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| 3 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upYeah, let me just grow myself over six feet. Give me a sec . . . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 04:30 AM |
| 26 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".He WAS arrested. He was only released after she confessed to lying. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 04:01 AM |
| 22 | Woman lies about being raped and gets innocent man arrested on multiple felonies and one million dollars bail. Her justification? She thought he "looked creepy".https://6abc.com/post/anjela-borisova-urumova-arrested-bucks-county-woman-admits/14848866/ https://www.cbsnews.com/philadelphia/news/anjela-urumova-daniel-pierson-redners-bucks-county-attempted-rape-kidnapping/ https://www.buckscounty.gov/CivicAlerts.aspx?aid=1046 https://bucks.crimewatchpa.com/da/29567/post/woman-charged-lying-about-attempted-rape-and-kidnapping-middletown https://levittownnow.com/2024/05/20/woman-fabricated-attempted-rape-kidnapping-cops-say/ https://lawandcrime.com/crime/20-y… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Is it oppressive when men achieve goals?Women hate seeing men being successful. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 02:54 AM |
| 9 | Paternity Tests Should Be Destigmatized. Why do you think Women are still so against it? Is it Paternity Fraud reasons?Why do you think Women are still so against it? Because they are afraid of getting caught cheating, they want a paycheck, and they don't respect the actual male experience. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 02:51 AM |
| – | Its ok for men to have preferences, but its not ok to belittle someone"Women are allowed to talk about men in any vitriolic manner, but men should always talk about women in a respectful and chivalrous way." -your typical feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?You might be thinking of this article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.women are going to judge back. Women have always judged men based on how they look. Are you pretending they haven't? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.I don't know why women would be offended by men judging them based on how they look/act, when women judge men all the time on how they look/act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?There are a lot of Lefties here saying they don't date Conservative men, or don't know any Lefty women who date Conservative men. Leftist women might not want to date openly Conservative men, but they certainly still love dating men who embody traditional masculine roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:41 PM |
| – | Its ok for men to have preferences, but its not ok to belittle someoneHow is it any different from women belittling men they don't find attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”wear more flattering clothes, have better hair cuts /styling. We pluck and shave and wax and push-up and suck in and paint and dye and extend and enhance and constrict and compress and exfoliate and moisturize But men are supposed to be the shallow gender. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 02:12 AM |
| 8 | How should a guy approach a group of women?Woman A: "Don't do X, do Y." Woman B: "Don't do Y, do X." Man does X. Women Everywhere: "oMg MeN aRe So DuMb WhEn It CoMeS tO dAtInG!!!!!!1!1!1!1!1!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:47 AM |
| 0 | What is Creepiness?When a woman is feeling particularly paranoid/anxious/insecure, every man around her is a potential creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:28 AM |
| 4 | What is Creepiness?Creepy means acting in a strange way, not looking a particular way. My sister called a guy "creepy" because he wore socks with sandals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doIf every guy dressed like Johnny Depp, the unique and stand out guy would be Mark Zuckerburg. That's literally just how averages and normalcy works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doHow unique and remarkable . . . . . /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doMost women put so much more time effort and money into their appearance - hair, clothing, nails, makeup, eyelash extensions etc. And people think men are the "shallow" gender. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 09:45 AM |
| 12 | "Men only notice attractive women". Is this really true?It's true. I bump into ugly women all the time because I don't notice them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 09:38 PM |
| 19 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?I don’t know if it’s because men aren’t approached regularly This is how often an average guy gets asked out. 🤏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:57 AM |
| 20 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?why else would I purposefully remain alone with him. Friends do this all the time. A few years later, we have been online chatting for weeks (and I mean sometimes up to 6-7 hours a day). Friends do this all the time. If I didn’t ask him - “So, when are you taking me out?”, we might have walked different paths. So you admit that being direct is the best approach for signaling romantic interest, instead of using dumbass signs. Got it. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?"hey I like you, what's up?" That doesn't mean anything. I like a lot of people, doesn't mean I want to fuck any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:46 AM |
| 17 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?"Men shouldn't assume that small platonic gestures are indicators of romantic interest." "omg i asked this guy if he wanted to go to a party with me and he said no even though we hang out all the time he is totally oblivious to the fact that i like like like him because asking someone to a party is totally an obvious sign that a girl like like likes you." Hmmm, I wonder why men could be confused . . . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to what they find attractiveThe fact that race/ethnicity and height are deal breakers, shows that the whole "women's standards are higher and more wholesome" is complete bullocks. What does race/ethnicity and height have anything to do with character? Women may have MORE standards, but they are not BETTER standards. Let's stop pretending that women date more ethically than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Is simping really that big of a problem?The main problem with simps, is that a lot of them are undercover incels. If you disappoint a simp, they will turn on you and curse you and hate you with equal or more passion. Simps have a pedestal mindset, and their obsession can easily turn dangerous. That guy who regularly donates $1,000 to a random girl just so she will give him a compliment? He's one step away from doxxing her and breaking the law in a violent way. Healthy people don't fanatically worship strangers for validation. Simps ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?Yeah, look at all these desperate men. https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonelywomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/singlemoms/ https://old.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/ https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonely/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/ https://old.reddit.com/r/loneliness/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?Spoken like a real incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?An incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?You view traditional women’s roles and traditional femininity as entirely worthless to humanity, and clearly believe women are inferior for fulfilling their traditional roles… I actually don't believe any of that. You are projecting your own fears. All I did was speak upon men's historical contributions to civilization, and you took that as an attack on traditional femininity. You are being paranoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 03:43 AM |
| 0 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?No one cares about your relationship status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:22 PM |
| 11 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Yes, men like pretty women, and pretty women get some things easier. Is that your big point? My point, is that women are the driving force behind female physical expectations. Women are the ones who harshly judge other women for minuscule physical features. Women are the ones who needlessly shit talk about other women. Women are the ones who create the online female beauty community. Women are the ones who voluntarily participate in this female aesthetic obsessed culture. You can't blame men for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:23 PM |
| 17 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.What men care about have nothing to do with what women do. Women admit that they wear makeup for themselves, and that they wear makeup even when they don't go outside. Women are responsible for female insecurity. Saying otherwise is incel shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?I bring in more It's about damn time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?we do not need to have romantic relationships with men these days in order to survive or have social standing And you can thank men for that. Who do you think taught the first female scientists? Who do you think taught the first female engineers? Who do you think taught the first female astronaut? Men did. But keep thinking men aren't shit and that all women are these perfect innocent intelligent angels. Maybe you oughta become a lesbian if you think women are so much better than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:40 PM |
| 17 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.The only difference is, that when it comes to the mess of a woman, compared to the mess of a man, the standards for that woman will always be HIGHER in comparison to that man. And since the expectations of her are higher, she will be better. A woman that is a mess is still socially expected to make herself physically attractive. Even if she's a fat, disfigured, and disabled cripple. Society still expects her to put makeup on her one eye, wear something attracting, and get a wig if her hair is fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:33 PM |
