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DiscussionAoiLune/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:02 PM
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DiscussionAoiLune/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:45 AM
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Men shouldn't debase themselves. Men should regard the modern woman as the object she is and save his respect for the traditional woman—but the traditional woman also deserves the traditional man. Tradition is tradition for good reason, so let's restore that which made our ancestors great to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:16 AM
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I see women here so eager to berate men for being virgins and celebrating the idea that robots would keep men they don't like out of the dating market. These degenerate women don't want men to actually be happy. It should be beyond apparent by now that women are undeniably the less compassionate of the two genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:12 PM
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If I can see her naked without any effort on my part, she is already below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 AM
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Another recent meme posted here involved women complaining about how attention is annoying and/or threatening when it comes from men they don't find attractive, and then they insist that all men need to do is approach women more. It's laughable. All that the silly women here on this subreddit do is provide constant justification for hatred against women. A coordinated and well-funded strategy to promote hatred against women in our culture wouldn't be nearly as successful at giving men reasons to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:38 AM
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The only issue is his conclusion. Governments suck at everything and will inevitably just fuck this up like they fuck most everything up. Relying on a government to fix your problems is a slave's decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:43 AM
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Yes. Get to it, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:35 AM
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A good old "nuh uh" reply. Very clever, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:57 AM
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The reason women think therapy will fix all problems is because their problems are usually so minor that therapy actually will help resolve them. Hence why women can't comprehend the fact that therapy doesn't fix actual, substantial problems. Women—adorable as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:54 AM
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In regard to romance, monogamy is the best means we have for bringing forth one's best self from within. People are more often at their best in tradition relationship dynamics, and rarely so in any alternative relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:06 PM
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For those of us on the side of the transcendent rather than the mere material, it's an appeal to something sacred and special, and emotions such as jealousy and exclusivity are the soul's immune response to those things which would otherwise bring harm upon the soul. Such emotions can be immature, but are not wrong in and of themselves. Monogamy is simply the most ideal means of bringing the transcendent Self into greater communion with the divine within the realm of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:18 PM
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And yet the consequences are what they are regardless of what was intended. You can say that modern woman doesn't deserve to bear the consequences of her decisions, but reality seems to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:11 PM
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I've already explained how young women naturally being viewed favorably provides advantages to them. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean the trend isn't there, and you attempting to interpret the reality of it as poorly as possible doesn't make it any less real. Feel free to keep telling yourself what a victim you are. You're only setting yourself up for a more startling realization when you get older and realize how good you currently have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:11 PM
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"Been shown," by a set of statistics designed to fit a political agenda, just as any set of statistics can be used to affirm most any political agenda. The "trust the experts" sentiment isn't shared by anyone but an elitist culture that couldn't produce happy, healthy communities even if they had all the funding and research in the world. Also, something being possible doesn't mean it's likely, no matter what shallow research supposedly affirms an ideology that runs contrary to thousands of year…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:15 PM
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A young woman's value is inherent, especially if she's at least moderately attractive. Men don't have this luxury at any age in life, as men's worth is determined by their usefulness. Society, companies, men, and women too presume the worth of young women because it is baked into our psychology to do so, and in turn young women are just afforded more opportunities at nearly every avenue in life by mere merit of being young women, especially sexually. Young women who know how to use their sexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:04 PM
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Few elderly women have anyone who truly care about them if they don't have a family. Friends are wonderful, but friends do not fulfill the role family does in old age, and that's only IF you can secure and maintain truly meaningful friendships. If you think it's plenty possibly for an aging woman to make friends who truly care about her into her later years, you're only fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:55 PM
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If you don't realize the benefits you receive and the opportunities at your disposal by being a young woman, which men certainly don't receive, then you're only setting yourself up to be blindsided once you're over the hill and left wondering why no on treats you as well as they used to. Smart women realize what they have and don't let it go to waste, by building for themselves a foundation that won't leave them miserable by 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:02 PM
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Only because modern man is a weakling who allows such a system to do as it does. It's on men to tear down such an unsustainable, degenerate system and build something that is functional and noble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:38 PM
