the nights. I tend to pull my first approach, although sometimes it doesn't feel as satisfying as failing a few times before you actually pull...kinda like playing the game more than having sex
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:14 PM
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"How's the weather over there?" If you really wanna be hardcore, you can follow it up with "it's been pretty hot lately, I'm thinking about buying new shorts"
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:45 PM
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Tease a girl through text like you do irl
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:44 PM
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YES!!!
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:26 AM
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I completely agree with this. Social media hasn't really made me a profit of any sort...well, because I don't have instagram or facebook. I use snapchat for casual conversation and possibly keeping up with some girls that I'm seeing but aside from that, i barely keep up with social media. I kind of derive the validation I get from pickup and pulling - basically winning every night I go out, but at least I know that I'm competent in a field where a lot of people struggle in and that I'm actually …
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:57 AM
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Imma be honest w u and say that at first it's gonna be a mask. Early in my PUA journey I would try to act like a guy who got pussy - even tho I would on rare occassion via online dating. I saw that it worked with girls...all the techniques - ie. Push-pull, misinterpretation, disqualification, exaggeration, and the list goes on. As I became more abundant and more selective, that "persona" started to become the real me. Now I flirt with any girl I come in contact with and I'd say 90% of them like …
/r/askTRP22/06/19 01:50 AM
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"I'm taking you home" isn't how you ask a girl to go back to your place... You fucked up the pull yourself
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:15 PM
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It only degrades your value if you suck at flirting in general. My game is kind of direct but it puts myself on a pedestal. I'd love to share some screenshots but I don't wanna post them here
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:37 PM
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"The weather in here seems pretty great"
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:53 PM
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Sometimes it better to open with a little bit of flirtation and text game before you make another "ask". In my "asks" - ie. Meetups, hookups , dates, etc. - I'm making plans while simultaneously giving the girl a hard time. What this does is it keeps her emotions intact while making a logical decision to meet up with you. Once she agrees to the plans you're pretty much set, but it's also good to give a little bit of comfort and make it seem like that's not the only thing you're after. So why do …
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:24 PM
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Have you watched the manifesto I sent you? There is always a power dynamic in a relationship to see who has more of a say in what. The standard relationship is where the woman has all the power and the man is the bitch. Why is that? It's because the woman knows she can leave and find someone else but the man doesn't know that. This is where making a girl chase from the initial pickup is important yet really hard if you don't know how. They'll make you jealous and if you're affected, so is your v…
/r/seduction18/06/19 11:25 PM
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Still, she will definitely use any resource to her advantage to get more power in your relationship. Been sarging for about 8-9 months now. Reached intermediate-advanced at the 6-7 month mark and I now only make 1-2 approaches a night for a pull (GIVEN GOOD LOGISTICS). I live in the burbs so it's kinda tough to drive 20-30miles just to have sex/start a relationship but when I plan for those nights, you can put your money on me. Edit: if you want to talk more game - bc i always love to - especial…
/r/seduction18/06/19 08:45 PM
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I'm gonna steal all your girls bro, you don't want them near me
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:37 PM
1

Just go, that's no problem. If she tries to flirt with other guys and make you jealous what you should do is encourage it
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:32 PM
1

Holy shit dude you schedule dates way far off
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:00 PM
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Fellow PUA here. I got that once too in my pickup journey, I kind of feel like your personalities kind of clicked despite her/your issues. One thing I could say is that yes, maybe you were more in love with the idea of being with her than you actually liked her. Also, when you can already get pussy basically by showing up at a bar, you crave for something more; think about a guy with all the money in the world that money barely matters to him...when you can pull consistently, then that's how sex…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:36 AM
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OP is definitely from Canada
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:25 AM
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"I'm still not sure about this but I'll give it a shot. When are you gonna take me out?"
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:34 PM
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You confessed that you wanted to make her yours now look how she's treating you...she knows it's hard for you and is making you chase Edit: since you're not exclusive go see other people while still seeing her
/r/seduction13/06/19 10:25 PM
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When are you gonna see her? Just wait until you see her, you don't have to message her everyday. She knows you like her Ah, this is what most advanced puas lack such as you and I - relationship experience. I unlearned how to be a provider in order to be a lover. I used to be good at relationships until I became a PUA. Now it's just a string of ONSs and it's starting to feel empty. It's like I don't know where to move forward from here and I use sex as a means to fill the emotional void in my lif…
/r/seduction13/06/19 05:45 AM
3

Sales person, advanced PUA, and poker player here. I'm all about winning. I completely agree with this post. Women are on our side, guys! If they really like you and see value in you, they're gonna solve all the problems that arise - whether it be logistical problems/conditions that arise when you're about to pull or emotional problems in the relationship. All you have to do is listen and understand. I don't hate women but I do think their mental processes are quite different and more subtle. I …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 11:58 PM
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I was actually thinking of starting bjj classes but it's out of my budget for now. Hobbies include poker(gonna start an amateur career soon), improv comedy, guitar/singing, reading about self-improvement, studying psychology (in and out of game), lifting, a little bit of MOBA strategy games because I love strategy, a little bit of writing, and fukin raving - can't disregard my love for shuffling my ass off. So most of the hobbies are mental stuff and I use my musical talent when I can to woo peo…
/r/seduction12/06/19 06:36 PM
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Investing MORE into yourself means working on yourself to be more valuable as a person - ie. Hobbies, skills, knowledge, etc. I'm not just talking about how much you talk to her. Even so, you can take a few days off of texting. What do you guys usually text about?
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:07 PM
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Most "coaches"these days emphasize the open with no follow up technique because it's the easiest way to get beginners from level 0 to level 1 and stay there. I mean, the masses in pickup are beginners. Intermediate is kind of in the middle and to get to advanced you have to be in the 2% success rate
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:15 PM
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Oh i see. I'm not really into rsd because they're more of an inner game type of practice. I focus purely on outer game and techniques. I don't believe in being in a "state". Like I said - i literally flirt with every girl (over 18) i come in contact with - so you could say im always in a state. I believe in skill over state though Yeah, expect the worst but hope for the best. You could still salvage it. I feel like you just have to show her that you're more invested in yourself than her but also…
/r/seduction12/06/19 01:03 AM
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Yeah...you fucked up by bringing it up. Basically you're the one who looks like he's chasing now. I told you not to bro Edit: about the pull, im not sure what you were talking about in regards to AA but i didn't rly have any. I don't believe in "warming up" as well. I treat every approach like I'm gonna take her home
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:01 PM
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Don't. I'll send you a link to a video explaining all this. You have to make sure she brings it up and command it don't demand it. Meaning if you want her to be your gf start treating her like your gf and stop asking for it By the way, pulled my first set last night like how I used to play. Just got back home tired as fuck. Sometimes you just have to brag when you know you're the shit
/r/seduction09/06/19 03:25 PM
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Advanced PUA here and kinda rusty in game due to a recent slump where I got attached to a girl for a couple months too. A little backstory: Been doing game for about 10 months and studied it rigorously. When I mean rigorously I mean I used to work in a job where it was physical intensive and about 80% of the time I would be actively listening to videos. 80% times 60 hours a week is roughly 48 hours plus watching videos all day when I was home doing nothing. For the first few months I'd go out 3-…
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:01 AM
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I like this. One thing that's good about entering a relationship in the lover frame is that the girl knows that you'll be willing to walk away while at the same time displaying provider qualities that you'll stay. Staying logical and level-headed in the relationship will allow you to maintain your power as a man and not end up in the standard relationship - ie. Woman has all the power
/r/seduction09/06/19 12:34 AM
1

My general rule is I don't approach hired gun because they're paid to be nice to you
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:25 AM
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I get soft when I use certain condoms. My dick ain't Magnum size but that's my go-to because it's not too tight and you can still feel the friction. Make sure your dick isn't too small for it though
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:08 AM
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"Old or young" proceeds to start approaching in high school due to the high volume of girls in a concentrated venue
/r/askTRP31/05/19 01:57 AM
2

Need a prescription?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:05 PM
2

How long do those last? I tried a Rhino pill and it made me super horny for like 5 days -- never again
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:00 PM
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True and false. Thinking "you are enough" is a good thinking process to get girls you deserve. When I'm looking around the bar/club oftentimes i think to myself "does anyone here even deserve getting approached by me?". Of course with this way of thinking this limits to 1 or 2 approaches a night, but those 1 or 2 approaches usually go [waaay] further than the 5-10 approaches the guys I used to game with take. By further i mean it's usually the girl trying to escalate and me bringing up the objec…
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:44 AM
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Good job on the first step but you have to realize the difference between being attractive and being good-looking A good looking guy is blessed aesthetically at birth. He can get the girls on his (social) level but not anything beyond that. An attractive man doesn't necessarily have to be handsome. He has traits that convey high value and charisma. He may be a 7 in terms of looks but can get 9's and 10's
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:20 AM
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Time wasters? Guys with no game
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:01 AM
1

Improvisational comedy
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:55 AM
1

Fuck...feels.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:36 PM
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It's terrible when you have good game because the girls you try to befriend will start to try to impress you and like you. I was in a short-term relationship and during the time I was with the girl i would decide to go out on a friday, saturday or both (due to it being a habit) and meet people. It literally is annoying as hell I'm free from those shackles now so I'm back to being a player
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:30 PM
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Is this seduction or fucking gym class?
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:23 PM
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Sorry, false. I gamed with natural and they're terrible. I'm a PUA and I pull 1/2 times I go out. People really don't know what I PUA is anymore
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:38 PM
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Good line but it's out of context. A "neg" always has to have context behind it or they'll know what you're up to
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:09 PM
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Smart
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:26 AM
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He was using the woman filter
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:07 PM
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This
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:06 PM
1

Bro that's what separates tru PUAs from the mainstream. Be glad you're different
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:41 PM
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As of now, most of us would consider someone who is a millionaire rich. If everyone becomes a millionaire, would we still consider millionaires rich? Of course not, prices will increase as wages do. Therefore, if everyone is good at game, will people still be good at game? The bar will be raised and it'll be tougher to game. Stop complaining about how the mainstream teaches on a large scale. It's a blessing that they teach bullshit because it gives guys like you and I an edge of 99.9999% out the…
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:24 PM
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It seems like you're a strict rsd fan
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:46 PM
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Weekdays are pretty dead except for Tres Gringos and San Jose Bar and Grill on Tuesdays and Thursdays. These are usually bars where there are a lot of college students (esp. on those days) and consequently, lots of ghetto people I would have 4 day weeks if I needed practice which I recommend you do once or twice a month. I stopped because I realized I kinda don't need the volume compared to someone who's lower intermediate in game. Even tho the girls might not be the most optimal prospects for m…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 08:33 AM
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No prob. Went out there for 6 months every weekend before this slump I had due to a girl. I had some 5 day night game nights a week there too. I know the place well and know game pretty well so if you wanna game and learn then I'll be more than willing to help
/r/askTRP11/05/19 08:29 AM
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No, it's not. It makes being a alpha male lover more meaningful for those who can pull it off and actually have the girl be with him because of the experience rather than money In other words, if everyone is a lover, no one is
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:39 AM
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I bounce around a lot. Here's my usual routine: 9:00 - Old Wagon 10:00-10:30 - I'm usually around 2nd street at Paper Plane or 55 South. Those places are either a hit or a miss due to the abundance of mixed sets that tend to be dominated by guys or just people out on dates in general. These two places are my favorite places to game for two reasons. One, bc the girls and people in general are higher value than usual. Two, those two places are more quiet than the other places around since my game …
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:45 AM
1

