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AnonBro34333/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:37 PM
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Those 2 don’t go hand in hand. No I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:27 PM
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Not true. Generally less attractive girls make better long term partners. When it comes to LTRs, women date up and men date down. In my experience, It’s hard to find a girl that’s 8/10+ that doesn’t have a body count of more than 15-20. More attractive = more options = more chads pumping and dumping = less ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:20 PM
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Genetics 100% matter for men. As a woman - literally just don’t be overweight and you have unlimited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:01 PM
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They probably began dating at a similar smv and her smv increased while his stayed the same. Hypergamy will inevitably kick in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:57 PM
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Low N count is subjective. I don’t expect a woman to be a virgin - however, I’d like a woman that Im committed to have ideally less than 5 partners but no more than 10. That’s a good indicator that she’s mainly slept with guys she was in a relationship with. If a girl doesn’t value herself or see sex as intimate I.e. goes to the club and hooks up with a new guy every week - it has been shown in studies that they lose their ability to pair bond. Girls with lower n count invest more into a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:14 PM
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Not what I’m saying. It’s EASIER the better you look - for what you lack in looks you have to make up for in personality. 99.99% of these incels will have no social skills with women. Game is what wins women over but if you look good you can have less game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:15 AM
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Unless you have a facial deformity/5 foot tall - there is a lot you can do to attract women. Or at least look good enough that your looks won’t hinder you. Go to the gym, get a tan (if applicable), whiten your teeth, learn game, good facial hair, hairstyle, clothes etc. You can either complain about the dating market with women (which will change nothing) or accept it and use it to your advantage. A 5/10 woman has the same amount of options as a 8/10 guy. That’s the sad reality. Women don’t appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:51 PM
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I started to text and say stuff along the lines of “Busy day at work? How was your night?” Or send them a funny video etc. But before I’d just hit them up strictly for logistics
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:22 AM
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I feel your pain bro. I’m 23. I enjoy sleeping with girls - believe me. However, the comfort of being in an LTR is a good feeling. Good women to date are out there - marrying, that’s too risky to do. Don’t meet chicks at bars or on tinder and you have a good chance of finding a chick that’s worth getting into a relationship with imo
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:23 PM
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I looked for your post but it says it was deleted
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:22 PM
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Thanks for the response. I completely agree with this
/r/askTRP17/06/21 04:01 AM
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Lol. 5 years “clueless” about women then suddenly you have a new chick everyday? Cmon bro
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:20 PM
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Make it seem like you aren’t approaching, if she’s interested you will know. I can give an example. Today I was at target buying a bathing suit. I saw a hot chick and said “What do you think of this bathing suit?” She said “I like that a lot actually.” Then I said “If you saw me at the pool would you say “Damn that dudes got a nice bathing suit?”. Made her laugh - she asked me “You must be going to a party.” I said “No, going to a local waterpark. What’s your number and I’ll send a picture of me…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:40 PM
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I never eat chicks out. But I always expect to get my d sucked. Double standard I guess..