| 0 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?Well I literally don’t know a woman in my entire life that hasn’t relied on a man to work more and make more money than them to help support them. I concur. Literally all the women in my life make less (or even zero) than their husband. My dad makes more money than my mom. My two older brothers make more money than their wives. My sister makes less money than her husband. If these men just suddenly disappeared, some of these women would literally be homeless. But a man brings nothing to the tabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:20 AM |
| 0 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?It just so happens that I'm only willing to have that from men who does his share of the chores and any potential childrearing and we aren't doing the head of the household dynamic. Are you going to bring in an equal amount of income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:13 AM |
| 3 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?According to Feminists, men bring nothing to the table. With that logic, smart women would avoid men forever and go live on some lesbian island somewhere, where they can live amongst other perfect sane women, forever and ever. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:03 AM |
| -2 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?No, we don’t need you. The irony of this comment that is posted on a website created by men, connected to the internet which was created by men, used by people through a computer/keyboard/monitor that was created by men, made possible through an electrical grid that was/is researched/created/maintained by men, a grid that is powering the house you live in that was constructed by men. If men weren't around, you would still be living in a cave. But keep pretending like you are above us. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onThere is truth to it, and it is a standard worth obeying if you are one of those women that don't like being hit on by male strangers, or if you're a guy that doesn't want to be seen as a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?incels believe: that they are never wanted by women. But this is true, and to say otherwise is gaslighting. Most women don't want to date most men, and even less women want to date incels, because they don't want to date socially stunted and physically unattractive men. Giving incels hope for dating is ultimately cruel, because you're keeping them in that dating hell, instead of giving them the truth of their dating futility, and allowing them to give up and try to be happy a different way. Men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onIRL, the women who mind it and the women who don't mind it, look basically the same. A man can't tell whether a random woman is open to a conversation or not. In this age of MeToo and women's rights, it's better for men to err on the side of caution, and assume that most women want to be left alone; It's for the better of humankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?The women who are open to talking to male strangers, and the women who are not open to talking to male strangers, look basically the same. The mistake of talking to the wrong woman, could mean that his face becomes the next example in her online rant about male harassment. If you care about what women want, you would also care about what women don't want, and women have unanimously declared that they don't want male strangers bothering them when they are out in public. That's not me saying it, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onWarm approach works best in situations where it's normal to talk but not explicitly for dating. Women don't want to be warm approached either. They don't want it at work, or at a rec club, or at a music festival. Women don't want to talk to male strangers, period. Again, it's not me saying it, it's women saying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are you still single?I asked out a woman for the first time two years ago. She said no, and I didn't feel one bit hurt. In fact, I was proud of myself, because I finally got the courage to do it at least once in my life. It's about your expectations. If you NEED a yes, then of course you're going to be devastated, because you put all this unnecessary emotion into needing to succeed. If you don't care too much either way, then losing is not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onWomen do not like being cold/warm approached by male strangers in public. That's not me saying it, it's women saying it. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ Women only put up with cold/warm approach because OLD hadn't existed yet. IRL meeting is archaic, cringe, and creepy. That's the new rule. I didn't make it up; women did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onWhat other options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onITT: Bitterness. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onthey don't try to meet women beyond swiping on an app IRL approaching is cringe and crosses over into creep territory depending on the woman being approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you recommend your single friends to each other?People are usually single for a good reason. If someone wants to find a partner, and have what it takes to do so, they will do it on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?Going anywhere with the sole intention of just talking to women is creep shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:17 PM |
| -1 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?"but only men can be pathetic incel angry cry baby losers" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botheryou’re missing out on women that actually like you. If a woman was actually interested in a man, she would show it to him. When women show disinterest, it usually literally means she's disinterested in him. Disinterest is an obvious "hint" that he should move on, or else be seen as creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherYou can build a rapport with a woman then she can change her mind. That is creep behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:55 AM |
| 3 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherHe has already given up on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherthey could be missing out on women that are interested in them. If men don't get the hint quickly, they could be seen as creeps for staying around too long. Men don't have the luxury of waiting forever to see if she's interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 03:47 AM |
| -1 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?Because people want to live in a world where they can do the least and still obtain the most. https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonelywomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/singlemoms/ https://old.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/ https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonely/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/ https://old.reddit.com/r/loneliness/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be.Survivorship Bias. Height matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:46 AM |
| 0 | The observable differences between males and females are biological -- now what?Truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Unnecessary sassiness. I grew up in the ghetto, and the sassy women are always the trashiest. They are the loudest, and the rudest, and the most annoying women to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Men and Women both do the exact same things they complain about in dating.That's Black Pill. Black Pill proposes that dating is futile. Red Pill proposes ruthless machismo as the best course of action for male dating success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 5 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?This is the right answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?guys that treat women as people. No entitlement, no drama, no nothing. They speak to the women like they are no different. This in turn makes the women intrigued. This is false. Women actually prefer benevolent sexism, because it feels like equality. Men who treat women with actual equality, are seen as sexist, because men aren't afraid to treat other men with coldness and harshness, so when men display coldness and harshness to women, women perceive that as misogyny. study found that women were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?Must take a lot of courage to beat up 25 aspies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:52 AM |
| 7 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?very social, assertive and charismatic. The guys that can talk to anyone, be comfortable with anyone and are just always fun and interesting to be around — they do really well. Sociability is by far the tallest bar any man will ever have to jump if he wants to be successful with women. This is why autistic/aspie men struggle so much with dating, and why most incels are on the spectrum. Showering daily and upgrading your wardrobe is much easier than changing your brain chemistry. Autism/aspergers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Women say they don’t want to “mother” their man, but expect the guy to “daddy” herWomen want the liberation from Feminism and the benevolent sexism from traditionalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:37 AM |
| 12 | Would gender roles and dating dynamics be different if men didn’t prioritize sex so much? (ie: “think with their dicks”). If so, how? (tagged NSFW just in case)This is the right answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:58 AM |
