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If you interpreted it as patronizing in tone then that is what you imagined considering it’s text so there is no tone of voice to begin with. If you are repeatedly reading it and deciding you want to be offended regardless of what you are understanding then I’m pretty sure that’s a ‘you’ problem.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:46 PM
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You missed the entire fucking point of what I was saying. Lol.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 06:42 PM
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I’m not quite sure there’s a hive mind, as it’s statistically impossible, but if you ever feel like examining let me know and I’d be happy to.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 06:47 AM
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I believe FDS is gone but I’ve never really even seen that one myself. However, I was curious if you could make one and we can see if perhaps you disagreeing and me disagreeing provides different results to see if we are getting different experiences because of being different genders or if in fact we both get banned. I am also curious about the nature of what is said or the manner of disagreement after I have easily disagreed and have called out a woman for bad behavior. If there’s something go…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 06:26 AM
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I can’t say based on your experiences but for my experience, considering I’ve had my moments on women support threads where I’ve done things such as called every other woman responding to me a ‘bunch of harpy bitches’, and I’ve had my share of telling people they are fucking idiots significantly more volatile than I’ve ever been on this subreddit, I’ve never been banned. I have been temporary banned once in telling someone to go die, I’ve also been banned for saying kys on AITA, and I was auto b…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 06:00 AM
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Indeed, you are correct. Don’t misunderstand my statement as saying it is deserved or justified, but rather it is an explanation of why.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 05:20 AM
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I’m saying if I make a post on this subreddit about an experience I had regarding a serial rapist breaking in to my apartment at night and more or less holding me hostage for the next several hours in one of the most horrifying experiences of my life— it is less likely to get trolled on this subreddit, where on a woman’s support subreddit, it is more likely a 15 year old gamer is deliberately searching for content like that to tell me how it’s funny and I deserved it. Then that comment is delete…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:56 AM
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There’s a lot of spam on women support subs where bots, trolls, hate groups, and bored teenagers waiting for their multiplayer queue to launch will say whatever they can to instigate. The bots do it for karma so the accounts are functional on other subreddits (ones that require activity and karma to join and participate) and sometimes boost or adjust internet statistics for the sake of data mining or pushing alternative content (this is remarkably common), the trolls are there because someone re…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:28 AM
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Sorry to hear how frustrated it is getting, sometimes its short hand to just say ‘men’ as if it is a categorized group in a generalization due to frustration. It’s known that not all men are literally within this group but it is residual frustration when something does happen and a woman says ‘a man did x y z to me so I am afraid another man won’t do that’ and then random dude chimes in ‘HEY ITS NOT ALL MEN’ where it comes across as “who gives a fuck what happens to you, me first, and I’m not go…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:00 AM
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Kay
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:39 AM
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This is a waste of time. Believe whatever you want, it’s of no consequence to me. It’s not my job to tell you about reality. Lmao “what court?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:14 AM
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I appreciate how it sounds like you’re understanding the intention but rather calling me out for the articulation, instead. Admittedly there can be a tendency to just get frustrated at times when discussing these issues and then increasing the gravity of the statement in attempt to provoke emphasis on what I’m trying to say— but you’re right in how it then becomes a statement that is not correct. Thanks, I’ll try to clarify differently to be a little bit more sensitive and leave less to the assu…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:21 PM
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It did not occur to me that it may sound like I am saying “men” in the generalized sense, but instead, speculation as to why the men who specifically downvote may be doing so— in such as this thread for example in regard to the mention of homeless veterans. At the time, this comment came after how in another thread during an argument regardless homeless men in need, I received a comment stating it was ‘illegal to assist homeless men’. — which not only surprised me, but really left me confused an…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:03 PM
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That makes sense, thanks for explaining.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:52 PM
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There does need to be more support for men in these situations, absolutely, but how to go about motivating more? Speaking for myself, I would absolutely like to contribute, but a man who is a victim of domestic violence by his wife will likely be more uncomfortable with receiving help or even talking to a woman. It’s understandable; but what other ways can women find opportunities to help?
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:33 PM
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I’m not a man, so anyone can feel free to correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe it’s because largely when I contribute on this subreddit the downvotes occur because it is quite obvious I am a woman the majority of the time. Like many subreddits, different people participate in them for a number of different reasons, but the majority of the time it’s because there’s a lot of stress, anger, and anxiety toward the state of affairs in the world as a whole. So a woman participating in what is intend…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:22 PM
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He claimed on his own social media the charges were dropped because he paid off the authorities. The Romanian government stated still pending and he was in fact released on bail. He is also facing 11 charges for crimes in England. This is why he has not been extradited back to England yet while incarcerated despite England having an extradition treaty with Romania, fyi. Otherwise if they were dropped, he would have been sent to England for trial. Romanian law maintains an investigation, while in…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:50 PM
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… He uploaded video clips on TikTok after the police raid on his house and two women were said to of been held against their will. His own social media indicates the following: His home was raided on the basis of human trafficking charges/investigation Two women (American and Romanian) were present and subsequently removed from the residence. This has nothing to do with quarantine, the video clip specifies he was breaking quarantine around the time of his three day incarceration, but the video c…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:48 PM
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No kidding, no jokes, just reality.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:36 PM
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Official court records state the cellmate Jerry Everett raped two 9 year old girls, who Trimble murdered and pled innocent for in 1982 to receive a life sentence. The only documentation I can find implies Trimble’s original charges for being incarcerated in the first place is repeat prostitution offenses, so I can not concretely confirm officially why Trimble was originally incarcerated, but it was not for raping two girls. I’m not defending or condemning, here, but if an article is providing fa…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:32 PM
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Regarding this news article, it is not entirely accurate what so ever. While yes, Patrick “Patricia” Trimble did kill his cell mate. The cell mate Jerry Everett was found guilty and incarcerated for raping little girls on October 28, 1979. Not Patrick/Patricia Trimble. Murdering cell mate Jerry Everett is what landed Patrick/Patricia Trimble in prison for life in 1982 as cited by actual court documentation: https://law.justia.com/cases/missouri/supreme-court/1982/62523-0.html Patrick/Patricia wa…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 06:24 PM
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I am sorry you are experiencing this. You need to screenshot her confession and the post where this is reported and then file a report with the logical police department and press charges.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:56 PM
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Andrew Tate was married to a woman named Stephanie in England (last name has never been included in media sources because interviewers end up having to sign an NDA). Part of his prenuptial agreement was how she was not allowed to publicly declare she was married for the sake of maintaining his public social media personality (which he does discuss the nature of his social media personality during an interview on the last week of July). Stephanie is not allowed to indulge in full details or terms…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:28 PM
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This is a reflection article published in Daily Mail, which cites timelines of abusive behavior, racist and sexist comments, expressions of pro rape, mentions of scamming, and a mention of ongoing current investigations (since April 2022): https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11127853/amp/Andrew-Tate-banned-Facebook-Instagram-violating-policies-TikTok.html Video recording of Tate himself (yes, he is the source) awaiting trial for human trafficking and how cool it will be (while he’s out on b…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:15 PM
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No, this is actually not my problem. It’s yours. You may continue to think I am being evasive or don’t have the answers, you’re right I’m wrong, whatever, but this is one of those instances where similarly to trying to argue with a four year old about the detrimental habit of eating ice cream at 9pm has lasting negative affects building in to adulthood such as obesity and high blood pressure— a 4 year old cannot understand the sophistication of all the icecream at 9pm implies. This is a similar …
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:36 PM
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I’m not going to play lawyer with you. If you are incapable of connecting the dots here, then you’re fundamentally missing something and your own worst enemy. I appreciate men’s rights just as much as the next person and believe men deserve to be proud and happy with who they are, but this isn’t it and it’s definitely not what you’re claiming it to be, and because you’re trying to ignore it and lawyer around it, you’re proving the point of why he was banned and why it was necessary. It is not my…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:29 PM
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The Romanian government released a public statement and it’s been published in various news sources after his house was raided and his three day long incarceration. He even discusses it in his own media, himself.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:27 PM
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…. /facepalm There’s a reason he’s been cancelled from social media platforms who are actually losing money when they cancel high traffic social media accounts and it’s not for ‘society’s sake’ when they prefer money over any moral obligations to society. It’s not because of fear, it’s because they don’t want to be held responsible for situations like Uvalde which is still an ongoing investigation.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:49 PM
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Maybe because he’s actually out on bail since the first week of august on a human trafficking charge, and he evaded a court date in England for beating the shit out of his wife on camera? Oh yeah, and he’s awaiting scam and fraud charges in the US?
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:42 PM
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No dude, he’s possibly motivating the mentality of unstable mass shooters. That’s not “shock” or “entertainment”.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:33 PM
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He was cancelled because he’s being charged with human trafficking (released on bail during the first week of august fyi and he will receive the death penalty if he does not show up to his court date), fled a court date in England, and beat a woman up at a night club while it was caught on camera, and beating up his wife on camera, and then proceeded to brag that moving to Romania was because you can get away with any crime easily there. He also has charges lined up for fraud in the US but there…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:31 PM
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He was cancelled because he’s awaiting trial for human trafficking charges, dude. He is not doing shit for mens rights other than making people more adamantly against them out of fear. All he’s doing is convincing people that men’s rights are not a problem but should be taken away because it gets people hurt due to his mentality potentially contributing to mass shootings. (As in, he is literally out on bail, right now.)
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah she did jail time and sex offender registry, as for the guy he maintained contact with the kid and did not put with adoption, but still has custody. She did serve her time, and for now has ‘supervised visitation’ I think it’s called? Where it’s a supervised visit for one afternoon a month, But the kid is old enough where he’s at the age that he would rather hang out with his friends anyway so he usually elects not to go. — don’t quote me on this part but I believe the only reason the visita…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:11 PM
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Yeah honestly I hate that. I was a witness to a crime once where some guy murdered his mother and it was pretty fucking clear he spent the greater part of a year planning it (also because he told me, which was why I was a witness) and he took a lesser plea— something like “Voluntary Manslaughter” instead of “Premeditated Murder”, when it was super obvious the dude needed to be locked away forever and will not be able to function out in the world. Meanwhile pleading to the lesser charge only has …
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:06 PM
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Obviously I wouldn’t of taken the time to write it if I didn’t believe it. Said what I said.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:59 PM
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Are you asking me, or are you asking me to channel the hive mind here?
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:37 AM
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Correct. He gets sole custody and then he puts the child for adoption similarly to how a woman rape victim would do it.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:36 AM
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Regarding birth control in California, you can be charged with a crime for lying on birth control, tampering birth control, or even failing to utilize birth control when it was supposed to be used (such as agreeing to take plan B before sexual inter course and then deciding afterward not to take it) You can even be charged when the agreement was to pull out or move off of your partner during climax and you refuse when your partner prompts you to stop. (In California this is still viewed as aggra…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:27 AM
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In the example of discrimination and affirmative action, where there is a popular interpretation of what it means and what it actually is, but affirmative action does accomplish the function of what it was intended— that’s a different can of worms so I understand there’s no need to get too far off track here… But in relation to what the public thinks it will do, what it will actually do, and what the real results are, are completely different things— unfortunately we’ll have to wait, so I see yo…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:14 AM
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It reads to me like it is stating that essentially the terms of condom usage is essentially a contract agreement of what will be acceptable to go forward, and one person not complying with those terms is now the guilty party— if the ruling revolves around condom usage and if or then statements are involved in the contract and clearly understood then there is a problem. The converse regarding birth control does not appear to revolve around a counter circumstance so I’m having a hard time understa…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:08 AM
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What the fuck, she plead guilty to ‘unlawful assault’ instead. Frankly she deserves attempted murder, what the fuck is “unlawful assault”???
/r/MensRights06/09/22 12:52 AM
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As a woman who has an invested interest of men’s rights and representation/awareness to important issues, I have been personally discriminated against on this subreddit while arguing for concern regarding men’s issues such as addressing male rape victims and seeking assistance for them. I’ve even given legal support/suggestions in one on one conversations with a man participating on this subreddit who was merely asking for assistance on how to secure custody for his son who was in an abusive and…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah, I mean regardless of what someone thinks politically it should be obvious that someone starving to death on the sidewalk in a first world country is really not acceptable. And I think it is quite true that men have a more challenging time receiving assistance, not because the system “dislikes” they but because they don’t know what resources are available to access all advantages of the system in the first place. Side note, I dislike how we have veterans who are usually men, and homeless, y…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:44 PM
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Because justifying sexism means sexism will be justified. It doesn’t matter what you are, justifying sexism means sexism is acceptable… even when you’re the victim of it.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:51 PM
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Uh, yeah hate to break it to you but a lot of times, how you view the TwoXChromosomes is honestly exactly the same kind of behavior here, where the majority is toxic, but there’s also a lot of people who are going through unfortunate life circumstances, have been hurt or traumatized, and are just trying to put the pieces back together. It really is all the same, sexist behavior and all, including the bots and the troll accounts designed to instigate to collect karma and generate controversial re…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:46 PM
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That fucking sucks, I’m sorry to hear that. For starters, do you have insurance in place? Would recommend the first step as taking your son to a therapist skilled at working with children to address any mental health issues accumulated for the time he spent with his mother, but also someone trained in assisting with life changes such as these. Understandably I know you can’t tell EXACTLY what’s up because you don’t want to risk circumstances that might lead to a parental alienation accusation… b…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:41 PM
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So what will make you care about the daily challenges of homeless men in your city?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:27 PM
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Thanks, it’s been frustrating me more than it should today. Was on this subreddit going back and forth with a dude where I’m trying to post resources and ways to help homeless men recover assistance (such as how it’s a little known fact that if you see a homeless man in need, consistently in a specific area, you can actually contact places like the Red Cross or the Salvation Army and they will actually send someone to help him. This means if he’s in a long line awaiting government assistance it …
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:20 PM
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Tbh, the biggest problem is other men. For example, I’ve spent literally a day and a half arguing on Reddit trying to point out resources men experiencing poverty need to know about, and it’s actually been the men spamming me with hate messages and angry DM’s, not the women. Sorry if that pisses people off but this shit has got to change.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:09 PM
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Guy, you can say whatever you want to your heart’s content about feminism. If I say fuck feminism, will you research men’s homeless shelters in your area and contact them regarding homeless men in need while researching about homeless veterans?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:06 PM
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Yes, as a woman, with its own brand of hardships, I definitely have a cynical view of the whole woman experience. But I also think the response to your partner’s behavior is not okay and she should have been viewed as the aggressor where people should have been demonstrating providing you with support and asking you if you were alright, she should have been removed from the club and police contacted if you did not confirm this as being acceptable per your relationship and coherently explaining s…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:54 PM
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The topic has always only ever been about men deserving greater access to these resources. You have issues and you’re a sabotaging waste of time. Oh yeah, Nice try attempting to change the subject by making it about my posting history, fyi. See how it didn’t work? Now stop whining and start researching resources for your area to actually help men who need it. I pointed you in the right direction.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:46 PM
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So it’s illegal to give homeless men assistance? That’s not true…? as I stated the st Vincent de Paul society does offer services to victims of abuse with counseling services. More domestic violence shelters for men are actually opening up while there is more recognition. I’ve listed resources and ways to help men receive the help they deserve and need. It doesn’t matter what affiliation I have, where I spend my time, a man requiring assistance to avoid mental health crisis and help pull his lif…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:34 PM
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If you’re trying to say men don’t get assistance they need, then that is not correct— what is correct is men are not made aware of how to access the assistance they need and funding for said assistance is under recognized. For example, homeless veterans who are mostly male, did their time and work for the country and made unimaginable sacrifices? Yeah. They’re homeless and sleeping on the sidewalk. But the reason they’re not getting help has nothing to do with women and everything to do with pol…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:11 PM
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Nah don’t approach anyone, if layoffs hit they’ll fucking turn on you and you’ll just feel like shit even worse. If you lay low, you’ll develop a reputation of being quiet and get work done, and then you will have more ability to gradually be social if you feel like it after your reputation has already been established.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:50 PM
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Especially if anyone mentions ‘layoffs’ suddenly everyone’s a snake. Don’t risk it and keep shit to yourself
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:46 PM
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That’s because many people on this subreddit don’t care about the damaged lives of men, they merely care about the opportunity to hate women. The male victim is merely mentioned as an excuse, and that’s why there’s no concern with raising attention toward improving victims’ rights but rather they want the victims to exist so their reasons to complain are not eliminated. You’ll notice in my comment history, every comment where I’ve discussed male victims of abuse or sexual assault, for example, h…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:07 PM
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Male victims of domestic violence were included in my statement, if you re-read carefully.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:01 PM
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But you don’t, you haven’t even mentioned them
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:54 PM
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Mens homeless shelters often provide support for men who are homeless due to domestic violence. That is why the st vincent de Paul society has counselor support services on staff.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:54 PM
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You do realize that’s exactly what I’m talking about right?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 03:42 PM
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You don’t actually give a fuck about male victims, is my point.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 03:40 PM
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If it can be afforded, sometimes it can be expensive. The St Vincent de Paul society is exclusively for assisting men in need, highly recommend if you need help— everything from homeless shelters to counseling services, etc.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:39 PM
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Most divorces end because of abuse, fyi. I’m not saying anything in regard to who commits which abuse or what type of abuse but rather, marriages don’t end because ‘a woman’s needs aren’t being fulfilled’ or ‘a man feels more pain’, they simply end because someone no longer wanted to experience abuse and abusive relationships are supposed to end.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:32 PM
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Yes I read that article— that was why stealthing laws were initially written and applied in the US, but subsequently they led to men being protected against circumstance, also.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:30 PM
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Oh okay
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:12 PM
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The ruling didn’t state anything regarding gender. I quoted it.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:12 PM
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I’m not here to sit and argue with you about ‘who has it harder’, I’m here to help promote that male victims of rape or sexual assault deserve to be acknowledged and people who commit crimes against them deserve to be punished regardless of gender. Sorry you want to sit in self pity, but I’m more relieved to have additional opportunities for men who have been victimized to receiving the support they badly need. The world isn’t perfect, but the whole point of pointing out changes, laws, considera…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:11 PM
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The graph and chart is behind the paywall, the information is summarized in the paragraph I copied and pasted for you. This is another source published by the United Nations in regard that the gender gap for poverty statistics have increased and stayed that way due to Covid, when it was expected to diminish before Covid, where the number of women compared to men is continuing to increase. https://reliefweb.int/report/world/covid-19-will-widen-poverty-gap-between-women-and-men-new-un-women-and-un…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:07 PM
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Why are you upset?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:30 PM
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What do you believe to be ‘Sperm Jacking’ as it encompasses improper use of donated sperm to a sperm bank, to a term applied as slang for fishing a condom from the trash can, please define specifically what you mean so I might define for you what law covers this event in California.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:29 PM
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Here’s an example: https://www.statista.com/statistics/1219896/gender-poverty-gaps-worldwide-by-gender/ According to a survey from 2020, the coronavirus (COVID-19) crisis will increase female poverty worldwide. Globally, 247 million women aged 15 years and older will be living on less than 1.90 U.S. dollars per day in 2021, compared to 236 million men. The gender poverty gap is expected to increase by 2030 as women will still be the majority of the world's extreme poor.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:22 PM
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You’re welcome. It’s a legal loophole, you see, rape victims with full custody of the resulting child also have the ability to surrender parental rights in favor of adoption without the rapist having legal access.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:19 PM
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The last I checked no one has been incarcerated in a federal prison or charged with a felony based on merely ‘he said she said’. Any rape is very challenging to prove, regardless of male or female, and any victim does have to begin figuring out ways to document and verify what happened, has happened very similarity to how a lot of places require a body to charge someone with murder. There’s no law that unanimously penalized everyone who deserves it and a lot of people who know how to weave throu…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:17 PM
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It does have maternity and paternity leave and is federally recognized. But paid leave, regardless of gender, does not always exist. It should, but In events like that, an employer that does not offer paid leave for said position, will require the employee to go on short term disability. (Which is still bullshit)
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:09 PM
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The article you linked uses much information that is over ten years old in regard to disproving the statement that 70% of the world’s poverty are women. While no, the number of women to men is not as high as 70/30, in 2020-2022, the number of women in poverty and extreme poverty is in fact higher than the number of men in poverty and extreme poverty. Whatever else you’re wanting to get from this is fine, but if you’re making the statement that ”more men are in poverty currently than women” that …
/r/MensRights05/09/22 12:04 PM
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I disagree, it is clear: if circumstances are agreed that ‘if you do not have birth control then a condom is required” but there is no birth control and there is no condom, then it is clear that is not what the victim party agreed to. Circumstances for condom use has been outlined, and one party refused to comply. I misread what you mean about the Germany case, but the article does give the impression that the intention is also inclusive to the same end as the Germany ruling by way of overturnin…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:53 AM
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The reason why male rape victims in past cases in the US have not been able to terminate parental rights and therefore owing child support is largely due to the insistence that a male rape victim who produces a child after being a victim of crime is the result of old world or dated thinking that simply because he ‘completed’ means he was a willing partner in said activities. With a ruling like this in place, it provides better clarification and awareness. It enables possibilities revolving aroun…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:51 AM
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Yes, I know someone who actually did become a father due to this circumstances and because rape in California does not have a statute of limitations and when stealthing laws were added, they fell in to this consideration. She was absolutely charged with rape. At this point he already did/does have a relationship with the child so he did not move to terminate rights, but he did indeed get justice, and she now registers on the sex offender list in hopes to be an alert to other people. That is why …
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:20 AM
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You stated ‘most people at the bottom of society are men, too.’ This is not true. Most are women. The statement you are saying currently, is true, but it is a different statement than what you initially said. Regarding the topic of domestic violence, that’s actually a different topic— and you are not incorrect, but the initial statement appeared to be discussing poverty levels and not everyone in poverty is there because or by domestic violence scenarios
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:01 AM
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You are still describing a scenario where there will be no charges, so it appears we agree. You do not get charged guilty in he said she said cases because the law functions beyond a reasonable doubt. That’s what this means.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:59 AM
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No, it means you will not be a victim of reproductive abuse. Downvote me all you fucking want, but it’s true when I say it protects men and women alike.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:58 AM
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Example 1: John does not want to risk having a baby, and Jane is currently not on birth control, so John purchased condoms. Date night comes around, John says he will only have sex with her with a condom, Jane says she just got on birth control and it’s all fine, they have sex. Jane is not on birth control and was lying. John now has an opportunity to charge Jane with sexual assault, because he would not have had sex with her without her wearing a condom in the presented circumstances and he mad…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:48 AM
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Thank you, because it was not replied to me directly I did not know you posted it, there was no notification. The reason I did not comment about this portion in the article is because I read it differently and developed a different interpretation from it. I commented on the first positing of this.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:36 AM
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So, to address this, the article says this is a concern. The ruling itself states it no longer resorts to the doctrine of fraud— which means in the event of fraud, he will have to prove every step that it was not a misunderstanding and not a misrepresentation with consent given. However, in the event of scenarios like: Woman: he said in this text message he would bring condoms, I said I did not want to have sex without condoms. Man: We wore a condom the whole time. Doctor: a rape kit collected d…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:30 AM
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Would you kindly copy and paste it as I requested?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:14 AM
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As an outside observer, it appears men wrestle with feelings of contempt toward them and spend more time trying to respond directly to complaints of women by trying to prove which gender ‘has it harder’ because it is believed as a way to gain some relief from feeling bad for ‘being bad’ by trying to show not all men are bad or that women are capable of worse. It appears as a way to find relief, because they want to be proud of being men instead of feeling like shit— which is really very understa…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:08 AM
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Statistically no, more women are in poverty than men. This is not meant to neglect that there are more homeless men sleeping on the sidewalk than women, but poverty conditions including homelessness and sleeping on the sidewalk has women as the majority.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:58 AM
1

