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You honestly sound so cool. My partner's and I's financial dynamics are similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:18 AM
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I hate numbers so I'll just say ugly. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:47 PM
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Sorry. 🙏🏾Are you able to drink your calories or is that still too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:51 PM
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Is there someone here actually asking for relationships or is she just making it known that's what she wants? I hope she knows that BMI obsessed guy and passport bros don't exactly give off "I'll give you princess treatment". And the blue pill men are a lot more chill and dateable but seem more egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:49 PM
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Thanks. I wish I was bolder in showing disdain and cutting the conversation short like you said you would. I felt like I'd be considered rude tbh. So I just had to keep rejecting everything but that sent us in long circles which was annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:43 PM
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I was actually too nice. I didn't want to make them angry and then sit and be uncomfortable but I was uncomfortable anyway. Borrow me your bravery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:41 PM
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Well travelling sucked. First I only slept for 2 hours. Second, my sleep deprived self spent my hour long flight trying to be convinced into a sugar daddy relationship. Where I'm from we call these kinds of guys blessers. What a coincidence because like 2 days ago when my partner and I were discussing age gap relationships he pointed out that he'll see girls coming from my residence coming back late into the night in expensive cars with older pot bellied men. I was like how does one fall into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:20 PM
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I strongly agree with your first paragraph. Sorry about that. I always say to both men and women settling is not worth it and you'd be better off remaining single than hurting someone else. I've watched one of my most attractive female friends get settled for and cheated on and the consequences on her self esteem are just not worth it. No one deserves it. Attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:10 PM
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And that doesn't stop men from saying that those women don't deserve it. You're talking about mutual relationships where both parties agree to that. I'm talking about the groups of women who can't get dates from men and are relegated to pump and dumps because they're not deemed as attractive. There are men who endorse treating unattractive women as worthless in the same way women don't care to treat men they're not attracted to with more than the bare minimum. It's a human thing. Unfortunately m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:07 PM
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Those women are saying that those men only deserve to be pumps and dumps? 3's deserve nothing? 30 year olds have hit the wall? Fat men are whales who can die? All of the things men here say and all over the internet. K. But I guess according to you men struggling diminish women who struggle for the exact same reasons. And I still stand that not receiving sex ≠ being treated like garbage. If the extent of your bad treatment is not receiving sex you're living your most privileged first world life …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:03 PM
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20% of women being deemed as ugly doesn't negate the fact that there is a marked difference between how men treat women they find attractive and unattractive. My point is that unattractive women still get treated and viewed poorly. My own experiences and just the way you guys talk about unattractive women here makes it obvious. Also the men you're referencing are not treated like garbage, women are just not interested in dating those men and if you can't force it then it is what it is. That's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:45 PM
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Ya no. There's a marked difference. Men treat average to unattractive women as pumps and dumps and constantly tell us that 5's deserve to get treated less than 8's. Men don't treat "pump and dumps" like "wife material". Y'all have a system for how you treat women you deem as below average too and you're loud about it. I'm not going to feel sorry for men receiving that treatment even if that's the majority of them. Learn discernment and pick someone who treats you the way you want to be treated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:17 PM
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Tbf some men endorse this system... There are a lot of guys who say here that if a woman is a 5 she should expect to get treated like a 5. There are also men who tell certain women they're only good for a pump and dump. Most people tell ugly people of either gender to accept the bare minimum and not expect to receive the same kind of treatment as attractive people. Even men here have posted unattractive women and asked "does she really expect to get good treatment looking like this". Many men he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:49 AM
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Most women here have told you guys here that looks matter so this isn't the correct audience. Most of us have admitted that looks matter to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:37 AM
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As a woman I think there's a healthy medium. Someone who flakes on you is not worth it in general. But expecting someone to like you when you never want to go out with them and demand sex on the first date? Good luck getting commitment from the average woman. I'm not saying it's impossible I'm just saying there's a healthy medium. Set your own standards in my opinion. If you want sex on the first date and a girl not giving it to you is a deal breaker for you then break it off. Not based on what …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:23 AM
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This comment feels icky but ok. Physical development depends on the girl. In my opinion there weren't many changes from 17 onwards but there were changes for most of us from 12-16. A girl who didn't change then was rare. And I believe mental development for most women from 14-20 is quite large. Most teenagers in general. But pervs don't care about mental development so ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:01 AM
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Well it's good male taste has evolved but it seems that's only present in the first world. Here it's still normal for men to comment on 15 year olds. Any number is too much for me. I just feel like some people like to underestimate when it feels like it's really prevalent in reality and what exists on the internet and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:57 AM
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Men don't care when they're physically attracted (as gross as that sounds). But I agree as I was a very annoying 14 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:49 PM
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Only 20 without social stigma?? Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:46 PM
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You're a man right? Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:35 PM
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Ya that part is ignorant but I agree with the general sentiment of the comment that we see it around often that men generally go for lower in age that it doesn't feel like it's just by chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:35 PM
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Girl scout outfits?!! 🤮 These stats are scary as hell. Even my partner kind of confirmed that stat saying he's seen it all around in reality. I'm oblivious to it in reality but even some men's responses online and even here make me convinced the only thing stopping most men is the law. And when they have enough money to bypass the law they no longer care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:33 PM
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Ya she's 18 there. But that man did start dating her when she was 15 so...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:28 PM
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What is? 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:28 PM
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It's nice! I'm going home this Wednesday and I'm excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:58 PM
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<image> The inspiration for my question so y'all don't think I'm crazy. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:53 PM
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Are you a woman because we may be twins. It doesn't help that my partner has a higher standard of cleanliness than me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:26 PM
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That's so kind. 🥹 I plan to. He's quite minimalist compared to me so I'll try to squeeze in some more experienced based gifts. I know there's a lot he hasn't experienced so I want to try and give him experiences where I can. The little gifts I kind of do but I can get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:25 PM
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I hate the additional insights added to Reddit. When did this happen? It looks cluttered and it's bothering me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:13 PM
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I call this disease anxiety or analysis paralysis 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:07 PM
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A while ago I said I need help gifting my partner. Well, I gifted my partner his gift today at midnight and he loved it I decided to just gift him the shoes I know he likes and not insert my own opinions. It took a while trying to find them and I couldn't get the exact ones I knew he'd want but I found a style he really likes at least and thank goodness he loved them. Alongside other small gifts, got the cake, lit up candles and the whole song and dance yk. I didn't actually expect him to get so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:04 PM
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This is such a perfect and precise way to put it. Postpartum depression, full body changes, a whole new life. Pregnancy is such a personal and vulnerable position to be put in. Even men who do everything right can still get up and leave. I really think women's disregard for men's problems really does boil down to this line of thinking. This is so accurate you should make a thread on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:48 PM
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Ya I wouldn't describe it as submissive more so than being a competent partner. My partner's a better cleaner, cook and way better at most labour than I am. He once said a relationship works better when both partners are submissive to each other. We both give and take depending on the strengths of each other. Albeit I've never lived with him so my opinion is really limited but I like to think a relationship works better when you both submit to each other and by that I mean maximise on each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:28 PM
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University. We lived in the same residence and we met through an ice breakers challenge. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:21 PM