| -1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himive avoided complimenting handsome men for fear that they’ll misinterpret me as being interested in them when i’m not. Then keep not complimenting men. Men go to wars and get blown up; you not complimenting men is the least of men's problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:57 AM |
| 24 | What happens when people "give up"?Yeah but we aren’t crying about it on a daily basis on this sub. Correct. Women cry about being single on different subs. https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonelywomen/ https://old.reddit.com/r/singlemoms/ https://old.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/ https://old.reddit.com/r/dating/ https://old.reddit.com/r/lonely/ https://old.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/ https://old.reddit.com/r/loneliness/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What happens when people "give up"?We never, however, hear from people who actually gave up or quit long ago. Because they either found peace being single, or they killed themselves due to the immense depression of being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What are true red flags in a potential spouse?You seem very obsessed with porn. Have you seen a therapist about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | What are true red flags in a potential spouse?You ever try to control your husband? Ever try to influence him to do something else or think something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Are men a lot more emotional than they would like to believe?Considering every war was started by men, and considering most murders/assaults/rapes/suicides are done by men, I would say that men are very much prone to being "emotional". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:31 AM |
| 5 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?No. Most women are not willing to date most men, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Psychopathic men have an extreme focus on mating at the expense of other domains and tend to be “parasitic” fathersSo women would sooner have children with a psychopath than a boring guy. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Why is it most women view low self esteem in a guy a red flag, but most guys view low self esteem as not a deal breaker?Men are more forgiving of bad traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 8 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menwomen spend so much time and money trying to appeal to men. No, they don't. Women admit that they doll up for themselves. I cannot speak to plastic surgery but it has been discovered that women primarily wear makeup because they a) enjoy the ritual/feel of it and b) for self-expression. Not primarily for men. Lesbians get boob implants and butt implants too so I doubt that is for men but I don't have any data for that type of plastic surgery. Also yes, many women wear make up in their homes all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menI know right. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.So women complain about men not taking dating seriously, but they themselves don't take dating seriously either. Okay. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | do women envy men in dating?I am resentful of incels for experiencing the same oppressive loneliness I do…except they are able to find community online. https://www.reddit.com/r/lonelywomen/ https://www.reddit.com/r/lonely/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ There, you can feel collectively resentful and lonely like incels now. Congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ These women aren't happy being single. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:22 AM |
| – | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?Most Liberals/Leftists/Democrats are Feminists. What do Feminists say about men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_J0Ng5cUGg&t=2s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQglZPVmoo8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SXqfEziTL4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJ-iNSGrBp0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UheC38wpRYg Yeah, no self respecting man is going to want to be a part of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.If we got to the point of "cuddling in bed" and it didn't get at all sexual then i would assume there was just no chemistry. Asexuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.she prefers being alone. Then why did she bother asking him out? Do you order Pepsi when you prefer Coke? Your friend is either lying or a retard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:41 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.Nah, women are too inept to be direct. That is why they are weak and men rule the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.I will find someone more receptive. Have you found that more receptive man, yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.a lot of women want a guy who can take a hint. And that is why a lot of them are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.when she can just find a better man in the first place? Then why is she still single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:32 AM |
| 7 | What do men want? As candidly and honestly as possible and from a male’s perspective.$1,000,000,000.00 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men?If they admit that they do it for themselves, then they can no longer blame men for influencing them to wear makeup out of insecurity. It's a win for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | For the regulars that debate here and often lock horns, Why?Because we are all losers and fighting is more fun than holding hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:38 AM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?When it comes to dating, some people truly have no chance of success, due to factors that are out of their hands. These are things like mental illness/disability and facial disfigurement. Some people don't want to admit this, but you can literally be so mentally impaired or physically ugly that the general population will "shadow ban" you from the dating market. It doesn't matter how good of a heart you have, or how well of a husband/wife material you may be, if you look like Lizzie Velasquez, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women.Egotistical men over-inflate their n-count. Embarrassed women under-report their n-count. Women sleep with a narrower percentage of men, than vice-versa. (e.g. A-tier man sleeps with five women. Man reports five partners, while the five women report one partner.) Sex-less men are less likely to respond due to shame. This skews the average n-count higher than it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want? Because they are idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Where did you get your opinions about women? From women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?Orbiters are always cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?Maybe. Maybe not. Who cares. People do what they can get away with. If I was a billionaire, I would build an artificial island with a house, in the middle of the ocean, and live the rest of my life alone and in solitude away from the drama of humanity, but I'm not a billionaire so I can't do that. How about we start discussing why young women CHOOSE to date old disgusting men. Women have agency as well; it's about time we start holding them accountable for their actions too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Bring To The TableA 2012 Honda Civic with only 115,000 miles and a few bumps on the trunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealI think the best approach for (heterosexual) men, is to not give a rat's ass about what women want from men. You hear it from women themselves, "all women are different". If that is the case, then it is pointless for a man to shape himself into a woman's idealization of masculinity, because there will always be another woman out there who won't like him for XYZ reason. "Be strong, but not too strong, because too strong is scary, but also be lean because it's sexier, but also don't be skinny beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:06 AM |
| 15 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Have eyebrows. Speak a known language. Don't be bleeding lava out of your orifices. Some real hitters coming from these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Being nice, not entitled, and being hygienic, is not enough to make a man successful in dating. Clearly you have no male friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 16 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?The first responder is already a joke. She really said, "be nice, don't be entitled, and take a shower", as if that is really all it takes to be successful in dating as a man. These women are delusional. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Male VS Female Fitness Mega-ThreadI'm in a depressive phase right now, so my workout routine consists of daily grappling sessions with my own futile existence. But during my good seasons, I'll hit the gym 1-2 times a week. Full body sessions. Strength training only. No cardio (because I'm not a masochist). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:43 AM |
| 29 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Add the asian accent and the guy is basically equipped with a water gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Money is not enough, you need a lifestyleCan we stop this obsession with "20 year old girls"? Some of ya'll sound like straight up predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:28 AM |
| 13 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?I'm curious about what the average guy would look like in 10,000 years. Based off dating trends, the average guy will probably be a little bit taller, and a little bit whiter. The average woman will have more asian-esq features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?My favorite comeback of theirs, is when they try to counter with "i know a girl who only dates asian guys", as if their one weeaboo fetishizing friend is representative of dating norms. They resort to anecdotal "evidence" because they can't produce a study that says racial bias doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Blue Pillers will try and gaslight you and say the studies of negative racial bias in dating towards asian-american men and black-american women aren't real. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Yup. I've seen a girl reject a guy because his shirt was the "wrong color". 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:10 AM |
