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The Game, Blueprint reloaded, Mystery Method (some direct tactics in MM will come off as goofy af, but it’s not the direct line rather than the idea/tone of how you say it), Models, Attraction Unlocked
/r/seduction18/08/25 05:54 PM
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Pretty much tired of getting put in the friend zone/ I like you but not sure if we’d work out zone… then hearing that the girl later got railed by a random dude in the bar… There were two quotes by Todd V that inspired me to get out of this mentality: 1) “Be loved or hated, not merely liked (friend zone)” and 2) “Woman want to be touched, they just can’t be the first ones to take action because of gender dynamics and social conditioning” (If you have friends that are girls, they will also call t…
/r/seduction11/08/25 03:50 PM
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A girl with a brain (she can talk about deep topics other than love island and has a good career. She’s not looking for a finance/tech bro to mooch of his money, because she already has a successful career of her own; she’s looking for someone compatible).
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:44 PM
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Entitlement, assuredness, self amusement, charisma, (if you’re thinking confidence, that’s pretty much covered by the first two), abundance (you’re not coming off as desperate/needy/try-hard when it comes to taking to the girls because you have other girls to chose from), being genuine, leading, aloof (you’re not pressed by the situation at hand, you’re not nervous when it comes talking to the girl since you’ve already had plenty of experience being around women), problem solver, etc. The books …
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:40 PM
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Being “nice” to a girl (or being nice in general) does not literally mean being labeled as the “nice guy”. The nice guy is the guy that tries to kiss the girls ass in hopes that she would like him back by being there for her at all times, and being “nice” to her all the time (compliments her all the time, whenever she needs a favor he’s there for her, will always text first/text good morning) it’s the olden term (talking about Mystery and Neil Strauss days) of a Simp. Most guys have been there, …
/r/seduction11/06/25 03:12 AM
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I’ve done it before, but only on vacation/vacation spots where women are on vacation (ie you live in Florida and girls are there on spring break) If you’re on vacation and go to a touristy place, where it’s easy to meet girls (I was in Prague with a friend and we took two Swedish girls to a bar after meeting them on the street in the day, so an insta date) it’s easier since girls are more adventurous and open when not burdened by their mundane routines at home or social repercussions. But if you…
/r/seduction05/06/25 07:32 PM
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Plenty of men are jacked af, but are social dipshits when it comes talking to women. Being fit will give you more chance when it comes to open, but if you don’t know how to give a girl a good emotional experience, you will not be getting very far. Get fit, but also get your social/PUA reps in as well. Pick up/Rizz is also like a muscle. You need to train on how to talk to women, to get better at talking at women…
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:47 AM
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This happened to me the other day. Went out to the bar with some friends, approached a cute girl and she told me she “had a relationship” going on. Told her that if she didn’t like me, she could friend zone my ass, and she found my response funny. We ended up dancing and making out after a while. Then I asked her, thought you had a “relationship” going on, and she said som along the lines of “I was just testing to see if you were a cool guy and would still try to get to know me”. Women are confu…
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:40 PM
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Women do this (whether consciously or not) as a sort of frame/shit test. It is fucked but it’s part of the game… If you ever read MM or The Game, they talk about how women use rejection from the bat to test a guys persistence… it’s confusing, but women have been doing this for a long time…
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:33 PM
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The issue with dating apps is that it’s you vs 200 men that also swiped on her. Even if she swiped on you back, you’re now trying to keep her attention against a bunch of other dudes that she matched with. The beauty of cold approach is that’s it’s you and her 1:1 and conveying your personality is easier through voice and expression than written words on an app. You should become a Full Stack Rizzer (do dating apps and approaches) but you’ll Deff see faster results cold approaching.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:29 PM
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Yes. Most people only hang out with exes if they still have romantic feelings for them, at least one of them will still do. The dude may try to make a move on your girl or your girl may make a move on him. You need to get her to cut it out or you walk away! They started dating and didn’t just become friends for a reason…
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:53 PM
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You wrote 5 paragraphs to justify yourself not approaching at the gym… you must be a master at game right up there with Neil Strauss!!! On the real bro, if you think TikTok approaches are what everyone is doing, you’re definitely not part of the game… there are direct/indirect approaches, social calibration levels, observational/indirect/opinion openers, long game/direct game, and I could go on about all the strategies… going up to a girl at the gym and saying “Yo, you’re hot, what’s your snap” …
/r/seduction10/05/25 10:43 PM
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Nah… you can definitely cold approach at the gym, you just have to come in with an indirect opener/play the long game. I’ve successfully gotten about 5 numbers/snaps and smashed 3 girls from my gym by cold approaching. Women want to be approached at the gym, they just don’t want to be gawked at while working out. If you wait outside for the girl to come out, you’ll look like a stalker and your chances significantly diminish. If you wait outside HOPING for the girl to also come out or enter at th…