At this point in my game I only usually approach the girls who I think deserve me approaching them -- the hottest ones at the bar. Even then I screen for the appropriate traits I like to find in a woman then subsequently train her to think and act in a way how I want her to. I only approach 1-2 sets a night since a lot of them go a long way; 3-5 if it's not going so well At an advanced level I don't think it's practical to make a lot of guy friends at the bar because they usually fuck your sets …
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:30 AM
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Yes and no. Game is a numbers game but the numbers can be skewed greatly with the appreciation of skill and effort. Now with the statement about poor game. I like this because it supports the fact that women will put you in different frames when they meet you - ie. Relationship, fwb, ONS. Just because a woman acts prim and proper with her boyfriend doesn't mean she'll be the same type of person if she meets a celebrity or someone who wants her to be a different type of girl based on his standard…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 04:23 PM
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So true, you never know
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:48 PM
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Sorry bro, "you push until it happens" is a terrible thing to say if I know what you're saying In my game, i push, sure. The thing is, I'm pushing the girl away and telling her that things might not work out between her and I. I'm actively disqualifying as I display my wit at the same time. She's the one pushing for sex and helping the logistical problems. And even in the bedroom she still doesn't think she can have me 100% Second, making out is easy. It shouldn't be a measurement of success of …
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:46 PM
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Finally a decent post. I kind of noticed most posts on this sub have become flooded with watered down versions of pickup - mainstream pickup. This is golden advice as this post shows the "what you should look for" behind the "how do you do it"
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:37 PM
0

But RSD is trash
/r/seduction16/04/19 06:48 PM
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What do you think your problem in game is? Honestly bro, at an advanced level 2/3 to 3/4 of the girls u talk to will be attracted to you. What's hard is solving logistics since attracted is already a foregone conclusion. Anyway, before you give up you have to recognize those problems and find solutions to them. If you're going in and saying "that girl didn't like me even though I didn't do anything wrong, on to the next!" you'll never find solutions to the problems because you don't identify any…
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:49 AM
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How many girls have u pulled in a year?
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:20 PM
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This is the shit RSD is teaching instead of cold approach these days. "Social Media Game". Sure, it exists, but how do you use social media to grow your personality in order to develop high value behaviors? "If you suck at social media, you suck at game". Holy fuck i wanna blow my brains out. It's a good thing they're pushing this shit for guys who can actually pull in person. Pickup has been so watered down by the mainstream and it's kind of a blessing. Props to you for posting this, brother
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 05:46 AM
1

I second this. Sorry buddy, but you have to stop lying to yourself
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:42 PM
1

OP, disregard any other advice that's given to you and please listen to this guy. This is spot on premium advice Edit: don't bank on relying on yourself in the future, ACT NOW and reap the benefits later. Don't be an idiot
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:00 PM
1

Good text game is key if you have "decent looks". I don't have a job title or anything, but I spent time taking good photos. As time progresses, your matches will dissipate and lessen. I have a text game stack for online game and it usually follows the same structure for most girls.
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:51 AM
3

Why should I approach 10+ sets during the day walking around for hours when i could head to a bar and approach 1-3 sets for a possible pull? Imho, I don't think you should approach too many sets in order to get laid unless you're looking to stay at the current skill level you're at. First off, I know this is a numbers game but your treating it like a game where your ratio can't be heightened because of an exponential increase in skill. Second, I don't think Tom Torero is a decent role model for …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 02:33 AM
1

Just delete Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge last week since a lot of my sets have been getting attracted to me. There's light at the other end of the tunnel, all you have to do is immerse yourself in theory and practice
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:34 PM
6

I've cancelled dates to game. So yeah, I do think that's it's more fun. I also looked at it as a delay in gratification to increase my skill level. Nowadays, attraction for me is a foregone conclusion
/r/seduction06/04/19 08:58 PM
2

Maybe it's because when you act like a "gentleman" the women don't know you have a penis but when you act "naughty" they know. Basically, you go from having no chance to having the slightest bit of chance with the least amount of game possible. It's like a string of numbers multiplied by each other following a zero is still zero. That's when you show you're a man Edit: work on your game, it'll pay dividends
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:44 PM
4

Lol
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:20 PM
1

I stopped doing day game when I started succeeding in night game. I'm in love with the whole nightlife scene as well. I've gamed a couple college bars and kinda noticed that college girls are very social circle based. Same here with the quality of matches. A good one comes every so often. I do much better irl
/r/seduction05/04/19 04:50 AM
1

Why would she try if she wasn't interested?
/r/seduction05/04/19 03:01 AM
1

Self-help inner game, non-technical natural approach to pickup bullshit. They are trying to teach guys how to be confident without giving the guys the right skillset to do so. I believe it's a good thing they're the most known so it gives the guys who can do real pickup a huge advantage
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:59 AM
1

A movie in her dorm or at the theater? I hope you mean at her dorm. Also, i kinda feel like it's better to go for coffee or drinks then pull since a lot of girls aren't really comfortable with having guys they just met over. If you know how to pull, great; if you don' t know how to pull, work on it Get on dating apps too. Pretty sure it's still good in college
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:53 AM
2

This is where the PUA community is headed lol jk Edit: in all seriousness, what's the point of this post? Are you asking for advice or trying to make a point with the weird catcalling
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:44 AM
2

I'd go out solo and just cut to the chase with guys who I think are cool enough to wing for me. I honestly hate small talk and talking about irrelevant things with dudes but I use it to screen for the qualities I'd like to see in a wing, Unfortunately, my experience with meeting "experienced" wings on RSD and at the bars are both the same: they're the ones who get me blown out. The usual story: girl likes me, i go for the pull (usually a lateral pull to grab drinks or go to a different bar), i s…
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:17 PM
-3

Nope, I watch porn and I'm prolly the most advanced in this thread.
/r/seduction04/04/19 10:55 PM
1

I think the only actual useful old video of Todd was the "how to approach girls in groups". The new stuff is pretty much all you need. His second channel is absolute gold too "asktoddv"
/r/seduction03/04/19 02:00 AM
3

Watch his video "Friendship and Growth" on Todd V Dating
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:45 PM
1

Yeah, it's really not worth the hours of videos. He doesn't get to the point and I don't have time for unnecessary rambling. Within 5 months of watching Todd I was able to reach advanced game. Highly recommend him
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:43 PM
1

Tyler and Julien's content kinda sucks tho, I'd stick with Todd
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:24 PM
2

It's the confident part you need to work on. Have you ever heard of the phrase fake it til you make it? What I did was I modeled myself after Todd until I was able to develop my own style of charisma and wit. I do find modeling yourself after someone the easiest way bc I'm pretty good at putting myself in the person's mindset. Try it out. Giving out a sexual vibe is hard to explain because it's the feeling of being around you rather than the words you say. That takes practice. Watch some movies/…
/r/seduction29/03/19 10:42 PM
2

I'm sorry but it sounds like you have no game. Women are there to meet people, yes. The thing is, it sounds like you aren't flirting. Believe it or not, in most of interactions the women are the ones asking me all the questions about myself - ie. Where i live, what I do, where I'm from etc. Learn how to flirt. There's a good starter video by Todd V Dating on youtube on how to flirt 99% of people get flirting wrong. People think it's what you say. Lol. It's the overall vibe you're conveying to th…
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:32 PM
2

It's the social skills. I do have problems flirting with extremely foreign asian girls because of the language barrier though. I suggest that this guy should do as many approaches as he can followed with studying theory. There will come a time in your game where you'll only need to approach 1-2 sets a night to either get a solid number close or a single night lay. I disagree with you with HB8+ and insecure girls tend to do that. If your game is really good, you're the one who's going to be pushi…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:22 PM
4

Google ELO score on Tinder. Should tell you the reason why
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:43 PM
2

Okay, first off if this is just some bs friend-friend conversation you're already way behind. Instigate a shit test with a tease and then pass the shit test. Once the shit test is passed she'll either give you another one or give you a logical text which should be followed by a push-pull statement by you. After that she'll supplicate and probably fall into the frame that you're the high value person. This has been a pattern in a lot of number closes/tinder convos i've had I usually have a girl q…
/r/seduction22/03/19 09:32 PM
2

I think this is your fault. It's making the situation feel like a win for you and a loss for her. Before you have a girl do anything for you you have to make her qualify. Basically you have to make her feel like she's earned the date and she isn't just supplicating to meet your needs
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:57 PM
8

Been there. I started my pickup journey about 5 months ago and spent a shit ton of time studying material repetitively from Todd V. I started seeing rather sporadic results after my first month and made my first couple pulls that time. I had a really long dry spells/slumps due to listening to advice from people less experienced than I am but started getting my shit back after going my own way. 5 months in and I'm in this spot where I'm able to attract a high percentage of sets. I feel like I get…
/r/seduction22/03/19 05:36 AM
14

"I'm gonna have to start charging you for that" "Oh my, you're such a playful little thing, you might be too much for me" Basically learn how to flirt bro.
/r/seduction22/03/19 05:22 AM
1

Start negging the shit out of girls and practicing push-pull that you'll be comfortable enough to do it. At one point, you'll go overboard and you'll have to learn how to calm down a bit. At an advanced level you'll be able to find the proper ratio between value and comfort
/r/seduction22/03/19 05:20 AM
4

If you have the mindset that you have to impress them then you're way behind. It's about developing high value behaviors and developing sharp wit that will make them want to impress you. At one point, you'll understand everything and only go for the best. Why? Because you won't have enough time to accommodate anybody but the best.
/r/seduction22/03/19 05:18 AM
1

Malls, colleges that I didn't go to, streets, downtowns etc. Malls were my fave especially shopping centers close to colleges. Anywhere with a lot of humans walking around
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:55 AM
3

Kinda agree withthis. I'm in an emotional rut right now because of a decision between pickup and a girl that I really like. Not saying I won't game when we're still not official yet, but if it gets to that point, I'm not sure if I'm ready to give up something that has made me grow exponentially as a person
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:56 PM
2

I currently have the same issue. For me it's a mix of performance anxiety and the thought of putting the condom on. I've been practicing regularly jerking off with a condom and noticed that i usually get a solid one when I'm jerking it but it's a different ball game with a girl. What I do as a backup plan is I bring about 5 condoms with me when I go out and practice game/play to win and if it comes to a point where I go flaccid after putting the condom on, I take it off have the girl suck me off…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:10 PM
1

It's all about self-awareness
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:08 AM
0

This guy has a point. A lot of people focus on asking the wrong questions like what to do and where to do it but don't ask how to do it. If you're are at a place where you can get money and build a career or something but you don't know how to do it then you won't be able to make anything of it. My advise...LEARN TO FLIRT
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:54 PM
3

Ur game sounds like trash
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:22 PM
1

In what way did she flake?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:10 PM
1

She just disqualified your ass Edit: it's a shit test. I suggest disqualifying too "yeah, you might not be good for me anyway" Cant say more because there are barely any details.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:33 PM
1

I thought this post was about doing pickup (GAME) at first phew
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 08:50 PM
2

I'd go to a bar Edit: improv class is great for meeting people and acquiring life skills.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:23 AM
2

I've never heard such a shit test 😹
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:04 AM
1

Common small fish trying to get press. Watched his videos kinda sucks
/r/seduction08/02/19 05:08 PM
1