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This is my one guy friend!! He only ever got hit on by women in relationships but never single women it was so weird because I don't know any other guy this happened too. But he's in a normal relationship now thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:04 PM
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Lol. I love that confidence. 😅 I was just surprised that many people my age use Facebook but it's very popular amongst people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:16 AM
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Is a sloppy joe a bun filled with mince meat? I've always been curious. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:22 AM
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I only thought about it when I started dating my partner but anyone who has a very high social media presence. Gives me anxiety. I'd be scrutinized and dragged to high hell. Even my partner's Facebook page gives me stress. I don't like people knowing my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:20 AM
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I'll say no one. Most of the women here seem well adjusted and quite well off. 😅 I don't relate. The only one I can think of is another pinkpill woman who constantly drags the men for being shallow and hypocritical. I like her energy and I feel maybe I have the closest opinions to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:51 PM
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I feel bad cause I didn't really find her as pretty as the movie was hyping her up to be. 😭 I found Gabrielle to be prettier but Gabrielle fits my country's beauty standards more so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:50 PM
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I just watched 10 things I hate about you for the first time in my life it was pretty funny. It was also my partner's first time and we really enjoyed it. Some of the things my partner and I noticed kind of fit in with the discussion here. My partner laughed really hard when Heath Ledger's character finally got Julia Stile's attention by ignoring her. I finally conceded to the fact that women may not like too much attention. This is a bit of an ongoing disagreement we've been having. We finally …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:40 PM
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And a lot of people do this actually. Whenever there's a bad male criminal or the likes of him there's always some fools who ask "where was his mother?" Or some nonsense like that. As if it's impossible for some kids to be psycho. There are people who genuinely believe if the sons turn out to be a mess the mothers are responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:44 AM
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Religion has mostly always been hypocritical to me especially when men are preaching it so most of the time I see it as them just sticking to their usual script. Everyone's forgivable except for those worthless whores I guess. Jesus died for every person's sins but not the whores. Their beliefs are based on demonising whatever doesn't benefit them and most women with basic autonomy don't care to benefit them. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:32 AM
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That too. It's a very self centred view which I've never really understood but I'd assume I'm probably more self centred in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:12 AM
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Ya it's a catchall term to express dissatisfaction with something but is really meaningless in the grand scheme of things. At least the way men express it. I do believe accountability does exist though. One YouTube video I liked had this creator call out men who shame single mothers. She asked the question: "what does accountability look like?" She then went on to explain that a woman who falls pregnant out of wedlock but still opts to raise the child is thus taking accountability. Making the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:59 AM
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It's been a nice 3 days. I hope everyone else is well!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:49 AM
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Why would she need to larp? You don't believe men are so mean that any woman with a sliver empathy would retaliate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:04 AM
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I finally got up and mopped and decluterred. It's been so long since I've had the energy to clean my room. A win for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:01 AM
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The first question is a good one. We've spoken about it in the past and he says he likes surprises but I don't know if he cares more about being surprised or receiving the right thing. I personally care more about choosing the right thing but I don't like it when it's not a surprise because it feels lazy to me. It feels wrong to need his input for what I get him. I think I might gravitate to getting him something I'm comfortable with but it still feels selfish in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:16 PM
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Both. 😭 If the shoes don't last as long I'll feel bad. Even if I know it's what he would've wanted I would know I could've chosen better. But also I want him to have what he wants. I feel like the dilemma I have is I haven't looked around enough to find the best of both worlds. Something that he'll like aesthetically but also lasts for long. But the problem is I don't know if I'll choose the right thing so do I get input from him but ruin the surprise and make him potentially think I'm lazy or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:10 PM
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Q4M: I need help with a decision. It's that wonderful time of the year where I get to blast my money on my partner because his birthday is coming up!! I know he likes shoes and watches. I don't know enough about watches to make the correct choices so shoes it is. I have a lil problem. There's a certain shoe brand he likes but I don't like the durability of the shoes for the price. It's like sneaker boots but these reviews are not giving confidence. They're implying they may not last long and spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:58 PM
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Q4M: What's your favourite shoe brand? Something that's durable but also stylish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:33 PM
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I feel like this is known. And I think normal women do notice but they don't need to care. Men definitely talk to normal and attractive women it's not subtle. It's not a bad thing either people want to socialise with those they find attractive again not a bad thing. I just know men tend to project the experiences of attractive women onto all of us. I think that's where we unattractive women get annoyed. I'm not asking for sympathy. I'm partnered and happy but for some reason I hate that my exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:50 PM
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I think it counts as attraction if they can speak to you when they're sober. If you're only visible to them when they're drunk it's boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:38 PM
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Drunk attention doesn't count especially when that drunk person pretends to not know who you are when they're sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:37 PM
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I 100% agree with you. It doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:23 PM
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Men have said women can get attention no matter how they look, act etc. Does it still count if the only men that ever approach you are drunk? Wouldn't you consider a woman who only ever gets approached by drunk men to not get male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:16 PM
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I don't think anyone has a problem with you when you express it the way you did. You simply expressed having a preference without condemning people who don't conform to that lifestyle. Most men will often resort to name calling and slut shaming to justify their preferences when they could simply ignore the women they don't want. Other men are hypocritical in the sense that they don't live a similar lifestyle to the second yet demand it of women. Hypocrisy is ok in dating but you'll still get pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:56 PM
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The men here cannot go one day without telling us how much they suffer because they have to look at women they're not attracted too. The kings of punching down on people while expecting sympathy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:52 PM
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This would happen quite a bit on the foreveralonewoman sub where the women would say how unattractive they are and guys would still be dming them in hopes that they'd be getting someone pretty. And then when they got a face reveal they were no longer interested. This was crazy to me because you were going after women on a foreveralone sub. What did you expect? I don't understand most guys' logic with this tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:01 PM
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I've never understood the attraction to very tall guys while being short either. My guy friend is 6'5 too and it's quite rare to be that tall in this country. He's the tallest person I know and it's personally too tall for me too. I'm also like 5'2 (159cm to be exact) tall and my partner is taller than me I'd guess like 5'4-5'6 (idk) and some thing that would annoy me is how I'd have to bend my neck to be able to kiss him. Such a small thing but it would annoy me cause it hurt. All of my crushes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:54 PM
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That's great! Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:35 AM
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I'm glad you enjoyed it! And I was arguing with my partner this weekend about the necessity of applying sun-screen so I get you. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:35 AM
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I remember you do actually have a daughter and a nice extended family. 😅I hope the baby is well. 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:26 AM
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I'm not going to lie that surprises me. But I can imagine the blue pill people on this sub having kids. Most of the holistic advice I've seen on this sub has mostly come from the people with the blue pill flair. I'm sorry but I'll be very surprised if I see someone with a red pill flair (at least a redpill man) who says they have kids. Probably my most judgmental take. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:30 PM
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Oh my soul you're right 😭 For some reason I just can't imagine anyone with kids posting on a sub like this so I got curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:27 PM
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I just thought of something. Does anybody on this sub have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:12 PM
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Well my partner finally got me to leave my room this weekend. He decided to take me out to breakfast which was nice. In the evening we cooked dinner together while listening to murder stories on YouTube. It was the first time in 5 days I forgot about the terrible academic situation I'm in and didn't cry so that was nice. It's the simple things in life. If I can just get better at school I'll be a happy person. All in all a good weekend. I hope it was good for everyone else too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:53 PM