Would you kindly copy and paste it as I requested?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:52 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/DtndF83 The article posted its own summary, self described. I circled it in green in case you missed where it definitely explains that. The ruling does not state anything about who is charged with the burden of proof, but I will tell you, when someone is charged with stealthing, proof was already collected to evidence a condom was not involved
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:43 AM
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He’s trying to find a way to troll, that’s pretty much it.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:32 AM
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Why was I able to copy and paste the summary, but you’re not? I copied and pasted the article’s own self described summary. I am sure you must have misunderstood something in the article, but this ruling offers you so much protection: it prevents men from being stuck with children they do not want to have and having to pay child support because they’ve been sexually assaulted or raped. As you know, there is currently a problem with male victims of rape, where if the female attacker becomes pregn…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:30 AM
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You understand this is actually in regard to protection men have too, right? You troll, but it’s also making sure men are not stuck with paying child support for 18 years, after a woman pokes holes in the condom with an earring.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:29 AM
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It explicitly states this as the summary of the ruling in a nutshell: Justice Sheilah Martin ruled for the majority in R. v. Kirkpatrick 2022 SCC 33 ”Non-consensual condom refusal or removal is a form of sexual violence generating physical and psychological harms… Conditioning agreement to sexual touching on condom use goes to the heart of the specific physical activity in question and the existence or non-existence of subjective consent, and there is no need to resort to the doctrine of fraud a…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:21 AM
2

There are Mens shelters in the US. A famous one is the YMCA, just in case you had no idea that there’s a reason the M stands for Mens’.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:18 AM
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Yes, in the US this is called “stealthing” and is rightfully and legally considered rape. I’m going to need you to consider reading what you post before you post it, please. Instead of whining about articles that are making it clear you’re not supposed to rape women, I would implore you to consider that this law also protects you from women who claim to be on birth control but deliberately mislead their partners while possibly not being on birth control at all. This means a scenario like that ma…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 09:13 AM
1

Well, I don’t want to make this entire thread de-railed about ‘woe is me’ rather the understanding that yeah there are definitely challenges men have that are shitty, just like there are challenges women have that are shitty, too, and it’s largely not fair. But a quick aside about domestic violence— domestic violence, abuse, and sexual assault is pretty common in the US. I don’t know how common it is in the EU, but there’s something wrong here with the mental health, the way people are dealing w…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:23 AM
1

In answering the question as a woman, why feelings of being expendable exist, that is my answer, but your response is indicating there is good reason to feel this way and it is not bias. It is not clear what you are saying other than agreeing, but if there is a misunderstanding, please clarify.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:27 AM
3

I think a lot of women support the nature of equality— more women than not, but admittedly it can be a challenge to really grasp at what is meant by ‘Men’s Rights’ within the subreddit because there often is a lot of arguing and more attention on anti feminist rather than what Rights are lacking, so there’s a lot of ‘text traffic’ to really get down to the bottom of things for understanding. Plenty of women would absolutely like to understand, but from a woman’s point of view, it’s unfortunately…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:19 AM
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I’m an adult woman, I get downvoted in this sub pretty often and called a misandrist, and otherwise shit talked because Reddit. I have pretty thick skin though, and the reality is, it couldn’t be further from the truth. I was raised by a single father, who I watched go through hell and back from mistreatment and physical abuse, and my fiancé was pretty damaged by abuse endured in a previous relationship before me to where he was pretty destroyed emotionally. I believe men are left out in scenari…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 06:12 AM
1

Kay
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:45 AM
1

Dude… you got some issues I’m not going to answer for, and I don’t want to play the part in you arguing with your own imagination, here. I don’t like ignoring people, but I’ll be honest in saying your replies make me uncomfortable because they are completely off base to where it’s spiraling in to something that’s not normal or logical. That is why I do not wish to engage with you.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:26 AM
1

…. So can you, or can you not perform basic math?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:54 AM
0

Then you would know cooking an actual meal with multiple plates, including eating, cleanup, and meal conversation takes longer than an hour.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 03:31 AM
1

Alright so you’re making this bigger than it is, and it’s hitting some weird territory, good luck with yourself but I don’t have time for this.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 03:30 AM
1

Then you’d be wrong. If you would really like to understand then feel free to quote specific parts with how you’re interpreting it and I would be happy to correct you. Keeping in mind in text it’s only 15% of human communication so a person can say a lot of things and have it read different ways since there’s no tone or body language, but I am inclined to believe the problem lies in interpretation. Even the person I was responding to saw no problems, why do you?
/r/MensRights05/09/22 03:00 AM
1

Lmao, uh-huhhh
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:43 AM
1

It sounds like you’ve actually misread what I said and you’re responding based on what you think I said… instead of what I actually said.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:43 AM
0

Well, considering the law states the work day is 8 hours for full time…. Lmfao, I don’t know what to tell you. You’ll notice I mentioned dinner, without a time. You probably have no idea how long it takes for dinner prep, cooking, and cleaning up afterward because you’ve only had your poor mommy do it for you. :)
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:22 AM
0

Lmaoo what the fuck are you talking about? And I’m not sure what I’m projecting on considering I’m not accusing anyone of anything.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:19 AM
2

Thank you for engaging in discussion. I am getting downvotes because there’s an imagined hostility in what I’m saying— for example “I make more than anyone I’ve dated” is being regarded as either I only date poor men to hold financial power over someone, or that somehow I should be grateful for my career path, financial earnings, and level of education…or I’m sexist LMAO. Or some of it stems from “I feel like shit and it’s a woman so let me find something to say for the sake of saying it!!!” The…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:17 AM
1

Aside from responding to the wrong person. “Why aren’t you married yet?” … people don’t meet someone and get married the next day, lol, chill. “If you have intentionally been looking for guys that make less than you…” … I have four degrees and I’m at the top of my industry. I don’t discriminate on wages— I make enough for my happiness, and financial comparisons are not something that interferes with my relationships. Most everyone I meet makes less than me. This isn’t a flex, or a brag, but rath…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:03 AM
1

Yes, I feel expendable when I am blasted continuously about every new news story of a woman getting killed by her husband, boyfriend or soon to be ex, or her father, for not doing what it’s perceived she’s supposed to do. While it’s true sometimes news is targeted toward the person reading it— like for example statistically and just how focused targeting media works algorithmically, I’m probably getting blasted more about women getting murdered by their significant others, while you’re more like…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:22 PM
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Lmao if you think it’s sexist to mention I’ve more money than any dude I’ve dated, then you need to stop being a pussy and blaming it on me. Do you even know what the word “sexist” means?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 08:13 PM
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You’re complaining about being treated equal, at the moment, fyi. It’s not to say men don’t have their own challenges, because they do, certainly, but everyone has their own challenges and no one feels like they’re being treated well. When this is recognized by both, we can start living better.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:38 AM
1

It’s not paranoia, it’s just a weird side of the problem to focus on. Frankly I wouldn’t want any teacher touching my kid, regardless of gender… so you can stop victimizing yourself. If the rule is hands off, then maybe the rule of hands off needs to be enforced instead of weird whining of how come everyone but you gets to behave like shit.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:11 AM
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To address some things— as someone who too, has spent time in homelessness, also living off the sidewalk, it’s not always about ‘health’. The assumption on your part is incorrect on the agenda of cleanliness. The cleanliness is more in regard to mental health: people who wait for their living environment to be dirty are usually cleaning because there is either no other option, because they cannot tolerate it, or because they are frustrated: this is why you are not supposed to wait to wash dishes…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:08 AM
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I’m higher educated and make more than any man I’ve ever dated. I respected anyone who treated me right and didn’t try to call me names, cheat on me, or attempted to physically intimidate me to get their way in a situation. (Including my fiancé who I am still with. He is a good man, and he’s fucking amazing) It’s not that hard to find a woman who will be okay with this arrangement, it’s just that a lot of men who deliberately seek out this arrangement on purpose do it because they’re imagining a…
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:54 PM
2

This is exactly why he should be pissed off and complaining that female teachers should not be touching the kids either, rather than being pissed off and complaining about why he’s not allowed to touch them.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:43 PM
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Um…. Ngl dude but it sounds like you’re trying to come up with an argument to be allowed to touch children and saying it’s not fair. Frankly hearing about women touching children, hugging, or kissing, is actually a problem and they shouldn’t be doing that shit either… But how come you’re not mad about how people are touching children and instead you’re focusing on how you’re not allowed to touch them? This is kinda weird and not correct .
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:40 PM
1

You don’t give a fuck about prescription pain killer deaths, you’re just giving a fuck about ‘who has more’ in comparisons. Lmao.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:35 PM
2

It’s not. In some states laws are changing where if one person claims to use a particular form of birth control but is not, then they may have charges pressed against them. This is called Reproductive abuse which even accounts for sabotaging the birth control and can be taken to a civil court for lawsuit. Meanwhile rape laws are adjusting to include situations like these… For example: stealthing. In no way is it acceptable for a woman to claim she is on birth control while really not, but I woul…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:35 AM
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Based on what you said it’s not going to go well: they don’t have to prove you did or did not do something, they merely have to prove that they had a good enough reason to terminate you and it was in best company interest to terminate you. It doesn’t matter even if you kissed or not, quite frankly: it’s more or less at the end of the day just a case of one employee not getting along with and not being pleased about the other, and the two employees being unable to work together. Therefore all the…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:12 AM
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Even as a woman, I would never get involved with someone I work with. The point of work is to do a job, not social high school bullshit. Assuming this is in California since you said big tech, I wouldn’t lawyer up. I would just keep my mouth shut and look for a new job and then when anyone asks what happened, I would claim recession made the work situation tense and now you’re looking for a new job just like a couple thousand other people. With timing like this, it will probably never come up an…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:07 AM
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Dude wtf, you missed the point of the thread. It’s in regard to saying ‘women are more emotional than men’ which isn’t true but rather both genders have emotions and occasionally stop thinking rationally and make decisions fully with emotions. How the fuck is this misandry by pointing that out? Lol. Warped af.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 03:36 AM
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She’s not actually legitimately wanting this— she’s actually repeating what women hear but changing the terms around in attempt to provoke an understanding of ‘you don’t want that, I know. We don’t either’ because for the most part, there’s no other way to explain this effectively. Basically while you’re getting upset over what she’s saying men should get, this is actually what women are getting. But rather making an argument about men vs women, how would you recommend a different but effective …
/r/MensRights21/08/22 12:16 AM
2