| 6 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?After reading these comments, Asian-American guys must be "below-average". LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?That is incel talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?It's been scientifically proven that Blue Pillers were picked last in PE and smell like cheez-its. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 9 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?Blue Pillers are like those people in group projects that criticize every idea, but has no better idea to give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?Red Pills say that as well. This is not some big secret. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?What's extreme about acknowledging that women care about height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Double standards - Are they something inherently bad, or just a part of dating?Where all the feminists at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here?Tall men are preferred by most women? Blue pill. That's Red Pill. Blue Pills would say that height doesn't matter because personality trumps all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.This ties in with the whole "women like bad boys" trope. Bad boys rebel against social norms, which is sexy. Bad boys are emotional, which is sexy. Bad boys actively pursue what they want, which is sexy. Good boys conform to social norms, which is boring. Good boys dare not to offend anyone, which is boring. Good boys are passive, which is boring. Good boys don't take risks, which is boring. Good boys are about as exciting as eating plain white bread with a side of skim milk. Women don't like go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 47 | Is there something about autism itself (absent any deliberate behaviors) that are turnoffs for potential mates?I think men are more willing to take a chance on an autistic woman, than women are willing to take a chance on a autistic man. Women care a lot about sociability and first impressions, which is why autistic men usually get written off immediately when they talk to women, because their social awkwardness is immediately apparent to women, and that is an instant turn off. Men are a little more forgiving, and may be willing to take time to know you, but only if you are at least a little bit cute. Ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Straws are also inanimate objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Humans are made up of cells, which can be broken down into molecules, which are further broken down into atoms, which are further broken down into electrons, neutrons, and protons, which are further broken down into quarks and leptons, which are essentially inanimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I need to find me a woman who shares my annoyance for doing laundry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:02 AM |
| 0 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?You're thinking of arrogant douchebags with more ego than brains. I would also consider them incels. Women can usually spot bro-cels straight away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I got ripped just doing laundry. It really works your shoulders and biceps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Oh I talk to plenty of women. I talk to the female custodian when I pass her in my apartment. I talk to the female receptionist at my apartment building. I talk to the bus lady when I take public transport to work. I talk to the homeless lady that always sits at the same corner of the bus with her hairless raccoon. I talk to the hotdog lady when I go out for lunch. I talk to my female supervisor whenever I get in trouble for not properly labeling the folders. I talk to Ms. Wong whenever I go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?You need to sell yourself. Think: what do I have to offer, why would a woman want to date me in particular? Then play to your strengths. You're right. I'm going to walk around carrying a basket full of laundry, and showcase to women how quickly I can fold the towels. Surely, that will win them over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Humans are comprised of inanimate objects, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I'm going to get an edge in this dating thing by doing laundry better than the other men in this apartment building. When these women see how quick and efficient I am with handling my laundry, surely they will be amazed and subsequently attracted to me, due to my expert laundry skills. Wish me luck. 🤞🧣🧺🧼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I know some of the women at my local laundromat pretty well though. We have all kinds of things in common: like having dirty laundry, cleaning laundry, using detergent, a collective annoyance with doing laundry, etc. I mean, I feel like I'm already a pretty good match for these laundry women, based on our shared hatred of doing laundry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Imma bouta cold approach these lunch ladies, breh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?You need some kind of rapport. Maybe that's what I've been missing all this time. Maybe I should give these lunch ladies a chance. I think we already have a pretty good rapport that is based around my love for their spaghetti and meatballs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I think even chatting someone up at the bar/street is considered bothersome/harassment by a lot of women these days. I'm not a bar guy though, and I've never been so bold as to just stop a woman on the street, so I wouldn't have any personal experience with that stuff anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?You make it yourself?! Man I should get more into cooking, but getting takeout is so easy though. Plus, I doubt I could make Japchae better than the professionals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?One can't just go up to a completely unknown woman and just ask her on a date. That used to be acceptable before OLD. Now Cold Approach is seen as harassment. Guess we're all just stuck swiping on apps now. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Japchae is so good bro. I get mines from this place called Bonchon. Their wings are fire as well. Unfortunately, dating is indeed like a maze. Every turn feels like we're going no where, and the minotaur called "incel" creeps closer with every disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Mostly tits though. I love me some big fat juicy milky boba. 🥛 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Exactly. 😂 Next time I need to clean the bathroom, I'll answer some e-mails first and mow the lawn, and maybe the bathroom will clean itself by the time I'm done. Fingers crossed. 😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?OLD is probably a homebody's best bet. Most introverts I know, would not act like extroverts simply for a slim chance of getting a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I affirm that the biological imperative of the human species, seems to involve the continuity of their DNA via sexual reproduction. But coffee still usually comes first before the baby making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Well I can't dance and I can't hit a ball, so I guess that's two strikes. Maybe I should just stay home . . . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?It's estimated that women think about sex roughly 10-18 times per day. It is a normal thing, and not something that needs to be shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?You would think that men would get less gross as they get older since their libido also typically declines with age, but I guess the more persistent perverts do find a way to continue perverting. It is unfortunate that your daughter had to stop dancing due to these creepy old men. More places are becoming women-only spaces, which is a good start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?younguns C'mon, you're not even trying to hide your age now. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?But I love dinosaurs. 😥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I'm sure many women over 50 do indeed share that opinion. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Unless you're asexual. Or an opulent transcended entity that has surpassed the need for lowly pleasures of the flesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:12 AM |
| 9 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Ma'am, I just asked you out for coffee. You were the one that brought up sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Here's an idea. Socks and sandals is a completely valid form of foot ware. It blends the protection and hygiene of wearing socks, with the comfortability of wearing sandals. Socks and sandals has been unfairly demonized for far too long, and I will not have it any longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I've never been good at sales. Sales people annoy me quite frankly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I wasn't talking about you though. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:45 AM |
| -1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I blame the incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?And what if you resume is not good enough? Then you go to school , volunteer, get a coop job, network, remake your resume, show your resume to other professionals. That's still more direct and simple than dating. How many salsa classes a brotha gotta take before he's interesting enough to date again? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:42 AM |
