First off, I’m generalizing, I know all females don’t think like this, but most of my attempts of trying to get a date has failed (I’m only 18 so all hope isn’t lost but I’ve never had a date), but It’s not because I’m ugly or anything. I really want to know what the appropriate level of trying should be. Females tell me they want a guy to try as hard as possible but I notice that the girls I don’t like and pay the least attention to try to get with me the most.