Thank you for reiterating what you meant. You are correct that merely being insulted for a behavior does not mean you are wrong for exhibiting it. This is true, and I agree. To add on to that, I also believe a person is responsible for defining themselves by deciding what it means for them, and really thinking about who they have chosen to be and why.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 12:03 AM
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The incel title occurs because the behavior leads to lack of sexual activity not the other way around. I when I get called a name I usually think about my own instances where I’ve branded someone else: when I said them, I often said it because I meant it, not because I just ‘didn’t like what was said and had nothing else to say’. So I consider the situation— it doesn’t necessarily mean that I need to agree, or that my opinion won’t change when being called something, but I do try to understand w…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 11:10 PM
1

I was skimming through the reviews— the part that is concerning to me is how I read that she dated women and then got right to sexy time and then disclosed the truth about herself masquerading as a man right before things happened, and on one occasion actually injured a women. As a category, this could be considered rape where many people would feel outraged at being led on, misled, and then tricked or misunderstanding, be it a woman pretending to be a man or a man pretending to be a woman— afte…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 05:24 AM
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I think the thing about gender roles is that they’re restrictive and constraining where some men out there don’t actually want the anxiety or stress of the entire fate of the family on their shoulders, regardless of how they feel, they’re supposed to suck it up and do the whole repetitive motions just to provide where the homemaker gender role gets to do the creative and the different, and the main focus is to enhance. … the frustrating part to me in the gender roles is that sometimes, like in m…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 03:52 AM
0

It’s likely not the act of being gender confused, wishing to be a gender, or recognizing advantages or disadvantages for a gender… But she probably suicided under the realization that there are so many shitty people out there, regardless of gender, fucking it up for everyone else, so she didn’t want to do it anymore because there’s so much bullshit most people have to take, and likely there’s probably a lot of internalized anger toward herself: things she’s done to other people both as a man and…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 03:39 AM
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Thank you for accepting my participation and your consideration.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 02:43 AM
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To be clear, I’m not opposed to women making the first move, I think that’s totally fine. The problem I’m more having is the passive aggressive sounding nature of ‘oh now you complain about not getting hit on after calling us creeps’ Because no, the people acting creepy are the creeps so it comes across as more of as a threatening all or nothing sort of statement: “Accept getting harassed, screamed in your face, followed home, or threatened, if you want to get asked out on dates by us.” … wantin…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 01:33 AM
1

To be real with you, I have asked a guy out who says no. Now I get it, I was not jumping for joy after working up that nerve, but the times I’ve done it and faced rejection, I said alright and walked away. Expressing disappointment is acceptable, but there’s a certain level of situational awareness. While we are still playing devils advocate—if I am rejected, there’s a difference between me saying, “oh… okay, well, this is embarrassing so let’s pretend that didn’t just happen.” (This is actually…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 10:47 PM
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/eyeroll “But I don’t wanna be a creep” Dudes. No. You’re a creep when you get pissed she rejects you, or if you don’t go away when she makes it clear she wants to be left alone. A one time approach of ‘hi want to get lunch some time, no? Oh okay’ is not a creepy thing. A creepy thing is ‘oh, you’re dating someone, and it’s only six months, let me try to tell you why you don’t actually know him so you should go on a date with me’ Like Cmon.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:36 PM
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That’s weird. Nah dude I reply here because while I am a feminist I do take interest in what dudes have to face because not all dudes are incels so there are some really valid points, so I participate a lot on feminist subreddits just by being one. But I’ve not had anyone say omggg you’re posting there so we want you out from here. Except from redpill women, Lmfoa. They banned me fast af. Probably with good reason since the majority of the hot topics are scammers from prison cosplaying as women …
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:36 PM
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That’s not true, fyi. Commenting here has only ever gotten me banned from redpill women.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:12 AM
1

LMAOOOOOO Dude either you need to get on medication or therapy, or something because you’re out of touch with reality.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 04:26 PM
1

Correcf, if it was common sense then this conversation and additional input from others wouldn’t be tbere
/r/MensRights17/08/22 04:23 PM
2

Except it’s not trolling to tell someone when they’re saying the dumbest fucking shit. Even the regulars on here are telling you how fucking stupid you’re being and you just don’t know when to shut your mouth before more idiocy floods out.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 07:08 AM
2

There are some women with that same problem. So are you arguing: a) that only men should get razors? Or b) everyone should get razors who has this condition?
/r/MensRights17/08/22 06:49 AM
1

If it was then this conversation wouldn’t be taking place, and there’s an entire state in the US that doesn’t recycle fyi
/r/MensRights17/08/22 04:55 AM
0

Don’t be a married 37 year old man trying to hit on teenage girls or you will get exactly what you deserve.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 01:27 AM
2

Yeah you must warn her. There’s all sorts of challenges in diva cup territory. Another problem is that shit can get vacuum sealed to your cervix like a suction cup so it hurts to yank it out
/r/MensRights17/08/22 01:10 AM
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Dude depending on your muscles, it WILL squeeze it so it’s like… imagine holding an egg in your hand and then squeezing it until it pops. That’s the whole experience. Had someone looking at me for injuries as if I was just shot. So… no diva cup pls. Carrie day is a good one, I’ll have to file that away.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 01:03 AM
2

Yeah dude I’m kicking ass now. I was going through some medical issues and when I was able to finally get healthcare access (which was really a godsend) I was able to get on medicine to pull my entire life together. I’m now in a really good paying job, and finishing up my 4th degree. Completely different circumstances these days. Not to make it about politics but I totally understand it when it comes to the homeless. They have so much shit stacked against them— I was very very fortunate. Thank y…
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:24 AM
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Oh f, I didn’t think about this shit. I tried using the diva cup but… If you thought sneezing with a tampon is bad… it turns out there is nothing more terrifying than feeling an incoming sneeze with a diva cup locked and loaded. You become a human fucking water balloon like that scene from Carrie. Thus why I never used them ever again.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:15 AM
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Lmfao ‘I’ve traveled all over the world’ Yeah I laughed at that too, dude has no idea what he’s talking about to the point that I don’t think any woman would agree in the slightest. That mens razors argument was fucking laughable.
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:13 AM
1

Hm, true, I have the impression you may know a little bit more about this subject than I do, so for now it sounds valid, thank you for the suggested alternative
/r/MensRights17/08/22 12:11 AM
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Eh, if happens and I made it out, but sometimes you just have to do what you have to do. Thank you for your empathy, though. It means a lot to me.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 11:56 PM
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Ah, many tampon brands are or already have switched over to eco friendly versions — but not everyone can use the menstruation cup and the underpants don’t work for everyone unfortunately— however it does look like your concerns about tampons and pads are being addressed.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 11:53 PM
2

Nope, most tampons and pads are biodegradable these days, as advertised on the packages.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:49 PM
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…dude as a woman, without sanitary hygiene products, I literally will leave a consistent trail of blood where I walk. That is totally a big problem.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:47 PM
2

All of this. Believe me, I want my fiancé to be on top of his A game for his health issues so he doesn’t die young and I’m left with just getting a cat to name after him instead. But it’s culturally normalized for ‘tough men don’t get sick or need doctors’ behavior when I would love for men to be more proactive about their health ;(
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:43 PM
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Yes actually, lack of tampons and napkins can actually lead to a urinary tract infection which then can spread to a bladder or kidney infection and you can literally die from it.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:41 PM
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No, I used paper towels when I was homeless— you wouldn’t believe how hard it is to find a job or apply for a place to live while you smell like you just murdered someone. It’s because of pads and tampons that the scent isn’t that bad, but using toilet paper or paper towels, yeah it’s super strong, dude.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:37 PM
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Tbh yeah there’s a lot of posts that do make this subreddit seem like basement dwelling incels who are mad at that one woman from 15 years ago that wouldn’t date them… I’ll admit I’m a little surprised and hopeful that there’s a better future for both genders after some things get sorted first.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:35 PM
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This is the dumbest complaining I’ve ever seen, I just had to take a screenshot.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:34 PM
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I think you need to learn to read what I’m actually saying instead of what you want so badly for me to say after I repeated it twice in different ways already.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 08:41 PM
1

Have you been reading what I’ve been saying?
/r/MensRights16/08/22 07:58 PM
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I’m in the stand point that the male victims need support and consideration to rebuild their lives and the self respect they lost. I understand your privileged child mind can’t imagine how much loneliness and pain goes in to that, but attention is needed where it is due. Women have their support groups, men do not. Your argument is a selfish waste of time because you don’t give a fuck about the victims.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 07:44 PM
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You’re missing the point that boys and men who are victims also need protections and education. You’re actually looking to argue with the means to create more victims. Dude 1 in 5 males are raped, and you’re the one like ‘pls help me say something to deflect’… are you for real?
/r/MensRights16/08/22 06:40 PM
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The fbi crime statistics and world health organization research for 2022 very solidly confirms this to the point that anyone arguing the point is delusional and has mental problems. While correct not all men are rapists and male victims are not as well recognized but the real world statistics are more along the lines of 1 in 3 women are raped or sexually assaulted in their life time, 1 in 5 men are raped or sexually assaulted in their lifetime. 1 in 16 men are rapists, and it’s actually around 1…
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:47 PM
1

It’s not a woman. Considering how women don’t know anything about what it’s like to wear male condoms. It would be like me claiming to be a guy and then posting memes about different tampon sizes and how they feel.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:23 PM
0

Not sure what woman would post a meme referring to themselves regarding wearing male condoms. I’m a feminist but what ‘narrative’ are you talking about exactly? I’d like to know, lmfao. …. Are you a bot? You type and think like one.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:22 PM
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1.) Mostly because your comment history conveys you’re a guy. 2.) I am a feminist who also supports mens rights and I have never been called a pick me. 3) sounds like you’re trying to farm activity to join a community on a throw away account…. Or you’re a scammer working on Reddit and this post is explicitly created to try to get marks to trust you while you take advantage of men who are down on their luck and just wanting to hear something nice but you are using them for relationship scamming t…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:33 AM
1

As someone who has survived multiple layoffs, the end of a relationship that meant everything was lost, including car, roof over my head, and has gone homeless— it can be repaired. When it comes to kids— visiting them is not based on having a roof over your head. Spending time with them is not based on if you have a car or not. My response was based on actual life experience. I’m still not seeing the justification of subjecting children to abuse because of a car, because I’ve already made choice…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 03:01 AM
1

You’re trying to make a materialistic argument in regard to the safety and well-being of your children. This is not something that’s supposed to be for an argument. Protect your fucking kids. You can get everything else back in time, but your kids don’t come back once they’re gone. Everything else less than that is just an excuse to become a fail parent.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:00 AM
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Car gets replaced, your children don’t. I think you’re missing the point that you never pick something materialistic over the wellbeing and safety of your own kids, and if you do, you deserve to lose.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 05:03 PM
1