/r/seduction10/05/25 09:50 PM
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I’ve done this before at a Starbucks. My tactic was to go there and do some school work, so I choose a table and just set up. Then I would go and get a coffee when the girl I wanted to talk to was at the register. My tactic was to ask her recommendation like “I’m studying for a crazy Calc 3 final, what would you recommend me to drink? You seem like the coffee connoisseur” and kinda chat her for a bit there. After I got my drink, I would get back to my table and study/do work Once she was either …
/r/seduction06/05/25 02:43 AM
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95% identify as Muslim 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction29/04/25 01:36 PM
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I’m not Muslim, but tried to do it in a majority Muslim and conservative country (Morocco). In Marrakech and Casablanca, if you leave the touristy areas and cold approach in the city, quite a few women will be receptive and accept to talk to you. Now, most these women are not really looking for hook ups, so they will give you their numbers or instas expecting a full on date. On the date, you’ll be lucky if you are able to just hold the girls hand… Since Morocco is a very conservative country, wo…
/r/seduction29/04/25 01:23 PM
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As long as you’re groomed and hygienic, that’s what mostly matters. If you try to approach a girl with messy hair, beard, and dressed slobbishly, Anyone (not just girls) would not want to talk to you. You don’t need to wear an $80 Hugo boss shirt, you can wear a $20 Walmart shirt as long as it’s clean and you smell appropriate.
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:49 PM
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There was an old RSD saying that went something like “Bad Approach = Success, No Approach = Failure” She may reject you, but never reject yourself! Good for shooting your shot 👏
/r/seduction25/04/25 02:58 AM
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There’s an old Todd V video called “pinging value into the void”. Basically you’re trying to send something value, or funny to get the girl to engage in a convo. The issue with it is that you need to be VERY PATIENT with this. Meaning that if you sent her something this week, you have to wait until a week or two later to send something else again if she does not respond, or responds very dryly. You need to send a cool picture you took, an update about your life (that is not try hard. Ie “Damn, I…
/r/seduction24/04/25 05:48 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/seduction24/04/25 04:14 PM
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If by date 3 you guys don’t have sex, she’s more likely using you for validation/toying with you (Unless she’s like a super religious girl or she’s a virgin)
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:33 PM
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Been in your shoes man. It takes time and it is a process, but you have to force yourself to progress. Every day after work, or at least every other day, try to go out whether it’s to a grocery store, mall, etc, and just start off by complimenting a girl for her outfit. Don’t think “what if she thinks I’m weird” just DO IT! You’ll start to realize that during the daytime, women are very receptive to men talking to them. Once you get comfortable with just complimenting girls, try to have a small …
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:26 PM
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Something that does not get talked about much anymore, but was a big part of the old school pick up community was to do “warm up” sets and get in a conversational state before hand. ie Go to the mall and talk to people, compliment strangers, even talk to Customer service people for a bit. It will help you get into a more happier conversational mood. Unless you’re living with like 5+ people in house, are in college, or your day to day job is sales, the average adult does not have a lot of sociali…
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:02 PM
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5’7”, 175 at my heaviest, 6% BF. Like I said, I was in great shape and only remember two girls max ever coming up and talking to me lol
/r/seduction15/02/25 05:49 PM
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As a former bodybuilder in college, I can attest that all a good physique will do is make an approach easier, but you are still not guaranteed to the girl. When I was jacked and toned, only had two girls ever come up to me(initiate the approach) in my 4 years of undergrad. I’m not as big as I used to be (not fat either lol) just more lean, and I have better luck with girls because of better behavioral signals. Not saying don’t hit the gym, just saying that the gym alone or your physique isn’t th…
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:04 PM
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Had a similar situation once. I was actually in the very front of the line checking out at a Walgreens and a gorgeous blonde was at the very back of line (two people behind me) wearing some really nice cowgirl boots. After I checked out I went all the way to the back of the line and told her she had the “sassiest cowgirl boots I’ve ever seen” she laughed and we had a quick convo (like 30 sec), I just asked for her number and left Walgreens. When I first started game, I let so many hot girls go b…
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:02 PM
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My main tip is just to go out regularly and practice. Basically approach a girl and try to have a good interaction, have a buyer frame, and have fun with the conversation. Unless you are just starting at are trying to get over your approach anxiety, STAY and keep talking to the girl. Keep a good attitude and HAVE FUN talking and getting to know the girl
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:57 AM
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Going up to a girl nervous, low tone (you need a very loud tone to be able to get her attention at a club), gawking at the girl before you get the balls to approach. Girl may just say “I have a BF” and immediately turn her back to you, or look at you and say “HUH!?” And walk away without giving you a chance to talk. Not saying that these will never happen even with good night game, but the rejection probability will decrease with girls when you are out at the bars.
