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/r/MensRights24/07/26 02:06 PM
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People love to hate. Even if you’ve done nothing wrong, there will always be someone who hates you. Even if you’re doing something you love (a hobby, entertainment, or anything else), there will always be someone who hate it. I mean, if they hate it because you’re harming someone else, then yeah, that’s a valid reason. You shouldn’t harm anyone. If they hate it because it could potentially harm you, then that can also be a valid reason. But if there’s nothing wrong with it and they simply hate i…
/r/MensRights16/07/26 07:40 AM
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I think she means things like not being able to go to school or get an education, vote, work (or being paid less), and other restrictions. I mean, she's not completely wrong. In some countries (especially third world countries), these things did happened.
/r/MensRights14/07/26 06:19 PM
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Both genders should be treated equally. I think that can fix most issues for both men and women. No gender should be treated as lesser than the other. What I understand is that some men here hate feminism not because of equality, but because of the misandristic people. It's not rare to see feminists who say things like "kill all men" or "all men are trash," etc. That's the issue here. I'm okay with equality, but I'm not okay when they attack me or my gender for no reason. I'm sorry about your ba…
/r/MensRights14/07/26 06:04 PM
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When you say "visual guides" what exactly do you mean? What kind of visual education would be appropriate?
/r/MensRights09/07/26 12:40 PM
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Idk what unrealistic expectations you mean by that
/r/MensRights07/07/26 10:55 PM
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You can go to couple therapist and ask them for help. They might have solution for both of you
/r/MensRights07/07/26 10:42 PM
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Idk people here are too sensitive I think
/r/MensRights07/07/26 10:38 PM
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The point is that porn can influence expectations for some people, especially if they use it heavily or treat it as a realistic example of sex and relationships. Your personal experience shows it doesn't affect you that way, but it doesn't prove it has no effect on anyone. Using yourself as the only example is not an argument. 'I watch porn and I'm fine' proves exactly one thing: that you watch porn and you're fine. It doesn't prove there are no possible effects on anyone else.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 05:36 PM
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Do you even know what I mean by unrealistic expectations?
/r/MensRights07/07/26 05:24 PM
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It could cause that for some people, some don't. And being a simp can also came from p0rn, again. I'm not an expert but I know, someone can become a simp from watching too many p*rn
/r/MensRights07/07/26 05:04 PM
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I didn't say men, I say both. What's wrong with you guys. Both mean men and women, both can have unrealistic expectations, both can have addiction. I said both
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:58 PM
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No different? P*rn can become an addiction and give impact to your life
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:56 PM
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Unrealistic expectations on s*x, body, daily life, interaction etc. it varies from person to person
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:54 PM
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Bro I didn't say women don't watch p*rn. What's wrong with you? That applies to both men and women. I said this because I know some men and some women watch it. And it can give the negative impact to both, not just men
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:53 PM
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Unrealistic expectations doesn't always mean you don't find majority of women attractive. No. It mean you could expect someone to do dirty stuff or something like that to you even in normal interaction or even with someone you don't even know. it's unrealistic expectations.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:51 PM
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Most? How you know 💀
/r/MensRights07/07/26 12:40 PM
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I think it's mainly because porn is unhealthy and may create unrealistic expectations. That applies to both men and women. What you said is true for some people, some people date or get married mainly because of lust, but not everyone.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 12:32 PM
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Because it's unhealthy and might give you unrealistic expectations
/r/MensRights07/07/26 12:24 PM
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I think a good marriage is when both give equal effort and support to each other. Why? Because they love each other. If only one person gives everything and the other doesn't, then how can you be sure that the other truly loves you? Just because she's loyal to you doesn't mean she loves you. What if she's mainly there for you because of what you can give? Like a gold digger, or maybe she's just using you? And if one day you can't keep giving anymore, maybe because of something outside of your co…
