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I am 29m and went to private christian schools. first, I wouldnt be too jealous of your classmates who got married really young. The overwhelmiing pressure to marry young and save sex leads to marriages that shoudnt have happened. My brother's ex-wife was a nightmare. So better to be single and looking then be in a bad relationship. Some of my friends marriages turned out good though, but I am not jealous. To the note of TRP. I agree. My parents are like yours and my grandparents died after bein…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 04:12 PM
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Type 2) Datable men (Not very good but strong-minded)... Type 3 men can be dangerous since they cannot control their emotions and actions So what is strong-minded vs weak-minded to her?? How is a "not very good" man strong-minded? Does being a stubborn ego show strong-mindedness? becuase "not very good" to me shows they dont know how to control their emotions and actions in a healthy way. I know guys who think they are "it" and are a##holes. They are not mature, trust me. But I guess their confi…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 11:46 AM
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Maybe I am repeating others. But your value is more then your ability to reproduce. There is so much more to life. What do you think of people who choose not to have children? Find help if you need to, becuase there is so much more to live for then reproduction. Like if someone gave me a vasectomy in my sleep I'd keep living. My worth isnt in my sperm.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:40 PM
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Looks do matter, but they dont make personality obsolete. We all want to be attracted to our partners, but any decent person isnt going to love a hot person with a terrible personality. I have worked hard on my looks and I notice some difference with attention, but once I open my mouth I lose people because I struggle with social anxiety. We need to be developing ourselves past just looks and money. Mental health means a lot as well. Dont do all of this just for attention from women. Do it for y…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:46 PM
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Have more respect for yourself. ive been seeing a therapist for almost a year now and its been a good change. Never hurts.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 03:54 PM
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Your dating the wrong person man. Your not an atm. The fact your calling your gf a bitch is a sign she isnt it. Not all women are like that. I've met plenty of women who offered to split or pay their part.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 02:44 PM
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This is great. I really like your first point. I often talk to women with the mindset of whether they might like me and If I am doing an alright job at talking or carrying a conversation. Instead of focusing on making sure Im contributing and making someones day better. So maybe I come across desperate at times. I think my weakest link is social skills and I am trying to work on it.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:08 PM
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No, absolutely not. Staying committed to one partner for life is the goal. One spouse for life. Their are only a couple okay reasons for divorce. Abuse or unfaithful (cheating). My grandparents where married 60 years till death. I'd be insanely surprised if my parents ever split. You make a vow to someone. Its like the 2nd or 3rd most important vow people can make. Number one being commitment to Christ. Whether that is biblical or not is a debate for sure, but that is what marriage has turned in…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 06:47 PM
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That is all fair. Thanks for the response!
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 07:23 PM
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First, I am trying to get all redpill voices removed from my life. So I can have a healthier perspective. I can already say over half of what I said was mostly BS. But two things Im thinking of right now that I still see. While culture is starting to wake up to the fact that men do have feelings and are human, we have some ways to go. Thankfully, what I have found is that many women see the positivity in it. There is still a lot of people out there who wanted a rock as a man. They are just not c…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 06:49 PM
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I came from a very conservative Christian background so this was a very good perspective! Thank you!
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 06:38 PM
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Saying women are supposed to be beautiful as a response to men being rocks doesnt make sense. Then turn around and say that I might be neglecting my looks? So yes people want to be attracted to the other person, and yes there are unfair standards for women for beauty. But that is a totally other topic then expectations on men to bottle things up and be rocks. And no, I know the difference between clingy/needy and vulnerability. Being vulnerable would be telling someone I am seeing a therapist or…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 06:33 PM
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This was very helpful. Thank you, I was hoping to hear from a female perspective. And your neighbor is amazing, Im glad you had someone reach out. Your right, I definitely want safety too. The biggest area I know I could improve in is social skills. I'm a bit introverted and deal with some social anxiety. I have gotten better at filtering out women who wouldnt be compatible. Like another comment said... I think the best thing for me to do is to rid myself of all redpill content and find healthie…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 02:20 PM
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