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This is so irrelevant because what you said doesn't negate being single. Attention ≠ relationship. I'm not in a relationship with any guy who flirts with me on the streets as much as I'm not in a relationship with any random man jumping into my dm's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:44 PM
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Or she's just remaining single... I think a lot of you project behaviour you'd do onto women. Just because you can't remain single for long periods of time doesn't mean women can't. A lot of women just remain single it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:34 PM
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I loved that book! It was the best depressing thing I'd read. Romance in books was my first form of escapism growing up so you're definitely right. I use it less these days though. Fiction got me through the last years of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:51 PM
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On a personal level I agree but like I said this requires personal effort. Outside forces can't build that attraction for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:52 AM
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This doesn't negate what I'm saying. This requires personal intervention not outside intervention. And someone can still do all of this and not find someone who is genuinely attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:51 AM
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I swear I was the only one. I can drink any brand of coffee or energy drink and still fall asleep within 30 minutes if I'm tired. That stuff just doesn't work for me either. If I'm tired I'll sleep no matter what I put into myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:53 PM
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This is too cute. 🥹I think I may be Hello Kitty pilled how lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:12 PM
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How do you realistically get anyone to "desire" you if they already don't? The goal you have sounds simple but it also doesn't sound like anything that can be realistically achieved with any kind of outside intervention. It only works if the person wants it for themselves and their partner reciprocates it. You realistically can't force that for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:06 PM
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And you're consistent. What does the hello kitty pill mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:02 PM
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Being overweight definitely messes with my hormones. I didn't consider underweight people could experience body image issues as a reason too I always imagine it as ideal I forgot that for a lot it may not be. 🤦🏾Hormonal imbalance could also affect you if you're underweight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:01 PM
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<image> This site has to be joking with me😭 I need to see where this debate was had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:57 PM
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<image> There are environmentalist pills. Cute! I don't think I'd include the Jew stuff though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:54 PM
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<image> This one shocked me. I feel like no one would actually identify as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:51 PM
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So when I entered this sub I didn't know what any of these flares were and just selected a random one just so I could post (Sorry mods). But after browsing the demographics survey I've decided to browse these pills and maybe see which one accurately fits me and oh my soul there are a lot. I feel like some of these can't be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:47 PM
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Self control for being underweight crossing over into their sex life? Like do you mean the self regulation they practice with food they also have practice with sex? Restricting food crosses over with restricting sex? Is that what you mean? I believe the obese thing. My weight fluctuates a lot and at my heaviest I was way less horny. I also experienced feeling less desirable so I wouldn't seek out sex anyway. A poor body image wouldn't inspire wanting that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:39 PM
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Do you have a hypothesis for this? Is it genetic? Do underweight women have lower sex drives? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:24 PM
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Thank you!! That's actually crazy but I guess lines up with the men here? I was actually wondering cause I wanted to see if people on this sub leaned more towards extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:22 PM
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Thank you now I finally learnt why we can't have looks threads on here. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:19 PM
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Now I want to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:06 PM
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What interesting trends and patterns did you discover if you don't mind disclosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:01 PM
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Has a demographics survey ever been done on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:51 PM
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That's the only time I like it. 😩Those are like model shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:19 PM
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I meant like the equivalent genetic feature that makes men feel like they've chosen a woman at peak femininity. The thing you and other people immediately see. We know the average woman probably looks at the most physical peak male thing as height. For a man the equivalent is probably a small waist to hip ratio and a narrower frame on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:57 PM
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Waist-to-hip ratio and shoulder width (narrow vs wide) are the female equivalent to male height. A woman may not get rejected for having either but men go feral for women with a tiny waist and if you don't have wide shoulders (they signify manliness - not being offensive I have VERY wide shoulders). It's also the only thing a woman can't change like men's height. Wide shoulders and a wide ribcage can't be rectified in the gym or with diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:40 PM
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Is having an ai or robot girlfriend while you're with another person considered cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:13 PM
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I just saw a thread on pet peeves and now I agree. I hate pointlessly gendered dating advice! "Men, don't listen to what a woman says watch what she does." Yes a woman and everyone else. It's stupid because that advice applies to every person. But is there gendered advice you believe generally applies to one gender? (Genuine responses). I have one that still serves me well but I know if I say it I'll offend people so I want to hear others. Edit: phrasing and grammar🙈 apologies if there's any mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:50 PM
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I'm not talking about those ones. A lot of men here take it too far to the point where I'm questioning if they even like women. Someone threatened another female user with rape by dogs the other day. There's a lot of vitriol from men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:01 PM
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Q4A: If you found out your partner was recently sexually assaulted or recently suffered an attempted sexual assault from the opposite gender how would you react? (It can be a rational or irrational response.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:59 PM
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Oh my soul 😭I want you to eat. I hate that you're going on hunger strike. The people who hurt you are not worth having you struggle. I sometimes want to self harm out of anger and I realise the lasting consequences only affect me not the people who hurt me. Please take care of yourself despite what your mother does. And I'm sorry you're going through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:40 PM
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Good for you but this is not relevant to what I said. Your relationship doesn't negate the fact a lot of men here have alot of vitriol towards women and would be better off not interacting with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:33 PM
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The men here call women everything but children of God. Leeches, whores, gold-diggers. They say women are terrible friends, they're all simple, they all want the same thing, they're a hive mind, being with them is a waste of time, they hit the wall etc. I feel like at that point if everything about women is a con to you, you probably do hate them and you should probably just stop interacting with them for your own peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:11 PM
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I've had this conversation with my partner and I think he said he didn't mind taking my name. I have a nice last name. But I think we'll go the standard route and I'll just take his.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:13 AM
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I think even the older people we find attractive also have obvious markers of youth. I think most people just don't like to be reminded of aging or that they're not immortal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:12 AM
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Good morning. At least here. I sound unreasonably crazy and evil. But after this week I really wish my university lecturer would fall off a cliff or get hit by a car. (yes I am a bitter terrible person) Unrelated but I remember a few weeks back I was in a taxi and the driver for some reason decided to let me know that he could do witchcraft and that if I ever needed to get pregnant or wanted to kill someone he could make it happen for me. I don't know why he told me this but he did. I don't beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:11 AM
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Y'all sound cute. 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:51 AM
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Some of you are very demented here. A woman got asked out on a date and now she's dead. Nobody deserves that fate. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:53 PM
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It's unfortunate and sad but it's very common here unfortunately so we just have to learn and move on. Thank you! I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:50 PM
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Lol I'll try. 😭Thanks. I told her I don't need a new phone. I'm comfortable with my janky unknown brand phone and I'd still be blocking everyone anyway. But I still think tracking location is necessary in this country. Kidnapping is quite common and the police are only effective at picking up a dead body not preventing one. The people watching over you will be your best protectors. I'll try. I'll be more aware when I go out and maybe go out with my partner when I go further out. It's normal to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:07 PM