You've only approached 34 girls?
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:54 PM
1

It shows you're high value in a sense that it makes you seem like you're not afraid of losing the girl
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:51 PM
1

Cold approach, perhaps? It has allowed me to grow in ways unimaginable. Every time I have small successes it boosts my confidence and every time I fail I figure out why I did and I learn from it. I highly recommend it as it boosts social intelligence to a deeper level Edit: i know you were approaching but I suggest sticking to it
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:30 PM
1

What program is this from?
/r/seduction07/02/19 01:05 AM
20

Tinder has gave every woman out there a sense of entitlement
/r/seduction06/02/19 01:57 PM
1

It happens at a much slower pace. I transitioned opposite from you: day to night. Basically did day game for 4-5 months then night game for 4 months til this day. I'd say I've had better experience doing night game in terms of building attraction and a deeper connection. Day game has helped me get over the extreme approach anxiety . In regards to insta dates, if the girl likes your overall vibe and isn't doing anything then it wouldn't hurt to ask bc not a lot of people do. Gonna start day gamin…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:02 PM
2

Sorry, this is utterly dumb. Talking to people isn't the same as FLIRTING with women. If you like playing both ways then that's fine but you seem like the type of guy who'll go up to a girl in a club/bus stop/street and talk about the weather and what she likes to do in her free time for 30 minutes
/r/askTRP05/02/19 07:51 PM
3

You're right to an extent. I don't think OP should create false scarcity for the girl because there will come a time where the girl will be going to that one party and be starved for male attention that she's gonna have to supplicate and give in to the thirst OP presented. If she really like you, she'll set the boundaries herself. In terms of negotiation and the precedent of the relationship, if she comes up to you and asks then that's when you can negotiate and open relationship if you sell it …
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:41 PM
1

Lesbian women?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:26 PM
1

I think being married was a shit test.
/r/seduction04/02/19 06:19 PM
40

"If i hit this ball you'll have to kiss me" sounds like bad game in general...
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:26 AM
16

Guys, there is fuking light at the end of the tunnel. Just make sure you treat every failure as a chance to learn and every success as a boost of confidence. Set small goals and baby step them towards the big ones. You'll see improvements in your game while you analyze every small detail of every interaction. I'm not there yet, but I sure as hell know where I'm headed
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:18 AM
1

Bro once you get used to the rush feeling, you won forget
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:07 AM
1

Tease her back and try to flip it into a flirt. Idk man, seems like you're not good at reading people. The example is too abstract for me to know a sure solution
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:47 PM
1

Dude, girls take the time to tease guys they like
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:38 PM
4

You're cancerous
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:37 PM
3

I wish I was redpilled in high school
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:54 PM
1

Don't do this until she starts giving you positives. It's better to ask for those separately. First ask if she likes drinks then ask when she's free because if she says no, you wouldn't know what she'll be saying no to. Either the drinks or tonight Also, don't set a date in stone because what if she's not available that night...u gonna ask again and be a needy bitch?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:52 PM
1

Yeah, don't post if you can't take advice in any form. Don't invite her to a tech talk lol
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:49 PM
8

*you're
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:36 PM
2

Dude same here. Got like 75 likes and probably 50 were gross
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:05 PM
1

I think you mean Single Night Lays not One Night Stands... Edit: it does happen to the average joe. I didn't graduate college, im decent looking, and have a decent job. I've been working on my game and am so amazed at how technical this shit is in terms of making a girl fall in love with you in such a short period of time. The guys I game with graduated from ivy leagues and work jobs in the best tech firms but can't get girls. Why? It's because their game isn't good yet.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:00 AM
2

Pro of direct approach: you're being clear with your intention and establishing a man to woman premise Con: you're forcing the girl to make a decision about you on the spot. It doesn't give her much time to absorb your personality. I'd say a direct approach works best on women who'll like you right away (mostly lower value women - i.e. 6's and rarely 7's). I haven't gone direct in such a long time since going indirect kind of is the higher percentage move in terms of building attraction
/r/seduction26/01/19 04:25 PM
5

Most pathetic answer I've ever seen. A few months ago I would do approaches that would instantly get me rejected or have me self-eject myself. Now, I can flirt and attract like crazy. I've pulled a few times and I haven't got pulling down to the dot, but I know it's a SKILL that can be learned by all and that's why I don't give up Take your defeatist mentality somewhere else because this sub is for people who actually want to learn
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:44 AM
2

They need an orbiter. An orbiter is a man who stands within the premise of a provider; someone who'll stick around no matter what. It's always better to come in as a alpha lover then proceeding to transition into a semi-provider frame while maintaining the lover frame
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:09 PM
34

Yup, move the fuck out and away from home to a big city
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:38 PM
14

Plot twist: OP is asian
/r/seduction25/01/19 03:36 PM
1

I dont live in orange county
/r/seduction23/01/19 06:39 PM
2

I am Owen Cook
/r/seduction23/01/19 05:02 PM
3

For some, being on top sucks. I personally like it when a girl rides me while we fuck. Also, it's literally the only position where I was finish It's because you're relaxed and only focused on the sensations
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:08 PM
1

I tell improv stories to set a deep hook in my sets
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:09 AM
3

Sounds like this guy is the type of guy who has a platonic conversation all night then makes a move
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:28 PM
12

Improv class ❤️ It'll also help you with your conversational improv skills for when you're ready to night game. I'd say day game is a good place to start. I found out about game when I was 20 and was in the same position you were in. Being able to fuck girls in high school due to a solid social circle was my advantage but after I moved to a different country everything changed. I day gamed for about 4-6 months then completely stopped for about a year to a year and a half then proceeded to night …
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:26 PM
6

Couldn't read past that line. It really fucked me up lol
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:36 AM
19

Pressure flips are definitely something I have recently run into. This sounds pretty decent
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:47 PM
1

How do you expect to sleep with a girl when you don't speak the same language? What is your goal? Just get a dance? Just make out? Those are fucking 10x easier than sleeping with a girl. It looks like you're asking the wrong questions dude
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:33 AM
1

I interrupt their dance and strike a conversation. Dance if I get one of them hooked
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:39 PM
1

Definitely forcing a girl to make a decision about you then and there. Super low success rate imho
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:35 PM
1

I walk up and try to do an observational opener but if nothing comes to mind then I use a canned line. The important thing is your body language. Indirect openers are always awesome because it gives the girls a minute to absorb your body language/persona instead of going super direct
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:21 PM
1

It kinda does mean you're doing something wrong when something fails when your sample size is 26. I can approach 3 sets in a night and get at 1 hooked. Closing is a different story and I'm working on it.
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:19 PM
1

Your approach to taking a girl to the dance floor probably sucks. Revisit it. Too little info too Edit: there will be slumps in your pickup journey where you'll literally forget everything you learned and will have to relearn them a little bit in order to get better. Taking a break in my experience has made me temporarily worse. I actually experienced approach anxiety and was so into my head that most conversations were platonic and non-flirtatious which is so unlike me. I believe you need to re…
/r/seduction19/01/19 09:35 PM
54

What makes you think you were? You'll never fucking know for sure.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:22 PM
2

I disagree with this. Is that it, ask her to have a coffee with you? She's not gonna text you unless you're like an instagram model and value exudes through your pores. Women may be attracted to looks, but you have to back it up with good game. Without game, your approaches are gonna turn to shit OP has to flirt and make damn sure that flirting's a natural habit to pull shit off like hitting on girls who are on the clock. I have personally come to a point where I flirt with every girl I come acr…
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:45 PM
5

Yeah, reading this made me cringe. First: you're worried about one girl Second: you bashed on his looks Third: this is r/seduction; the main thing we teach is that looks and money matter less than overall good game
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:10 PM
1

Wtf practice first. I know a few guys who went to an immersion and mentioned that it's like drinking out of a fire hose - i.e. too much info for a person who has little knowledge. Personally, I considered joining Todd's immersion program but I thought that deferring it as I sharpen my skills will help tremendously as I approach the more plateauing stages in my pickup journey.
/r/seduction18/01/19 04:49 PM
1

What do you think about the scenes that showed guys doing pickup? As an aPUA it kind of struck me in such a negative way. I always make my pickups seem acceptable and that's why I get more positive feedback than negative from girls but those cuts made pickup look so bad
/r/askTRP18/01/19 04:30 PM
17

Men and women are the same There is no such thing as "the one"
/r/seduction17/01/19 04:48 PM
2

I've been looking into their recent content and I find the social media game somewhat relevant even though they put so much weight on it that "social media game is the only game" or "if you're bad at instagram you're bad at game" bullshit Edit: they lack the technical aspects that allow you to shift and play with women's emotions
/r/seduction17/01/19 04:47 PM
5

Question: aren't the girls who kind of flirt obliviously the ones who aren't of good value? Subtlety to me kind of weeds out the losers who don't know how to handle women
/r/seduction17/01/19 04:43 PM
-4

How do you feel about doing the same thing to her?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:21 AM
0

Shove some Plan B down her throat while you're at it
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:23 PM
11

Lol escalation through text? Edit: i second this answer
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:35 PM
1

Practice
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:44 AM
5

Lol Todd's the best out there. Good luck
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:44 AM
3

Of course I'll ignore the downvotes. I follow Todd V religiously. Don't worry Edit: these downvotes are from guys who get the low value girls
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:39 AM
-3

Never go direct with 9's and 10's. Even 8's are kinda on the iffy side of direct game
/r/seduction12/01/19 05:25 AM
2

I second this. Good logic
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:54 AM
1

Bro, the keyword is candid. Not location
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:01 AM
1

If it's a good pic, yeah. Usually candid photos work best for showing off positive traits that you have - i.e. playing guitar, being ripped, etc
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:41 PM
1

10-15% is a pretty voluminous margin to base bf %. My question: was how do people who lift/workout skew the sample? Hell yeah, I'm overweight
/r/seduction11/01/19 09:29 PM
1

Would you mind elaborating?
/r/seduction11/01/19 07:07 PM
1

How old are you? And hold on, I'm 5'10, 23years-old and 180lbs on my 3rd week of a 3 month bulk - probably gonna have to cut my bulk short and switch up. My bf % is about 18-20% right now and I'm visibly fit (it's clear that I lift). What are your thoughts on me being overweight on the charts? I want to see what you think about this visually vs on paper because with statistics like mine, girls who squat and are fit with nice voluptuous asses can be considered overweight on paper too
/r/seduction11/01/19 06:15 PM
3

Interesting. Appreciate the clarification!
/r/seduction11/01/19 05:24 PM
1

Lol i thought the ratio was 35% or 1/3 of Americans. I think u got it wrong But yeh gtfo of bum fuk nowhere
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:43 PM
2

Act like you've been there a million times - i.e. less smiling (especially if you're talking to 9's or 10's), don't be that group who snapchats taking shots and shit, etc.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:33 PM
2

The next time he yells at you tell him to stop if he wants to keep all his teeth
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:41 AM
2

College-aged meaning 18-22, right? I noticed even 23 year olds fresh out of college are more adventurous in a sense. Gym game helps bump up SMV by maybe 1 point and I agree that it helps
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:16 PM
3

Have a week in a month where you go out 4 times and then go out every Friday/Saturday Go out even when your wingmen don't want to. Going out alone helps you grow more than going out with wings
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:15 PM
1

What is your goal though? Going out twice a week on Friday and Saturday is good for maintaining your current skillset if any
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:23 PM
1