| 17 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I think there are plenty of introverted homebody women out there. The problem is that . . . . . they are home all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?So many people don’t know how to maturely take that no for an answer or even just flat out refuse to believe that no is the answer Incels have doomed Cold Approach for the rest of us. RIP Cold Approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?OLD seems to be the only avenue where a guy can be direct without automatically coming off as bothersome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Cold Approach was acceptable in the past, before OLD was available. I think Cold Approach is slowly being fazed out and seen as bothersome by most women however, for better or worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I mean . . . . . I don't know how to argue that an opinion can be wrong, and I'm also not a civil engineer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I know . . . . . I was joking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?Bro, I just asked a simple question about dating and you replied back with info about city infrastructure, general population traffic habits, and cars. C'mon now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Do men in general envy women?Envy what? The weakness and reliance on empathy for survival? Nah, I'm good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: how many women believe that guys “enjoy the chase” and that you have to be a little aloof to get them to want you and work for you?Chasing is only enjoyable if you can occasionally get a girl. Men who always lose will eventually give up chasing and either become some self-improvement monk or an incel. No one has infinite patience for losing. You gotta give up and try something else, sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Men have the power to enact change in the dating market. But it’ll never happen.Thing is, incels and sex workers were supposed to die off, but online forums and acceptance culture has enabled these cancerous people to continue existing, and now we feel the negative effects of their presence in the real world. Sexless men are becoming neurotic and occasionally violent, and underage girls are being enticed into sex work by the illusion of easy money. In a better world, we would have naturally culled these populations a long time ago. Society would have taught men the proper w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Women being "brutally honest" would just be them echoing Red Pill sentiments. "Face, physique, attire, personality." That's what brutally honest women would say matters, which is what RP also says matters. RP is just the inner thoughts of women that they don't want to say out loud because they don't want the ire of angry men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:48 AM |
| 11 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?"Women are perfect and men are the only source of problems in dating." That's OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Who says we were only talking about Asians? Are you even paying attention? The yahoo article mentions black men. You're not even trying to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:23 AM |
| 6 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.I'm pretty sure Asians are doing well in their respective countries, and in warmer climates where the average height is lower that short men do well. Look at Latin American countries as an example. Those places are ethnically homogenous. There's basically zero ethnic competition. A Japanese person who is born, raised, and living in Japan, is statistically going to date a Japanese person because 98% of Japan is ethnic Japanese. Move that same person into a mix-race/ethnic country like the USA/Can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:21 AM |
| 2 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.https://www.google.com/search?q=bts+korean+boy+band&rlz=1C1VDKB_enUS941US941&sxsrf=ALiCzsaKLOLCletjuHlhckUhoyaKh7xYMA%3A1660385678443&ei=jnn3YqbGGrqhiLMPj7exqAM&ved=0ahUKEwimxbbUysP5AhW6EGIAHY9bDDUQ4dUDCA4&uact=5&oq=bts+korean+boy+band&gs_lcp=Cgdnd3Mtd2l6EAMyBAguEEMyBQgAEIAEMgUIABCABDIGCAAQHhAWMgYIABAeEBYyBggAEB4QFjIGCAAQHhAWMgYIABAeEBYyBggAEB4QFjIGCAAQHhAWOgcIABBHELADOgsIABCxAxCDARCRAjoHCC4QsQMQQzoECAAQQzoHCC4Q1AIQQzoICAAQgAQQsQM6CwgAEIAEELEDEIMBOgoIABCABBCHAhAUOgUILhCABDoHCAAQgAQQCjoLCC4QgAQQx… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:14 AM |
| 6 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.A study from June, 2021. "New study indicates that potential partners experience a large penalty for being Black on dating apps" The findings suggest that people of color face barriers to dating on mobile apps such as Tinder. the researchers found that male participants tended to swipe right more often than women, indicating that men were less choosy when picking out potential partners. participants were more likely to swipe right on potential partners from their own racial group. But even after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:13 AM |
| 8 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Race/ethnicity only ceases to be a factor in a racially/ethnically homogeneous society. You can't date outside your race/ethnicity if everyone around you is the same race/ethnicity as you. In a mixed-race/ethnic society however, your race/ethnicity DOES become a factor. A large one actually. OkCupid data shows that black women and asian men were the least desirable, while white men are the most desired. https://venturebeat.com/business/surprise-dating-site-okcupid-finds-white-guys-get-more-repli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:41 AM |
| 14 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Because 2022 is still ongoing? Have you ever read or done a study before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:20 AM |
| 3 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.We all know that multi-billionaire Jack Ma has no trouble pulling bitches. I mean, what woman doesn't want that face gobbin' up their pus pus? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:19 AM |
| 24 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.The implications of these studies are not actually surprising to men. The only people in "disbelief" is women. They don't want to acknowledge their own biases. Every short guy knows the struggle. Every ethnic guy knows the struggle. Every low income guy knows the struggle. Women try to gaslight men into believing these things don't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Everyone knows that non-black women suddenly got wet pussies in masse for black men after Michael B. Jordon appeared in Black Panther. s/ Actual clowns in these comments bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:00 AM |
| 17 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Truth. Idiots thinking that BTS opened the flood gates for all other Asian men. Straight clowns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 3 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.everyone and their mother knows what a bts is Knowing what something is, is not the same thing as being a fan of something. I know who Cardi B is, doesn't mean I'm a fan of her music. And "asian tiktok boys" is such a niche category, I don't know how you're using that as a legitimate illustration of American dating culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.America has been exposed to anime since the 90's, and k-media only attracts the most deranged fetishizing women. Have you seen how kpop stans behave on social media? They are insane. These people are not indicative of the general population of American women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:47 AM |
| 3 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.What Asian media? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:37 AM |
| 6 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.What has significantly changed in 16 years that has changed the general dating preferences of Americans on height/ethnicity/income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.16 years is not a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.since BTS and Kpop/Kdrama got huge. A niche group of fans, border lining on fetishism. Hardly representative of cultural norms. I've always found Asian guys attractive (I'm white). You're one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:29 AM |
| 15 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.Is science from 2006 outdated as well? Your single friend isn't indicative of a general population. Your friend is an outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:27 AM |
| 13 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.The study seems to echo Red Pill sentiments, that is height, ethnicity, and income, do seem to have a large affect on a man's desirability in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Shout out to all the lunch ladies out there. 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | why can't men handle rejection gracefully since they experience rejection so frequently ?Why can't women handle being approached gracefully since they experience being approached so frequently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Chivalry: what is it? Who killed it?WW2 was 77 years ago; you are saying that the young men of today are still feeling the negative affects of that time in their current dating struggles? I'm sorry, but that is dumb. Why don't we go farther back? Did the American Civil War kill chivalry? How about the Spanish conquest of the South Americas? How about the countless Nordic skirmishes? People aren't so neurotically focused on the past as you think. Men and women base their dating behavior and philosophy on what is currently happening… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Women don't want to acknowledge the "Amber Heard's" because it goes against their "Women Are Wonderful" narrative. They want people to believe that all women are angels, and all men are predators. This is their revenge for men being on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.And women care even less for men. So it seems you are in good company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:31 AM |