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:50 AM
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Women will be harder to approach in bars (unless it’s a cocktail bar where you can actually talk) since women are also inebriated and they expect men to approach them and may act like a complete bitch to weed out the guys with poor NightGame or that don’t meet their physical qualities at the start. During the day, women want the “mystery/RomCom” experience of being approached by a man, and since alcohol is not in the picture, are less likely to act like bitches and will be more open to conversat…
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:19 AM
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Yes. But it’s not what you say, but your behaviors. Being arrogant and feeling above people will be a DHV as long as you don’t brag or are actively trying to put people down. Ie. If you go up to a girl and you tell her that you went to Paris for the Olympics, and you say it like “i did it cuz why not” that is the proper arrogant way. But if you say it like “oh wow, you never been to the Olympics or had a man take you to Paris?” At that point your bragging and trying to demean her previos choices…
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:43 PM
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Bars near McGill
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:07 AM
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Successful places where I’ve been able to get numbers (I’m assuming for Daygame interactions): - Grocery Stores - The mall - Parks/Places where a lot of people walk about (Ie Rivefronts, or shopping plazas) - Coffe places - Streets that are not super high density - Restaurants There was a survey a while back, thinking late 2010’s, that came about that surveyed where woman wanted to get approach by men. What I took out of it, basically if the location looks like it could be from a RomCom movie, y…
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:11 PM
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Not sure if that was really a shit test, but when a girl ghost you after having a good interaction, worse thing you can do is show that your needy (confessing that you like her a ton and have no other options) Nothing really wrong with what you did. We’ve all been there. But next time don’t act like if you can’t communicate with her, you’re gonna stop breathing.
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:32 PM
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It’s basically a congruence test. It’s a girls way to test if you’re really all that(basically test your frame because they are attracted to you and want to make sure they are making a right decision to smash/date) Example would be: “Wow, I bet you say that to all the girls” and an acceptable answer would be “Yeah, before I go out I repeat that to myself in the mirror” Best ways to past shit test are to either Ignore, misinterpret, or exaggerate. And ALL girls give shit tests. It’s a way they we…
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:16 PM
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It kind of also depends where you are at in the US. If you talk to an Asian girl from West Coast (Cali, Oregon, Washington) you have a very good chance of picking up an Asian girl as much as a white guy. Southern (Florida, Georgia (Atlanta area has a lot of Asians) You have a good chance, especially if you are Hispanic. Northeastern gets a little trickier (NY, Pennsylvania, CT) these Asian girls have a bit more prejudice towards non-whites and darker Asians. Not saying that is impossible, but do…
/r/seduction29/01/25 10:34 AM
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I’m Latino. Asian women (from Asia, Asian American women are more into the mid white boi type) Northern European women and Eastern European women. This is thanks to a huge Latino fetish because of reggaeton (Thank you Bad Bunny 🙏)
/r/seduction29/01/25 03:05 AM
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On the real, girls are weird and are bitches. A lot of girls feel extremely entitled to ruin someone else’s day just because they had a shit day. I had a similar experience (although I was not solo at the club) but a random girl came up to me once and told me I was a pathetic, loser, and made her uncomfortable (deadass, I’ve never met this girl before or even approached her). Luckily I was with one of my homegirls (a tall very attractive Asian girl) she overheard and she tore the girl a new assh…
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:13 AM
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If you’re a short guy, you need to be cocky, aloof, playful. Two short guys that come to mind that had killer game are Neil Strauss (who is like 5’6”) and Todd Valentine (5’7”) if you watch their vids, they come off very aloof, confident, and height is never an issue with them. You could try some Mystery/Owen Cook methods(both of who are 6’3”+), however, since I’ve been back in game, I’ve noticed that tall guys are able to get away with way more goofy/dumb shit than short guys(not just with girl…
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:08 PM
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insert any advice a girl gives you to get girls
/r/seduction23/01/25 02:17 PM