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No it's not bad. Nobody will care about that. 😅 Sorry to the cheated on friend. But welcome to the new baby 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:29 PM
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So apparently there's a very popular case at the moment in my country drawing attention to GBV (it happens every few months and nothing ever changes). Apparently in this case the woman was a student going on a date with a guy in the city. She'd actually met the guy at the mall in the city I'm currently studying in now, which is a different one to the one they went on a date. They vibed and he invited her to a date and she accepted. So apparently on the day of the date she gave her friends her iP…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:11 PM
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Explain that 60/40 ratio and why it's not at least 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:26 PM
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Exactly like why is it not 50/50 at the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:25 PM
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TBF isn't saying, "x person shouldn't have done this" kind of assigning blame just in another direction. Men assign blame just in the opposite direction. There's no difference in my opinion everyone is assigning blame somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:49 PM
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My boyfriend told me most guys prefer skinny so I was just generalising for most men. I've always felt like the whole thick thing was an internet thing but not true in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:52 AM
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I actually agree the only way you'll struggle as a woman is if you have an eating disorder and bad genetics and the social effects of either are brutal from personal experience. But I believe for the average girl if she just stays skinny and granted she doesn't have wide shoulders (like me) or a wide ribcage she should be fine. But one thing this sub often misses is thinking that appealing to some men prevents women from being bullied or ridiculed for their physique. Women often internalise high…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:16 AM
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Thank you for being dismissive. It's not one member if I drew reference to the fact that it's a culture of body shaming perpetuated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:42 AM
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I don't agree with circumcision. And I won't allow it to happen to my children. But men lead this country. I won't contribute to it but they'll need to change it so the problem stops on a mass level. But I think as we become more westernised the problem decreases. Change is slow though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:51 AM
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I don't know who needs to hear this but where I'm from low status men cheat too. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:46 AM
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I don't agree with it but also my country has a weird history with this. I'm African and we have traditions within certain tribes where men opt to go and get circumcised. My boyfriend did this and so have all of my other guy friends because traditionally when a man comes of age here they undergo some rituals which include MGM. I personally don't want it done for my kids because I'm not traditional and believe it's nonsense. But I'm worried someone like my partner might advocate for it because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:31 AM
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Women's bodies are critiqued every damn day on this sub and every other platform. From puberty we're under constant stress and scrutiny over our bodies due to the expectations placed by men. This is a universal thing. This is one of the things I rarely ever feel sorry for because I've personally been made to feel ashamed of my body by men since age 14. I don't think anyone deserves to feel bad over their body but you couldn't pay me to sympathise with men over this when they're main perpetrators…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:20 AM
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You're living my dream. Paid intern who's good at what they do? I wish. 😭 Glad you're enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:54 PM
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Ya that sucks. I'm sorry if that affected you. It wouldn't be a problem for him I think. He'd just finish late cause he started school late. I think the only problem for him would be funding. He'd have no funding and generally family members ask him for money which he already doesn't have. This is more encouragement to go in the field and I'm glad that this is at least something that brings you meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:50 PM
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"Who you know" is a universal strategy and the thing my mom says I suck at the most. I'm terrible at cultivating effective relationships. Peak anti-social. You sound like most of the top students in my class actually. Great talkers and hard workers. Most hard workers and relationship builders go far in life is generally the lesson like you prove and I don't know how I'll get there but I'll have to work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:46 PM
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The degree I was accepted into before this one. At a top institution too. I know so many future chartered accountants. I respect the work and the pay but accounting bores me to tears. Now my degree is making me cry and I'm wondering if I'd have been happier just going with accounting lol. I'm glad it's not bad for you. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:41 PM
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Is being a software professional the work that keeps you mentally stimulated? And why is it more stimulating? I feel like self employment requires a lot of discipline. Like if you're running a business. So your self employment makes you happier but it's the less stimulating one? Am I getting this right? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:38 PM
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Congrats.👏🏾 And I'm glad you enjoy it. What's the difference between a mental health counselor and a therapist? I don't know if they differentiate where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:31 PM
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Ya I believe you. I don't see how one could be so busy with studying medicine and in a relationship. Tbh I love him but I also see him working hard everyday and knowing where he comes from I'd rather let him choose his future over me. I'm going to keep pushing him to pursue it even if it means he'll leave me. I love him beyond just being with him and I genuinely think if he pursued medicine he could give himself access to a secure future and that's my biggest dream for him even if it means I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:29 PM
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Sounds like a standard path. I need to start interning then I guess hopefully by the end of this year. It sounds like the experience and the hard work + your personality mostly got you to where you are. But when you say "extrovert" personality it falls apart for me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:20 PM
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This is so 🥹🥹🥹I feel like it's rare I actually see men in this field. Is it actually rare? I respect this so much and I'm glad you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:14 PM
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You don't have to tell me twice. 😭 I'm trying to convince my partner to go into it so it can help him out of poverty and in doing so I was thinking of swapping to it myself but I know I'd die halfway through. I can barely handle what I'm doing now although I do feel content wise medicine would be easier than what I'm doing now. But hard work wise? No way. Are you going to specialise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:12 PM
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I thought I'd hate something like this in high school but now I feel like I want to move away from the idea of isolating myself. For someone who sounds like they're in a corporate job you sound very happy and that's great. Generally people villainize it online and make it seem soul sucking. For what you do did you get a degree or work your way up? I always wonder how people just end up in sales and other corporate jobs. Like is it more the degree or more working your way up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:09 PM
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Ooooo that high key sounds fun. I like reading and history (I just barely do it these days)! I'm glad you enjoy it. I just searched up a genealogist and that sounds really interesting. I like anything investigative. But I feel like there wouldn't be a big enough demand for something like that in my country but now it's something I'm interested in. Will you ever pursue the other fields? Like will you go back for another degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:03 PM
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What do you guys do career wise and are you happy? If so why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:45 PM
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You're really convincing me and I'm already not cute. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:34 PM
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Why do you think you'd be any different though if your gender changed? I feel like I like daring things even though I haven't really pursued them yet and most women outside of me don't seem neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:37 PM
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You'd be me. Lol. I'm working on the study-cel though and I'd like to think I'm not man-hating any more. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:58 PM
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You guys are always so damn rude and dismissive of any experience that doesn't mirror your own on this sub. We can never engage on a topic with any nuance because any experience unlike your own is a lie. He's one man I know personally so I know his truth he's very religious and inexperienced so I know where he's coming from. You doubt it's so impossible that one young man out of billions doesn't desire to be a hoe just because you and every other man does. Even if it's uncommon it doesn't mean i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:41 PM
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Another case of the self proclaimed "good man" who is never chosen in real life while having the most foul response history on Reddit. It's normal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:18 PM
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You did not need to demolish him like that 😭 In fact this reply fits for way too many of the rants disguised as posts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:12 PM
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I feel like most humans have their own preferences and hate what they can't get. I have a tall guy friend who kept getting propositioned from women to hook up with him and he never took any of them for a long time. He always complained about feeling objectified and even asked me why women don't look at him as relationship material. I even asked him if he wanted to be considered husband material and he said yes. One day he just eventually slept with one of the girls and he immediately regretted i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:08 PM
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Things are going very bad and I've hit a rock bottom but it's my fault and I'm struggling with the fall out. I'm just being immature not manic. My two modes are lying in bed and being lazy or crying and ranting. I'm just bad at emotional regulation. I'll have to get over it and grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:59 PM