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Because we are fundamentally social creatures who desire the company of people who care about us. The fact that I have to even say this demonstrates how far away from knowing true loneliness you are, fortunately. If a person hasn't formed a family by a certain age, there's little hope of ever finding someone to truly care, and it becomes nearly impossible to form those sorts of bonds the older you get. Of course unhappy families are miserable, but families in general are most certainly not "espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:34 PM
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This is supposing that a woman is actually putting her youth and beauty to use and not so incompetent as to let it go to waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:27 PM
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Women are only happy to be single while they are ALSO young, attractive, and capable of getting nearly anything they want on charm alone. It's no surprise that people are happy when they are treated like royalty, and few people have ever had better lives than attractive young women. However, as that royal treatment fades with old age, women inevitably find that being single in your 30's, 40's, and so on isn't nearly as fun as being a beautiful and single 20 year old woman. Any smart woman pushes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:28 AM
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Simple. When left to their own devices, women are bad at choosing men. Women are naturally more prone to falling for charming sociopaths whereas men have evolved to be able to detect when a fellow man is being slimy and subversive. To a woman, often such a man might only appear as a worthwhile guy who she enjoys being around. Meanwhile, other men will often be more likely to see through the veneer of charm and pleasantry to recognize when said man is simply telling women whatever they want to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:50 AM
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Feminine and low n count are the only two on this list I would say are correct and don't require any clarification. As for the rest... •"thin; young; don't age; be highly maintained" could all simply be replaced with the word "attractive." There's nothing improper about men liking attractive women. •"high sex drive" is somewhat true, but that's simply something men and women need to meet one another in the middle on. Men generally want more sex, women generally want less. To maintain a healthy r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:49 PM
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Lol what a response. Well keep it up. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:25 PM
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"Me not bad! Men bad!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:17 PM
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That is indeed how false dichotomies work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:42 PM
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Good question. Why on Earth would anyone assume that, especially since I didn't say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:58 PM
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Rarely do women just want nothing but hookups, and those who do rarely ever want them longterm. The vast majority sooner or later would like a more traditional relationship, and striving to hookup with men way out of their league seems to me to only ever be a momentary pleasure at best, and a losing strategy longterm for any woman. Even women who just want hookups will face the pain of having the men out of their league quickly grow bored of them. Hookup lifestyle is only a brief phase in life e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:40 AM
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Because the men of quality don't actually want her. At least not for any longer than a couple of minutes at a time. All she's doing by going for men way out of her league is lowering her own value while satisfying some guy who doesn't actually care about her anyway. I'm not saying women shouldn't want men of quality. Only that both men and women should both learn to be realistic about their prospects, otherwise everyone ends up lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:49 PM
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The point is that people have needs, some of which are as psychological as they are non-negotiable. Although therapy may help some people find clarity or perspective that they previously lacked, sometimes clarity only helps a person to see the truth of how damned they truly are. Sometimes a positive perspective on a dark situation is nothing more than delusion. Sometimes all the clarity and positive action in the world is never enough, and the starved man goes hungry. It is just the way of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:19 PM
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Yes, I have. Many times. Simply put, it has never worked. Those I spoke with were all quite friendly, they were all happy to lend an ear to my troubles, and some of them were even very insightful. However, to use a metaphor, a starving man will not be saved by good advice and an opportunity to vent his sorrows. He simply needs to eat, and if he does not then he will surely die. No amount of new perspective is going to save a starving man. Unfortunately so many among those who sing the praises of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:58 AM
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I wouldn't consider myself conservative, but rather a traditionalist. However, I've never noticed this phenomenon. I do prefer at least semi-traditional women generally. Back when I was more liberal I never found myself particularly attracted to conservative women, but to other liberal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:13 PM
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Great idea. Make everyone single, and let our population die off because everyone is satisfied with no longer desiring human connection. I'm sure that won't go wrong. /s I'm pretty sure there's plenty of dystopian sci-fi that starts with "Let's solve our problems by taking away human desires."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:29 AM
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I've learned the hard way that it's simply not worth it for a man to ask a woman her opinion on what they should be doing. The advice she gives will almost surely misdirect him straight into the friendzone. Women are rarely conscious of what they actually want, and often what women think they want will backfire upon them in one way or another. It's similar to how young men will fool themselves into thinking that what they want is a sexy, slutty, pink-haired, super-model girlfriend who will answe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:47 AM
