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Hmmm might workout in the next thing I go to since it's a drama.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:48 AM
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Great advice!!! I'll implement it and see how things go in my next interaction. approach girl With regards to this my approach is usually from the side or front you're at a festival or some such event, there are a lot of ways to open in a more effective way. These events are more like plays or performances.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:46 AM
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Hmmm, I'll post my next interaction in detail here. Mind if I tag you?
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:40 AM
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Okay so the feedback in mostly going try out is texting inside jokes/references in smaller sentences and maybe going for the call directly.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:51 PM
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It's usually when I'm leaving or the conversation is over though
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:39 PM
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Hmmm, I say the same thing in 3 sentences. I'll try shortening it
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:39 PM
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Oh that's cut when I go for this but, generally restarting an inside joke makes it big
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:26 PM
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Thanks for the constructive advice...
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:39 PM
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Yeah, I'm working on this. Sometimes the first message becomes too big though
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:22 PM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:55 AM
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Hmmm I'll have to return on that... I feel like Ruth a lot of women you need to carry the conversation which gets harrowing
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:57 PM
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But going to lie, it happens sometimes but, there have been moments where I've rejected too so, it's more like a tune up thing for me. Cause I get an opportunity to do this like twice a week.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:56 PM
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That's generally a problem cause these are interactions after events or fests. People have work or something the next day. My second problem is I've never done a one night stand thing where you pick a girl from a bar and just go home. I usually take the long 3rd date route there.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:49 PM
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In India that's usually rejected with "k bye" or I don't share my number
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:47 PM
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approach girl "Hey! How's it going? Did you like the event (or fest or whatever) Then the conversation goes to get giving an opinion. I talk about what I liked and don't like Then it's generally"you come here often" or "to you like to attend such events frequently" 5 minutes convo Number close with "do you want to connect?""
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:46 PM
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Hmmm. It should be what exactly, because when I think establish a connection, I feel like I get stuck with one person and it's like an all or nothing game.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:42 PM
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"Hey, how's it going? ****** this side. We met at whatever"
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:40 PM
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I don't know about international trips but, I feel like events have quite a bit of impact because of the fomo it causes. The follow back is the important part.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:21 AM
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It's less about understanding and more about the game plan. Wanted to check here and see if my thought process was in the right path.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:16 AM
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I absolutely agree but, the issue here is approach with wingmen or without?
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:15 PM
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Unpopular opinion but, I feel like honesty and communication leads to a better connection. Everytime it falls I just ask myself, "would I really want someone who doesn't appreciate in my life, in the long run" and the answer is almost always no. I've tried this while act of being non-needy and acting busy but, I feel like unless it comes from within, it'll hollow you out as a human being and make you loose touch with yourself.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:51 PM
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Fair enough, I feel like it's a little bit more on the Indian society due to the sheer population density, social norms, and well the needy men. It's unfortunate that the world has reached this point.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:38 PM
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That's true, I agree with Mark Manson when he says it's either a "Fuck Yeah or No" but, it takes me sometime to judge which one it is.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:35 PM
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Okay, so girls can be some of the best wingwomen when they want to because, it's much easier for them to number close. Similarly it's easy for them to become friends and get you a second meeting
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:33 PM
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Yeah, that's what I thought. To be honest I'd kinda be overwhelmed if 3 guys approached me at random.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:28 PM
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Okay so, it's an open art exhibition. This gives me somewhat of an advantage while approaching alone. My friend can just observe the art. I feel like for such situations it's important to have a game plan before going forward.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:26 PM
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Hmmm, this seems to be a trending thought. I might have to think a little bit more on the subject.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:16 PM
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I hear you but, some girls are comfortable giving their Instagram and not their number. Also I have pulled a few girls (very few) through Instagram. It has the whole story effect where they see it and get kinda interested. Also I feel like it's easier to get an Instagram in period of 2-3 minutes but, numbers are much harder. How do you go about it? Would love to hear your approach.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:14 PM
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Depends on the girl, I feel most of them would give out their Instagram but, become very guarded when you ask for their phone number. It might be an India thing. I honestly prefer phone number but, one of my boys loves saying "let's take a picture too capture this moment" so, it becomes a lot easier to get an Instagram. I never got Snapchat, how is it?
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:10 PM
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Some girls do it to rebounds
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:35 AM
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Do you want to exchange numbers instead?
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:40 PM
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What if I keep it social?
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:21 AM
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Listen, I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and when I say "hot", I mean the girls I'm attracted to. Also please stop going on about how all women are objectively beautiful, when a girl doesn't maintain herself I do not care what you say she is ugly for instance, 3 girls I'm regularly seeing at work have a prominent mustache. This applies to guys as well, I mean when you dress and smell like a hobo then you're bound to be viewed as undesirable. So get off your high horse because I'm…
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:21 AM
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I like the book of pook a lot
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:55 AM
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Good for you man! I'm just waiting for another opportunity to pounce on
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:53 PM
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Damn! And here I had my legal notice ready and waiting to be sent XD Anyways in all honesty appreciate the tip bro will definitely give it a shot
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:38 AM
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No worries. I'm a lawyer so, I think this play night just work in my favor!
/r/seduction01/04/21 09:49 AM
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Okay that's actually a good idea. Will try that next time
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:57 AM
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Hmmm, that's what I've been thinking of trying. Will give it a shot and bring in a few field reports
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:24 AM
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True, sometimes I get so engrossed in the topic that I forget the person. At least when it comes to anime at some point I think I start talking to myself. I guess I'll start steering away from such topics.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:51 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:32 PM
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So I followed 2 quite a bit but, honestly didn't get the reaction I was hoping for. I'll should limit the time of my interactions and make her invest more. I have a tendency of getting to excited when a girl shares my interest, especially when she is into running and anime.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:32 PM
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