| 8 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.An elephant is stronger than a lion, but a lion kills more things per year than an elephant. It's not illegal to be strong, but it is illegal to batter/assault someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:29 AM |
| 9 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Choose better. Do women have agency or not? If women have agency, choose better. If women don't have agency, then they should be assigned a full time guardian because they are too stupid to make smart decisions for themselves. It's simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsI don’t really see the same anger and entitlement come from women when they don’t have success in dating. LOL. 1, 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?I definitely suck at dating but that’s my fault and has nothing to do with a dating climate or something like that Finally an honest person that doesn't blame their problems on "society". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 6 | Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women?You think dating women would be easier? Give it a try and report back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.I've known engineers, teachers, musicians, chefs, tradesmen, men who have a mastery in all kinds of professions and hobbies. The only thing they all struggle with however, is dating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?u mad 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:24 PM |
| 0 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?"every girl is different" is not useful advice. Women don't walk around with a sign that says what they want and what they don't want. "hey you're cute, can i have your number?" That could be considered sexual harassment depending on who it's said to or where it is said. You're advising men to take that chance? Generalizations are useful because it gives people a rule to follow. Saying "I prefer this" is useless advice, because you are one person. Men don't want the preference of one person, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Can't be true. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Nah, no women like being approached. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?I don't believe you. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Women don't want to be approached in any way though. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Women don't want to be approached though. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?I thought women don't want to be approached. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wd2k8g/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_the_supposed_trend/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Women, do you view that dating and sexual dynamics are on the decline?Keep those high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Women have been complaining about public harassment from creeps for forever, way before "cancel culture", and way before women's rights. If ya'll want to stay bothering women in public, that's up to you, but I'd rather keep to myself and not be lumped together with you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 0 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Become an incel and go on a mass shooting spree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W. How hard do you think it is for men to date in modern dating between 1-10? Why?I guess it’s comparable to flowers and bees, there are many bees and flowers but it’s the bees that fly to the flowers not the other way around. To make things worse, most of the flowers will reject most of the bees, so some bees will not be able to pollinate and receive nectar. Out of all the bees, only about 20% of them will be successful. The other 80% of bees will die in obscurity, and some flowers will be bitter because they are unpollinated, due to them rejecting every bee that approached … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.You got any statistics to back that up? Because if not, then we're just going to be talking out our assess for the rest of this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.But some avenues work better, which is why I mentioned OLD and meeting through mutuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Tell me about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.They have their own printed cards, similar to a business card, if the situation allows to strike up a conversation like waiting in line for something, they’ll talk and give the card when they part ways. Or if the situation does not allow—someone is in a hurry or not that talkative, then give the card and walk away. The business card usually has a little design, a name, a nickname, a title, and a phone number to call or text, with a little one line message. This card is equally useful for meeting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.In this age of technology where your photo could be taken and linked to any social media platform by a woman who didn't like your cold approach, approaching as a man has never been more dissuasive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.my only LTR was the result of being cold approached (I'm male) so... yeah. It definitely works. Cold approach definitely works much better when women do it, because social norms and double standards and blah blah blah . . . . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.If you're exchanging glances and smiles before even saying a word, you're definitely "warm". Read her body language wrong and now you're the subject of some harassment post on social media, possibly with a stealth photo of your face as well. "I was at the gym minding my own business, and this creepy guy kept staring at me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Men that do cold approach have success with it, I don't know any that haven't. I guess you live in some fairy tale city of Chads then. That experience is not the norm for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.What kind of one minute meaningful interaction are you hoping to have with a stranger at a coffee shop? You go to coffee shops just to talk to people or something? Like a fucking weirdo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.How does one consent to being approached for simply being in public? You think women want you to approach them when they're shopping for groceries? Do women wear "approach me" shirts to let men know they are receptive? Do you even talk to women? There are literally a bunch of anecdotal experiences from many women who have complained about being cold approached in bars, clubs, and concerts. Just check out subs like twox or any feminist subs. Cold approach is universally seen as creep behavior and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.If you are polite and respectful and a girl perceives it as harassment that's her issue. Even if she did perceive the situation inaccurately, that's not going to stop her from posting her uncomfortable situation on social media, which feeds into the rhetoric that cold approach is harassment. I say remove that possibility entirely by stopping cold approach so men are no longer seen as predators, and women no longer receive street harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Double standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.We got an internet Chad here folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I would argue that even on an individual level, OLD and meeting through mutuals still fair better results than cold approach. Even nutrition and fitness has a basic level of universal truths that can't be ignored regardless of personal preference, and that is the same with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Cold approach is seen as predatory, because there is a minority of men who are creeps and don't know how to take a "no". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I would agree that cold approach works better if you're polite and good looking, but even with those things, I wouldn't say it "works a lot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.5# - So by what we established you would have to cede that ANY male success is the exception and not the rule, thus invalidating your whole point Nope. I never said OLD or meeting through mutuals will always end in success, only that those methods bare better results than cold approach. Men would have better chances meeting women through friends, or online/app dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Anyone who needs this advice is already a lost cause. Even when I was 12 years old, I knew not to say crude sexual things to random women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Flirting might be expected in clubs/bars/night-spaces, but the majority of those interactions still result in failures for men, and a feeling of harassment for women. And I'm going to be honest, I would consider anyone trying to flirt with a stranger in a coffee shop, as a weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.The modern world is different, even just from 20 years ago. Women today are on guard. They expect any interaction from a strange man to have ulterior motives. You might be nice, but some men aren't so nice, and women know this, and they are on the look out for those men. Cold approaching is an antiquated dating norm that is quickly failing both men and women, and they both want it to end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I would argue that it's very hard to have a purely 100% platonic friendly conversation with someone if sexual attraction is already there. So in this case, I would consider it cold approaching. Think of it like this, how would you feel about your partner having a "friendly" conversation with a person they are attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.A woman you dont know isn't going to be able to smash your social life because you were awkward or cringe in making an offer. Any self-respecting man doesn't want to be even seen as awkward or cringe. Cold approaching is always awkward and cringe. Men are