Usually if men ask for 50/50 custody, they often get it. The problem with men missing their kids during a divorce is because many of them don’t ask or many of them don’t attempt to deal with it. As far as material things, whatever the married couple accumulates usually during the divorce is 50/50. But you’re still missing the point here that what’s the point in worrying about material possessions if you’re traumatizing your children for the entirety of their lives. You can always get a new tv. Y…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 06:43 PM
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I’m a feminist and I believe OP should divorce her ass. She might very well be abusive, but the kids are the one being abused by being subjected to that, who would want to live this way?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:12 PM
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It sounds like you need a divorce to avoid traumatizing your children and cursing them to thinking abuse in a relationship is normal then never having the chance to be happy.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:10 PM
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Wanting sex is not selfish. Only wanting sex and willing to lie, deceive, and hurt someone for it is selfish.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 05:26 PM
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I’m glad to of helped, I can tell what you’ve been saying you’re pretty rattled and overwhelmed. I know it’s considered unmasculine but please talk to someone— either your pastor, or a therapist, or someone with a level head on their shoulders to help you regroup and breathe when you hit your limit. It’s so easy to get overwhelmed and then do what feels right like a lightning strike and then turn around and realize it wasn’t the right thing to do— so it’s always important to just have someone wh…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 06:53 PM
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I promise you, from my own experience as once being a child in this situation, watching it unfold between people I know, and hearing about it from other friends who are now adults that experienced this as children… parents during a divorce always answer for how they handle it. Every fucking time. It absolutely does circle back around soon enough. It’s going to feel frustrating, I know, because you’re going to feel like you’re biting your tongue and just watching yourself get demonized to your da…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 04:54 AM
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Awe she still loves you, guy! From what you’re describing it sounds like she’s just afraid to lose you where you might overdo it and end up having liver problems by 45 and then she ends up doing the single mom thing. Hang in there and fight for her, dude. She’s there because she wants to be there so don’t give up because you’ve got something special! Not to play armchair psychiatrist, but have you thought about possibly trying some new hobby just for yourself to take the edge off? Like boxing or…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 03:15 AM
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You are not failing your son by giving up. Sometimes it doesn’t work, and the best gift you can offer your son is by demonstrating what it looks like to conclude a relationship that isn’t working in a way that is responsible, healthy, and mature— because the hardest thing people learn is when and why it’s time to walk away, and then how to walk away without prolonging and damaging themselves. It’s an important life lesson, and it’s better to teach a kid what to expect and how to handle when it d…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:55 AM
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Nah dude, she likely saw him becoming an alcoholic, buying knives and guns, and then started worrying about herself and the kids if he spiraled out of control.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:47 AM
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I was in a relationship like this— it sounds more like he fell in to a deep depression and got stuck in a rut and then stopped participating in the relationship and then he didn’t realize how much time passed.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:45 AM
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Have you tried giving it a few days and asking her if she would try to attend couples therapy with you ? I understand people are telling you it’s over, but I think it’s better to try rather than wondering what would have happened if you asked.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:41 AM
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Okay take a deep breath. Understand you will absolutely survive this. This is temporary. It’s hard right now because you have no idea what to expect and therefore are having a hard time orienting yourself. You are in a very hard spot and it’s okay to take a moment to acknowledge that you have no idea what to do— who would? At the moment, whatever she is going to do is what she is going to do. It’s up to you to decide the priority. Do not freak out and run. Do not take your kids and disappear— th…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:33 AM
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Complete the divorce. Save yourself. I know it’s hard but you need to be free because no one, no one deserves to live this way, and this has become an incredibly toxic environment. What’s the point of waiting to see if she changed her mind if you die from stress chemicals in your blood causing your body to pretty much eat itself alive? Get out, you deserve to feel desired and alive. I know it’s hard and I know it hurts. Don’t get caught up trying to guess what she’s thinking, doing, or how she’s…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 06:11 AM
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Listen, you need to do whatever you need to do to get a divorce. Cut your losses and get out. The more she hinders herself— such as not renewing her license, and actually getting on disability while you are married, the more challenging and lengthy the divorce process and alimony determination will become. Cut it off as fast as possible and if you want to contest alimony conditions then you can appeal it after the fact when you’re out of the woods, but it’s probably imperative you end it sooner …
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 05:34 AM
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Don’t return the kid if you’re still married, and file an emergency custody order. When a parent physically assaulted the other parent in front of the child, it is still considered child abuse and threatens your child’s safety. This is the exact criteria for an emergency child custody order. Taking the son to the affair partner won’t count for much, but abuse and child endangerment from the episode two months ago and then leaving for another country should maybe be considered parental alienation…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 05:01 AM
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When you finally get away from her, celebrate and party, then limit conversation to explicitly talking about what your daughter needs— not about what one parent should or shouldn’t do, but only about appointments and pick up times— the necessities… and preferred method of communication to be text only. Request this term to be listed in custody arrangement. I am not sure if they will do this, but might as well try— because I think it’s in your benefit to limit/restrict communication and texts mea…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 04:54 AM
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I have noticed there’s a rise of cult like tactics and behaviors to take advantage of people and the sentiment of ‘someone notices and understands me again’ when really this someone gives no fucks and just has their own agenda. On one level, I sympathize because it’s a really challenging adjustment, but on the other level I wish there was a way for these people to support each other and use each other for understanding with genuine intentions behind it, without someone jumping in and trying to i…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 02:57 AM
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To try and explain it differently, (and yes is a novel, but I just want to try to be as clear as possible) I am half Japanese. Let’s say I’m at a Chinese restaurant, a Chinese waitress sets down my plate and shoves the chopsticks directly in to my rice, standing straight up. I go to a therapist, describe the event, and explain I feel discriminated against and how it makes me mad. Therapist might ask why this upsets me. It doesn’t necessarily mean it’s patronizing or brushing someone off by askin…
/r/MensRights21/07/22 09:26 PM
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Eh nah, because no one can predict a conversation for EVERY therapist between every patient, when there are different methods of practice which means they are trained respond differently based on the type— sure you can imagine a scenario, but the point remains it didn’t actually happen, so you’re just telling someone to do something based on your imagination, you, with nothing else. You call it dismissing, I call it being responsible. (For example, one school of therapy will tell you how you des…
/r/MensRights21/07/22 04:59 PM
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I’m not going to entertain your imaginary conversations with your imaginary therapists, versus what someone states actually happened. When you imagine things a specific way, instead of using a real example, that means it only happens that way explicitly because you want it to.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 04:25 PM
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Right?’ No, the 14 year old is not special or lucky— he now gets to be the alienated lonely kid who was manipulated by a selfish adult. Just like that one case where the kid in the 3rd grade was manipulated, groomed, and raped by his teacher, and then they ended up having three kids together, he married her, and spent his days taking care of kids as a single teenage father, who had been denied of his entire childhood with no fucking developed identity or life experience of having a free adult li…
/r/MensRights21/07/22 08:06 AM
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No dude, being told sex is a gift Women have to offer has never in my life not once made me want to touch little boys, okay? Being told my pussy is special doesn’t make me want to do something with minors. A sick fuck does this shit because they are a sick fuck. This woman deserves to be put down like a fucking animal, just like the rest of them. Right is right and wrong is wrong.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 07:55 AM
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Fucking Christ, you are going to get the most emotionally detrimental responses by asking this question because there’s a lot of selfish people on this subreddit who don’t actually want to help you, but want a following so they’re only talking to talk to use your scenario as anecdotal stories to get attention they wish they had. Listen, you are feeling like your therapist— who otherwise has been a very good experience for you that you’ve really connected with— is failing to understand what you a…
/r/MensRights21/07/22 06:58 AM
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Lmaoooo my exact thought too. I was like yep they’re totally preying on dudes who have shitty experiences on dating apps. “Here we totally get you, click this and give us your money.”
/r/MensRights21/07/22 05:25 AM
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She was not the first. Early school shootings were more often than not, teachers shooting their students before they banned guns on school grounds. The first undocumented school shooting was Native American Indians who got on to school grounds and shot some of the kids if I recall correctly. (11 people died) The first documented shooting was a guy who walked on to school grounds in 1840 on a university and just shot the teacher in the chest. You’re talking about Dot/Brenda Spencer, in 1962. The …
/r/MensRights09/07/22 05:33 AM
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No, I asked you a question. That means I did not assume, which is why it is a question.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:53 AM
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I’m not speaking another language, here. Please accept the answer or don’t.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:52 AM
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Nah don’t cut off your sister. Basically 1 in 3 women are in fact raped, and while it’s not all men, 1 in 16 men has in fact committed rape, according to statistics and that’s a pretty real number. Sometimes women go toward noticing this fact and making it front and center in their life because they are dealing with something they’ve personally been through: For example, I was stalked and attacked by a serial rapist who broke in to my home, after that, safety, statistics, data, and other informa…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:45 AM
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You’re saying men wouldn’t be fathers if they didn’t have to be?
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:23 AM
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Halted with no interest, basically totally frozen until he could pay off what he currently owed in back payments. I thought it was apparent both comments implied absolute zero
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:22 AM
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Hmm thanks for showing this. I am 100% certain of the people I mentioned who were able to work out a deal not to pay child support, let me ask questions and get back to you to see how that was successfully worked out.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 11:50 PM
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In California it is true, I know three people who have done it.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 11:14 PM
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Yes you can avoid stating who the father is, they will not take your child away —as that is not in the best interest of the child. Just say you don’t know his name and leave it at that.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:38 PM
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Yes, I have a friend who negotiated halting payments with the mother of his child because he fell too far behind, so they decided it was more important for him to have time to see the kid rather than working multiple jobs to catch up, therefore child support payments were halted so he could catch up while still seeing his kid. This is real.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:36 PM
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Yes you can. In my state if the father refuses to sign the birth certificate he loses all legal rights, it can mean he may avoid paying child support… but it also means if he has a change of heart 15 years later and wants to see his kid, he cannot go back. And yes, child support can be negotiated or outright refused.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:35 PM
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Look man, go ahead and think whatever you want (I don’t actually care)— keep scrolling through my post history and keep taking shit, it’s not going to bother me— but what will it take for you to finally shut the fuck up and worry about single fathers wanting to protect their kids, what options do they have available, and what can be said to help OP out in the immediate term? Spoiler: I’ve been talking to OP in DM’s for a few days now, and thinking of ways to help, but part of the reason I’ve bee…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:41 AM
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So… now that you’ve gotten that all out… Does this mean you’re done ranting and would like to talk about single fathers and their hardships? How do you think we can approach this? I mean, you do care about single fathers, don’t you?
/r/MensRights08/07/22 02:03 AM
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So, about those men’s rights for single fathers I’ve been asking you to repeatedly talk about….? When can we get back to that subject? Because regardless of what you’re saying, I still don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to help single fathers get the support they need. I don’t think that’s bullshit. So…. Are you done having a shitfit and do you have any input about that?… or are you like… still wanting to derail the topic about something that has nothing to do with the subject men’s…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 01:44 AM
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Thank you for finding it, I could not see the quotes to directly refer to what I was addressing. Yes, this is about to be a novel, but you have my gratitude if you read it through. There is in fact a thought process here to of said what I said: You see, I responded to this thread after responding to another thread about male rape victims. It’s true that the subject of male rape victims piss me off because I blatantly see how it’s not equal: I’m tired of reading about a male being taken advantage…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 07:12 PM
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That’s mostly why I’m complaining— because I want to do shit, and I’m sure there’s things that could be articulated better or more skillfully, but in that case I do need communication to be able to understand the perspective outside of myself, and I really keep hoping I’ll find that here, but I don’t, despite actually trying— so it rather just comes across as people fighting to be the center of attention by who controls the conversation and then people who want or need actual help simply get neg…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:37 PM
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It says [removed] so I’m not able to see anything about what it says. Go ahead and look at my reply “Fucking all of this right here.” To the one that was not removed.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:15 PM
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Why don’t you quote what I actually agreed with? Because I dont recall that, but if you can’t be honest then why should anyone listen to you?
/r/MensRights07/07/22 04:02 PM
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Lmao you dipshits care more about talking shit to women then having anything to do with parental rights of a single father. Not one of you people directly responding even touched the subject of this thread in the first place. Stop only caring about yourselves only when it directly affects you. Single fathers deserve a lot of consideration and enablement for looking after their own kids, and they also deserve to have support when they post on Reddit by people who actually give a shit about that i…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:59 PM
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This is exactly my point.(that’s exactly what you’re doing) In case you missed it, I was raised by a single father who went through a great deal of hardship—so of course I have a great deal of investment in this particular subject. But it’s easier for you to insult me, then it is to try and get anything done because it means you day to day is inconvenienced. I didn’t say anything about ‘equality’ or ‘womens rights’ by the way. I said explicitly that single fathers should be recognized and suppor…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:58 PM
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Fucking all of this right here. Even today, on this subreddit, I got in to an argument with dudes about male rape victims needing help, and so many dipshits downvoted me because ‘oh no it’s a woman’ —totally ignored the fact that I was saying male rape victims need help, too. It’s fucking batshit.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 09:36 AM
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That’s not true.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 09:20 AM
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Fucking all of this right here.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 09:10 AM
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As a woman, I’ve tried, but the truth is I get shit on or treated with hostility by the men I do try to help. I would like something to be done, but there’s a lot more people who seem like they just want to be angry than for things to actually get done. For example, am in full agreement of enabling single fathers and even being role models for people who try to do a good job—this is something to be proud of and proud to participate in… but speaking seriously, every time I post on these topics to…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 08:52 AM
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/sigh If you read my comment you’d realize I’m on your side and the action I’m trying to take is urging you to cooperate for one specific goal instead of splitting off to random topics and bickering. I never said anything about ‘changing’, I am saying stop being an asshole and return the subject to focusing on addressing equal recognition of male and female rape victims so after reviewing statistics and events that have already occurred, I have a place to refer back to for items like… acquiring …
/r/MensRights07/07/22 04:49 AM
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So did you actually read my comment or did you just see the first sentence and imagine the rest?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:12 PM
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I appreciate your post, but I think it’s more important to focus directly on rape laws and the necessity of them becoming and remaining gender neutral because rape is still rape regardless of the gender and that’s how it should and must be. But this thread should not be a soap box to derail about who has or gets what, rather it goes further when specific/necessary issues are addressed and stuck to the point. “Men are oppressed in every format” Means you are just purposefully detracting from the …
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:48 PM
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‘Shut down your response’? …I think you need to re-read what was being said here, because half way through it’s like you wanted to oppress yourself while arguing it’s a sexist not a racist issue, and then you made it in to a racist issue while trying to argue with it as something sexist. You’re a fucking under educated mess, and honestly you should feel ashamed.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 01:43 AM
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I am a Japanese woman. I don’t care if you’re black, the fact is it is less documented for blacks, because police—especially white cops, are notorious for shooting people like you and getting away with it or being considered heroes for he said she said since the beginning of time—and that is wrong. But what does you being black happen to do with your level of knowledge if you’re asking this question?
/r/MensRights04/07/22 01:18 AM
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When you earn CCM certification, then you must have a few years of experience doing exactly that. I was able to earn it by starting as APM, then PM for commercial construction in a few hotels in the Bay Area. That is how I was able to work on the software for them, because I needed to do exactly that—for experience with SOV’s, Meetings and meeting minutes, subcontractors and their contracts, purchase orders— I needed to understand it and how it works to write it. A failure in communication might…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 06:45 AM
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It is always the manager’s fault if you cannot come up with a way to run your team responsibly and successfully. Blaming your direct reports for your incapability means you’re not just a crappy manager but you’re also a child. If you cannot handle the manager position then do not be a manager. Edit: and yes, when I first started off in software, I was writing construction engineering and management software and subsequently put in the time and experience to acquire CCM certification with the CMA…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 06:23 AM
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As a Sr position who manages people in a FAANG company within an extremely critical position, it is always the manager’s fault if the team is not successful due to communication. A good manager must and will find a way. That is their job and what they are being paid to do. I don’t need to ‘imagine’ anything. That is my job. If one person is to blame for a team failing to be successful, it is always the manager’s fault. Two on my team barely know English, but it’s still my job to work with them a…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 06:12 AM
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Then take out ‘regardless of gender’ and it’s just the same. If you do not know how to talk to your employees, then you’re a shitty manager who doesn’t have the skill set to be a manager. For example, if your company hires a bunch of people from a different country you have no experience with— it’s still your job to figure out a way to communicate with them and motivate with them as a team…. Because …. You are the manager and your job description entails that you …. Manage people.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 05:36 AM
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Dude, do you know what segregation is? The Tuskegee Syphilis experiment?? Fucking hello????
/r/MensRights03/07/22 05:32 AM
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…you’re an idiot who needs to open a history book if you think it hasn’t already happened.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 05:11 AM
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A good manager needs to understand how to adjust their social skills, demeanor, and ways of communicating regardless of gender—because for example, a manager who knows how to communicate with a guy after his wife died and then turn around and talk a different way to a guy who just finished college will always be a successful manager rather than overwhelming either group and turning them to an ineffective employee who just wants to leave. If you do not understand this, or modifying your communica…
/r/MensRights02/07/22 10:11 PM
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….except this is not a feminist issue, this is a racism one. These people were looking for an excuse explicitly to go after a black man, and it did not matter if it was a man woman or child who pointed a finger at him, so long as if they were white. Regarding sexism: My statement still stands— if the genders were treated equally, with equal credibility, then there would be a lot of situations handled more appropriately. “Believe all women” is a thing because had there been an actual victim who w…
/r/MensRights02/07/22 10:01 PM
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It even pushes a lot of responses in this sub to become more hostile. It sucks.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 08:52 PM
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100% true. Just riling people up, but there is a very specific category of people who are more inclined toward mass shootings, so it’s not hard for foreign psyops to stimulate that with responses just like the one you pointed out.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 08:41 PM
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They’re upvoting because it’s more ammo to whine about how much their life sucks but they don’t want to admit it was their own fault so they need to blame women because most of them are divorced.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 08:28 PM
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You are not correct. This is racism. Carolyn Bryant deserves to die in prison— and it was the lack of feminism that enabled her accusation to be used as ammo to lynch a black man: back then it was particularly common to believe children and women did not lie. Not because they were prioritized as being more important or virtuous, but because they were considered more sheltered and naive to learn the need to lie. If feminism were more prevalent back then, Carolyn Bryant would have been questioned …
/r/MensRights02/07/22 08:25 PM
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What you seem to fail to understand when this opinion is expressed is that it’s not actually the woman trying to ‘force’ the man to stay. It’s the government saying ’we don’t want to spend all of our money for every child of a single parent who ends up needing government assistance because that is a lot of funding. Therefore we want the other parent to pay to reduce the amount of government contribution so we have more money to work with.’ Stop complaining to women and using it as a way to ignor…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 09:03 AM
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I think the thing is, if you’re just talking and using it as an opportunity to weave your way around to getting laid, the way you are explaining this gives the impression that you don’t care what has been said, you’re just looking for what to say to get what you want. So it may mean the possibility that you appear fake, dishonest, or a liar, and the lack of genuine interest is what is defeating you, rather than the inability to say the right thing. I think really, you probably need to find a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:33 AM
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Your data is not for recent, but rather covers 2012-2015 based on what it says. The UN report is for 2022 where violence against women escalated nearly double.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:18 PM
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The United Nations published their report and the stats fyi. If I recall correctly the murder rate is 6th in the world for US, behind Mexico and Russia, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:16 PM
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The statistics were not just talking about rape, but they were discussing surveys of how frequent women are able to safely walk alone, and death by spouse. The United Nations research took that in to account. Yes it really is that high here. That’s the actual research. The United Nations literally claimed it a crisis in the US. (And yes, men follow women around here because they are unaccompanied, too. And flirt or harass teenagers. Yes, this is a legitimate thing. Don’t believe me? Go to AskWom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:23 AM
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You’re going to have to re-read the statement and other comments, Ive addressed this five times already
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:21 PM
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I’ve heard that theory, we will see. I was thinking more that people stuck in lower economic standing will mean more people working shitty jobs, but those people will also spend money faster in regard to taxes since higher economic groups make more money but save more so less active money in the economy. Additionally many people in lower standing will join the military as a way out and less likely to think about college so it’s pretty advantageous for less student loans given and more military. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:00 AM
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There’s a mix of reasons, some of them are pretty valid reasons but they’re going about it the wrong way. (Disclaimer, I am not liberal or republican. I vote independent so don’t go crazy to suggest I’m being bias, here.) The first reason is religious influence, but personally I don’t think that’s the real reason, rather it’s a reason republicans tend to be most comfortable with, so utilizing that reason motivates a lot of people. The second reason is strictly economic: it’s fact that there’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:13 AM
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See that’s where you’re wrong. The United Nations and recent research notes that the US is one of the top countries in the world considered most dangerous for women. There are multiple studies on this. While not every dude is bad—you are true, but considering every woman these days has either been physically or sexually assaulted by a dude by the time they reach 30, the number of actual safe and nice dudes is not as high as you think. That’s actually why feminism is on the rise and a lot of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:46 PM
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It is, but the possible changes gives people dipshit ideas. While poisoning someone is jail time, abortion trigger laws suggest death penalty in some states, which is why this came up as a potential situation in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:14 PM
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Yep. It’s a very sad reading. Basically he wants to ban everything because he’s catholic and nvm church and state separation … or how Catholics actually did perform abortion to keep mothers from dying soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:12 PM
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I think it’s Blake Masters, like that’s his whole platform, it’s wild. In a way you’re lucky you missed the news because there’s batshit people out there. But also you probably missed how a Texas woman was put in prison already for miscarrying —never mind that miscarrying is actually more common than giving birth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:05 PM
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Yeeep. Taking away plan b too fyi. It’s pretty fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:01 PM
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Yeah some guy Arizona who’s running is saying he trying to ban condoms too. Some of these states going crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:58 PM
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My source is the trigger law for the state of Louisiana, like it’s coded and published state legislature and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:57 PM
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Lmao yeah, okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:52 AM
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Eh that’s life! No time for that anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:42 AM
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Yeah!!! Call her hysterical that will do it!!!! Lmao, listen he-bitch, I’m on the level don’t worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:41 AM
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A condom can last in the wallet for a few hours. Your feelings might be hurt, but it turns out there’s about 8 other reasonable ways to carry a condom on your person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:25 AM
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You don’t have to understand it, but I have boundaries for reasons based on life experiences. I find dates easily and I’m a pretty good catch but I don’t want to go in to detail about that because it’s just going to be over the top bitchy. There will always be someone else. — The thing you’re not understanding is you’re sensible: “ok, let’s just go to the store.” You don’t know it, you’re the minority in that regard. There’s only so much ‘no baby I’ll pull out it’s all good’ or ‘don’t be a pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:20 AM