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I just blew up at my mother on the phone. I told her I was leaving WhatsApp and I can call and she can call. She called me afterwards to say I'm insensitive for not calling to say that and she's worried. I blew up like the immature shit I am and left the call. After crying for like the 100th time within these last 24 hours I'm only now realising how out of control I got and how erratic I sounded. I'm now realising that with little context I probably sound like I'm on drugs. I'm going to the salo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:19 PM
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💞Sympathies to you too. Right? I guess I keep selling myself a picture of what life should look like and I compare myself to others and I fall short in many ways. I think I just worry that no matter where I go I'll always be the problem. I've never known anyone as self isolating and as pessimistic as me so sometimes I think the only way to take out the problem is just to take myself out completely. But it honestly just requires more initiative on my part. I'll try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:12 AM
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I'm bad at reading people so take what I say with a grain of salt. You sound well intentioned but you low-key also remind me of those guys who constantly say "I don't want to cheat on you" as a silent warning because they know that they're going to cheat on you. I don't know you, but giving you the benefit of the doubt says I'll assume you're a good person. You seem to hyper fixate over past behaviour. You also seem to overthink. Don't stress too much about the wrong you've done in the past. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:58 AM
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Was avoiding everyone for a long time and only left the house yesterday for the first time in days to go and write. One of my semi-friends caught me outside which was not the plan. I told my semi-friend yesterday that if I'm not better as a person by 30 I am out of this world. Like I'm done. And it's so cathartic to have someone calmly approve of you wanting to end yourself without judgement. She was the first person who told me that the only reason most of us remain here is because we have an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:49 AM
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Do you have her account? I want to see something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:36 PM
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I've literally had this thought before!! The men here always claim to be self proclaimed respectful people but if you were to comb through half the things they say on Reddit I would literally not want them to date any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:35 PM
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I disagree with it on a personal level but I've also been on this sub long enough to know you are wasting your time because these men don't care. That's the point you're missing. Men will always find a young girl to trick on. I've gone out of my own way to warn young women in my life and they don't care so now I don't either. You are fighting a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:09 PM
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I went to Instagram to do a bit of my usual lurking and it's obvious a girl I used to attend high school with has had her page hacked. Her bio now has a link to an only fans page claiming it's hers (there's no way that girl would do only fans there's just no way). And most of her posts have been deleted except for a select few. I wonder how that stuff ends up happening. She was quite active on insta. She also comes from a wealthy family with a prominent father. But her family has also been plagu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:36 PM
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You are fighting a losing battle. These men will fight to have the right to date their starter adults and I won't judge them it's legal and these girls are happily consenting too. If people are happily consenting there's not much you can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:28 PM
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Honestly the best argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:05 AM
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Again I think it still varies from woman to woman. I prefer confrontational and think it's still a general form of attractiveness. At the beginning, I immediately wanted to know if my boyfriend actually liked me or I was wasting my time. But I have heard a lot of women say if a guy makes it obvious that they like them they start to get the "ick". But like I said I think that's a toxic archetype that you wouldn't want to date anyway and that kind of person shouldn't be in a normal person's dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:15 AM
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Maintaining relationships is a life skill. I always think I don't matter and then I have people check in on me and then I realise I'm just an asshole. One day I'll push people so far and be left with nothing and I hate it because I don't know how to maintain relationships. Or I'm just selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:05 AM
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What do you mean "fall for it". Women don't fall for it some women are attracted to it but generally it's due to upbringing. My friend liked the aggressiveness of the guy at first because she thought it made him more "masculine". She also comes from a rural area where ideas of masculinity are more aggressive. She learnt the hard way that, that kind of masculinity is dangerous and now she no longer goes after it. Some women are just vulnerable to certain ideas of attraction due to upbringing espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:57 AM
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Every trait you listed can fall under general attractiveness and it differs from women to women. All the things you listed as general attractiveness are what made me attracted to my boyfriend in the first place. He displayed those things first and that's why we got into a relationship. Had he started off with something like irrational confidence I probably would not have dated him because it's giving delusion. Maybe something like aggression can work but probably in small doses my friend liked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:43 AM
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These women exist but the men on here tend to overblow it. I have a friend like this. Plus size but still wants a guy taller than her. Not 6ft just like 5'5+. She's tried giving men she doesn't find attractive a chance but it's low-key ended up in disaster for both parties 😅I don't mind women like this because them choosing to stay single doesn't really harm anyone. I've never understood why people are bothered by plus size women choosing to stay single if they can't get what they want. They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:15 AM
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You most definitely can. An American woman once told me 5'11 was short for a man. Now I come from a country of short men and that sounded insane to me. 5'6ish is normalised here and I think the average American women would think that's not attractive. So in a way I think what we like is conditioned due to where we're from. I'm African and thick for women is mostly acceptable (skinny is still overall preferred but I don't think as many men are as pedantic as western people). Western people are ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:33 AM
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No they're not. In my country victim blaming doesn't really exist for incels they're kind of just ignored. But ignored is still better than being raped. It's weird because male sexual assault victims deserve more advocacy but men are quiet about them until it's time to dismiss female sexual assault rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:25 AM
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I reported his profile on behalf of you. Please report him and the other useless one and block them. If you can get in contact with the mods (if they exist because they only show up to delete my threads) do that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:19 AM
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I agree but I was just trying to make a point of how youth generally gets no sympathy points from anyone. They're not comparable in any way but the men here never want to hear that. Allyship in terms of women getting assaulted is not the same as men needing help to stay clear of Andrew Tate online. That's just simply why men get less sympathy. Both groups get little to no sympathy but the consequences of sexual assault vs being a boy who doesn't get laid are not comparable I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:16 AM
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Enjoy your cheese and I hope the memories will fade. Good night. 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:59 AM
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Male SA survivors are taken less seriously or dismissed unfortunately. The women here are kind of taken seriously but barely receive any justice so it just sucks all around. In terms of men helping other men I stand by that (not in regards to sexual assault but in regards to everything else). At my residence men would have these events every Monday dedicated to them where they'd get together and talk about personal issues, mental health etc. No women were allowed at these events and the men woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:55 AM
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You're talking about victim blaming? It happens to all young people one way or another. Young women fall prey to manipulation tactics by older men all the time and are consistently blamed and dismissed as victims in my country. Teen pregnancy is so common and we're often told it's young women's fault for not keeping their legs closed. Younger girls who sleep with older men are referred to as "acting grown" and fast. Women who wear risque clothes and get assaulted are blamed for what they were we…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:21 AM
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No you sound like every other girl before starting university. A lot of girls at the beginning of university were on that wavelength of "not like other girls" (peak high school girl mentality) and then once Uni boys started only wanting them for one thing they learnt that forming meaningful connections with other women was more worthwhile. Those female relationships in class will become great assets to you. Don't look at it as a competition and losing an opportunity to stand out. Those women wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:00 PM
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You read my mind. I wanted to make a similar thread. Most women who are with ghetto men are ghetto themselves. Most men claim they only care about looks and yes they may be pretty but these women will put you so far through the ringer it's not worth it. They are as loud, violent and cheating as much as the ghetto men they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:49 AM
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Why not? Being social and meeting friends sounds fun. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:24 PM
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I really just wanted to watch my comfort show on Netflix because it's been a really shitty week and I'd like something nice to end it but for some reason the account is blocked on my laptop and now I'm wallowing. 😭 My luck is on 0 this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:23 PM
