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Yes they do, they just haven't found them yet.
/r/seduction06/04/11 12:19 AM
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I hate movie lines, but one I think should be practiced with regularity is Robert Downey Jr's from "Tropic Thunder" "It's simple as pie man, you plant your feet on the ground, you look her square in the eyes you say 'Hey! baby, you and me's goin' on a date, that's in the story.'" If she doesn't want to go, turn around and find someone who does. If she flakes, there are 10 others that want to go out that night. Quit whining about the one that won't give you an answer and go find the ones that wil…
/r/seduction05/04/11 11:45 PM
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Is this alpha? Holy shit man. You K-closed in roughly 60 seconds and you're asking if it's alpha? Is this some kind of April Fool's thing? Are we being Punk'd? Allow me to reiterate the general opinion here: Yes. That was alpha as fuck.
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:14 PM
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I love this. I waited for perfection for so long and it never came. Living while NOT being perfect is a hell of a lot more fun, and I've got a hell of a lot more dates.
/r/seduction01/04/11 06:21 AM
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"Almost" ten. Truth told, closer to 8. She considered it "new" music back then and I considered it "Who the fuck is this? Oh well, I'll give it a listen. I'm high as shit, and I'm pretty sure Hanson would sound great right now" music
/r/seduction01/04/11 05:25 AM
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I have, immensely. I've number closed twice in the last week and I've got a date from plentyoffish next week. This story was almost 10 years ago. I don't have many finer crash-and-burn stories than that though.
/r/seduction31/03/11 09:17 PM
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Probably, but I've got you beat: A girl asked me over to help her house sit. She said she wanted some company. Obvious, right? Not to lil' old AFC me. I went over, brought some vodka, we drank, we smoked, we listened to Atmosphere. She said I should stay the night because I was in no condition to drive home. She said we could share the bed. "That's okay, I'm used to sleeping on couches." facepalm facefist headpunch headpunch headpunch Here's the good part: This type of thing is a learning experi…
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:41 PM
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I would love to see an FR of this. I'm in on dangercollie's beer bet. If you make it to five, have a beer on me.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:02 AM
3

So? Fat guys get laid too.
/r/seduction24/03/11 06:22 PM
2

Use seduction knowledge, and rewrite it when you're feeling really on top of the world. Seduction is all about going with the flow in a natural conversational setting. Online game is a completely different animal. Being able to build a strong profile is like being a graphic artist. Sure, everyone thinks they can do it, but very few are actually good at it.
/r/seduction24/03/11 05:39 PM
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You want different things from different fish. Some you want to make into dinner for your family, some you want to take a picture with, and then release back into the river, some you take home and mount on the wall, some you exaggerate to your friends about. You need to decide what you want from each fish and proceed accordingly.
/r/seduction22/03/11 04:15 AM
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What is your opinion of "fake it 'til you make it" as a tool for beginners developing inner game?
/r/seduction10/03/11 08:54 PM
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I asked a similar question a few weeks ago. Sometimes you're just down. We're human, it happens. Sometimes its a bunch of little things, sometimes someone hits an emotional trigger, sometimes stress gets to us. There's no rhyme or reason to it. The best thing you can do is just keep telling yourself it's temporary. If it is not temporary (if it lasts longer than a couple weeks), you might want to talk to someone. Everyone gets the downers from time to time, but if it's a long stretch, talk to a …
/r/seduction10/03/11 08:36 PM
2