He's able to get numbers but barely attract
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:00 PM
2

This is interesting. I always expect girls who dress "sexy" to be at least open to flirtation. I do believe their main association with the opposite sex in most cases is very social circle centric unless they were brought up to be socially adept and outgoing in a more graceful way. What would your assumption for fun be for these women? Meh, in the end I see that going to these kinds of bars is mainly for practice in contrast to the usual spots I hit up
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:47 PM
1

Tom torrero is not good at game lol
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:12 AM
1

I'm pretty good looking but don't make a lot of money...yet. Definitely look better in real life. Oh ya, I'm asian too. I feel like we have a slight disadvantage when it comes to online dating. Got some white friends who look average but get more matches than I do Real life is always best for grit and perseverance
/r/seduction08/01/19 06:21 AM
1

You need to look up some theory on youtube dude. Watch infields too
/r/seduction08/01/19 04:16 AM
2

I second this. I can get 5's or 6's online but 6's-9's in real life. I now only use online dating to practice my push-pulls, calibration, and to kind of use the push-pulls in person. Kind of like adding to my arsenal of canned lines
/r/seduction08/01/19 12:40 AM
3

There you go; good job on answering your own question
/r/seduction07/01/19 07:33 PM
3

I
/r/seduction07/01/19 05:42 PM
5

If you really like her then continue to see her while seeing other people. If you can't handle it, don't
/r/seduction07/01/19 05:41 PM
3

Missing out on foreplay, not teasing, and thinking that finger her hard will get her off. I usually go for the clit and g spot now and pay attention to a few things - breathing, when she tenses up, and the moaning.
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:58 PM
7

I kind of stopped encouraging the loudness and let them come out naturally. Trust me, I've learned from my mistakes lol
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:53 PM
5

I realized this because I found out most girls fake it
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:31 PM
3

It's not the lifestyle. A few months ago before I started my own business I was unemployed and broke, yet the girls I approached and attracted when I started night gaming didn't know that. Some of em were even 9's. Honestly, most of them don't even care what you do as long as you seem like you have value and ambition. The ones who give a shit about what you do are the gold diggers/status hoarders which you should avoid. What you do is you start doing cold approach consistently AT LEAST 2 times a…
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:29 PM
3

It sounds like you've been doing night game for a while. How long have you been? There are many factors that contribute to SMV. They mainly are: social proof, good body language, self-amusement. What I do believe is the biggest factor that would up your SMV especially with high value women is how you purport the fact that you've been with a lot of women - i.e. them knowing you've been with hot girls by the way you communicate with them. The problem you're facing right now is a problem of levelin…
/r/seduction06/01/19 05:06 PM
5

Lol he's asking for the technical aspect of it
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:59 PM
24

Bottom Line: PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODY
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:58 PM
1

Can you stop trying to reason whether or not you can stay the way you are and gain strength? Just bulk and cut, dude. The guy already told you the three things that you need. You won't gain a significant amount of strength maintaining the same weight
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:10 PM
1

Both snap and number don't mean shit. I've gotten hundreds of numbers that didn't go anywhere when I was a beginner. I don't know what your case is, but the number closes have to be solid - meaning the girl doesn't want you to leave etc What will really get results is your ability to move the interaction forward when the girl is with you to make a solid # close
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:16 PM
0

To be honest, it sounds like you're blame-shifting. This is what registered in my mind while reading the post: "I'm bitter towards pickup that's why I'm going to discourage other people from doing it so we all won't get results" It's really how you look at it and if all you're going to do is cry about not getting good at game because you see the problem in everything else, then I suggest you don't post at all. The thing is, sometimes you think everything else that revolves around you is the prob…
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:08 PM
3

Lengthier knee caps?
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:59 PM
7

Don't look at her as a seducer. There is a huge difference between attractiveness and good looks: attractiveness is your ability to spark attraction/value despite your looks. Attraction occurs when a woman doesn't want you to leave; Seduction occurs when the woman is actively pursuing you. Now, how does she actively pursue you? It's after you've displayed enough value that she sees you sleeping with her is a win
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:56 PM
1

I'm a guy who used to have a good/abundant social circle until I moved to another country a year after graduating high school. The problem with me was that I knew how to interact with people I was comfortable with, but I was never put in uncomfortable situations that molded my outgoing character. I learn cold approach about a year and a half ago and pursued it consistently for 2-3 months then stopped until 3 months ago. During the time that I stopped I relied solely on online game and didn't hav…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 08:01 PM
7

Comfort vs Value model: Value is what gets a girl attracted Comfort is what makes her trust you more This is the most basic explanation I can give
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:30 AM
2

Not too sure. I gave you my suggestion, it's really up to you to decide what you wanna do. I prefer not cumming inside the girl tho
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:56 PM
2

Invasive how? I'm not sure if it's painful or not. A friend of mine got it because his ex wife forced him to lol
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:47 PM
3

Get a fucking vasectomy if you're worried about that type of shit. Just looked it up: reverse vasectomies are actually a thing
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:29 PM
1

Bro, the internet is your playground.
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:48 AM
1

Memorize lines then you will internalize the concept
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:10 AM
1

Push-pull is a concept where you give a compliment (pull) and then a negative (push) or the other way around. That's the format. Example: I like you (pull) even though you're kinda weird (push) Pretty simple. It's a positive + a negative emotional spike. Edit: this can be done non-verbally too. Look up push-pull on youtube lol so many vids
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:21 AM
3

Beware of the cancerous link!
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:30 AM
1

Beware of the cancerous link!
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:30 AM
1

Fasho ma nig
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:28 AM
2

Agree with most but the girl ain't gonna initiate shit. It's your mothafuckin' job as a man to lead. Women are too afraid of looking like sluts bc of social conditioning. It's your job to make it look plausible. Remember all the technical concepts: push-pull, negs (make sure you don't insult), misinterpretation, etc.
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:26 AM
0

Personal development is good but isn't this sub for posts about pickup up chics Edit: the psychological breakdowns are pretty decent. The video about russel brand's push-pull is very vague
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:23 AM
1

r/askseddit is the place to go for answers about a specific girl
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:22 AM
1

Just watched Paul Janka infield. If you consider that guy great then you must be smoking some real dope shit. Yes, no, and maybe girls are a true concept. The thing is, the ones that'll say yes are the ones that already have an intangibly lower SMV than you right off the bat. I really need to rethink your game bro, because low energy girls who prefer to converse are the ones best to spit game at
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:19 AM
1

Oh, I'm sorry. I don't understand terribly misplaced sarcasm
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:15 AM
3

Do you have any suggestions on which stock? I've been dying to place a put on oil right now but if you help me find a low cost option that would guarantee myself to be in-the-money 8 months from now that would be great.
/r/seduction02/01/19 02:27 AM
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Not in social situations. A girl's market value in the social realm (ie. That number you rank her) is purely based on looks - unless she perceives herself as a higher value than you perceive her. Why? Because they're so goddamn used to guys hitting on them that they've built the proper defenses in order to block off plebeians
/r/seduction01/01/19 09:48 PM
58

Most guys can't convey the right amount of status that could sustain the interest of a high value woman
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:03 PM
2

Second this. If she likes you, take all your clothes off as people are kissing and make love on the sloppy dance floor
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:14 AM
4

Dude I always love to see your comments. Not a lot of people bring actual PUA substance in this community anymore for some reason.
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:07 AM
3

I can't hit on girls when I'm in the state. I can get physical and escalate physically but can't display the amount of social proof I've obtained from my experience with girls through spitting game. My brains all scrambled eggs and I don't look forward to pulling girls home when I'm on E - even though I'm horny af. I suggest that you do cold approach and approach hundreds of girls until you start not giving a fuck
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:02 AM
1

That's cute, but I don't think that's the way to go. Social circle and cold approach are two different things. I know some people who heavily rely on social circle and get a lot of success from it but can't do jack-shit when it comes to cold approach. They are two different muscles that have a few coinciding similarities
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:52 PM
1

Perhaps but your opinions credibility may vary on the "experts" you're referring to
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:50 PM
3

Be careful though, in some situations you may ruin your reputation because of bad game
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:02 AM
7

The way I progressed from beginner to intermediate was this. I would go out alone, talk to some hoes, escalate and blow it. After the night, from the moment I leave the bar I reflect on the mistakes I've made. Hell yeah some of them were so beginner-ish and made me feel bad, but in the end I considered them learning experiences and bases of mistakes to avoid the next time I go sarge
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:01 AM
3

Real talk: be proud but make sure he has his life in order. If he's banging bitches left and right with no job or education then try to set him straight. Be wary of the way you do so bc the way my parents did it convicted me to give a retaliatory response.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:59 AM
1

Just gotta grow some balls, I guess
/r/seduction31/12/18 03:14 AM
4

Yup, when u ask you give the person a chance to say no
/r/seduction30/12/18 06:35 PM
1

Can you do yourself a favor and learn how to flirt first?
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:51 PM
21

**We should do this again
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:48 PM
0

Beware of that link!!
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:50 PM
1

Dude just tell her you fucking love her and let the games commence after. If you want to argue with people giving you advice when you're asking for it then don't ask for advice
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:48 PM
1

Game is the important part. All my wingmen are white collar guys and look decent - a couple even lift - but they don't get girls out of it yet because their game isn't on point. Game game game
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:40 PM
1

Getting in a flow due to having a couple warm ups is good. As you get more advanced I wouldn't recommend it. It's not really an ideal thing to rely on. I also believe warming up is a thing that mostly beginners should do. I'm already in a point in my game where I literally can sit down and enjoy my drink while scoping out the club for any potential approaches. The need for a warm up will greatly reduce over time, you just have to get over the threshold
/r/seduction29/12/18 03:41 AM
2

Tom Torerro ain't a good source for pickup lol
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:25 AM
1

True to an extent. Words have to be backed up by sub-communication. Both have to come from a high value standpoint. Qualification works when you give the girl a reason to qualify. If the value disparity between the two of you isn't significant - or even worse, hers is higher than yours - then she won't really give you the time of day. Push-pull does two things: it establishes a man-woman premise and it also allows you to gain a higher footing based on the girl's responses. It does add a third wh…
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:15 AM
1

Sounds bland with no sexual tension I'd go with a push-pull or a conversationally interesting opener to be steered in a direction of a ton of push-pulls to spark attraction. Things work for different girls though. In most cases, better looking girls need to be pushed away even more
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:29 PM
1

Dude it was a shit test, chill. Stop acting so negatively when someone posts a comment, it really does make you seem like you are in the 4th grade
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:17 PM
1

"What do you do? If you give me a boring answer like 'doctor' then I might leave. I want to know what your story is - what led you to where you are now"
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:15 PM
1

I don't think that line disqualifies. When you disqualify you disqualify the possibility of being together (ie. Having sex). It's more of a validation seeker. It's either you give it to her or you don't. I'd say something like "yeah, i like you, but I'm not too sure what it is" especially if it's your first time meeting
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:11 PM
4

Paragraphs can be your friend too
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:02 PM
5

You know that the only people who say they aren't stalking you are actual stalkers
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:50 AM
1

Pulled out and parked the car infront of her place to fuck more. We fucked for like 5 minutes and there they came patrolling again. I finally came out in my boxers while she was getting dressed. They didn't give me a ticket or anything. They were wondering who the homeowner was between the two of us
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:47 PM
3