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:14 PM
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Apparently not enough
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:16 PM
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If you’re gonna cheat then don’t be in an LTR. There is literally no purpose. If I get in an LTR I’m basically saying “this chick has so many green flags and is so attractive that I’m willing to drop all other option that I have.” Which I would not do, anyways. End it with your LTR and get some plates.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:49 PM
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You’ve become too invested. It probably was a shit test of some sort because it takes effort to text the wrong person. I would get other girls in rotation, obviously. If you’re spinning plates then you shouldn’t expect her to not sleep with other guys - unless that is a boundary you have set. Not that it would make sense.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:46 PM
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No fap is so dumb in my opinion. The only guys doing no fap are the guys that can’t consistently get laid. Approach chicks. Don’t wait for friends and family to hook you up - if you see a hot girl then approach her
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:44 PM
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Approach them. I think people feel that when they hit a certain bodyfat, certain income, certain social status, etc that pulling chicks will be a breeze. Don’t get me wrong - obviously the higher the SMV you have the easier it’ll be to attract women. Looks are just getting your foot in the door. 75% of pulling chicks is game/confidence/charisma. Approach the girls to get the reps, if they reject you then it’s not like you lost something you had and it’ll only help you get experience with approac…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:41 PM
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Some people on this sub take things too far lol. Doesn’t mean she is going to cheat. Could be a test to see if you care. May not be a shit test, just a comfort test. My response would be “If you’d be okay with me hanging out with a female friend one on one, sure.” If she wants to hang with the guy then let her. You can’t prevent her from cheating if she’s going to. If she’s wanting to cheat now then that temptation isn’t gonna go away and it’ll just save you some time.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:38 PM
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I can pick up chicks 95% of the time when I go out to clubs. Contrary to what others say you should do, I do go out to clubs strictly to pick up chicks. If I wanna hang with my boys then we can go do something other than the club. Play to your strengths, though. I hate dancing. (unless a lot of alcohol is involved) I go to “taverns”. Where they have live bands but there are areas where we can talk and hear each other. If I catch a girl glancing at me a couple different times and she’s attractive…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:31 PM
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Yes indeed. Her dad was out of the picture almost all of her childhood, mother was bat shit crazy and I think that it stemmed from that.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:54 AM
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I agree. But don’t you think if they dated an alpha that never validated them or gave them the emotional rollercoaster that the beta never does, that she will be alpha widowed?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:12 AM
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So with women going to the beta providers after they leave an insecure relationship with an alpha, do you think they will every truly be happy with the beta or they’ll always compare to the alpha?
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:27 PM
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Same here. Truthfully I have never seen any of my exs upgrade. And that’s not being biased towards myself - anyone with eyes/logic would agree.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:21 PM
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I figure the security thing is one of the main culprits.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:55 PM
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I was recently diagnosed with NPD. Women get their validation from external factors. As a man, I feel like I’m the shit regardless of any external validation. Being an asshole with outcome independence tends to share many traits of a narcissist. Women love narcissist - sadly everything you said applies to me. My long term relationships have always struggled because I lose interest every single time. By the way, female nature will only apply if she doesn’t view you as a higher SMV than her. As a …
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:37 AM
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Agreed. Won’t be reaching out. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:03 PM
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That’s part of the guilt, too. She told me she no longer believes in “soul mates” since we broke up. She thinks she’ll just find someone she gets along with. I do think I damaged her, hopefully not permanently
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:58 PM
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I completely agree with this. Soon after the break up she was discussing getting back together in the future. The small level of interest that showed caused me to lose interest. I think that’s due to the NPD as well.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:56 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:55 PM
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I agree with that. It might come off as beta but if I can accept it’s over and rid myself of a guilty conscious, I see no down side to apologizing.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:11 AM
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I completely agree. I guess a big part of me clings on to the hope that she gives me another chance. Could never see myself saying that until now but sadly it’s the truth.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:40 AM
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I do believe everything happens for a reason. This did spark me looking into NPD which turned out to be the case.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:26 AM
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Are you delusional? Lol. No chick is gonna just show up at your house without making sure you’re not a creep/rapist in a public setting first. Unless you’re Chris Hemsworth. Which I assume you are not.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:57 PM
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Solid advice. Going through a rough break up myself. Best thing you can do is remove anything that reminds you of them and cease all contact - no matter what
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:13 AM
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Did yourself a favor. Keep it ended and move on. Too many women out there to waste time on a woman that doesn’t share your values.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:22 AM