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Then don’t read. You’re not going to change my mind regardless of how much bitching you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:06 AM
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You chose not to read my comment. Your discontent is not my problem, then. It addressed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:55 AM
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Basically I’m saying I don’t care. I don’t fuck lazy and stupid morons, I ghost them. I can find someone who is not—very easily. The thing you’re probably missing about what dating is like as a woman, is about 4/5 idiots “forgot to bring a condom” and then starts in trying everything they can —including begging, because they don’t want to get off their ass and go get one. So I am tired of seeing that get to that pathetic point. You have no idea how common this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:48 AM
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It is rigid. If I fuck someone and get pregnant after roe v Wade is overturned, I might actually die because of how the law is changing. I like living. So yes, I would be put off that this selfish dipshit is like “noo let’s just go without these condoms I wanna have my fun now!!!” But to hell with my actual life, right? Why would I want to deal with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:26 AM
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Some women can’t do IUD, but it’s already a trigger law in place to immediately ban IUD in some states anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:19 AM
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IUDs will be made illegal in some states after roe v Wade is overturned, as will be some birth control pills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:19 AM
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If you want sex, be prepared for it. You’re the one on PPD complaining about how women don’t want to fuck you. If you are too lazy to put a condom in your wallet and leave it there until you need it, then you probably are too lazy to be a good lay and I’m really just avoiding a total waste of time. (And yes men literally can carry condoms everywhere. Three can fit in the wallet. Every boyfriend I have ever had has carried condoms everywhere in their wallet. Then they need to replenish, they go h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:17 AM
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Exactlyyyy Or for women who have endometriosis might be mistaken for having a miscarriage. It’s all sorts of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:12 AM
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Oh wow so you’re both even on the same page?? Why not just do swinging, between now and then or something ? You know like you both go to the adult parties and stuff together lol so you’re still both working on stuff but having fun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:14 AM
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No need to apologize at all!!! I was just giving two cents but to be clear I wasn’t judging you! Divorce is pretty rough, so I understand, but …. Dude dating when you’re older is actually a lot of fun, because when you’re older you finally have money, can do cool shit, and have better tastes. I highly recommend. I mean I’m engaged and getting married soon, but the dating around period and having fun— it was a pretty badass time. It took a lot, and an amazing person, to motivate me to step away f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:54 AM
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Lmaooo he’s not even getting rejected, he’s just imagining that he might be rejected and he’s getting all bent out of shape. He wanna cry about it rather than just buying a condom and keeping it in his wallet like an actual adult man does. This some weak ass shit, here. Lmfao. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:41 AM
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Because I don’t want to fuck a self centered irresponsible piece of shit? And I’m not going to do it because it makes a petulant little boy, like yourself, upset. I don’t do charity work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:20 AM
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Personally dating someone who has not fully competed the divorce processes is the most disastrous and stressful thing anyone can do. It is more stressful than the people getting divorced. There is nothing worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:11 AM
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Medical records stay around until you die. I think they get archived but the length of time depends on the state. Additionally the real problem is not the abortions itself if roe v Wade were removed. The problem is people accusing each other of having abortions. For example… what happens if you begin your divorce, your wife is shocked and unhappy because you filed. Roe v Wade is overturned, and your divorce is starting to get ugly. ….and then your wife tells the judge “we are divorcing because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:00 AM
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I take birth control, nice attempt to try and insult. Yes, I would ghost. You may not understand, but the implications of the circumstances would be completely different now. Sex to you would men entertainment and a good time. For me, it would now mean a potentially life risking event. The lack of thoughtfulness to pack a condom or spermicide would make me feel like he was no verbally telling me “I don’t give a fuck if you might die, I want my 5 minutes.” So yes, I would ghost. If I can be respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:56 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily deliberately seek out men with vasectomies as a check box criteria but I would absolutely be more inclined to sleep with a man who has had a vasectomy because it would be more relaxing. However, if I was on a date with someone without a vasectomy and things were going nice to that magic direction and then he says he has no condoms or spermicide available… I would probably leave within seconds and auto-ghost that individual. Largely because there’s so much on the line now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:29 AM
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Where does it say I want to meet anyone? Because I’m pretty sure I am literally saying I don’t want to meet anyone. If you read higher, it is a response to someone asking why doesn’t anyone meet someone from ppd which was what I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:06 AM
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Yeah it was a similar game. Basically I didn’t experience problems early on, so I was like oh this is nice. But the problems did come when I started to get good at the game and try out for teams. On one occasion I was booted out of a game and discord during a team tryout when I talked on the mic, explicitly because the team manager outright stated he did not want any girls on the team at all due to how much of a distraction they pose to the rest of the team which will reduce focus on the game an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:03 AM
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I think if you are asking these questions then you’ve actually explained to yourself why you are not datable at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:11 PM
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I’m going to pose a point to you that you may want to think about: Your Reddit name is “Super_Cuck_Bros” Your posting history has comments similar to: “good i like transgender people in women's sports because it is more entertaining than the sports themselves” …What about those two points demonstrates a person any woman would find to be actually datable? If the things you say usually demonstrate the way you think and behaviors you demonstrate toward people…. Even if you don’t say the same things…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:12 PM
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No, not lol/dota but I don’t want to answer to what game it is, because I take pains for anonymity when I play and would like to keep it that way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:25 PM
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Lol where did I ask to meet anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:36 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:28 PM
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The thing is, with your replies, much of what you are saying is being inserted in to what you think I am saying, not what I am actually saying. An easy example: Although I am not an English speaker, I think the word "opponent" is right here. Are you having a discussion and a person opposing your views is…? The words ‘rival’, opponent’, challenger’, and ‘enemy’ all have the same definition, but they are not appropriate to use interchangeably because it does change the meaning of the sentence. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:25 PM
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It looks like I misread what you said, your additional info is good though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:39 PM
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Okay so … you say it’s not related to a mental disorder, and then you fuckin named one that might do it. I used a general term because a number of disorders can do it—ranging from ADHD, ASD, NPD, BPD, HPD, Schizotypal, etc etc. there’s a numberrr of them. The egocentric phase is noted because that is the phase where things go wrong: the failure to understand people think differently than you. For example.. a person gets a gift for another person and buys what he or she wants and thinks it’s a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:08 AM
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Yeeep, I was on a very competitive gaming team in a dps position, at first things were fine. Then we went to our first tournament, and the other teams, shoutcasters, livestream audience saw I was a chick and I was harassed pretty badly and it was pretty next level. After that, experience I continued attempting to play competitively but it became more challenging as I started using the mic less and less, stopped talking to anyone on the team outside of game play, and stopped talking to anyone onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:13 AM
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Your comment doesn’t make any sense, but it sounds like you’re assuming something that isn’t there for whatever personal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:43 AM
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Pseudoscience to feel wise and special yo. Go to a nasa subreddit and you’re sure to find some people who claim they know about aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:31 AM
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That’s because so many of them have mental disorders so they’re projecting that the world must function exactly how they think about the world. These fuckin people have brain damage or development problems at 4-5 years old where they never got past the egocentric phase to realize people think and prefer different things in an incredibly dynamic array of choices. Lol. And then there are some who don’t believe or disbelieve what they’re saying and are merely just teenage to college, experimenting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:25 AM
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That’s not true, being diagnosed with a disorder does not cause you to have the disorder. You have the disorder, then you are diagnosed. For example, it is possible to be an ‘undiagnosed schizophrenic’. It’s also possible to be a self-diagnosed schizophrenic. Some disorders can be reliably self diagnosed. For example research suggests genuine ASPDs are remarkably accurate at self diagnosis. — personally, I dislike that statement, but that is what the research suggests. ASD’s are pretty spot on w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:16 AM
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Yeeeeep agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:07 AM
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Wait a minute. If marriage is about sex on demand… And RP claims are women can always have sex whenever they want… And women are evolved to have multiple orgasms therefore sex is significantly more rewarding for a woman than a man… …and she’s only sticking to a man for financial and lifestyle benefits… …then wouldn’t that suggest in a society where a woman can earn and save her own money, own her own property, and pursue her own education….. that it would be the other way around where men would …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:05 AM
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You just don’t matter and you are an entire waste of time, lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:48 AM
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LOL “and he’s passed his seed, he’s fulfilled his life at this point.” ….If you actually think that’s fulfilling and the conclusion of life, that’s largely because the only people who think that way don’t actually have anything worth a shit. Pretty fucking laughable. Since you thin that way, I’m going to assume you are in a similar condition… so I don’t see a point in responding because you simply do not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:47 AM
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Lmao, when you do that many drugs, nothing is getting fucked. Shit stops working. People who are content to live like that while just pissing away the things they actually have are human garbage. A lot of the men you talk about would die to trade places with him and change their entire life, wouldn’t they? That does not mean it’s a good aspiration wish to be him. Rather, the aspiration is to not be that. …would that be enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:44 AM
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Lmfao, you don’t get it. he is fucking broke, he is probably more valuable to his kids dead than alive because of his life insurance. Name one fucking woman of any age who wants to date a 60 something drug addict loser who sleeps all day and lives in a room of a house he shares with a bunch of college students? Lmfao, you must be joking. That’s trailer trash that just hasn’t found a trailer to live yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:38 AM
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Lmaoo… if you call being a drug addict, living in one room, with two kids who hate him and the only person as company is a girlfriend who cries herself to sleep every night because she resents him with so much debt he will never be able to retire ”a good life” for any age… Dude… that’s fucking nothing. He will never be able to to go on vacation, he will never have a warm holiday meal, he never see his kids graduate college, he will probably never even go to the beach again in his life. He has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:31 AM
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That whole mess of a paragraph straight up shit you not, happened in a 30 minute span of time during week 2, dude. Shit was so fucking wild. It was some straight up movie bullshit. He was actually just supposed to pick me up so we could get lunch right before doing Christmas shit—he stopped to use the restroom… and then this fucking dumpster fire fell out of the sky. Mind blowing, I fucking swear to god. After it was over, I just sat there on the couch like I just experienced shell shock. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:15 AM
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Well, I think a stable woman who has her shit together is only going to want a man which as shit together. There is no reason a woman who has her shit together will want to date a ‘bad boy’ because it means she will have to support his loser ass. Meanwhile, if a dude wants to date an unemployed irresponsible woman—of course she’s going to be a stressful mess. She’s a adult child. In case you missed it, he was six figures and renting a room in his 50s because he had child support to catch up on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:40 AM
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Oh, that part I know—the statistics I looked over even went as far to survey non custodial parents as for reasons ‘why’ they did not see their kids, or why they did not pay child support, and it was fucking wild. I can’t seem to find the source right now, but the non-custodial fathers who ditch their kids usually provided reasons to make it sound ‘for the greater good’ sort of attitude, and the reasons for not paying child support were things like “I don’t get to control how the money is spent.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:25 PM
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Statistics on non custodial parents who willingly ditch their kids are pretty grim in regard to ‘who does not want parental investment’. In fact, proportionally non-custodial mothers disappear more readily than non-custodial fathers. It’s just that more fathers are the non-custodial parent because of whatever legal reasons. That is all. So I’m not sure if this statistic holds water to whatever is attempted to be expressed, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:10 PM
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I usually do too, but lots of men on PPD sure do like talking with other men about what women think without having any idea what women think. That’s not philosophy, that’s theorizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:02 PM
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To be honest, I’ve never actually seen or heard women saying “men deserve to be beneath women” on Reddit—and for that matter, I haven’t even seen a post about these man-hating fem-nazis I keep hearing about. What I do see, is RP or PPD going out of their way to say something or troll women on Reddit, and then the women get mad and respond, usually with an overall reaching message of how they want to be safe and do not like being harassed. What I also usually see is a male writer making a toxic c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:00 PM
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Your statement is a common misconception based on biased research from the 1980s. Current studies prove ”Women are more likely to be diagnosed with BPD than men, just like men are more likely to be diagnosed with NPD.” —that statement does not mean women are more likely to have bpd and men are more likely to have npd. Pay attention to the literal words. Current research from 2010, onward, is inconclusive about the amounts of cluster b personality disorders in society, in the first place when peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:29 PM
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Yep, I think people on PPD totally miss the point. They think people will want to be with them because just gym it up and make money, and shit just works. They have that shit wrong. People want to date those who appear to have the capacity to prevent this miserable loser fate. If they do not want to date you, it’s because they view you as leading to something like this because of your behavior and lifestyle—and rather than getting mad at them for not wanting to date you, it’s actually a warning …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:47 PM
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When I was in my 20s, I used to have a guy roommate… in his 50s. Who had a gym set in the garage so he worked out all the time, rode a motorcycle, had a pretty good paying job in the six figures…. Kind of weird guy, “bad boy” type, still partied in his age, loved to drink and gamble. … and one day, even brought home a girlfriend to introduce me to, same age as me (30 or so years younger). Very proud of himself for managing to impress a high school dropout who had never held a job, but who cares …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:13 PM
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I like living, why the fuck wouldn’t it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:28 PM
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Okay so I think what may simplify this to avoid getting hung up on terms: bad girls, as you’ve mentioned are categorized as ones who are dealing with a cluster b personality disorder, in this case bpd, who follow a particular set of disastrous patterns and go in to remission with a stressful and troubling emotional cycle that is hard for anyone to deal with. so what would be the appropriate term for the male equivalent who does this, if bad boy denotes a different category? The reason I am askin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:44 PM
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Being crazy is related to being a bad boy in comparison to your definition of bad girls. If you are saying the BPD behavior is a definition of a bad girl—men have this tendency for behavior also. And I disagree: women can in fact be just as violent as men and domestic abuse from women to men is equally likely to happen but is less reported because of how each gender interprets abuse. …violence and manipulation is absolutely not as uncommon as you think— considering every man or woman by the age …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:41 PM
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I’m not understanding how this is relevant to the original topic or what you’re disagreeing with, tbh Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:31 PM
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No, there are guys out there who are exactly the same as the bad girls you’ve described. Basically there’s a ton of people —men and women— out there who act like actual fucking children and NEVER grow up. Can check more about it on Chib’s comment. A guy merely having sex and disappearing is actually the least problematic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:56 PM
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If you’re saying ‘bad boys’ are those who just want to hook up and disappear, no, that is not a bad boy. Believe it or not from the woman’s perspective there are tons of guys who are just as emotionally unstable was women can be—where they seem cool and nice with the same exact idealize, devalue, and discard behavior— based on comparing my own experiences to my guy friends—the frequency of crazy bullshit between the genders seems to be about the same. It’s just that people who behave like shit d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:55 PM
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All of this. Why the fuck would I want to meet up with, fuck, or date the incel dudes from PPD? All they do is spend their time whining about how much they hate me, how unfair life is, and how they’re stronger so they can do whatever they want. …and then whine about how they think they can override my desire for self preservation if they just go to the gym for long enough. There’s too many unsafe idiots here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:40 PM
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Ok, where do you live, what car do you drive, and will you be bringing your wallet? Sure, I’ll meet up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:36 PM
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Not really, most of the guys on here are pretty dangerous material so I can see why they’re single. For example a dude trying to respond to my thread on here trying to explain to me that “might is right and one day I’ll learn” Does that sound like a fucking safe person to meet up with or does that sound like someone who’s going to beat me up, rape me, and steal my money? Nice guys in PPD? You must be fucking joking. Lmao nice guys don’t go to PPD because they’re not sitting around whining about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:32 PM
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BPD does not predominantly affect women, but that women with BPD are more likely to receive a diagnosis for BPD while men with BPD are more likely to be misdiagnosed. “Bad boys” or “bad girls” rather, bad people are generally all the same: they idealize and make you feel great, and then they fuck with your boundaries, and then they become the biggest source of stress imaginable until they fuck off. People grow out of this phase because they grow up, but some people never do. And that’s really th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:30 PM
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It’s alright, I don’t know what the shit I’m reading here most of the time, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:26 PM
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These are good questions, but no—I do not mean accepting an unwanted date is ‘encouraging happiness’. Encouraging happiness as in: yes I hope you find someone who is good for you. Oh you’ve met someone? Tell me about them and let me give you genuine encouragement. I would be disappointed with a friend not wanting to hang out because I do not want to date them. To me, it would feel like they were only being friendly because they hoped to get something from me, and I do not make friends with peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:10 AM
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I don’t think it’s a thought that’s really that composed, but similar to even how same gendered friends get a little cranky when a buddy gets a new relationship because they feel like they might not see their friend or things are changing. Just that some people are bad about articulating it. As a chick, I have had a chick friend get upset when I started dating someone: if things go well, no more late nights out until 5am, no more all weekend every weekend at each others’ houses, no more ‘drop ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:52 AM
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Ah you mean a genuine friendship and then the rejector says they’re not interested in dating, and the rejected goes off to spend date time with someone else but maintains the friendship? It sounds like the rejector has a problem with loneliness, when they should be encouraging happiness, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:41 AM
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What you’re missing is they’re not talking about ‘why aren’t you treating the same’ because in some regard you are correct: if you are rejected, it’s fair to want to spend your time with someone else who might be date material than someone who rejected you. What the subject is, is pretending to explicitly be a friend, as in ‘I’m only being nice to you because I want to date you’ if you have not made that clear. There’s a difference between: “I’m hoping to get to know you because I’m interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:33 AM
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An ex is an ex, not a friend. I don’t talk or have anything to do with ex’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:26 AM
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After 6 months, I would be asking outright what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:23 AM
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It’s not your job to drag the truth out of him. If he wants you to care, then he needs to tell you so you have something to care about. You are a girlfriend, not a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:21 AM
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He has the ability to quickly sort what matters and what doesn’t. For example, trying to disagree where to go on a date while not providing any input and subsequently engaging in an argument is not more important than actually having a date (I cancelled.) Trying to engage in an argument while driving is not more important than driving, so stop. Getting mad because I’m not responding to texts while I’m at work is not more important than my actual work. Basically maturity and intelligence revolves…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:20 AM
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I’m a little more harsh in real life and more willing to discuss or respond to people on PPD than real life. For example, if someone says something stupid in real life, rather than trying to explain or make counter points, I’m more likely to just stare at them or repeat what they just said very very slowly so they can hear themselves. I also don’t take the time to encourage people in real life, so I guess I’m actually a lot nicer online than I am in real life toward men and women, alike. I’ve al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:01 AM
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Truly, men with degrees tend to have more social skills due to socialization during the college experience. Men who do not have degrees seem to be consistently behind in maturity and less capable of taking care of themselves in the real world, unfortunately. (Less likely to to budget, negotiate, communicate, and more likely to have a midlife crisis) that’s not to say they’re stupid, just that they’re more of a burden or weight to be around. It’s pretty laborious and time consuming to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:57 AM
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Does this mean I should try to be friends first, if possible? You can try—here’s the thing— many people will discourage you because they will say ‘friend zoned’. The ‘friend zone’ isn’t what people think it is. What is actually going on is the woman who ‘friend zones’ is actually saying “I trust you, I like being around you, and I still want to know you, but I do not like the idea of dating you because there are differences in our behaviors and interests that I am highly confident I will lose yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:25 AM
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Erm….Ok? Lmfao, I mean I wasn’t even aware there was a right or wrong answer about… any of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:19 PM
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That’s not actually the point I was making, but you’re looking to find something to be mad about to actually see the point. However, the person I was responding to understood it clearly. Your interpretation is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:49 PM
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Because that’s the same thing women who get with old men for money tell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:00 PM
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I am very masculine in personality where I enjoy video games, working, cars/motorcycles, working with my hands, building things, math, etc. Visually, I appear extremely feminine so it throws people off: platinum blonde hair and hot pink lipstick, etc, so it made dating challenging. I preferred dating more feminine men, because most masculine men prioritize concerns of ‘not looking weak to other people’ instead of just enjoying the relationship. It seems like the masculine men have a harder time …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:29 PM
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There was a full sentence, not a half sentence— I did not say you hated yourself. Rather, if you constantly spend time around someone who treats you like shit, who looks down on you, is mean to you, and treats you like a slave for years, that does something to someone. That is called abuse. There is nothing worth being abused, not anyone. For example, was it worth it for Johnny Depp? The man lost his entire livelihood—it’s not his fault, but it’s that he didn’t deserve it and it was certainly no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:42 PM
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I’m sorry my tone sounds like it is victim blaming, that is not my intention. You see—when you sell yourself short to get something you want, you make yourself really only half of a person: you are betraying yourself. I have never ‘just been nice’ to get something I wanted or put up with someone who treat me poorly just for a gain. There’s always another way. I’ve been homeless, single, poor, completely stuck and lost in a foreign country; among other things—I have seen some shit. The thing is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:45 PM
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….it’s a question, what’s the difference and why is one worse than the other? Personally I think both are equally as pathetic, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:16 PM
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‘no I don’t really like or want this person but I really want something from them because I can’t get it myself anywhere else’ …. So then why do people complain about gold diggers or being used for shopping and money?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:53 PM
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If you’re that desperate for pussy, then why complain when you’re treated like one? Sounds like I’m trying to talk shit but that’s a serious question. There’s complaints of ‘women thinking they’re too good’ but then they’re like ‘imma put up with this because I really need pussy :(‘ So you’re basically just literally becoming a pussy in hopes of getting one, and then sitting around being pissed about it. It’s super weird. Like if you didn’t put up with it, then I would understand complaining. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:33 PM
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Lmao I’m going to stop responding and let this whole conversation sink in with you a bit. You’re the joke, but I’m not heartless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:27 PM
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’Get @ me’ ..but you asked me if I was trying to intimidate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:18 PM
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…why did you put your height and weight stats on your profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:16 PM
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Maybe you should review the rules listed on this community and worry about that instead of what I’m doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:11 PM
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….lmfaoooo So let me get this straight. you mistook sarcasm for seriousness you have a weak ass memory you think I am trying to intimidate you you think I am getting chewed up …lmfao like… is your IQ 60 or something? The truth is all I’m doing is taking screenshots of the dumb shit I see and laugh about it with a group on Facebook…and you made it in (which is why I remembered you) but the fact that I got a part 2 is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:00 PM
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You don’t remember trying to argue with me and getting bent out of shape do you, kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:50 PM
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Lmfaoooo wait did you think I was serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:47 PM
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Eh I mean you do you, but I think it’s pretty weak if you’re not actually of any real value, other than to take advantage of other people who have nothing. It kind of makes you lazy, and you just end up dumber over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:46 PM
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Awww you’re so considerate. …you’re totally right. I really should take a break :) let me get right on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:42 PM
1