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In small exceptions to the rule within the modern West, as the cultural rule outside the West, and as the cultural rule within the premodern West. If you'd like exact dates then none can give you any because there isn't an exact date it stopped being the standard for Western civilization and even if there was it would be difficult to determine what period to blame the transition on precisely. One could point blame upon the various developments in the early 20th century, but many of those are cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:01 AM
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Modernity is founded mostly upon narrow ideals surrounding human nature which fail to understand how humans actually work. Modern values strive for a human rationalism totally severed from the transcendent and the instinctual, and thus selects for human impotence and malleability. The need for new rules and new perspectives following the realization of modernity's failure is a new phenomenon. The traditional world had no need for strategizing and gaming the system when it came to romance because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:18 PM
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Even if the modern woman hates the man with options, she does still seem to be interested in gaining his approval and thereby doesn't act as though she hates him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:07 PM
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Being her "best" is just an ego thing. I'd rather be with a woman with enough nobility to have not been a slut rather than with a woman who just tells me what I want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:15 AM
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Go get to know how real people work before sending another pathetic response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:12 AM
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How impotent. Tell yourself whatever makes modernity's failure sting less, but the entirety of human history across cultures is on my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:08 AM
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Momentary pleasure often amounts to little more than a good feeling quickly forgotten. It rarely makes someone a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:06 AM
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Maybe such a person exists, but I don't believe it's merely a matter of individual choice, and I've never seen such a person for whom doing so truly aligns most harmoniously with their nature. I've seen people go through phases of it, and I've seen people present as happy when they were actually were not, but never once have I seen someone who seemed happily only ever engaged in casual sex in a way comparable to that of a person happily involved in a committed and traditional relationship. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:04 AM
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Yes. Those men should be just as chastised as the women who do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:46 AM
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Talk to people. You won't truly learn about people from "sources."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:47 PM
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How people generally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:46 PM
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You clearly don't understand how generalities work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:45 PM
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Observable patterns in humanity. If you're too online to observe them yourself, then I recommend learning how ordinary people actually work outside of your theorized imagining of how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:52 PM
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Novelty is only fun at first, and then the hedonist learns the hard way. Most often you can't have both and must choose one. Just stating facts, just as everyone else seems to think of themselves as doing. You regarding it as "proselytizing" is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:48 PM
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"Many" and "plenty" are not the same as "the majority."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:44 PM
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It is, at first. Eating lots of junk food is nice too. However, short term pleasures have consequences that rarely compare to longterm satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:18 PM
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Exceptions don't negate the rule. Exceptions affirm the rule. Most people are not going to be happy alone past 40. The vast majority of people are not the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:16 PM
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Yes. Me and most of humanity. Can't work as hard past 40. Can't sleep around past 40. You can either worthlessly satisfy your own senses past that point, or help a newer generation grow into worthwhile human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:13 PM
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Women live to 80 on average. Chad's tired of you WAY sooner than that. The majority of that is going to be a very lonely life if a woman doesn't settle down sooner rather than later. The single life is only great in your 20s, increasingly difficult in your 30s, and utterly miserable with every passing decade. Don't act like the standards of your 20 year old self are going to be work for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:25 PM
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Yes. Some learn the hard way. Sex is often worthless without love. There's a reason some people recommend only doing it with someone you're in a committed relationship with, and it's not because they're just trying to spoil everyone's fun. Traditions are what they are for good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:45 AM
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That's only what is believed by those who sooner or later get caught in their own web of lies and lose the trust of those they lied to. It might save you short-term, but it always catches up to you longterm. Just don't be surprised when you find out the hard way that you're not as good a liar as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:13 AM
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But you're ok with it, apparently. You know lying is bad. Your conscience won't let you think otherwise, no matter how hard you try to fool yourself. Just accept that lying is bad and that's it's silly to think that women should adopt deception as a dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:05 PM