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That’s fair but quality of photo can effect the perceived attractiveness 2-3 points. Think of MySpace angles
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:28 AM
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I disagree to an extent. I only slept with 3-4 women on tinder ever and they were like 6-7/10 at best. I’m very unphotogenic though. I look like a creep in photos cause I don’t smile but I consistently spin 4-5 plates at any given time.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:54 PM
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Sounds to me like you are doing everything you can. Life is unfair and people don’t have the same starting point, unfortunately. If I was you, I’d develop the mindset of not giving a fuck. Having a social circle makes getting plates a breeze.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:51 PM
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I searched the side bar for it and didn’t find anything. If you can link me to the page please do
/r/askTRP21/05/21 02:07 AM
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I do. But that also runs the risk of being emotionally invested again which is inevitable
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:50 PM
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The sex is great but even with abundance I find myself catching feels again. It’s unfortunate.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:49 PM
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That makes total sense. So don’t respond from now on?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:40 PM
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Sex is good. She told me she does miss the sex
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:39 PM
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50~ age 23. I couldn’t fathom paying a woman for sex lol so cringe
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:17 AM
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They filed for divorce but still in process. She is 27
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:33 PM
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If a chick loses her virginity at 17 and is 27 - 2 dudes a year would already put her at a 20 N count
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:33 PM
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Do women without a single red flag truly exist? 🤔
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:41 PM
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Think logically though. You have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding one girl in the entire world better than every other girl. Don’t pick up chicks from the bar or tinder and expect them to be able to fill the shoes of ur ex though
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:52 PM
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I never use condoms. Unfortunately. I have >50 N count at age 23. I’ve had chlamydia twice. Thank god that is all. I’ve also came inside chicks... it’s not worth the anxiety and it’s very foolish. You’re taking a gamble everytime you bang a chick without a condom. God knows how many nasty ass dudes have run through these chicks
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:07 AM
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It definitely increases confidence which has a direct impact on your game. Ive been able to pull equal amount of chix at 14% bf and 10% but at 10% of course I got more compliments. Few people hit legit <10%, though.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:05 AM
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Believe me, it sucks. I can assure you I am going through everything you are no matter how depressed you are feeling. I’m not ashamed to admit this breakup made me the most depressed I’ve ever been, no question. Regardless if you an abundance you will feel that you can’t replace your ex. You can and will. Take this time to better yourself. Your life is only as good as you decide to make it. Stay in the gym and diet. Look up “75 hard challenge” I recommend trying that out. Hang in there bro, give…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:57 AM
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Swallowing the red pill doesn’t make you feel less emotion towards a quality girl you planned your future with. I’ve been red pill for 6-7 years. I was in a 2 year LTR and we’ve been broken up going on 2 months. Doesn’t matter what forums I read, videos I watch, or the negative thoughts I make myself think of my ex. It’s been very tough for me to fully move on. I’ve gone through 5 plates in the past month and temporarily it makes you feel better but subconsciously I realize they couldn’t fill th…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:43 AM
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I think this is the most accurate. She just texted me and said *“Just like your dominant personality came out like a lot and it made me uncomfortable”*
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:40 AM
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*Update:* *She texted me this morning saying this:* Imma be honest like I don't want to not talk to you I know that's so confusing but like i enjoy being around you Trying to pull me into orbiter status??
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:34 PM
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Neither of us are big weed smokers. We smoked one other time together and she was totally fine. She went psycho mode this time though
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:38 PM
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Yes but this was prior to us hanging out twice
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:23 AM
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I think that played a major role in it.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:19 AM
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I didn’t detect any comfort tests. But either way - I don’t see what test would’ve made her go nuclear?
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:57 AM
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Exactly. I don’t always want better- just something different
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:10 PM
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That is spot on.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:17 PM
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This is a good analogy lol. When I scout other women, I don’t necessarily want better just something different.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:08 PM
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I’ve never been a person that can be happy in the moment. I’m not depressed - I just picture my life and where I want to be and anything that I feel isn’t on track to get me there I just lose desire in entirely. I’ve struggled to keep jobs and relationships because this.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:27 PM