Yeah okay hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:35 PM
1

Lmao, you worry about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:32 PM
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LMAOOOOO yeah go to the subreddit nice guys and see how many nice guys there are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:26 PM
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If she used it as a way to break up with him, his complaint would have been ‘she said I was too nice’ Not ‘I was too kind and her behavior changed.’ This is just some poor me thing of not wanting to think about the situation and actually see what went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:23 PM
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Omfg, she didn’t break up with you because you were too nice. She broke up with you because you’re a self pitying pussy who doesn’t know how to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:22 PM
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Lmaooooo dude even your response doesn’t show someone who actually cares. It shows someone who makes everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:18 PM
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LMAOOOOO “I was ‘too perfect for her. I did everything right’.” /niceguys This is what every guy says when she tells him he has made her uncomfortable or hurt her, and then decides to leave him because he doesn’t listen or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:11 PM
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Yeah every major city except cities in New York, California, Texas, and Florida, right? Lmfaooo. Every major city. Like… I don’t know, El Paso TX is considered a major city and they literally have 27% more women than men. Some places in Texas have as high as 28% more women than men. Some cities in New York it can get like 15% higher more women than men, and so on…and no it’s not because of women senior citizens, lmfao. You are absolutely not correct in what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:12 PM
1

…it’s boring because what you’re saying is literally not true… at all… anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:09 PM
1

The criminal charge of a false accusation of rape is not a sex crime. It’s called ‘Perverting the Course of Justice’ and I think if you’re whining about it, you have no concept of how rare that crime occurs. LOL yeah strippers just want your kidneys Yo lmfao lay off the drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:02 PM
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Dude I legit had a guy friend once tell me that whole ‘women don’t know how to give advice about women’ …and then proceeded to tell our other friend that he should lift or move something heavy when she walks by, like his office chair or desk. I was fucking dying dude. And why is it usually another single guy giving advice to single guys who claims a woman is giving bad advice? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:57 PM
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It’s because that’s how they think: “if she’s hot I don’t care about how she acts or her personality she just needs to be hot.” …and then they date the hot chick. Some are lucky: she’s nice, and its a good experience. Some are selfish and she cheats on you with your best friend. But to hell with that cuz she hot right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:52 PM
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She drugged and stole from men, she did not sleep with them therefore she didn’t commit a sex crime. But yeah like.. super hard avoiding women drifting and stealing from you right? Maybe like don’t hang out with her and stop going to the hood bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:47 PM
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“She dated that guy instead of me. Therefore he’s a jerk.” That’s what started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:46 PM
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/facepalm Yeah like cardi b so hard to avoid right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:42 PM
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…. So … you don’t want con-women and you’re having a hard time with that. Avoiding con-women requires you to be looking for someone who does not want fast and emotionally cheap. That means people who want something fast and emotionally cheap will come to you if that’s what you’re putting out there. You are literally complaining about con-women who explicitly want fast and emotionally cheap—that’s why they’re con women. Connect the dots here. Maybe my friend doesn’t ‘just want to get laid’ becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:08 AM
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When you use tricks, smoke, mirrors to gain the interest of a child, do not be upset or surprised when you’re watching an actual circus roll out in front of you. It’s okay to be firm and direct in the dating world without any of that shit—mature individuals are mature because they are tired of the bullshit. And no, I’m not going to pass on the advice: he is not a quiet person. Acting quiet to gain someone’s interest means the person is interested in gaining a quiet person’s interest. Start talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:52 AM
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Thanks for adding to this, you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:49 AM
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The reason you are exposed to con women is because you are probably sexist. Before you get pissed, hear me out: “I must BE THE MAN and take care of her, and pay for everything and be super human to her—wait, why is she scamming me.” —when you go hang out with your buddies, do you always pay for them? Do you try to be Superman to your homies? No. You expect them to be able to suck up whatever is going on and take care of themselves. You expect that maybe you might cover the bill if it’s 2am and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:43 AM
1

You nailed it in your first paragraph, just that I think people are going to read this and think ‘once I get the girl to go out with me!! Okay let me play games to get her interest!!’ And then they’re going to play games… and wonder why they’re dating someone who is super responsive and intense.. when they played games to get there and that’s the type of person who responds to games!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:33 AM
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Well, you’re in luck. My fiancé has Asperger’s and he is the baddest ass man in the known universe. So listen, you MUST make it clear to someone you’re dating early on that you have Asperger’s. (Or NVLD, I don’t know enough about that but if it is similar then it’s possible the same advice applies so I will refer to it as Asperger’s) The challenge for you is to get in the groove where someone is used to you and you’re used to them where you’re both relaxed—which usually takes like 8-12 months (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:26 AM
2

This shit case in point ‘don’t take women advice and hit the gym. Cuz I know what women like more than women and gym totally makes up for being s boring asshole’ lmao. Then you end up like my best guy friend: looks like a male model, but completely fucking undatable and won’t listen but yet I’m telling him exactly what he can do. …there’s a reason why the best wingman is a woman. But give advice so they can do it themselves and they want to fight tooth and nail. But how come there’s such a huge …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:58 AM
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There’s a lot of miserable people on this subreddit who are just assholes and that’s why women don’t want to date them but they think it’s that women have ‘too high standards because they don’t have blonde hair and 6’3’ when it’s like no, dipshits, it’s because your personality sucks so bad no one wants to be around you. But you tell them that and suddenly you’re a femcel (man hating) because you gave them actual advice on how to be datable but they don’t want to be. Because actually doing thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:02 AM
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Lmfaooo oh honey you’ve opened a self victimizing can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:55 AM
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Yeah, probably Lmfaooo could be where he got the idea from and it kind of caught on, I’m not sure. But good idea none the less. I don’t remember that happening in the movie but I thought he just gave his business card? I’ll have to watch it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:50 AM
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Great, Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:14 PM
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The truth is, if he’s an adult and takes the relationship seriously and wants a future with you, then you are expected to be the kind of woman who can handle her shit. No man wants to have kids with a woman who cannot keep her shit together because he needs to trust if he gets in to a car accident and dies, then your future kids will be well taken care of. So you can be pretty, you can be smart, you can be cute, you can be as submissive as you fucking want, but you can’t be stupid and helpless. …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:11 PM
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Uh, listen, I’m not a RPW, in fact I’m a very bitchy woman… but if you and your partner work for a living, and going out 4 nights a week, then yes you should pay half of them or not go. Would you want to pay all of them? No. So why should he? ‘Because he makes the decisions in the relationship’… uh, then it’s your job to speak up that way but last I checked decision making does not have currency. You are an adult. Put your big girl panties on and carry a relationship with equal responsibility li…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 10:02 PM
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Sure buddy, I’ll answer your shit. I’m not RedPill but I am a woman, so I guess that makes me qualified: I do not have wandering eyes for anyone else but my man, because if I had eyes for someone else, then I would have gotten that someone else, easy. But I only have eyes for my guy because there is no one who is capable of even remotely comparing to him. That is why he is my fiancé. If you’re already with the best, there’s not going to be anything better.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 09:43 PM
1

Until their abuser murders them, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:30 PM
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Men with bpd are way more rare as fuck but I dated one for about three weeks: at first it’s amazing—this is the kind of man who makes a woman feel like he will literally carry a throne in his back and fucking die for her. Fantasy bullshit right here. …but the moment you don’t play in to him being the super hero—sneeze the wrong way and just because shit happens and he was two seconds too late with a tissue, he will have a fucking meltdown which the likes of you have never seen. We’re talking run…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:20 PM
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It’s a personality disorder. People do tell them about their red flags but they do not want to hear it. They do tend to treat their friends just like their relationships over time, also, but they treat people shitty at different times, so no one realizes it’s all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:12 PM
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It’s because BPD disorder causes a person with it to open up quickly. They will over share, they will cry, they will be vulnerable and ask for help extremely quickly because that’s what happens with BPD. This results in the man feeling more in control if the situation: they feel needed and depended on, so it feels less threatening for them—so they trust her very quickly. It’s not just guys—BPDs open and bond with anyone incredibly quickly because they more readily share info and then prioritize …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:05 PM
2

He just got upset because I commented that the guy was hot, that’s what he was whining about: “But wat about me :(“
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:48 PM
1

Is it possible the fans or whoever’s email was found for this received a cease and desist ? Or I guess it could be so simple that they just chose to do a different woman Hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:13 PM
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Who knows, but I do know copywrite and licensing laws are different in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:58 PM
1

“There, I cold approached her and asked for her number while striking up a conversation. Why didn’t it work?” Because you approached me while I was at the end of my work day, and all I wanted to do was get home, and the conversation you attempted to strike up with me revolves around you trying to convince me “I don’t ‘really’ know who I’m dating”. Because you approached me in a bar while I was out with some friends, and just wanted to play pool. When I explained ‘I’m not here for a hookup’, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:07 PM
1

Jennifer Lawrence too expensive to use her in what is essentially her reputation to promote the show. Megan Thee Stallion more affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:09 PM
1

Normal well-rounded people do not like to be mean, but in the context of this thread, women were specifically mentioned because that was what was being addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:52 AM
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Natural selection is in regard to environmental changes causing a change of an entire species. For it to be considered natural selection, the changes that occur due to the environment must fulfill four criteria that changes within the entire species as denoted by Charles Darwin. Natural selection no longer takes place in humans anymore because humans are globalized, they can engineer or utilize technology, but ultimately there’s not going to be another step of Homo sapiens becoming something els…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:47 AM
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I think you may do yourself a favor and re-read what I actually said, not what you imagine I said. The reason you are dealing with childish women is because you behave like a child. Act like an adult, and you will find adults. Otherwise I’m not here to convince you about whatever is going on in your head or be a stand in for whatever resolved issues you have and think you are reading in my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:50 AM
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You bet wrong. I’ve never actually read anything from FDS. But when you work hard for what you have, deliberately, with ambition and purpose and take your time to build something yourself—you are not going to deal with people who live casually. Regardless of gender. That might bother you, but why would anyone deal with a child as a partner when they’ve spent their adult life handling things like an adult? There’s a lot of complaining for a quick answer or a right button to press and everything j…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:29 AM
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I thought about it a bit, and yes, I do think it is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:29 AM
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This is called self-discipline, not superiority, this is likely why I am more successful than most people: not because I am somehow cosmically entitled above other people…but discipline and patience to exercise virtue, good intentions, and a sense of integrity actually do matter. You refer to it like ‘jewelry’, ‘fenced in neighborhoods’, and ‘carefully selected friends’ as something simple or materialistic. Those things have been the sum of good intentions, helping others, positive thinking in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:01 PM
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By definition of animals, yes, humans fit the bill, but downplaying your civility in excuse to dismiss bad behavior doesn’t mean it’s natural, it just makes you weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:23 PM
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I think that mentality is a little more accurate, but I think someone who might not be a supermodel means they are sentenced to a miserable shitty life of defeat. I do think it means a little less attention and no free drinks at the bar side pool at a resort party… but that is hardly some kind of life ruining event.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:22 PM
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It sounds like you need it, so I’ll cease responding to you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:59 PM
0

Would you like the last word?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:57 PM
0

Lol ”why can’t you read my mind to know exactly what I was thinking, that’s your fault!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:54 PM
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I don’t believe I am a Femcel: you see, femcels reputably hate men. I do not. But just because I disagree with a statement does not mean I hate who is saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:51 PM
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…. Except that statement was taken from a psychology essay based on gender recognition development. So I’m failing to see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:50 PM
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…I don’t think your accusation is reasonable. But if you are convinced I was someone who was harassing you on a different account, then I invite you to examine my posting history because you’ll see how I was quite literally on this account all day yesterday while I had the day off, and freedom to hang out in front of the tv and spam to my hearts content. No, seriously, my post frequency was incredibly high—high enough that I would not have had the time or opportunity to log out, just to harass y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:33 PM
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You are posing this as an argument of nature versus nurture to define who a person is, along with their preferences. You’re right, I do believe we will have to agree to disagree, because I am of the opinion that learned behaviors through environmental situations, life experiences, and so on, play more situationally about determining who a person is than the way they were born. I also think one’s hold to your belief may be held more strongly based on the location you are born: someone who has a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:27 PM
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I wanted to add, due to recent studies, the suggestions you are actually making may not be entirely valid as well— the suggestion of gender determining behavior. That’s not my field of specialization, but what I do know is new research is being released regarding such topics and the results are probably not expected. For example, the release of research from Columbia University suggests on the cognitive and decision-making level, “Gender differences are merely just power differences in disguise.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:22 PM
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Except that’s not true. The majority of women around me do in fact date lower income, myself included—because I have never dated anyone who has made more than me. I’m currently engaged, even, and I make more than my fiancé. It does not bother me. Assume what you’d like about income, but the reason I am responding in the first place is because TRP statements are not universal nor are they the majority in what I’ve actually experienced in the world around me. (I am also higher educated than anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:51 PM
1