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Lol wow. This should be an indicator to you that you're probably the not the hero of your story if that's the conclusion you've come to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:58 PM
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A perfect picture of the modern woman—promoting lies and immoral actions for her own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:55 PM
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Yes and yes. The people who think such things aren't necessities and regard people as if they're just machines only demonstrate that they don't know how humans truly work. Recognizing that love and sex are necessities to varying degrees for people—but necessities nonetheless—isn't a denial of the fact that people must make themselves worthy of such things, or that an insistence that all sexual selectivity should be forgone. It is merely a recognition that the emotional and spiritual aspects of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:58 PM
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I get it rationally. I just don't relate to the attraction. It just does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:49 PM
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And society plays absolutely no role in the circumstances of anyone's life? Lol sure. I'm all for adopting some stoicism and think people generally do need to have more standards and expectations placed upon them. I do also believe that, in general, the individual responsibility narrative is closest to ideal. However, to act as if the circumstances men face today are entirely their own fault is simply stupid, incorrect, and as totally devoid of any compassion. This kind of idiot conclusion only …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:40 PM
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Tall height on women, including height-modifiers such as high heels. Women prefer men who are taller than them and men prefer women who are smaller than them, so I don't get where this preference for tall women comes from. Some suggest it has to do with a preference for long legs, but I don't get that either. It just all comes across as weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:38 PM
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And you're the one assuming my argument was nothing more than "get gf/bf and all problems will go away." You can only fool yourself into thinking you're right by strawmanning the fuck out of what I've said. Stand by what you've said if you wish, but you've said nothing of value to the actual discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:22 PM
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You've seriously fooled yourself into thinking that no professional would recognize the emotional benefit of having a significant other as a source of happiness? I don't know what else to say other than that you're either trying to persuade yourself of some ideology that bears no resemblance to reality, or you're just simply dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:44 AM
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Move along. I'm here to discuss how people actually work, not your ideals on how you'd like them to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:04 PM
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Then you clearly don't understand people very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:56 PM
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False again. Men and women rely on one another to some degree. Fully individuated people aren't islands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:20 PM
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So being unwanted has no relation to depression then? The existence of exceptions to the rule doesn't negate the rule. Your argument is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:19 PM
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You don't think there's a heavy overlap between sexlessness and loneliness? Never said they're the same or that sex resolves loneliness. Only that sex is more a need for men than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:17 PM
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Wrong. You don't understand people very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:15 PM
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Strawman. Never said men don't have a duty to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:15 PM
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Women don't need to read minds to work with men, who they share a mutual responsibility to one another with. Your argument sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:14 PM
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Loneliness does kill, regardless of you fooling yourself into thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:12 PM
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Yes, they do if we want the species to continue. You're a ridiculous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:41 AM
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Sex is a want, not a need . . . for women. The standards that work for women don't always work for men, and if you try to apply one genders standards onto the other then you're going to leave someone unhappy. Men and women will need to make some kind of cultural compromise, because our tendency to think only one gender should ever be fully satisfied is unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:02 AM
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It's on women just as much as it's on men because women have to live alongside men and surely don't want worthless men in their lives. The gender dichotomy should be a complementary partnership, not a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:59 AM
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Well look at how the past solved these issues. Highly monogamous cultures with firm traditions and expectations around sexuality and gender. I'm not saying it's an ideal situation, but at least it's sustainable and doesn't leave most people utterly miserable. The same can't be said about the modern era. Until someone finds a better solution then that seems to be our only option, because what we currently have is failing and doomed to only get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:53 AM
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What's incredible to me is how most women would rather just leave the bottom 80% of men that they don't find attractive to rot (as if having that many lonely, single men won't have negative effects on our culture) just so that they can all fight over the top 20% of men. They want to complain about most men not being sufficiently attractive, which they aren't wrong about, and yet they don't want to provide any viable solutions to that problem. It's not like these unattractive men just go away. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:13 PM