/r/MensRights06/07/26 07:48 PM
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And children
/r/MensRights03/06/26 07:09 AM
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Toxic people exist in both genders, and bad people exist in both genders. Keep in mind that some people do not deserve your respect, regardless of their gender. Should you respect a bully? No Should you respect people who don't respect others? No And so on Regardless of gender, respect people for who they are, not for their gender.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 07:03 AM
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I don’t know, but her boyfriend is really kind to her and everyone else. Of course, he treats her like a princess, buys her lots of expensive stuff, and takes her wherever she wants to go. I don’t know why she thinks that way, I feel bad for her boyfriend. i'm afraid of relationship because of her.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 05:29 PM
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I agree, but there are people who will tolerate being treated like that out of desperation.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 05:24 PM
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Sorry, I thought you were saying the world is unsafe and that everyone is a predator. I completely misunderstood you, my bad.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 11:37 AM
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I don’t mean ‘same tier’ in the sense of who is more privileged. I mean in a partnership and parenting sense. Both should have the right to name their child, decide how to raise them, and make plans. I just mean that both opinions should matter equally.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 11:01 AM
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My older sister is very misandristic, but I was surprised when I found out she has a boyfriend. I was like, didn’t you hate men? But of course, I didn’t say that because I don’t want any conflict. And guess what? From what I’ve heard so far, she mostly talks about how men should do everything for women. She says men should handle everything, house chores, cleaning, cooking, providing, takes care of children and everything else. She also says that if a man truly loves his woman, he should do ever…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 10:46 AM
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I mean, not all women are like that, some are good. But most of the time, based on what I’ve seen in my life? Yeah, so I agree.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 10:17 AM
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There are women who can give you that, but they're minority.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 10:10 AM
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So what you think is the solution if giving extra security isn't enough? Put the whole army there? By "security" I don't mean security guards alone, I mean the whole security system including bright light, CCTV, emergency button and anything else. Idk what they'll put there but I believe it's something like this
/r/MensRights01/06/26 09:55 AM
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There are many good security out there, why are you assuming the worst? What's wrong with you?
/r/MensRights01/06/26 09:49 AM
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Yeah, everyone should have their own rights and no one should be one sided. Being one sided is basically being close minded.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 08:51 AM
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No one is top, both the husband and wife are the same tier. Both have equal rights.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 08:36 AM
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As a man, I will disagree with any post or comment on this sub if it doesn’t sound logical or seems one-sided. But this post is logical and not one-sided, so I agree. You can’t just think about your feelings, your sacrifices, and your contributions without considering the other partner’s hard work. That’s just toxic and one-sided thinking. Marriage is teamwork, both partners have their own sacrifices and contributions. Both should have equal rights as a team. even if the dad doesn’t carry the ch…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 08:25 AM
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As a man, I will disagree with any post or comment on this sub if it doesn’t sound logical or seems one-sided. But this post is logical and not one-sided, so I agree. You can’t just think about your feelings, your sacrifices, and your contributions without considering the other partner’s hard work. That’s just toxic and one-sided thinking. Marriage is teamwork, both partners have their own sacrifices and contributions. Both should have equal rights as a team. even if the dad doesn’t carry the ch…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 08:18 AM
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Marriage are teamwork. Both the husband and the wife have their own sacrifices and contributions for the family. both the wife and the husband should have equal rights as a team.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:55 AM
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Marriage are teamwork. Both the husband and wife have their own sacrifices and contributions to the family. both the wife and the husband should have equal rights as a team.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:53 AM
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Is this why women live longer than men?