You missed more than that but after you added commas, I am able to assume the remainder of how you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:48 PM
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I disagree with your belief on this. If humans were built to think poorly of themselves—or self scrutinize, repetitively, to the point of “emotional self-flagellation” then a high frequency of negative thoughts would not lead to a detrimental affect on mental health. If, the ability to ‘undo’ something, as you are suggesting, means that humans were meant to endure it —that is like saying humans were built to break all of their ribs at once and just because they have the ability to heal over time…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:47 PM
1

Thanks for the edit, when it was one single sentence there were about four different ways to answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:39 PM
1

I’m not trying to be rude but we’re going to need some grammar check here, with a bit of punctuation… because your current question can mean multiple things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:34 PM
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… so, do you know what the purple pill is? So when you look at the top of your page, Kay? It says ‘PurplePillDebate’ Yep, looks about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:29 PM
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Define ‘primitive’, because ‘primitive humans’ haven’t existed for 200,000-300,000 years, but there sure are a lot of people who use the excuse of being primitive as a means to indulge poor behavior, underachieving, or compromising their own behaviors because something is ‘too hard’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:16 PM
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…what’s ‘just being silly’ is how you have yet to realize in terms of science, articles published from places like psychology today and university research, have said very differently from what you said. When you call me anti-science, understand I read science research articles before I spoke. The most recent one: “Scientists Agree that Classifying Humans as Monogamous or Polygamous is Difficult” This was from an article published by research findings from evolutionary psychologists in Montreal,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:10 PM
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… except I’m pretty sure I know what time I used and way I intended, because I’m kind of the expert of the subject of… you know, myself. Lmfao. So I’m probably exponentially more qualified to describe what I meant when I was trying to say something. You know, for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:22 AM
1

Eh, no, I’m pretty selective with who I spend my time with in any scenario, including friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:00 AM
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Thanks, it’s been suggested I’m angry or worked up, I actually wanted to talk about this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:28 AM
1

So.., what happens if the man signs away his rights in a paper abortion, and then five years later he changes his mind and decides to come back…? Ruling him as being unable to return actual does not suit the best interest of the child. With a situation like that it’s like saying the father of the child has the ability to change his mind at his leisure where the weight of the woman’s decision has more permanence, more responsibility, and more consequence. The idea of a paper abortion to make it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:26 AM
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I didn’t think of it like that but you have a point, hm. Lemme think about it and spam more later
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:27 AM
1

Because of situations like how you mentioned is the distrust actually so deep that it’s impossible to assist in a successfully constructive manner? Truly, much of what I have said almost seems that way where I really am interested in learning and helping, but the act of doing so promotes insults or even anger responses by discussing. So with the sum of everything can it legitimately get better? Speaking for myself, I don’t have the availability to get every man’s rapport to consider their experi…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 09:57 PM
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I don’t know if I agree with you about the poor medical choices part but there are some elements that I can draw parallels to on the grouping of people you mentioned that can fill in some blanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:51 PM
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Oh the childhood trauma I definitely figured. Since Covid it’s become a thing for people to get absurdly pissed at those who are really just trying to make their life better, goddamn. Like.. it is easy to say ‘fuck’em lemme just ignore and go about my day’ but the problem is getting worse instead of getting better, so I figure it’s about time to pay attention and really see what it’s about because regardless of validity or not, there’s still an indication of a society problem one is going to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:16 PM
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You stated you did not like having your time wasted so I gave you a complete answer. Read it or don’t. If you don’t, I’m sure someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:07 PM
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If you’re referring to me, I’m engaged, and the challenges my fiancé goes through out in the world are very important for me to try and understand. It is a great benefit in making attempts to understand the experiences of the opposite gender and the challenges they face for the benefit of empathy and communication: both men and women alike could not do that enough. So for starters, you may want to entertain the idea that since text only counts for something like 20% of the human language excludi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:56 PM
2

A few things: I never commented on insisting a man ‘man up and cow down’, if a man wants to engage in hookup culture, where I live happens to be the capital of swinger culture. I don’t participate in it myself but hookup culture is pretty normalized and not shamed here for both men and women, and the friends I have who engage in that, both men and female, I do not view it as a bad thing. After all, my own father is poly, and he has two girlfriends. I don’t see what reason there is to be bothered…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:24 PM
1

Yeah I have seen a guy friend of mine react in this way where a very attractive woman approached him and he came back to me for advice about how certain he was that she was fucking with him… and I guess I end up reaching out on these types of subreddits because while a part of me is flustered about my own experiences another part of me is like ‘damn, that’s a very upsetting internal dialogue one must be walking around with, and they need to know for their own wellbeing that it’s not true.’ Overa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:46 PM
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Wow thanks for your time as is, I enjoyed reading that and I understand and there are a few interesting points to do my own reading about. I assumed you were a guy because I was not aware of your gender hahaha. The gender disparity issues are upsetting to me because I do think it would be nice to be sensitive and concerning in regards for happiness of the opposite gender which initially launched my interests in examining these subreddits, but what upsets me is the more I delve in to it and reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:42 PM
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Why are you offended enough to comb through my threads and take the effort for an attempt at personal insult? …that’s not going to happen— I happen to like surfing Reddit in downtime and responding to things I read, don’t you? But seriously, why are you offended? Do you realize I’m actually explaining dudes who are lonely are not losers or undesirable, they just beat themselves up too hard and hyper analyze reasons to justify it. …but yet that upsets you…? Explain? Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:28 PM
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That really fucking sucks and I’m sorry you were treated in a way that you don’t deserve, because that’s not right, and really pretty shitty. In my case I didn’t even know I was remotely attractive back then; I thought it would be cool to have a boyfriend to play video games with who didn’t suck at them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:21 PM
2

That’s a shitty but good point. Sucks that it appears most of them don’t even know it so they’ll always lose, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:51 PM
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I’m not defensive at all. I’d say it’s a fair question: You are engaging in an act that may result in you as being required to pay then money every month for the next 18 years…. And you’re comfortable deciding that it’s up to the person you’ll pay out, if they want to make you pay it or not later in? I would like to think the answer is hell no, here’s some spermicide and condoms for the person I’m going to hook up with, and there’s a plan B that can be taken immediately if the condom breaks beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:34 PM
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I’ll put on my big girl pants when you use your eye powers to see I have actually discussed OP’s theory at hand and now am merely reacting to the comments to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:29 PM
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They’re actually not living ‘the dream’ they are living a cheapened version of reality while inventing distractions from genuine self improvement. Disposable lives with objectified concepts of what they think will make them happy based on what might be cool does not actually make one happy or fulfilled: that’s why living as a frat boy at 22 is fun and cool…. Living as one at 40 is sad and pathetic. You do you. I hope eventually you figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:18 PM
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If the attraction to large breasts were instinctual then why are there several cultures of note that do not like women with large breasts and take measures for women to bind their breasts as a sign of beauty? That defies the definition of instinctual behavior. In fact, English culture did not even prefer large breasts until recently. (Even American culture at one point in time did not prefer large breasts or curvy hips, this is relatively new, fyi) Do not confuse cultural definitions of beauty t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:10 PM
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Yet there are ways of interpreting and processing the world that can prevent such circumstances without making yourself unhappy. In other words it is possible to adjust your outlook and re-think your life lessons to successfully be happy while avoiding emotional anguish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:07 PM
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The woman does have countless more options, but what I do know is since I stand a chance of getting stuck with child support for something I don’t want, I take whatever resources available to reduce risk rather than counting on the people I could owe money to for 18 years to do it for me. … logically that would be the way to go. So why don’t you take control of your situation and do what you can to avoid that fate instead of letting someone else do it for you and then getting mad at them for exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:05 PM
2

I was under the impression that we are not considered an evolving species any further because natural selection no longer legitimately takes place to cause change in the way of say… grey and black moths and that whole father of evolution research but rather there is a different term for it that indicates a collective progression outside of natural selection therefore warranting a different term. I’d google it, but since you’re probably more educated than I am in this field (my education is high …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:00 PM
1

If you are interpreting me as saying ‘ha got you!’ Then your warped sense of perception about the world is the problem: I don’t find entertainment at the suffering and self inflicted pain of others. There’s no last laugh or funny got you feeling in me, just frustration at people who insist their own emotional anguish and demeaning self worth as being perceived as a good thing. It legitimately sucks to watch. There are people out there who really want others around them to find happiness because …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:55 PM
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Good luck with that, somewhere along the way you learned some really flawed lessons that don’t constitute a successful life in the long term, but it’s your life and if you’re not able to learn by optimism then you’ll probably learn in time by emotional pain. Unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:52 PM
2

Lol you idiot, they don’t even know if humans are naturally polygamous or monogamous, let alone an instinctually consistent set of mating behaviors across cultures. By that alone, they are 100% domesticated which nulls everything you’re suggesting. When the entire human race takes on naturally consistent sets of behaviors regardless of cultural interaction with each other then we can talk…. But there’s only one behavior humans currently have in that regard and that is the concept that cannibalis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:49 PM
4

That’s really unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:35 PM
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Regardless people don’t actually operate this way. Why do you think women post on here to discuss…? Because it’s fun and entertaining? It’s largely because you have people out there who have been trying to tell you not everyone thinks and feels this way and the world actually is not dog eat dog if you look good you get everything kind of self-flagellation existence. You’re trying to say everyone lives and feels a particular way, yet you have people coming out of the woodwork saying no, I don’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:35 PM
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If you truly believe “good looking men get whatever they want and all of us ugly men get nothing” then I implore you, or even to be insulting because that’s not my intention, but I genuinely implore you to go see a therapist because people were not built to think so poorly about themselves and maintain good mental health. This mentality is not actually normal and the world legitimately does not operate like this. The way you think and believe is not correct, and you are 100% likely to not be as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:29 PM
3

The only gland humans have that can ‘detect’ anything biologically speaking is called the vomeronasal organ in the nasal cavity, located just above the roof of the mouth. In humans, despite existing, it’s too under developed in modern humans to actually influence behavior: For example… baby powder legitimately smells of baby pheromone (actual pheromones and baby genetic material do not smell as strong, so baby powder smells really about 20x the strength) If this gland actually was developed enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:25 PM
3

Easier said than done. There was one time in college where I approached a guy to ask him out, and he was immediately suspicious and reserved, and behaved as if I was playing a prank on him so he told me to go away. I was kind of shocked and pretty hurt, but oh well, rejection sucks all around. Except I wasn’t playing a prank— but he was already too plugged in to the red pill to realize, while the red pill community actually fucking destroyed him, so he became lonely entirely because he had a gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:14 PM
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I mean call it whatever anyone wants, but it’s be nice if there was a way to get through to these people because I’d like to think everyone just wants to be happy… or some shit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:07 PM
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Wowww, damn, you make a ton of sense. Also it makes me a little mad that men want men to be miserable for profit or emotional benefit. That’s so fucked up! I know that’s naive of me to think about it like that and feel surprised, but they’re just super keen on cannibalizing other men for benefit when they’re dealing with hurt people who trust them so much that they don’t believe it when someone who actually wants to listen and help them really does come along. I mean I really like men, they’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:00 PM
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THIS. EXACTLY FUCKING THIS. Humans do not live in these fucking jungle herds and the real world is not some primitive Stone Age village. Our sleep schedules of 8 hours at night isn’t even natural and instinctual, the food we eat isn’t even natural and instinctual—do you know how fucking crazy it is to suggest anything else in our lives are ‘natural’ humans are domesticated as fuck—we don’t actually have any natural instincts and no one flies south to the winter. We are actually incredibly displa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah you’re right. It sucks, but it’s like they WANT to be miserable, not even saying it like metaphorical but there’s a lot of ‘no no go away, life is miserable and it sucks and how dare you try to say anything positive (insert insult word here)” It’s so fucking illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:53 PM
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I don’t ‘sniff out genes’ nor is there any sort of gland developed in humans to utilize pheromone information. …nor do I have offspring. But the point remains, honestly the only thing I’ve ever tried to seek out is just someone who’s not a downer, doesn’t try to insult me because they feel bad about themselves, and can just be polite. It’s never been about the money, or having blonde hair, living at the gym, or making a fuck ton of money because I can do all that shit already… but rather just so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:51 PM
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I got in to it on the MensRights sub from there, and I’ve decided frustrated men from Reddit confuse the fuck out of me—because it’s like they all say ‘life sucks and here’s why the odds are against me’ but they don’t want to fix it, they don’t want someone to be sympathetic and supportive, and when you try to listen the responses shift from everything ranging from: no I don’t trust you! To ‘it’s their fault!’ Like damn, half you guys need to get in to some mental health and get on some anti dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:47 PM
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It’s weird to me to read topics like this that kind of animal simplify it all down about ‘attraction’ and ‘provider’ in which it feels like it’s so primitive and simplified that it gives me the impression of someone simplifying society and it’s challenges to something like this as if it were the instinctual animal kingdom is someone who is to simple in their perception of the world that there will not be any happiness or benefit to being with them. I’ll put it this way: as a woman who makes six …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:32 PM
1

/facepalm Reread this conversation. You go from saying the opposite of what I’m saying to saying the exact same things. This isn’t about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:10 PM
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I am not empathetic to this because a man has every opportunity to prevent pregnancy as much as women: condoms, spermicide, plan b—these are all resources to prevent unwanted pregnancy and promotes the consideration that both parties need to be considering of the trustworthiness and ambitions of the person they are fooling around with. As a man, you can keep condoms, spermicide, and plan b available and combining all three methods is s pretty successful and functional strategy. To prevent pregna…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:08 PM
1

…part of the reason I follow the directions I give is because the police themselves directed me to behave in the manner I specified of being firm, not polite, and to the point, which is considered rude, because it is statistically more likely to keep you safe. Your suggestions are genuinely incorrect and dangerous, and then you’re trying to weave around with alternative explanations because it’s becoming about an ego thing. It’s not about ego, here: Someone does not deserve to get hurt because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:00 PM
1

That’s still considered making a scene and being rude; you already said being polite was the way to go: this is not good advice and it will absolutely get someone hurt. ‘Be polite and someone intending to harm me will be made to leave me alone’ … are you for real here? That’s not how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:56 PM
1

Yeah, you’re not understanding that’s not actually how a scenario actually works with someone who is intending to do you harm. They aren’t looking for reason, consideration, and aren’t interested in listening to you. They want what they want, it does not matter what you say, they are merely listening for reasons not to listen but have already decided their intentions. That is because you’re imagining to be dealing with a normal person who listens and understands reason, a predatory person is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:53 PM
2

So what’s the point of MensRights if you don’t want anyone to listen?
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:50 PM
1

What you’re not understanding is the people who do have bad intentions will purposefully try to make you look bad, or whatever resources they can to essentially bully you—they already intend for this. That’s why you do not try to placate them, because they are counting in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:49 PM
1

Erm… you want mens rights but won’t believe anyone who tries to help you. Honestly it sounds like you want to be a victim because you feel there’s more perceived benefit to victimizing yourself, than actually attempting to improve it. If you did want to improve it, you would be more willing to recognize someone like myself who is interested in trying to help out and actually does want to listen. It’s fucking weird, because you’re essentially being oppressed by your own paranoia.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:42 PM
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It was a date at a restaurant, usually people do not come with in those events. My point is, it doesn’t matter if you are actually rude or not, if said individual decides you are, they’re still going to react accordingly. At least at the restaurant, other people will remember what happened if you turn up missing so you have witnesses instead of randomly disappearing. Speaking for myself, I was not rude, and I could have died. This is what women hear who are hurt: “why didn’t you give any indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:34 PM
1

Nah, as someone who was beaten up in the parking lot following that decline, it’s better to be rude to generate attention before leaving that place rather than quietly taking an exit and getting hurt. Women like you can judge but at least I won’t be in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:28 PM
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The reason polite rejection doesn’t work is because when it’s polite it can be misunderstood or sometimes interpreted as ‘a no that is waiting to become a yes with persuasion’. The polite rejection is not noticed as much by bystanders, either. So for example if you give a rude rejection and he follows you out to the parking lot and kills you, people remember “that guy she told off” Every woman has also been called rude or mean for giving a negative response regardless of behavior or tone of voic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:11 PM
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… when you learn how to read, you’ll see that no one is defining masculinity, but that no one actually wants you to experience loneliness just because you’re a man.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:03 PM
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Why do you men actually want to be victimized? That’s the part I’m scratching my head over— for example, I don’t want that, that’s actually what I’m stating, but all these downvotes are pretty insistent. It’s so fuckin weird
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:01 PM
1

Stanford University School of Medicine, based on July 2021 research. The Journal of American Medical Association has also published studies in April 2021 after examining research and records from 1959-2018. The research for the article below was published by Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center. Research results: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/2778126 The short explanation is peak fertility age of women in the US used to be 35, then it increased to 37.1 over time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:41 PM
1