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I used to have this mentality but I’m 23 and just hit a 40 N count. I’ve experienced everything I’ve wanted. Before, I’d get an ego bump from pulling a ONS but after the temporary satisfaction - it makes me realize how pointless it is to spend so much time chasing women on weekends. I’d like to have a high quality LTR that I can actually treat the right way.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:25 PM
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I’ve cheated. Several times. Always makes me feel like shit and makes me temporarily way more affectionate
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:21 PM
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I have always believed this. But my last LTR was extremely high value by anyone’s standards and I still lost interest over time
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:20 PM
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I don’t meditate. I’m not a spiritual person at all. I have very little enthusiasm towards anything these days. I always feel like I can do better with everything from women, jobs, physique, etc.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:19 PM
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Actually - yes.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:12 PM
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What makes you say that specifically?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:39 PM
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There was never a direct answer on my other one. Some things have changed since that post was made. They basically just said “don’t treat a girl with too much dread”
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:12 PM
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This is spot on to my relationship. Her friends constantly bashed me and encouraged her to break up with me. She said multiple times “I wish you treated me like you did in the beginning”. The reason it’s tough for me is that she had good looks, personality and wasn’t a sloot prior to us dating. And treated me very well. I don’t believe I have oneitis as I do have abundance but I also acknowledge when I have something good it might not be bad to try and work it out instead of searching for a repl…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:11 AM
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I agree. It wasn’t ended from a lack of interest though. One might say being “too alpha”. Maybe if I was too beta it’d be different but who knows for sure. She still talks to my parents daily which is odd - told my parents not to entertain it but they do. But I agree with you. Probably best just to move on from it.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:04 PM
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Unfortunately I think that could be the reality. I know how it goes. Best “hope” is to go my own way and if she reaches out I can decide if it’s worth pursuing but should fully assume she’s gonna ride the CC
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:54 PM
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Tinder isn’t great in my experience. I’ve gotten laid on it a couple times but not by super hot chicks. I’d rate myself a 7.5/10 in real life and can consistently pull on weekends in person. I hardly get matches tbh, but then again I don’t pay for tinder. I think the main issue is that I don’t take photos of myself or smile in photos which gives me a creep vibe probably lol
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:22 AM
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21M N count almost 40
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:43 AM
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Squats of course but to target the glutes more I recommend lunges.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:18 PM
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This may be the worst question I’ve ever read
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:28 AM
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This
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:14 AM
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All women like looks, money, and social status. If you have a strong amount of atleast 2, you will have no problem getting chicks. Money more so the older you get... but in college social status and looks matter most.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:58 AM
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You sound like such a pussy dude. Quit bitching about life. You could sit around and do nothing & you are guaranteed to make it no where in life... or you could put in the effort and be something. Success isn’t luck.. that’s such a losers mentality
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:20 AM
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So pathetic man.... being rich/successful is accomplished by 1% for a reason. You gotta go out of your comfort zone to have success. Too many people prefer comfort over suffering for a little while to reap the benefits later in life. I’m 21 years old and I’ve maxed a ROTH IRA for the past 3 years... you have GOT to start working for your future now.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:18 AM
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This exactly. Natural alphas/Chads have natural abundance and outcome independence so they act that way and aren’t playing “games”. Betas can play games and seem higher value, but in the long run their betaness shows. I also came to TRP from oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:47 PM
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Every situation is different bro. Learn the TRP mentality and apply it to every situation. If you feel that a chick has high interest then why not just talk to her throughout the day when you aren’t busy? The only exception I’d say is when setting up the first date.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:59 PM
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Bro no need to follow TRP by the book. Texting a girl when you aren’t busy shows interest... the point of logistics texting is so you don’t mess anything up. If you text a girl all day and reply in 30 seconds then you’ll look eager
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:59 PM
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It is outdated. NOBODY is too busy to send a quick text.. it takes 30 seconds. Just don’t be overly available or it’ll make you look pushy. TRP recommends texting for logistics for newbies... if you are good at text game it can only help you
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:06 PM
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It means you’re just going through the motions. There is ALWAYS something you can learn or improve in life. It’s what you make it. Land a job making 6 figures, work on your looks, read, etc. and tell me life is dull.. There’s always something to bring joy and purpose to you in your life if you make it happen. For me I wake up everyday excited to go make money and pursue my bodybuilding ambitions. Accomplishing something you dedicate your life to is the most “fulfilling” feeling you can have- bet…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:32 AM