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:27 AM
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Yeah, plus even if the dad doesn’t carry the child, the dad works, provides, and takes care of the wife when she’s pregnant. Some even take care of household chores, and even after the baby was born, both the dad and mom should takes care of the child. So both should have equal rights. Both have their own sacrifices and contributions for the family. It's teamwork. Not to mention that the husband does most of the physically demanding tasks, and it is tiring
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:13 AM
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the husband also contributing to the family by working, providing, and some even take care of the house chores when the wife is pregnant, and takes care of the wife, and even after the baby was born both the dad and mom should takes care of the baby. Both have their own sacrifices and contributions. It's teamwork, So both should have equal rights Not to mention that the husband does most of the physically demanding tasks, and it is tiring
/r/MensRights01/06/26 07:05 AM
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That's dumb It’s like saying someone can’t be responsible for breaking a window because physics made the glass shatter, instead blame physics or nature Or like saying you can’t blame someone for lighting a match in a dry forest because fire is just how nature works
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:56 AM
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But… isn’t it true? They can’t blame nature, Jesus, or God, because that’s just how it is. It’s something that can’t be changed or controlled? Instead of blaming nature or Jesus or God It’s like saying someone can’t be responsible for breaking a window because physics made the glass shatter, instead blame physics or nature or even god for making everything work that way. will say you shot your seeds And this is something you can control, so I get why they blame men. But that doesn't mean the wif…
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:25 AM
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The husband works, provides, and takes care of the wife when she’s pregnant, some even takes care of the house chores. Not to mention that the husband does most of the physically demanding tasks, and it is tiring Maybe they forgot these?
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:21 AM
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I believe there will be extra security there
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:05 AM
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I’m sorry, but I don’t think it’s that deep. Separated buses aren’t a huge issue. You all are just too sensitive. I don't care if I get downvoted, this is MY OPINION
/r/MensRights01/06/26 06:01 AM
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This applies to both men and women. Many people believe this, and many men and women become victims of it because they choose the wrong partner. So I think, the most accurate wording for your post: Many people on this sub believe that someone is either willfully ignoring their partner's red flags or else are so naive that they are blinded by hotness, so someone who complaints about abusive, misogynistic/misandristic, or lazy partner are solved by choosing better and not ignoring the red flags th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:24 PM
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what OP in that post meant when he mentioned Instagram or social media: There are a lot of misandrists there. You’ll see things like, ‘men are trash,’ ‘all men are the same,’ or ‘all men are horrible’, basically a lot of misandrist stuff. So, to summarize what those answers in that post are saying: Women can become misandristic because they might have bad experiences with SOME men or trust the wrong men, so it’s valid for them to become misandristic, and we should accept it. Using the same logic…
/r/MensRights28/05/26 05:22 PM
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What if a man trusts the wrong woman? Should he become misogynistic? I’m using the same logic as the answer in that post.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 05:16 PM
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“Protect women” but not “protect innocent people” yeah. That’s what you’ll hear everywhere you go. And I feel so sad for the OP in that post. It’s so fucked up.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 05:12 PM
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due to reproduction But men also play a role in reproduction? Women can’t reproduce on their own. Both male and female have their value in reproduction. I just don’t get it
/r/MensRights13/05/26 02:37 PM
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Idk, but I keep hearing everywhere: ‘protect women,’ but not ‘protect everyone’ or ‘protect innocent people.’ Maybe society is built to think that if you want to protect someone, it’s only women
/r/MensRights13/05/26 02:28 PM
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Whaa- I think you’re the one being extreme here. It’s not even that serious. Can you even explain to me what’s so ‘extremely misogynistic’ about it? You didn’t even explain it to me (I'm very confused rn)
/r/MensRights05/05/26 10:29 PM
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extremely misogynistic It’s not that deep. The strength part is generally biologically accurate, but the “smarter” part isn’t really. Overall, it’s just not that serious, so I don’t get what’s “extremely misogynistic” about it.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 09:37 PM
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I personally think it varies. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a woman or a man, some men are smarter than most men or women, and some women are smarter than most women or men. Some men are weaker than most women, and some women are stronger than most men. Personally, I believe each individual is different. If you think you’re weak, you can go to the gym and become strong, not just strong, but potentially stronger than most men, depending on your genetics. Most men don’t go to the gym because no…
/r/MensRights05/05/26 09:10 PM
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Maybe? We'll never know
/r/MensRights05/05/26 09:03 PM
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Why am i getting downvoted, I can't ask this kind of question?