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I was with you for woke as an insult but you don't believe in the moon landing? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:12 PM
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Oh my that's young and I'm long past that apologies.🙏🏾😅But that's an accomplishment nonetheless so congrats and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:47 PM
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Congrats. 😭👏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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I'm jealous of anyone who gets to graduate. I'm never leaving this degree. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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They're attention seeking. They know they're not mid and the men of Reddit are easy as hell. Nothing wrong with attention seeking I do it all the time too except I just complain how shit I am and how my life choices never pan out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:40 PM
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I wonder if the difference is because you're hearing from different people and different demographics. Obviously we're not all experiencing the same thing. In my age group (university) it's not normal to see younger women dating older men but I don't think the average university girl is. We are in very close proximity to men in our age group. For lack of a better term "dick is plentiful in this environment". Someone who's not in university may see it more often. Go to the threads on a sub like r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:32 PM
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I actually don't really mind prostitution and passport bros (when done ethically). I feel like it's a better alternative than trying to force women into relationships with you when they clearly don't want to be in them. If women were starved enough they'd choose to be with men they don't want to be with but they're content with themselves so that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:21 AM
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I misread it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:35 PM
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Moving like a single person is when you're in a relationship but you still act like someone who's not in one. I.e. going on dating apps, hanging out with the opposite sex one on one late into the evenings, sleeping over at the opposite sex's house while you're in a relationship. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:22 PM
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I feel like I'm more jealous of this type of woman than hate them🤔. My semi-friend is like this and in the past I've felt jealousy towards her rather than hatred. I still want good things to come her way. I'm not jealous of the crazy ex though. Men here will kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:17 PM
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I love how you guys can just make up anything and the rest of us are expected to just take it as fact. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:29 AM
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Very quick and very long at the same time. It's a weird time line. They got together in October last year in March when we got back to school she found out he entered a relationship with her while he was still dealing with an ex from back home so technically that was the first incident. I feel bad because I told her to forgive him (my dumbass was confused about the timeline and I believe in giving a person the benefit of the doubt) so they stayed together. In April one of his friends referred to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:12 AM
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My acquaintance/semi friend finally dumped her cheating boyfriend!!! Hallelujah!!!! I'll never understand how she of all people got cheated on (pretty, petite, skinny, funny and smart) but it goes to show that you can be the ideal girl and if someone is unserious about you you're wasting your time. What I still don't get is why a guy will spend so much time trying to woo you, complimenting you, introducing himself to your friends, saying he has a future with you, spending money on you and still …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:25 AM
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I'm grown now but I'll talk about high school cause I think there is the first experience for most serious mixed relationships. The friendship groups I hung around we didn't really discuss men. I was in a group with 5 girls and we were all quite prudish (we were mostly the outcasts within our grade cause we were all quite socially awkward and quiet. 😅) so we never really talked about guys in the way you said. There were actually a few mixed gender groups in my high school so I'm surprised you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:46 PM
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Ya preferences can be hypocritical but not values. Imagine me saying you can't be a robber but I can rob you. That's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:20 PM
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Honestly I feel just as incompetent as you OP (can't drive and suck at school) and for some odd reason this makes me feel less as a woman. I go through depressive phases where I overeat, am lazy and just become overall less attractive and ugly. I actually sympathise with you. I think it doesn't discount women because men don't give a damn about competence if they find a girl attractive or they can use her for sex. They don't have higher standards so women don't have to act right that's simply th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:26 PM
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Thank you! The only thing I'm consistently on is birth control nothing else. At most I'll take iron, calcium, magnesium basic vitamins nothing hectic. I have more of a problem with starting and being consistent than focusing I'd say. Like if I were trying to complete an assignment I'm more likely to stress eat or get demotivated if I'm not able to complete it not because I'm struggling to focus but because I'm anxious that it won't be done up to standard or on time. I experience more analysis pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:10 PM
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Serotonin syndrome? That's a new one I'll Google. I'll keep that in mind. Ya I don't remember what I was prescribed then. He just said, "it might give you the motivation to get out of bed in the morning" but he also warned me that it won't fix me and that if I'm not consistent I'll have too many mood swings so I opted to keep the prescription but not take it because I was afraid I wouldn't be consistent and try relying on medication to fix me. He also told me I'm lazy and self sabotaging so I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:37 PM
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I have not. 😅In fact I've never heard of it. The last time I took an SSRI was in my first year of uni and I'm in my third now. Kind of just checked it out. I'll have to ask a doctor about it and check if it's over the counter. I think the last month the doctor prescribed me something to increase serotonin because I struggle with motivation but now I can't remember if serotonin is the one needed for motivation and effort. This one looks cool and if it decreases my appetite that's a bonus. Thank y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:16 PM
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I'm unfortunately still a binge eater and still depressed unfortunately 😅My weight fluctuates from month to month. Two weeks ago I was very healthy and got to 55kg (I'm short and I don't carry my weight well so this is still a bit high for me) since then for the last 2 weeks I've been bingeing again and I've probably gained 2kg now. I'm currently failing Uni so I'll be stressed and depressed until the end of May and probably gain more. Like I was literally bingeing 20 minutes ago lol. My progres…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:37 PM
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This definitely varies from society to society. In my world it's corrupt politicians, corrupt policemen, criminals, rapists and pedophiles. I feel like for most societies single mothers are a symptom of those other things. Here we have single mothers because of general lack of education. So much could be improved if politicians didn't steal the funding for education. Things like basic sex education are barely taught and enforced. Birth control is seen as the cause of sex and not a tool to preven…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:20 PM
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I binge eat.🤗 I have a binge addiction. Don't do it. It makes you fat and more depressed. I knew a girl who when she got emotional would run and exercise a lot. She got really skinny though and had to be put in a facility for anorexia. I think it's a good outlet though in moderation. So try running and fitness. Another friend of mine just works and ignores her emotions. I wish I had that coping mechanism. Or you can acknowledge the sadness and hurt and journal and cry. It's not effective enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:13 PM
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Ya this. But this I was told more of when I was child. Now as an adult nobody explicitly says it to me but it comes across subtly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:03 PM
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Ooooo I love this one. 😅My previous roommate would always quote it and it would make me feel on top of the world. I should start saying this to myself in the morning for more confidence. Edit: THANK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:53 PM
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Do you mean they don't bother with denouncing a woman's womanhood? Those terms are demeaning but aren't they meant to shame women for not conforming to womanhood (i.e. whore = not having a low body count)? There are other terms too. Fat bitch, washed up and hit the wall which shame women for not being the ideal? I feel like I receive social pressure from men for not being ideal women despite men claiming they don't place that pressure on women. I'm chubby, awkward and kind of friendless and I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:51 PM
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There's that phrase, "not a real man" or "not man enough" where a man is basically dismissed for not being outwardly masculine and the male ideal but is the female equivalent possible? Like "not a real woman" or "not woman enough". 🤔Like there's an idea of what the average woman is or female experience is on the internet and real life. Has many friends or at least people they talk to, social, smart, pretty yada yada. But if you don't experience life that way is it weird to feel less of a woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:27 PM
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Idk there's a bridge right over my school and it's very tempting. But it's quite low so the most I'd get is mangled or hit by a car. Hanging or sleeping pills are the next best thing I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:02 PM
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Thanks for this. I feel like a failure and I don't see any way out but the perspective is really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:10 PM
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Failed a math module I was already repeating for the second time. I'll basically fail out of my degree and I also just realised how difficult it is to socialise with other women and why I really have no friends. I had two acquaintances (one who I perceived as a friend) of mine get along with each other much better than I do with either of them and I realised it's hopeless for me to try and make any friends. I'm basically a failure as a woman and a human being. Edit: for clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:09 PM