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Longjeep gets it. I am a bodybuilder which occupies 7 days a week just speaking of lifting. I work 5 days a week 8-5 typically, in a sales job. I put myself in the top 10% of any person my age in terms of income, physical attractiveness and personality. Not in a bragging matter but to attest to what longjeep is saying. I don’t encounter women on a day to day basis so I feel as though they have no way to know who I am. I’d like to find a way to game chicks during the week instead of pulling at th…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:47 PM
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I feel like me working full time makes it hard to game chicks of my age since they’re typically in college. Perhaps I need to spin plates with women in the 23-26 age range
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:55 PM
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Not even necessarily better. Some girls just want different things But yes. MOSTLY. SMV is highly opinion based. Everybody has a look standard but some chicks like higher value in specific aspects that some don’t. Some girls date strictly on looks, some strictly on money, some strictly on personality. Rejection doesn’t mean low value necessarily, just maybe not enough value in an aspect that is important to them. Find a chick that has the same “values” as you and it’ll work out
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:19 PM
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2 hours away? Come on bro. It’s not a plate first off... if you were sleeping with multiple chicks why would you want someone so far away? I predict it now... you’re gonna get attached and it will end badly. Especially being so far away
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:00 PM
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Take it from me. If a girl says you are “incompatible” it’s that you’re using too much game/dread. Texting for logistics is SO outdated. Girls pick up on the fact you’re using game unless you’re a high SMV. If you’re an average guy... well why tf would she waste time on a guy who doesn’t give her any attention when she is probably getting plenty from other dudes of similar quality? Girls thrive off of attention and she realizes she won’t get that from you so she’s probably emotionally detached h…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:58 PM
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It’s a tough reality accept. We’ve been born and raised to believe love is a fairy tail and we will meet “the one”. You can either hate women or accept how they are. Every guy truly wants love like their mom provides. Loving them for “them” so to speak, but that just doesn’t exist. With that being said, I definitely think red pill has done far more damage to me than good. It’s given me a very negative look on women as a whole, but the truth is TRP is not black and white. EVERY girl is different.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 06:05 PM
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Most of the chicks my age leave this city when they graduate. Very shitty town indeed
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:14 PM
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I’m not a guy to make excuses as I know there is ALWAYS somewhere to meet chicks. The downside of my town is that there are no hangout spots. Generally get done with work and gym at 6:30pm so leaves me to weekend game.. which works fine but my issue is sleeping with one girl at a time which is obviously not ideal
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:06 PM
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I’d keep as a plate for atleast 6 months. There’s no rush... you’re essentially betting your commitment and other plates on the fact that y’all will work out. Why not wait and do what you’re doing without the title? Everyone knows infatuation wears off after a few months... Gauge your interest 6 months from now
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:34 PM
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Pretty cringeworthy. I know for certain you aren’t spinning plates. Go ahead with the relationship and let her remind you where the term AWALT came from.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:30 AM
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I wouldn’t do that straight up... I’d threaten to tell them if she refuses to sign papers. Hard next her and start lifting and I assure you she will want you back.. then you can move on to better women that will treat you better... or spin plates. Your choice.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:37 PM
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I’m in the same situation except.... well I don’t care. I was banging a chick and didn’t give her comfort EVER. She left and I assume she went to the beta guy she originally cut off for me. This happened about a week ago... I don’t expect her to hit me up and even if she does... she had her opportunity. Move on and acquire plates.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:32 PM
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It’s a struggle bro. Fake it until you make it. It’ll all workout in the end
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:36 PM
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Bro she one hundred percent slept with him. This is why red pill users generally favor not getting married... you have no choice but to go through life MISERABLY if you stay with this chick. It’ll never be the same and you know it. Or you can get a divorce and expect half of everything you own to go to her. I say you sleep with a bunch of chicks in the mean time. I’d ATTEMPT to get her to sign papers saying she will refuse alimony. You say she’s close to her family... fuck it... black mail her
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:26 AM
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You have to find what brings you joy. For the longest time I got joy from chicks... this is a dumb thing as you have no control over your own happiness if you don’t get the “results” you always want. All of my joy now is from the gym and making big sales at work. Find something you’re passionate about and devote your time there.. set goals and meet them and I promise you there’s no better feeling. How can you be depressed when you’re improving every aspect of yourself?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:19 PM
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Listen to how sorry you feel for yourself... and for good reason. Nothing but excuses man. Don’t have a job? Get one. Focus all of your energy on work and lifting. It is literally your life to live and you can pick and choose what you get to do with it. Sitting around doing nothing all day is a good reason to be depressed. And for the oneitis... bro come on. HIGHLY doubtful she is a 9/10 and even if she is...You think she is the only girl in this world? No.... When you have dedicated 6 months wo…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 07:11 PM
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I like this one
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:47 AM