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 10:06 AM
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Everyone is fallible, nobody’s perfect. They probably watched too many romantic TV shows and developed unrealistic expectations to their marriage
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 10:52 AM
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Those numbers don’t come from any credible research. Large national surveys like the CDC’s National Survey of Family Growth don’t show anything close to that. Some studies show most women in the U.S. have a relatively small number of sexual partners over their lifetime, typically in the single digits, and the median is around 4–6 partners. Also, claims like ‘25% of women are in sex work’ are not supported anywhere in public health data. Even broad academic and UN-based estimates (like from UNAID…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:29 AM
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almost all modern women are whores. that's a blanket statement, you can't just assume like that
/r/MensRights21/04/26 05:53 AM
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You shouldn't say that words, it’s kind of disrespectful. But I do agree with you that people shouldn’t follow any religion blindly when it comes to human rights. We should follow what is moral and logically right. However, most people (including both women and men) follow their religion blindly. I think it would be much better if we didn’t follow it blindly and think about it more carefully. It's the problem of society. talking from male perspective
/r/MensRights13/04/26 08:21 PM
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Nah, they probably haven’t seen the video yet and think I’m lying. The upvotes went up after I added the link. That comment hasn’t been edited, I haven’t changed it, so it’s an old comment.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 07:29 PM
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take my upvote
/r/MensRights12/04/26 02:47 PM
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I used to comment on one of the women’s subreddits. In one post, some of the comments were generalizing men, so I replied, ‘Stereotypes?’ That’s it, I didn’t even say anything bad. And guess what? My comment got removed, and I got banned from the subreddit for the reason: ‘Men, especially, can’t tell women how they should be.’ What the heck? All I said was just that, but they can generalize men all they want without getting banned? * To any women reading this: when I say ‘they,’ I don’t mean all…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 02:38 PM
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Oh my bad
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/3WHNleTHoMY?si=AJOrYnA5CpcqdAVd Full vid
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:57 PM
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Yeah
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:53 PM
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Why am I getting downvoted? Go watch the video yourself then https://youtu.be/3WHNleTHoMY?si=AJOrYnA5CpcqdAVd
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:32 PM
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She's not a feminist or misandrist, I've seen the video
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:28 PM
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That girl isn’t a feminist or a misandrist. I’ve seen the video, she’s just saying that seeing men cry is like spotting a unicorn in the wild, since most don’t cry, and when they do, it’s genuine. There’s nothing misandristic about the video
/r/MensRights11/04/26 07:25 PM
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Just don’t be desperate, so you won’t fall for that. A lot of men I know are very desperate, that could be the issue
/r/MensRights10/04/26 09:39 AM
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wtf
/r/MensRights01/04/26 07:55 PM
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no? nobody owes anybody anything
/r/MensRights01/04/26 07:55 PM
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“Stop living in the internet” - they say.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 03:30 PM
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This
/r/MensRights12/03/26 08:41 PM
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Happy International Women's Day!
/r/MensRights08/03/26 03:31 PM
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Thank you for your response. I have a question about what she said: "Marriage doesn’t mean you have to change your lifestyle, you don’t have to change your lifestyle in marriage." I believe that marriage requires a lot of sacrifices and changes. For example, if someone loves going out with friends, shouldn’t they spend more time with their family after marriage and less time going out with friends? Or if someone used to shop a lot before marriage, shouldn’t they reduce shopping and save more mon…
/r/MensRights16/01/26 12:36 PM
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Sorry, I’m not really good at writing, and English is not my native language. I get a bit confused when writing long sentences
/r/MensRights16/01/26 12:04 PM
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This
/r/MensRights15/01/26 08:08 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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