not responsible for the comfortability of women. We can't live in a civil world if men don't care about whether women are comfortable or not. Whether we like it or not, many women see cold approach as sexual harassment, which is why men need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Most men have success with cold approach That's only true if they're doing it constantly, like on a weekly basis. Who has time for that? With school, work, chores, self-improvement, and other responsibilities, a well adjusted man may only have the opportunity to seriously date once every two months. I can barely even hang out with my old buds anymore because we all got shit to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Learning to take rejection in person is maybe the best upside of cold approaching. Other than that, we can learn to socialize without the pressure of romantic outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.The difference between OLD and cold approach, as that women on OLD are already open to flirting. The woman rushing to work because she is late, doesn't want to be hit on by anyone, even if that man was Chris Hemsworth. But if she's on a dating app, that means she has time, and is willingly and openly looking for romantic interactions. This is why OLD is better than cold approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I agree that natural interactions are best, but many women are on guard because they get hit on all the time. Imagine if you did end up asking for her number. She might have then and there written you off as a creep because she thought the interaction was purely platonic. Had she known you had romantic/lustful ulterior motives, do you think she would have kept on talking to you? I highly doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.That's the spirit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I agree that paying attention to body language matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.While there are clear places that are inappropriate to flirt, there are almost no places that is clearly allowed to flirt. I have heard women complain about being cold approached: at school, at work, at the store, in the park, in a club, in a bar, at a concert, at a lake, in a building, outside of a building, any public space, and any private space. There is no actual allowed space to flirt, because any space can be considered inappropriate depending on the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.If being good looking and polite was all it took to succeed in cold approach, then many more men would succeed. Your anecdotal experience is an outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.There are better ways to practice socializing with women, than through cold approach. Furthermore, an awkward dude hitting on women don't make the women feel good either. Women are still losing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.1 - nothing succeeds for men most of the time, or even often at all in terms of %: a 1% success rate for say online dating would actually put a man solidly above the overwhelming majority of his peers I agree. 2 - yes, but if the opportunity cost is literally nothing sans 15 seconds of your time, why not? this point is easily the most obvious refutation No decent efforted cold approach takes 15 seconds. I've seen my buddies chat up women the whole night and still not succeed. Only a fool would t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I agree that cold approaching at a specified social gathering can increase your chances to succeed. People at these events are usually expecting to socialize, so speaking with strangers is not necessarily an instant put off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I didn't say Cold Approaching is rape, only that it plays into Rape Culture. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_culture As I said in my original post, a lot of women don't like being cold approached because it reminds them of public harassment (e.g. cat calling). Thus, in a wider scope, stopping cold approach would benefit women on the whole, even if a minority of women do not mind cold approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.I mean, IF you cold approach, of course it's best to take the first "no" in dignity and exit the situation politely. That being said, it doesn't change the fact that you failed. The objective was to get a date, and that failed, and that is the primary problem I am arguing here, that is cold approaching doesn't work most of the time anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.For "Cold Approach", I am using the most broad and simple definition of it, that is: Cold Approaching is when you attempt to flirt with a stranger, whom you know little or nothing about. Yes, there are different variations of cold approaching, but they are still less successful than meeting a woman through mutual friends, or even on a dating app. The benefit of meeting through mutual friends, is that you two likely already have common interests, considering that you two have a known person in co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I'd rather be addicted to the gym than videogames though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Is dating actually fun for you?Jobs aren't fun either. We still need one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatI found your proof. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatAll those are hearsay. No men there admitting to calling women desperate. Can't you find ONE man admitting to doing this? Proof please. 😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented that"I would never assume anyone is desperate." "Yeah I dont think of them as desperate. However, I do start psyching myself out and usually end up fucking shit up" "Really? I don't get a lot of female attention, but recently a girl from one of my classes sat down with me before class out of the blue and just started talking about random stuff about herself and whatnot (it wasn't totally unprovoked, but she approached me about the class then started talking) I dont think she was interested or anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatIs this your proof that you're not bitter towards men? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatLOL. That's not a man calling another woman desperate. That's women claiming men call women desperate. Show me a SINGLE time where a man called another woman desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatBeing single isn’t an existential crisis to me Your post history says otherwise. https://old.reddit.com/user/creekcrystall/submitted/ https://old.reddit.com/user/creekcrystall/comments/ You reek of resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatYour original comment was insinuating that the reason women don't initiate, is because men call them "desperate" for doing so. That is a blatant exaggeration of the reality. You know what’s funny about your comment? There are women who have approached men and have been called “desperate” or the guys wanted them to chase them. For men who want women to approach them, y’all boys ain’t doing a dandy job keeping these ladies feeling appreciated. For every man calling a woman desperate for initiating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thathttps://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum/search/pick-me Look at all this "pick me" hate from women. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatlol. You have been drinking the paranoia kool aid. This is why you femcels are single. Literally blame all your dating problems on men. You must be perfect, and the only reason you're single is because men can't get on your level. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 04:42 AM |
| 3 | How many women here are actually in shape?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How many women here are actually in shape?The fat chicks aren't going to answer this. They don't want to contribute to the stereotype that femcels are fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Are they more happy? The women over at FemaleDatingStrategy seem bitter as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:38 AM |
| -2 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatThere are women who have approached men and have been called “desperate” Only women call other women "desperate". Ever heard of the term "pick me girl"? That term was coined by bitter women. Look up "female dating strategy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatAlso, I don't think women know that the majority of guys don't want to initiate. They don't want to be the one to say "hi". They don't want to bother anyone. But the fact that initiating is practically the only way any guy will have a chance at finding love, forces otherwise unwilling men into these awkward interactions. So now we have the status quo where men are suppose to initiate, but because they initiate, they also play into "rape culture" and the "men harassing women in public" rhetoric. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Do nice guys actually exist?Nice guys are not real. All men are assholes. Come back later for more feminist hot takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+She's more likely to have a job. Other than that, I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Men have it easier and harder in datingabd? I'm old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Men have it easier and harder in datingA woman who is socially awkward won't even be noticed to have anyone make the first move on her. Well, that shouldn't be a problem, since most women seem to dislike cold approaching anyways. They are the lucky ones! https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fep9tu/q4w_have_you_ever_been_successfully_cold/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thingEven well intentioned women get free meals from dates. A women's motives doesn't change the man's experience. He's still paying regardless of what she wants, because he is socially expected to pay. Studies have shown that even the most feminist women want men to pay on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?High Value status, requires High Effort. That dude with the ripped physique? He has to exercise and eat a certain way that most people aren't willing to. Same with sociability and income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men have it easier and harder in datingIt's these women that form the social perception that men are predators. I'd rather not be associated with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneNothing. The fatalists and complainers will remain single. The hopeful and social will improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Men have it easier and harder in datingBut then those women are going to post on their social media about how tired they are about getting hit on by disgusting men, and that they just want to be left alone. So now he's the bad guy for supporting rape culture by approaching women and being the initiator, which is the role that is expected upon him by society in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?Men on reddit are more likely to be introverted, which can be a huge detriment when it comes to dating. In a literal sense, dating involves interacting with another human being; this can be difficult for an introverted person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | What is an average guy?The average male in the United States is 5'9'', 198 lbs, has some amount of higher education or vocational training, and has an income of about $39,000/year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:00 AM |