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VERY GOOD COMMENT!! I can attest to this as of literally yesterday. Girl I was seeing/sleeping with cut it off with ME... I’m clearly a higher SMV than she is but I didn’t give her the comfort/validation she wanted which caused her to cut things off.. Looks are literally a foot in the door for initial attraction... anything beyond that is strictly game/frame
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:42 AM
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This lol
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:27 AM
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Sounds like low confidence to me... i wouldn’t date a chick unless I saw long term potential because I clicked with her... I say dump current chick and spin plates
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:25 AM
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Agreed. I will still screen her for LTR material before putting any ”title” on it.. and tbh if she made it easy for me she’d make it easy for any other guys so I don’t mind a little effort being required
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:04 PM
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Agreed brother
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:53 PM
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Give comfort when they have earned it... not because you want something in return. I agree.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:51 PM
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I agree to an extent but 2 months isn’t bad per se. I did tell her I was down to talk to her ONLY before running constant dread. It’s like I told her I was interested in pursuing her but my actions said otherwise. I think this was just her way of saying “Let me know you’re actually pursuing me so I’m not wasting my time”. Judging from a red pill perspective, I did not say or do anything to put myself in her frame.. I still have full control while also giving her some comfort.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:43 PM
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I like this example
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:39 PM
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I assumed the same thing. And tbh... I wouldn’t be surprised because AWALT. I can almost guarantee she was hitting up a guy she had on the back burner to get her “validation”... until I called her.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:02 AM
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I have gained answers after reading comments in this thread, Mr. Sarcastic.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:33 AM
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She hasn’t asked for commitment just any type of validation. I have literally never complimented her physically once or texted her first once over the span of knowing her.. I have followed TRP TOO close in this case.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:28 AM
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It’s pretty warranted... I have been treating her textbook TRP. 0 validation, always leaving questioning if I’m interested in her. Initially I think this drives girls insane and makes them want you but when building an actual relationship you have to give them some sort of comfort, which I have not.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:05 AM
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This girl is a 7.5/10 in real life standard. Never encountered a chick with this many orbiters. I feel like I’m the alpha (obviously) but if she’s already questioning my interest, then the text I sent probably secured it in her mind. She is good quality and is used to not having to chase
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:33 PM
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I think you are correct. The thing is, as cocky as it sounds, I don’t think she’ll do better. Of course, that doesn’t matter as any attention is attention for chicks.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:53 PM
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No. She lives in one city over. 45 min drive. So twice a week on average Inb4 “game plates closer”.. I’m in a small town. I still spin plates but work 5 days a week and am okay with the idea of a relationship at the moment since I have 2 days to game other than tinder
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:50 PM
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I feel like I have been quite douchey no doubt. Do you think I should just bend frame and give her some level of comfort? This isn’t something I wanna let go if saying the right thing can fix it and not put me in her frame at the same time
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:41 PM
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How do I do this without responding?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:35 PM
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I do have interest in this girl which is rare for me to have interest beyond a plate and I have a history of being in their frame when I have feelings so I’ve tried to think strictly with TRP mindset and no emotions I do want to pursue this girl without losing frame of it... What should be my sure next step? ALSO. I’m only the second guy she’s ever been with sexually
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:18 PM
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Please link me when you have it posted. I truly believe I used too much dread from the TRP front I’ve put on and she doesn’t feel comfortable enough to date me. I think I’ve followed TRP a little too closely and didn’t mold with the situation.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:02 PM
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Ended up going with this response... check the OP and it shows her reply. I still haven’t responded to her last text
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:55 PM
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2 months. Potential as in she shows many green flags. Not as im actively wanting to jump in one
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:44 PM
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Absolutely not. Move on.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:51 PM
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Alpha frame plus high SMV... obviously a significant difference. Chads do what they want bro
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:57 AM
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God... seems TRP is filled with insecure betas who have CLEARLY had their girlfriend fucked by a Chad. Why would you get into an LTR without them earning it? You’re asking for it at that point. Maximize your SMV and maintain frame as TRP suggests and then tell me all girls cheat... no....all girls cheat on Beta fucks who are obviously not her bet option.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:45 AM
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Very subjective... she can be alpha widowed whenever she meets an alpha. If she meets a Chad and loses her V to him it’s possible to happen. If she’s fucked a bunch of betas and Chad is her 10th guy it’s also possible then. Truthfully girls will just replace any “Chad” they lost as there is always someone better and girls naturally just have abundance. That’s why guys are the ones with oneitis... they obsess over one chick and fail to game other chicks