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Thank you. That's inspirational at least. I hope things get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:21 PM
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Can someone please convince me that failing university is not worth killing yourself over and that failing to have any friends as a woman is not a reason to throw oneself over a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:16 PM
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I agree. I do sympathise. I also think a lot of men on this sub (on Reddit in general) also simultaneously make it difficult to sympathise with. Wanting a relationship is human and anybody understands the desire for that. I think two things that shoot men down from gaining sympathy is 1. going out of your way to insult women you typically don't find attractive (over 30s, single moms, fat women, unattractive women, promiscuous women) whilst asking for sympathy makes people not care to listen. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:20 PM
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Really? Literally go on any popular sub dominated by men and you'll see gold-diggers and ugly women being shamed daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:01 AM
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Coming from a third world country that suffered a long term drought and has some of the highest rape statistics in the world I think there is just something so insanely ignorant about trying to even equate not having water to not having access to sex. You guys never fail to disappoint and be out of touch. Men who view sex as much as a need as water go out of their way to violate the rights of women and children. One should never view them as equal because it leads to undesirable consequences for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:36 PM
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Whew. I'm too broke for an award but if I could give you one I would. This paragraph is everything. You hit the nail directly on the head in the last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:52 PM
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Someone is expressing their experience of being sexually harassed and you come with this bullshit? Fuck you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:47 PM
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Fuck them!!! This experience is too common. I'm really sorry girl and I hope you were able to move past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:34 PM
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I don't disagree. Especially with how male sexuality is devalued but honestly men perpetuate this more than anyone like you said. Every man on the internet tells us that a woman who's slept with more men is ploughed through, used up etc. I always thought that if a woman loses more value with more men she is intimate with doesn't that mean men are more undesirable or worthless since they decrease your worth. Whereas if having more women increases your worth then obviously women are more worthy if…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:16 AM
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But, some of them are so eager to insult every batch of women they don't like in such a heinous way that I wonder is it even possible for you to like the things you claim you want. How you speak about what you don't find attractive says a lot more about you than how you speak about what you do find attractive. Most women I know just ignore what they don't like. The men in spaces like these must beat down and berate the "low quality" women they don't want and I wonder even if you were to find a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:34 PM
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That's what I've always wondered on this sub. Like you guys obviously hate women so much why would you even want to engage??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:01 AM
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Girl, I'd give up. He's being so vague and I don't see anyone who understands what he's saying. Somehow women are at fault and have too much freedom that's limiting men in society. He keeps failing to explain how so we're all confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:22 PM
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Then I concede to not knowing what you're talking about. You're making loaded statements without being specific. But I see everyone else seems equally as confused with what you're trying to say so good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:19 PM
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Men's freedom was "regulated" because it was limiting women's rights! In the past women couldn't own their own credit cards, had to marry for financial stability, couldn't vote etc. Nowadays we have the freedom to do all of that. And I have a problem with how you view freedom. Why do you equate giving women more independence as regulating men's freedom? In the past black people were barred from attending any school they wanted, using certain public toilets and attaining certain jobs. Was grantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:45 PM
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Lol what do you expect to be done about this? Force women to be with men they don't want? Nobody prioritizes this issue because there's no solution that doesn't infringe on women's freedom and autonomy. Independence was prioritised so that everyone could have equal rights. Nobody is keeping men dependent. A relationship is luck of the draw and this goes for every person. There's no way anyone can guarantee you a relationship and beyond that there's no way anyone can guarantee you a happy relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:22 PM
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I can't deny that some women chase 10's and some don't. That's life I guess. But then again no one I know uses dating apps and where I'm from us chubby girls stick to our lane. We know we're not most guys' preference. Most of us just reciprocate the attention we get if we find the man cute too. If we don't get attention (which was me for most of my life) we just quietly make peace. In reality most of us are aware of what men like and where we stand on the desirability pole. I'm used to men here …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:09 AM
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I'm sorry but I don't sympathise. My fat friend doesn't settle if she doesn't want to. My guy friends who can't get the girls they want don't settle. My chubby ass got the guy I wanted and he wanted me back. If he didn't I'd have been alone and made peace. No one is forcing you to settle and cheat on others, you wanted to be a shit person on your own. You can't be bitter at people because they dare to exist and not be your preference. If they're not your preference don't choose them. I'm not goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:45 AM
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Agree. I didn't realise how important dressing was until I realised all the guys I crushed on before dressed well with fitted clothes. Even an average man can appeal to one woman and he maximises his chances just by trying. I wouldn't focus too much on looksmatch. If you chose to be in a relationship with someone you obviously find them attractive and that's none of my business. If you don't find them attractive don't enter a relationship with them. A relationship is between two people, I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:37 AM
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Maybe if you're older I think money and stability will matter more, that's why women demand it more. I'm in uni so we just care about looks but I imagine practicality matters more later in life. We also have a problem with obesity in my country and men choose chubby women here all the time. Honestly if you don't want a chubby woman don't choose her. Sick and tired of men saying they deserve better than that. If you don't want a fat girl leave them but stop complaining that they can exist and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:34 AM
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Maybe. Every man was invisible to me until I met my boyfriend. And my boyfriend said he'd had a crush on me for the longest before we talked. I'm far from any type of attractive and I was overweight too. I feel like it would have made more sense for him to have a crush on any other women. Sometimes I feel like it's just noticing someone and feeling attracted. It feels more like luck and biology rather than intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:28 AM
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Good luck for the proposal! 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:26 AM
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Thank you! I love to brag about my man and how I find him hot and people in here act like only one type of man can be a preference it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:25 AM
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I've noticed men have a tendency to shout at women who don't want certain things when they can just find women who do. There are women who desire age gap relationships but they stay screaming at the ones who don't want them to accept them. There are women who are traditional but they continue to scream at the ones who aren't. There are women who generally want the same things as you but for some reason they love to keep trying to convince and shame women who don't want those things to want them …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:05 PM
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Question why do some men seem like they enjoy this? I'm a non-traditional woman so I don't mind spending on men and my friends in general. My best friend will not allow me to spend at all on him. Every time I would try and pay for a meal for both of us he'd refuse even if I suggested food. The one time I paid for a meal it was because I tricked him into thinking we'd go half by having the waiter give me the bill. He hated me having to pay for anything and I don't get why. Is it a pride thing? My…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:52 PM
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Just for interest sake honestly. I like bringing up the points and questions asked and stated here to the men I know in real life. The men I know in real life tend to be less critical than the men here and less antagonistic towards women. It's fun to compare the responses of my male peers with the male responses here. They mostly differ and it's interesting to see. It reminds me how people on social media will differ a lot to people in real life who regularly engage with other people. It sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:37 PM
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I don't always agree with women but I don't always think that women are wrong either like the men in this sub. Funny enough the men I meet in real life tend to be less critical and more objective towards women than the men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:33 PM
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The best response ever! You should make this as a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:54 PM
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Ehhh I feel like most women don't perceive it as a privilege because it comes with the potential threat of violence, pregnancy, dissatisfaction and damage to one's reputation depending on who and how many you sleep with. I think it's only a privilege if it's something you want. If I give the average guy a lifetime supply for free manicures he might not care to think about it as a privilege because most men don't care to get their nails done but for me ,as a girl who can barely afford that, it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:23 PM