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Pinging value into the void works(but the success rate varies) I’ve done this strategy before. A couple of girls I liked ghosted me after a few texts. I waited about a week or so to send value (I sent some cool travel pics from where I had been) and the girls reacted very positively. Then started up the banter and went on dates with them. That said. I “pinged value into the void” for about 10 girls that ghosted me. About 6 replied, was able to continue texting with 4, went on a date with 3 and s…
/r/seduction21/01/25 07:57 PM
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There’s an old saying in text game that goes like “You’ll accomplish more less”. Meaning that you’ll get more through less texting. If she sends one text box, you also only send one. If she sends a paragraph or som, you don’t send a paragraph back, you reply with a couple of sentences letting her know you got the idea. Most importantly, if things are positive escalate for a date or ask if you can call her. Phones are still phones and work as a telecommunications device still. If things are looki…
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:53 PM
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This is why you gotta shot your shot. You won’t know if she has a bf until she tells you and you’ll only find out if you take the initiative to talk to her
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:55 PM
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Damn, props for that approach! 👏 I would have just seen a girl crying and thought “Nah, don’t want to get involved” lol But yeah, don’t message the dad. You can bring it up as something funny when you’re on a date with her like “Guess you bragged about me to your dad, he had to verify I was real” or something along those lines.
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:08 AM
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You can find a lot of free stuff online now. What’s helped me is Day Game by Todd, Blueprint decoded by Owen Cook, Julien Blancs old video notes. I’ve read mystery method, but a lot of the modern stuff from former RSD coaches and other relevant PUAs uses the mystery method and builds on it. Search for Karisma King rankings on YouTube. He has a pretty good ranking on which PUAs and courses are good to learn from.
/r/seduction16/01/25 03:52 AM
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You need to establish a friendly relationship with her first. Be social and playful with her (ie tell her she’s so punctual, she probably lives at work) this is like a friendly push pull to just set a friendly vibe, not yet show intent. Once talking to her becomes casual, you can ask for a social. You could ask for a number if you feel that the connection has been deeply established. With all this said, you gotta be willing to let things become awkward if things don’t go as expected. This is onl…
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:19 AM
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This too! I do remember a while back a girl was supposedly taking picture of all the guys who supposedly were cat calling her on the street in NYC. Later it was revealed that she was just walking and asking random guys she passed by to be in her pictures… some girls just want victim attention.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:40 PM
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First girl was doing tricep extensions and I sat next to her. Asked her if she could show me her form, and tips on tricep workouts. Then I would casually talk to her every time I saw her at the gym, like a week later I showed her some cool pics and asked for her instagram. Then number. And we went from there Second girl was similar, she would do stretches next to the cardio machines and I approached her and asked her if she could show me some stretching exercises to help me with muscle tension. …
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:21 PM
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I’m curious to see what the approach was like. If it was extremely forward, I could see how it could go wrong. I’ve approached a few girls in the gym, but always go indirect and play the long game (casually talk to them every time I see them and once we’ve established a connection, ask for their number or insta). I’ve actually hooked up with two girls from the gym with this approach.
/r/seduction13/01/25 12:44 PM
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Did not. Most sane women will not act negatively to you approaching them. The only ones that act extremely negatively are the ones that seek attention for their lack of self esteem. And this will only happen once in a blue moon (only had two negative approaches in the last 4 years). Women are actually now calling out men for “being too lazy” to approach them. You should worry more about their physically unfit friend if they have one (to not say obese) around them. The slightly bigger friend is t…
/r/seduction13/01/25 12:40 PM
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Yes and yes. Learned this the hard way, but don’t take a girl to an expensive first date on what you ask she likes (ie if she likes sushi or tacos, gonna take her to a nice restaurant, not an over the top one) If she doesn’t want to meet again, I let it be, for whatever reason. If she was just trying to get a “free meal” she only got mid sushi, top tier sushi is only for the girls I am already dating/hooking up with.