Well that’s funny because I just described it to you and I don’t recall saying anything about hating anyone
/r/MensRights17/05/22 02:39 PM
1

My logic does make sense. People can read it and understand exactly what I was saying, but if you are having that problem, get professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:30 AM
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… you’re merely arguing because you don’t like the answer. If you don’t like the answer you get then simply don’t complain. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:27 AM
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It sounds like someone’s offended. My advice was if you were not equipped then therapy is needed. That’s you looking after the quality of your own wellbeing, directly trying to improve it. Either you want to do better, or you want to complain. Believe me when I say I am not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:23 AM
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Well, it’s already established fact that marriage impacts life expectancy for women where it shortens it, and marriage life expectancy impacts men where they live longer. This is for a number of contributing reasons but this is one of them. The point remains, health is directly impacted by marriage. The research on this was for overall, single people versus married people regardless of children or not. This research is concrete enough to be established as fact. (One such study published by Harva…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:50 AM
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But your pillows, moisture from the humidity around your body and dead skin cells you shed!! I mean jacket is one thing but sleeping in that!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:34 AM
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Then you’re understanding why it’s labeled as toxic masculinity: because anyone deserves support and assistance for their problems as the human condition. In time, hopefully everyone can get that, so we can all be happier and get by.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 05:36 AM
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If you are having a hard time understanding the context of be yourself or make yourself at home when being around someone you don’t really know or being around someone’s house… then there’s a fundamental lesson you have not learned and I suggest you get about that for your adult development. That’s a you problem, where you learn what you missed because the rest of the world cannot possibly be expected to adjust for your singular needs explicitly when it has never worked that way. That is called …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:26 AM
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That’s why it’s called toxic masculinity: Because you are expressing anger or contempt for people who might really want to help you while you believe they merely want to exploit your weakness. It’s fact that mental health problems increase with loneliness, and toxic masculinity because this is by definition, will result in making mental health worse… and needlessly.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 05:21 AM
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As a woman, I fully agree men should have their days to do what they need to do like women can on period days. At the company I work they call them ‘mental health days’ and everyone gets eight per year, no questions asked, regardless of gender, and that’s how they solve that.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:39 AM
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I didn’t know that either, this is completely fucked. She should have her parental rights completely terminated with no possibility for recovery.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:21 AM
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That’s not what toxic masculinity is. For example, a man at one point will wish they had someone out there who would be there for them emotionally: say your dog or your child died. Or maybe you lose a job and you have six children so you’re not sure how to tell your family… the point is, at some point in your life you are going to feel grief, and you are going to feel like you’re not allowed to express it ‘because you are a man’. But understand on that day, your wife, your girlfriend, your oldes…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:16 AM
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They can’t create an old girls club because there are no old girls from family history recruiting old girls in to it where the profession revolves around several related people and their offspring. With that said, you were able to sue, we’re recognized for being treated poorly, and were able to retire comfortably… therefore you were treated poorly and received restitution for it— that is how it should work regardless of gender: if you are treated unfairly and endure mental pain and suffering bec…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:07 AM
2

My dude you better Lysol your room day one and wipe everything down omfg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:17 AM
1

NODONT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:14 AM
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Oh noooo dude frat house is the most unhygienic place known to first world society holy dogshit get outta thereeee I’m scared for you :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:40 AM
2

Since august??!?? Nooo cowboy nooo!!!! Yeah truly for best household conditions once a week. Yes it’s a headache if you work, so just do shit once a day before bed and it equals a week worth of work, like wipe down your shower shit with a Lysol wipe and that’s one thing, vacuum and that’s another, wash sheets and that’s another etc etc!!!! Don’t ever let it go since August omggg like you could potentially get jock itch because your shit isn’t cleaned timely and now your ball sweat is all over th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:38 AM
3

Also you should be washing your washing machine once a year or it’s not gonna clean your shit optimally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:28 AM
1

How long has it been, sir????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:27 AM
2

You improve your personality by deciding what virtues you want to have: if you want to be a good person, what about you needs to change to be a good person. What are things a good person does, what does it mean to you, why does it matter to you, what do you stand for? What makes it real rather than an imaginary belief, why do you want better, what kind of person do you want to be? Why do you want to be that kind of person— part of being yourself is not just trying to be a super model because it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:17 AM
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Yeah dude like you’re at higher risk for bronchitis, staph infections, and all sorts of other things— your sweat and bacteria from your body builds up on surfaces and shit, and if you are sleeping without changing the sheets for weeks on end, it’s equal to the same thing as wearing the same clothes for weeks on end. For the record, you don’t want to put the bed sheet directly on the mattress but you need a mattress cover (dust, skin cells, drool, swat, hair, etc can get through the sheet in to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:06 AM
1

Well, for starters, your judgement based on fertility ages and ranges for women is not accurate, based on science but I don’t expect you to be versed in the reproductive ages of women. However, in the US, peak fertility age for women is 37.1 for women—and then the cliff is not actually a steep alarming decline— the average age for menopause which indicates the end of fertility years is somewhere around 54 years old. However, IVF treatments can extend, so even women at the end of her fertility ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:45 AM
1

I was just about to say this exact thing… And yeah side note, his most cherished memory is him doing push-ups? Based on how the kid made him feel as an accessory— not enjoyment for a bonding experience with the kid by a memory they will share together? Hm. I have a cherished memory with a cat that has more meaning and value in both parties involved than he has with his own son. Why? Because it is a shared memory and not based on being special just because of what it did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:17 AM
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This is largely the only answer— women do not actually like being mean at all, that’s the truth. It’s that every woman has faced situations where they’re at a party and bad things happened or almost happened because they were trying to nicely deal with a situation, or been approached and felt threatened or unsafe when they try to politely reject. And then when bad things do happen, as a woman, you have to then answer questions about what you’re wearing, why didn’t you bluntly say something in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:09 AM
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That’s the thing…. It’s actually not misconstrued easily: When you are told ‘be yourself’ at a job interview, is this grounds to strip down to your boxers and jump around on the couch in the coffee room? No. Normal people do not misunderstand what ‘be yourself’ means and how it applies to a situation. Abnormal people misunderstanding does not mean ‘be yourself’ is bad advice, it means until they learn this and the way it’s intended, they don’t have the capacity to be successful dating material a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:52 PM
2

Enjoyment from riding a jet ski is a chemical reaction, I know this, but it does not mean I am less pleased with riding a jet ski because I still get the experiences, the memories, and the skills from riding a jet ski. In the opposite; I can drink a beer and feel good, because of the chemical transaction taking place in my body, but if I’m feeling good just staring at the tv, not doing anything special or making memories and gaining new experiences, then it’s just brain chemicals telling me I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:08 PM
2

Except that’s not true when in the part of the country I live in, 21-25 year olds do not under any circumstances get married. The average marrying age where I’m from is 37…and the marriages tend to last forever. Coincidently there is one of the lowest rate of divorce, too. So if we go by facts rather than your feelings… well… the older you get the better marriage material you are, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:04 PM
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I believe we will. We are engaged right now, but we also have extremely laid back personalities toward each other so I think if the worst were to happen where we decided we were unhappy, it’s more likely that we would probably just cruise control and do our own shit as if we were single but live in the same household and not want to deal with all of the divorce process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:54 PM
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I’m not understanding the gender debate: when you like someone in a romantic way, you are more likely to let them get away with a greater amount of poor behavior than just some random person you don’t know and don’t like. Isn’t that the same regardless of gender? So I’m not understanding the point but I don’t find this leniency based on the gender of the person allowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:47 PM
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I dated a man at one point who did not understand what ‘be himself’ meant. He seemed alright, nice guy… but then when I invited him over, the moment he got through the door and right before I stepped away to the lady’s room, I said ‘go ahead and make yourself at home.’ —shit you not, when I got out of the bathroom, I saw him with his shoes, shirt, and pants just whipped off and scattered all over the living room floor. He sat there with a glass of soda from the kitchen, the couch cushions pulled…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:55 PM
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It’s not that women do not care about men’s challenges while dating, it’s that the world is a dangerous place for some who consider mens’ dating challenges in their actions and day ti day behaviors: If the woman prioritizes not hurting the man’s feelings above her own health and safety, then many will subscribe to the belief that she deserves to be injured for not ignoring the men’s feelings and struggles. If the woman prioritized her own health and safety above the man’s challenges and struggle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:43 PM
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Yes, in the scientific community, married women get less sleep, have higher levels of cortisol and stress, and are least likely to eat foods based on their nutritional needs than single women as a direct result of the previous statement. Single women have more time and effort to mitigate these factors that shorten their lives than when they are married. Unfortunately men live longer when they are married than when they are single… because they had their mother doing the behind the scenes mainten…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:12 PM
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No one wants to date someone they perceive as having nothing to offer. Everyone has different needs and preferences, but no one is going to go against their needs and preferences. I’m not sure what the point is you’re trying to make because it merely sounds like ‘I wish more women were willing to set aside their wants or needs for some recreational fun.’ … but men don’t actually do that. That’s why morbidly obese women have a harder time on tinder than non morbidly obese women. I’m really not un…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:08 PM
2

I am interested in the response, equally just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:22 PM
3

Alright, take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:55 AM
3

If you change your mind and need to talk about something, genuinely, without attempting to troll me, then send me a message and I’m willing to listen. Despite frustrations or life events, I don’t think someone in pain should be made to suffer alone, believing they are completely on their own without a shred of concern. I’ve been there, and it sucks, so if you find yourself needing it or just wanting someone to listen, shoot me a message. I don’t expect you will, but sometimes everyone just wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:37 AM
3

You’re warped and adapt in a self pity mentality, but you are absolutely incorrect about this: “I’m well aware that no one cares about a man complaining about his safety.” This is absolutely not true. Despite not being male, I do care about their safety and treatment, very much so, and I am well aware of the challenges and mistreatments they face with thoughtfulness and points of concerns for the challenges and scenarios in their own experiences. But when those challenges are addressed in time s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:41 AM
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You already feel a specific way but you’re looking for justifications after the fact in order to feel right about it. Call it like it is instead of hiding behind excuses, and accept responsibility for the nature of the kind of person you are, rather than pushing it on to other people: You don’t want to care, because you’ve decided to operate in a selfish mode that revolves around the self pity mentality of ‘I don’t like my life and no one thinks of me, so I’ve decided not to think of them.’ That…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:28 AM
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“I don’t get to be a chad and have the life I imagine I deserve by having women do whatever I want. Therefore I don’t care about their safety.” You want this to be a matter of being hot as a license to live a fantasy life and jealousy toward your not having the life you want…. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:43 AM
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1) If you are incapable of knowing the difference between thinking about doing something, planning something and deciding not to do it, and actually doing something then you probably are hanging at a 5 year old cognitive comprehension level and that’s not actually my problem. 2) If I did decide to go, and mentioned I showed up, tried the wine, and then left because I was unsafe, that still does not mean I am without concern for my own safety. There are safety concerns I do, that you probably don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:40 AM
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Also on the matter of ‘using fear for safety as a justification for rude behavior’. Currently in 2022 the US is considered the 8th most dangerous country in the world for women. The entire world. Both research by the United Nations and the FBI criminal database confirms this. So you’re saying someone in a very dangerous country them —statistical facts, who says they’re concerned for safety, must be lying because they … don’t say it nicely for you? “I think they’re lying because I don’t like thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:13 AM
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… Again, did I go? Because I’m not seeing anywhere that said I went, lol. Why did I make a sentiment clear, you ask? Because I did. Are you trying to say you’ve never entertained an idea while excited, and then rationalized that it was not a good idea because it was more detrimental? But also, are you trying to say people who do not have the life experience or insight to avoid concerns therefore want or deserve them to happen? Lol, because if that’s what you’re saying, then you’re justifying tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:08 AM
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Interesting. You’ll notice I never said I would go, and confirmed. I said I would think about it, and I did think about it, and obviously decided I would not go. But I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make considering safety concerns are not a mere excuse, and people can absolutely change their mind about bad ideas before they do them…but you’re trying awfully hard to find something negative to say and it’s a pretty weak reach. Even if I did decide to go, I’m failing to see how that means …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:53 PM
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Oh man shit r u me lmfaooooo I don’t want to derail for ages, but Star Wars, DND, and all that win, I am totally about it. But yeah, I got stupid at one point and put this ‘rate my picture’ and got about 600 replies of angry ass neck beards trying to shit on me (yep, I too, have long blonde hair Hahahahaaa) Anyway, good chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:05 PM
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Lmao too pretty. Sounds like they’re too weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:47 PM
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Yuuup. I don’t think I’m ugly, really, but I’ve been told people that quite a bit by people so the truth is I kind of figured it was just people trying to convince the other person they’re doing charity work because they think it’s dog eat dog like ‘the first to admit they feel intimidated is seen as the weaker’. But yeah, I’ve totally have guys I thought were visually out of my league and then I look at their quality of life, their life decisions, interests… such as the 40 year old who lived wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:28 PM
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The crazy part is the guys I’ve gone on dates with who have expressed I should be grateful because I’m not as good looking as them so I’m lucky… are actually train wrecks of people. For example, one guy during a date tried to tell me about his ‘fat ex wife who thinks she’s too good for him so he blocked his kids just to teach her a lesson for leaving them because she’ll see how fucked up of adults they’ll grow in to’ and went in about how he has a Xanax and bezo addiction at 35, like it was so c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:58 PM
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Well… if all the women you are attracted to seem to be taken, I think by common denominator, it might mean they’re out of your league or you would be the one they’re taken by…? What are the odds that EVERYONE available for you is below you? The dating app algorithms also don’t work that way when they analyze pictures fyi….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:47 PM
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Men tend to assume the woman thinks they’re better than them simply because they’re rejecting. For example, a hot guy off the street asked for my number. I said sure, and later that day he asked if I would come over to his house for dinner. I told him I would think about it, but I wanted to be very clear in that I do not know him so it would definitely not be a booty call even if it was the best date but rather I don’t want to give an impression and hurt feelings or cause frustration. He said he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:42 PM
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This is the realest shit on here. If relationships were just so simple to be hot and nice, and you can have whatever you want, divorce would not be a fucking thing and everyone in Hollywood would be locked down for life. Adult and mature relationships are significantly more complex with way more variables than ‘hot and/or nice’ lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:46 PM
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I’m probably going to do social events like meetup.com where I’m doing things with multiple people such as a hiking day trip or a movie night, so it’s casual and not awkward, and if I don’t meet anyone for dating purposes I still make friends and have a good time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:38 PM
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Hm… I think the place someone lives impacts it the most, because I’m from the south initially, but I moved to the west and honestly I thought this was normal where men subscribe to hookup culture and women want monogamy and that’s the expectation… Yet when I mentioned this at an outing after I moved, the men looked at me with the attitude of fuck no, ‘women will sleep with me but they don’t want to keep me around’ sort of disappointment. Even my current partner who is also not from my part of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:54 PM
3

I think that depends on where you live, to be honest. Where I’m from, I know more women who are poly relationships, or interested in casual sex, swinging, and kink parties, and I know more men who are Demi-sexual. But because I’m a minority, it’s generally perceived as ‘only being Demi because naive about other options’ which is pretty offensive to me, but my other female friends often try to invite me to their parties or try to ‘help them take pictures for their OnlyFans content’… so I don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:36 PM
1

Sound like guy needs to stop hanging out with dipshits. Not men or women oriented, but total dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:44 AM
1

I dated someone like this who fell deep in to the RP right before I dated him— he did well on the surface level items: he was good at generating an impression of confidence and acting tough… we joined a relationship together, labels and all, and the problem was that the surface level items were all he’d worked on so the core content beneath was filled with anxieties and fears— it sucked because I saw an incredible amount of potential and life in him, so that’s why I tried to stick around… but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:38 AM
1

I work with a therapist also. It’s not a bad thing. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:51 AM
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Yes this is correct, a lot of the user experience designers for OLDs also have experience designing gambling apps for Vegas slot machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:46 AM
1

Most people do need therapy, but honestly it’s not meant to be insulting, it’s just that occasionally a person needs to hear it because they don’t realize they’re a little more critical than others. I’m sorry it happens to be you, but I was reading through in your conversation here, and you stand a fairly high chance of experiencing emotional pain and frustration in life at a significantly higher frequency than the normal person based on not just the subject matter—but the way you are debating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:40 AM
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No: a therapist guiding you on the path to self improvement can improve all aspects of your life including employment, overall happiness, and a safe place to vent while forming strong decisions rather than sitting around on Reddit getting opinions from people who are damaged or have agendas. A successful relationship is the side effect of self improvement and therapy to improve insight and social skills in a positive direction. It’s actually a win-win. The job of a therapist is not to tell you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:35 AM
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If you want to get married one day but avoid divorce, then take some time with a therapist, because the fact is, everyone has something to work on and the only for sure way to make a marriage work is by trying to better yourself as a person to respect and get along with other people and that really is the end all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:29 AM
1

… you need therapy because the way you think is really pretty damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:21 AM
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