The phrase "with a grain of salt" means to a certain extent that logic permits or some bs like that
/r/seduction27/12/18 08:50 PM
3

Agree w this OP: I would've probably just agreed or ignored tbh
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:41 PM
5

I don't think so. A person's frequency degrades value. The more scarce you are, the more value you contain. This is to a certain extent, of course. If you see her once a year your odds are pretty slim. Take this advice with a grain of salt
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:38 PM
1

I downvoted because I get a decent amount of girls and they don't even know my dick size before they get in my pants
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:54 PM
1

This is more of a Blue Pill post. I think you'll get more likes over there
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:36 PM
5

Bought tinder gold for a month ago to see. It saves time with the swiping. If you're not instagram model good looking or own a private jet, you'll be surprised how many fat girls swipe right
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:35 PM
6

Your style is more of a sniper style of game vs the shotgun style - approaching everybody. I prefer the sniper style but I also have moments where I do the other style. I like to get a feel of the venue and the dynamic between every relationship in the club. Also, if girls see you get blown out every 5 minutes then that wouldn't do so well for you. I suggest take your time but don't take too long thinking about approaching. Do both sniper and shotgun style and see the difference in your game and…
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:33 PM
6

Considerate and polite will make this guy end up in the friendzone especially with hotter girls. I disagree with the concept of "numbers game" a bit. You're right that the let's shots you take, the less chances you have, but pickup is a skill that can be developed to a point where those numbers exponentially decrease with time and experience. Not saying it's gonna take a year or less but how good you are really depends on your current skill and your overall progress.
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:28 PM
2

Agree with working on yourself but disagree with using physique as your number 1 attribute over wit. I would like to say that the long route will always have greater rewards over the shorter ones. Your resistance to pain will exponentially increase if you always choose to thicken your callouses
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:35 PM
1

Steroids
/r/askTRP25/12/18 08:38 AM
9

Long dick, maybe?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 08:07 AM
12

Totally agree, your game isn't that good yet. Persevere and work on it
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:51 AM
1

Lol i guess I should start my own youtube channel because those guys are shit. They don't know how to spike attraction, it's pathetic.
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:13 AM
1

Probably Tom Torerro or some other lower intermediate PUA
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:08 PM
9

-2. I've never seen anybody who has rainbows as eyes and that's really fucked up
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:04 PM
2

Can anyone explain to me how it's supposed to be done? I want other insights on my (and my friends') approach strategy I usually wait it out and see who looks "open" to conversation and get the general feel of the venue. My friends, on the other hand, like doing a more shotgun method of approaching all the girls/people they see. I've noticed I've had more quality interactions and less blatant rejections doing my sniper style of game
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:10 PM
1

Like I said, it's the abundance mentality with girls
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:37 AM
2

I feel like we need a bigger sample size in terms of the strategies in game. Like what type of game you're using (ie. Mystery method, natural game, or whatever the fuck) The selectiveness of females on Tinder definitely comes from abundance
/r/seduction21/12/18 02:06 AM
1

Work on your game. This is r/seduction not r/foreveralone
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:57 AM
1

A better phrase would be: be congruent with the person you are trying to portray
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:04 PM
1

Youtube and personal experience
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:03 PM
3

*You're into white girls
/r/seduction18/12/18 05:56 PM
16

Do you not feel the power of courting attention tho? I would feel like a boss any time they would give me death stares. It means you have an influence over their lives in some way. The question is: do they have an influence over yours?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:01 AM
0

Grab her by the pussy
/r/seduction18/12/18 05:57 AM
1

Okay, I'm a pussy. It's cute how you posted about ignoring someone you failed miserably with. What I see is oneitis written all over it. Move on and grow a sack Dude this whole post is a joke. I extend my deepest condolences to you, I'm sure you're a really nice guy.
/r/seduction18/12/18 05:12 AM
1

I'm fucking with you, chill
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:07 AM
1

Yeah, if you were in the 4th grade and spanking didn't have sexual connotations yet
/r/seduction17/12/18 08:29 PM
1

first mistake was joining a frat lol jk
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:43 PM
1

I would've asked to see it or use her restroom (assuming she doesn't live with her parents or if she does, assume they're cool)
/r/seduction17/12/18 05:14 PM
1

Where did you get that margin from?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:13 PM
3

Only betas do tho
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:06 PM
2

How guys are attracted to girls: get fit, dress sexy, have a sexual vibe but don't make it seem like he has you 100%
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:47 PM
1

Meh, there's too much of an agenda. Good game should be subtle as fuck
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:45 PM
2

If you consider "I'm gonna spank you" game then idk what your game looks like
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:44 PM
1

No need. Gaming alone is pretty solid and not a lot of people have the balls to do it
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:40 PM
3

Second this
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:09 PM
166

This happens in the clubs/bars too. I approach a girl who generally doesn't give me the time of day. I then approach another girl and sparks fly. I start vibing with the second girl while the first girl starts giving me looks when I get all touchy with the second. Pretty decent feeling
/r/seduction17/12/18 06:28 AM
1

I concur
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:15 AM
1

Reading people's investment into something, their value in an interaction, the power dynamic, body language, tonality. It also allows you to be in the moment and not think ahead. I guess most skills you learn are vocal and psychological While I'm scouting the area I also observe the dynamic in the club/bar and find it very interesting to see the different interactions
/r/seduction14/12/18 04:09 PM
1

No, but got a good amount of single night lays in the past few. Been going out consistently for almost 3 months now and it's crazy how the skill level spiked up so quickly
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:54 PM
6

Second this
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:58 AM
1

Yup, must be the major reason why I haven't been laid in 42 years. I assume you're the smart guy who splashes in all the pussy. I admire that trait about you, you're more witty than the average 5th grader
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:05 AM
-1

I think what OP should've done was actually talk to said "hot" girl and negged the living bulbous shit out of her to display his value the best he can while showing the least bit of interest. I would take the "we just made that guy's night" as an insult to my game if I ever got that
/r/seduction14/12/18 02:54 AM
0

Definitely the having a girl chase and pull you home is the art in it. You seem relatively experienced, I hope you have the eyes to see it though
/r/seduction14/12/18 02:44 AM
1

" I love game more than I love having sex" - Todd Valentine I consider dating as a hobby. The ability to seduce a woman and have her chase you is an art in itself. I've learned so much about human interaction and psychology from an accrued experience of about 9 months and had a decent amount of success along the way. If you only care about it and can't do anything then you should understand that you can learn from it and grow; if you have the mental strength to forego all interest in game then p…
/r/seduction14/12/18 12:20 AM
-1

Guy's been gaming for 3 years. Supposed to be intermediate -- advanced by now
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:40 PM
0

Lol did you get laid? Yeah they made your night but that's the only thing you're gonna get from them I don't understand...no progress in pickup for 3 years?
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:39 PM
2

https://youtu.be/tLPZmPaHme0
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:15 PM
1

What do you mean
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:39 PM
1

You is on point ma boi
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:27 PM
1

Take some classes. They'll be awkward at first but will help with empathy and building a solid connection as well. I also suggest learning push-pull techniques simultaneously. I'm also considering joining a toastmasters and doing stand up to help with game and personal development in general. I do believe public speaking is the most powerful form in terms of tonality
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:47 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:01 PM
1

Comfort without attraction will lead to her thinking you don't have a penis
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:01 PM
2

Get a luffa and Dove's moisturizing body wash and scrub her down while you're having sex. The best part about it is you'll feel her slide all over your body while having the most erotic sponge bath she's ever gotten
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:37 PM
3

No. Think of this: if a homeless man (low value) approached you while you're walking on the street and gave you an opinion about something all you're going to do is agree and walk away She's putting in the time and effort to see whether you're congruent with the persona you're portraying
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:06 PM
1

No perfect time to ask. Can you like at least try to get her attracted to you before you do it?
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:11 AM
2

Try improvisational humor. My improvised stories that are clearly made up tend to hook a 80% of my sets. Probably do it once attraction is built but this is what really makes my interactions interesting
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:10 AM
1

I second this. Not the routines part, but the dhv neg10
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:09 AM
1

I'm honestly sick of all the beginner bullshit questions when this sub is meant to be for intermediate/advanced discussions
/r/seduction11/12/18 10:16 PM
0

I believe girls want a guy who is of high value. Being cool, aloof, and "douchey" - by douchey i assume you mean polarizing - can help portray that. This persona will help with building attraction and once the hook is set in place it can be the foundation of building comfort. Niceness from what I've seen is when a guy allows himself to convey that the girl can have him whatever she does. That's pretty beta. This post is pretty vague but that's my two cents
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:32 PM
2

Props
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:37 PM
2

Give some time if the guy fails
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:09 PM
2

Get rejections in real life
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:08 PM
0

Lol how old are you
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:08 PM
1

"Tell him I'm gay"
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:57 PM
1

3% is a shitty rate especially for professional coaches.
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:54 PM
1

More like 25% logistics 50% skill 25% the fucking friends
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:44 PM
1

Those two names you've mentioned suck. They both don't know how to get a woman to chase. It's depressing to see fools be called coaches
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:43 PM
1

Because you're more afraid to lose the prettier ones
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:40 PM
1

Yup. Get over it by actually approaching
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:28 PM
0

Yeah, it's kind of like when the fat friend calls dibs on you when you're clearly hitting on another girl in the group. It sucks, I know. When I saw that it's clear that the fat friend likes me I left the set
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:23 PM
3

I usually comment about her nails and ask her to let me see it. Sometimes when the sexual tension is high, i lead by rubbing/caressing her arm and going for the hand Tip: if she subconsciously squeezes your hand while or even before you close your grip, she's turned on or she likes you
/r/seduction10/12/18 05:43 PM
2

Bars too
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:13 PM
2

Agree with going to the gym and picking up girls but the voice message might be over the top
/r/seduction10/12/18 03:59 PM
2

Like how to initiate?
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:21 PM
53

Gotta read it well. Kiss when the sexual tension is high. If you can't pull it off, then at the end of the date go for the "i actually had a good time" and proceed to lean in. U gotta go for it tho bc if not she might not know that you have a penis Idk how solid your game is though
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:09 PM
-10

During intimate moment: "you have a nice neck" bite neck then say, "i hate you so much" pull her close and give her a hug It's like automatic me now
/r/seduction09/12/18 05:27 AM
1

Use your legs to walk and mouth to talk
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:07 PM
1

Kinda true unless you have golden game when you get old
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:34 PM
1

Where's the flirtation in your advice though? You can crack jokes with a girl all day but she still won't know you have a penis
/r/seduction07/12/18 08:13 PM
1

If that’s what you call a move then idk what moves are anymore. Ever heard of game? Game her when you see her
/r/seduction07/12/18 07:30 PM
-1

Probably follows those day game YouTube’s lol
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:51 PM
2

Dude game alone. I go out alone when my wingmen can’t go out I did well on tinder before I deleted it and redownloaded. I don’t rely on it because I fell in love with cold approach
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:48 PM
2

Not necessarily. I only ask for girls numbers if either they mention that they wanna see me again or a sets going well or they ask for mine
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:47 PM
1

Move away and start bar hopping. Don’t only rely on tinder lol
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:46 PM
1

Goddamn I’m sick and tired of seeing posts like this. I’m asian, I get Asians, whites, Hispanics, even blacks. WORK ON YOUR FUCKING GAME AND YOU’LL GET GOOD RESULTS
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:18 PM
7