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:05 PM
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I wouldn’t ping her anymore. Continue to game other chicks and go aloof. Let her initiate... if she wanted to see you bad enough she would and she’d give an alternative to a time she could hangout which she did not. It’s one chick bro no need to wait around when you could be spinning plates
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:02 PM
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Pretty cringe tbh... this is a chick you’ve never spoke to. How can you flirt and say “You might stalk me”. Within this 30 second period of meeting her did she give any IOIs?? Obviously not. It’d be different if A. She wasn’t with a guy at the gym B. You approached her after getting clear IOIs. This wasn’t a shit test.... shit tests are girls testing the frame of a guy she has interest in... everyday conversations with a girl isn’t a shit test...
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:59 PM
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Sounds like you are over invested in them... realize that plates are just girl you strictly want to fuck. Sounds more like FWB to me.... Can’t have a double standard and fuck other chicks and expect her to not fuck other guys... Bringing up the fact you don’t trust her shows insecurity. Keep the mind set AWALT
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:54 PM
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I say take her out one time and gauge her interest in person. What do you have to lose? You either setup to fuck her or you just enjoyed a coffee and then you can soft next. If she mentions her BF just ignore and do your thing.. Always judge her actions not her words. If she shows obvious IOIs in person then who cares what she is texting? Just do not be needy. Establish Kino on the hangout session and see how she reacts to it
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:33 PM
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Agreed. TRP insinuates every chick will cheat... if they’re with a high SMV guy that they’ve dedicated time and efforts to there is no reason to cheat with any dude that looks good and speaks to her....And if she does??? Fuck it move on
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:30 PM
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Have outcome independence... Assume she won’t cheat but expect it at the same time. It’s a win win... either she won’t cheat and is loyal or she will and you can end it and fuck other chicks that will be worth while.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:28 PM
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Depends on SMV... typically I just walk up and put my hand out to shake theirs and say “(insert name)... what’s your name?” If they’re attracted to u it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:26 PM
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If they won’t put out, ignore them. If they will put out then keep it 2/3 interest and fuck her more..
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:23 PM
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Remember.... chix will make any excuses they can to accept guys they view as having high SMV. For example.... Imagine an ugly beta dude hitting on a chick nervously... her thought is “Wow wtf this dude is creepy and awkward”. If a guy with higher SMV did it her thoughts are “He is so shy! It is so cute!” Same with your D. Raise SMV in every other aspect and she won’t give a shit... and if you’re fucking her... why does it matter anyways?? Stop focusing on what you can’t change and maximize every…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:21 PM
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Ive learned the more you maximize every aspect in your life I.e. increase SMV confidence comes with it. Remember, there is always someone better looking, more successful, etc but you should be confident in yourself knowing you’re taking every precaution to maximize your SMV and improve yourself. If you’re the best version of yourself there should be no question of your worth within yourself imo.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:15 PM
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Age 20 been with 43
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:10 PM
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Where do you think I should go from here?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:22 PM
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I’d give gold if I had it. I always appreciate detailed advice and you answered my question well. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:09 AM
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Good call. I appreciate it brother
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:07 PM
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Agreed.... how do I play it from this point forward in ur opinion?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:28 PM
1

There actually was a guy. He was driving 2 hours to see her dance (she’s a dancer in college).... yikes. Graduated highschool together. They were actually “talking” before I ever came along. She’s told me how he’s a gentleman and treats her nice. Hahaha. Shit test after shit test... I always respond “He sounds like ur type.. maybe you should just hit him up”. Meanwhile SHE is driving 45 mins to sleep with me. Lol.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:05 PM
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I definitely appreciate you taking the time to respond brotha. I completely agree with everything you said and I agree, I view myself higher than to just dedicate time and commitment to any good looking girl who puts out. She definitely has to earn her keep and go above and beyond to earn me. With that being said, do you believe I should treat her as I have until this point? (Never text her first, etc) Or should my behavior towards her change since we have established that we are interested in o…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:57 PM
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What exactly do you mean?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:31 PM
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Can you elaborate? As I’m positive of her N count. All chix like attention.. sluts are the ones that put out to everyone
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:22 PM
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She doesn’t want casual hook ups.. She was raised very strictly and really prides herself in not sleeping around but makes it known guys do want her..aka shit tests to say “If you don’t want me someone else will”
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:47 PM
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Agreed. Of course in the post I discuss how I truly feel about her. Never break frame and be beta to her though.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:34 PM
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Dude has probably been fucked over. I believe with real TRP tactics and being a true alpha you can be in an LTR successfully. Most guys are just their significant others bitch tbh..