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Ya I get you I also mostly write from a female perspective. I was being unnecessarily snarky. It sucks, but it's reality unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:31 PM
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Ummmm ya this is for everyone 😅Even for women. I could've met a guy and he ended up being an abuser or I could have met a wonderful guy and he turned out to be the love of my life. Luck is a numbers game mostly. More numbers more luck probably. But even with greater numbers it doesn't guarantee good treatment. That comes down to luck too unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:53 PM
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This is such a sound and reasonable take. Thank you.n
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:26 PM
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I think women prefer the things that an older man may have not necessarily older men themselves. Older men are likely to have more money, more status and generally stability. My friends and I (college aged) all prefer guys our own age. I have a friend who prefers older men but she thinks it's because they're "more mature" and have "more money". And even though she prefers them she still only pursues guys our own age. An older roommate of mine tried to date and pursue an older man because she tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:06 AM
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Maybe she'll engage with a man who was also into hookup culture? Idk man y'all are so unserious. My boyfriend's had way more partners and I've only had him and I feel like I didn't think about it this deeply. Life happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:22 AM
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Tbh I see this as an everyone problem nowadays. It's probably the reason why long-term relationships suffer. Cause most of us just aren't too interesting. I agree with whoever said to be interesting you must be interested. As a woman, I'm trying to work on this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:24 AM
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True. I also cry when I'm angry. Very embarrassing and it tends to understate my anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:58 PM
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You likened attraction to love though saying it wasn't a choice. Which I disagree with by the way. Love is both a feeling and a choice. Most people will generally fall in love with those they are attracted to. But people are also generally attracted to specific preferences and standards which makes who they fall in love with conditional. The premise of who someone is choosing to fall in love with is generally based on who they are attracted to and that is conditional. For as long as you are choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:26 PM
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That's still a form of conditional love. If you're only falling in love with those you're attracted to that's still conditional. Why were you attracted to them? You were attracted due to conditional reasons. Whether it's appearance, intelligence, humour etc if you were attracted to them for any reason that made you choose that person as a partner that is conditional. Why were you attracted to that individual specifically? It's because they fit into whatever condition you desire. Equating attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:17 PM
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Disagree. My boyfriend has way less money than me and does for me what he can. By your definition I have unconditional love for him. I disagree. I fell for him because of the way he looks, his charm, humour etc. I love him but I don't have unconditional love for him and I don't think I should. The love for any partner you choose is governed by conditions. You choose them for the way they look. That premise is already conditional. You stay with them for the personality they exhibit. That is also …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:45 PM
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This is not it. You probably thought of those things because you were aware of the fact that most women (or at least the women in your life) have felt or been threatened by men. Otherwise you shouldn't be giving a fuck about the average woman. I shouldn't have to worry about the average man. This is what women mean when they say y'all have "male entitlement" because why should I be caring beyond giving basic respect to the average man. I'll think about those other things you listed when I'm in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:02 PM
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I actually want to make a post about this. A guy in another comment section posted how women tend to be worried about men "embarrassing" them and I think this is where the ick thing may stem from. But I agree overall women have more behavioural icks for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:54 PM
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Ya well it obviously doesn't work for women so I don't know why the fuck y'all keep on doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:04 PM
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It's not directly physical attraction but that doesn't change the fact that it changed her feelings to find him physically desirable. It still affected her ability to want to pursue a physical relationship with him and that's what men here constantly negate. She was able to find him physically repulsive because of his lack of money. There are women who will not get aroused because a man is broke. They'll have a physical reaction against the guy due to the guy's traits such as being broke. He did…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:51 PM
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I didn't say I'm speaking for all women. Sorry if my generalisation comes across like that. I'm speaking for women like Abby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:41 AM
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Ya my dumbass made this argument shitty. The main point I was trying to make was that it's possible for women to physically objectify men because of his money. Like a guy who finds a woman with a big ass physically desirable, woman can find a man more physically desirable because of his money. Men here say that their money or earning potential can't make a woman find them anymore physically attractive and that a women who likes a guy with money finds him ugly most of the time but I'm a believer …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:40 AM
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Disagree. You can have genuine physical attraction to someone and still want to leave them because they don't have money. THAT'S ABBY! She found the guy physically attractive until she found out he's studying a "broke course". The guy is hot! But he became a lot less physically attractive to her once she thought they'd be too poor in the future. He's physically attractive but not attractive enough because he doesn't have money. Some women will accept it but other women will require you to have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:03 AM
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Ya maybe this varies from woman to woman and I can't provide the proper answer for that. I know for me personally I feel more physically attracted to a man if he shows that he can earn money. I think in the case of a trust fund kid his money wouldn't contribute to my physical desire for him. But for a man who clawed his way out of poverty I'd get more physically attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:30 AM
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My argument is that women find men more physically attractive because of the money. Like I said she could find a man more physically desirable because of his money because she believes it signifies ambition or drive. Some women may find a man physically attractive but if he doesn't have money she'll lose that attraction and not want to commit. It's fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:27 AM
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Ya my dumbass kind of got off topic. The main point of my argument is just that having money as a man can contribute to your sex appeal. A point that's often dismissed here. Whether men want a relationship or not was not as relevant as the fact that a woman can find you desirable when you have money. Not only as someone worth committing to but she can actually find you more desirable because of you having money or high earning potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:18 AM
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I strongly agree with you but that doesn't stop some women from not finding you attractive because you don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:09 AM
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To repeat myself: women view that ability for you to accumulate money as a part of you. That ambition and drive makes a man as sexy as being a pretty woman. It's the equivalent for some of us. That's why a woman can be completely turned off if you don't have it. It could signify you don't have that drive or ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:51 PM
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Ya but women view that ability for you to accumulate money as a part of you. That ambition and drive makes a man as sexy as being a pretty woman does. It's the equivalent for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:49 PM
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I guess you view having money as a fickle thing but I kind of view my looks in the same way for men. I don't really view my looks as a part of me either because my genetics were by chance. I didn't earn my looks. Unless, I put in effort to be pretty which is equal to a guy putting in effort to earn money. I too wonder if I fall in acid tomorrow and get facial scars or if I gain a shit ton of weight would my partner leave me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:30 PM
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Ok... so are you trying to imply that you and most men don't prioritise commitment and would you prefer to be desirable over having commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:25 PM
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Did being desirable but broke convince women to commit to you? And would you have preferred to be desirable but never have any women want to commit to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:18 PM
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So you'd prefer to be physically lusted over even if that woman would not want to commit to you at all? Like if she was willing to only sleep with you once or twice cause you're hot and then ditch and leave you after because you're broke, you're cool with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:17 PM
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Your poor wife. This take is so exceptionally stupid. You only go out with the prospect of meeting and observing attractive women? Not everyone goes out looking for people to fuck and ogle at. When I go out with friends we go to lunch, roller skating, hiking etc. the intention is to do activities with my friends and spend quality time. This means talking about life and having fun. Not everyone goes out with the intention of meeting and observing a potential mate. Generally there are dense takes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:40 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that people shouldn't be bothering her over it. Whether she's overweight or not you don't have the right to go out of your way to treat her like trash. If you're not attracted to an overweight person just leave them alone and focus on who you are attracted to don't bully them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 AM
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