I second this
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:14 PM
1

I’m Asian. I game every Friday and Saturday night. This isn’t true, I get all kinds of girls attracted to me and my game isn’t pickup-artist level yet. The only place where I struggle is in online dating Edit: hell, a lot of the white girls who get attracted to me are even taller than I am (I’m 5’10). It’s all about making tweaks to your game and improving. You have to stop thinking like a defeatist and actually realize that game is a skill
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:02 PM
1

Improv classes
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:17 AM
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At a night club I suggest taking a girl to the dance floor rather than meeting girls on the dance floor itself. If that doesn’t do it for you, then interrupt their dance sesh with a good confident open. If I couldn’t think of anything I have a go to push-pull that comments about their dance moves. I basically push-pull/neg until I get them to react. This topic is for another post tho
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:45 PM
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So true. If you want to test the waters and their big egos I suggest going for heavy negs
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:38 PM
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Then what are you bitching about? If your night club game sucks and you don’t want advice on it then don’t post about it
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:36 PM
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It’s the same thing. All you have to do is yell more so they can hear you.
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:55 PM
1

Lol I jerk off before I game because deep down I feel like it’ll make me last longer in bed
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:45 PM
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To add context, my previous comment was made in reply to you saying you were trying to be confident. Yes, confidence can be faked. The thing is it’ll become a reality for you once you reach true confidence
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:29 PM
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Bro this whole fucking post is the opposite of what confidence is. It literally exudes insecurity and is so blind
/r/seduction06/12/18 06:07 AM
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One huge fukin factor in game is the display of high value. You have to at least show that you have passions and aspirations. No one likes a loser who jerks off all day and smoke weed. My point with bashing on the bullshit advice others give is that barely displays value. What really displays value is the strength of your confident and witty frame. To add to that, when attraction is sparked, another display would be the ability to empathize and connect with the girl while keeping the conversatio…
/r/seduction06/12/18 06:05 AM
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Same. Only have 1 beer at the start of the night with the boys after a long week of work. I drink with a girl tho so that we can build a little of comfort and have the narrative of “we’re having drinks because we’re together”.
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:30 AM
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Dude watching movies at the theatre alone is the best. That’s one thing I prefer doing alone rather than with another person. But why movie for a date? She’s not you’re girlfriend. Holy fk why is this on the seduction sub
/r/seduction06/12/18 04:11 AM
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Dude all I could say is work on your game and see each small improvement as a milestone. And goddamn, I’m sure there are tons of hot broads in ASU.
/r/seduction06/12/18 12:37 AM
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What you do is you assume it’s true but take it as a shit test. I was with a girl who told me she had a boyfriend but still slept with me because apparently “he has no control over her life” and “he can’t make her decisions for her” Work on your game and girls won’t even tell you they have boyfriends. This dude is complaining because he hasn’t taken action and hasn’t refined the skill. Work on it and then start asking real questions that are relevant to this sub. So sick of seeing posts like “ca…
/r/seduction06/12/18 12:08 AM
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Okay, so what you really mean in terms of luck is you never even try, right? You know, the only guys who don’t get rejected are the guys who don’t approach
/r/seduction05/12/18 09:40 PM
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In terms of words, what I could say is use softeners. Like instead of saying, “you’re really fun” say “you’re actually kind of fun”. There are many ways of playing around with it but it really comes down to getting a deeper understanding of language itself. What you have to do is to show that you’re interested without giving too much power away. At the same time you have to figure out the blueprint of the girl you’re talking to and find the proper ratio of value and comfort that she requires for…
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:21 PM
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That’s how I used to think until I actually started gaming. It’ll work well if you already know how to pickup girls. In regards to working out: have you seen Todd V Dating’s channel? He’s not the best looking and not the most fit but he does have a brain and a decent brain I may add that is attuned to the dynamics of social interact which has assimilated through years and years of experience Don’t get me wrong, even a slightly above average physique may help accentuate your masculinity, but it’s…
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:38 PM
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FINALLY someone who fucking gets it. So many guys have this fixed mindset that they either have it or don’t. You go out and hit on chicks. Go out 2-3 times a fucking week in order to learn and reflect on your past interactions. I honestly think the hobby and career advice is bullshit because I do pickup with people who earn a shit ton of money and who have interesting hobbies and high levels of education but can’t pull a girl home. It helps, but it won’t get you to the finish line
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:21 PM
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Find out she’s single? What? Lol if she’s single then that’s a good sign and an easier route. I really think you’re sulking over the fact that you don’t have skill. It’s either that or you barely approach
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:20 PM
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Dude jerking off theoretically can be considered a sedative Edit: i don’t feel less confident, but sometimes I do knock right out
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:17 PM
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Yeah, gotta be careful to not be labeled as the creep who doesn’t know how to flirt. Also kind of important to play the buyer even though the girl’s fuckin hot. If she is hot, neg the shit out of her
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:00 AM
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Indicators of interest....
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:51 AM
3

I only approach at the gym if I receive IOI’s. Be careful and make sure your game is on point to avoid having a scathed reputation and being known as the weirdo who can’t converse properly
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:46 AM
1

Try going out every Thursday, Friday, and Saturday for more experience
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:27 PM
1

Lol don’t suggest drinking
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:05 PM
1

Weren’t you the one who asked first?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:53 PM
1

Lol she’s ur gf but never had sex
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:12 PM
1

Read the fucking sidebar
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:10 PM
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This is an r/askseddit question. Been seeing so many beginner questions on here when it says in “Community Info” that this sub is for intermediate/advanced posts Getting sick of it
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:03 PM
0

Stop being a vag, this is none of your business
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:58 PM
1

Why the need to break it off when you could have both?
/r/seduction04/12/18 02:55 PM
1

Weed is the most unproductive shit. Quit it and work on yourself
/r/seduction03/12/18 09:20 PM
1

Prolly more like 25
/r/seduction03/12/18 09:19 PM
0

Game is therapy. Learn game and don’t give up. I’ve been through hundreds of rejections and I know that it only made my game stronger
/r/seduction03/12/18 09:18 PM
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Do your best not to drink when you game. It’ll fuck up your mind and you won’t be able to analyze patterns after a few. I usually only grab one drink with the boys before we start hunting
/r/seduction03/12/18 09:12 PM
6

Tinder is considered online game. Online game is a branch of game. I consider game as a hobby, therefore, tinder can be considered a hobby
/r/seduction03/12/18 09:10 PM
1

I thought the whole point of seduction was having the girl chase you. Hmmm
/r/seduction03/12/18 04:54 PM
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Worst thing to do is hit on someone who’s on the clock. They’re paid to be nice to you and you have little time to display value especially if there’s another customer behind you ready to be served. I say don’t do it, there are many other girls out there
/r/seduction03/12/18 04:48 PM
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Learn how to make her chase you and fall in love. I was able to seduce a girl with her friend being the one who brought a car. When the friend wanted to leave I offered to take the girl home instead and the rest was history. Before we got out of the bar we were kind of making out. I said kind of because I would pull away from her and say something like “I don’t know about this, i feel so comfortable with you and I hate being so turned on right now” (there are many variations to this). The girl t…
/r/seduction03/12/18 06:54 AM
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I have 2 drinks max in a span of 5 hours if ever I decide to drink. Girls don’t give af. The only problem you’ll run into is if you buy the girl a drink. You can prolly order a redbull or a ginger ale. Maybe a coke Edit: remember to tip the bartender if all you’re getting is water. I asked for water about 5 times in a night and I started getting looks from the bartender lol
/r/seduction01/12/18 02:36 AM
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I ain’t clicking that virus infested cancerous link
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:27 PM
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I do it all the time, shows that I’m not needy. On the other hand, I do sometimes reply fast just because I feel like it or if she replies fast
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:24 PM
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RSD Tyler, is that you?
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:21 PM
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They fucking lead or walk at a faster pace as you because they don’t see the value in your character. You don’t call a girl out and scold her for walking ahead of you. You walk at her pace and maybe throw in something like “you walk really fast, it’s like you’re participating in a marathon. Unless all you’re doing is trying to burn more calories” I’d say confident girls will take this statement more positively than less confident ones. It’s all about calibration and understanding what type of gi…
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:20 PM
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Dude there’s no questions. What do you want us to tell you: that you should’ve fucked her? How to make a move? How to push-pull? She’s clearly into you (from what you say), but I really don’t know what value you expect us to contribute about this topic I believe scenarios about specific girls are for r/askseddit.
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:11 PM
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Agree with just walking around with the intention of approaching girls but I disagree with the random questions. My game has improved so much because of Todd V Dating. Before that, I used the Simple Pickup method by going 100% direct and telling a girl she’s cute. After the first 50 times, it’ll be second nature and you’ll be able to expand your skillset with new techniques. So yes, go up to any fucking girl - whether you’re attracted to her or not - and tell her she’s cute. I don’t recommend us…
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:05 PM
2

I love this post man, i can see the sarcasm flowing through my iphone’s screen
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:22 PM
1

Learn game
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:17 PM
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“I am completely satisfied with porn” translates to: “I can’t get girls and I settled for porn” Either that or you’re just raining on people’s parade. You have to understand that each person has different perceptions on what is morally justifiable. You won’t convince anyone until they experience it. We’re all out here to have fun and be smart about having fun. What’s the goal of this post?
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:15 PM
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People want what they can’t have. Women love the chase and a man who gets chased. That type of attribute in a man conveys that they may possibly have many romantic options. It’s like the skit in cartoons when a girl picks a flower’s petals and says “he loves me, he loves me not...” it’s the mystery that keeps them going
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:05 PM
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Remember, girls with value lose attraction the moment she knows she can have you 100%. Ask her out but make it seem like you don’t really need her in your life. Also, girls wave sex in front of your face to test if you can actually hold a frame that makes it seem like you get it all the time. Idk your whole situation but these are pretty basic. I say if you’re willing to lose her, be as direct as you can
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:54 PM
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Agree with this post. Could’ve been in more details with more advanced topics explained by Todd like leveling and all the bullcrap. Karisma King is good too, they’re both analytical but Todd has the experience and I think he’s smarter overall. They’re probably the only two I actually look to for content about seduction
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:48 PM
1

Dude this is an r/askseddit question. All of what you’re saying sounds so needy and it sounds like you don’t get pussy. Also, how do you know she’s dtf? Has she verbally said that she wants to fuck you? It’s good to assume that she likes you, but it’s bad to assume that you’re already at the finish line and you don’t need to put work in. Question: do you see her in person? If not, then chat her up a bit “hey, how are you?” If you get a response, then great. I would follow with “awesome. I’m gonn…
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:40 PM
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Question: What’s your level? (Ie. Beginner or intermediate) I haven’t taken a bootcamp but one of my wingmen - who has less skill than I - has. We’re both intermediate but on different levels He took Todd’s Immersion program and says that it helped him out a lot. I like it too because I get to hear [although secondhand] what Todd said through him. I do believe that dropping 2k on something sort of complex does not play out well for a beginner who still has approach anxiety and doesn’t know the f…
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:23 PM
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How is this even related to seduction in any way?
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:10 PM
1