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:29 AM
1

I disagree.... having a higher SMV than her allows me to “bend” frame some. She knows I have an abundance of chix.. but dropping them for her won’t decrease SMV in her eyes surely. She knows I’m wanted but how can a relationship form without being exclusive IMO? And why would I enter an LTR instead of spinning plates if I wasn’t gonna be “monogamous”?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:27 AM
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I don’t believe in that nonsense. Sure it happens but every situation is different.. Never give a chick proper validation and she’ll always chase you.. Just about finding a balance.. not every chick wants to invest time in a guy just to fuck any better looking guy that may come along. I do believe quality chicks exist. Just want to pick up on indicators that she is quality..
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:45 PM
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It’s a very generalized trait.... this is what I have witnessed first hand being my parents have been together 27 yrs. Not saying it applies to everyone..
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:48 AM
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Appreciate it brotha. All green flags on the questions listed except me being her “plate”. That’s the only concern with me... she is fresh in college and admittedly keeps her options open until I wanna be exclusive with her. It’s kinda contradicting since I won’t date a chick who isn’t monogamous to me. I understand being fresh in college and never seeing/sleeping with anyone and wanting to see what’s out there...However I don’t approve... I have 0 concern of her finding anyone she has more inte…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:45 AM
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I think these traits are more of a spectrum type thing. Generally speaking, a girl who’s mom is single and had multiple boyfriends and cheated etc... is more likely to follow in those foot steps being that she was raised seeing that lifestyle. Like wise with a girl who has parents that have been together a long time.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:34 AM
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Not to be douchey as I know some ppl have grandma fetishes... but if a 57 yr old isn’t into a guy in his 20s it should be for obvious reasons... not too much common ground. Significant differences..
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:07 AM
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Yes... there is. You should be using TRP tactics on quality women. Not fucking grandmas
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:06 AM
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I wouldn’t say “understand” it’ll end... “expect” maybe. And always judge a girl on actions > words.... but what actions does one consider “LTR material”? Currently see her on weekends...Very little conversation going on via text due to me trying to text mainly for logistics.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:05 AM
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The TRP is a mindset bro. I think everyone thinks TRP means you are inhumane and aren’t allowed to experience emotions. Lol. It’s about maintaining frame and acting with logic.... and not with emotions like women do. There’s a difference in wanting attention and actually trying to get it. An alpha male doesn’t seek approval of others. I recommend raising your SMV and in turn, raising self confidence... which I recommend to everyone anyways. Never seek attention.... demand it...
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:02 AM
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Stopped reading at “57 years old”. Bro.... not cool
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:41 AM
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Constructive criticism only brah. 1 N count isn’t completely impossible.. if it wasn’t for age and dating history I’d def agree. I’ve had a couple LTRs. I know what to look for. And typically I’d just spin plates and never think of an LTR...but I do have genuine interest in this chick. Wether or not to proceed given the circumstances is why I came to asktrp... I will NOT date her if she doesn’t put out so I may need to be up front with her before plans happen..?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:19 AM
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