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Women's expectations hurt men = Toxic masculinity? Lol ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:39 PM
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I mentioned that such a woman should work on her whole self and not just things like makeup. Makeup should never be relied on if her physique and her personality suck. More than makeup, it would be more fruitful to start by getting into shape. So many ladies have such awful bodies, and being fit goes WAY further than mere makeup can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:23 PM
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Everyone should stay in their lane, but everyone should also strive to be in the best lane they can possibly achieve. An ugly woman might be a 4/10, but with enough work and devotion to her WHOLE person (not just her immediate attractiveness) she might become a 7/10. She shouldn't expect to have a 10/10 guy if she can't possibly make herself worthy, but that doesn't mean she shouldn't climb as high as she can. Even if it isn't ideal, it's still better to be a 7/10 than a 4/10—plus, you don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:13 PM
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This is Reddit, so this is going to get severely downvoted, though the fact that so many are so sensitive about such a possibility even being suggested is a nice confirmation of the fact that deep down they know it's true. Let their outrage speak for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:50 PM
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The thing is though that very often women will find many men (not all, of course) attractive after getting to know them on a more personal level and placing some personal stake in them. In the past this was reinforced through anti-hookup cultural norms and through reinforced gender roles wherein women had a right and a duty to demand men start manning up lest their woman withhold sex from them. The idea was that your man was an unfinished project when you got him, but so were you, and it was you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:50 PM
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I agree. Young men (and women) should stop having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:56 AM
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Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt and to be judged for their actions alone rather than be automatically assumed guilty. You hating these people solves nothing and only makes matters worse. You don't know what I do and don't care about, so I'd advise you not to assume. You're just upset, and rather than actually take a serious look at any of these issues you seem to just want to mindlessly hate. If you're not willing to genuinely care about how others feel, then I see no reason to genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:42 AM
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What a great idea. Let's further vilify and dehumanize a portion of the population who feel hopeless and have little to lose. I'm sure that will solve everything./s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:27 PM
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I'm 30. I've been around women plenty throughout my life. I've never had any kind of positive relationship of any kind with a woman, outside of being mere passing acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:27 AM
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I've made a habit of falling back on "I'm not good looking enough, I'm not fit enough, I'm not social enough, etc." and subsequently done what I can to improve upon whatever comes to mind. However, if I take a purely rational stance I realize I'm actually quite above average in most regards. Not by leaps and bounds of course, but I do see many other putting in far less effort than myself who at least have a friend or two. I don't want to just fall back on it just being my height, but I suppose i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:14 AM
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Making the first move has never been an issue for me ever since building myself into a better person. The result has just always been the same. Everyone deserves some degree of friendship and romance in their life if they are indeed making themselves worthy of it, and if they aren't worthy then they deserve to know precisely what they're doing wrong. I only know what I need, as a human like any other human. I know that without it I surely will not last much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:59 AM
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More or less. Older or younger, introverted or extroverted, common interests or not. It's always the same result unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:52 AM
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The tragedy is in what should be and what truly is. I agree with you. I should be in a better place. I shouldn't be where I'm at after all I've done—and yet I am. It doesn't make sense to me, which has only fueled my irrationalisms that have only barely kept me afloat. I don't even know if I'm actually perceiving the world as it truly is anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:51 AM
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I honestly have no idea. When I try to make friends with the women from school or from work, they're always plenty friendly and seem to have no issues interacting with me within those settings. However, they all inevitably vary between find any reason to ensure that our interactions never spill over outside of such contexts all the way to some even outright telling me that they simply don't wish to be friends with me. I've even asked why, and the closest to a concrete answer I've ever received w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:44 AM
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No, and I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:31 AM
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The self improvement was beneficial, but I can't say for certain I'm better off than I was when every day has become torturous. Perhaps I'm doing something wrong, but it's as though the entire world has conspired to never reveal what that fatal flaw of mine might be. Obviously that's not the case, but I wouldn't be able to refute it. The people I've asked for advice have been classmates and coworkers. The types of people who are happy to be friendly with me within those contexts, but would never…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:24 AM
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I've tried all that and continue to do so. I've never received even a moment of interest from any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:15 AM