Tell her to tell her roommates...if her roommates are loser chodes and they won’t give her some time as she should give them theirs then abort. Getting a hotel seems so try-hard
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:02 PM
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It seems like this is a question that should be posted on r/askseddit
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:08 PM
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Good luck, man! Progress might be slow at first but make sure you supplement theory with practice. Don’t give up
/r/seduction25/11/18 02:35 AM
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Idk your skill level but I suggest working on small parts of game every time you go out (ie. Push-pull, opening, storytelling, physical escalation, etc.) If you focus too much on game as a whole then it might be overwhelming. I feel like self-reflection and analysis is the most important thing for you to improve
/r/seduction25/11/18 12:42 AM
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I’ve been with a couple girls who say that they’re seeing someone with an undertone of exclusivity for them to follow with “i have my own life anyway” or something with that structure. It’s something they or their friends use when they definitely don’t like you.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:29 PM
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https://youtu.be/t8Q9rg8HjDE
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:22 PM
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Yeah, i have it. Worth the price but usually for entertainment purposes. They ask so many questions, never disqualify, never build a solid narrative. Todd V Dating is key to game
/r/seduction23/11/18 04:38 AM
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Being absolute direct is PURELY for beginners. It gets them used to showing intent and relieves them of approach anxiety
/r/seduction23/11/18 04:16 AM
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Todd V Dating and RSDTyler have the best videos for me. Todd is to technique; Tyler is to Inner Game(mindset) I wouldn’t refer anyone else
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:22 AM
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Disagree with this, simple pickup runs direct game. Theoretically, girls usually go for guys who are on or above their level and direct game brings your intentions from the start of the conversation which gives you little to no time to display value.
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:21 AM
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Tell her “i don’t think I would like to get along with a girl like you” instant value added on your side
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:18 AM
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To me it sounds try-hard. The thing about pulling is that it has to seem like “it just happened” and it isn’t planned. The only time that it would probably be acceptable is if she feels like she came up with the idea. Your roommates aren’t cool? Lol
/r/seduction23/11/18 01:52 AM
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Don’t kiss her right away. You have to make her want to kiss you. My fave move (when sexual tension is high): lean in for the kiss and pull away With this move it’s either you shake your head which screams “not today” or you pull away like you’re having second thoughts Also, meet at a place where it’s accessible for both of you to move to either your or her place afterwards. This means that both of you shouldn’t be bringing a car to the same location. 1 car is palpable, but 2, hell no Tell her t…
/r/seduction23/11/18 12:08 AM
2

This is hilarious
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:54 PM
1

I think something like this is acceptable in terms of value
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:54 PM
2

If you have decent game, she won’t even tell you she has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:53 PM
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Sounds like a platonic conversation to me
/r/seduction22/11/18 08:46 PM
1

Ever heard of game?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:22 AM
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Disagree with this. I say flirt whenever you get the chance especially if you’re good at it
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:50 PM
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Indirect. Most direct game is for newbies who have to get used to showing intent. Indirect game shapes and trains you to be more subtle with your flirtation. Think of a sample with 3 categories of girls: ones who’ll automatically like you, ones who won’t, the one ones who might - yes, no, maybe, respectively. Direct game caters to the sample of the ones who’ll automatically like you and doesn’t give you a chance to display high value because you’ve already given too much power away on the open. …
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:40 PM
1

Lol this guy trollin
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:33 AM
5

Actually pulled HB8.5 and HB7 on Friday and Saturday, respectively. Chill out bro, have a cigarette
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:51 AM
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Funny thing is I don’t drink when I go out. Your view is so skewed. There is no right or wrong here, sir. There only is perspective. A person’s perspective on reality is what he wants to hear which is a false presumption that blinds the majority from the truth and makes them rigid towards the acceptance of new beliefs. To add to that, I barely drink when I go out because I love playing the game even more than I love sex. It’s an art and science at the same time and helps me understand people - n…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:44 AM
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True. OP has no game and this post in it’s entirety is of a provider male’s perspective
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:32 AM
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This happens to betas. The fact that this guy is asking this type of question on r/seduction already says a lot.
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:38 PM
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Ever tried approaching people in the gym or going out at night alone? I’ve done both and have met/hit on some pretty decent people. Cold approach has played a huge role in my self development and ability to interact and calibrate to different types of people
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:49 PM
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You’re roommates are shit. Confront them about it and make sure it doesn’t happen again. Him representing “a large group of people” is the common form of a white knight. It doesn’t matter what he tells you, it’s the fucking beta action he portrayed then. Know this: the girl could’ve walked out of the room if she didn’t want it. She could’ve fucking left the party then and there or called someone from the room by yelling or some shit, but no, she stayed inside with YOU. As for the other roommate,…
/r/seduction17/11/18 05:18 PM
1

The Art of Seduction
/r/askTRP17/11/18 03:15 AM
1

Just wear sun glasses and a hat every time you go out and you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:16 PM
1

Don’t forget that he needs to own a car that costs at least $80k
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:13 PM
1

It isa numbers game but the numbers may greatly decrease as the overall quality of each interaction you have increases.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:10 PM
1

I love the dominance frame but if “you’re not a force to be reckoned with” that means the girl doesn’t want to deal with you based on the calculations she extrapolated from your dominant frame. I think you mean “you’re a force to be reckoned with” lol
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:08 PM
8

Work and play don’t mix well together
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:20 PM
2

A lot of girls online and in real life reject you because they know they can already have you
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:13 PM
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Idk how you start your convos but I already have them qualifying themselves after the first message. Practice push-pull: “you’re kinda cute but it doesn’t automacially make you a good cook. I wouldn’t want to spend my money on ingredients that don’t guarantee satisfaction” There’s a sexual undertone in it but it also sounds like you’re expecting an outcome (which is bad and which you could modify yourself). That’s what I could give you off the bat while I’m having my cigarette during my break at…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:06 PM
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Showing that you’d actually want her over. A ton of other guys have done it and now you have as well. This only works if you’re in the top percentile of guys who get laid because of looks
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:59 PM
1

What’s the podcast called? I’m also interested to see if either you or they have any vids on Youtube.
/r/seduction14/11/18 05:12 PM
1

You sound like an advanced dude, what immersion program are you talking about here?
/r/seduction14/11/18 04:13 PM
1

What are the results after all these approaches? When it comes to improvement through failure, what coaches do well that most people don’t is they are able to analyze and point out what you did wrong. I do recommend stepping up your analysis towards sets by writing field reports (even if it’s mainly for personal use). Remember, you’ll never get better if you don’t find out what you’re doing wrong. I believe the best way to find out the “flaws” of yours is by reading and watching a lot about theo…
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:19 PM
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Doesn’t sound like you took any risk to flirt at all. In her mind she’s thinking “oh he probably doesn’t like me. This is only a platonic stranger to stranger conversation that will lead to me eating an entire gallon of my favorite double dutch ice cream while chugging on a bottle of 25yr old whiskey aged in the barrels of Scotland”
/r/seduction12/11/18 04:21 PM
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If you’re game’s really good, a lot of girls who have boyfriends wouldn’t tell you they have boyfriends. A girl i met at a bar who was attracted to me told me she had a boyfriend but he doesn’t have control over her life and she makes her own decisions blah blah I suggest working on openers where you don’t give too much power away. Saying “hey you’re cute” only works for girls who would already find you attractive. If they know they can have you then what’s the point in putting in effort to impr…
/r/seduction12/11/18 04:14 PM
3

Need more context but this looks more like it belongs in “r/askseddit”
/r/seduction12/11/18 03:41 PM
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I say introduce yourself to the girl first then slowly try to win the friends over by communicating with them as well. Once it seems like you’ve won them over then it’ll be easier to isolate. It’s not easy, trust me. Also, make sure you ignore all negative reactions from any guy who’s being douchey. This will make it seem like you are of higher value because of your non-reactiveness
/r/seduction12/11/18 03:39 PM
1

For me, canned lines give a structure on what you should base the technicalities off of (ie. Push-pulls and negs). The more you use them, the more your brain will be trained to think in that specific pattern. I personally used canned lines when I started off and slowly developed an uncanny skill to neg the shit out of anything. Flopping in closing is definitely an issue with your progress in the field. It’s something you’re going to have to reflect on moments after flopping or while writing your…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:45 PM
1

Have you established the premise? Like have you ever shown her in person that this is man to woman relationship and not just a friends thing? If not, then you’re in the friendzone buddy
/r/seduction10/11/18 05:04 PM
2

I just went out to game (on a Thursday night lol) It was so dead so I ended up drinking a scotch and going home. I prefer not drinking when I game tho. When I’m in “game” mode, I just ask the bartender for water and sip on the water while looking for sets to open
/r/seduction09/11/18 06:25 AM
2

Dont drink a lot Talk to everyone (even guys) Embrace that being alone will help you grow faster than the people who can’t go out alone
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:17 AM
1

Thanks for the reply. It’s a Thursday night I’m going out my guy. Wish me luck
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:10 AM
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if you hate everyone you meet then you should stay home and play single player video games
/r/seduction08/11/18 05:21 PM
1

The Definitive Book of Body Language
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:34 PM
1

She won’t tell you she has a boyfriend if your game is really good Edit: well this happens for some girls but not all
/r/seduction05/11/18 03:36 PM
2

I always refrain from hitting on girls at work because they’re paid to be nice to you and they have no way to get away from you
/r/seduction05/11/18 03:35 PM
1

Can’t help him. He has to move on and stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:36 AM
2

I stand by an indirect threat which is somewhat related to this For example: “stop mocking me if you wanna keep all your teeth” whilst giving him a pat on the cheek
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:33 AM
4

Security guards of a gated community caught me fucking in a car. Don’t fucking do it lol
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:22 AM
1

To me it’s a shit test. It’s either agree and amplify or ignore
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:36 AM
1

Haven’t heard of illacertus. Charisma on Command is more mainstream. He hits a good portion of psychology but doesn’t teach you how to take a girl home. Just check Todd out and watch how he makes girls fall in love with him, it’s amazing. I used to open directly like what most mainstream PUAs teach now but after watching Todd’s videos, i can say his game has changed my game.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:19 AM
2

Watch youtube videos. You’re young and if you start now you’ll be 10years ahead of most. Now don’t give up easily. Watch Todd Valentine’s videos on youtube: Todd V Dating
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:59 AM
1

Research on some theory first
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:57 AM
3

Tough. I feel like a big part of status in high school has something to do with your grade. I’m assuming it’s because of the level of maturity people associate with age. I say game people your age for this type of scenario. Also, if I were you, I would do my best to keep a steady reputation in any niche you’re in. You have to be careful with how you flirt especially if you’re a beginner. The more you advance, the more you’ll be able to flirt profusely while maintaining a good reputation. I sugge…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:56 PM
1

The first step into improving is to know what you’re doing wrong. If you don’t know what you’re doing wrong, then you’re setting yourself up for failure
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:01 PM
1

It looks like you reached the “point of no return”. This varies from girl-to-girl but the concept is that there is a point where you go far enough that you HAVE to have sex with her. The point can be: fingering, taking clothes off, groping, or whatever it may be in the moment. I’m assuming she was disappointed that you were too drunk. Maybe you couldn’t get it up? Idk. You can try to text her but I wouldn’t expect a reply. It’s like going to a massage parlor for a happy ending but when the lady …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:53 PM
2