If wacking off makes you weak, call me the boy in the bubble.
/r/seduction08/03/11 03:23 AM
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Strange, because I've found that not having a wank puts me more out of state. I'm much more relaxed and focused when I'm not a raging ball of aggression. Long have I lived by the words of Joe Rogan: Jerk off first, then think about it
/r/seduction07/03/11 05:47 AM
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This should be sidebar'd for all of the guys that show up to Seddit and think money will solve all of their problems with women.
/r/seduction06/03/11 07:58 PM
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I ordinarily hate movie references in Seddit because everything in entertainment is scripted. That said, getting into a character's mindset instead of trying to use lines or conversation styles is actually a pretty good fake-it-til-you-make-it trick.
/r/seduction01/03/11 10:37 PM
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The next bowl I smoke will be raised to you sir. Smoking out at a Fleetwood Mac concert is one of the legendary moments I'll never live. I have to settle with sharing some Grandaddy Green with a few blokes I met at the Styx-Foreigner concert.
/r/seduction27/02/11 04:25 AM
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Better than the other cutsie nicknames I've heard people give it. I've actually had girls ask me, out loud "Are you 420 friendly?" ...You couldn't just ask if I like to smoke out? I'm not anywhere close to being a cop. Hell I don't even know any people that get drug tested, let alone cops.
/r/seduction27/02/11 03:18 AM
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You'll have to accept that the PUA community has a negative stigma in a a lot of other subreddits. So throwaways and dedicated accts will forever be part of this subreddit. I agree though, that novelty accts and memes should probably be dropped. Best we can do is downvote them and report the ones that become especially annoying. Trust the mods. We have no other real option.
/r/seduction08/12/10 07:29 AM
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True story: Girl at a party. She wanted to know why I didn't play football in high school to get to college since I enjoy it so much. I told her about the hip surgery I had in high school and the weird scar. She wants to see it. Next thing I know, this girl and I are partially stripping showing each other all different scars we've got. Didn't close (she's a friend of my roommate, labeled completely off limits and I respect my friend), but she was half naked. It wouldn't have been too difficult a…
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:16 PM
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I agree with this, but being in the OP's position, the question is still "How?" The piece of advice that has helped me more than anything is an exercise oft shared in Seddit. David Wygant's advice that you should smile at women as if they masturbate while thinking of you. Just think about your target pleasuring herself while thinking of you. If that doesn't put a confident smile on your face, nothing will. My advice to take it further, stay in that feeling. Feel that confidence. That is the mind…
/r/seduction17/11/10 07:36 PM
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She's not bad. Obviously not HB8-10, but she's not unfortunate looking. I'd describe her as "strikingly normal". Good for him. His old material is still good, but I'll be ignoring any new material he comes out with. As much as married men claim the contrary, being married changes you.
/r/seduction17/11/10 07:29 PM
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I can see how you would see the conversation point because I didn't say anything about it, but we were laughing almost the whole time. She's cute as all hell and her friends think she looks like the girl on the Cholula bottle so we had a lot of laughs about that. I didn't mention the conversation because I have come so far in that respect, it speaks volumes for PUA that I have come so far in such a short amount of time (few months) that the conversation was definitely not the weak link here.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:17 PM
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This sounds about right.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:32 PM
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I turned off the game simply BECAUSE it was creepy. I was making attempts to escalate. She leaned away instead of in when I tried to put my arm around her. What more could I have done?
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:12 PM
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I won't deny I definitely took myself out of the game at one point, but I felt at that point the game was over. If there was even the slightest IOI on her part, I'd have kept it up and turned the tide. Shit-tests and LMR were some of my biggest hurdles in the past, so I read up on them extensively. Even if I failed, at least I could have had a chance to see if they'd work, but I never got that far.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:00 PM
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I thought this. She actually started altering her position on the couch to avoid the leg-to-leg sitting which, in my mind, is one of the most innocuous forms of kino out there. If she's recoiling from that, how does one orchestrate a situation in which one gets close enough to go in for the kiss? I will say that she did keep eye contact, but regardless of what face I had (David Wygant masturbation smile, raised eyebrow, goofy grin, I literally tried everything I could think of to elicit a respon…
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:57 PM
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Long ago, while an AFC, I had a brief moment of clarity in which the stars were aligned she and I were just drunk enough and I had game for days. A lucky situation to be sure. One of my friends comes up behind me, puts a beer in my hand and says "Stop trying to be cool [ApuaA], you know you're going to whack off and read your comic books later." She lost interest almost immediately. I went to him and said if he ever cockblocked me like that again, I'd shit on his bed. He told me to lighten up. I…
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:50 PM
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"Out of your league? Shit, son. Get out there and make a move. Let HER decide if she won't fuck you." Don't know where I heard that, but I love it.
/r/seduction13/11/10 06:46 PM
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I did this with my "secret stash" in high school. One day, gone, just threw them all out before the trash truck came. I regretted it merely a month later. As it turns out, the porn was not the issue. I have a friend that is big into porn. Autographed DVDs and pictures, routinely goes to strip clubs to see pornstars dance, talks with them over email, goes to conventions, the whole nine yards. And he does it all with his friends and his wife. Porn isn't the problem. It might be a symptom, but it's…
/r/seduction13/11/10 06:44 PM
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That may be taking the David Wygant "Picture her masturbating to you" smile a bit to far.
/r/seduction10/11/10 06:58 AM
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It's weird, I feel SO out of my element when I dress to the nines. Weddings, family holidays, things like that, I am so incredibly uncomfortable and it shows in my speaking. I literally develop a stutter. Give me a t-shirt or a polo, jeans, decent shoes and clean underwear and I'm good to go.
/r/seduction08/11/10 07:19 PM
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No, but the last thing one needs while building confidence is a cheat sheet to say "No, you're not there yet." The simple fact is you decide when you're "there." If the rug gets pulled out from under you, shit happens, build yourself back up better this time. The fact remains, the final decision as to your self-worth lies with you, not with these "stages". That's why it's called SELF-worth.
/r/seduction05/11/10 08:30 PM
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I'm not sure about this. The whole point of PUA seems to be getting OUT of one's head and this seems like a rationalization tool "Oh, it's okay. This is just false confidence anyway. I don't have to start thinking confidently yet. I'm still only in stage X."
/r/seduction05/11/10 06:35 PM
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I wanted to do this but it is her frisbee girls that are all there. I'd like to not make myself look like a dick in front of a lot of people that I don't know very well. There's ways to call people out without being a dick. The second time Sharon invaded your privacy, you could have played it off "Tell me, do you have GPS trackers in all of your rookies? Do they come with OnStar too? Don't worry, I'll bring her back before curfew."
/r/seduction05/11/10 06:27 PM
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I disagree. Lots of things I read that call for action seemed creepy in my head at first just because I had low self-esteem. Even something as simple as eye contact seemed creepy to me. Feel out the situation. If you're confident in the moment, do it. If you're not confident in the moment, figure out what you need to do to be confident next time the moment comes around.
/r/seduction05/11/10 06:06 PM
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Perfect. Often, I'm out with a friend who has two DUIs, so it'd be easy to explain away the water.
/r/seduction05/11/10 08:32 AM
2

Look, I'm not going to take ANY job. There's no point in working as a hotel night desk clerk if I don't make more than I do on unemployment. I toss dozens of resumes into the void every week. I get those "Here's your jobs for the week!" emails from CareerBuilder and Monster and Indeed and I don't even look anymore, I just send my resume to all of them. I want to work, but work apparently doesn't want me. I am looking at all opportunities though. I've looked at going back to school just in case I…
/r/seduction05/11/10 03:28 AM
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If my last 10 years are any indication, #4 doesn't really work. The rest of those are pretty good.
/r/seduction05/11/10 02:06 AM
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