/r/seduction08/01/25 05:50 PM
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If you’re looking to get girls without sacrificing your major, join a cool frat. At my old frat parties our ratio was 8 girls to 2 guys. Even if your game was trash, you would occasionally get laid
/r/seduction23/12/24 06:28 PM
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Met a a cute girl that was wearing a “moonshine” shirt at Target one night. Started to chat her up about it (asked if she was a moonshine connoisseur), and we had a good convo. Turns out she had just moved to the area and was a lawyer. We went on our first date a week or so later, got pizza and some drinks. Walked her home right after. We went on a second date to a bar. But that day we kinda found out we had more differences than commonalities. We stopped talking after that. Even tho we didn’t s…
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:03 PM
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Sorry to hear bro. First of, take some time and try not to stay inside. It’ll make it much worse. Some guys will recommend to either get back in the rizz right away or go to a strip club. Frankly, I think these are not the best tips. Trying to game while getting through a break up is tough, and if you notice you’re getting blowouts/rejections, it’ll put you in your head and make you want to try to talk to you ex. Strip club, self explanatory, the working girls will try to exploit your emotions w…
/r/seduction16/12/24 04:13 PM
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You gotta escalate my guy. Girls only go as sexual as the guy is willing to lead them. From what it sounds, if she stayed for 3 hours, she was hoping something would happen. ALL girls (and this is coming from my friends that are girls) know that when a guy exclusively invites them to come over, pretty much means a smash. You could try and invite her over, but she may be like “fuck, another three hours of talking?”. Imo, give it a couple of days and text/ talk to her in a flirty way. Then you sho…
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:35 PM
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You just need to go an approach. There’s really no such thing as “waiting/scoping” for an IOI before you approach. After consistently practicing approaches, been able to open and have a good interaction with a girl even if she looked away when I looked at her or even if she rolled her eyes. I’ve also, kinda fucked it up even if she looked at me, tossed her hair and smiled. The key is not the approach, but the experience/interaction that you will give her after the open. An open is just to open, …
/r/seduction13/12/24 05:01 PM
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Door to door Sales in undergrad. Was able to talk to any girl in the day or night(whether out in the street, mall, or night club, with such confidence and lack of caring whether she told me to fuck off or wanted me to stay) Because of the sales tactics and principles I learned from the job and training. My lay count was very high back then. I’m now a SW Engineer, most of my day now is coding all day. I still approach girls, but need to really warm up since I’m really not in a conventional vibe m…
/r/seduction09/12/24 08:20 PM
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If you compliment her body, it should come from a more of a subtle frame. (ie You seem/look really athletic, do you play any sports? You seem like you work out a lot/ You look like you take care of yourself) If you say “damn, you have a nice body” or “wow, you have a nice body” (even tho she may or may not consider it creepy) you gave your power away and basically are telling her she’s a prize/putting her on pedestal. You may sound confident, but it appears you have an agenda and just want to fu…
/r/seduction09/12/24 04:17 PM
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When I was in undergrad, I would put a lot of fuckboy type shit. I was in a frat, so like pics of me flexing in the gym, partying in tailgates, pics with the bois, pics with a ton of girls at like social events. I would get quite a few girls DM me and like follow me randomly. I used to wonder why, then after reading RSD stuff and The Mystery Method, basically realized I was conveying social proof and preselection, which is one of the trigger attractions for girls. Now that I am much older (and a…
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:44 PM
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Being with another girl (whether it’s a girl I’m talking to,family member, or just a friend). Girls have subconscious preselection mechanisms, they will find another guy more attractive if he is seen with another girl. Had a girl come up to me once when I was just shopping with my sister. She said something along the lines of “you guys look cute together” to find out if we were dating. Once we established we were siblings, she proceeded to ask for my Instagram. I’ve also had this happen a few ti…
/r/seduction20/08/24 05:49 PM
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Mentality, persistence, and practice. You need to follow a process that is more geared towards progress rather than “am I gonna be able to fuck this girl?”. Keep a positive mindset, and be forgiving of yourself if you do a bad approach (obviously don’t make bad approaches a habit, learn from them and improve). Most importantly, have fun. Another very important aspect that I think most guys deny doing but do from time to time: Don’t simp and try to chase a girl. If a girl thinks she can have you …
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:48 AM