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Unfortunately I've done all that and continue to do so. If you can think of it, I've done it. I could've been more specific, but in mentioning the ways I've improved upon myself I should've also mentioned that all that you've suggested has already been tried. I climbed the mountain and found utter nothingness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:09 AM
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Honestly it's not ideal, but it's not the worst. The worst thing a woman can be is unattractive, followed by having a shit personality. Men care more about whether you're pretty, pleasant, and a good person. You may not attract the men YOU want, but if you're not among the top tier of women then you have to accept that men below the top tier are for you. Doesnt mean you need to settle for loser guys though. In short, being a tall woman does lose you a couple points, but it's far from being a los…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:39 PM
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If someone is just trying to be friendly and you don't even treat them like a human, then you're the bad person here. You aren't required to converse with them, but if you think people are deserving of basic courtesy and kindness then it's your responsibility to just politely let them know you don't wish to talk, at the very least. You've essentially asked "Why do people get upset when I'm rude to them?" Doesn't matter if you assume they'll be rude to you. You still need to be a fair and kind pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:09 PM
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Using divorce statistics to suggest that Chads aren't the ones leaving women would only work if the Chads are also marrying the women. From what I know about the Chad archetype, he's not a figure who settles down with a single woman but one who sleeps around with many women simply because he can without ever settling down with only one. Insisting that women are actually the ones leaving the Chads reeks of cope, like something a rejected woman comes up with to reconcile why Chad got bored with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:04 AM
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Most men would honestly just be happy with a wife rather than to be sleeping around with dozens of women. Modernity is to blame for the debasement of both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:09 PM
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Even if you're having a good time now, and happen to be thinking you can alter the situation you're in for the better down the road, you should realize that these romantic dynamics don't last without at least one partner having to carry the weight of a silent desperation that will inevitably eat you from within. You don't need to necessarily toss her aside and transform who you are, but you should realize that she has absolutely no reason to change her ways. You're hoping for something from some…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:44 PM
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What a hilarious post. We dislike feminism because we've listened to what feminism had to say. To your question, regarding who taught us to feel the way we do toward woman and feminism, the answer isn't clear: it was you. Turns out when your ideology demonizes half of the human population, those people end up disliking your ideology. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:36 PM
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This is something I can't even imagine ever happening for me, and I'm a decent looking guy. Are you extremely attractive? Highly social? Anything you might attribute your luck to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:02 PM
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Even more important than looks is height. The average woman will choose a mediocre tall man over a worthwhile short man 9 times out of 10, and the only way she'll even give the short man a passing glance is if he noticeably excels in every other major category by which a man might appeal to a woman. Even then, the short man who is otherwise perfect in all other regards will just becomes a man that the average woman MIGHT consider, but the tall man will even then still have the advantage. Then, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:03 PM
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Unfortunately there isn't any surefire answer. There are things one can do to up their chances, and one should ABSOLUTELY be doing those things, but the hard fact of the matter is that sometimes you try hard and life still fucks you over for seemingly no fair reason. Many people here recommend things like improving upon oneself and pursuing other interests with passion and dedication - but what if one is already doing those things and is still entirely unwanted by women? Some of the folks here r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:32 AM
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I think what a lot of people fail to realize is that although both men and women do things to increase their SMV, they generally aren't consciously doing so. Sometimes they're aware of what they're doing, but I would guess that the vast majority of the time people aren't thinking "This will make me more fuckable." Like when women wear heels and makeup to a family reunion or to a funeral, they aren't consciously trying to increase their SMV. They just simply associate attractiveness, and the mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:55 AM
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Statistically, it doesn't seem to be the case that women know these things generally. Most women have zero interest in the vast majority of men, and it is the case that there are certainly plenty of great men who have just never been given a chance to shine. If what you're saying was true, our culture wouldn't currently be in the mess it's in. As for the double standards in what is appropriate for a man, the difference in standards are only because men and women are different creatures who canno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:06 AM
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I think it has to do with the fact that people (women, in this case) actually aren't attracted to what they think they're attracted to. I guarantee that if most women actually got to know the guys in the 60%-70% range, they would likely end up truly beginning to find them attractive the closer they got to them. It's the same with how young men think what they want is a super sexy model type of woman, when more experienced men realize what they actually want is a more traditional "real" woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:55 PM
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My guess is that even if it isn't the exact same 20% for every woman, who have their own preferences that don't perfectly fit the 80/20 rule, there's still such a broad overlap that it effectively is about 20% of men who really have any chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:48 PM
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