Yup, Todd’s the best one out there!
/r/seduction30/10/18 05:43 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate the comment. She started investing at the beginning by asking me random questions when I wouldn’t mind her and the qualification was ingrained in the push-pull. I believe I forgot to mention that the biggest problem I had was disqualifying the idea of us being in any type of relationship (bf/gf, sex, or just being together in general). That’s where I could’ve made her work more. You’re right, i put in a little bit of effort in the open, sat back at the times when I had s…
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:11 PM
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I think that you should calibrate your personality and “style” based on the individual’s personality not age
/r/seduction27/10/18 04:29 PM
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Would you happen to refer me some content? I’d love it if you can explain it too, any additional knowledge will be highly appreciated
/r/seduction27/10/18 04:06 PM
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Question: wouldn’t that ruin the comfort stage? I understand what you mean, but I always thought that comfort works in coherence with time; more time spent = more comfort. Also, the bar was pretty small so I would’ve ended up somewhere else. The reason why I wanted to spend more time was because she gave me her number earlier and I didn’t wanna have another flaky number. Please let me know your thoughts on this This is new to me because this is the first time I’ve made out with someone with a lo…
/r/seduction27/10/18 03:35 PM
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You make your own decisions. You don’t pussy out when someone wants you to do something. Your whole reasoning is that she wanted you to ask her. You barely knew this girl and now you’re being a little beta bitch about it
/r/seduction25/10/18 08:57 PM
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So if she wanted you to slit your moms throat would you do it?
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:47 PM
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Goddamn, bro you’ve only known her for two weeks and you asked her to be your girlfriend? This is some AFC bullshit. I’m not gonna try to “comfort” you because that’s so fucked up. The only remedy is seeing more girls. Honestly ruined my high from reading most of that
/r/seduction25/10/18 07:17 AM
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Just re-read and it looks like you ask too many questions
/r/seduction25/10/18 02:02 AM
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You have to start making your jokes about her hitting on you to gauge interest
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:01 PM
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When you go direct, you weed out all the girls who can be “maybe” girls because you increase their perceived value while decreasing yours(you lose power). Direct is usually for the girls who find you attractive. There are compliments that undermine your praise. For example: you’re looking a little good today, but don’t let that get into your head. It’s kind of a push-pull. I usually say something like “you and I aren’t gonna get along” because it sets the man-woman premise while disqualifying yo…
/r/seduction24/10/18 05:28 AM
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Be more subtle. You’re giving them too much power by telling them they’re good looking.
/r/seduction23/10/18 08:56 PM
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Seems like a weak opener
/r/seduction21/10/18 01:00 AM
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Dont do it
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:15 AM
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50% of AFC’s in here
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:14 PM
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My text game isn’t as strong as I only use it to set up dates and scan logistics. If you have her snapchat I suggest sending a couple snaps throughout the week of things that are genuinely interesting. It’s just to keep her at least a bit invested in your relationship
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:13 PM
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Holy fuck, I couldn’t get past the first sentence. The only time the super direct “cute as fuck” approach works is if you’re Zac Efron’s twin brother or Zac Efron himself. You give so much power away by doing that and he girl will start seeing you as a lower valued person than she is. Try saying “you’re looking a little cute, i’m not sure if you’re interesting though”
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:11 PM
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I think you’re just insecure. You keep talking down on yourself. Also, why the fuck are you just sitting there getting high? Attractiveness shines through a person who has a lot going for him, not a person who sits around and does nothing
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:04 PM
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Looks only get you an additional minute of attention. It’s all about your game
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:36 PM
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Only two ONS’s from cold approach. I mean, I’ve met people in from different friend groups because I’ve found them cute but it took a little bit of time of getting to know them and spending time with them until I’ve fucked them.
/r/seduction20/10/18 04:13 PM
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Did you literally just go up to her and ask for her number/ig? What relationship did you establish? If it’s a man to woman relationship then you should message her unless you see her a lot on campus then you should approach in person. How do you think she sees you?
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:29 PM
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U gotta build a connection with her and make her “feel” like sex isn’t the only thing you’re looking for. If it seems like all u wanna do is makeout with her, then you’ll be branded like every other hawk looking for prey.
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:50 PM
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Bro how was she acting after she avoided? Did she walk away or shove you? Happens to me sometimes but they still dance with me. What you have to learn is learn how to make them chase you. Also, if she still has a positive vibe with you then try again and again until she gives in. You prolly needed to push her away a bit to make her unsure if she has you. But the moral of the story here is PERSISTENCE
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:48 PM
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Craigslist
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:38 PM
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I suggest being direct AT FIRST to get used to setting the premise of the man to woman relationship. Now, reputation is highly important and this dude is right. The only time you should go direct is if you drive a few minutes away from the area you frequent in and do pickup over there in like a mall or something. The thing is that yes, reputation does matter and when your game isn’t that good yet, you don’t want to be known as the awkward guy who doesn’t know how to talk to girls. You want to be…
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:28 PM
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How can everything you read here not apply to you? You’re posting here, aren’t you? Your mindset sounds so fixed and that you have no space for improvement. You sounds like you’re at the “beginner” level and are currently an AFC. It’s PUA lingo. Anyway, I suggest doing day game cold approach with direct game to get rid of the fear of showing intent in a girl. Remember, most direct game is pretty fucking basic and shouldn’t be used on most girls (especially the hot ones unless you look like Adoni…
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:23 PM
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A lot of them say that when you barely can spit game
/r/seduction20/10/18 02:17 PM
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Bro you can do it! Honestly the only way to get past all the shit tests is to stand what you believe for. Alays make it SEEM like you’re 100% sure of yourself even though u aren’t. How old are you? No, I actually don’t get a lot of shit. Prolly the best looking asian you’ll ever see (just accept it). The quality of girls I get on Tinder are lower than the ones I get irl tho. Being clean cut and hitting the gym HELPS, but it’s more of the quality of the interactions. If you keep going for girls w…
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:47 PM
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U have to learn how to use quotation marks
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:46 AM
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This is hilarious
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:40 AM
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Just. Fucking. Do. It. You’ll feel so good I promise
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:37 AM
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I didn’t get past the first question which is already a mistake of qualifying yourself to us
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:35 AM
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Not from there but I’m sure they get hit on a lot too. Hope your night game is on point
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:35 AM
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What are these methods of yours? Edit: it’s not about getting numbers and snapchats. It’s about building a connection with a girl so that you can smash/date/marry/buttfuck
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:33 AM
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Your first mistake is getting drunk. I used to do that until I realized game is actually a skill that takes practice and refinement. If you’ve been going out consistently for year and you have no results then you have to find the holes in your armor that are shackling you down to the human sized dartboard that is centered on your blue-balled penis. Bro, they say you look 19 because you can’t show that you have hair on your balls. It’s not the way you look, trust me (I’m 22 and asian and I look l…
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:30 AM
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In Todd we trust
/r/seduction20/10/18 06:22 AM
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You wanna know why they think you’re an asshole? It’s because you didn’t have the time of day to win them over. I’ve gotten past the stages of opening and premise and winning friends over but still have problems with the evaluation and narrative stages especially closing. Push pull in life in general is great. I suggest work on winning them over and being friendly especially if you have to AMOG a group with guys
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:17 PM
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Great, he fucking deleted it while I was reading
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:00 PM
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You have to put in most of the effort in the first couple minutes and show that you’re of high value. I would say say doing a little bit of push pull to show the man to woman relationship/premise. They usually turn cold when the narrative is “i met a stranger and we exchanged a couple sentences like any other stranger I meet”. Once the premise is established WELL ENOUGH; One push-pull won’t be enough. You will have to fucking neg the shit out of her depending on the disparity in value (assuming …
/r/seduction19/10/18 08:59 PM
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I’ll definitely check those guys out! RDJ’s aloofness is at a level that is incomprehensible to a human’s cognitive abilities
/r/seduction19/10/18 08:11 PM
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Progressive desensitization is a thing. Yes. U have to keep it fun with the shit tests and the flirting though
/r/seduction19/10/18 01:59 PM
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I mean, you asked a pretty intelligent question but I was hoping you were already past this level
/r/seduction18/10/18 08:18 PM
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Based on what I’ve learned from Todd V is that a display of high status by putting 90% in the conversation is by telling stories and push-pulling in the first couple minutes to get her hooked. Where do you get most of your pua resources? Love the Iron Man reference: I know all Iron Man movies like the back of my hand. Looking forward to your answers in the future
/r/seduction18/10/18 08:16 PM
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Have you ever done pickup before? People go to clubs like you go to salsa clubs: to either meet other people or get fucked up and let loose or both
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:52 PM
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You put 90% of the effort until she starts emotionally investing because she realized that you’re of high status and then that’s when the tables turn. Basically, that’s when you start getting chased
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:20 PM
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Don’t call me black or white when I’m asian, how dare you! Bro it really sounds like your options are diminutive or are of low quality. It also sounds like you’re playing yourself. There are a shit ton of girls out there yet you decide to go crazy about one rather than basking in the abundance of many. Remember, there will always be someone who’s better. The only time that you stop thinking about your options is when you’re ready to settle
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:19 PM
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Try a little of Active Disinterest but don’t overdo it. I’d also suggest talking about sex with her. If she starts talking about it back, then you know the idea’s in her head
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:14 PM
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Dude just read their body language. If you look like you’re having fun, a woman is bound to start feeding off of your vibe and start dancing with you. The only instance when you initiate a dance is if you already approached her and take her to the dance floor. Dance however the hell you like man
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:10 PM
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Law of abundance
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:36 AM
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I go to raves and I can shuffle. I barely shuffle in clubs but the footwork helps.
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:34 AM
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Neg the fuck out of her to make you want her more then she’ll invite herself over
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:32 AM
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Go forth and figure your shit out. We’ll be here when you get back
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:30 AM
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No chance with the girl if she doesn’t wanna go out with you. Move on and date more girls
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:26 AM
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It sounds like a platonic conversation to me
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:50 PM
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I read the comment. Wouldn’t you apply the 90:10 rule when it comes to the early stages of the conversation even though she replies like a bland cigarette?
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:22 PM
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Got the same problem. You need to spend more time with her, get to know her (comfort), and take more risks with your push-pull by making them more and more sexual but at the same time denying the sex. Been learning a shit ton of theory this past week by watching videos and reading on the concepts for hours but will have to try some of them out this weekend.
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:35 PM
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The real way to game is to make it seem like you aren’t trying
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:26 PM
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Add a push after the compliment. To add: “...but I’m not quite sure if you’re actually interesting” It takes some time to incorporate different variations of pushing but with time and practice you’ll be able to improvise well. Make sure you have some canned openers if you can’t think of anything you notice
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:08 PM
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Don’t do it while you’re working unless the girl is seriously giving you IOIs. I suggest keeping it professional because there are many places outside of work where you can get girls
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:01 PM
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Don’t fucking add her on social media unless she offers
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:59 PM
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...Unless you’re good at being political
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:55 PM
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More like conducting to an out-of-tune choir
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:57 PM
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Bro you don’t try to prove your value to a woman. You make her prove her value to you. Edit: well, you do for the first two minutes or so and then the tables usually turn when she’s “invested” in the fact that you are of high value compared to the other plebeians in the club
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:51 PM
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“Oh boy, you really know how to get me excited. That’s pretty hot but I don’t think I’m ready for that type of commitment yet”
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:54 PM
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Take all the antidepressants and you should be fine
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:02 AM
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Right, pickup is a skill that needs research and application just like any other
/r/seduction13/10/18 12:30 AM
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Have you had good conversations with her or flat out asked her for her number without any substance that would add to the rapport of the relationship? If not, then she probably just gave you her number because you’re in the same class and will say that she’s busy or wouldn’t reply
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:39 PM
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