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In short, they’re tactics to get emotional spikes from the girl without trying to look like you’re trying kiss their ass to like you. There are lists online you can check, but remember that these are never insults. A neg is to point out something of the girl to make her conscious of her behavior( most girls have a high degree of self confidence and think they’re princesses, so this is done to remind them that they’re actually just human beings like you) Example of a neg: - You have a very dorky …
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:53 PM
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Take it as a learning lesson bro. Just to add on to what everyone else is saying, you need to get the girl comfortable with your touch before you go in for the kiss. Make sure that when you’re talking, you’re talking about you and her (showing intent/premise) do teases, negs, basically make it as if she not into you, you don’t care cuz you have a full roster to chose from, and yeah still have fun with the convo and escalate at the high points with her. She clearly got bored with you and the conv…
/r/seduction15/08/24 12:46 PM
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This is definitely possible. I’ve done it a few times, although you have to make sure your comfort level with the girl is very high and you don’t give her any red flags where she may feel like she’s being a whore. It will also significantly help if you are in a venue that is close to her (you guys get a drink near her place). I try to find out if the girl has like a cool hobby, pets, or if she lives in a unique place(sounds very simple, but I was able to go back to a girls place in Taiwan by jus…
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:09 PM
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One of the things that you need to learn is that you need to give yourself permission to sort of “suck” for the first few approaches. It’s ok to not be at your best, or in “rizz mode” as soon as you get out of work, school, etc. it’s ok to build a momentum and get in some practice doing cold approaches. Assume positivity, and assume that the set with the girl will go well. The most important thing is to get practice and slowly build up week by week. When I first started to get back into game, I …
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:30 PM
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I would say, next time you see her at the gym start a convo and then directly ask “if she has Instagram”. Then you guys can follow each other. If things seem like they’re really good, you can ask for her number. But only if they seem pretty solid. The tactic that I usually do for gym girls is start a convo and ask for their Gram, then either DM them or reply to one of the stories to start a fun convo. Once you’ve established a fun convo, take sometime to reply back and then you can hit her with …
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:56 AM
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Todd Valentines Daygame videos helped me out a lot. He also has some good night game material. You can find most of his videos on YouTube
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:18 PM
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A compliment is just to open, it’s more important what you say after to get a conversation started. If you were to say “I like your fit” and leave it at that, you will just flatter the girl, and she’ll say “thank you” and wait for you to say something else or she’ll just walk away. If you say “I like your fit, it’s like a very Northeastern style.” you’ve given her more to respond to than just thank you. You can also say “Hey, you’re cute. So I had to say Hi”. This will also work but now you made…
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:50 PM
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Shit test deals with more like pushing your buttons to see your reaction (ie “Is this what you tell all the girls?”, “Wow, you must not have a lot of friends”) Manipulation would be something more like trying to get you to go out of your way for her, with her not actually trying to give something in return (“Are you gonna buy me a drink?”, “can you give me and my friends a ride to this Concert?”) This is the way that I see it. If you fail a shit test, you can still recover. But if you give in to…
/r/seduction14/02/24 02:37 AM
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I’ve definitely been able to rizz up girls walking on the street. A lot of girls want the “hallmark” experience of randomly meeting a guy while going about their day. You obviously need to make sure your game is good (this only comes from practice and having learned from many approaches). If the girl rejects you, or is not into you, don’t take it too hard. Be proud that you tried cuz a lot of guys (even Chad looking athletic guys) just let a cute girl pass them by without doing a damn thing.
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:10 PM
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Solid advice. Thanks a ton. I’ll give it some time right now, and try to hit her up again/ping some value hoping there’s a third opportunity
/r/seduction12/02/24 10:37 PM
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Should I attempt to apologize at all?
/r/seduction11/02/24 04:24 PM
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If you’re looking to just make female friends, typically sports clubs and running clubs are good to talk to girls. I’m in a kickball team and go to a couple run clubs where there are hundreds of cool girls to talk to
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:12 PM
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