| 14 | Men have it easier and harder in datingmen who don't give a damn about anything but having sex with you. That is only a problem if you're a woman. Most men would love it if random women were waiting in line to fuck them. The absolute death sentence for a man is being socially awkward, because all talks of equality aside, you have to make the first move. You have to ask her out, initiate a date, be the first one to kiss, the one to initiate things going further. Even in the 21st century, most women I've encountered want the guy to mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?That doesn't happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?But you said: Most things on social media are faked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What happens when a married woman goes on tinder?It's hilarious that men are stereotyped as cheaters, when the opportunities for women to cheat are 50 times higher. It's like blaming the janitor for stealing money from a company, when the people with real access to the money are the executives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?So anecdotal experiences of harassment said by women on social media, should be taken with a grain of salt then. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you like being approached/hit onSo any man can be cute if he does 1-3? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?And "most" of those videos are "faked", right? 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?Stop it guys. Oh yes, all those asian guys and white guys who are always aggressively catcalling women in those urban cities. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?Got a "source" for that? 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?Are women on tiktok not valid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get hit on?I watch mostly fitness related stuff on youtube/reddit/tiktok. I've seen women complain about men staring at them in the gym, and their "evidence" is some random guy looking in their general direction for two seconds as "proof" of staring and harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?It may be some roundabout low-key way of bragging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?Pretty sure this is mostly an urban phenomenon. Furthermore, there is a specific subgroup of people in these urban areas who catcall more than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Women will no longer be able to get an abortion, just like men! That's true equality. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?This literally changes nothing for incels/femcels. This is maybe the one time in incel/femcel history where being a loser is actually an advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Women, how do you like being approached/hit onThe things I've learned from this thread. Women want X and not Y, except when they want Y, at which point they don't want X, unless X is greater than Y, at which point X is preferred, this is of course assuming Y is less than X, and if this is not the case, then women would want Y instead of X. Female dating advice for men is useless, because what works for one woman, will fail for 99% of other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you like being approached/hit onYou already thought he was cute before any of those former points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you like being approached/hit onWhat neither of your two female friends told you, is that they already had a physical attraction to these men before they even opened their mouth. Women aren't going to accept a date with a guy just because they started talking about mundane things. Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Have passing social skills. Step 3: Profit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 7 | If an average man asks 100 women out on a date, how many of those women would say "yes" (and mean it)?I asked this question because buzzfeed did a video where some of their female staff attempted to cold approach men. Their results were pretty good despite talking to complete strangers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AVsm2XK4Uk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:06 PM |
| 5 | In what ways do nice guys and nice girls differ?"Nice girls" receive more empathy because society is brainwashed into handling women with kid gloves so we don't hurt their fee fees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are blatant Homophobes and Racists but will pass it off as a Male TraitCalling a man "gay" for rejecting a woman is the most childish insult that is still commonly used today by women. They can't comprehend that men have SOME standards, and that SOME women won't meet those standards. I've heard my sister literally say racist things about Mexicans, despite her being married to a Mexican man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Men, what are you looking for in women?Body: Anything except obese. Personality: At minimum, not a Karen. Skills: Don't care as long as she can take care of herself. Also: Cute face. Like most men, my standards really are not that high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierBuzzfeed put out a video where some of their female staff attempted to cold approach men to prove that dating was hard for women. The women had a success rate of 50%-30%. They took this as proof that dating is hard for women. I wish there was an eye-roll button so I could click it to express how silly it was that they thought 50%-30% was unlucky. They clearly don't know what the numbers are for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 12 | Do men really want a girl that "fucks like a porn star" or is that just projection from women?I've literally never heard any of my male friends or male colleagues say they want a girlfriend that fucks "like a porn star". That is pure projection from their insecurity due to feminist rhetoric that routinely paints men as only sex-minded. Advise these women to get off tumblr and actually talk to men instead of being brainwashed by bitter overweight smelly armpit hair flashing feminist women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:25 PM |
| 36 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?It's not bad, but it is hilarious. Post a screenshot so we can all get a good laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What do sexually unsuccessful people want/expect from others when they air their grievances?It's just a way to vent and get sympathy. They're not actually looking for solutions. These people are usually bitter and blame everything and everyone else for their problems, instead of blaming themself. You see this in how they vent, because they never admit to their own failings, only the failings of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?It's degrading. Less demand. Men get paid less for those professions because basically no one wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyThis question doesn't present a realistic situation, because men would never know if women are dating down unless the woman specifically told him that she was doing so. There's no benefit for men to question why a woman is dating them. That kind of questioning only leads to paranoia and insecurity. Women are free to date whoever they want. Nothing is going to make a woman lower her standards, unless she can't actually get a man who meets her standards, so she settles for less. Just like a job. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather have “closure” or be ghosted by a date?I'd rather be told why our interaction is ending, so I can improve. If for instance I'm being too clingy, I'd like to be told that so I will know not to do that next time to another girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 5 | If an average man asks 100 women out on a date, how many of those women would say "yes" (and mean it)?Some will say "yes" only because they want to end the conversation, and so they have no intention of actually calling/texting back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | What standards are TOO high?Any time someone of clearly low value, feels like they DESERVE someone of clearly high value. Someone of high value is looking for another high value mate, because that is how high value individuals think. Imagine a poor janitor who never graduated from high school, why would the female CEO of the company want to date him? Seek someone of equal value, that's the only reasonable standard. Go higher, and you're delusional and a hypocrite. Go lower, and you're settling for less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:44 PM |
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